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First.Dates.Ireland.Season 09 Epissode 08
Software developer Joseph is matched with multilingual tech translator Hyeji - who clearly speaks his language - and musician Ben meets self-confessed weirdo Kyra

Year started: 2016
Categories: Romance

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00:00You know what they say, the heart that loves, it's always young.
00:08After all, I really love you.
00:12Love is what you put out, love is what you take in.
00:15Love is... well...
00:18Love is an action, it's not words.
00:22I'm on a joke, I'm on a joke.
00:25You're not, because every fucking joke is a serious comment.
00:29Still it ends alright, after all, I really need you.
00:36When it comes to guys, Lorraine from Cork has a preference.
00:40Pure decent, but not too decent.
00:43I had a kind of bad boy type.
00:45Do you know, like a boy or like, do you know...
00:50They'd have a fancy car and you'd think, oh I want to be with them
00:54and then they don't all work out like what you see, do you know what I mean?
00:58They're only pricks in the end, really.
01:05Hi, how are you?
01:07You're welcome, madam. Your name please?
01:09Lorraine.
01:10I tried the online day and I tried this and I tried that.
01:13No one's going to knock at my front door, like, do you know.
01:15You're looking great yourself, huh?
01:16Thanks, so are you.
01:17Like, it's nice to have someone with a bit about them.
01:21Something that you're attracted to, but not just the personality as well, like, do you know.
01:25And where are you from?
01:26I'm from Cork.
01:27Okay, lovely.
01:28Yeah.
01:29So, you'll be looking for a Cork guy.
01:31Whatever, like, do you know...
01:32You don't care?
01:33No, I don't.
01:34I didn't cut and pick it until you said, oh, do you know, whatever.
01:36Like, yeah, now I see.
01:37Yeah, I know everyone's like, oh, you're from Cork, I know the accent.
01:39Like, it's a bit of a tick accent.
01:40I'm from the city centre.
01:42Ah, and how are the Cork lads?
01:44Yeah, it's fine, like, but I don't really grow much.
01:47Yeah.
01:48So, I kind of used that, and then I had a daughter, and then...
01:51Okay.
01:52How old is the daughter?
01:53She's eight.
01:54Oh, my friends don't get, they have babies.
01:56I suppose when I think long-term, yeah, I would want to kind of have someone.
02:00It's your time now to look after yourself.
02:02Yeah, it's my time.
02:03It's more of it, anyway.
02:04You have to look after yourself.
02:05Do you know, and it's kind of nice to have someone.
02:07Just someone to vibe with, really, like, to have a good conversation.
02:10I suppose someone like myself.
02:12Like Owen, maybe.
02:15He's from Cork, but he's also a barman, so it's not that easy to get his attention.
02:20I'm stubborn.
02:21Yeah, I'm picky.
02:22Like, I could pick out the silliest thing in someone that I'm just, no, I just...
02:27Our hair, just didn't like our hair.
02:29Something just, like, ridiculous.
02:31Your name?
02:32Owen.
02:33Where is home, Owen?
02:34Cork City, yeah.
02:35Cool.
02:36Another capital city coming to us, huh?
02:39All right, all right.
02:40Like, if a girl came up to me and was chatting to me, I'd be thinking, oh, she's just been friendly.
02:45Then they'd go in and, like, they're, no, she was kind of flirting with you.
02:49And I'd be like, what's she?
02:50Should we do this?
02:51Am I first here?
02:52No, you're not.
02:53Dammit.
02:55Probably been a few girls that probably flirted with me and just went away talking.
02:58I was just cranky.
02:59You want me to keep your glasses, or you want to keep them like this?
03:01Yeah, no, you can.
03:02You know what?
03:03Look, just remind me on the way out.
03:04Yeah, yeah.
03:05Looking good, man.
03:06Yeah.
03:07I try.
03:08All right, man, come.
03:09I am who I am, like, and I don't really change for anyone else, like.
03:13I don't really give a shit, like, do you know?
03:15I really don't.
03:16Hi, how are you?
03:17Hi, how are you?
03:18I'm very good.
03:19How are you?
03:20Lorraine, how are you?
03:21I'm going.
03:22Nice to meet you.
03:23How are you keeping?
03:24I'm not too bad, though.
03:25Where are you from?
03:26Cork.
03:27I am, too.
03:28What part of Cork are you from?
03:29Blarishly.
03:30Oh, very good.
03:31I'm from the Torker by the behind.
03:33Yeah, I was kind of getting the accent a bit, like.
03:35Yeah, yeah.
03:36It's a city centre accent.
03:37I know, it is, isn't it?
03:38I'm kind of raging, because we could have met down below.
03:40I know.
03:41Save us coming up, like.
03:42Wasted a trip.
03:43You need that initial kind of attraction, but then personality has to come out.
03:47What's the worst I can have?
03:48Exactly, like, do you know what I mean?
03:50I just won't go to Torker, but I have an area no more.
03:52And that's just, like, then we're all fine.
03:55And do you go out and watch and stuff like that yourself?
03:57Do you know, I work in Barwick, what do you do yourself?
03:59I work in Barwick.
04:00I work in Barwick, yeah.
04:01Like, so, like, my idea, kind of, night out is staying.
04:04I do.
04:05Cheers, anyway.
04:06Just enjoy it.
04:07That's what we're here for anyway, just have to crack anyway, isn't it?
04:10Who knows?
04:11Mm-hmm.
04:12Ooh, that's nice.
04:13That'll set you up for the day.
04:14And the night with the strength of it.
04:16He may look and sound like a deathcore frontman, but Ben's actually rather sweet on the inside.
04:31Does dating make you feel vulnerable?
04:33Yeah, definitely.
04:34I'm, like, putting myself out there.
04:37I'm going to meet a stranger.
04:40Life is like a box of chocolates.
04:47You can see what you're going to get by looking at the packet.
04:50Oh, welcome.
04:51Hi.
04:52Your name is?
04:53Ben.
04:54Well, I like your statement.
04:55You're full of statements, huh?
04:56Yeah, I was like, I want to wear something comfortable today, so I was like...
05:00So this is your comfortable zone?
05:02Yeah.
05:03Cool.
05:04I am pretty spontaneous and chirpy, but, like, once I mellow out, most of my time I'm pretty relaxed.
05:12Got a lot of tattoos.
05:13They're pretty cool.
05:15What's this one here?
05:16It's lightning.
05:17I love lightning.
05:18I think it's one of the, like, most beautiful things in the world.
05:20It is.
05:21It's pretty class, as long as you're not standing under it.
05:23Yeah, that's legit what happened.
05:25I rushed home one day after a thunderstorm, and, like, lightning lit, lit, like, right over my head.
