90 Day Fiance S10 E02
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00:00:00Previously on 90 Day Fiancé...
00:00:03Your sister-in-law tested me.
00:00:06The dates that I cannot pick up for the wedding.
00:00:10That's my brother and sister-in-law.
00:00:12I'm gonna do everything in my power to make sure
00:00:14that they're gonna attend our wedding,
00:00:16and that's the way it is.
00:00:17What about me that I'm living my whole f***ing life
00:00:20just to be with you?
00:00:21I'm always gonna be the bad guy
00:00:24when it comes to me and his family.
00:00:27I have to be f***ing compassionate
00:00:29about his f***ing family
00:00:31when I'm leaving everything I love,
00:00:33my country, my kids,
00:00:35even wants me to leave my dog.
00:00:42Tell me why I saw Sophie on Bumble.
00:00:45She said she was just trying to find friends
00:00:47in America while she was here.
00:00:50She's on day naps.
00:00:51She's doing a lot of things that make me feel like
00:00:53she's not really here for Rob.
00:00:55Um, there is something like he doesn't know about me.
00:00:58Basically, um, I'm bisexual.
00:01:02I've always known that I was attracted to women,
00:01:05but we only have a short time to get married,
00:01:07so I have to figure out what I want to do with that fact.
00:01:1215 years ago, our first K1 visa was approved,
00:01:16but we had some issues.
00:01:20What happened the first time?
00:01:21I said, yeah, well, I have a secret to tell you.
00:01:23I used to be a man, and he freaked.
00:01:2615 years forward, he did tell me that I'm the love of his life,
00:01:31and he proposed to me,
00:01:33but I noticed that he will not pleasure me.
00:01:37Lovemaking was in two and a half weeks, maybe four times.
00:01:41This is very good for 35 years.
00:01:43No, it's not. No, it's not.
00:01:45If you can accept me, then you accept me.
00:01:48If you can't, c'est la vie.
00:01:53I sent him a message two hours ago,
00:01:55and he still hasn't gotten it.
00:01:57Manuel's never been outside of Ecuador,
00:01:59and he doesn't speak English.
00:02:00His visa expires tomorrow.
00:02:02If he's not on the plane, what happens then?
00:02:05Oh, my God, I'm freaking out! I'm freaking out!
00:02:08Oh, my God!
00:02:23Oh, my God!
00:02:25Oh, my God, I'm freaking out! I'm freaking out!
00:02:28Oh, my God!
00:02:31Oh, my God, I'm ugly crying!
00:02:34Oh, my God, I cannot...
00:02:36My make-up, my make-up, my make-up, my make-up,
00:02:38my make-up, my make-up, my make-up.
00:02:40Oh, give me the f***ing ticket.
00:02:43Okay.
00:02:45Oh, my God.
00:02:48Oh, my God, I'm ugly crying.
00:02:52Okay.
00:02:59I'm a strong-ass bitch.
00:03:04Okay.
00:03:06Okay.
00:03:08Manuel is supposed to be arriving to Rochester,
00:03:11but Manuel and I have no contact
00:03:13for, like, six or seven hours.
00:03:15Is he on the plane? Is he gonna get here?
00:03:17Did he miss his flight?
00:03:19Did he get stuck in immigration?
00:03:21Did they not let him through?
00:03:23Did they give him a hard time,
00:03:25because literally his visa expires the next day?
00:03:27I am tweaking,
00:03:29because I don't have any control over this situation.
00:03:31Okay.
00:03:36I am, like, overcome with emotion right now.
00:03:39I, like, cannot even handle life.
00:03:41Okay.
00:03:43Okay.
00:03:47Oh, my God.
00:03:49Am I legit having a panic attack?
00:03:51I'm feeling, like, tingly right now.
00:03:56Okay.
00:03:58Okay.
00:04:00Bring the tissues.
00:04:04Okay.
00:04:06Okay.
00:04:08Okay.
00:04:14Oh, my God.
00:04:16I'm freaking the...out right now.
00:04:18Oh, there you are. Oh, my God.
00:04:20I cannot keep this together. I'm freaking out.
00:04:22I'm trying.
00:04:24Stop.
00:04:26Oh, my God, I'm really trying.
00:04:28I got to breathe. I got to breathe.
00:04:30In through your nose. Out through your mouth.
00:04:32Hold it in through your nose.
00:04:34Out through your mouth. Control it.
00:04:36In through your nose.
00:04:38I should have worn a grounding crystal today.
00:04:41It just hit her finally,
00:04:43because I feel like before,
00:04:45she was definitely in a state of,
00:04:47oh, it's fine, everything's gonna be great.
00:04:49And then now that it's actually here and happening,
00:04:51she's so, it's here, it's real,
00:04:53and it's all happening.
