From being single to meeting someone sweet—which is sweeter? When you meet someone who makes your heart skip a beat and turns your world upside down, how do you know when he is THE ONE? In this episode, Cheska Garcia and singers Karylle, Nina, and Kyla share their perspectives on settling down with the love of their life.
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00:00Every day's a new beginning, every night a start of something, brand new ways and brand new days too.
00:10Every day's a new beginning, every night a start of something, brand new ways and brand new days.
00:20A sweet life all the way with Lucy.
00:31From single to sweet, which is sweeter?
00:33When you come across a person who makes your heart skip beats and really turns your world upside down,
00:38how do you know that he is the one?
00:40Tonight on the show, we will settle the issues about the next big step in a relationship.
00:45And joining us for this interesting talk of settling down,
00:48they have been rumored to be engaged now after Cage, your boyfriend, gave R&B princess a ring.
00:54Although they denied it, they said that they'll announce it when it's time.
00:58Please welcome Kyla and Rich Alvarez.
01:02She has been crooning with fellow singer boyfriend, Nyoy Volante, for more than a year now
01:08and are bound to make more beautiful music together.
01:11Welcome on the show, Soul Siren, Nina.
01:18Sights really does not matter when you're happy in love
01:21and that's what her more than three-year relationship with Dog Kramer has proven.
01:25Please welcome Cheska Garcia.
01:33And the other half of a perfectly happy showbiz couple despite rumors and intrigues, we have Kareel.
01:39She and Ding Dong Dance have celebrated their second anniversary just this month.
01:45Thank you for being here.
01:47Thank you, thank you.
01:48You all look so blooming and happy.
01:51Right, Wilma?
01:52Yes.
01:53Why?
01:54Maybe it's love.
01:55And they're open to all the relationships they have now.
01:59This is it.
02:00This is it.
02:01Forever and ever.
02:02Forever and ever.
02:03And I'm sure, in your past relationships, although you hoped that that would be forever,
02:08what makes this particular relationship different?
02:11Why did you say that this is it?
02:13Let's start with Rich and Kyla.
02:15These two have been holding hands for a while now.
02:17Rich, Kyla isn't your first girlfriend, right?
02:19I'm sure.
02:22I don't like her, Nina.
02:23No, she's not.
02:24She's not.
02:25But what makes you say that Kyla is the one?
02:28Well, I've been in a couple relationships.
02:30I learned from my mistakes and other things.
02:36I put all those lessons I learned into this relationship.
02:39And so far, I think it's great.
02:41It's doing good so far.
02:42And what does Kyla have that the others didn't?
02:45She takes care of me.
02:47Oh, she takes care of you?
02:49Yeah.
02:50Kyla!
02:51If there's something wrong with me, she checks up on me.
02:54And you've never had that kind of TLC from the other girlfriends before?
03:01Not to the same degree?
03:03Not to the same degree.
03:04Okay, Kyla.
03:05Share with us.
03:06I want to know that.
03:08How does a Kyla take care of you?
03:10Me?
03:12Actually, I don't know.
03:14I always communicate with her.
03:18We talk a lot.
03:20And then, she's just my friend.
03:24So, when you're angry, you just smile?
03:28You know what?
03:29We haven't fought yet.
03:32Rich, you're serious?
03:33Never?
03:34You've never fought?
03:35You guys?
03:36Never.
03:37Never a big argument.
03:38We never had.
03:39Maybe when we fought, the longest time was 20 minutes.
03:44So, there was never a time that you didn't talk?
03:47Never, never.
03:48Because you felt bad?
03:49No, no, no.
03:50This is a different level.
03:51So, those are the secrets.
03:53Okay.
03:54Let's ask some of the others.
03:56Nina.
03:57Yes.
03:58You know, Nyoy was just here at the show and he sang that beautiful song, Ha.
04:02He told me.
04:03You're mine, Ha.
04:04Please?
04:05Yes.
04:06I'm pleased for you.
04:07He told me at first.
04:08Yes.
04:09When he was courting me, he sang that to me.
04:12Then, I said, why don't you make a song?
04:15So, he made a song.
04:16A whole song.
04:17He said, it's about me.
04:19So, that's why you fell in love with him?
04:21I answered him.
04:22Because of that?
04:23Because of that song?
04:24A little.
04:25A little.
04:26Are you hoping that this is it for you?
04:28I hope so.
04:29Of course.
04:30Is this your longest relationship?
04:31No, no.
04:32Not your longest?
04:33He's my second boyfriend.
04:34How old are you?
04:35Three, right?
04:36One, right?
04:37One year and four months.
04:38So, Nyoy and you have a fight?
04:41It's a fight.
04:43That's annoying, right?
04:45He's my ex-boyfriend.
04:46What are you doing?
04:48You're so cheesy.
04:49How were you attracted to Dog?
04:52I don't know.
04:55There was just something about him that not the other guys.
04:59How did you meet?
05:00A blind date?
05:01Or somebody set you up?
05:02No.
05:03We met in Baracay through a common friend.
05:05We started hanging out.
05:09But then I had a boyfriend.
05:11You were still in a relationship then?
05:12Yeah, I was still in a relationship.
05:14I told him not to talk to me anymore.
05:17But Dog was so annoying.
05:19He'd still visit me and everything.
05:23When I finally asked him to stop calling me up.
05:28He stopped?
05:29He did.
05:30But then on my birthday, he went to my best friend's house
05:33and gave me something.
05:35He gave me a necklace.
05:37He wrote me a letter.
05:39What was nice about him was he was so career-oriented.
05:43He had his goals straightened out at such an early age.
05:47That's what I was looking for in a partner.
05:51I didn't want anyone to just be with.
05:53Maturity doesn't really come with age.