05:31And I was like, what the fuck?
05:33I can feel it in the air.
05:34I literally, like, fell back.
05:36It was so cool.
05:37Did you get struck by lightning?
05:38The whole garden, like, went white.
05:40Jesus, yeah.
05:41It was exhilarating.
05:42Wow.
05:43I'm looking for someone fun.
05:44Someone mysterious.
05:45Someone who's gonna, like, go goblin mode with me.
05:50Someone who has passions.
05:54Someone who knows who they are.
05:56And we can do things that we love together.
05:58Like, go cool places.
05:59And just live life.
06:01Yeah, that's what you call a right entrance.
06:04It's the only time I'm lucky.
06:05Nice to meet you.
06:06I'm Kyra.
06:07Kyra.
06:08A breezy entrance for fine art photography student Kyra.
06:13But she's not your typical blow-in.
06:16Where is home?
06:17Limerick.
06:18Well, home home is southwest of Germany.
06:21Oh, but from where from Germany?
06:23Der Fals.
06:24Der Fals?
06:25Yeah, very...
06:26Ech, schoene stad.
06:27Yeah, yeah.
06:28Very small.
06:29Yeah, yeah.
06:30But Ireland's been home for a long time.
06:31So I'm an Olympic lady.
06:32How many years are you here?
06:33It's coming on to 19, 20 years old.
06:35You're like me, 20 years old.
06:37Yeah, yeah.
06:38So, it's a bit of Irish, you know, still.
06:39Ah, we're troopers.
06:40We did this, yeah.
06:41Exactly, exactly.
06:42I really appreciate honest people and considerate people like someone who isn't afraid of having
06:49a partner who's going to be unapologetically themselves.
06:54I'm a bit of a weirdo.
06:56I'm a bit quirky.
06:57I'm a nerd about some things.
06:59So I would like someone with a similar vibe.
07:05Hi.
07:06Nice to meet you.
07:07Are you a hugger?
07:08Are you a hugger?
07:09Sure.
07:10What's your name?
07:11Kira, nice to meet you.
07:12Nice to meet you.
07:13Nice to meet you.
07:14How are you doing?
07:15Oh, I'm doing.
07:16You're doing.
07:17I'm doing.
07:18Just simply doing.
07:19Yeah, I'm here.
07:20I'm like, yeah.
07:21I love your tattoos.
07:23There's so much to take in.
07:24I love it.
07:25In a good way.
07:26In the best way.
07:27Fucking safe.
07:28You look so cool, man.
07:29Your fit is immaculate.
07:31How will we know if you fancy your date?
07:33I'll have the look.
07:34The look is, wow.
07:36A bit stunned.
07:37A bit stunned.
07:41So what's your story anyway?
07:43Have you got kids?
07:44No, no kids.
07:45What age, yeah?
07:46Jesus, the questions have started.
07:48Yeah, with your question personally.
07:50I'm 44.
07:51Very good.
07:52No kids.
07:53Never married.
07:54No drama, really.
07:55No drama.
07:56I'm 35, 36 in October, and I have one daughter.
08:00Her name is Lily May, and she's eight.
08:02Eight?
08:03Yeah.
08:04Right, nice.
08:05I've kind of been single last six years.
08:06When was the last time I was in a singular relationship?
08:08I was in a serious, I'd say I'd go back seven, eight years.
08:11Yeah.
08:12But it wasn't really a serious relationship.
08:13It was kind of more like a situation kind of, do you know?
08:16So you're not really kind of a serious person?
08:18No, I am a serious person, but it has to be right.
08:21I'm not going to just...
08:22So do you believe in love at first sight and all that?
08:24No, no.
08:25Oh God, no.
08:26No, no, no.
08:27It takes time, no?
08:28What?
08:29Like you can see someone straight away and you go, oh my God, she's beautiful.
08:32Yeah.
08:33But like, to say I love at first sight, no.
08:35I know what you're saying.
08:36It's too deep.
08:37But I just do think, for me personally speaking, you kind of have to have that, I want to see
08:41that person again kind of a thing.
08:42Do you believe in love at first sight?
08:44No, I don't, but I believe in like, do you know, like...
08:46You can be honest, you know, it's fine.
08:47No, but like, I believe in like, yeah.
08:49I think you just know, don't you?
08:51You just know when you know you're going to get on with someone, like...
08:55I think you're talking about more like lust at first sight.
08:58No, I'm not.
08:59You're kind of.
09:00No, why not?
09:01You're not going to be calling love straight away.
09:03Yeah.
09:04But that's what I mean.
09:05So it doesn't exist.
09:06So it's more like, it's more like lust at...
09:08See, that's me now, you see.
09:09Yeah, yeah.
09:10Disagree with you, so I have to come out and say it.
09:12Anyway, what's on that menu there?
09:13Yeah, what are you going for?
09:19Whoa!
09:20Where are you from?
09:21Where are you from?
09:22Okay, so I was born in London.
09:23Moved back to Orinmore with my mum.
09:25And then Loch Rai.
09:26And then Mullingar.
09:27And then Dublin a little bit.
09:29And then Australia.
09:30And then back to Mullingar.
09:32And then like, Galway a tiny bit.
09:34And Newbridge.
09:35And now I'm here in Dublin.
09:36Sick!
09:37Hey, so home is where the heart is?
09:39Yeah, literally.
09:40Literally.
09:41I've travelled just about all around the world.
09:44At such a young age as well.
09:46Makes me feel like an old soul.
09:48I'm from the south-west of Germany.
09:50From like a super rural area there.
09:52I moved to Ireland when I was like two and a half.
09:55And then I think moved eleven times after that.
09:58So I totally catch your vibe for sure.
10:00Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
10:01Cool.
10:02Got way too good at packing.
10:03Yeah.
10:04My mum and my dad actually have such a crazy love story.
10:07They met in Dingle in the 70s.
10:09My dad was on a lads holiday.
10:12And my mum was down from Limerick with her gals.
10:15They were actually both, I think they were both engaged at the time.
10:19Then left their engagements because they weren't too happy.
10:22Just down here to your cell phones.
10:24And then they wrote letters for six months.
10:26And then 30 days after being in each other's company they got married.
10:30So 27 years later, still very happily married.
10:33My mum had nine brothers and sisters in the family.
10:38And then we've all got cousins as well.
10:40Is your, if you don't mind me asking if dad's still in the picture or?
10:44No.
10:45I haven't seen him for years man.
10:46Okay.
10:47He's from Jamaica.
10:48I couldn't tell you much about him.
10:49I don't even know what age he is.
10:50I haven't seen him since I was seven.
10:52I need something gluten free.
10:54Whatever you recommend from the bottom three.
10:56Just give me one.
