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The Never Ever Mets - Season 2 Episode 3 -Whining and Dining
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00:00Brandon, I want to pour me a little bit more.
00:03Is that going to be a problem for you?
00:05I think the alcohol thing kind of threw me off a little bit.
00:08You're here to ask for permission?
00:10No.
00:11Oh, for real?
00:12Alexis, she has this attitude.
00:14Like, I'm going to do things the way I want to do things.
00:17And she has control issues.
00:19Did you feel intimate?
00:21Did you feel sensual?
00:22Did you feel sexual?
00:23At that point, it didn't matter.
00:25I had a secret to tell her.
00:27She had a secret to tell me.
00:29I just recently had a kid.
00:30Oh, wow.
00:32I have four kids.
00:35Do you normally, like, just hold something?
00:37I just, like, I'm not even going to say nothing.
00:39No, I don't want you to be like that on me.
00:41Um, I got some stuff to tell Tatiana.
00:44I have a newborn child that she does not know about.
00:48You upset right now at me?
00:50You're so big on energy, but you can't seem to catch a hint.
00:53I feel unsafe.
00:57Get the f*** out of here.
01:16I'm about to go to bed.
01:18I want to talk real quick in my room.
01:21The energy is off.
01:24I am feeling really concerned for our connection.
01:29There's too much volatility.
01:31We can go if you want.
01:33I like the fact that we can keep coming together,
01:36but we're kind of just, like, activating each other.
01:39When we have a disagreement,
01:42you have a countenance about you.
01:44You bulk up in your body.
01:47Your face changes.
01:49Your dynamic changes.
01:50Your energy changes.
01:51And to me, it feels like aggression.
01:54I feel like, am I physically and emotionally safe?
01:59Dating online, we had the vibe of the feeling,
02:03but now there's a lot of red flags popping up.
02:06You were offended by me saying I felt unsafe,
02:09which is, to me, I don't...
02:11When you tell a man that you're unsafe,
02:13a real man's gonna remove himself from that situation
02:16just because he doesn't want you to feel unsafe.
02:18It's hard for me to control my energy
02:21if, like, I'm upset or whatever.
02:23You know what I mean?
02:24If you don't feel comfortable with something
02:26or you feel like I'm putting myself out there too much,
02:29do what you need to do for your emotional safety.
02:32Same for you.
02:34Cool.
02:35I can see a future for me and Irvin
02:38if we can get this communication thing down.
02:41I hope you sleep good.
02:43Yeah.
02:44You know, I'm still trying to get to know her.
02:46We never really argued like that over the phone.
02:49She's just a completely different person in person.
02:52See ya.
02:53I'll talk to you later.
02:54All right.
02:55Hmm.
03:00Miss Kiki, you want a drink too?
03:01I'm about to make him one.
03:02Yes, sir.
03:03I got you.
03:04Can you grab me another cup from the...
03:06Yeah, yeah.
03:07Kiki is that fun girl.
03:09She's a bottle girl in her life.
03:11I know she likes nightlife, entertainment,
03:13drinks, and having fun.
03:15Did we have any more vodka or tequila?
03:18Damn.
03:19Damn.
03:22I've been here.
03:23I worked a bar, a bar management party,
03:25so I know what it entails.
03:27It drove my husband crazy.
03:31So Brandon reminds me of that dynamic.
03:34You sleeping down here?
03:36All right.
03:37I'm good.
03:43Looks pretty today.
03:45It is pretty today.
03:47Yeah, it's cool right here.
03:50So, we dropped a bomb on everybody last night.
03:54We sure as hell did.
03:56Do you feel better about it?
03:58I woke up so cheerful.
04:00I had a lot of weight on me,
04:03and now I'm just straight butt naked.
04:06I don't have no pressure.
04:07I have nothing I have stress about
04:09or to worry about right now.
04:10Right.
04:11But I feel like as the days go on,
04:12we're going to have to handle that stuff.
04:15The logistics.
04:16Yes.
04:17How many bedrooms is your house?
04:20Six.
04:21Mine is three.
04:23I have a really nice house.
04:25Okay.
04:26I mean, I've seen the pictures,
04:27but, I mean, Dallas seems nice.
04:30I'm over Columbia.
04:33So there's hope.
04:34There's hope.
04:35A little bit.
04:36I got to see what colleges are hiring out there,
04:40see if I can find a little job out there,
04:42but we don't have any more confessions.
04:44So, you ready to go eat?
04:46Hell yeah.
04:54So let me get a woman's perspective.