00:04:59All right.
00:05:01Let's see if we can find him. Okay.
00:05:03Where do we even find him?
00:05:05Uh... I don't know.
00:05:07Just breathe. Just breathe.
00:05:09You're moving a mile a minute.
00:05:13He was supposed to land.
00:05:15Wait, okay, that's baggage claim four.
00:05:17Okay, okay, okay, I think that's his flight.
00:05:19Okay, Ashley, hold on. Breathe. Breathe. Breathe.
00:05:21If they have a baggage claim number,
00:05:23that means they landed.
00:05:25Okay. Oh, my God.
00:05:27You're squeezing me. Okay. Okay.
00:05:34He's gonna come out through here.
00:05:36He's gonna come out through here. I know.
00:05:40So I'm waiting for my baggage claim
00:05:42because I know when his flight is supposed to land,
00:05:45but I literally have no clue
00:05:47if he made his connections, what's going on.
00:05:49I don't know where he is.
00:05:51I'm just gonna hope for the best.
00:05:53I hope he's on this flight. What if he's not on this flight?
00:05:55He's gonna be on this flight. What are you doing?
00:05:57I need to see him come down that escalator.
00:05:59It takes a minute. You know that. It takes a minute.
00:06:01Oh, my God.
00:06:07He's on that flight.
00:06:09On that flight.
00:06:25Oh, my God.
00:06:31Why are you crying, woman?
00:06:37Why are you crying?
00:06:40Why are you crying?
00:06:42Why are you crying?
00:06:44I'm not crying.
00:06:50You're beautiful, beautiful woman.
00:06:55You're very beautiful, my love.
00:06:59Why are you crying?
00:07:01Why are you crying?
00:07:07Thank you for waiting.
00:07:15My name is Manuel.
00:07:17I'm 34 years old and I live in Puyo, Ecuador.
00:07:21My love, my love.
00:07:23My love.
00:07:31Stairs, through those gates, in my city.
00:07:35Oh, my God.
00:07:37Words can't express the level of relief I felt in that moment.
00:07:44My love.
00:07:48She's not a baby anymore.
00:07:51She's still a baby.
00:07:52My love.
00:07:57My love.
00:07:59I want to find my sister.
00:08:06How are you?
00:08:08Nice to meet you.
00:08:10Immigration told me I had 90 days to get married.
00:08:14I said, wow, I can't increase it to 120, I can't move.
00:08:19Yes, it's very beautiful.
00:08:21Who did it?
00:08:23America.
00:08:25Welcome to America.
00:08:28America.
00:08:30America.
00:08:49I want to be.
00:08:51I want to be.
00:08:57I'm hoping that I could bring some fabulosity to Moldova.
00:09:04Because the last time I was there, it seemed kind of boring.
00:09:10Mom.
00:09:12It's been nine long months since I've seen my fiance, Justin.
00:09:16I am going to Moldova tomorrow.
00:09:19And my mom is on her way to help me pack up before I go.
00:09:24Hi.
00:09:26Hi, honey. How are you?
00:09:28How are you doing?
00:09:30I'm good.
00:09:32How was the traffic?
00:09:34Oh, bad. Especially by the Lincoln Tunnel.
00:09:36Hi, Vicious.
00:09:38My mother is supportive in my relationship with Justin.
00:09:41I think it's a little bit funny and ironic because 15 years ago,
00:09:44when Justin came to the United States under the K-1 visa,
00:09:48she was like, kick his ass to the curb and send his ass back.
00:09:51So it's funny how the tables turn,
00:09:54and I'm more doubtful of what's going to happen with the relationship,
00:09:57and she's more hopeful.
00:09:59Here, give me a hug.
00:10:01How are you, mama?
00:10:03How you been?
00:10:05Love you.
00:10:07What are you doing?
00:10:09I'm packing.
00:10:11Do you need some help?
00:10:12My connection with my mother
00:10:15took a very, very, very long time to get to where it's today.
00:10:18Initially, when I told my mother that I wanted to transition,
00:10:23she said she would not accept it.
00:10:26She gave birth to a boy,
00:10:29and she thought I was going to be a freak.
00:10:32Imagine being 17 years old
00:10:35and hearing from your parent that they won't accept you
00:10:40for the life that you felt you should have been born from the very beginning.
00:10:45So from the time I was 17 years old to 19 years old,
00:10:49my mother and I didn't speak.
00:10:51Of course, she accepted me years ago.
00:10:54Now we're like this, you know?
00:10:56My mom loves me and accepts me as her daughter,
00:10:59and sometimes it takes time.
00:11:01You're taking this?
00:11:03Yes.
00:11:05Why?
00:11:06Okay.
00:11:08This too?
00:11:09It's very Exotica, right?
00:11:11Very sexy.