10:57I don't really know cocktails so I'll take whatever you recommend.
10:59Okay.
11:00Cheers.
11:01I actually lost a ton of weight.
11:03They think I was celiac since I was a kid.
11:06Because there was a huge gluten free fad.
11:08You know everyone suddenly wanted to be gluten free.
11:10That was great.
11:11I thank every single person who wanted to do that.
11:13Because now there's gluten free food everywhere.
11:15What hobbies have you?
11:17Climbing.
11:18Okay, like mountain climbing, rock climbing?
11:20Yeah.
11:21Oh, cool, okay.
11:22What do you work at?
11:23I'm a software engineer.
11:24Okay, right.
11:25Well, like that's my day job, but like I have three kids as well, so.
11:29Three kids?
11:30And don't rock climbing.
11:32God, you have your hands full.
11:33Well, they do it too, so it's handy.
11:34Do they?
11:35Yeah.
11:36We can do it together, yeah.
11:37Like I have to carve out time in my life for someone.
11:39So if I get any vibe I'm wasting my time, I'm just not going to do that whatsoever.
11:44Do you want a straw?
11:45Yes, please.
11:46Yeah.
11:47Well, it's okay, these nerves are just butterflies, you know.
11:52I know.
11:57Hi, how are you?
12:00In her beauty, Hedgie sees it long before she can bring herself to touch it.
12:07When I like someone, I don't really care anything else.
12:11So like one of my ex-boyfriend was so ugly.
12:16And then I remember when first time when I met him, like I knew that, oh my God, I cannot even kiss him.
12:25It was so interesting and then funny.
12:28And then one day I saw him again, I feel like he's kind of cute, you know.
12:33Everyone say like, I won, he has a nice job, tall, good looking, blah blah blah, but when you like, it's fine.
12:43You know, like, hi.
12:45Welcome.
12:46I'm Hedgie.
12:47Hedgie, nice to meet you.
12:48Nice to meet you.
12:49Hey, love it.
12:50She's very beautiful.
12:52Oh my God.
12:53I'm here.
12:54It's so boring.
12:55It's okay, it's okay.
12:57I think in Ireland, people are very shy.
13:00They're just waiting until women say something to them.
13:04But I'm the person very shy in front of men.
13:07So like, it's so difficult to something happen.
13:11Ready to find the perfect date?
13:13Yeah.
13:14There's something here.
13:16No, that's a mall.
13:17Sorry, I was thinking it's from Ireland.
13:18Oh yeah, yeah, yeah.
13:19Oh, nice.
13:20My favorite one.
13:21But in Korea, it calls like a crying spot.
13:25So if you have this, you might have a lot of sad things happen in your life.
13:29Something like that.
13:30My mom tried to remove this twice.
13:33I told my mom, like, I love it.
13:35So I just keep it now.
13:37So you are my date?
13:39Yes.
13:40Okay.
13:41I wasn't sure.
13:42Where are you from?
13:43I'm from Korea.
13:44Korea?
13:45Okay.
13:46Yeah.
13:47You?
13:48From here.
13:49Yeah, in Dublin.
13:50Oh no, from Donegal.
13:51Donegal.
13:52The most north-west part of the country.
13:55Oh, okay.
13:56Have you been here long?
13:57It's been two years.
13:58Are you here for work or family here or what?
14:00No, work.
14:01Okay, what do you do?
14:03I do tech translation.
14:05You?
14:06Okay, I'm a software engineer.
14:07Also in tech.
14:08Okay, so you're in the same industry.
14:11Yeah, yeah, yeah.
14:12She'll hopefully be more talkative than I am.
14:15Like, I get nervous.
14:17Would you like another?
14:19Yeah.
14:20You can tell by the noise.
14:21Mojito.
14:22Yeah, that's what he chose.
14:23I don't know cocktails whatsoever.
14:24But you don't drink any cocktail?
14:26I don't really drink rarely at all, really, so...
14:28I never had a chance to learn about cocktails.
14:30Never mind.
14:31Yeah, but you finished one already.
14:32Yes, well, I'm stressed.
14:34Why are you stressed?
14:35I'm just nervous, I guess.
14:36Yeah.
14:37Met my ex from hanging out.
14:39There weren't any dates.
14:40There were no lines.
14:41I just don't know what to do on a first date.
14:43There were no lines, but I know what that's wrong.
14:45Yeah, I had a scop.
14:46What did I have a scop of you?
14:47My sacram.
14:48I was mean…
14:49I was not a scop.
14:50What do I have a scop of you?
14:51Capricorn.
14:52I came out.
14:53I was a scop.
14:54I got this scop.
14:55It's a scop.
14:56It was fun and I was a scop.
14:57It's a scop.
14:58What do I have a scop for you?
14:59Capricorn.
15:00Capricorn.
15:01Does that make a big difference?
15:03No, I just…
15:04No, you're not one of these.
15:05I am, I am.
15:06I love all that kind of jazz.
15:07Geez.
15:08Okay, you can have a chicken in there. It'll stop you talking for a while.
15:12It will stop you talking for a while.
15:16There's probably a bit of a wall there now.
15:19And you know, just take a nice person, genuine, that I know is very genuine,
15:24before I kind of, you know, leave my full heart in it.
15:28I would, like, literally block him to leave someone, like, all of my life.
15:31I think I did a jest for that.
15:33Yeah.
15:34Someone annoyed me.
15:36And I would just go on your top.
15:38Oh, you'll just, like, delete them.
15:39Oh, yeah, get rid of them.
15:40Yeah, I know.
15:42What part of Korea are you from?
15:44I'm from Busan. It's, like, the sea coast.
15:48Okay.
15:49After I graduated high school, I moved to Japan, because I wanted to study in Japan.
15:54I think my mom, she always believed me 100%.
16:00When I asked her, I'm going to go to Japan, or I'm going to move to Europe,
16:05and she never told me no.
16:07And I applied to Spanish school, and I moved to Madrid.
16:11And I have so many, like, amazing memories there.
16:14When I travel, when I see really beautiful moment, I feel like, oh, I wish I can share this moment with someone.
16:22So, I'm celiac.
16:24Yeah.
16:25It doesn't look like I can have any of the desserts.
16:28What does it mean, celiac?
16:30Like, gluten.
16:31I can't have gluten.
16:32I really like to enjoy my meal.
16:35And if the guy who is not really interested in the food, that's the worst thing for me.
16:43Each one of these will make me sick, so I can't have any of it.
16:46Ah.
16:47So, is that okay with you?
16:48I don't mind not eating a dessert if you would rather have a main and a dessert.
16:52My dates can eat whatever they like.
