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00:00I'm going to be doing a
00:02I'm going to be doing a
00:02I'm going to be doing a show.
00:05show.
00:30Facebook and YouTube, to everyone listening to DZ Double B, welcome to the program and thank you very much.
00:37Happy birthday to our makeup artist, Rogelio Yoli Sata.
00:47Our afternoon is special because we have a very special guest, phenomenal.
00:54She's an online superstar with millions of followers over various media platforms.
01:01Please welcome, the phenomenal, Toni Fowler.
01:11Thank you very much.
01:13Welcome to the program.
01:15I said, when I see Toni, you need to have an instructional right away. Teach me how to twerk.
01:21Okay, sure.
01:22Teach me how to twerk.
01:24Okay, it's like we're in a jeep.
01:26Ah, jeep.
01:28So you're going to shake like this.
01:30Don't do it too much. I'll do it first.
01:32So now, you're going to bend like this.
01:36What's that?
01:38Then you're going to shake like this.
01:40Ah, okay. So here, it's like you're shaking in the jeep.
01:42Then you're going to hold it like this.
01:44Okay.
01:46It's okay.
01:48That's it?
01:50That's it.
01:52So now, imagine you're shaking.
01:54Try it, Susanne.
01:56Shake, shake, shake, shake, shake.
01:59Bend, bend, bend.
02:01You can also do it to the left or right.
02:03To the right.
02:09Thank you very much.
02:12How's life?
02:14This success that you're experiencing, is it something that you dreamt of?
02:20A lot.
02:22Really?
02:24Since I was a kid.
02:26Like right now, I dreamt of getting an interview.
02:28I dreamt of being curious about me, about my life.
02:32Okay. Because I read a lot about you. I was doing research on you.
02:36When you were a kid, it seemed like you were doing an interview.
02:40Yes.
02:42Was that really on your mind?
02:44Yes. It was on my mind. It was like someone was interviewing me.
02:46And I was just looking at them.
02:48And I was answering questions.
02:50And you were doing it alone?
02:52Yes, I was doing it alone. I was in grade 2 or grade 3.
02:55What were the questions that you were answering?
02:57Why is my skin beautiful? Did I put powder on it?
03:00Those were the questions that I was answering.
03:03Okay.
03:05You dreamt of this, and you're living.
03:07Is this the life?
03:09I mean, you're happy with this life?
03:11Yes.
03:13You can see it in the vlogs.
03:15I didn't sleep last night. I just watched it.
03:17I watched a lot of vlogs.
03:20You can see that you're happy.
03:22I told RD, my head writer,
03:24I watched a lot of Tony's vlogs last night.
03:27They say a lot of things, but you have a good heart.
03:30You're so forgiving.
03:34You're so forgiving.
03:36That's my takeaway. That's what I learned.
03:38But I'm going ahead of the story.
03:40In life, Tony, how many times do you keep quiet?
03:43And how many times do you talk?
03:46At first, I just kept quiet in the beginning.
03:48It's a song, right?
03:50I just kept quiet in the beginning.
03:52How does it go? How does it go, the lyrics?
03:54I just kept quiet in the beginning.
03:56Don't change it.
03:58I just kept quiet in the beginning.
04:00I kept quiet in the beginning because I was nervous.
04:02You also keep quiet when you're in a situation.
04:04For example, when you're pregnant,
04:06you're not in the right state of mind, right?
04:08Don't get too emotional.
04:10And maybe it depends on whether I came back right.
04:15You're thinking about it.
04:16You're thinking about it.
04:18It's your process.
04:20I can see that in the vlog.
04:22You're listening.
04:24You're thinking.
04:26So as a person, that's your process.
04:28You're quiet in the beginning.
04:30And then, how many times do you fight?
04:32How many times do you fight?
04:34I fight the most.
04:36I don't keep quiet in the beginning.
04:38When it comes to my children.
04:40When it comes to my family.
04:42That's where I get triggered.
04:43That's where I get hit.
04:45That's where I get hurt.
04:47So that's where I fight.
04:49Don't keep quiet about your family?
04:51Yes, don't keep quiet about my family.
04:53We hear that a lot.
04:55I'm the only one in the center.
04:57Don't harm my children.
04:59Don't harm my family.
05:01How are you and your mother?
05:03My mother, we talked.
05:05After we talked,
05:07she didn't want to listen to me.
05:09So what happened?
05:11I apologized to her.
05:13What I want is for us to have boundaries
05:16when it comes to my child.
05:18From what I see, she won't do it.
05:20It's not because you're a grandmother
05:22that you can say,
05:24this is my decision, this is what I will say.