00:11:13I mean, listen, I'm all about fashion,
00:11:15and this is how I am.
00:11:17He knows that.
00:11:19He knows that, but does he want you to be toned down?
00:11:21I mean, are you going to compromise?
00:11:23I'm going to compromise with him.
00:11:25I'm going to meet his mother.
00:11:27I'm going to show you what I'm going to wear.
00:11:29Okay.
00:11:31I always worry, wherever she goes.
00:11:33I'm worried that they're not very accepting of trans women.
00:11:36I'm also concerned about her safety,
00:11:38and also her feelings.
00:11:40How do you feel about this whole thing,
00:11:42going there and meeting, not meeting,
00:11:44but seeing his parents for the second time?
00:11:46How do you feel?
00:11:48Are you feeling nervous, anxious?
00:11:50I'm feeling nervous, anxious, all of it.
00:11:52I'm going to see his mother again
00:11:54for the first time in like forever.
00:11:56Right.
00:11:58It's such a big shock for them to hear
00:12:00that their son loves,
00:12:03or is in love with a trans woman.
00:12:04It's not the easiest thing.
00:12:06They didn't know the first time.
00:12:08Now they know the second time.
00:12:10Is she accepted?
00:12:12She accepted it to him,
00:12:15but I don't know how they're going to be in person.
00:12:18People are very different.
00:12:20You know, it's a whole different ballgame
00:12:22when you actually meet the person.
00:12:24Right.
00:12:26So, I don't know how they're going to react.
00:12:28I know it's not an easy thing.
00:12:30I mean, it wasn't easy for you.
00:12:32No, it wasn't.
00:12:35When Nicole was younger
00:12:38and she was going through her changes,
00:12:40I was not there.
00:12:42I'm going to admit that.
00:13:01And it's not that I didn't love her.
00:13:05We didn't understand.
00:13:10Do you want coffee?
00:13:12I do. I do. Thank you.
00:13:14I regret it and I will regret it for the rest of my life.
00:13:16I know.
00:13:18I hope that Justin's parents
00:13:20and Justin will love her and accept her.
00:13:29When you get there,
00:13:31I think that you will get a better perspective
00:13:32of what's surrounding him
00:13:35and what's happening there.
00:13:37I just hope he's ready
00:13:39because right now I see how he's reacting
00:13:41that me coming there to his country
00:13:43for three weeks
00:13:45and I see how his friends is closing
00:13:47and they're retracting
00:13:49and walking away from him
00:13:51and it's upsetting.
00:13:54Justin told me himself
00:13:56that he's getting a lot of rejection
00:13:58and pushback from his friends.
00:14:00It makes me feel sad.
00:14:02It's like a disease.
00:14:04Why are they treating him like this
00:14:06for his choice to be with me?
00:14:08Since I was little,
00:14:10I always battled depression
00:14:12and this is part of the moment.
00:14:14I know.
00:14:16But the good part is
00:14:18he is telling his parents that you're trans,
00:14:20that he loves you
00:14:22and he's also telling his friends that you're trans.
00:14:24So he wouldn't have gone that far
00:14:26if he didn't love you.
00:14:28I just feel that he's being apprehensive
00:14:30because this is a small country.
00:14:32Maybe he's afraid for himself.
00:14:34He's afraid for you.
00:14:36I don't know.
00:14:38Do you know what I mean?
00:14:40So we don't know what kind of
00:14:42hate is out there.
00:14:48And I know that you're going through
00:14:50a lot of stress.
00:14:53It's just a lot.
00:14:55I just have to understand that.
00:14:57It's okay, Mama.
00:14:59It's okay.
00:15:03I think you're going to get married
00:15:05and you're going to have a good life
00:15:07and he's going to love you
00:15:09and you're going to love him.
00:15:11There's a lot of changes coming.
00:15:13He made the first step
00:15:15and that's telling his parents
00:15:17they're going to accept you.
00:15:19They want to see you.
00:15:21They're going to love you.
00:15:22They want to see you.
00:15:24Think positive.
00:15:26Everything's going to be fine.
00:15:28Everything's going to be okay.
00:15:30The K-1 visa is about to be approved
00:15:32and this trip for me
00:15:34is so important
00:15:36because there's just so many things
00:15:39we need to discuss.
00:15:41Everything that I need
00:15:43in a man, in a husband,
00:15:45I need that reassurance
00:15:47because I'm not moving forward again
00:15:49and have the same nightmare
00:15:50happen all over again.
00:15:52Coming all the way to the United States
00:15:54and getting sent back again
00:15:56but the way that it's going,
00:15:58I don't know.
00:16:00I don't know and I need to know
00:16:02if it's going to work before he comes.
00:16:10Jasmine's picture is normally here.