16:54The problem is, is that if they eat gluten, and we kiss, then I have an allergic reaction in my bowels, and then the date has to end rapidly.
17:03So, that's happened before.
17:05So, what were you looking for?
17:09I'm looking for something serious relationship that I can build my future family together.
17:18Okay.
17:19You?
17:20I, yeah, I didn't really, um, I wasn't really specific.
17:25Mm-hmm.
17:26In terms of, like, what you're saying, serious, yeah, I'm the exact same.
17:29But you're looking to build a family, you said?
17:31Ideally, happy family with kids.
17:34Mm-hmm.
17:35Yeah.
17:36So, I already have three kids?
17:38You?
17:39Yeah.
17:40You have three kids?
17:41Mm-hmm.
17:42Are you joking?
17:43I'm not joking.
17:49So, other than blind dates, have you been on many?
17:52In the last couple, couple of months, I've just been like, no, me, me, myself, and I'm.
17:57Have you ever been in love?
17:59Yeah.
18:00Once.
18:01How did that feel?
18:03Heavenly.
18:04If I was a tarot card, I'd definitely be the fool.
18:07Honey.
18:08Honey.
18:09Honey.
18:10I pulled that one way too much.
18:11Yeah.
18:12Yeah.
18:13I was a stupid kid.
18:15Like, 19 years of age.
18:18You don't know what you want.
18:20You don't know how to express how you feel.
18:22And then there's the heartbreak of realising that, oh, this is just a shitty dude, you know?
18:30When my ex broke up with me, it really changed my whole psyche.
18:35Made me really start asking the big questions of, who do I want to be?
18:42I was 18 and I met this guy who was like 27 at the time.
18:48Shit.
18:49I was like 18, he was 27.
18:51I had so much love to give in to the world, but perhaps a bit naive.
18:57That relationship definitely took the wind out of my sails for a little while.
19:03Not the best start in regards to love.
19:06But then I met my ex and he definitely helped get me back on my feet.
19:14I'd say that one was the biggest love of my life thus far.
19:18I always compare it to a sitcom.
19:20There was four seasons.
19:21The show has now been cancelled and there's no funding for further production.
19:26Intense.
19:27It is, but you know what?
19:28It's like, it's part of my story, but it's also like the reason I'm here.
19:32The reason I'm pushing myself to do things I wouldn't usually do,
19:36because I feel like when you overcome fear, that's where all the magic happens.
19:41Yeah, fear is the mind killer, as they say.
19:43For sure.
19:48So my niece was there, and she was like, go on in, see how you're going on.
19:55So that's my page.
19:56This is, this is plenty of fish, huh?
19:58Yeah.
19:59Getting one after another, after another.
20:01I was like, my emails, they were ridiculous.
20:04And I was getting all like pictures and horrible things.
20:09I didn't know you had to wait 24 hours to actually delete your profile,
20:12so then 24 hours, my emails, everything.
20:15Like seriously, no.
20:16Would you text someone saying that?
20:19Like seriously.
20:20What?
20:21Do you fucking flick the beam?
20:26Would you?
20:29You're sitting at home now, and I fucking pray today.
20:31Jesus.
20:32Someone actually text you that?
20:33Yeah.
20:34Did you just text them back?
20:35No.
20:36For real?
20:37Like, I mean, that was a fucking red flag there, straight away.
20:39How long were you going out with him for?
20:40How can you have three kids at your age?
20:50I was married for about 10, 11 years.
20:54Yeah.
20:55So, I've been single now for about three years.
20:57Okay.
20:58Yeah.
20:59So, it's a lot of kids.
21:06I see.
21:07Wow.
21:08So, what's the story?
21:09We got married really young, so I guess, when you get married young, and then…
21:16How old were you that time?
21:1822.
21:19Yeah.
21:20I think before I had kids, I kind of didn't really care what I was doing.
21:24Like, I had a job.
21:25I made some money.
21:26I was with my partner.
21:27Once the kids came along, suddenly, that's not enough.
21:30You know, you have to think about what you have to provide, and also, like, what example
21:34you're going to set, who you're going to be when they're old enough to see you as someone
21:37they might want to look up to.
21:39You know, we just became different people, and it didn't work out, you know?
21:42Yeah.
21:43So, that was really it.
21:44Well, I can work as a software engineer from a home office.
21:47So, between work and kids, there's very little time, really.
21:50But it's possible to make it, if I wanted to.
21:54So, like, what's your hobby now?
21:56My hobby is climbing.
21:58Okay.
21:59Like, rock climbing, indoor climbing, that kind of thing.
22:01I do the bouldering.
22:03I've never done rock climbing.
22:05Okay.
22:06So, I was bouldering today, actually.
22:07Oh, really?
22:08You can see by my hands, they're cut to pieces.
22:10Yeah, yeah.
22:11My son's 10 years old, he's already better than I am.
22:14I think it's like a strength to weight ratio.
22:16That's what I'm hoping is the excuse I have.
22:18Like, in summer, I do surf, and in winter, I do snowboarding.
22:23Do you surf in Ireland?
22:24No.
22:25I've never been, but I heard it's really good.
22:27Oh, yeah, for sure.
22:28Especially in Donegal.
22:29Like, when I go to travel, like, I like sun and amazing weather.
22:33Okay, so you didn't obviously think of sun and weather when you came to Ireland for a job then, right?
22:37So, if you don't mind me asking what your sexual orientation is.
22:45Oh, thank you for asking.
22:47I'm a he-him bisexual boy.
22:50And did you, like, accept in family, or...?
22:53My mama asked me once, and she was like, are you gay?
22:55And I'm like, no.
22:56And I was waiting for her to be like, are you bisexual?
22:59But she didn't.
23:00Okay.
23:01So...
23:02Pure knows them.
23:03Kind of lets you do your thing.
23:04Yeah.
23:05Good.
23:06To be honest, I've never gone on a date with a guy.
23:09Ever.
23:10I'm, I'm like, I'm like, I have, what is it?
23:12Bi-panic.
23:13When it's like, oh, you can, you can, you know, be spontaneous and flirtatious when it comes to this one gender.
23:20But when it comes to the other, you're like, oh.
23:23Oh.
23:24I'm only newly bi as well within the last, the last year.
23:28And so, I'm still a little afraid, but I'm always open.
23:32My usual tagline is, um, if I don't vibe with you up here, I'm not gonna vibe with you down there.
23:39I'm very much a, I am what I am.
23:42It's, it means as much to me as what my favourite colour is, if that makes sense.
23:47I come across extremely confident, I think, to males.
23:51So I find myself a little bit more comfortable with that gender dynamic.
23:55But as soon as there's a pretty girl who finds me pretty,
24:00I do think that's perhaps just because I haven't explored that side of myself.
