This is the part 4 of the series of discussions on the topic 'How to Become an ACTIVE Listener'.
This video explains the last 2 KEY strategies to improve active listening, and conclusion concludes on the series of discussions on how to become an active listener.
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This video explains the last 2 KEY strategies to improve active listening, and conclusion concludes on the series of discussions on how to become an active listener.
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00:00in our last discussion we explained the first five key strategies to improve active listening
00:11in today's talk we will discuss the last two key strategies to improve active listening
00:20we will then conclude on this series of discussions
00:24remember the third key strategy to improve active listening is seek to understand not just to respond
00:38but what if the speaker is too fast in speaking or the speaker is too slow or what if the speaker
00:46is saying things that are not inspiring to you what should you do in this situation
00:54you should apply the sixth key strategy to improve active listening which is be patient and present
01:05when the speaker is saying something whether the speaker is too fast or too slow whether the speaker
01:10is saying things that are not inspiring to you try as much as you can to be patient and present
01:18it is not easy to learn the skill of active listening it is not easy to practice these keys
01:31strategies to improve active listening but the question is do you value the person who is speaking
01:38do you respect the person who is speaking if you value the person who is speaking and if you have respect
01:48for the person who is speaking you must learn the skill of active listening and you must endeavor to apply
01:58the key strategies to improve active listening
02:05when people discuss they are bound to be differences in opinion
02:13in fact when a speaker is speaking there is a likelihood that the speaker will say something that you do
02:20not agree with or something that you find a little bit offensive what should you do in this situation
02:30you should apply the seventh key strategy to improve active listening which is control emotional reactions
02:40when a speaker is saying something whether you agree with it or not even if what the speaker is saying is different from your opinion
02:53or from your own notion control your emotional reactions do not react in a quarrelsome or in an aggressive manner
03:02one of my friends complained that his wife quarters with him whenever he says something that his wife do not agree with
03:15and this my friend confided in me by telling me that his wife's attitude makes him feel discouraged to have any form of conversation with his wife
03:27it is normal for people to discuss and when people discuss different opinions will come up conflicting ideas will come up
03:38should people stop talking to one another just to avoid quarrel the answer is no
03:45uncontrolled emotional reaction hinders effective communication
03:52uncontrolled emotional reaction
03:54uncontrolled emotional reaction hinders expression of thoughts
04:01uncontrolled emotional reaction deteriorates any form of relationship whether secular relationship romantic relationship
04:12relationship between brothers and sisters uncontrolled emotional reaction is a poison to relationship
04:22one another one
04:23so when a speaker says something that you do not agree with respond calmly
04:31not in an aggressive or quarrelsome manner
04:36we have just discussed the seven key strategies to improve active listening which are number one give full
04:45the seven key strategies to improve active listening to the seven key strategies to improve active listening
04:49number three seek to understand not just to respond
04:56number four paraphrase and reflect
05:00number five ask thoughtful questions
05:05number six be patient and present and number seven control emotional reactions
05:13number six be patient many relationships have broken up
05:20due to ineffective communication due to lack of active listening
05:28people love me so much and i'm so proud to say that people love me so much what is my secret
05:34i listen to people i give people listening ears i listen to my beloved wife
05:43i listen to my siblings i listen to my boss and they appreciate me so much because i listen to them
05:52they even reveal secrets to me and whenever i'm around them they appreciate my presence
05:59all because of the fact that i listen to them
06:04there is no respect that is greater than actively listening to somebody
06:10i repeat there is no respect that is greater than actively listening to somebody
06:17practice active listening today and you will definitely improve your communication and improve
06:29your relationship in both personal and professional settings thank you very much my name is mr
06:36sophrochi take care and have a blessed day
06:46you