00:16:13You can see that she blacked me
00:16:15because her picture is gone.
00:16:17I don't know if she made the flight.
00:16:18We're getting closer by the minute
00:16:20to Sophie being right there.
00:16:26Where do I go?
00:16:28You don't know what my next move is.
00:16:30You don't even know.
00:16:33Stop.
00:16:35I'm very confused.
00:16:37What is going on?
00:16:45I just got to the airport
00:16:46and now I'm just trying to find my gate.
00:16:49But yeah, I'm excited.
00:16:59I'm about to take off from London
00:17:01so I'll see you when I get there.
00:17:17That's clean.
00:17:19Clean as it's going to get.
00:17:21Hopefully there's enough space
00:17:23for all of her stuff.
00:17:39Today is the day.
00:17:41I'm running around in circles
00:17:43trying to get everything ready
00:17:45Can't forget the stereo.
00:17:48I got big plans on how to greet her
00:17:50and welcome her.
00:17:53It's a bit stressful
00:17:55but I think I'm going to be ready.
00:18:04Man, oh man, oh man.
00:18:06This is the Wooden King in LA.
00:18:08This is the Wooden King.
00:18:10You know, when we decided
00:18:12to actually be engaged
00:18:14there wasn't a ring
00:18:16and there wasn't a proposal.
00:18:18But I do have a plan
00:18:20on how to make it
00:18:22a lot more
00:18:24Disney Princess-y
00:18:26which I know is important to her.
00:18:28Man, I'm nervous
00:18:30about this little dance, man.
00:18:32My plans are to
00:18:34do the dance
00:18:36with the roses
00:18:38at the airport,
00:18:40propose leaving the airport,
00:18:42romantic candlelit dinner,
00:18:44outside the house.
00:18:46Oh man, I gotta have the flowers.
00:18:49It seems like a lot.
00:18:51Feels like a lot.
00:18:53But it's like
00:18:55the proposal that she deserves.
00:19:03My flight to America
00:19:05was absolutely horrible.
00:19:07I had a layover in New York
00:19:09where I literally only had seconds
00:19:11to spend until I got my flight.
00:19:12I literally can't breathe.
00:19:14I don't know if I'm going to make it.
00:19:16I actually have 10 minutes
00:19:18to get to my spot.
00:19:28I've worn the same outfit
00:19:30for like 25 hours.
00:19:32This is not how I wanted to look
00:19:34after not seeing Rob in six months.
00:19:36I kind of wanted to look cute,
00:19:38put some makeup on,
00:19:40put a cute outfit on,
00:19:42but I didn't.
00:19:44You look great.
00:19:46The 830?
00:19:48That's the only one it can be.
00:19:50So 830 out of Kennedy
00:19:52is claim number eight.
00:19:54So that's the one
00:19:56we're going to go to, I guess.
00:19:58We're getting closer by the minute
00:20:00to Sophie being right there
00:20:02with me
00:20:04for this 90-day adventure.
00:20:07It's getting so real right now
00:20:09that I'm losing it a bit.
00:20:12She's about to be here.
00:20:17And I need to not forget this dance
00:20:19because that's the thing
00:20:21that's scaring the hell out of me
00:20:23is that I'm going to forget this dance
00:20:25because I'm so nervous.
00:20:30Where do I go?
00:20:37Oh, okay.
00:20:39Where is he?
00:20:43Hey!
00:20:45Stop.
00:20:47Where is he going?
00:20:55I'm very confused.
00:20:57What is going on?
00:20:59Okay.
00:21:15You like that?
00:21:17I'm trying to make it spicy for you.
00:21:19Okay.
00:21:23I miss you so much.
00:21:25Give me a kiss.
00:21:26I miss you.
00:21:28Come on, give me a kiss.
00:21:30I love you.
00:21:32I love you.
00:21:34I love you.
00:21:36I love you.
00:21:38I love you.
00:21:40I love you.
00:21:43Oh, my God.
00:21:45You made it.
00:21:46I made it.
00:21:47You made it.
00:21:48And I embarrassed myself.
00:21:49All for you.
00:21:51No, it was good.
00:21:52It was cute.
00:21:53Rob is so corny sometimes.
00:21:55It's so funny.
00:21:56Like, if any other guy did it,
00:21:57I would be like, ew.
00:21:58Like, I would get the ick.
00:21:59Like, if a British guy did the stuff Rob did,
00:22:01I would be disgusted.
00:22:02I would never speak to him ever again.
00:22:03But Rob, and he's American,
00:22:05so he can, like, get away with it.
00:22:06But, yeah, if guys from my hometown did it,
00:22:08I'd be like, ew.
00:22:09I'd be like, ew.
00:22:11We made it.
00:22:12We made it.
00:22:13I made it.