24:05I'm all about the quirky teeth, the, you know, the freckles, the piercings.
24:10I find that so attractive then when someone just takes it on and kind of wears it with pride, you know.
24:15Someone who just likes to live their life and just do what they want, you know, regardless of what the world tells them.
24:22Yeah.
24:23Get this kind of like nomadic world traveller by Matthew for sure.
24:28Yeah, like Benjamin Button.
24:30Yeah, I feel like I've met you in a club in Berlin sometime and we can't remember that we did.
24:34Kind of a thing.
24:35Probably met somewhere.
24:37Maybe in a different life.
24:38Maybe in a different life.
24:39Maybe in a different life.
24:44Is she on all of them?
24:45Oh, no, my mother unfortunately passed away.
24:47Oh.
24:48Yeah, during Covid.
24:49Oh, really?
24:50Yeah, so.
24:51Sorry to hear that now.
24:52She kind of raised us.
24:53She raised us all.
24:54So I always think like, God, like a woman that like does everything like that, like works out.
25:00Yeah, same, yeah, working.
25:01They're just amazing.
25:02Yeah.
25:03I wouldn't be able to do it.
25:04Yeah.
25:05I'd crumble.
25:06She was always a very glamorous woman, like she loved getting her hair done.
25:09Basically got a call one time, just go to the hospital.
25:12And she was after having like an aneurysm and a stroke.
25:15And yeah, it kind of chipped away at her independence.
25:21Who was that?
25:2279.
25:2379.
25:24Yeah, she was like, yeah, it's like, it can hit you like a ton of bricks.
25:29It does.
25:30And like, I used to go up to the hospital and some of the, I couldn't go in.
25:34I had this picture of my mother.
25:36It was a beautiful, like independent woman.
25:39Yeah.
25:40The guilt and all was there to there.
25:42I can't, it wasn't there to say goodbye.
25:45She like, didn't remember who you are.
25:48Yeah, I like that.
25:50Yeah.
25:51I'm watching them.
25:52I'm watching them.
25:53Dear.
25:54Don't mind.
25:55Irish are very polite.
26:00Am I polite?
26:02I cannot say right now because, you know, we just talk.
26:07Sure, sure, sure.
26:08Yeah.
26:09But they are too polite for me.
26:12Yeah.
26:13Until they get drunk.
26:14Right.
26:15They are very shy.
26:16Personally, I don't like drunken people.
26:19Then I can only see shy guys.
26:22So when I was in America, the guys over there are just, what I would, I would call them ridiculous.
26:27You know, even Korean guys are like.
26:29Oh really?
26:30Yeah.
26:31Wow.
26:32They actually get numbers on the street a lot.
26:34Wow.
26:35Yeah.
26:36Okay.
26:37So how does that work with like your expectations then?
26:38So if you're like out and about.
26:40I don't know.
26:41I don't personally believe those people on the street so.
26:48If you're going to be forward with Claire, you should know she doesn't hold back.
26:54I've always been a very free spirit.
26:56And I've always been very adventurous.
26:58And if you tell me that I can't do something.
27:03And I think that's a great part about life.
27:06You know, not to be afraid to open new doors.
27:09What about sex?
27:12Sex, drugs, rock and roll.
27:17I love sex.
27:18I think I'm, I'm a sexy person.
27:20But at this stage of my life, that's not the first thing.
27:23I think maybe 10 years, 15 years ago was much more important.
27:27Welcome.
27:29This is super.
27:30You ready for some good time?
27:31Nervous for some good time too, but that's okay.
27:34We all grow and mature.
27:36I think my outlook on men has changed.
27:40I couldn't sit still.
27:41And I wanted that man to be like that.
27:43So I think I'm ready to be more settled with a man who's on the same wavelength.
27:48You're looking fantastic.
27:50Lovely hair.
27:52Oh, you're great.
27:53What are you hoping for?
27:54Apart from a good drink and a good dinner.
27:55Hoping to meet a lovely man who's going to enjoy life, traveling, adventure.
28:00Love is...
28:01Wow.
28:02Hard to define?
28:03Not Andrew.
28:04At heart, he's a real softie.
28:05For me, it's just being comfortable with someone.
28:07But it's like wanting to look after this person and make their life better.
28:23And obviously, hopefully, they're doing the same for you.
28:28Are you romantic?
28:30I think I am.
28:31I cry in movies sometimes.
28:32That's a bad start.
28:33Now you've come 100% already.
28:34Until last year, I hadn't been on a date in a long, long, long, long time.
28:39I think one of the key life skills is resilience.
28:43You know, I've had quite a few setbacks and knockdowns.
28:46But it's always like, well, you just get back up and go again and do something again.
28:50So you feel like you're back on the horse now, yeah?
28:52Oh, I don't know if I'd go that far.
28:54Hello.
28:55Hi, how are you?
28:56I'm Andrew.
28:57Hi, Andrew and Claire.
28:58Nice to meet you.
28:59I'm going to meet you.
29:00Yes.
29:01And that's not a Dublin accent.
29:02It's a Dublin accent originally, but now probably American.
29:05I was there for 34 years.
29:06So what brought you back?
29:08Oh, God.
29:09A long, hard question.
29:10Well, my mum is here.
29:11No, my mum is here.
29:12Yeah.
29:13And my son is here.
29:14Oh, very good.
29:15So it was a matter of just, you know, why not?
29:17We're already in the deep end on the conversation.
29:19Oh, good.
29:20I'm just here to give you a drink and then you can go back into it.
29:23I've been divorced now for a number of years, so I've been single for quite some time.
29:28And I've had relationships, but my children were more important for me to raise them
29:33without bringing anybody else necessarily into my life.
29:36Well, I left in the 80s, you know, things were really pretty awful here.
29:40I left in the 80s?
29:41Yeah.
29:42I mean, there was nothing going on.
29:43I was talking to someone about the commitments, you know, doubling of the commitments here.
29:46I know.
29:47Oh, my God.
29:48Yeah, that was it, wasn't it?
29:49There was a massive recession going on and there was no jobs.
29:53Everybody was on the dole and a lot of people were emigrating.
29:56I wanted to be a nurse.
29:57Oh, right.
29:58I was set out to be a nurse.
30:00But I couldn't do it because it would hold me here and I had the travel book.
30:04So I came back from Germany and stayed two years and then decided to go to the States
30:09and just see what it was all about for a year.
30:12That was the plan.
30:13Yeah.
30:14And it ended up being a long 34 years.
30:17I got married and I have two beautiful children and I had a great life.
30:23I loved America.
30:24But I was always longing to go home.
30:26There was always some draw for me to come back eventually.
30:29You know, I sold my house.
30:31I sold my car.
30:32I sold my business.