05:26It can't be like that.
05:28For me, if our relationship as a mother is not good,
05:30I don't want to harm my child.
05:32And my mother needs to understand
05:34that I won't forget to be a child.
05:36But as a parent now,
05:38my priority is to choose to be a parent
05:40instead of being a child first.
05:41Because if I'm just a child,
05:43sorry mom, I'll just be sad.
05:45But it can't be like that
05:47because my child can't hear
05:49that your mother doesn't love you.
05:51It comes from your grandmother
05:53because of lack of understanding.
05:55That's what I want.
05:57It can't be like that.
05:59What will you imitate
06:01and what will you not imitate
06:03in your mother
06:05in the context of raising
06:07Tyronea and Tyrone?
06:09What I will imitate
06:11and what I won't imitate
06:13in my mother
06:15is that I'm not listening to my child
06:17and I'm not apologizing
06:19because I'm apologizing to my child.
06:21Even to Tyronea?
06:23Yes.
06:25What I will imitate in her
06:27is how hard and strong she is
06:29to raise her children financially
06:31because that's how my mother is.
06:33She's a single mom.
06:35She's a brave mom.
06:37It's a good combination.
06:39Tyronea is a good kid
06:41and I watched your recent vlog.
06:43You can see the kid
06:45is brave,
06:47he asks questions,
06:49he knows where to sit.
06:51It's like I'm not his child.
06:53What does that mean?
06:55He sits like this
06:57and his mom is like this.
06:59In life,
07:01when do you fight
07:03and when do you retreat?
07:05Nothing to do with your family.
07:07When do you fight
07:09and when do you retreat?
07:11When do you fight
07:13and when do you retreat?
07:15When I fight,
07:17I retreat.
07:19I can't do that anymore.
07:21Did you retreat?
07:23Yes.
07:25The secrets,
07:27you know the real story,
07:29I didn't fight
07:31and I asked for help
07:33but they didn't help me.
07:35That feeling,
07:37I asked for help
07:39but I cried.
07:41My sister is from Sumbong
07:43and I'm from Sumbong
07:45so you don't have a choice
07:47but to be strong.
07:49I think I won't fight
07:51if I waste my time
07:53because when you get older
07:55you won't be able to make up for it.
07:57Do you feel like
07:59if you waste your time,
08:01you won't fight anymore?
08:03I think my time is like a diamond.
08:05That's what I think.
08:07I notice that in your vlogs.
08:08What do we see there?
08:10You're close to controversies
08:12in your career,
08:14in your personal life.
08:16What is it?
08:18What is the most controversial
08:20in your life?
08:22Maybe views.
08:24That's a big part of views.
08:26And when there are a lot of views,
08:28there's a lot of engagement.
08:30Yes, our income is higher.
08:32Money.
08:34But aside from that,
08:35there are a lot of mistakes in my life.
08:37A lot of people see
08:39how I grew up wrongly.
08:41It's like that.
08:43It's like they raised me wrongly.
08:45Right.
08:47Do you have anything to hide?
08:49Maybe when it comes to my children,
08:51especially when they're minors,
08:53because when you show them everything,
08:55a lot of people know, right?
08:57We can do it.
08:59But the kids, even if they're wrong,
09:01they don't deserve a bash.
09:03Because part of growing up is wrong.
09:05Have you ever been through a bash?
09:07Or did you go through it?
09:09Did you read about it?
09:11Did you fight about it?
09:13When I was pregnant,
09:15I really wanted them to be like me.
09:17But my boyfriend said,
09:19you're pregnant, you're too emotional,
09:21you're not busy.
09:23So you're like that now.
09:25It's gone.
09:27It's really gone.
09:29Because I'm happy.
09:31I'm happy when they talk about me.
09:33Because I should be the one talking.
09:35That's the attitude.
09:37That's the attitude.
09:39That's why I'm happy.
09:41As long as they're happy with me,
09:43good or bad, I'm happy.
09:45No, I want you to recognize
09:47this is my role,
09:49this is what they're talking about,
09:51and that's good.
09:53Whatever the reason is,
09:55I'll take it.
09:57At first, I didn't accept it.
09:59But as time went by,
10:01this is how I became a favorite.
10:03Because you were happy.
10:05Tony,
10:07now in your life,
10:09I know you're very stable,
10:11you have Uncle Vince, etc.
10:13What do you know about love
10:15for sure now?
10:17Love,
10:19what I understand about love,
10:21it's true.
10:23Love is forgiveness.
10:25Love is what you choose
10:27every day.
10:29It's a choice.
10:31That's what I see in my partner.
