Married at first sight AU S12E40

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00:00:00Last night...

00:00:02Let's go. Showtime.

00:00:04The participants returned...

00:00:06We're back!

00:00:08...for the traditional reunion dinner party.

00:00:10So good to see them together.

00:00:12Cheers!

00:00:14Oh no, where's Dave?

00:00:16It was so awkward when Paul walked in.

00:00:18Are you and Jackie dating each other?

00:00:20We are.

00:00:22Oh!

00:00:24The timing of Jackie and Clint's new romance...

00:00:26Didn't even have the balls to tell me.

00:00:28...the balls to tell me. Left Ryan

00:00:30feeling betrayed.

00:00:32You guys started this whole connection

00:00:34when we were still married.

00:00:36I tried my ass off

00:00:38to make this relationship work!

00:00:40I was able to

00:00:42reflect on all these issues that we had.

00:00:44Paul told his version

00:00:46of why things ended with

00:00:48Karina. You can be extremely judgmental

00:00:50that it doesn't sit well with me.

00:00:52Leaving everyone stunned.

00:00:54You made multiple conversations.

00:00:56I'm genuinely surprised at

00:00:58Paul rewriting history.

00:01:00And when Sierra exposed

00:01:02secret comments

00:01:03Safina made about Adrian...

00:01:05He's like, he's stupid.

00:01:06He can't spell.

00:01:07...their relationship reached

00:01:08the point of no return.

00:01:10You talk shit about me all the time.

00:01:12He makes me feel sick.

00:01:13You make me feel sick.

00:01:14Oh my God!

00:01:15Wow, come on!

00:01:16The most disrespectful thing

00:01:17you can call someone is stupid.

00:01:18It was a nail in the coffin.

00:01:20Stop talking to me.

00:01:21I'm just forever gonna be the bad guy.

00:01:23And you know what?

00:01:24I can be the bad guy in his story.

00:01:28Because he's a devil in line.

00:01:31Tonight, after three life-changing months,

00:01:35Australia's biggest social experiment

00:01:38comes to a close.

00:01:40Hello guys!

00:01:41Eye-opening revelations

00:01:43for our participants and experts.

00:01:45Oh!

00:01:47Ryan!

00:01:48Oh!

00:01:49Oh, what a dude.

00:01:50As they watch footage

00:01:51they've never seen before.

00:01:53How do you feel after seeing that?

00:01:55That was a lot.

00:02:04Hi.

00:02:05Hello.

00:02:06Hello.

00:02:07Greetings.

00:02:08Good evening.

00:02:09Welcome.

00:02:10Come on in.

00:02:11Grab a seat.

00:02:12Settle in.

00:02:14Hello.

00:02:15Good to see you all.

00:02:25Well, welcome back everybody

00:02:27to the final reunion.

00:02:31Now, if last night's dinner party

00:02:33is anything to go by,

00:02:35tonight is guaranteed

00:02:37to be an eye-opener.

00:02:39Over three months ago,

00:02:44you threw yourselves into the deep end,

00:02:47looking for the fairy tale

00:02:49and hoping to find love.

00:02:52Now, for some,

00:02:54this experiment led to exactly

00:02:56what you were looking for.

00:02:58For others, however,

00:03:00the journey didn't quite pan out

00:03:03as you would have hoped.

00:03:06Tonight,

00:03:07we have the opportunity

00:03:08to unpack

00:03:09some of the key moments

00:03:11that have shaped this experiment

00:03:13and your relationship in it.

00:03:18But before we dive into those conversations,

00:03:22let's go back to where it all began.

00:03:25Aw.

00:03:26Your wedding days.

00:03:27Oh, my God.

00:03:33I'm done with dating

00:03:34and I'm ready for that real gut feeling inside

00:03:37that tells me, yes,

00:03:38you're with the right person.

00:03:39There he is.

00:03:40Hey.

00:03:41Good job, mate.

00:03:42Oh, my God.

00:03:43You look amazing.

00:03:44I got about just back to front, I think.

00:03:45Now, you take it off and flip it around.

00:03:46How many twins does it take to open a wine bottle?

00:03:48Is she the most high maintenance one you've had?

00:03:50Not at all.

00:03:51Aw, that's surprising.

00:04:12Oh, is that a bin chicken?

00:04:13Oh, my God.

00:04:15Oh, my God.

00:04:23Going into the experiment, it's very daunting.

00:04:26I do want to have a family and someone that I can share my life with.

00:04:32Let's get married.

00:04:35This could be the greatest love story anyone's ever bloody seen.

00:04:40It's just going to be crazy, like, turning around and then seeing, like, that's the person I'm marrying.

00:04:45Oh, my God.

00:04:50Hi, Rie.

00:04:51Hi, Jeff.

00:04:57Wow.

00:05:00Oh, my God.

00:05:03Wow.

00:05:04It's gorgeous.

00:05:06It's nice to meet you.

00:05:08You're actually way too hot.

00:05:10I'm actually not happy.

00:05:11Will you marry me?

00:05:15I can.

00:05:16Oh, I want that.

00:05:18You look incredible.

00:05:21Like a 70s angel.

00:05:24Not a neck top.

00:05:28Yes!

00:05:29Sorry, Dad.

00:05:31That's so good.

00:05:32The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears.

00:05:37The beauty of a woman is seen in her eyes.

00:05:42I'm engaged in this experience with a open heart and a deep desire to find love.

00:05:47This love that surpasses all expectations and challenges all odds.

00:05:50I believe in love, and I've been waiting my whole life to meet my person.

00:05:57Oh.

00:05:59I promise to embrace this journey with you, support you through every challenge we face.

00:06:04Oh.

00:06:06I'm here for the right reasons.

00:06:08I also don't have any intentions of doing an OnlyFans account.

00:06:15Ryan, as my friends would say, you hit the jackpot.

00:06:22You'll be required to take me on dates.

00:06:24Buy me flowers at least once a month.

00:06:26Bring me coffee in the morning.

00:06:28Tell me I'm gorgeous.

00:06:29Together we could maybe afford an Eastern Suburbs mortgage.

00:06:32Adopt a Cocker Spaniel puppy.

00:06:36And I'd love to have a double his and her vanity bathroom one day.

00:06:40Hmm.

00:06:41Interesting.

00:06:41Wow!

00:06:42Wow!

00:06:43Wow!

00:06:47Wow!

00:06:56Where's this conference here?

00:06:58I don't know about me.

00:06:59Wow!

00:07:02It's an Italian traditional dance.

00:07:30Wow!

00:07:31That was worse than I thought.

00:07:45I'm so sorry.

00:07:46Oh, my God.

00:07:48I tried on the dress.

00:07:51It's good.

00:07:52That's going on national TV.

00:07:53That's going on national TV.

00:07:55Wow, wow, wow.

00:08:04Famous drop.

00:08:06Jamie, you're getting emotional.

00:08:09Yeah, it was...

00:08:10God, I want to start crying.

00:08:12I just...

00:08:13It was so beautiful that we all got to experience that.

00:08:16It really was.

00:08:17And just seeing how beautiful everyone looked.

00:08:19And, like, I think we all had so many amazing moments.

00:08:21And it was a really good experience.

00:08:23And it was just nice to see everyone.

00:08:25But, yeah.

00:08:27Well, look, certainly for us,

00:08:28watching all of that has been absolutely gorgeous.

00:08:34All right, to kick it off tonight,

00:08:36let's get up...

00:08:39Jamie and Dave.

00:08:42Woo!

00:08:48Hi, guys.

00:08:51So, um, there were a lot of high emotions last night.

00:08:55You were really upset, Jamie.

00:08:58When talking about the demise of the relationship

00:09:01and basically the journey that you guys have been on,

00:09:04especially in the last few weeks.

00:09:06Mm-hmm.

00:09:06Are you ultimately disappointed that it did not work out?

00:09:10Yeah, I am disappointed because it's...

00:09:15I remember having this conversation with, I think, with my sister.

00:09:19And I was trying to explain, like, the place that we were at.

00:09:23And when you look back at Retreat, we were such, like, a strong, united couple.

00:09:30And people used to admire us.

00:09:32And I really thought, like, oh, I found my man.

00:09:38And I was just so convinced that this was, like, this was it for me.

00:09:42And ultimately, it didn't pan out.

00:09:50So I think last night, you know, a lot of emotions did come up

00:09:55because it is... there is disappointment.

00:09:56But I know how I want someone to show up in a relationship

00:10:01and that ultimately wasn't the right match.

00:10:05But, like, I'm proud that we both tried.

00:10:10And we've got this really good friendship.

00:10:12We've had an incredible journey.

00:10:16We really have.

00:10:19You did just mention that you had an incredible journey.

00:10:23So why don't we take a look at that journey?

00:10:26Yes!

00:10:34I want a husband that is a cross between David Beckham

00:10:39and someone who's done 20 to life.

00:10:42Sorry, Dad.

00:10:56We were all kind of lucky.

00:10:57We kind of hit it off from the start.

00:11:00He made me feel comfortable straight away.

00:11:03The coffee machine is my nightclub.

00:11:09Oh, my God.

00:11:12Look at this dress.

00:11:13Look at this lady.

00:11:14Give her a spin.

00:11:15Give her a spin.

00:11:15Look at that.

00:11:17It's okay.

00:11:18You're safe.

00:11:19Don't worry.

00:11:22She's an amazing person.

00:11:23She makes me laugh.

00:11:24She's just hilarious.

00:11:25It's a wedding.

00:11:26It's a wedding.

00:11:30Today.

00:11:32No.

00:11:33I don't know what to do or what to wear.

00:11:36I'm paid all as well.

00:11:37I don't know what to do.

00:11:39Get in the shower.

00:11:41I'm sorry.

00:11:43Jamie and I.

00:11:43To quote Jersey Shore, Dave and I smooshed.

00:11:51I felt like dopamine was shooting out of my arse this morning.

00:11:54He just makes me a better person.

00:12:03Oh.

00:12:03I feel safe.

00:12:05I feel secure.

00:12:05I feel happy.

00:12:07Like tick, tick, tick.

00:12:08Yes.

00:12:09She's bloody amazing.

00:12:11I've shared things with her and she's just zero judgment at all.

00:12:14She's lovely.

00:12:15I kind of saw an opportunity and I said, I love you.

00:12:21Like, I really love you.

00:12:23So you haven't said it back?

00:12:26No.

00:12:30I feel like now I've literally gotten a new husband.

00:12:33So Dave's enjoying it as well.

00:12:40Hey.

00:12:41Oh.

00:12:42I'm going to be quicker than that around here, boys.

00:12:45I think there's been some uncomfortable sleeping arrangements.

00:12:52Yeah.

00:12:54Not us.

00:12:55Not me.

00:12:57Yeah, look, we get on.

00:13:01Yeah.

00:13:01Sounds good.

00:13:03Thanks.

00:13:10I have always been the one likely to initiate intimacy.

00:13:14And that's why it makes me confused as to why you don't want more of it.

00:13:22I'm going to give you some hard truths.

00:13:24Yeah, go on.

00:13:27He's just not like that with you.

00:13:32Are we having a lack of sex because you're not in the love stage?

00:13:36I feel like there were...

00:13:37Yes or no?

00:13:38Yes.

00:13:40How do you feel about Jamie?

00:13:43Oh, look, I don't...

00:13:44I don't hate her guts.

00:13:45I don't hate Jamie.

00:13:48The feelings aren't there as much as I thought they would be.

00:13:51Do you understand your words are really hurtful?

00:13:54Who is that person?

00:13:58And he just didn't even care.

00:14:00There's things that she wants and I can't give it to her.

00:14:02Like, yeah, I care about her.

00:14:04I don't hate the girl.

00:14:06Oh, no.

00:14:08The girl.

00:14:09I don't hate the girl.

00:14:11That's what he said.

00:14:12We've built three months together, Dave.