00:22:14You made it.
00:22:15Once the dance was done,
00:22:16I think that,
00:22:18that she thought that was the moment,
00:22:20and I liked it,
00:22:21because it was like,
00:22:22you don't know what my next move is.
00:22:23Just wait.
00:22:24Let's get,
00:22:25let's take it 100 steps that way.
00:22:28So, here.
00:22:30Here, grab your,
00:22:31you grab, you, here.
00:22:33Hey, what?
00:22:34What are you doing?
00:22:35I just wanted to actually pose to you, though.
00:22:40Shut up.
00:22:41Will you marry me?
00:22:42Oh, my gosh.
00:22:44I didn't know it was like that.
00:22:46Will you marry me?
00:22:47Are you serious?
00:22:48Yeah.
00:22:49Oh, my God.
00:22:51Oh, my God, I can't even breathe.
00:22:53You better come up with an answer.
00:22:54Yes, yes, yes, yes.
00:22:55Yes, sir.
00:22:56Thank you, yes.
00:22:57Oh, no, he put it on.
00:22:58Is it this finger?
00:22:59Oh, my God, I'm, like, shaking.
00:23:00Don't shake.
00:23:01There you go.
00:23:02I can't even breathe.
00:23:03Oh, my God, what the hell?
00:23:09Oh, my God.
00:23:11That was very surprising.
00:23:12I'm, like, jet-lagged.
00:23:15I tried to make it,
00:23:16I tried to make it,
00:23:17I tried to make it special,
00:23:19and I wanted to do it the right way.
00:23:27As a kid, marriage never even crossed my mind.
00:23:29I don't know, I just never,
00:23:31I just never really thought about it.
00:23:32I don't know why, to be honest.
00:23:33But when I met Rob,
00:23:34like, this was before we even considered the K1.
00:23:36He was like,
00:23:37oh, one day I'm going to put a ring on your finger.
00:23:39And at the time, I was just like,
00:23:40actually, like, that would be kind of cute.
00:23:42Like, I was like,
00:23:43maybe I would like to marry this guy.
00:23:45So, yeah, I mean,
00:23:46I was very happy when he finally did it, yeah.
00:23:48Now we can go home, all right?
00:23:50Yeah.
00:23:52But I don't know why you chose the airport, but...
00:23:56Well, I mean, I'd already,
00:23:57technically, you know,
00:23:59we were already engaged,
00:24:01but the actual proposal,
00:24:04I felt like that needed to happen,
00:24:06and it needed to happen as soon as she got to L.A.
00:24:09Like, I come with this.
00:24:11You got to say yes to me
00:24:12before you get to be a U.S. citizen
00:24:15and go enjoy L.A.
00:24:17Oh, that's cute.
00:24:23All right, baby, follow me to the rest of your life.
00:24:30Saying goodbye to my family is not easy.
00:24:34And I just pray to God
00:24:38that I'm doing the right thing.
00:24:59I have a new look,
00:25:01and, well, I love it.
00:25:05I'm honestly so sick and tired
00:25:08of having arguments after arguments with Gino,
00:25:12so I really wanted to feel like
00:25:14I have control over something.
00:25:17And, well, I did.
00:25:20My last visit here in Panama to the beauty salon,
00:25:23I decided to do something super radical,
00:25:25so I cut my hair.
00:25:28No hair extensions, no wigs,
00:25:30that I've been wearing for 15 years.
00:25:33And as expensive as it is in Panama,
00:25:36it's even more expensive in the United States,
00:25:38and I'm going to be completely relying financially on Gino.
00:25:42And Gino's Gino.
00:25:43He's super cheap,
00:25:44so it's time just to embrace my natural hair.
00:25:51I really like it.
00:25:52It's cute.
00:26:01Oh.
00:26:04Yesterday, I wasn't sure that I was going to get on the plane.
00:26:08Even though I try very hard to explain all the sacrifices
00:26:11that I'm making just to be with him,
00:26:14nothing compares to saying goodbye
00:26:16to your family, to your roots,
00:26:18to the place where you belong.
00:26:20He doesn't understand that.
00:26:22But Gino and I have overcome a lot of hardships
00:26:26But Gino and I have overcome a lot of hardships
00:26:30and I believe that there is nothing
00:26:32that we are not able to overcome as a couple.
00:26:53Panama is home.
00:26:54This is my identity.
00:26:56This is who I am.
00:26:58And leaving everything behind
00:27:00and all the people that I love
00:27:03and that love me
00:27:05is very hard.
00:27:07It's not easy.
00:27:24Here I am at Document International Airport
00:27:29and ready to take my flight to Atlanta
00:27:34and then to Detroit.
00:27:36So I'm sad, but at the same time I'm excited.
00:27:41Just hope that Gino is ready for me.