05:57It's not synonymous with age.
05:59That's true.
06:02I'm late.
06:03Let's ask Kay.
06:05These two are so sweet.
06:10Your boyfriend is also an ex.
06:12I have a lot of exes.
06:14How did you find out about Shanna?
06:17Or do you want to be Shanna?
06:20Yes.
06:21For one thing, our family's relationship is great.
06:25It's very important.
06:26My dad, my mom, and my sisters like her.
06:29Is that your criteria for all your boyfriends?
06:32That they should be loyal to their families?
06:34Not all of them.
06:36There's a reason why.
06:39So far, he's the only one who's loyal.
06:41I can see that they're happy.
06:44They're comfortable being around him.
06:46That's nice.
06:47At least it's not a stressful relationship in that sense.
06:52Did he talk to you about getting married?
06:55Not in a cute way.
06:57Usually, when you're in a relationship,
07:00it's nice to play the idea of getting married someday.
07:04But do you talk about it seriously?
07:06Before you answer, we will pause for this break.
07:21We'll be back later on in the show.
07:23We'll be with our real-life couples.
07:26But for now, we are with the single girls.
07:28But they are all happy in their relationship.
07:32So the hanging question before the break was,
07:35did you talk about getting married?
07:40She's looking for her mic.
07:42We're always asked that question.
07:44It's hard for me to answer that question.
07:46It's hard to be the first one to answer that question.
07:49I might get rejected or something.
07:51So, no.
07:52Did you talk about it?
07:53We talked about the future.
07:55But not seriously.
07:56We don't have the details yet.
07:58No, we talked about the future seriously.
08:00About where we're going to live,
08:02how many kids we're going to have.
08:04Where are you going to live and how many kids you're going to have.
08:07But we skipped the marriage part.
08:11Not that we don't want to get married,
08:13but we just don't want to talk about it before it's there.
08:18Doug and I talked about it.
08:20We're already in our third year.
08:22Actually, we're going on our fourth year.
08:24So, yes, we talked about it.
08:25But you're not yet engaged, are you?
08:27No, I'm not yet engaged.
08:29But we do talk about it.
08:30We have solid plans.
08:31In your past relationships,
08:33did you ever think that those guys were the one?
08:37Well, I wanted them to be the one.
08:40But it didn't turn out that way.
08:42You know where the relationship is heading to.
08:46Because every relationship that you get into,
08:49you always want this person to be your last one.
08:52That's true.
08:53Otherwise, it's a waste of time.
08:55But then, later on, when you get to know each other,
08:59then you realize your differences
09:01and where it's heading to,
09:03if this is for long-term or not.
09:06That's why there are some people,
09:08sometimes they don't have a problem,
09:09but they break up because they don't see,
09:12they don't picture themselves in that person.
09:15How about you, Nina?
09:16Do you picture yourself being together forever?
09:20For now, yes.
09:21The two of us are happy together.
09:24So we really think that this is it.
09:27In our wedding plans,
09:29sometimes we talk about it.
09:31Spur of the moment.
09:32But nothing concrete yet?
09:33No.
09:34And he hasn't proposed?
09:35Not yet.
09:36Not yet.
09:37I can't do it.
09:38Wilm is still in the process.
09:40At this point in your life,
09:41what if he did propose?
09:43Will you say yes?
09:44Will you take the plunge?
09:45Or is it something that you'll really, really think about first?
09:50I'm sure I'll say yes.
09:52Really?
09:53Yes.
09:54You have no qualms about giving up singlehood?
09:57That's my word for the day.
09:59Qualms.
10:00What is that?
10:01What do you mean by qualms?
10:03Do you have nothing to hide?
10:06You're so good at that.
10:07So do you have qualms?
10:09No qualms.
10:10Because for me,
10:12we have a lot of things we want to do with our careers.
10:16So we're trying to,
10:18well, at the start of this year,
10:20we made plans that we needed to achieve.
10:23And you've achieved them so far?
10:25We're on our way.
10:27We really have a schedule.
10:29We have deadlines.
10:30It's that detailed?
10:32Yes.
10:33How old is he?
10:3426.
10:35We're the same age.
10:38We're just trying to visualize
10:39so that we're on the right schedule.
10:43If we want to have a family,
10:46we need to do a lot of things.
10:48At least you're working towards something.
10:50Anyway, since we're talking about settling down,
10:53let the Suite Life give you a guide
10:54on hunting down the newest locations for your dream house.
10:58Grace leads tours around the metro
11:00and here are the places she listed down.
11:04When two people who are in love
11:05decide to share their lives together,
11:07one of the top considerations is where to settle.
11:10It is sweet when you get to make a home at a location
11:12where it best suits your interests and personality.
11:15So we're here to help you, husbands and wives,
11:17to settle that issue.
11:18We're here in front of Celebrity Place
11:20where they have a townhouse and a condo
11:22and we're going to take a peek
11:24at the future they have to offer.
11:32You'll be showing us the model units, I believe?
11:34Yes, we're here at the Celebrity Place.
11:36We'll be showing you one of our townhouses
11:39and hopefully one of our condos also.
11:41Okay, great. So let's start.
11:45So tell us more about this model unit.
11:47This model unit is the bed.
11:49This is one of the bigger units here.
11:51This is a townhouse.
11:53It has a 130-square-meter lot
11:57with a 179-square-meter floor area.
12:01So how many floors is this unit?
12:03It has three floors.
12:04Okay, so this is the living room area?
12:06Yes.
12:07For the second floor, we have here the dining area
12:10and the kitchen and the main room.
12:12Okay, let's go.
12:15Wow, so this is the second floor.
12:17Yes.
12:18As you can see, this is where the dining area should be.