00:14:15Three months and I was planning a future with you

00:14:17and you're telling me today, you're like,

00:14:19I don't have...

00:14:19Those feelings haven't progressed for you.

00:14:21When did you want to tell me that?

00:14:26I've seen how hurt you were.

00:14:29That's not how I want this to go.

00:14:31I don't want to hurt you at all.

00:14:34Because I care about you.

00:14:38These are for you.

00:14:39Or flowers.

00:14:42I need to take charge and sort of step up

00:14:45and make her feel wanted and needed and not rejected.

00:14:48I'm willing to give it all I've got.

00:14:52I can't see that when you care.

00:14:58Jamie, I came here looking for something worth holding on to.

00:15:02And with you, I believe that's possible.

00:15:07My heart tells me that I'm not ready to let go of you

00:15:09and everything we've built together.

00:15:11Well, I don't think it's the end of our story.

00:15:13In fact, it may just be the beginning.

00:15:17That's so sweet.

00:15:18Dave, watching that back,

00:15:38what's your opinion of everything that happened with Jamie?

00:15:41The way I handled myself when Jamie raised concerns,

00:15:46I'm ashamed of the way I handled that.

00:15:51Like, this was something so special

00:15:54and it just came to this abrupt halt and it was all my doing.

00:15:58And I'm so sorry that that's a part of our journey

00:16:01and it's caused by me.

00:16:02Yeah, I should have handled that a lot better.

00:16:08I don't like to hurt people that I care about

00:16:10and I think that's something I'm going to take away from this.

00:16:15She's taught me many good lessons in this relationship

00:16:17and the negative thing that I've learned about myself from Jamie

00:16:21is that it's not fair to not speak your mind

00:16:27when it's very crucial times.

00:16:30You both chose to stay together at Final Vows.

00:16:33Yeah.

00:16:34And what I'd love to understand

00:16:38is what that happened in Melbourne

00:16:40that led to you not being together today.

00:16:44So, obviously, you guys saw our relationship.

00:16:48It was amazing and then kind of took a turn.

00:16:51And from there, ultimately, the concerns I had had

00:16:56and the concerns I'm sure Dave had with his feelings of progressing

00:16:59very much became apparent when you go into home life.

00:17:04Because, like, when you do have those feelings,

00:17:08you're dying to see that person.

00:17:10You want to do everything.

00:17:11Like, it just wasn't happening.

00:17:15And then once it was clear that those feelings weren't there,

00:17:20it just, like, couldn't look away.

00:17:21I just always say, it's like you turn lights on in a nightclub

00:17:24and you're, ooh!

00:17:28It's like that's what it was like every day

00:17:30because I'm looking at a man who's trying,

00:17:32but you're like, he's not known to me.

00:17:33He's not that into me.

00:17:34And then insecurities form and...

00:17:37I don't like to cry.

00:17:40I'd rather be yelling at people.

00:17:41Everyone will come to yelling.

00:17:45But I came on here wanting to learn and to look back

00:17:49and go, what a great experience.

00:17:50I feel like that's exactly what him and I had.

00:17:53Who knows?

00:17:56Just like Ria and Jeff, maybe we'll get much next year, Dave and I.

00:18:01Well, thank you both so much for the passion and commitment

00:18:06that you showed up with every single day.

00:18:09And we do hope the best for you both

00:18:11in whatever you choose to do in the future.

00:18:13Thank you very much for your help all the way, guys.

00:18:15Thank you, guys.

00:18:24Next up on the couch...

00:18:26Adrian and Fina.

00:18:40Hello, you two.

00:18:42Hello.

00:18:43Hello, you two.

00:18:57Hello.

00:19:00All right, well, there's no doubt, Adrian and Fina,

00:19:03that your relationship was marked with both highs and lows.

00:19:07It was tumultuous.

00:19:08And what we saw last night got pretty emotional,

00:19:13very heated, it was raw, it was unfiltered.

00:19:17Shall we talk about that first?

00:19:20Yeah, I mean, in coming to the dinner party,

00:19:23I was excited to see Fina.

00:19:25You know, I did miss her.

00:19:27And, you know, we started off good,

00:19:30and then, you know, Sarah came in,

00:19:32and they were having a chat.

00:19:34And Sarah said to Fina,

00:19:36or you said this about Adrian,

00:19:38one was, like, my business sucks.

00:19:42I'm never going to be successful,

00:19:44and I can't spell.

00:19:48And for me, the worst thing that you can call someone is an idiot.

00:19:53And that's how I took it.

00:19:57It felt, like, personal.

00:20:00And to hear those things from someone

00:20:02that you think cares about you so much,

00:20:05it was, like, just upsetting and disappointing,

00:20:07considering I gave so much time and attention

00:20:09to someone and put so much effort in,

00:20:11it was probably the most hurtful thing.

00:20:15And then from that, I just checked out.

00:20:16I'm like, I lost all respect for you, you know,

00:20:18because if you do care for someone,

00:20:20you don't talk about them like that,

00:20:21no matter how upset you are with them.

00:20:22I want someone to be with me that believes in me.

00:20:27And essentially, when I heard all that,

00:20:30I felt like you never believed in me.

00:20:35Afina,

00:20:36did you say those things?

00:20:40Not in that exact context,

00:20:41but there was some truth to it,

00:20:43which, when Sierra said those things,

00:20:44I said to Adrian,

00:20:45yeah, there is some truth to it.

00:20:46At the time,

00:20:48you had left over not being in a promo video.

00:20:54Sierra and I went for a walk nine weeks ago

00:20:56at a time that I was really hurt

00:20:58and I was feeling sad.

00:21:00It doesn't matter.

00:21:00I know, like, I shouldn't have hurt your feelings,

00:21:02but I feel like hurt people say things out of context.

00:21:04But what I did say,

00:21:06I mentioned his business, yes,

00:21:07and I said he was here for the wrong reasons

00:21:09because at the time, that's how I felt.

00:21:10Obviously, the last time you guys all saw

00:21:13Adrian, Sierra and I together

00:21:14was when Sierra apologised

00:21:16for going out for dinner with Adrian.

00:21:20So, we moved past that.

00:21:23It's been weeks now

00:21:24and I'm getting, you know, calls from Adrian

00:21:27telling me that Sierra's reached out to him again

00:21:29to go out for dinner

00:21:31and essentially come back in together.

00:21:33So, what happened?

00:21:35It just felt like another slap in the face.

00:21:40And then, a week after leaving the experiment,

00:21:43Adrian sends me a string of text messages from Sierra.

00:21:47It was just a barrage of messages

00:21:49about I effing hate Athena

00:21:51and her tacky weave.

00:21:53So, I feel like she has

00:21:55got a lot of resentment towards me

00:21:57because I stayed in the experiment.

00:21:58I understand you feel like you were robbed

00:22:00of that experience,

00:22:01but your relationship didn't work with Billy.

00:22:03I have no involvement in that.

00:22:06But also, if you came here for a life partner,

00:22:09you didn't get it, you should have left.

00:22:11Like, how are you mad at me over that?

00:22:15Sierra, what do you have to say about that?

00:22:18Um, alright.

00:22:20First of all, I never actually reached out to Adrian.

00:22:22When I left, he reached out to me

00:22:24to ask if I was okay.

00:22:27The whole coming back together thing,

00:22:29what happened was,

00:22:31the day after I left,

00:22:32I said, oh, the wife swap thing

00:22:34might have been a good idea.

00:22:35What?

00:22:36Oh, my God.

00:22:40Hang on, hang on.

00:22:41Just let me speak.

00:22:42For context,

00:22:43Athena had said those things to me about Adrian.

00:22:45She said she wanted to leave.

00:22:47I did say I wanted to leave.

00:22:48It's true.

00:22:48I wanted to, I won't leave.

00:22:49Sorry, I'll let you speak, Athena.

00:22:52It's my turn to defend myself.

00:22:53But you're going to lie.

00:22:55Just let me speak.

00:22:58So I was like, well,

00:22:59she said that her type

00:23:01was actually a tattooed tradie

00:23:02from first,

00:23:03and I go, that's right,

00:23:03that's Billy.

00:23:05And then I said,

00:23:06maybe the wife swap was a great idea.

00:23:08We should come back together.

00:23:10F***ing hell.

00:23:12And that was basically it.

00:23:15You're upset.

00:23:15You've done the wrong thing.

00:23:17And instead of having any real accountability

00:23:18and you tried to vilify me,

00:23:20all that hate towards me is not fair.

00:23:27All right, well,

00:23:28Adrian, Athena,

00:23:29I need to bring it back to you now.

00:23:31We're going to take a look back

00:23:34at your journey on this experiment.

00:23:48It's wins.

00:23:53It's wins on twins.

00:23:54Double trouble.

00:24:00I'm Adrian.

00:24:01Hi.

00:24:01Nice to meet you.

00:24:03I'm Athena.

00:24:04Nice to meet you.

00:24:05You're actually way too hot.

00:24:06I'm actually not happy.

00:24:08She's exactly my type.

00:24:10She's everything I could have asked for.

00:24:12Oh.

00:24:15You know, it's two days in.

00:24:16I know we have real chemistry.

00:24:20Give me a nice pose.

00:24:24Adrian and I

00:24:24connected.

00:24:25We're number one.

00:24:28By far.

00:24:29Actually,

00:24:30there's every year.

00:24:33We're not even close to them.

00:24:37By far.

00:24:38Honestly,

00:24:39when I meant it,

00:24:40like,

00:24:40I had to pair them up

00:24:41and I didn't know anyone.

00:24:42But it would still be my top pick,

00:24:44100%.

00:24:44By far.

00:24:50Cute.

00:24:50Do you want kids?

00:24:54Yeah, of course.

00:24:55We'd have had them yesterday.

00:24:57Someone's saying they could have kids yesterday.

00:24:59It's like someone's saying,

00:25:00they're ready to be a dad now.

00:25:02I didn't say I want someone else's kid.

00:25:04I literally told you from the second night

00:25:07you said I had a kid

00:25:08that it was going to be a problem.

00:25:10Why are you still here?

00:25:10Because you don't want someone with children.

00:25:12Why are you still here?

00:25:12You know what you want.

00:25:13I would like

00:25:14if we can kind of

00:25:15just try to come together as a team.

00:25:17One moment we're arguing,

00:25:19next minute kid gives me

00:25:20that nice,

00:25:21cute little smile.

00:25:23And you know,

00:25:23I easily melt and give in.

00:25:26Oh, I hate that face.

00:25:28What face are you doing?

00:25:29You know exactly what face

00:25:30you do to me.

00:25:30I just don't know if that

00:25:33is a foundation of a strong relationship.

00:25:36Question it.

00:25:37Have you ever cheated on a past partner?

00:25:40Yeah, I did.

00:25:42I made out with someone,

00:25:44but I told my ex straight away

00:25:47and I'm admitting it.

00:25:48I just don't feel like a lot of people will.

00:25:50Yeah.

00:25:51A lot of people don't want to realise

00:25:52they're a shit person.

00:25:53Oh my gosh.

00:25:55Have you cheated, Adrian?

00:25:56No.

00:25:57Did you answer all the questions honestly?

00:26:00No.

00:26:03What if I say I've seen your application?

00:26:07Seriously.

00:26:08Oh God.

00:26:10Adrian!

00:26:13Yeah, I might have.

00:26:14I might have hooked up with that girl.

00:26:16Jesus Christ.

00:26:17Wow.

00:26:18Are you joking?

00:26:19I do get this feeling

00:26:21that Adrian's keeping something from me.

00:26:23Actually, why were you out

00:26:24for dinner Sierra Saturday night?

00:26:25You took her out.

00:26:29Really, bro?

00:26:30What do you think I'm going to do?

00:26:32Steal your wife or something?

00:26:35I mean, I'm a human, right?

00:26:40Just do that wife swap.