00:27:44This is the bravest thing I've ever done in my life.
00:27:48Just...
00:27:51taking a plane.
00:27:54After saying goodbye to my family,
00:27:57my kids,
00:27:59everything.
00:28:02Oh my gosh.
00:28:04Yeah.
00:28:07But at the same time I'm like,
00:28:09but I'm doing this not just for me, also for them.
00:28:13But I feel so bad.
00:28:19And I just pray to God
00:28:22that I'm doing the right thing.
00:28:42Today is the day that Jasmine arrives in Detroit.
00:28:45But unfortunately last night we kind of got in an argument
00:28:49and she blacked me on WhatsApp.
00:29:00Jasmine's picture is normally here.
00:29:03You can see that she blacked me because her picture is gone.
00:29:10No, I am not in communication with her.
00:29:14I don't know she made the flight.
00:29:20I'm worried about this.
00:29:23I quit my job because I wanted to
00:29:26make sure she's very comfortable in Michigan.
00:29:29And I don't know if she's even going to make it to the USA.
00:29:35But I'm really hoping I make the right choice.
00:29:41I mean, we've been waiting 18 months,
00:29:4518 months to get through the whole K1 process.
00:29:48That's a long time.
00:29:52We're supposed to be excited about this.
00:29:54It's supposed to be an exciting day.
00:29:57That's what's so hard.
00:30:11Looks like her flight landed.
00:30:16My feelings are all over the place.
00:30:19I don't know how to feel right now.
00:30:21I don't know if she's here.
00:30:23I don't know if she went back to Panama.
00:30:25Will I see her today?
00:30:27How will she react to me?
00:30:29She's my soulmate.
00:30:31We have such a strong bond and I love her.
00:30:34I just wish there was a way that we could stop having these arguments.
00:30:38We have 90 days together to figure out,
00:30:42is this going to be good?
00:30:45Or is there something not so good about it?
00:31:00Stay open.
00:31:01What are you doing?
00:31:02I was trying to keep it open.
00:31:03I think you broke it, man.
00:31:05I've just got here. We're stuck in an elevator.
00:31:08Who's going to answer at this time?
00:31:10Somebody who works for the elevator company or LAX.
00:31:13At what time?
00:31:22Rico Suave has been with me through a ton of partners.
00:31:26And they leave, and guess who stays?
00:31:29Rico mother----- Suave.
00:31:41Risto, are you ready?
00:31:44Roger that!
00:31:47Exactly.
00:31:56Take care.
00:31:57Bye. Have fun.
00:31:59You have to keep the sign.
00:32:01Love you.
00:32:02See you later.
00:32:03I was a little crazy.
00:32:04It was the first time I had a plane.
00:32:07It's like a Moscow wheel.
00:32:10It goes up and down, and you're out of breath.
00:32:14When I was in the air, it felt like an engine was going to die.
00:32:18What happened?
00:32:20I thought, what now?
00:32:22Where are we going to land?
00:32:24Where am I going to land?
00:32:26This is the city of Rochester.
00:32:30Oh, yeah.
00:32:31Cool, baby.
00:32:32No, it's pretty.
00:32:34It's pretty, yeah?
00:32:35It's very pretty, baby.
00:32:38And I didn't think there would be a lot of nature.
00:32:41I like nature.
00:32:43I know, baby.
00:32:44You like nature.
00:32:45It's cool.
00:32:48Baby, that's my neighbor.
00:32:51Oh, pretty houses.
00:32:54Okay, baby.
00:32:56Let's go.
00:32:59Let's go.
00:33:03Okay.
00:33:05We're here.
00:33:06Yes.
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:09This is ours.
00:33:17Oh, my God.
00:33:18Is this your meditation place?
00:33:20It's my meditation place.
00:33:24My baby.
00:33:27Your shoes are my life.
00:33:29No jump, Baba.
00:33:31He's excited.
00:33:33Where do I put the suitcase?
00:33:35One moment.
00:33:36I'm going to show you.
00:33:37Let me show you the house.
00:33:41Hello.
00:33:44Look, it's Laiva.
00:33:46Hey, I don't like cats.
00:33:48Say hello to her.
00:33:50Hello, cat.
00:33:53Cats give me the wrong impression.
00:33:57I don't like them.
00:33:58They're bad.
00:34:00We've lived in a wooden house.
00:34:04It was good to have a cat.
00:34:06We asked a neighbor to lend us a cat so we wouldn't have to hunt mice.
00:34:10But I see cats here in New York.
00:34:13Cats are just pets.
00:34:15You have to feed them and feed them and feed them.
00:34:18What benefit do I have?
00:34:19I have none.
00:34:21Here, look.
00:34:24This is the kitchen.
00:34:26Hot water.
00:34:28Very hot, too.