12:23So the living area has a high ceiling.
12:26Yes.
12:27That's one of the key…
12:28I mean, I think that appeals to a lot of people.
12:31Let me see the kitchen area.
12:33When we turn over the unit,
12:35all of these are included in the unit.
12:38So you'll have this.
12:40All the cabinets.
12:43Okay, so this is the third floor
12:46and we have the master's bedroom to our left.
12:50These are the two bedrooms.
12:51We have provisions for air conditioners inside.
12:54Ah, I see.
12:55And the cabinets come with them too?
12:56Yes.
12:57Oh, really?
12:58They come with the unit already.
12:59And this is the common wash area?
13:01Yes.
13:02This is the master's bedroom.
13:03So the master's bedroom comes with a walk-in closet,
13:07which is really important for women.
13:10Exactly.
13:11I love that.
13:12So we have that here.
13:13And our toilet and bath, we have a bathtub.
13:17That comes with the unit also.
13:18So let's proceed to the second site, which is the…
13:21Condo.
13:22Okay, I'm so excited to see that one.
13:25Okay, so we are here in front of the condo unit.
13:28So this is just, how many bedrooms?
13:30This is just a one-bedroom condo
13:32with a 47-square-meter floor area.
13:36Has a lot of units been sold already?
13:38Yes, actually we just have 7-8 left.
13:41Only 7-8 units left?
13:43Yes, for our entire inventory,
13:45including the townhouse as well as the condo.
13:48This is located in the heart of Quezon City,
13:50very near Ateneo, Miriam, and UP.
13:54So transportation-wise, no problem.
13:57A comfortable home is a first step to a happy life together,
14:00so make sure you choose carefully and wisely.
14:03When we come back, the couples get more intimate
14:06as they answer to a puzzling challenge.
14:08Stay tuned.
14:24Okay, we are back with Rich and Kyla,
14:27and we also have another couple who met in Philippine Ballet.
14:30Please welcome on the show, Erica Marquez and Lucas Jacinto.
14:37They are all set to marry this May.
14:40Wow, exciting.
14:41Congratulations.
14:44Now, we're going to play a little game.
14:46This is very fast.
14:49Yes.
14:50It's a puzzle, and there are four pieces to a puzzle.
14:53All they have to do is, after they answer the questions,
14:56they will fit the puzzle.
14:58Just fit it so it fits.
15:00But there are questions on the back.
15:02Yes, there are questions on the back of the puzzle.
15:05We don't want one word answer, okay, Rich?
15:08Do you understand that?
15:09We want elaboration this time, okay?
15:11Yes.
15:12Okay, good.
15:13So, let's start.
15:14You choose.
15:15Okay, Kyla.
15:18Here's the question.
15:19What part of his body do you enjoy touching?
15:26Him?
15:27The part I like to touch?
15:28His face.
15:29His face.
15:30Okay, go ahead.
15:31I thought, you know, I would think you'd say his shoulders.
15:33Because that's what's good about basketball players, the shoulders.
15:36And, yeah.
15:38His arms, too.
15:39And when he hugs.
15:41When he hugs.
15:42Okay, next.
15:43Okay, next.
15:44It's Erica's turn.
15:45Ask her.
15:46I must say, Erica is good at this.
15:48She's a ballerina.
15:49She's my idol, too.
15:50Erica is so pretty.
15:51Erica.
15:53She's so cute.
15:54Because it's Papa, right?
15:55Just smile.
15:57So, you.
15:58Do you want to choose?
15:59Just this one?
16:00Oh, no.
16:01The one you chose.
16:02Hey, don't ask.
16:05Okay.
16:07Describe to us your most intimate moment together.
16:13Togetherness is loveliness.
16:15Actually, I guess the most intimate moment that we have is when I'm vulnerable or if I'm
16:20troubled, I have a problem.
16:22What does he do?
16:23He's very supportive.
16:24How?
16:25How does he support you?
16:26He's very touchy.
16:27So, he really hugs until I stop crying.
16:30Aww.
16:31You know that, right?
16:32That's true.
16:33Wait, I talked to a friend.
16:34She said that's the only time she really appreciates the hug when she's really, really sad.
16:40Hug me.
16:42I'm not sad.
16:45I don't need a hug.
16:48Guiterra.
16:49This one.
16:50It's up to you if I'll give it or not.
16:52Okay, next.
16:53This one.
16:54I think this is for Kyla.
16:55How do you make love from Rich when you want attention from him?
17:00I think Rich should be the one to answer that.
17:02Because Kyla is always…
17:04Because I think Kyla is really, really shy.
17:06Does she tell you that, Rich, I want a hug, I want a kiss, right?
17:10No, she'll give me some pouty like, Rich.
17:16She doesn't say it though.
17:17She never says that.
17:18She never says it.
17:19I have to guess.
17:20I'm like, ah.
17:21So, everything really, you initiate everything?
17:26Pretty much.
17:27Most of the time.
17:28Kyla, I'll teach you how to initiate things.
17:31Kyla, why?
17:32I don't know.
17:33I'm shy.
17:34You're really…
17:35That's really the trait of Filipinas.
17:37Reserved.
17:38First time I took her out to dinner, I…
17:40Sobra.
17:41Why?
17:42First time you took her out to dinner?
17:43I took her out to dinner, yeah.
17:44Rich, you're mic.
17:45I'm sorry.
17:46I don't want to miss a thing.
17:47Nothing.
17:48The first time we ordered our food and then I just put my arm around her like this.
17:53And she froze.
17:54She's like this.
17:55I was like, oh, what did I do?
17:56What's wrong?
17:57Wait, how did you meet?
17:58We have a common friend.
18:01And the first time she saw me, it was by accident.