00:26:41See how they would like to have tomorrow.

00:26:43Push your door.

00:26:44Oh my God.

00:26:49This is like insane.

00:26:51Hello.

00:26:55Adrian?

00:26:57He's not here.

00:26:59I'm pissed off that I'm not in the promo.

00:27:01Disrespectful.

00:27:02I'm not coming back until I'll give you the promo.

00:27:05Shit.

00:27:06I left because I was frustrated.

00:27:10Adrian,

00:27:11I've got it on good authority

00:27:13that you gave an ultimate.

00:27:16Now, I reacted in emotions.

00:27:18You know,

00:27:19I'm a man.

00:27:20I make mistakes.

00:27:21And, um,

00:27:22Adrian, I've got to jump in.

00:27:24Because

00:27:24the way in which you're saying this

00:27:26is a real problem.

00:27:28You're not showing empathy.

00:27:29And you're certainly getting defensive now.

00:27:31So what I'm feeding back to you,

00:27:33Adrian,

00:27:33is that

00:27:34you're not good at saying sorry.

00:27:37And that's a problem.

00:27:40We can now reveal that

00:27:42during the matchmaking process

00:27:43there was more than one person

00:27:45you were compatible with.

00:27:46For this final week,

00:27:47you have the opportunity

00:27:48if you choose

00:27:50to meet them.

00:27:52You know what?

00:27:52Let's go.

00:27:55What's one more task, right?

00:27:56Adrian.

00:27:57Adrian.

00:27:58Nice to meet you.

00:27:59Tim, nice to meet you.

00:28:00I'm Athena.

00:28:01How old's your little one, by the way?

00:28:03Six.

00:28:04Okay.

00:28:04Yeah.

00:28:05What does he enjoy doing?

00:28:06Oh, he plays footy.

00:28:08Tim asked me more questions

00:28:09about my life

00:28:10in one day

00:28:11than I'd gotten

00:28:11in the first six weeks

00:28:12from Adrian.

00:28:14I'm usually fine.

00:28:16We're meeting someone

00:28:16for the first time,

00:28:17but now I'm sort of

00:28:18a bit speechless,

00:28:18so I'm like,

00:28:19shit, I don't know why.

00:28:20Yeah.

00:28:21Nice colour on you.

00:28:23You look beautiful, too.

00:28:25I do,

00:28:26I do like your look.

00:28:27There you go.

00:28:28Yeah, you know.

00:28:29So, what about you?

00:28:30Similar to you.

00:28:31Yeah.

00:28:32Okay, cool.

00:28:33You know,

00:28:36has Max seen someone

00:28:37I would hang out with?

00:28:40Probably.

00:28:42He's, I think, a 2.0.

00:28:44Jeez.

00:28:44You're not my future right now.

00:28:59This is where our journey ends.

00:29:01It's best for both of us

00:29:02that I walk away.

00:29:06Do you want to spend time

00:29:07with me tonight?

00:29:08Do you want to try

00:29:11right now, though,

00:29:13and see what

00:29:13that connection looks like

00:29:14outside of this experiment,

00:29:16Adrian?

00:29:20Yes.

00:29:20Afina,

00:29:39would you have liked

00:29:41to have continued

00:29:42the relationship

00:29:43with Adrian

00:29:43outside the experiment?

00:29:45The moment I landed

00:29:46in Perth,

00:29:48that answer

00:29:48smacked me in the face

00:29:49that that was a no,

00:29:51and that's the truth.

00:29:53I was like,

00:29:54I made a mistake.

00:29:55There's nothing here.

00:29:57There's just

00:29:58a physical connection.

00:29:59I got home

00:30:03and I

00:30:03felt really good.

00:30:07I was like,

00:30:09I am amazing.

00:30:11Yes, you are.

00:30:13I am a good mum.

00:30:17I am hot.

00:30:21And I had this epiphany

00:30:23where I was like,

00:30:24who wouldn't want me?

00:30:28Felt good.

00:30:29But it's

00:30:29a feeling

00:30:31I hadn't felt

00:30:31and I didn't recognise

00:30:33almost the entire experiment.

00:30:36I didn't feel hot.

00:30:39I didn't feel

00:30:41like

00:30:42Adrian would want me

00:30:45or likes me.

00:30:46I just felt

00:30:47small.

00:30:51And,

00:30:51you know,

00:30:53sometimes I would lash out

00:30:54from those feelings

00:30:55of rejection and hurt.

00:30:57And I feel like

00:30:57you feel that

00:30:58with comments

00:30:59said and actions.

00:31:01I just

00:31:01didn't feel good

00:31:02about myself

00:31:03in the experiment.

00:31:05I don't think

00:31:06from the beginning

00:31:07I was ever your person.

00:31:09Do you think

00:31:10he was your person?

00:31:11No.

00:31:13My person

00:31:15wouldn't make me

00:31:15feel like this.

00:31:22I'm sorry

00:31:23you felt that way.

00:31:26I'm sorry

00:31:27I didn't make you feel

00:31:28wanted.

00:31:30I'm sorry

00:31:30I didn't bring out

00:31:30the best in you.

00:31:32I'm sorry.

00:31:33I know for a fact

00:31:36in time

00:31:36she's going to

00:31:37meet that person

00:31:37that does.

00:31:39And

00:31:40as much as

00:31:41it sucks

00:31:42it wasn't me.

00:31:43well look

00:31:49we have to say

00:31:50thank you both

00:31:51for throwing

00:31:52yourselves

00:31:53into this experiment

00:31:54so completely.

00:31:56You both showed

00:31:57real vulnerability

00:31:58and we've loved

00:32:00having you here.

00:32:02Thank you both.

00:32:11Coming up

00:32:12It's crazy to see

00:32:13where we started

00:32:14and where we are.

00:32:15Have you dropped

00:32:15I love you yet?

00:32:20And

00:32:20I was living with her

00:32:22when you were

00:32:22talking to her mate.

00:32:24I forgot

00:32:24we're not mates

00:32:25we're not mates anymore.

00:32:26Apparently we're not mates.

00:32:28Jackie and Ryan

00:32:29go head to head.

00:32:30So sick of it Ryan.

00:32:31You're sick of what?

00:32:32Being held accountable

00:32:33for your actions?

00:32:34No.

00:32:35And later

00:32:36Karina has also

00:32:37done certain things

00:32:38that have also

00:32:39made me feel

00:32:40extremely uncomfortable

00:32:40and upset at times.

00:32:41Paul hears

00:32:42some hard truths.

00:32:44I've had enough.

00:32:45I'm going to tell you

00:32:46the way it is

00:32:46and look at me

00:32:47when I'm talking to you

00:32:48because I won't get

00:32:50another chance

00:32:50to give this to you straight.

00:33:01And next up

00:33:05on the couch

00:33:06we have

00:33:06Ryan and Jackie.

00:33:17Hello.

00:33:17Hello guys.

00:33:19Hello you two.

00:33:20Good to see you all again.

00:33:21Hello.

00:33:22Hi.

00:33:22So where to start?

00:33:26Last night

00:33:27we learnt

00:33:28some new information.

00:33:31Jackie

00:33:31why don't you

00:33:32fill us in

00:33:33on the situation

00:33:34with Clint?

00:33:36So after

00:33:37final vows

00:33:38you know

00:33:39things ended

00:33:40pretty badly

00:33:40and I was

00:33:41pretty sad

00:33:42for about two weeks

00:33:43and crying

00:33:43and

00:33:44um

00:33:45what did you say

00:33:47during final vows?

00:33:49You didn't seem sad then.

00:33:50I said a lot of stuff

00:33:51during final vows right?

00:33:51You didn't seem sad then.

00:33:54So yeah

00:33:55Clint and I

00:33:56had started talking

00:33:57and we

00:33:57developed a friendship.

00:34:00We started bonding

00:34:01over our shared experience

00:34:02and experiment

00:34:03and

00:34:03how disappointed

00:34:04we essentially were

00:34:06and then

00:34:07Clint invited me

00:34:08down to

00:34:09Tasmania

00:34:10so just took the leap

00:34:12flew down

00:34:13with a one way ticket

00:34:14there

00:34:16and we just

00:34:16headed off

00:34:17and

00:34:17we found out

00:34:18we've got

00:34:19like

00:34:19a lot in common.

00:34:21We have a lot

00:34:22of fun together.

00:34:23We can't

00:34:24spend a minute apart

00:34:25really

00:34:25without missing

00:34:26each other.

00:34:27We've tested

00:34:28you know

00:34:28do you want to have kids?

00:34:29How many kids

00:34:30would you have?

00:34:30Like we've kind of

00:34:31gone through everything

00:34:32and figured out

00:34:32actually

00:34:33we do feel like

00:34:34we're compatible

00:34:35and

00:34:37we're really happy

00:34:39and so

00:34:40yeah

00:34:40I'm

00:34:41now I'm moving

00:34:42in with Clint.

00:34:43wow

00:34:45sorry

00:34:49sorry

00:34:50that's mad

00:34:51why is it funny?

00:34:53because it's taken

00:34:54two weeks

00:34:55why is it

00:34:56everyone in this room

00:34:57signed up for an experiment

00:34:58where you're going to marry

00:34:59a stranger

00:35:00you're going to go

00:35:00three months of your lives

00:35:02like it's not a big deal guys

00:35:04you all did the same thing

00:35:05not a big deal

00:35:05having their own experiment

00:35:10I would love to hear

00:35:14from you Clint

00:35:14how serious

00:35:16is this for you?

00:35:19oh it's

00:35:19it's very serious

00:35:20so I thought

00:35:22why not live together

00:35:23and

00:35:23I was living with her

00:35:26when you were talking

00:35:26to her mate

00:35:27I forgot

00:35:28we're not mates

00:35:28we're not talking about that

00:35:29right now Ryan

00:35:30apparently we're not mates

00:35:31Ryan

00:35:31apparently we're not mates

00:35:33when did you first start talking?

00:35:38you started the beginnings

00:35:39of a relationship

00:35:39when you were married to me

00:35:40that's not the case Ryan

00:35:42that is the case

00:35:44that is not the case

00:35:45Ryan

00:35:48you're saying

00:35:49that

00:35:50these guys

00:35:51were talking

00:35:51before final vows

00:35:53100%

00:35:54how do you know

00:35:55that information?