30:33I sold everything.
30:35So I left in 1986 with two suitcases and I came back with four.
30:40Well, I retired and came back as a student.
30:43I'm a student.
30:44You're a student?
30:45Yeah.
30:46That's my retirement project.
30:47Yeah.
30:48What are you studying?
30:49Law.
30:50Are you?
30:51Excellent.
30:52So I'm in the same college as my daughter.
30:53That's hilarious.
30:54Yeah.
30:55Do you see her?
30:56Oh, yeah.
30:57No, I mean, if I'm up, I'll phone up and offer to buy her dinner in the student canteen
31:01or whatever.
31:02So free food.
31:03Yeah.
31:04Yeah, of course.
31:05Yeah.
31:06Yeah.
31:07So I've been living in Limerick maybe 10 years.
31:09I feel like that's where we've crossed paths.
31:11Have you ever been in Limerick?
31:12I've been in Limerick a couple of times.
31:14I usually go down to like Siege.
31:15Mmm.
31:16And then my friend.
31:17I usually work in Dolan's.
31:18There you go.
31:19That is the restaurant.
31:20There you go.
31:21Oh my God.
31:22We probably had it recently?
31:23Yeah, the last one, I think.
31:25That's crazy.
31:26We've literally been in the same building.
31:28I know.
31:29What the fuck?
31:30And I was like, I feel like I've met you in a past life.
31:32Yeah.
31:33I really enjoyed myself better than I expected.
31:36I think if I were to live anywhere else in Ireland, it would be Cork.
31:39I love Cork.
31:40Capital.
31:41True capital vibe.
31:42Oh, I know.
31:43The minute we sat down, I didn't kind of actually feel any of the restaurant around us, which
31:45was nice.
31:46It was a good feeling.
31:47The more I talk about it now, the more I realize it was a good date.
31:51Would you like to see each other again, romantically?
31:54He had to add that in there at the end.
31:55He did.
31:56You know, I'd like to see you again.
31:58I'd like to see you again, too.
32:00Whether we figure out whether it's romantic or not, though, I think it's going to be continued.
32:04Yeah.
32:05Hey.
32:06You've got to fuck around and find out.
32:07You're on some page.
32:08Right, right.
32:09Nice.
32:10Perfect.
32:11It's my favorite saying.
32:12It's like, if you don't fuck around, you don't find out.
32:14There we go.
32:15Look after yourself.
32:17Oh, that was fun.
32:18Oh my God.
32:19That was fun.
32:20So, where will you go on your next date?
32:23We'll go wherever the wind takes us.
32:43So what's your day's work?
32:44I can't be telling you.
32:45You could be turning up late.
32:47Don't flatter yourself.
32:48You could be turning up.
32:49I would never chase a man anymore.
32:50I have to take care of myself.
32:51You said you're a hairdresser now, is it?
32:52Yeah.
32:53Yeah.
32:54I work for myself.
32:55No, it's challenging.
32:56You know, I don't know anybody.
32:57I'm not from my expert.
32:58I want you to build up a client base.
32:59I love doing hair.
33:00I'm a real people person.
33:01I love chatting to people and getting to know new people.
33:02And the best thing I did was get a little dog.
33:03Oh, right.
33:04Oh my God.
33:05He introduced me to people.
33:06I really sort of just went down there.
33:07COVID had happened.
33:08I didn't know a soul, but I like a challenge.
33:10He was great because dogs are wonderful for starting conversations, opening conversations.
33:11He makes a beeline for everybody.
33:12And whether you like a dog or not, he's just kind of like, hey, ears are back, the tails
33:16wagging.
33:17You know, so by the time you have a good old chat and then I hopefully pull my card out
33:18and say, by the way, I'm a hairstylist.
33:19Move to town.
33:20Oh, right.
33:21You know, I mean, it's the only way to do it.
33:22Great to get the lead generation.
33:23Yeah, exactly.
33:24Exactly.
33:25Exactly.
33:26So, you know, I just went down there.
33:27I just went down there.
33:28COVID had happened.
33:29I didn't know a soul, but I like a challenge.
33:30He was great because dogs are wonderful for starting conversations, opening conversations.
33:31He makes a beeline for everybody.
33:32And whether you like a dog or not, he's just kind of like, hey, ears are back, the tails
33:34wagging.
33:35You know, so by the time you have a good old chat and then I hopefully pull my card out and say,
33:38by the way, I'm a hairstylist.
33:39Move to town.
33:40All right.
33:41You know, I mean, it's the only way to do it.
33:43Great to get the lead generation.
33:44Yeah, exactly.
33:45Exactly.
33:46So you living in your city like whole of your life basically?
33:52No, not really.
33:53Like I lived in a lot of places until I was about 15 years old.
33:57Yeah.
33:58And then we had a final, like a natural place to stay, you know, forever then.
34:01So like my dad, he, his dad, like when I was a one year old,
34:07my mom had to survive by herself with three kids.
34:13If I lost my dad when I was a 10 year old, I might feel so, so sad.
34:19But my mom did everything for me.
34:22She never tried to get married any of guys because I'm the girl.
34:28My sister was a girl.
34:30That's very dangerous.
34:32Why is that dangerous?
34:33Because you never know who will be the husband.
34:36Everyone get married because they love each other.
34:40Yeah, yeah, yeah.
34:41They feel this is a good guy.
34:43But in the world, there are so many bad things happen that also real.
34:49So my mom didn't want to take any risk.
34:51Okay.
34:52Until I become independent, I moved to Japan.
34:55But when I was a 24 years old, she called me one day and she said, I have a boyfriend.
35:02And then I was so happy.
35:05Do you like a chase, though?
35:09No.
35:10I don't.
35:11I hate games.
35:12Games is...
35:13There's no point in leaving someone on and then playing all these head games,
35:16fucking people's heads up.
35:17Do you know what I mean?
35:18I don't believe that.
35:19No.
35:20Some people get a fucking kick out of that stuff.
35:22But me, I'm just not.
35:23Do you know what?
35:24Maybe years ago when you were younger, you were probably like, oh yeah.
35:26It's like all or nothing, you know what I mean?
35:30That's what I feel, anyway.
35:31Do you ever get tired?
35:33Huh?
35:34Yeah.
35:35Jesus Christ.
35:36Why?
35:37It's about the talking you do.
35:38Well, isn't it fucking better to be talking than not talking?
35:41I couldn't stick someone sitting away and saying nothing.
35:43Do you prefer that, yeah?
35:44No, I know you're grand.
35:45So obviously you don't like me talking, is that?
35:47What?
35:48Who said that?
35:49You said that.
35:50You just said it there.
35:51All I said is that you get tired.
35:53Do I get tired?