18:05And then the second time…
18:06She asked you who you were?
18:09Something like that?
18:10Yes, something like that.
18:11And then her mom said, ever since he saw me, he's been watching…
18:20She said she's wondering why he's been watching me.
18:23She doesn't know me.
18:24So you were in love at first sight?
18:26I wasn't in love at first sight.
18:27He was really drawn to her.
18:29Yeah, like everyone's…
18:31Even my parents liked her before.
18:33Really?
18:34They're like, yeah, Rich, go get him tight, you know?
18:36Stuff like that.
18:37I was also hesitant because I was afraid of what people would think when they say I'm a basketball player.
18:45Playboy.
18:46And I didn't really know him because I don't watch basketball.
18:51But when you saw him, you got attracted to him right away.
18:53Is he really your type?
18:55Tall?
18:56Yes.
18:57Big?
18:58Yes.
18:59And I fell in love with him right away.
19:01He does look like a man.
19:03So how did you two meet?
19:05They still have a lot of questions.
19:07Here's your question.
19:09Sexiest compliments you've exchanged.
19:14Lucas, I'm sure it's not hard to compliment her because she's so pretty.
19:21Okay, this one.
19:22What do you like her to wear?
19:24What's her outfit that you really like when you see her?
19:27Her outfit that I like the most is when she's just wearing simple clothes.
19:34Like a Sunday skirt.
19:40Like that?
19:41Dressed?
19:42Oh, so you like her in a dress?
19:43Yeah.
19:44But you know, floral dresses.
19:47I think he likes me in girly clothes.
19:49You want her to look feminine.
19:51He likes the sweet girl type.
19:53What about you?
19:54What do you want him to wear?
19:56Jeans or slacks?
19:59I like him in like that.
20:01Very clean cut, crisp outfits.
20:04Okay, okay.
20:05Now, how do you define love now that you have each other?
20:10I love her so much that if all those external factors you're considering,
20:20but before getting married, if that didn't matter, I'd want to marry her now.
20:25You would have married her a long time ago.
20:27Yeah, of course there's other things to consider, but that's how much I love her.
20:30There's nobody else.
20:39That was good.
20:40So Kyla, since you heard that he wants to marry you now,
20:44what's your song for Rich?
20:48Song for him?
20:49Beautiful Days.
20:50What's that?
20:51Can you sing a part of it?
20:53Actually, I wrote it for him.
20:55Really?
20:56You guys already know?
20:57Yeah, we've known each other for a year.
20:59There.
21:00Okay, it goes like this.
21:17For all the beautiful days with you.
21:20Yes.
21:27How does that make you feel?
21:30You know, that doesn't happen every day to a man,
21:32that a woman actually writes a song for him and sings it on national TV.
21:36Am I red right now?
21:38Yeah.
21:40Of course.
21:41Do you ever get used to it?
21:44I'm sure you've heard the song many, many times.
21:46Do you ever get used to the feeling that it's so good?
21:51Yeah, I like it.
21:52Yes, I like it a lot.
21:57Of course, I feel special.
21:58I feel honored that somebody wrote a song about you.
22:02And it's a good song.
22:04Let's ask this other couple.
22:05They're holding hands.
22:08How do you define love now that you're together?
22:12Or now that you've found each other again after being apart for, what, seven months?
22:17But it still feels good.
22:19I don't know.
22:22I think it's recognizing how to self-sacrifice for the other person.
22:29Because you know you start loving a person if you're willing to bend a little for that person,
22:36for things to work out.
22:38And it's a nice feeling.
22:42You've been together for so long and then you're going to settle down.
22:46Isn't it tiring?
22:47It feels like you've been together for so long.
22:49No.
22:50Really?
22:52I don't think so.
22:54Because we were so miserable apart.
22:56Really?
22:57I hope I can feel that too.
22:59I understand what you're saying.
23:01It's tiring.
23:02I see you every day.
23:03But maybe that's the reason why we talked about going to the next step.
23:09Settling down.
23:10Settling down.
23:11It's a nice feeling.
23:12It's a new challenge.
23:13So that's the level of love.
23:16Always.
23:17Okay, we will pause for a break.
23:19We'll still be with our couples later.
23:21But for now, is living in an option for them?
23:25We will also get to discuss the in-thing when it comes to marriage.
23:28They say pre-nup is a trend now.
23:30It's pros and cons when the sweet life returns.
23:40Okay, since we're talking about prepping up to tying the knot,
23:53we also tried to resolve the issue about pre-nup agreements.
23:57I always hear about pre-nup agreements.
24:00It's only in Hollywood.
24:02Yes, because they glamorize it in Hollywood.
24:05Really?
24:06Yes.
24:07But now that we're going to the Philippines,
24:09I don't really understand the differences.
24:12I hope you can explain it to us.
24:14Let's ask him if he really wants to help us understand more.
24:17We invited over attorney Vinnie Ibarra.
24:22Thank you very much for being with us.
24:24Nice to be here.
24:25Can you tell us in a nutshell, how did this thing come about?
24:29How popular is it here?
24:31Okay.
24:32The animal is called the pre-nuptial agreement.
24:36In the Philippines, we call it the marriage settlement.
24:39The pre-nuptial agreement is its Hollywood name.
24:42Marriage settlement.
24:43It's a marriage settlement.
24:44Was it popular during the time of our grandmothers?
24:47I'm not too aware.
24:49But in the few years that I've been practicing,
24:52I've encountered cases where couples would opt to have a marriage settlement.
24:57The regime of marriage settlement happens
25:01The mandatory regime right now in law is what we call absolute community.
25:06In a nutshell, if you're married,
25:09what you own and what the other person in the marriage owns,
25:14they will be pulled together and you divide it in the middle.