00:35:56because I was there

00:35:57when we all exchanged numbers

00:35:58the first week

00:36:00that Clint came

00:36:01into the experiment

00:36:02okay

00:36:03and I was like

00:36:04okay

00:36:05I don't see an issue here

00:36:06I know that they're chatting

00:36:07I didn't know the depth

00:36:08to it all

00:36:09Jackie told me

00:36:11and actually

00:36:11Clint confirmed it

00:36:12that after

00:36:13one of the commitment ceremonies

00:36:15Jackie called Clint

00:36:16at 3am

00:36:17saying like

00:36:18oh I hate Ryan

00:36:19the experts are so unfair

00:36:20but I'm like

00:36:23it is okay

00:36:24for people to have friends

00:36:25I'm friends with it as well

00:36:27well at least I thought

00:36:28the rumours were swirling

00:36:30and I called Jackie

00:36:31after final vows

00:36:32and I said

00:36:33look

00:36:33just tell me

00:36:35are you and Clint

00:36:36thinking about talking more

00:36:37maybe even meeting up

00:36:38and she goes

00:36:39no

00:36:39and then she goes

00:36:43I really do love you

00:36:44I really do respect you

00:36:46I would never disrespect you

00:36:47like that

00:36:47wow

00:36:48shit

00:36:50oh Jackie

00:36:52that's not what happened

00:36:56I've got the text

00:36:57of course it's not

00:36:59I've got the text

00:37:00to confirm it

00:37:01you just said

00:37:02it was a phone call Ryan

00:37:03and now you're saying

00:37:04there were texts

00:37:04yeah after that phone call

00:37:06you sent me texts

00:37:06saying those exact things

00:37:07and I've still got them

00:37:08on my phone

00:37:09so sick of it Ryan

00:37:11you're sick of what

00:37:12being held accountable

00:37:13for your actions

00:37:14no

00:37:14Ryan

00:37:16you seem really hurt

00:37:18by this

00:37:18you know what

00:37:21if I have to be

00:37:21completely honest

00:37:22it's not this specific

00:37:23situation

00:37:25it's the culmination

00:37:26of this relationship

00:37:28you made my life hell

00:37:30like and my question is

00:37:33with the mountain

00:37:35of evidence

00:37:36actions

00:37:37words

00:37:38contradictions

00:37:38and non-acceptance

00:37:40did you ever really

00:37:42want to be

00:37:43in this relationship

00:37:44with me

00:37:44truly

00:37:47yes

00:37:48well I think

00:37:53everyone's very excited

00:37:54to see your journey

00:37:56oh my god

00:37:57yes

00:37:58the moment has come

00:37:59let's take a look

00:38:01shall we

00:38:01oh yeah

00:38:02look at everyone

00:38:04no talking

00:38:06silence

00:38:07shh

00:38:08where have all the

00:38:09warriors gone

00:38:10where have all the

00:38:11knights gone

00:38:12men without these

00:38:14roles have lost

00:38:14their way

00:38:15so for example

00:38:18I know basic

00:38:20plumbing I can

00:38:20change a tap

00:38:21it's impossible

00:38:24to find someone

00:38:25on my level

00:38:25so I'm hoping

00:38:26the guy is

00:38:27very successful

00:38:28and blonde

00:38:29I think I'll know

00:38:31straight away

00:38:31whether he's got

00:38:32potential

00:38:32yeah I'm a little bit

00:38:38disappointed

00:38:38he's not

00:38:39blonde

00:38:39the male version

00:38:41of me

00:38:42is really

00:38:42what I was

00:38:43looking for

00:38:43and

00:38:47I was a bit

00:38:48concerned that he

00:38:49didn't take the lead

00:38:49when we had to walk

00:38:50back down the aisle

00:38:51because I don't want

00:38:52to be at one

00:38:53like

00:38:53there's so many

00:38:56shit men out there

00:38:57I'm going to dip here

00:38:59ready

00:38:59you're going to have

00:39:00to catch me though

00:39:01oh wow

00:39:07I'm so safe

00:39:09this is where you'll

00:39:10find me today

00:39:11I actually don't want

00:39:11the TV in our bedroom

00:39:12you can't watch TV

00:39:13in there okay Ryan

00:39:14I'll watch TV

00:39:15when I want

00:39:16I'll watch TV

00:39:17where I want

00:39:17okay there's

00:39:19Ray

00:39:19my top choice

00:39:20alright last one

00:39:22I'll put you third

00:39:24how hard is it

00:39:27to just be like

00:39:28hey I made a mistake

00:39:29you're gorgeous

00:39:30because that would

00:39:31be a lie

00:39:32oh

00:39:33Ryan

00:39:35oh what a dude

00:39:37with regards to

00:39:38the photo task

00:39:39I'm not going to

00:39:40take the answer back

00:39:41and then suddenly

00:39:41like the crazy eyes

00:39:42came in

00:39:43like

00:39:43what

00:39:44but I've got to

00:39:46say like

00:39:46she gives

00:39:47awesome

00:39:48I'm ashamed

00:39:52I'm ashamed

00:39:53at that

00:39:53I'm writing

00:39:55a letter to you

00:39:55the first thing

00:39:57I'd like to say

00:39:57is like

00:39:58when you dropped

00:39:59me at our wedding

00:40:00I did hit my head

00:40:02and it took you

00:40:03three weeks

00:40:03to buy me flowers

00:40:05and the time

00:40:07when I was asking

00:40:08you to do stuff

00:40:08around the house

00:40:09like can you please

00:40:10close the door

00:40:10when you go to the bathroom

00:40:11can you please

00:40:11keep your shoes

00:40:12off the bed

00:40:13I feel like

00:40:13you're not sensitive

00:40:14to my emotions

00:40:15I was also very

00:40:16disappointed that

00:40:17oh there's more

00:40:18fantastic

00:40:19yeah

00:40:19yeah the first time

00:40:22we went out

00:40:22for breakfast

00:40:24you didn't offer

00:40:25to pay

00:40:25no

00:40:26and the reason

00:40:27why I have a rap sheet

00:40:28of all the stuff

00:40:29you've done

00:40:29is because you've done

00:40:30so much bad stuff

00:40:31I can't win with you

00:40:32I'm just trying

00:40:33to be nice to you

00:40:34I'm trying to help

00:40:35you grow into the man

00:40:35you could be

00:40:36Jeff got a text message

00:40:40from Jackie

00:40:41asking to catch up

00:40:42without me there

00:40:42excuse me

00:40:44what the

00:40:44don't touch me

00:40:47don't touch me

00:40:47as soon as the heat

00:40:51was turned on her

00:40:51tears come

00:40:53he's going around

00:40:54behind me back

00:40:54trying to get

00:40:55everyone against me

00:40:56I can see your side

00:40:57but Jackie

00:40:59you've written a sheet

00:41:00on things that

00:41:01like you know

00:41:02I didn't do that

00:41:04oh my god

00:41:07that's the thing

00:41:08but

00:41:09hey Seb

00:41:10yeah

00:41:11did you believe him

00:41:12that's the problem

00:41:13Jamie

00:41:13he just

00:41:14springs bullshit around

00:41:15I reckon even

00:41:19my nipples are

00:41:19tired of this

00:41:20Ryan

00:41:24I'm concerned

00:41:25that you financially

00:41:26contribute less

00:41:27than I will

00:41:28like theoretically

00:41:29if it came to it

00:41:30would you be happy

00:41:30being a stay at home dad

00:41:31what if I ended up

00:41:33in a coma

00:41:33who's going to look

00:41:34after our kids

00:41:35um

00:41:37your beard

00:41:38isn't very manly

00:41:39my beard

00:41:40Jackie is the most

00:41:43difficult person

00:41:45I've ever

00:41:45tried to date

00:41:46in my life

00:41:47I can't have

00:41:48conversation with you

00:41:48about anything

00:41:49because your brain

00:41:50is so small

00:41:51okay

00:41:52come in

00:41:53come in

00:41:54so this is the

00:41:55lounge room

00:41:55I just think

00:41:56he's been alone

00:41:57here for seven years

00:41:58it really reminds me

00:41:59of the elderly

00:42:00I just feel bad

00:42:03for Ryan

00:42:03I've heard enough

00:42:04about your standards

00:42:05why don't you want

00:42:06to be someone great

00:42:07wouldn't you rather

00:42:11find someone

00:42:12that meets your

00:42:13high standards

00:42:14there's no one

00:42:15out there

00:42:16that meets my standards

00:42:17I'm really sorry

00:42:21that you don't

00:42:22feel accepted

00:42:23by me

00:42:23whether you don't

00:42:25know I do

00:42:25accept you

00:42:26and I want you

00:42:27to know how much

00:42:28I do really think

00:42:30you're one of the

00:42:30greatest humans

00:42:31I've ever met

00:42:32and I've loved you

00:42:33since the day

00:42:33I've met you

00:42:34I don't mean that

00:42:37that's why I'm so

00:42:39outbroken

00:42:40are you joking

00:42:42yeah Rory's really

00:42:46good looking

00:42:47I feel like I just

00:42:48want to hang out

00:42:48with Rory now

00:42:49if you want to

00:42:50give me your number

00:42:51I'll be out of this

00:42:53experiment in

00:42:54probably 10 days

00:42:55what the f**k

00:42:58did you tell Ryan

00:43:00that you swapped

00:43:00numbers with Rory

00:43:01I didn't tell Ryan

00:43:03that I swapped

00:43:03numbers with Rory

00:43:04but he didn't ask

00:43:05so it's okay

00:43:06I think Ryan will

00:43:11be blown away

00:43:11I've got some

00:43:13iconic lines

00:43:13that will go down

00:43:15in history as

00:43:15memorable

00:43:16Ryan

00:43:17I'm not a

00:43:19rehabilitation centre

00:43:20for a man

00:43:21I'm sorry

00:43:23that's ridiculous

00:43:24I'll call my final

00:43:25verse ridiculous

00:43:25that's not nice

00:43:26I was always open

00:43:28and willing to listen

00:43:29and fix

00:43:29it's not me

00:43:30your pride is the

00:43:31problem

00:43:32as a man

00:43:34you're not perfect

00:43:35it's not the

00:43:371920s anymore

00:43:38in a world of

00:43:39red flags

00:43:40you are the

00:43:41red carpet

00:43:42being in a

00:43:45relationship with

00:43:46her is

00:43:46exhausting

00:43:48I feel sorry

00:43:49for the next man

00:43:50who comes along

00:43:50and tries to be

00:43:51with her

00:43:52because unless he

00:43:53makes like 10

00:43:53million a year

00:43:54or is willing to

00:43:55be a stay at home

00:43:55dad

00:43:56run

00:43:57just run

00:43:58now

00:43:58I'm hopeful

00:44:00that I will find

00:44:00my person

00:44:01I just don't know

00:44:02when it's going

00:44:02to be

00:44:03I have a feeling

00:44:04that it's going

00:44:05to happen sooner

00:44:06than I think

00:44:06though

00:44:06there it is

00:44:10because you already

00:44:11found him

