Why should husbands decide what’s best for wives?
Thanks to Batto Ki Bakwaas and The Sahitya Project for the footage!
Thanks to Batto Ki Bakwaas and The Sahitya Project for the footage!
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00:00If you don't say no, it doesn't mean you agree to it.
00:05If you don't say no, it doesn't mean you agree to it.
00:09When you let him wear a suit instead of a sari,
00:11and you say, dear, we are big-hearted,
00:14if you don't take off your veil, it's fine.
00:16Just put on a mang, put on a bangle,
00:19what harm will it do to you?
00:21If you listen to your elders,
00:23will the mountain break?
00:26And then you show your love in such a way
00:30that you make me understand the boundaries of my rights.
00:33You let me go out, you let me work,
00:36you give me the right to speak at the dinner table,
00:38you let me make my name
00:40and sometimes you let me get up late.
00:42And you just keep giving.
00:45And because you have been with me all my life,
00:47then I also adjust
00:49and keep adjusting.
00:52So that's where we all lose.
00:55So that's where we all lose.
00:57Because who is going to ask you
00:59who you are to give?
01:02Who is going to ask you
01:04who you are to give?
01:06Who are you who should take permission by default?
01:08Who are you who has given yourself the right
01:10that what I am giving is yours?
01:13So what I am, was and can be,
01:16its pages should be torn.
01:19Because when I look back,
01:21I am not who I am,
01:23I am what you let me be.
01:26Because when I look back,
01:28I am not who I am,
01:30I am what you let me be.
01:32I am the one who doesn't like suits, skirts,
01:34who considers bangles to be chains,
01:36who denies rituals,
01:38who doesn't have the habit of singing aarti,
01:40but knows the meaning of respect.
01:42You will teach her the lesson of your world,
01:44who can give in two columns every day
01:46and who can't,
01:49and you will become a big hearted person.
01:53And you will become a big hearted person,
01:55because you gave me what
01:57big fortunate people get.
01:59You gave me what
02:01big fortunate people get.
02:03Like you, who once in a week
02:05make breakfast and come here,
02:07you call my family and tell me,
02:09and if someday you clean the house,
02:11then you accept that
02:13you should get the trophy of best husband.
02:16You accept that
02:18you should get the trophy of best husband,
02:20but you are that avatar,
02:22which no one can get even after 16th November.
02:26You are that avatar,
02:28which no one can get even after 16th November.
02:30But I must have done some good deeds,
02:32which I got you.
02:34And I will also remain in this illusion,
02:36that I got someone who gave me so much.
02:38I will forget that
02:40I never gave this right to anyone.
02:42I will forget that
02:44I never gave this right to anyone.
02:46You are the one,
02:48who made me strong.
02:50I was myself.
02:52And there was no line around me,
02:54which you are going to make now.
02:56There was no line around me,
02:58which you are going to make now.
03:00The size and altitude of my wings
03:02does not come in your direction.
03:04The size and altitude of my wings
03:06does not come in your direction.
03:08Similarly, if yours and mine comes,
03:10then it is with each other.
03:12Similarly, if yours and mine comes,
03:14then it is with each other.
03:18Similarly, if yours and mine comes,
03:20then it is with each other.
03:22And forgive me,
03:24I am still a kid in the book of calculations.
03:26And forgive me,
03:28I am still a kid in the book of calculations.
03:30I am still a kid in the book of calculations.
03:32My flight is my identity.
03:34Should I fill this with a skirt or a sari?
03:36How did your respect get attached to this?
03:42Do not tie it with a string
03:44that you are holding.
03:46Tie it with a string
03:48that we are flying together.
03:50Tie it with a string that we are flying together.
03:52I am not talking about one-sided things.
03:54This is a two-way road.
03:56Do not connect the meaning of my respect
03:58to my clothes, rituals, and decoration.
04:00Do not connect the meaning of my respect
04:02to my clothes, rituals, and decoration.
04:04And do not devalue my cooking skills
04:06with my values.
04:08This can also be my hobby.
04:10Do not make it a compulsory subject.
04:12This can also be my hobby.
04:14Do not make it a compulsory subject.
04:16I will handle the rest.
04:18Do not worry too much.