25:17Okay.
25:18If you put in 70%, the partner puts in 30%, you own 50-50.
25:22Yes.
25:23To simplify matters, if I'm getting married to someone who has 2 million and I have nothing,
25:29You're 1 million?
25:30We're 1 million if we don't have a marriage settlement.
25:33So, Tony, are those pre-nups just for the rich?
25:37Actually, it has some practical use.
25:39Not just for the rich.
25:41I agree.
25:42The primary use is for
25:44Protection.
25:45Protection, yes.
25:46Especially if the economic status of the couple is not equal.
25:51But I've seen cases where you need also a marriage settlement
25:55if there are other issues going into the marriage.
25:57Right.
25:58For example, if the girl or the guy is previously married.
26:02Or they have a child.
26:04Right.
26:05Or they have issues like family business that needs to be separated from the marriage.
26:13Are you willing to go for a pre-nup?
26:17Actually, we haven't talked about it.
26:19But I'm not for any pre-nup arrangement.
26:24How about you?
26:25Well, I've never thought about possible pre-nups.
26:28Until today, right?
26:29Yes.
26:30If you get married, there's no turning back.
26:33I think the best way to protect yourself is to choose the right partner.
26:41Rich and Kyla, is that an option for you?
26:43Do you think you'd ever go for something like that?
26:45We haven't come across anything like that.
26:48When it goes our way, I think we'll discuss it.
26:51Why do some couples opt for pre-nups?
26:53Is it for protection?
26:55So that they won't be abused?
26:56Or in the event of a separation?
26:58Primarily, why do they do it?
27:01Some say that's the primary reason.
27:03But sometimes, it's also...
27:05If you want to separate, really, the reasons for you to get married.
27:12As lawyers say, love conquers all.
27:15But love is also practical.
27:17I'm marrying someone.
27:19I'm not marrying you for your wealth.
27:22In my case, I had no reason to get a pre-nup.
27:25Because I know my body is the only thing my wife wants.
27:28So, Tony, what are the advantages and disadvantages of a pre-nup?
27:35In my experience, someone going into a marriage,
27:40volunteering to sign a pre-nup, is actually quite liberating.
27:46I was talking a while ago about this lawyer
27:49who's married to a showbiz girl.
27:51The lawyer is well-off.
27:53But his wife is also super, super well-off.
27:58So, it's like he's not using any money.
28:02Yes.
28:03He actually volunteered to the future wife, perhaps.
28:06It's quite liberating.
28:08Let's sign a pre-nup.
28:09Is this a lifetime agreement?
28:11Yes, of course.
28:12A prenuptial agreement that you entered into before you get married
28:16is actually for life.
28:18But it can be withdrawn in the middle of the marriage
28:21if, for example, the husband or the wife says...
28:23There's an expiration.
28:24No.
28:25If it's proved that...
28:27Perhaps, the family has some concerns at first
28:29that the intention is not very clean or pure.
28:32But perhaps, 10 years into the marriage or 20 years,
28:36you'll see that,
28:37there's really no intention,
28:39but just to love my child.
28:41Can we...
28:42Determinate?
28:43Yes, let's make it even.
28:46The marriage settlement,
28:48just like the I-do's in a marriage vow,
28:51it's permanent.
28:52The law says,
28:54just like your vow when you get married,
28:57the marriage settlement is permanent.
29:00You either take it now or you don't take it at all.
29:03There's no halfway.
29:05So, that's part of the issues that you resolve going into the marriage.
29:09How will your property relationship look like?
29:11Who will own what?
29:13So, the termination of the prenup,
29:15does it mean that their marriage is terminated?
29:18That's the only time the prenup is terminated.
29:20Yes, sadly.
29:21Oh, that's so sad.
29:22Don't be like that.
29:23Aren't you happy?
29:24So, once you start,
29:25you really have to fight all throughout the marriage?
29:27Definitely.
29:28Wow.
29:29Just like the marriage vow,
29:30there's no difference.
29:31Is that so?
29:32There's no...
29:33That's so sad.
29:34Yes, it's so sad.
29:37Anyway, thank you, attorney, for shedding light on that.
29:39Up next,
29:40the best ways to settle the disputes in relationships.
29:42Take a look at that.
29:56In every relationship,
29:57we can't really avoid that couples fight.
30:01But they say it's healthy because the upside is,
30:05there's always a time to make up.
30:07Oh, correct.
30:08I like that kind of make-up.
30:09Right?
30:10Yes.
30:11You can put blush on.
30:13No.
30:14Of course,
30:15I believe that the best apologies
30:17are not just words.
30:19You have to make an effort.
30:21It's more effective.
30:22And the girls will appreciate it more.
30:23Did you understand that?
30:25Uh-huh.
30:26That's cool.
30:27But Chris...
30:28Oh, not Chris.
30:29Rich and Canela don't fight.
30:31Now, they're fighting because of me.
30:34But how, like you,
30:35Erica and Lucas,
30:37what was the worst fight you had?
30:39And how did you...
30:40Who's to blame?
30:41Erica or Lucas?
30:43Usually, when we fight, it's...
30:45It's like Erica.
30:46She's like that.
30:47It's like there's friction.
30:49There's insecurity.
30:50Because Erica is from a really rich family.
30:54And so,
30:56if we're going to have a fight,
30:59if she answers back,
31:01if she answers back,
31:03it becomes an issue.
31:05Because you're rich,
31:06it's like that.
31:07Oh, really?
31:08It's ugly.
31:10The issue is ugly.
31:11How do you settle?
31:13You're so cute to admit that.
31:15Flowers.
31:16The next day, there are flowers.