35:54Yeah, I do get tired.
35:55It's about half now, isn't it?
35:56That's not.
35:57That's not saying anything.
35:58It is.
35:59It's fucking serious, isn't it?
36:02Oh God.
36:03I'm not in joking.
36:04You're not.
36:05Because every fucking joke is a serious comment.
36:08How is it a serious comment?
36:09It is.
36:10Do you ever say something?
36:11They won't be followed.
36:12A person's going to react.
36:13So then you say something and then they might say, I'm not in joking.
36:17No.
36:18You don't want to know I'd stand right by it.
36:19I mean, you would kill each other.
36:21I'm killing each other, no.
36:22What are you talking about?
36:23What are you talking about?
36:24Jesus.
36:25Anyone could tell you lovely things like where now I'm kind of a bit more like having a
36:30laugh here and over here.
36:32In every slide there's a hint of a truth.
36:35Yeah, there's a slagging definition.
36:36It's a bit of a truth there, no?
36:37Yeah.
36:38There's a tiny bit, but you know it's not going to hurt them.
36:40If you know if it defends them, then you're not going to say it, you know?
36:43Mmm.
36:44Mmm.
36:45I love doing it.
36:46Exactly.
36:47That's why I don't call you back.
36:50Ouch.
36:51There you go, slagging.
36:56That's love.
36:57But I love me.
36:58He loves me.
36:59But I don't want to get into his pants, you know?
37:01That's different.
37:02That's different.
37:03That's a lie.
37:04Had you been to Cork before?
37:08Had you ever lived there?
37:09No, my wife had been to Cork and so that was her thing and like when the whole idea was
37:14once we started having children we wanted to get out of.
37:17To go there.
37:18You know, go somewhere nice.
37:19Because she was English, I met her in England.
37:20Okay.
37:21Yeah, yeah.
37:22I think me being Irish was part of the attraction and she was into everything Irish, including
37:25me.
37:26Really?
37:27Yeah.
37:28I used to call my wife the social manager.
37:30She organized our calendar and told me where we were going and when.
37:33And she called me her rock.
37:34So, because she was kind of the more lively one.
37:36Are you happy down there?
37:37Yeah, it's very nice.
37:38I love being by the sea.
37:40That's gorgeous down there.
37:41And we were very lucky.
37:42We got a decent sized plot with, you know, a ruin up that we were able to knock down and
37:47build kind of her dream home.
37:48I moved into the house in 2005 and unfortunately she was then diagnosed in 2006 and died in 2008.
38:01So, she got to see the house.
38:02She got to see a bit of the West Cork life.
38:05I keep coming into locals who say, oh, we remember her from the church choir and we
38:09remember her from this.
38:10And she set up a mother and toddler music group.
38:14Forty.
38:15Trikey.
38:16That's desperate.
38:17She was younger than me.
38:18Yeah.
38:19Breast cancer, unfortunately.
38:22Self diagnosed at work.
38:24She was stage four.
38:25Really?
38:26Came home from work.
38:27Came down the driveway.
38:28We were playing in the garden.
38:29And she said, something's happened.
38:31And I'm very worried.
38:32I was like, oh, right.
38:33I appreciate you.
38:34Yeah.
38:35Suddenly her whole life is like.
38:37Did she talk to you about moving on?
38:40We had long conversations about that, about what would be afterwards.
38:46And we were focused on my daughter and she was like, you're not just going to sit in
38:50the corner and do nothing and cry now, are you?
38:52You're going to get back out there because that's the kind that she was.
38:54And before that, I would be like, if we were going down the beach, I'd be always like, oh,
38:58I need to be doing this customer meeting next week and I need to be catching that plane
39:01and I need to sort this email out and blah, blah, blah.
39:04And afterwards it was like, do you know what?
39:06Work can wait.
39:07It's sunny.
39:08We're going down the beach.
39:09It's more important.
39:10Because you get a whole different perspective.
39:11Of course you do.
39:12Of course you do.
39:13Of what's important in time.
39:17It's been hard to travel with kids.
39:19So I've been focusing mainly on my career.
39:22But now that my kids are starting to get a bit older, I can do more things, you know?
39:26So I want to go somewhere cold.
39:28I want to see like Northern Lights or something really interesting.
39:31Yeah, yeah, yeah.
39:32I want to do that.
39:33They're like, they have aura.
39:34Exactly, right.
39:35You can book like a dome hotel.
39:38Right.
39:39What I really want to do, I want to go to Mongolia.
39:42Wow.
39:43And I want to ride horses.
39:44That's so nice.
39:45I want to ride horses across the steps.
39:47So that's my...
39:48I like a guy when he has good leadership.
39:51When I have to make all the decisions, I get stressed.
39:56So you mentioned you like direct guys.
39:58What would a direct guy do on a date that would make you interested?
40:01Show me how much he's interested in me.
40:07Like it's clearly I can feel.
40:10So I should make it obvious?
40:11Yeah.
40:12Like you know that sometimes you feel like, is he playing with me or he take me serious?
40:18If he cares about me, if he takes this serious, I will definitely feel like, oh my God, he's so into me.
40:26You know?
40:27So I like that.
40:28Well, I think you are stunning.
40:30I'm into you.
40:32If that's direct enough.
40:33Yeah.
40:34We'll see what he's made of now.
40:35I have a question.
40:36Where's the toilet?
40:37See those double doors over there?
40:38Over there.
40:39He's going running out the toilet now, leaving the bills for me.
40:40I know, yeah.
40:41Screaming isn't it?
40:42No, I go half.
40:43Absolutely.
40:44I'll let you guys work it out.
40:45I'll let you guys work it out.
40:46Jesus, actually.
40:47Come here.
40:48That's a bit high.
40:49There's a bundle coming out the packet.
40:50You're not short anyway.
40:51That's all Malaysian dollars.
40:52Don't they?
40:53Don't they?
40:54We're going to be running out the door before they know about it.
41:15Thanks very much.
41:16I got a couple of words in there and all.
41:17Yeah.
41:18Fuck off.
41:19Imagine it.
41:20Well, you said intense.
41:21Could you imagine if I was sitting there?
41:22Yeah.
41:23Yeah.
41:24I did not think it could go so well.
41:26That's going to be 100% honest.
41:28Too similar?
41:29Too similar.
41:30Okay.
41:31Like, he's stubborn.
41:32I'm very stubborn.
41:33I will block and delete.
41:34Do you know?
41:35One of these people.
41:36And I think he's exactly the same.
41:38But look, we'll see.
41:39Look.
41:40You never know.
41:41It's like the opposite of me sitting across the table.
41:43Like, that guy's in like the same person.
41:45Like, you know?
41:46But obviously he was a man.