00:44:12what an incredible

00:44:16journey for the

00:44:17two of you

00:44:17Jackie

00:44:18what was that

00:44:19like to watch

00:44:20for you

00:44:21it was pretty

00:44:23sad to watch

00:44:24it took me

00:44:26back to those

00:44:26times where I was

00:44:27feeling really hurt

00:44:28I just felt like

00:44:30I could never get

00:44:31through to Ryan

00:44:32on anything

00:44:32like it was

00:44:33even last night

00:44:34I took so much

00:44:35accountability

00:44:36can you just

00:44:36stop interrupting

00:44:37me

00:44:38Ryan

00:44:38and I felt

00:44:43like

00:44:44actually

00:44:45it wasn't

00:44:46ever me

00:44:46way

00:44:49it's something

00:44:51with Ryan

00:44:51he just

00:44:52blanks

00:44:52like he

00:44:53deflects

00:44:53and he

00:44:53just

00:44:54you can't

00:44:54get into

00:44:54him

00:44:55in any

00:44:55way

00:44:55possible

00:44:56it's

00:44:56like

00:44:56it's

00:44:56impossible

00:44:57Ryan

00:44:59how did

00:45:00you feel

00:45:00watching that

00:45:01back

00:45:01yeah there

00:45:03was some

00:45:03times there

00:45:04where I was

00:45:04indelicate

00:45:05for sure

00:45:06I have

00:45:08definitely

00:45:09made mistakes

00:45:09100%

00:45:11I'll take

00:45:12full accountability

00:45:12for that

00:45:13but like

00:45:14you're saying

00:45:14you couldn't

00:45:14get through

00:45:15to me

00:45:15and what

00:45:15not

00:45:15but like

00:45:16in week

00:45:17two

00:45:17you wanted

00:45:17a different

00:45:18man

00:45:18and then

00:45:19in week

00:45:19three

00:45:19you were

00:45:20texting

00:45:20another

00:45:20groom

00:45:21like

00:45:22there's

00:45:23just

00:45:23all these

00:45:23examples

00:45:24of her

00:45:24being

00:45:25so

00:45:25apparently

00:45:26dissatisfied

00:45:27with me

00:45:27and continuing

00:45:28to write

00:45:28stay

00:45:28if you

00:45:31were so

00:45:31unhappy

00:45:32and you're

00:45:32so dissatisfied

00:45:33with your

00:45:33man

00:45:33he's not

00:45:34up to

00:45:34scratch

00:45:34he's not

00:45:34meeting your

00:45:35standards

00:45:35he's not

00:45:35blonde

00:45:36he's not

00:45:3664

00:45:36he's not

00:45:37a multi

00:45:38millionaire

00:45:38he doesn't

00:45:38want to be

00:45:38a stay

00:45:39at home

00:45:39dad

00:45:39like the

00:45:39criticisms

00:45:40were

00:45:40endless

00:45:41why did

00:45:43you continue

00:45:43to write

00:45:44stay

00:45:44yeah

00:45:46I

00:45:47maybe

00:45:48everyone treats

00:45:48the experiment

00:45:49differently

00:45:49I thought

00:45:49that I

00:45:50wanted to

00:45:51give it

00:45:51a go

00:45:51I didn't

00:45:51want to

00:45:52throw away

00:45:52the chance

00:45:53to be

00:45:53matched

00:45:53with someone

00:45:54that I'm

00:45:54supposed to

00:45:55be compatible

00:45:55with my husband

00:45:58it just doesn't

00:45:58make sense

00:45:58to me

00:45:59even now

00:45:59I was sweeping

00:46:01my feelings

00:46:02under the rug

00:46:03so that we

00:46:03could try

00:46:04and I

00:46:05could be

00:46:05patient

00:46:06and have

00:46:06hope

00:46:06that with

00:46:06time

00:46:07you would

00:46:07change

00:46:07that's not

00:46:09what this

00:46:09experiment

00:46:09is about

00:46:10it's not

00:46:10about ignoring

00:46:11your feelings

00:46:11it's not

00:46:12about

00:46:12constant

00:46:13criticism

00:46:13you can

00:46:14see

00:46:14I did

00:46:15not

00:46:15ignore

00:46:15my feelings

00:46:16I tried

00:46:16to bring

00:46:16them up

00:46:17and you

00:46:17shut

00:46:17me

00:46:17down

00:46:17every

00:46:18time

00:46:18Brian

00:46:18I was

00:46:20so keen

00:46:21to talk

00:46:21to you

00:46:21about

00:46:22everything

00:46:22that's

00:46:32not

00:46:32what

00:46:33this

00:46:33experiment

00:46:33is

00:46:33about

00:46:34it's

00:46:34not

00:46:34about

00:46:34ignoring

00:46:35your

00:46:35feelings

00:46:35it's

00:46:35not

00:46:35about

00:46:36constant

00:46:36criticism

00:46:37you can

00:46:38see

00:46:38I did

00:46:38not

00:46:38ignore

00:46:39my

00:46:39feelings

00:46:39I tried

00:46:40to bring

00:46:40them up

00:46:40and you

00:46:40shut

00:46:41me

00:46:41down

00:46:41every

00:46:41time

00:46:42Brian

00:46:42I was

00:46:43so keen

00:46:44to talk

00:46:44to you

00:46:44about

00:46:45everything

00:46:45now

00:46:49you're

00:46:49yelling

00:46:50that's

00:46:50not

00:46:50going

00:46:50to

00:46:50solve

00:46:50anything

00:46:51okay

00:46:52because

00:46:52at the

00:46:53end

00:46:53of the

00:46:53day

00:46:53you

00:46:53say

00:46:54one

00:46:54thing

00:46:54then

00:46:54you

00:46:55do

00:46:55another

00:46:55you

00:46:56were

00:46:56spinning

00:46:56my

00:46:56head

00:46:56around

00:46:57every

00:46:57day

00:46:57I

00:46:57was

00:46:57walking

00:46:58on

00:46:58eggshells

00:46:58and

00:46:58then

00:46:59you

00:47:00said

00:47:00I

00:47:01don't

00:47:01change

00:47:01this

00:47:02is

00:47:02who

00:47:02I

00:47:02am

00:47:02this

00:47:03is

00:47:03the

00:47:03man

00:47:03she's

00:47:04trying

00:47:04to

00:47:04change

00:47:04me

00:47:04but

00:47:05the

00:47:05reality

00:47:06is

00:47:06like

00:47:06your

00:47:07behavior

00:47:07just

00:47:07never

00:47:08got

00:47:08up

00:47:08to

00:47:08scratch

00:47:08it

00:47:09was

00:47:10impossible

00:47:10to

00:47:10build

00:47:11a

00:47:11relationship

00:47:11with

00:47:11you

00:47:11I

00:47:11don't

00:47:12think

00:47:12we

00:47:12had

00:47:12any

00:47:12real

00:47:12communication

00:47:13right

00:47:13from

00:47:13the

00:47:14beginning

00:47:14what

00:47:15about

00:47:16the

00:47:16times

00:47:16when

00:47:16you

00:47:16sat

00:47:17on

00:47:17this

00:47:17couch

00:47:17and

00:47:19presented

00:47:19a

00:47:20really

00:47:20happy

00:47:21situation

00:47:22going

00:47:22on

00:47:22between

00:47:22you

00:47:23that

00:47:23was

00:47:23genuine

00:47:24I

00:47:24truly

00:47:25believe

00:47:25that

00:47:25was

00:47:25genuine

00:47:26okay

00:47:27for

00:47:27me

00:47:27I

00:47:27didn't

00:47:28have

00:47:28a

00:47:29voice

00:47:29and

00:47:30that's

00:47:30what

00:47:30made

00:47:30it

00:47:30work

00:47:31like

00:47:31that's

00:47:31excellent

00:47:32actually

00:47:32ignoring

00:47:33my

00:47:33feelings

00:47:34ignoring

00:47:34how hurt

00:47:35I was

00:47:35feeling

00:47:35and

00:47:37just

00:47:37putting

00:47:37on

00:47:37a

00:47:38brave

00:47:38faith

00:47:38a

00:47:39show

00:47:39it

00:47:40wasn't

00:47:40a

00:47:41show

00:47:41a

00:47:41performance

00:47:42and

00:47:42that's

00:47:42what

00:47:43brave

00:47:43people

00:47:44do

00:47:44every

00:47:44day

00:47:45before

00:47:46we

00:47:46get

00:47:46into

00:47:46what

00:47:46he

00:47:46said

00:47:46she

00:47:47said

00:47:47again

00:47:47Clint

00:47:48now

00:47:49that

00:47:49you're

00:47:49in

00:47:49a

00:47:49relationship

00:47:50with

00:47:50Jackie

00:47:51I'm

00:47:51intrigued

00:47:52about

00:47:53what

00:47:53your

00:47:53take

00:47:54is

00:47:55on

00:47:55their

00:47:56relationship

00:47:57watching

00:47:59the

00:47:59video

00:48:00was

00:48:00exactly

00:48:01what

00:48:01Jackie

00:48:02described

00:48:02went

00:48:03on

00:48:03and

00:48:06I

00:48:06just

00:48:06cannot

00:48:06believe

00:48:07some

00:48:07of

00:48:07the

00:48:07behaviour

00:48:08that

00:48:08he's

00:48:08demonstrated

00:48:08to a

00:48:09female

00:48:09it's

00:48:10actually

00:48:10disgraceful

00:48:10and

00:48:12even

00:48:12from

00:48:12seeing

00:48:13Jackie

00:48:13on

00:48:14there

00:48:14is

00:48:14that

00:48:14any

00:48:15alarms

00:48:16that

00:48:16you've

00:48:16seen

00:48:16watching

00:48:16Jackie

00:48:17not

00:48:18at

00:48:18all

00:48:18not

00:48:19at

00:48:19all

00:48:19I've

00:48:23actually

00:48:23fallen

00:48:23more

00:48:24for her

00:48:24since

00:48:24I've

00:48:25just

00:48:25watched

00:48:25that

00:48:25Jackie

00:48:32I'm

00:48:32interested

00:48:33to

00:48:33know

00:48:33what

00:48:34you've

00:48:35learnt

00:48:35from

00:48:36being

00:48:36in

00:48:37this

00:48:37experiment

00:48:37I've

00:48:40learnt

00:48:40a lot

00:48:40I've

00:48:41definitely

00:48:41learnt

00:48:41a lot

00:48:41about

00:48:41myself

00:48:42I've

00:48:43learnt

00:48:43that

00:48:43I

00:48:44can

00:48:44be

00:48:44confusing

00:48:45and

00:48:46I've

00:48:46also

00:48:46learnt

00:48:46not

00:48:47to

00:48:47try

00:48:47and

00:48:47change

00:48:47someone

00:48:48even

00:48:49going

00:48:49through

00:48:49the

00:48:49challenges

00:48:50even

00:48:50though

00:48:50we

00:48:51didn't

00:48:52work

00:48:52out

00:48:52in

00:48:52the

00:48:52end

00:48:53I

00:48:54can

00:48:54still

00:48:54take

00:48:54those

00:48:54learnings

00:48:55from

00:48:55every

00:48:55challenge

00:48:55know

00:48:56what

00:48:56would

00:48:56make

00:48:56a

00:48:57relationship

00:48:58successful

00:48:59in

00:48:59the

00:48:59future

00:48:59so

00:49:00I'm

00:49:01really

00:49:01happy

00:49:02with

00:49:02my

00:49:03experience

00:49:03to

00:49:05you

00:49:05Ryan

00:49:05what

00:49:07do

00:49:07you

00:49:07think

00:49:07you've

00:49:08learnt

00:49:08from

00:49:09this

00:49:09experiment

00:49:09I've

00:49:11learnt

00:49:11so much

00:49:12more

00:49:12about

00:49:12sensitivity

00:49:13you need

00:49:14to be

00:49:14able to

00:49:15lean

00:49:15more

00:49:15into

00:49:15the

00:49:16feminine

00:49:16side

00:49:16of

00:49:17a

00:49:17relationship

00:49:17because

00:49:17that's

00:49:18the

00:49:18fabric

00:49:18that

00:49:18holds

00:49:18things

00:49:19together

00:49:19but

00:49:20the

00:49:20ending

00:49:21is

00:49:21not

00:49:21what

00:49:21I

00:49:21wanted

00:49:22I

00:49:23still

00:49:23do

00:49:24feel

00:49:24betrayed

00:49:24yeah

00:49:27well

00:49:30what a

00:49:31ride

00:49:31it's

00:49:32been

00:49:32for

00:49:32not

00:49:32just