31:18There was one time
31:19when I told her,
31:20one whole month,
31:21actually more than a month,
31:23that every weekend,
31:24I have a new bouquet of flowers.
31:27Because that's how we usually fight.
31:30What are your favorite flowers?
31:32Stargazers.
31:33Stargazers.
31:34Oh, gosh.
31:35When you're rich.
31:38How do you...
31:39The last time he gave me flowers,
31:42the first month was
31:44full of different kinds of stargazers.
31:47The first week was white,
31:48then pink,
31:49then yellow.
31:50Then I discovered
31:51his favorite was white.
31:52It's not always white.
31:53So you're not saying
31:54that's your favorite, white?
31:56No, I guess a reaction
31:57when I see the flowers.
31:59What's that?
32:00Does he bring them himself
32:01or does he send them to his house?
32:04I bring them personally.
32:05He really brings them.
32:06You bring them personally.
32:07I need to...
32:08Oh, sorry.
32:09Oh, sweet.
32:10How can you say no?
32:11Hi.
32:12Did you two fight?
32:14Yes, we did.
32:16But more of a discussion.
32:18More of a discussion.
32:20He's very organized.
32:22And you're not as organized as him?
32:24Or he expects too much from you?
32:26Not really.
32:27We just organize our fights
32:29in such a way that
32:30we'll set a meeting to discuss.
32:32Like that?
32:33We'll set a meeting to discuss that.
32:35Is that an office?
32:36Why is your relationship like that?
32:37No, while we're eating,
32:39we have a spot in his house.
32:40Do you guys argue while fighting?
32:42No, it's just a snack.
32:43Then there's water.
32:45We have a spot in his house
32:47where we really...
32:48Have a bull session?
32:49Yes.
32:50And we can't leave there
32:51until it's okay.
32:53Chesca and Nina,
32:54how do you guys make up
32:57after a fight?
33:01When Doug and I fight,
33:02it's funny,
33:03Doug,
33:04girls,
33:05they like to settle things right away.
33:07Me,
33:08give me five minutes to think.
33:10Because I might say something
33:11that might hurt you.
33:13Him, no, let's talk now.
33:15I don't want to talk now.
33:17Do you have a fiery personality?
33:19Yes.
33:20Me, strong personality.
33:23Doug,
33:24he's very patient.
33:25Me, I'm not patient.
33:27So, because of that,
33:31when we fight,
33:32that's when he starts
33:33being impatient with things.
33:35So I always tell him,
33:36give me time
33:37because I might tell you
33:38something that might hurt you.
33:39Or that you don't really mean.
33:40Yeah, but he's like a girl.
33:41Right?
33:42Girls nag you.
33:43No, let's talk now.
33:45Give me time.
33:46So when I get mad at him,
33:48I always tell him,
33:49I'm going to leave you.
33:50I'm going to go home
33:51because I don't want
33:52to talk to you right now.
33:53So, I guess now that
33:55we've been together
33:56for quite some time,
33:57he already basically knows
33:59my temper.
34:00But what he does
34:02is reverse psychology.
34:03Okay, babe.
34:04Okay.
34:05Don't get mad now.
34:06So you,
34:07you don't get mad anymore.
34:09He embraces me.
34:10Don't touch me first now.
34:11I'm irritated.
34:13Really?
34:14Don't touch me.
34:15Let's use that.
34:16Don't touch me first now.
34:17I'm irritated.
34:18I tell him sometimes,
34:19you're not my favorite
34:20person right now.
34:22That's okay, Laina.
34:23We've learned a lot.
34:24You're not my favorite
34:25person right now.
34:26Okay.
34:27Nina,
34:28how did you two
34:29fight?
34:30I'm the same as Cheska.
34:31Because when we have
34:32an argument,
34:33I'm very silent.
34:35I don't talk.
34:36Nyoe is the one
34:38who really
34:39fixes our problems.
34:41He's also annoying.
34:42He's annoying.
34:43Nyoe is also annoying.
34:45He's also the one
34:47who fixes our problems.
34:49So he's the one
34:50who settles
34:51your disputes?
34:52Yes.
34:53He's the one
34:54who...
34:55Even if you're at fault?
34:56No.
34:57He's the one
34:58who comforts me.
34:59As for me,
35:00I'm like,
35:01wait,
35:02I'll think about it first.
35:03He's also annoying.
35:04He texts me a lot.
35:06What's the grandest thing
35:07that he did for you
35:09after a fight?
35:11Did he make you sing?
35:13Huh?
35:14He always does that.
35:15That's nice.
35:16He always does that.
35:17Wait, I have a question.
35:18Where are Goma and Nyoe?
35:19Who's the one
35:20who settles the issues?
35:21Maybe it's you.
35:22Just ask her.
35:24Answer my question.
35:26Where are the two of them?
35:27Him.
35:28Because he's always at fault.
35:30Who's the one
35:31who comforts you?
35:32No,
35:33why would I comfort him
35:34when he's at fault?
35:36Anyway,
35:37we'd like to thank our guests
35:38for being here.
35:39Thank you very much
35:40for sharing your thoughts with us.
35:41Is there anything
35:42you'd like to promote
35:43before we say goodbye?
35:44Actually,
35:45my album is still out.
35:47It's a self-titled album
35:49by me,
35:50under Warner Music Philippines.
35:52There you go.
35:53It has the song,
35:54Someday.
35:55The carrier single is I Do,
35:57but there is the hit song,
35:59Someday.
36:01One of the songs
36:02that Nyoe Valante composed
36:03for me in the album.
36:04It's called Someday?
36:05Someday, yes.
36:06Can you sing a few lines?
36:08Someday,
36:09someone's gonna love me
36:11the way
36:13I wanted you to need me.