00:34:29Why do you need hot water when it's so hot?
00:34:33To bathe, to wash the dishes.
00:34:38Hot water.
00:34:40Yeah.
00:34:41No.
00:34:43I don't think it's logical.
00:34:46Let's go here.
00:34:47So, the living room.
00:34:51My cards.
00:34:52Yes, my love.
00:34:53My apartment vibe is witchy, super spiritual.
00:34:56There's crystals everywhere.
00:34:58There's, like, deities everywhere.
00:35:00And that, do you remember?
00:35:09Very strong.
00:35:12I am beginning to introduce Manuel to my witchy practice in baby steps so that I don't overwhelm him.
00:35:22And because it's important for him to know all of me before he says, I do.
00:35:53No.
00:35:54No.
00:35:55No.
00:35:56No.
00:35:57No.
00:35:58No.
00:35:59No.
00:36:00No.
00:36:01No.
00:36:02No.
00:36:03No.
00:36:04No.
00:36:05No.
00:36:06No.
00:36:07No.
00:36:08No.
00:36:09No.
00:36:10No.
00:36:11No.
00:36:12No.
00:36:13No.
00:36:14No.
00:36:15No.
00:36:16No.
00:36:17No.
00:36:18No.
00:36:19No.
00:36:20No.
00:36:22Manuel.
00:36:23Manuel.
00:36:43Manuel.
00:36:51Que pena.
00:36:54Rico Suave has been with me through a ton of partners.
00:36:58And, like, they leave, and guess who stays?
00:37:01Rico mother-f*****g Suave.
00:37:03So as far as I'm concerned, Rico Suave
00:37:05can sleep where he wants, whether it's in the sala
00:37:09or whether it's in the bedroom.
00:37:13Dime, que es la problema con Rico Suave dormiendo con
00:37:17nosotros?
00:37:18Que es tu problema con eso?
00:37:21Yo no me acostumbro a dormir con los animales, amor.
00:37:22Pero también estás no acostumbrar a nada de eso.
00:37:26Nada de los Estados Unidos, nada de Nueva York,
00:37:29nada de un avión.
00:37:30Y mira, tú hacer cosas diferentes, ¿y qué pasó?
00:37:34Cosas diferentes, está bien.
00:37:36Ya, son cosas que uno cambia en la vida, ¿verdad?
00:37:39Pero esto puedo evitarlo.
00:37:43Culturally, Manuel is used to telling people what to do
00:37:48and how to do it.
00:37:49And I come from a family of strong,
00:37:51independent women of color.
00:37:53We dictate in our family line.
00:37:56And he's going to have to figure that out.
00:38:19¿O qué?
00:38:20¿Tú quieres participar de York conmigo sobre eso?
00:38:22Eso es bien.
00:38:27Él está durmiendo con nosotros.
00:38:36Yo sé que ahorita no sé nada de ella.
00:38:38Esto se puede terminar mañana o pasado.
00:38:40Y ella me puede regresar para Ecuador.
00:38:44Pero si ella quiere que yo sea su compañero de por vida,
00:38:47y no solo ella, puede tomar decisiones en estos momentos.
00:39:02Oh, gosh, I'm in LA.
00:39:04That's crazy.
00:39:05The start of day one in America, very nice.
00:39:14Uno.
00:39:16Hey, the extent of my Spanish right now.
00:39:18Wow.
00:39:20Sophie just arrived at LAX, and I knew
00:39:23she wasn't ready for that ring.
00:39:24I knew she wasn't ready for me to actually
00:39:26do that proposal, that actual romantic proposal
00:39:30that I know that she wanted.
00:39:32And I hadn't done that.
00:39:34I feel like I pulled this off.
00:39:36Like, good job.
00:39:38I did pretty good.
00:39:40I think so.
00:39:40Oh, my God.
00:39:43I'm going to get out.
00:39:45Stay open.
00:39:46What are you doing?
00:39:47I was trying to keep it open.
00:39:48The light is on, though, so we'll just give it a second.
00:39:53How in the hell did I break it?
00:39:56Does it usually do this?
00:39:57How the hell should I know what the LAX elevator?
00:40:00It's not broke.
00:40:01You've got to wait.
00:40:02Wait, how long?
00:40:03You're not supposed to wait this long.
00:40:04All right, I'm going to let you figure it out.
00:40:06And when it finally goes up, you fixed it.
00:40:09It's actually broke.
00:40:10It's not even opening.
00:40:11Bro, it's not funny.
00:40:14It is funny.
00:40:16Bro, you've actually broken it.
00:40:17How the hell did I break it?
00:40:19All I did was press forward.
00:40:20You, like, slammed them together.
00:40:22I didn't slam anything.
00:40:23I pushed this button, which means open.