00:49:33you

00:49:33but

00:49:33everybody

00:49:33that's

00:49:34been

00:49:34close

00:49:35to

00:49:35you

00:49:35Jackie

00:49:37you

00:49:37are

00:49:37now

00:49:38riding

00:49:39off

00:49:39into

00:49:39the

00:49:39sunset

00:49:39with

00:49:40Clint

00:49:40and

00:49:42we

00:49:42wish

00:49:42you

00:49:42all

00:49:43the

00:49:43best

00:49:43for

00:49:43that

00:49:43and

00:49:44for

00:49:45you

00:49:45Ryan

00:49:45the

00:49:46future

00:49:46is

00:49:46bright

00:49:47it

00:49:48is

00:49:48so

00:49:49good

00:49:49luck

00:49:49with

00:49:50it

00:49:50all

00:49:50thank

00:49:50you

00:49:50guys

00:49:51next

00:50:00up

00:50:00on

00:50:00the

00:50:00couch

00:50:01Karina

00:50:06and

00:50:06Paul

00:50:07we

00:50:16have

00:50:16a lot

00:50:17to

00:50:17unpack

00:50:17yes

00:50:18it

00:50:19is

00:50:20very

00:50:20clear

00:50:21from

00:50:21last

00:50:21night

00:50:22that

00:50:22Karina

00:50:23you

00:50:24chose

00:50:24to

00:50:25not

00:50:25be

00:50:25in

00:50:25the

00:50:25relationship

00:50:26anymore

00:50:26at

00:50:27final

00:50:27vows

00:50:28where

00:50:30do

00:50:31you

00:50:31guys

00:50:31stand

00:50:32currently

00:50:32Paul

00:50:37so

00:50:39obviously

00:50:40when I

00:50:40heard

00:50:41Karina's

00:50:41decision

00:50:41I

00:50:42was

00:50:42I

00:50:42was

00:50:43I

00:50:43was

00:50:43heart

00:50:43broken

00:50:44that

00:50:45rejection

00:50:45interested

00:50:46interested

00:50:47sit

00:50:48well

00:50:48with

00:50:48me

00:50:48but

00:50:51yeah

00:50:51and

00:50:51then

00:50:51after

00:50:52being

00:50:53home

00:50:53for

00:50:53about

00:50:54four

00:50:54days

00:50:55I

00:50:55was

00:50:55just

00:50:56able

00:50:56to

00:50:56reflect

00:50:58on

00:50:58the

00:50:58whole

00:50:58experiment

00:50:59and

00:51:01all

00:51:01these

00:51:02arguments

00:51:02that

00:51:02we've

00:51:02had

00:51:03and

00:51:04all

00:51:04these

00:51:04little

00:51:04issues

00:51:04that

00:51:05we've

00:51:05had

00:51:05and

00:51:06the

00:51:06question

00:51:06I

00:51:07asked

00:51:07myself

00:51:07was

00:51:07okay

00:51:08are

00:51:08we

00:51:09as

00:51:10compatible

00:51:10as

00:51:11I

00:51:11thought

00:51:11we

00:51:12were

00:51:12so

00:51:16Paul

00:51:17just

00:51:18to be

00:51:18clear

00:51:18what

00:51:19are

00:51:19the

00:51:19reasons

00:51:19that

00:51:20you

00:51:20feel

00:51:21make

00:51:22you

00:51:22not

00:51:22compatible

00:51:23with

00:51:23Karina

00:51:23you

00:51:26know

00:51:26like

00:51:26for

00:51:26example

00:51:27the

00:51:27fact

00:51:27that

00:51:28she

00:51:28weren't

00:51:28really

00:51:28able

00:51:29to

00:51:30take

00:51:30on

00:51:30much

00:51:30criticism

00:51:31like

00:51:31throughout

00:51:32the

00:51:32show

00:51:32and

00:51:34then

00:51:35I

00:51:35felt

00:51:35like

00:51:35every

00:51:35time

00:51:35I

00:51:35was

00:51:36trying

00:51:36to

00:51:36raise

00:51:36certain

00:51:36concerns

00:51:37it

00:51:38always

00:51:38sort

00:51:38of

00:51:38blew

00:51:38back

00:51:38in

00:51:39my

00:51:39face

00:51:39and

00:51:45then

00:51:45the

00:51:45second

00:51:45thing

00:51:45was

00:51:46the

00:51:46fact

00:51:46that

00:51:47she

00:51:47has

00:51:47been

00:51:47quite

00:51:48judgmental

00:51:49in

00:51:49a

00:51:50fair

00:51:50few

00:51:50situations

00:51:51my

00:51:55major

00:51:55concern

00:51:56was

00:51:56the

00:51:56fact

00:51:56that

00:51:56Karina

00:51:57wasn't

00:51:58really

00:51:59showing

00:51:59me

00:51:59her

00:52:00true

00:52:00self

00:52:00because

00:52:01she

00:52:01worries

00:52:02a lot

00:52:02about

00:52:03her

00:52:03image

00:52:03I

00:52:07always

00:52:07felt

00:52:07like

00:52:07sometimes

00:52:08Karina

00:52:09was

00:52:09you

00:52:09know

00:52:10making

00:52:11decision

00:52:11or basing

00:52:12her

00:52:12decisions

00:52:12based

00:52:14on

00:52:14what

00:52:14other

00:52:15people

00:52:15might

00:52:15potentially

00:52:16think

00:52:16of

00:52:16her

00:52:16and

00:52:19that

00:52:19to me

00:52:19it just

00:52:20doesn't

00:52:20suit up

00:52:20with me

00:52:21like

00:52:23it's

00:52:24not being

00:52:24fully

00:52:25authentic

00:52:25Karina

00:52:29said

00:52:29to me

00:52:29you said

00:52:30I didn't

00:52:30want

00:52:30people

00:52:31to

00:52:31think

00:52:31that

00:52:32I'm

00:52:32not

00:52:32the

00:52:32kind

00:52:32of

00:52:33person

00:52:33who

00:52:33stands

00:52:33for

00:52:33what

00:52:34I

00:52:34believe

00:52:34what

00:52:38is

00:52:38wrong

00:52:38with

00:52:39that

00:52:39well

00:52:42because

00:52:42she

00:52:43should

00:52:43make

00:52:43her

00:52:43decision

00:52:43based

00:52:44on

00:52:44what

00:52:44she

00:52:44truly

00:52:44wants

00:52:45towards

00:52:46the

00:52:46relationship

00:52:47towards

00:52:47me

00:52:47not

00:52:48based

00:52:48on

00:52:48what

00:52:48other

00:52:48people

00:52:49are

00:52:49going

00:52:49to

00:52:49think

00:52:49of

00:52:50whatever

00:52:51the

00:52:51decision

00:52:51she's

00:52:52going

00:52:52to

00:52:52make

00:52:52but

00:52:55the

00:52:55common

00:52:55denominator

00:52:56in

00:52:57that

00:52:57equation

00:52:58is

00:52:59her

00:52:59standing

00:53:00by

00:53:00her

00:53:00beliefs

00:53:01do

00:53:04you

00:53:05agree

00:53:05or not

00:53:05she

00:53:06was

00:53:06talking

00:53:07about

00:53:07the

00:53:07issue

00:53:07to

00:53:07herself

00:53:08and

00:53:08her

00:53:08beliefs

00:53:09I

00:53:10would

00:53:10appreciate

00:53:11it

00:53:11Paul

00:53:11if

00:53:12you

00:53:12do

00:53:12not

00:53:12speak

00:53:12over

00:53:12me

00:53:13the

00:53:21common

00:53:21denominator

00:53:22in

00:53:22that

00:53:22equation

00:53:23is

00:53:24her

00:53:24standing

00:53:24by

00:53:24her

00:53:25beliefs

00:53:25do

00:53:26you

00:53:27agree

00:53:27or not

00:53:27she

00:53:28was

00:53:28talking

00:53:28about

00:53:28seeing

00:53:29true

00:53:29to

00:53:29herself

00:53:29and

00:53:30her

00:53:30beliefs

00:53:30I

00:53:31would

00:53:32appreciate

00:53:32it

00:53:32Paul

00:53:33if

00:53:33you

00:53:33do

00:53:33not

00:53:33speak

00:53:34over

00:53:34me

00:53:34hey

00:53:38Paul

00:53:38the

00:53:39mistakes

00:53:40you

00:53:40made

00:53:40early

00:53:41in

00:53:41this

00:53:41experiment

00:53:41and

00:53:42Karina

00:53:42forgave

00:53:43you

00:53:43multiple

00:53:43times

00:53:44I

00:53:45don't

00:53:45think

00:53:45she

00:53:45was

00:53:45worried

00:53:46about

00:53:46what

00:53:46other

00:53:46people

00:53:46thought

00:53:47because

00:53:47if

00:53:47she

00:53:47was

00:53:47she

00:53:48wouldn't

00:53:48have

00:53:48forgiven

00:53:48you

00:53:48she

00:53:50wrote

00:53:50for

00:53:50you

00:53:50she

00:53:51wrote

00:53:51for

00:53:51you

00:53:51hard

00:53:52I

00:53:54have

00:53:54been

00:53:54so

00:53:54genuine

00:53:55throughout

00:53:55this

00:53:55whole

00:53:55experiment

00:53:56you

00:53:57threw

00:53:58me

00:53:58under

00:53:58the

00:53:58bus

00:53:58multiple

00:53:59times

00:53:59you

00:54:00weren't

00:54:00giving

00:54:00me

00:54:00the

00:54:01reassurance

00:54:01you

00:54:01made

00:54:01me

00:54:02feel

00:54:02so

00:54:02insecure

00:54:03I

00:54:05literally

00:54:05tried

00:54:06to

00:54:06stick

00:54:06out

00:54:06and

00:54:07make

00:54:07it

00:54:07work

00:54:08I

00:54:12think

00:54:12this

00:54:12is

00:54:12a

00:54:12good

00:54:13time

00:54:13to

00:54:14look

00:54:14back

00:54:14on

00:54:14your

00:54:14journey

00:54:15and

00:54:15this

00:54:15experiment

00:54:18hi

00:54:24how are you

00:54:25I'm good

00:54:26how are you

00:54:27I'm good

00:54:28god you're

00:54:29gorgeous

00:54:29oh that's

00:54:31so nice

00:54:32je m'engage

00:54:33dans cette

00:54:34expérience

00:54:34avec le coeur

00:54:35ouvert

00:54:35et un profond

00:54:37désir

00:54:38de retrouver

00:54:38l'amour

00:54:39et qu'il

00:54:41nous pousse

00:54:41à affronter

00:54:42ensemble

00:54:42I know

00:54:45il

00:54:46il

00:54:46wasn't

00:54:46in a

00:54:47second

00:54:47babe

00:54:47he

00:54:48just

00:54:49stopped

00:54:50texting

00:54:50he

00:54:51ghosted

00:54:52me

00:54:52yeah

00:54:53so

00:54:55Karina

00:54:56and I

00:54:57actually

00:54:57met

00:54:57about

00:54:58a

00:54:58year

00:54:58ago

00:54:58you're

00:54:58kidding

00:54:59me

00:54:59no

00:55:00no

00:55:00but

00:55:00we

00:55:00just

00:55:00went

00:55:01our

00:55:01separate

00:55:01ways

00:55:01I

00:55:02was

00:55:02going

00:55:03through

00:55:03a bit

00:55:03of a

00:55:03rough

00:55:03patch

00:55:04at

00:55:04that

00:55:04point

00:55:04okay

00:55:05the

00:55:06only

00:55:06mistake

00:55:06I've

00:55:07done

00:55:07was

00:55:07to

00:55:07not

00:55:08communicate

00:55:09that

00:55:09you

00:55:09know

00:55:09and I

00:55:10could

00:55:10have

00:55:10communicated

00:55:10that

00:55:11a

00:55:11little

00:55:11bit

00:55:11better

00:55:11my

00:55:12family

00:55:12are

00:55:13so

00:55:13important

00:55:13to

00:55:13me

00:55:14so

00:55:14that

00:55:14was

00:55:15definitely

00:55:15a

00:55:15big

00:55:15tick

00:55:16I'm

00:55:17smitten

00:55:18honestly

00:55:19like

00:55:20she

00:55:20is

00:55:20perfect

00:55:21I

00:55:24just

00:55:24feel

00:55:24like

00:55:25we're

00:55:25both

00:55:25walking

00:55:26on like

00:55:26a

00:55:26romantic

00:55:27bubble

00:55:28there

00:55:29was

00:55:29intimacy

00:55:30with

00:55:30Paul

00:55:30last

00:55:31night

00:55:31let's

00:55:32say

00:55:32that

00:55:32we

00:55:32are

00:55:32compatible

00:55:33I

00:55:38feel

00:55:39like

00:55:39I've

00:55:40won

00:55:40the

00:55:40jackpot

00:55:41so

00:55:43last

00:55:43night

00:55:44things

00:55:44just

00:55:44got

00:55:45a

00:55:45little

00:55:45bit

00:55:45heated

00:55:45I

00:55:46said

00:55:47I've