36:15Someday,
36:17someone's gonna take your place.
36:23It's so nice
36:24when our guests know how to sing.
36:26They just need to sing.
36:28Every Monday,
36:29at Bagabear de Pasig,
36:30and every Tuesday
36:31at Bagabear de Ross Boulevard,
36:33and on the 28th,
36:34at Lucena.
36:35Okay,
36:36Cheska.
36:37No, I'll just say thank you
36:38to Petimon for my clothes.
36:39Petimon for your clothes.
36:40And I love your hair on you.
36:42Thank you, Frankie.
36:43Frankie of?
36:45Hair shaft.
36:46Okay.
36:47Thank you, Frankie,
36:48for making Cheska look good.
36:49How about you?
36:50I just want to say thank you
36:51for guesting me.
36:52It's so nice to be with you two.
36:54It's so fun.
36:57I always feel beautiful
36:58around Miss Lucy.
36:59Please don't forget
37:00to watch SOP every Sunday,
37:02and please visit
37:03my website, kareel.com.
37:04Kay's lips are beautiful, right?
37:06It's like a dream wing.
37:07How about you?
37:08Oh, not yet.
37:11Okay, I'll just say thank you.
37:13Erica and Lucas,
37:14we wish you well
37:15on your wedding in May.
37:18Thank you for having us.
37:19Have a beautiful life together.
37:21Kyla.
37:22I have a show on April 27th
37:24at Ransky Maratho
37:26and May 4th at 19 East.
37:28And please don't forget
37:29to watch SOP every Sunday
37:31and Popster Kids
37:33every Sunday also,
37:347 p.m.
37:35Rich,
37:36your basketball games.
37:39Next week,
37:40play Hinevra on Sunday.
37:42That's all.
37:43And thank you for inviting me.
37:44Okay, so watch their shows,
37:46Rich's games,
37:47and may you have
37:48many beautiful days together.
37:52Aww.
37:53Here it is.
37:54We talked about this earlier,
37:56the ones who are fighting.
37:58And the best part,
37:59like we said,
38:00is the making up.
38:01So this is a pretty,
38:02pretty way of making up.
38:04Okay, guys,
38:05imitate this, okay?
38:06Courtesy of Teddy Manuel
38:08of Flowers and Events.
38:09This is his idea.
38:10Why doesn't it move?
38:11Because look,
38:12it's real.
38:13Oh, is it real?
38:14It's real.
38:15It's so cute.
38:16It's a sunflower
38:17but it has eyes.
38:19Maybe you can also
38:20put lips, right?
38:22Why not?
38:23But you can also
38:24when it moves,
38:25the flower moves.
38:27We will show you
38:28how to do this later
38:29as well as
38:31two other gift baskets
38:32just to say sorry
38:33in a creative way.
38:34Stay tuned for that.
38:35Okay, we are back
38:36and we are going to show you
38:38some creative ways
38:39on how to say
38:40you are sorry.
38:41So like we showed you earlier,
38:43where are our flowers?
38:44Here.
38:45The flowers
38:46that have eyes.
38:48So cute.
38:49So wait a minute.
38:50Just poke it.
38:51Any container
38:52that has eyes
38:53will do.
38:54Okay, guys,
38:55let's do this.
38:56Okay, guys,
38:57let's do this.
38:58Okay, guys,
38:59let's do this.
39:00Okay, guys,
39:01let's do this.
39:02Okay, guys,
39:03let's do this.
39:04Any container
39:05can be glass,
39:06can be tin,
39:07can be clay.
39:09And for that
39:10added special touch,
39:11just glue on some eyes.
39:12just glue on some eyes.
39:13just glue on some eyes.
39:14The ones used
39:15in projects for kids.
39:16in projects for kids.
39:18This one,
39:19if you have a big mistake,
39:20This one,
39:21if you have a big mistake,
39:22you can fill up a basket
39:23with lots of goodies.
39:24with lots of goodies.
39:25So we have this
39:26Banig Basket.
39:27It's very inexpensive.
39:28It's very cheap.
39:29You can get it anywhere.
39:30And to dress it up a little,
39:31And to dress it up a little,
39:32you can put
39:33you can put
39:34lace.
39:35lace.
39:36Actually, it doesn't have to be
39:37Actually, it doesn't have to be
39:38things don't have to be expensive.
39:39things don't have to be expensive.
39:40It's important that it's creative.
39:41It's important that it's creative.
39:42It's the thought that counts.
39:43It's the thought that counts.
39:44And yeah,
39:45And yeah,
39:46and it's a thoughtful gift.
39:47and it's a thoughtful gift.
39:48So this one,
39:49So this one,
39:50so that what you put
39:51doesn't get soggy,
39:52so that what you put
39:53doesn't get soggy,
39:54fill it up with paper.
39:55fill it up with paper.