10:32I'm always angry,
10:34I'm always emotional,
10:36but he always chooses me.
10:38Love is forgiveness.
10:40I used to think when you fight,
10:42it's normal to walk out.
10:44It's normal to black out on Facebook,
10:46it's normal to yell at each other,
10:48or you're cheap.
10:50Love is not like that.
10:52It will embrace you
10:54even if you have a bad temper.
10:56Wow, I like that.
10:58Love is patient.
11:00Let's talk about what you've learned.
11:02Let's start with,
11:04for example,
11:06with Tyronia's dad.
11:08Yes.
11:10What did you learn?
11:12I learned that...
11:14How do you pronounce his name?
11:16Aaron.
11:18My father's name is Aaron.
11:20I learned, number one,
11:22don't try to be handsome
11:24at the same time.
11:26But it's okay,
11:28at least my son is handsome.
11:30But I learned that
11:32even if he has his own family,
11:34I look at him as family.
11:36I learned that
11:38if you have a child
11:40and you hide your father
11:42because he's not sustaining,
11:44it will be a question for the child
11:46that I grew up like that.
11:48Maybe if I'm with my father,
11:50I'm loved.
11:52You'll see why we're separate.
11:54Because I understood that
11:56the family is more broken
11:58that they force each other
12:00to be together for the child.
12:02You see,
12:04you're together.
12:06He cries a lot.
12:08He talks to his father.
12:10The first menstruation
12:12of your daughter.
12:14It's just beautiful
12:16when fathers talk.
12:18You're there, present.
12:20This is the experience.
12:22Don't forget his line.
12:24If you have a problem
12:26while crying,
12:28ask your mother.
12:30Because women
12:32are there.
12:34That's why I understand
12:36why we fight.
12:38We have a child.
12:40It's not a problem.
12:42That very controversial
12:44phase of your life
12:46when you got involved
12:48with John.
12:50What did you learn?
12:52I learned that
12:54number one,
12:56as I always tell them,
12:58don't be comforted
13:00by a new breakup.
13:02Because you'll get karma.
13:04It's not just karma.
13:06It's wrong.
13:08That's right.
13:10I totally agree.
13:12Except that in your story,
13:14you didn't know.
13:16It's confusing.
13:18But number three,
13:20what I understood
13:22is attention is not love.
13:24I thought when someone
13:26gives me attention,
13:28it's love.
13:30Wow.
13:32That's very important.
13:34I agree.
13:36Number two,
13:38don't be hurt by a woman's heart.
13:40You should support her.
13:42And number three,
13:44don't be comforted
13:46by a new breakup.
13:48You can say,
13:50we're confused,
13:52we're like this.
13:54No.
13:56It will hurt you.
13:58That's right.
14:00Rob,
14:02I don't want to fight with you.
14:04And no matter how hard it is
14:06to talk about money,
14:08because we as a culture,
14:10we're not used to talking about money,
14:12you really have to talk about money.
14:14Yes.
14:16At first,
14:18he gave us a hard time for like two years.
14:20I didn't have a job.
14:22I was like that.
14:24We lost control.
14:26I was too busy.
14:28We didn't manage it well.
14:30It's the same.
14:32What is the best thing
14:34about Tito Vince?
14:37What is the best thing
14:39about Vince?
14:41What I like about Vince
14:43is that he has a good heart.
14:45I used to think
14:47that you just need to be kind.
14:49You need to find someone
14:51who has a good heart.
14:53You have to have a good heart.
14:55He doesn't think about revenge
14:57or anger.
14:59Tony,
15:00if you have a circle of friends
15:02in life,
15:04who will you bring to heaven?
15:06And if you're going to hell,
15:08who will you bring to hell?
15:10I will answer that
15:12when we return
15:14to Fast Talk with Boy Abunda.
15:20We're back on the show
15:22with Tony Fowler.
15:24Tony,
15:26it's time to do Fast Talk.
15:28We have two minutes to do this
15:30so let's start.
15:32Tony,
15:34quiet or loud?
15:36Loud.
15:38Tall or short?
15:40Tall.
15:42Hot or cold?
15:44Hot.
15:46Fast or slow?
15:48Fast.
15:50Rich or rich?
15:52Rich.
15:54Soft or soft?
15:56Soft.
15:58Delicious or expensive?
16:00Expensive.
16:02How crazy are you in love?
16:04Ten.
16:06Part of your body
16:08that you retouched?
16:10All of it.
16:12How many exes have you had?
16:15We've had a lot.
16:17Tony in the morning
16:19or Tony at night?
16:21Tony online
16:23or Tony in real life?
16:25Guilty or not guilty?