00:55:47slept

00:55:47with

00:55:48this

00:55:48rapper

00:55:48and

00:55:50Paul

00:55:51obviously

00:55:51got

00:55:52offended

00:55:52by it

00:55:53and

00:55:53he

00:55:53got

00:55:53really

00:55:54angry

00:55:54and

00:55:54he

00:55:54punched

00:55:55the

00:55:55wall

00:55:56I

00:55:59was

00:55:59so

00:56:01angry

00:56:01at

00:56:01that

00:56:01comment

00:56:02in

00:56:02the

00:56:02cab

00:56:02I

00:56:03felt

00:56:03so

00:56:04disrespected

00:56:04like

00:56:04I

00:56:05was

00:56:05just

00:56:05like

00:56:05whoa

00:56:05what

00:56:06the

00:56:06hell

00:56:06I

00:56:07just

00:56:07felt

00:56:07like

00:56:07an

00:56:07idiot

00:56:08and

00:56:08I

00:56:09could

00:56:09hear

00:56:10you

00:56:10trying

00:56:10to

00:56:10apologise

00:56:11I

00:56:12just

00:56:12I

00:56:13couldn't

00:56:13really

00:56:13take

00:56:13your

00:56:14apology

00:56:14sincerely

00:56:15because

00:56:15it was

00:56:16like

00:56:16I'm

00:56:16sorry

00:56:16but

00:56:17because

00:56:22owned

00:56:22up to

00:56:23his

00:56:23actions

00:56:23and

00:56:24what

00:56:24he

00:56:24did

00:56:24like

00:56:25I

00:56:25can

00:56:25see

00:56:25it

00:56:26that

00:56:26he's

00:56:27sad

00:56:28and

00:56:28I'm

00:56:29going to

00:56:29have to

00:56:30make

00:56:30that up

00:56:30to

00:56:30Karina

00:56:31of

00:56:31course

00:56:31I

00:56:32a bit

00:56:32of

00:56:33a

00:56:33snob

00:56:33sometimes

00:56:33and

00:56:34can

00:56:35come

00:56:35across

00:56:35as

00:56:36very

00:56:36judgy

00:56:37and

00:56:37I'll

00:56:37be

00:56:37honest

00:56:38with

00:56:38you

00:56:38this

00:56:38is

00:56:38giving

00:56:39me

00:56:39the

00:56:39ick

00:56:39and

00:56:41I'm

00:56:41not

00:56:41going to

00:56:41lie

00:56:42when

00:56:42I

00:56:42told

00:56:43Karina

00:56:43about

00:56:44Cleo

00:56:44she

00:56:45said

00:56:45oh

00:56:45I

00:56:45didn't

00:56:46know

00:56:46you

00:56:46would

00:56:46go

00:56:46for

00:56:46that

00:56:46kind

00:56:47of

00:56:47caliber

00:56:47yeah

00:56:49wow

00:56:49you know

00:56:50there's

00:56:53been

00:56:53multiple

00:56:54times

00:56:54where

00:56:54I've

00:56:55noticed

00:56:55some

00:56:55contradiction

00:56:56between

00:56:56the

00:56:56way

00:56:56she

00:56:57portrays

00:56:57herself

00:56:58and

00:56:59some

00:56:59of her

00:56:59behaviours

00:57:00or

00:57:00actions

00:57:00yeah

00:57:02so I

00:57:02feel like

00:57:03she's a

00:57:04bit of

00:57:04a

00:57:04sorry

00:57:07what am I

00:57:08yeah I

00:57:08feel like

00:57:08she

00:57:09what am I

00:57:10yeah

00:57:10I feel like

00:57:13she is

00:57:13and she

00:57:14can come

00:57:14across

00:57:15as very

00:57:16judgy

00:57:16were there

00:57:17any

00:57:17parts

00:57:18that you

00:57:18left out

00:57:18no

00:57:19were there

00:57:22words

00:57:22of your

00:57:22letter

00:57:23that you

00:57:23left out

00:57:23well I

00:57:25reread

00:57:26your

00:57:26letter

00:57:26and why

00:57:28did you

00:57:29miss out

00:57:29the part

00:57:30of saying

00:57:30I was

00:57:31a snob

00:57:31when I

00:57:34asked you

00:57:34in interview

00:57:35earlier

00:57:36if there

00:57:37were any

00:57:37words you

00:57:38left out

00:57:38of your

00:57:38letter

00:57:38you said

00:57:40no

00:57:40why was

00:57:44that

00:57:45you know

00:57:49to be

00:57:50fair I

00:57:50wasn't

00:57:51like 100%

00:57:52over the

00:57:52exact meaning

00:57:53of snob

00:57:53come on

00:57:55man

00:57:55we can

00:58:01now reveal

00:58:02that during

00:58:02the matchmaking

00:58:03process

00:58:03there was

00:58:04more than

00:58:04one person

00:58:05you were

00:58:05compatible

00:58:06with

00:58:06your partner

00:58:07is receiving

00:58:08the exact

00:58:08same task

00:58:09and will

00:58:10also decide

00:58:10whether to

00:58:11meet this

00:58:12other match

00:58:13do you

00:58:14think Paul

00:58:15would go

00:58:15today

00:58:16no I

00:58:17think

00:58:18I don't

00:58:18think Paul

00:58:19would make

00:58:19that idiotic

00:58:21decision

00:58:21to go

00:58:22hello

00:58:26so yes

00:58:28what do you

00:58:29do in life

00:58:30I like to

00:58:31hike

00:58:31so you're an

00:58:32outdoorsy person

00:58:33yeah

00:58:34well same

00:58:35I'm actually

00:58:36also a very

00:58:36outdoorsy person

00:58:37the more

00:58:38outdoor stuff

00:58:39I can do

00:58:39the better

00:58:39makes me happy

00:58:40why didn't

00:58:43work out

00:58:43with your

00:58:43wife

00:58:43oh no

00:58:44everything is

00:58:45working really

00:58:45well with my

00:58:46wife

00:58:46oh really

00:58:47so if you're

00:58:48so happy

00:58:49why are you

00:58:50here

00:58:50yeah this is

00:58:52why I'm

00:58:53single

00:58:53because there's

00:58:55married men

00:58:55that are always

00:58:56looking for

00:58:56more

00:58:57so I've got

00:59:07good news

00:59:08yes

00:59:08oh yay

00:59:09what do you mean

00:59:10oh

00:59:11did you go

00:59:11no I did

00:59:12I did

00:59:13but don't

00:59:13but like

00:59:13don't worry

00:59:14when I got

00:59:14there

00:59:14well I'm

00:59:15able to run

00:59:16away

00:59:16like

00:59:17ew

00:59:17it was so

00:59:18weird

00:59:18as soon as

00:59:19I met

00:59:19her first

00:59:20of all

00:59:20physically

00:59:20what the

00:59:21hell

00:59:21like

00:59:22literally

00:59:22Barbie

00:59:23doll

00:59:23I was

00:59:23like

00:59:24pig

00:59:25oh

00:59:26when I was

00:59:28sitting there

00:59:28it just

00:59:29just so you

00:59:29know

00:59:30it just

00:59:30made me

00:59:30realise

00:59:31how

00:59:32how much

00:59:33I like

00:59:33you

00:59:33how much

00:59:33I like

00:59:34our

00:59:34relationship

00:59:34literally

00:59:35the entire

00:59:36time

00:59:37spoke about

00:59:38you

00:59:38it's not

00:59:40cheating

00:59:40it is

00:59:41I don't

00:59:41appreciate

00:59:41that

00:59:42you should

00:59:42know my

00:59:43morals

00:59:43you idiot

00:59:44like

00:59:44that's not

00:59:45cool

00:59:46you literally

00:59:47went on a

00:59:48date with

00:59:48another

00:59:48woman

00:59:49I haven't

00:59:49gone

00:59:49out of

00:59:50nowhere

00:59:51to

00:59:51date

00:59:52it's

00:59:52your

00:59:52while I'm

00:59:53here

00:59:53washing

00:59:54your

00:59:54clothes

00:59:55I'm

00:59:55embarrassed

00:59:56you think

00:59:56Rhi and

00:59:57Jeff

00:59:57would do

00:59:57something

00:59:57like that

00:59:58who kissed

00:59:58but the other

00:59:59couple

00:59:59there's no

00:59:59point in

01:00:00caring

01:00:00I've

01:00:01played so

01:00:02much more

01:00:03than this

01:00:03I'm actually

01:00:04so much

01:00:04better than

01:00:05this

01:00:05Paul

01:00:10I can't

01:00:12ignore the

01:00:12good times

01:00:13in the

01:00:13experiment

01:00:14where you

01:00:14made me feel

01:00:15special and

01:00:15cared for

01:00:16and loved

01:00:17however

01:00:19you were

01:00:23given a

01:00:23test which

01:00:24you failed

01:00:25so close

01:00:25to the

01:00:26end

01:00:26Paul

01:00:27I was

01:00:28yours

01:00:28you had

01:00:29me

01:00:30and you

01:00:31ruined

01:00:32it

01:00:32I don't

01:00:44have it

01:00:44in me

01:00:45anymore

01:00:45to

01:00:45continue

01:00:46to

01:00:46forgive

01:00:47I made

01:00:48this

01:00:48decision

01:00:49for my

01:00:49future

01:00:50Karina

01:00:50self

01:00:51I just

01:00:53want to

01:00:54I don't

01:00:54know

01:00:54I just

01:00:54feel like

01:00:55asking you

01:00:55to

01:00:55maybe

01:00:57try a

01:00:58little

01:00:59harder

01:00:59to move

01:00:59past it

01:01:00I just

01:01:01want to

01:01:01try to

01:01:02convince her

01:01:02again

01:01:02you know

01:01:03like

01:01:03if she

01:01:08does

01:01:08I'll

01:01:09be here

01:01:10with

01:01:10open arms

01:01:10I'm

01:01:11cool

01:01:11100%

01:01:12wow

01:01:25Karina

01:01:38just

01:01:39watching

01:01:39your

01:01:39journey

01:01:39back

01:01:40there

01:01:40how

01:01:41does

01:01:42that

01:01:42make

01:01:42you

01:01:42feel

01:01:42yeah

01:01:45just

01:01:46bringing

01:01:47up

01:01:48some

01:01:48uncomfortable

01:01:49situations

01:01:50yeah

01:01:52reaffirming

01:01:53my

01:01:54decision

01:01:55Paul

01:01:59how do

01:02:02you feel

01:02:02after

01:02:02seeing

01:02:03that

01:02:03it was

01:02:05a lot

01:02:05I

01:02:08know

01:02:09I've

01:02:10made

01:02:10a few

01:02:11mistakes

01:02:12along

01:02:12the way

01:02:12but

01:02:13I

01:02:14I

01:02:21Karina

01:02:21has

01:02:22also

01:02:22like

01:02:22probably

01:02:23not as

01:02:23much

01:02:23as I

01:02:24did

01:02:24but

01:02:24Karina

01:02:24has

01:02:24also

01:02:25like

01:02:25did

01:02:25say

01:02:26certain

01:02:27things

01:02:27to me

01:02:28or

01:02:28has

01:02:28done

01:02:28and certain things that have also made me feel extremely uncomfortable and upset at times.

01:02:34Paul, I've had enough.

01:02:39I'm going to tell you the way it is.

01:02:43You have to stop playing the victim.

01:02:46And look at me when I'm talking to you.

01:02:49Because I won't get another chance to give this to you straight.

01:02:58And look at me when I'm talking to you.

01:03:28Look at me when I'm talking to you.

01:03:30Because I won't get another chance to give this to you straight.

01:03:35And you need to change.

01:03:40I have seen a guy who has consistently broken his partner's trust.

01:03:48Not once, not twice, three times.

01:03:52The first thing, you overreacted to a comment in a car.

01:03:59You punched a wall.

01:04:01That's violence.

01:04:03No excuse.

01:04:05You did it and you shouldn't have.

01:04:07The second thing, you talk outside of your relationship to Athena without telling Karina about it.

01:04:20You threw her under the bus.

01:04:23That's betrayal.

01:04:24The third thing, you get a chance to really grow your bond by saying,

01:04:32no, I'm not going to meet another woman for a date.