04:56You know, the geeky drinking thing is a problem with me.
04:59Now, when you're drinking and controlling,
05:02that's one thing.
05:03But when you're drinking and you're getting kind of wild,
05:06that's another.
05:07How should I go about that situation today?
05:09Hanging out with Kiki in person.
05:11Starting to notice Kiki drinking.
05:13There are signs of alcoholic issues.
05:16It's starting to pick up a little bit.
05:18It gives me a level of concern.
05:20Because you do have people that might deflect
05:22or make excuses or, you know what I'm saying?
05:24She asked me, do you think I drink too much?
05:27I said, sweetheart, I just met you.
05:29And last night, you was knocked out.
05:31I need to talk to Kiki about it
05:33and have a civilized conversation with her.
05:36Kiki.
05:37Yeah?
05:39Can we talk, please?
05:41I'm listening.
05:43Can we go out to the back in here and talk?
05:46Here we go.
05:48How you feeling?
05:50I'm not gonna lie, I ain't feeling too good right now.
05:53Me either.
05:54Because of last night.
05:57Last night, I just felt like you was just a little too intoxicated.
06:01And I wasn't feeling it.
06:03I'm not a violent drunk, I'm a fun drunk.
06:05You know, so I feel like it's not harming anybody.
06:08But it's harming me, though, in my feelings.
06:11I'm in a different environment.
06:13I just want to be fun.
06:14I want people to like me.
06:15I want to feel like me having a little drinky drink.
06:18And I'm more of a social drinker.
06:20Has anyone ever mentioned your drinking habits to you before?
06:24I had a friend that, like, anytime something happened,
06:28we would just get a bottle and we would just, you know,
06:31finish it together, and that would be it.
06:33Do you think you're addicted to alcohol?
06:35I'm definitely not an alcoholic.
06:37Just saying, I gotta ask.
06:40Like, today, I'm not gonna drink anything.
06:42I'm gonna kind of, you know.
06:47I'm hungry.
06:51Let's go feed you some avocado toast.
06:53Come on.
06:56Y'all didn't even know they had that many different types of vegan.
06:59There's raw vegan.
07:00There's vegetarian.
07:02If she wants to set you up to succeed and win,
07:05I would say gradually do certain things that change your diet.
07:11You know, I'm here to congregate and meet everybody,
07:14but I'm not here for everybody.
07:16I'm here for you.
07:17I shouldn't have never stormed out after the art thing,
07:20and I came downstairs, and you and Jared and Charlie,
07:23I shouldn't have did that.
07:24That was immature on me.
07:25I want to apologize for that.
07:27So when you use the words controlling and aggressive,
07:31I'm not.
07:32I use the words, you know.
07:33There's been times I done called you bossy and stuff on the phone.
07:36I just never seen it in person.
07:38You feel what I'm saying?
07:39If it was like your demeanor as the days have been going by,
07:42I started picking up on a few small things that had me irritated,
07:46even the pain.
07:47You say you ask, but a lot of things you do like to do what you want to do.
07:50You know what I'm saying?
07:51Like that right there, you ain't ask.
07:52You put that hand right there.
07:54His thoughts and, you know, his experience is valid.
07:57I don't want to control Christopher.
07:59I'm sincerely sorry.
08:00Like what are you feel like you apologizing for?
08:03I'm apologizing for triggering you.
08:05Okay.
08:06Because I definitely don't ever want to trigger you.
08:07I appreciate that.
08:08I appreciate you taking the initiative to apologize and all that stuff.
08:11I apologize as a man.
08:13I can do better, too.
08:14You know, I always got your back.
08:15I'm not doing anything to hurt you, right?
08:16Yeah, for sure.
08:17You know, we better leave together, but if we don't,
08:18at least we are leaving as best friends, you know.
08:21I'm just saying, you know, you always have been my friend before anything.
08:24So every time I touch you, I got to ask for permission?
08:26No.
08:30Brick smells like onions.
08:33Shut up.
08:42Come, come, come, come.
08:44All the way to the back.
08:45Uh-oh.
08:46We're going to do an activity.
08:48I just see a big circle of sand, and I'm like, are we about to wrestle or something?
08:54What is this?
08:56Never ever met.
08:57Never ever met.
08:58How many of you guys heard of the Kama Sutra?
09:01Oh, hello.
09:02Oh, we know.
09:03Yeah.
09:04Amazing.
09:05Yeah.
09:06Okay, those of you who don't know,
09:07the Kama Sutra is an ancient Indian tradition.