41:48I was so jealous.
41:49He's walking around wearing on me.
41:50You stole him on me.
41:53It was a pleasure.
41:55Same goes.
41:56Would you like to see each other again romantically?
41:58I ain't going to go.
41:59I have to leave.
42:00The lady go first.
42:01Ah, come on.
42:02No.
42:03I'm old fashioned.
42:04I'm a gentleman.
42:05Erm.
42:06I don't know.
42:07I don't know.
42:08I don't know.
42:09I'm not sure.
42:10Owen?
42:11Like me, I don't, like, jump the same.
42:13Yeah, same.
42:14Like, I think, like, you're very attractive and, like, obviously you're a good looking girl and stuff.
42:18But, like, I wouldn't jump the same.
42:20He's exactly the same as where.
42:23So where did you say you were staying again?
42:25I'm not telling you that because you could turn up at the door.
42:27Oh, fuck off.
42:28I can't even talk.
42:29You want to know where I work?
42:30I think we're very confusing now now.
42:31Do you mind if I take the lead in this?
42:33Two, yeah.
42:34Work with.
42:35Yeah.
42:36I think what she's trying to say is that, look, it's very hard to say it on a first date
42:43that you just met and you're so similar.
42:44So similar.
42:45It's weird.
42:46Will we have a second date?
42:47I'd say 100% yes.
42:49Yeah, we'll see anyway, yeah.
42:50Definitely.
42:51We'll see anyway, yeah.
42:52Definitely.
42:53Is that, yeah?
42:54Yeah.
42:55Well, that's exactly what he was saying, I bet you.
42:57I'd say no, I'd say 100% I'd have another date.
43:00After a few drinks, yeah, yeah, I would have a day on a date though.
43:03I would definitely meet up, yeah.
43:05I have a nice feeling about it.
43:07That's all I'm going to say.
43:08Go with them feelings.
43:10Go on, so I'll open it up.
43:12Oh, go on.
43:13Oh, Jesus.
43:15She was dying through that all day.
43:18I was, yeah.
43:25I brought the desserts just to tempt you while you wait for each other.
43:28I'm going to wait.
43:29I'm going to wait.
43:30I'm going to pass the test.
43:31Great.
43:32Self-control.
43:33How is everything going?
43:34Brilliant.
43:35Yeah?
43:36Amazing.
43:37She's really nice.
43:38Interesting backgrounds and, yeah, similarities and things stopping coming.
43:42That's very good.
43:43Were you feeling nervous when you arrived in or did you?
43:45Yeah.
43:46Oh, wow.
43:47Yeah, because you seem very relaxed to me.
43:48It's my training.
43:49It's your training, you say?
43:51I was a pilot, so.
43:52Oh, wow.
43:53Don't worry, there's no emergency here.
43:55Wow, you're a pilot.
43:57It's all fine.
43:58That's supposed to happen.
43:59Yeah.
44:00Yeah.
44:05Is that a gift card or a bill?
44:07Oh, we don't do the gift cards over here.
44:09How much is it?
44:10I'll take care of it if you don't mind.
44:11No, we can pay half.
44:12Yeah.
44:13Do you fancy her?
44:14Absolutely, yeah.
44:15I feel like direct guys, guys who take control, do the planning, so.
44:17Let's pay half.
44:18No, no, it's fine.
44:19I got it.
44:20Don't worry about it.
44:21No, no, no.
44:22I feel sorry about that.
44:23No, no, no.
44:24No, no, no.
44:25I like that how, you know, he asked me what type of guy I like and he trying to give me
44:37clear action.
44:38Yeah.
44:39That was very, like, lovely.
44:41Follow me, please.
44:42Follow me, please.
44:43Sure.
44:44I don't think she was expecting to meet up with someone who already had, like, a pre-made
44:49family that kind of came cooked in the oven, you know?
44:51So, uh, I don't know if that fit into anyone's plans or made her plans.
44:57No problem.
44:58Do you guys want to see each other again romantically?
45:04No.
45:09Do you want to take a picture?
45:11You're famous.
45:12Famous doesn't pay the bills, huh?
45:16I would have said yes.
45:18Okay.
45:19Oh, it's so fresh.
45:20Inside it was very warm.
45:21I know it's nice out here.
45:22I think his kids deserve better women than me.
45:27The women who can give full love, to be 100% honest, I don't think I can do that.
45:35I'm not that saint.
45:36Good night.
45:37Good night.
45:38See ya.
45:39Not exactly the answer that you were looking for.
45:42I expected it, though.
45:43Did you?
45:44For that exact reason.
45:45Nice.
45:46Like, even when I do online dating, first and foremost I mention the kids, because I don't
45:51want to waste anyone's time, you know?
45:52Because it is a huge deal breaker.
45:53So, nothing's changed.
45:55Oh, thank you very much.
45:56Thank you very much.
45:57Thank you very much.
45:58I'm going to be old-fashioned.
45:59Yeah, yes.
46:00Wow.
46:01She's fabulous.
46:02Very elegantly dressed.
46:03And just very well turned out and really nice.
46:04It's brilliant.
46:05It's been a pleasure to have you both.
46:07Thank you very much.
46:11Would you like to see each other again?
46:12Well, I thought she was fascinating.
46:13And I would certainly like to learn more.
46:15And I would definitely like to see her again, yes.
46:16Yes.
46:17I would definitely like to see her again, yes.
46:18Yes.
46:19Thank you very much.
46:20Thank you very much.
46:21Thank you very much.
46:22I'm going to be old-fashioned.
46:23Yeah, yes.
46:24Wow.
46:25She's fabulous.
46:26Very elegantly dressed and just very well turned out and really nice.
46:30It's brilliant.
46:32It's been a pleasure to have you both.
46:33Thank you for coming.
46:35Would you like to see each other again?
46:36Well, I thought she was fascinating.
46:39And I would certainly like to learn more.
46:41And I would definitely like to see her again, yes.
46:44Yes.
46:45I'd like to see Andrew again, for sure.
46:48We survived.
46:49We did survive.
46:51And more.
46:52I totally enjoyed Andrew.
46:53I think he's charming and he's very easy going.
46:57And I think that's really nice.
46:58I enjoyed that.
46:59There's no pressure.
47:00There's a lot more to uncover.
47:02So why not?
47:03Why not?
47:04Chapter one.
47:142
47:15There's a lot of pain.
47:16You should be able to emulate and.
47:17Trust me if you can.
47:21But I felt like taking something special.
47:22You should be able to escape although that you
47:25didn't have to be.
47:26You should be able to survive.
47:302
47:31Little AI
47:32Graduate
47:33...
47:37Heart isабillinie.
47:39Love is to be the little dear.