01:04:36And you say, you know what, I'm curious.

01:04:39I think I will.

01:04:39Are you hearing me?

01:04:46Yes, I'm hearing you, John.

01:04:49Any way you look at it, it's bad.

01:04:51And I don't like to sit this close and watch someone blame the person who's been on the receiving end of that.

01:05:02Rolling your eyes, shrugging, saying she's not compatible because of these reasons.

01:05:07Frankly, it just made me sick in the stomach.

01:05:16This must be a wake-up call to you.

01:05:19It is.

01:05:21Karina, I'm curious.

01:05:27How do you feel?

01:05:29Um, I wanted the fairytale ending and I didn't get it.

01:05:35So, yeah, it's disappointing.

01:05:39I just wish you kind of switched on a little bit more

01:05:43and considered the repercussions and how you would make me feel

01:05:47by making, like, choosing what you did.

01:05:50I'm sorry.

01:05:58Yeah, so I think my question is to you, are you genuine?

01:06:02It's all it comes down to.

01:06:03What do you mean?

01:06:05If he wanted to be in this experiment for the right reasons?

01:06:08Well, ask him.

01:06:11Of course not.

01:06:11I already have.

01:06:12Of course not.

01:06:12And you know, you know, you know.

01:06:14Yeah.

01:06:14Because taking you on dates, doing fun stuff together.

01:06:17I was genuinely, I was loving spending time with you.

01:06:21And I know I've made some terrible mistakes.

01:06:25Like, I know I'm not perfect and I know there's a lot of work that I need to do on myself.

01:06:30I know that.

01:06:31As much as it's hard to hear, I know I need to, there's a lot of things that I need to improve.

01:06:36And what about you, Karina?

01:06:41Have you taken away any lessons from this?

01:06:44Yeah.

01:06:45I think the biggest thing for me is pretty much to just trust my gut and be more confident within myself.

01:06:52I know I'm, like, a bit more chilled and laid back and I tolerate more things than I should.

01:06:57So I need to be more firm.

01:07:01Yeah.

01:07:03Well, look, when you came into the experiment, there were high hopes.

01:07:07But tonight was very important, you know, because these are opportunities to learn.

01:07:12And this experiment is, yes, you want to try and get the fairy tale.

01:07:16But if you don't, it's very important to change the way in which you're operating in relationships.

01:07:23And I know it's been difficult at times, but we really wish the both of you all the best for what's to come.

01:07:31So thank you, guys.

01:07:35You should go back.

01:07:42Coming up...

01:07:44Have you dropped the I love you yet?

01:07:46Uh...

01:07:47The relationship update we've all been waiting for.

01:07:51We actually haven't said that, um...

01:07:53My time right now!

01:07:57Um...

01:07:57Don't leave us hanging.

01:07:59I...

01:08:00Next up on the couch...

01:08:15Rhi and Geoff.

01:08:20Hi.

01:08:20Well, I have to say, we are all so happy to see the two of you still together, loved up.

01:08:32Wow.

01:08:33Yeah.

01:08:35How's it all going?

01:08:37Uh, yeah, it's going great.

01:08:39Since we left the experiment, I think we've had about one or two days apart from each other.

01:08:43Wow.

01:08:44All the things we love doing in the experiment translated perfectly into the real world.

01:08:51We've hung out with our friends and go to the gym together still and lunches and dinners and...

01:08:56It's just been really, really nice.

01:08:58Yeah.

01:08:59What do you think is the secret to that?

01:09:01Because a lot of couples sit on this couch and talk about taking the relationship out of the experiment into the real world and it's really difficult.

01:09:13Yeah.

01:09:13Why do you think you found it easy?

01:09:15I think because we did what we said we were going to do.

01:09:19Geoff, like, never dropped the ball ever.

01:09:21In the experiment and then out of the experiment.

01:09:25He always does what he says he's going to do and he's very consistent.

01:09:30I think we're both very consistent with one another.

01:09:33I feel like Geoff just makes me calm all the time.

01:09:37And, yeah, I feel like that's why it has been so easy outside of the experiment and in as well.

01:09:46Yeah.

01:09:47Well, we would all love to sit here right now and watch your journey in this experiment.

01:09:55Let's do that.

01:09:55Oh, my God.

01:09:56Oh, my God.

01:09:57Oh, my God.

01:10:09Hi, Ray.

01:10:12Hi, Geoff.

01:10:13Yeah.

01:10:14I know my husband.

01:10:16Hello.

01:10:19Well.

01:10:21Hey, guys.

01:10:22I've slept together a few times.

01:10:23Geoff is an amazing person.

01:10:30If there was anyone that you could pair me up with that I'd dated in the past, Geoff's a good pick.

01:10:36I put my faith in the experts.

01:10:38Maybe there's a reason that she was the person that was standing there when I turned around today.

01:10:42So it was Ray the time that got away?

01:10:45Oh, time will tell.

01:10:46Usually, the more I hang out with someone, the less likely I am to see a potential relationship.

01:10:54But with you, the more we are together, the more potential I see in us.

01:10:59P.S.

01:11:00You need to make the first move.

01:11:04Aww.

01:11:04Every day has been better than the last.

01:11:16I feel more comfortable by holding Ray's hand or giving her a cuddle, giving her a kiss.

01:11:21Shelby, dance.

01:11:26I could probably see myself falling for Geoff.

01:11:31I think so.

01:11:32Come back.

01:11:33Oh, yes!

01:11:37We've been intimate.

01:11:39Yay!

01:11:44Wifey!

01:11:45You look so nice!

01:11:49Rhi is home, Rhi is home.

01:11:52I'm so happy Rhi is home.

01:11:55Oh, we're not filming, are we?

01:11:56Oh, we are.

01:11:57Ha, ha, ha!

01:11:58Ha, ha, ha, ha!

01:12:00Ha, ha, ha, ha!

01:12:01Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha!

01:12:05Sheesh!

01:12:06Home sweet home.

01:12:08Back to where it all began.

01:12:09Do you remember the couch the last time?

01:12:11Yes, I remember our first kiss on the couch?

01:12:13Yes, I do.

01:12:14Oh, no, no, no.

01:12:15Yeah, I'm looking forward to getting back to Sydney, but I'm more looking forward to coming

01:12:18back here.

01:12:20Yeah, me too.

01:12:21And in saying that...

01:12:22Ooh.

01:12:24Here's a spare key.

01:12:26That's so cute. Thank you.

01:12:29We can now reveal that during the matchmaking process,

01:12:32there was more than one person you were compatible with.

01:12:36For this final task, you have the opportunity,

01:12:38if you choose to meet them.

01:12:44Definitely not.

01:12:45I don't want to meet them.

01:12:49No.

01:12:50No, back to the Game Boy.

01:12:55Meeting someone else would just be, I think, a bit stupid in my eyes.

01:12:59I would be probably the dumbest person in the world.

01:13:05It's very rare that people go from a romantic relationship to a friendship,

01:13:09then back to a romantic relationship.

01:13:12I just didn't think that I would be able to be romantic with Geoff again,

01:13:16but the task from the experts were extremely helpful.

01:13:20Like, I think they are the reason that we are no longer in the friend zone.

01:13:29You look amazing.

01:13:33RiRi.

01:13:33I can confidently say, RiRi, I am falling in love with you.

01:13:42I choose you, and I hope this is forever.

01:13:46Geoffie, you are worth every day, every week, every month it takes to discover our happily ever after.

01:13:53And right now, I can say, I'm falling in love with you.

01:14:01That's all.

01:14:05That was so good.

01:14:14You're on top of the world.

01:14:16We're on top of the world.

01:14:19Wow.

01:14:20That was so nice to watch.

01:14:21That was so beautiful to watch.

01:14:24Yeah, it's crazy to see where we started and where we are.

01:14:27Yeah.

01:14:28Well, that's about a month ago,

01:14:31and the two of you were both very clearly talking about falling in love with each other.

01:14:36Mm-hmm.

01:14:39Where are you both at today?

01:14:40Have you dropped the I love you yet?

01:14:48We actually haven't said that.

01:14:50No time like now.

01:14:55Don't leave us hanging.

01:14:57I...

01:14:57About a month ago,

01:15:11the two of you were both very clearly talking about falling in love with each other.

01:15:17Mm-hmm.

01:15:19Where are you both at today?

01:15:23Uh...

01:15:24Come on.

01:15:25Don't leave us hanging.

01:15:29Have you dropped the I love you yet?

01:15:31We actually...

01:15:31We actually haven't...

01:15:32We actually haven't said that, um...

01:15:36No, we haven't said it yet.

01:15:37We haven't said that, um...

01:15:40But, um...

01:15:41In saying that...

01:15:45I...

01:15:46I do love you, Ree.

01:15:47Oh!

01:15:48Yeah!

01:15:56I love you, too.

01:16:07He's done it.

01:16:08He's done it.

01:16:09He did it.

01:16:10He did it.

01:16:11Wow, this is wonderful.

01:16:17How does it feel to know that each other

01:16:20has actually uttered those magic words?

01:16:23It feels incredible, I think.

01:16:26We have just been kind of waiting for someone to say it.

01:16:29Yeah, definitely.

01:16:31I guess the prompt was needed.

01:16:33And thank you for the prompt

01:16:35because, yeah, it feels amazing to be honest.

01:16:38So, Geoff, for you, what does the future hold for you and Rhi?

01:16:43I guess the next step would probably be...

01:16:45Baby. Babies!

01:16:48I think just really enjoying normal life,

01:16:50going on some holidays together

01:16:52and maybe living together back in Melbourne or that.

01:16:56Practically living there.

01:16:57Yeah, practically living together already,

01:16:58but, you know, want to enjoy the relationship

01:17:01and just really enjoy that.

01:17:03Yeah, I think that it's just nice to enjoy each other's company

01:17:06and just be, I guess, in the present moment.

01:17:10But, yeah, I definitely want to, like, settle down

01:17:12and have kids one day.

01:17:13But, yeah, for, I guess, the next year,

01:17:16travel and have fun and enjoy each other's company.

01:17:19Well, how happy are the two of you

01:17:20that you met for the second time?

01:17:22Yes.

01:17:23Very happy.

01:17:24Married at second sight.

01:17:25That's it.

01:17:29It has been an amazing journey

01:17:30and, once again, thank you for matching us.

01:17:33Yeah.

01:17:34Obviously, at the start,

01:17:35we were very worried about the matching,

01:17:37but, yeah, timing's everything, I guess,

01:17:39and the timing was right, right now.

01:17:42Yeah.

01:17:48Well, thank you so much for your time in this experiment.

01:17:53Your courage, your authenticity.

01:17:55We salute you and wish you both all the best

01:17:58and all the happiness in the world.

01:17:59Awesome. Thank you so much.

01:18:00Thank you so much.

01:18:01Thank you so much.

01:18:07Well, it has been 12 seasons of MAPS,

01:18:11and just when we thought that we've seen it all,

01:18:15yet again we were proven wrong.

01:18:18For those of you leaving here with love,

01:18:22we wish you all the best.

01:18:24And for those of you walking away single,

01:18:27we hope that you can take the lessons learned here

01:18:31and apply them to your future relationships.

01:18:35Congratulations.

01:18:36You got there.

01:18:37You did it.

01:18:38And we are so proud of you all.

01:18:41Thanks, everyone.

01:18:42Woo!

01:18:48Take care.

01:18:49Take care of yourself.

01:18:53I'm sorry.

01:18:54Oh, look at me.

01:18:55I finally get to hug you.

01:18:57I'll tell you what.

01:18:58I need to find yourself here.

01:18:59High five.

01:19:10Bye.

01:19:11I'll tell you what's happening.

01:19:12Sorry.

01:19:13Bye.

01:19:14Bye.

01:19:15Bye.

01:19:16Bye.

01:19:17Bye.

01:19:18Bye.

01:19:19Bye.

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