16:27Guilty.
16:28Guilty or not guilty?
16:30Guilty.
16:32Guilty or not guilty?
16:34Guilty.
16:36Guilty or not guilty?
16:38Guilty.
16:40Guilty.
16:42Guilty.
16:44Not guilty.
16:46Who's the leading man?
16:48My lover.
16:50Who's the villain?
16:52It's hard to say.
16:54Whatever.
16:55Me.
16:57Lights on or lights off?
16:59Lights on.
17:00Happiness or chocolate?
17:01Happiness.
17:02Best time for happiness?
17:03Anytime.
17:04Complete this.
17:05I'm Tony Fowler,
17:06a woman.
17:08Truth and fight.
17:17Tony, what kind of a mother are you?
17:22Process.
17:23I'm still in the process.
17:24Work in progress.
17:25Yes, I'm like that.
17:27I know what's right and what's wrong.
17:30All mothers are like that.
17:32I think even those who were taught
17:33that there's a mother who nurtures the child,
17:36I think they're also in the learning process.
17:38But I like the way you talk to your child.
17:44Does that happen every day in your life?
17:46That you really talk to your child?
17:48It's really important to talk.
17:50Especially when
17:51we're about the same age.
17:55Sometimes we're like friends.
17:57Sometimes I play,
17:58sometimes I'm hot-headed,
17:59sometimes I'm very strict,
18:00sometimes I'm loose.
18:01I really play like that.
18:02And you don't hide anything, right?
18:04No, everything I say.
18:06And she understands.
18:07Yes.
18:08That's what Vince's mother taught me.
18:10She told me that
18:12you need to tell your child
18:15because she won't know from others
18:17because you'll look like a liar to your child.
18:18So I'm always like,
18:19okay, I'll tell her first.
18:20I'll tell my child first.
18:21I'll let my child know first.
18:25Wow.
18:27You have a very good relationship
18:28with the mother of Vince.
18:29Yes, sir.
18:30She's beautiful.
18:31Her mother is kind
18:32because she listens to me.
18:35What's good about that
18:36is that you won't let your child
18:38know from others
18:39whatever is happening to you
18:41because she will think
18:42that you're not telling the truth.
18:44Yes.
18:45Because even if you didn't tell her,
18:46you didn't lie to her.
18:47She thinks that
18:48my mother is hiding something.
18:49That's a lie.
18:50There are things that should be hidden.
18:51There are things that
18:52she should be the first to know.
18:53No matter what your child tells you,
18:55this is your mother's statement.
18:57Now, you have to prove
18:58that this is the truth.
19:00Right.
19:01Hypothetically,
19:02if you're with someone in heaven,
19:03who is it?
19:04If you're with someone in hell,
19:05who is it?
19:06And why?
19:07If I'm with someone in heaven,
19:08of course, it's my children.
19:09Right?
19:10Let's say,
19:11it's Papa Jesus.
19:13If I'm with someone in hell,
19:14it's my boyfriend.
19:16Yes.
19:17Let's say,
19:18if I'm with someone in hell,
19:19it's my boyfriend.
19:21Because I feel like
19:22he won't be an NPR
19:23when I'm with him.
19:24Yes.
19:25He will answer everything.
19:28That's so beautiful.
19:29Right?
19:30I will show you
19:31my beautiful reflection.
19:33My beautiful reflection is in front of you.
19:36Describe the woman
19:37that you see.
19:39Number one,
19:40she's so beautiful.
19:41She's so brave.
19:42She's so brave.
19:43Wow,
19:44I'm really heavy here.
19:47She's still on her period.
19:50She loves herself.
19:51Because I always tell them,
19:53no matter what other people say,
19:55you don't have to care.
19:56Respect?
19:57Okay, don't.
19:58But you have to make sure
19:59that when you see yourself in the mirror,
20:01you love it.
20:03And what will you say to her,
20:05to the woman in the mirror?
20:07Be strong.
20:08You still have a lot to go through.
20:09You still have a lot to help.
20:10And I love you so much.
20:12Toni,
20:13many years from now,
20:14people will look back.
20:16How do you want people
20:17to remember Toni Fowler?
20:21She's a good person.
20:22Yes.
20:23She makes mistakes,
20:24but she's right.
20:26She learns.
20:28She's a real person.
20:29That's good.
20:31Thank you so much.
20:33Thank you so much.
20:34Thank you for coming.
20:36Thank you so much.
20:38Thank you so much.
20:39We have a winner,
20:40the one and the only Toni Fowler.
20:44We'll see each other again tomorrow.
20:46Goodbye for now,
20:47and God bless.