39:56So if you have
39:57So if you have
39:58If you want
39:59If you want
40:00something sweet for your sweet,
40:01something sweet for your sweet,
40:02something sweet for your sweet,
40:03something sweet for your sweet,
40:04something sweet for your sweet,
40:05something sweet for your sweet,
40:06something sweet for your sweet,
40:07something sweet for your sweet,
40:08something sweet for your sweet,
40:09something sweet for your sweet,
40:10something sweet for your sweet,
40:11something sweet for your sweet,
40:12something sweet for your sweet,
40:13something sweet for your sweet,
40:14something sweet for your sweet,
40:15something sweet for your sweet,
40:16something sweet for your sweet,
40:17something sweet for your sweet,
40:18something sweet for your sweet,
40:19something sweet for your sweet,
40:20something sweet for your sweet,
40:21something sweet for your sweet,
40:22something sweet for your sweet,
40:23something sweet for your sweet,
40:24something sweet for your sweet,
40:25something sweet for your sweet,
40:26something sweet for your sweet,
40:27something sweet for your sweet,
40:28something sweet for your sweet,
40:29something sweet for your sweet,
40:30something sweet for your sweet,
40:31something sweet for your sweet,
40:32something sweet for your sweet,
40:33something sweet for your sweet,
40:34something sweet for your sweet,
40:35something sweet for your sweet,
40:36something sweet for your sweet,
40:37something sweet for your sweet,
40:38something sweet for your sweet,
40:39something sweet for your sweet,
40:40something sweet for your sweet,
40:41something sweet for your sweet,
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40:43something sweet for your sweet,
40:44something sweet for your sweet,
40:45something sweet for your sweet,
40:46something sweet for your sweet,
40:47something sweet for your sweet,
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40:55something sweet for your sweet,
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40:58something sweet for your sweet,
40:59something sweet for your sweet,
41:00something sweet for your sweet,
41:01something sweet for your sweet,
41:02something sweet for your sweet,
41:03something sweet for your sweet,
41:04something sweet for your sweet,
41:05something sweet for your sweet,
41:06something sweet for your sweet,
41:07something sweet for your sweet,
41:08something sweet for your sweet,
41:09something sweet for your sweet,
41:10something sweet for your sweet,
41:11something sweet for your sweet,
41:12something sweet for your sweet,
41:13something sweet for your sweet,
41:14something sweet for your sweet,
41:15something sweet for your sweet,
41:16something sweet for your sweet,
41:17something sweet for your sweet,
41:18something sweet for your sweet,
41:19something sweet for your sweet,
41:20something sweet for your sweet,
41:21something sweet for your sweet,
41:22something sweet for your sweet,
41:24and this.
41:26This is so cute.
41:27It's a really, really nice idea.
41:29It's a bouquet of flowers,
41:31but in the middle,
41:32there's this cage made of abaca.
41:39And then,
41:40it has a live butterfly.
41:43The principle behind this is
41:47that the butterfly will bring
41:49your good wishes.
41:51It's like what my grandmother told me.
41:54Your grandmother doesn't know
41:55that there's a butterfly.
41:57Okay?
41:58But it's also cute
41:59when there's a wedding,
42:00right?
42:01The kids' bouquet.
42:02It's also cute.
42:03It's also cute when there's a wedding,
42:04and then you release it.
42:05So you release lots of good wishes.
42:07Let's release it.
42:08I wish all my wishes would come true.
42:11Or you can choose
42:12also colorful butterflies.
42:16You're scaring the butterfly.
42:18What butterfly?
42:19Butterfly!
42:20It's like that.
42:21It's different from the one in Visayas.
42:23Really?
42:24Look, it doesn't want to fly.
42:27It's because it's night,
42:28that's why butterflies don't fly at night.
42:30You scared it.
42:31Boo!
42:32Boo!
42:33There, there.
42:41Why are you scared?
42:43They're so beautiful.
42:44Fly away.
42:46I set you free.
42:47There, right?
42:48There's more.
42:49Books are also very good.
42:53Books are good gifts.
42:54They make for really, really good gifts.
42:56So we have here a few titles
42:58that you would consider.
43:00You could consider reading.
43:02I'm looking at the butterfly.
43:03It might fly at me.
43:04Self-help books.
43:05It's nice to have books for reference.
43:09But personally,
43:10I prefer the experience of a friend.
43:14Of course.
43:15We learn a lot.
43:16But there's nothing wrong
43:17with reading a good book.
43:18So we have here several titles.
43:19Why Smart Men Marry Smart Women.
43:23How We Love.
43:25Okay, and you recognize the five love styles.
43:28I never knew there was such a thing.
43:29How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk.
43:32This is mine.
43:33That's yours.
43:34The New Rules of Marriage.
43:38Why Men Fall Out of Love.
43:40Why?
43:41Why do they fall out of love?
43:43That should be another episode, right?
43:45Why Men Fall Out of Love.
43:46Let's do that.
43:48And How to Improve Your Marriage
43:51Without Talking About It.
43:53Okay?
43:54I also like that.
43:55So I hope you learned a lot from our show.
43:57We will be raffling off some prizes again.
44:00One lucky texter gets the chance
44:01to win kitchen appliances from Woolinex.
44:03All you have to do is text
44:05Sweet Life Space your message.
44:07Send to 4627 for all networks.
44:10We'd like to thank Teddy Manuel
44:11of Flowers and Events.
44:12Acclaim Butterflies
44:14for the pretty, pretty butterflies
44:16that we set free.
44:17That's flying now.
44:18And our home in Mega Mall
44:21for the chairs and the wonderful books
44:24from Fully Book.
44:25Thank you very much for all your support.
44:27I'd like to thank Jerome Chang,
44:29Dr. Vicky Bello, Fix Salon, and Max Studio
44:32for my clothes.
44:33Jules Dizon for my jewelry.
44:34How about you?
44:35Jeff Robles for my hair and makeup.
44:37Dr. Kalayaan!
44:40Did you vote already?
44:41Yes.
44:42She's so kind to me.
44:43Let's see what happens
44:45in how many weeks before the results.
44:49So anyway, that was our show for tonight.
44:51I hope you learned something.
44:53Any words of wisdom
44:55that you'd like to leave our viewers with?
44:57For me, marriage is a lifetime commitment.
45:00That's all.
45:02Marriage is a lifetime commitment.
45:04For me, I've been blessed
45:06because I'm very happy in my marriage
45:08and it's really nothing to be scared about.
45:10Had I known that I would be this happy,
45:12I would have married much, much earlier
45:14than I actually did.
45:17I hope you all have a sweet life.