00:40:25No, we're actually second to lift.
00:40:26It says door open.
00:40:27I didn't touch this.
00:40:29We're actually second to lift.
00:40:32No, we're generally second to lift.
00:40:33And it's my fault?
00:40:34We're actually second to lift.
00:40:36I'm, like, panicking.
00:40:38That's the type of shit you've got to be ready for mentally,
00:40:40just whatever.
00:40:41As long as this bitch is on the first floor
00:40:43and not on the first floor, we're not dropping.
00:40:45Why would you say that while we're still in the lift?
00:40:47Because we're on the first floor.
00:40:48We're not on the first floor.
00:40:49Yeah, but there's still a lower floor.
00:40:51Why would you say that?
00:40:55I'm literally, like, claustrophobic, Rob.
00:40:57No, but I need to get out of the lift.
00:40:59I can't help that.
00:41:00There's nothing I can do about it.
00:41:02Oh my god.
00:41:16I need to get out of the lift.
00:41:17I can't help that.
00:41:19There's nothing I can do about it.
00:41:20Oh my god.
00:41:23So obviously, I've just got here, and everything is great.
00:41:26But, like, we're stuck in an elevator, which
00:41:29is not really the best sign.
00:41:31Your bags exceed 3,000 pounds?
00:41:34Probably.
00:41:35Probably?
00:41:36That's a bit.
00:41:36It's your fault, not mine.
00:41:38You were the one that clicked the button a billion times
00:41:41when no one was even coming in.
00:41:43I literally clicked it one time.
00:41:44You were like, yeah, I'm going to keep an eye open.
00:41:46Oh, it's supposed to do this.
00:41:47No, it's not.
00:41:48It didn't even work.
00:41:48I clicked it once.
00:41:50For me, it's like 4 in the morning in England.
00:41:52So I'm already very tired.
00:41:53And I've had a stressful airport situation, and two flights,
00:41:57and immigration.
00:41:57And I just want to go to bed.
00:42:00So for me, it's just like, I'm just so tired.
00:42:02So it's like, Rob should just understand that and be like,
00:42:04it's OK.
00:42:05You know, don't worry.
00:42:05We'll open it instead.
00:42:06He's getting angry at me.
00:42:12This is ridiculous.
00:42:14How many people go up and down these things a day?
00:42:16How does this not work?
00:42:18It's crazy.
00:42:24Who's going to answer at this time?
00:42:27Somebody who works for the elevator company or the LAX.
00:42:29At what time?
00:42:34Yes, we're on the first floor.
00:42:36And we're trying to get to the fourth floor.
00:42:37And it's stuck or something.
00:42:39But the doors are locked, and nothing's happening.
00:42:45I'm not sure which elevator.
00:42:46It's the one on the left, when you're
00:42:48looking at it from the outside.
00:42:53Oh, no.
00:42:53No.
00:42:54Open it.
00:42:55No.
00:42:56Open it.
00:42:57Oh, oh my god.
00:42:59You did it.
00:43:02Oh, oh.
00:43:04Hold on, babe. I got it.
00:43:05I got it.
00:43:10We got our asses kicked out of that elevator.
00:43:12Yeah, we're out.
00:43:15All right, you stay here.
00:43:15And I'll get the car.
00:43:19Oh my god, it's been a long day.
00:43:22I just want to go home.
00:43:24I'm not even going home.
00:43:25I'm going to, like, new home.
00:43:27But I guess home.
00:43:41Where is he?
00:43:42I just want to go home.
00:43:45Oh, look.
00:43:46He's going up.
00:43:47See?
00:43:47Rob broke it.
00:43:48I just clicked one button.
00:43:49Rob was like this.
00:43:51And I was like, chill.
00:43:56Um, is he here?
00:43:59Is he up here?
00:44:11Where are you?
00:44:13Where are you?
00:44:17I'm on floor four.
00:44:18I used the elevator properly, like a normal person.
00:44:21And it worked.
00:44:26What?
00:44:29Why are you angry at me?
00:44:31Why are you angry at me?
00:44:38I'm just wondering.
00:44:39You don't think she broke it?
00:44:41All right, chill.
00:44:42OK, chill.
00:44:45I'm not fucking the whole day.
00:44:46Well, chill.
00:44:48I just proposed.
00:44:49I just did a dance in front of everyone.
00:44:51I just waited and paced around for her to get here.
00:44:54I'm so excited.
00:44:55And it took all of 15 minutes for her
00:44:57to be pissed off at me about something
00:44:59that I cannot control.
00:45:03In my defense, you did control it,
00:45:05because you did break it.
00:45:06But yeah.
00:45:06And that's a ridiculous response.
00:45:08Yeah, definitely.
00:45:09That's just as stupid as it sounds.
00:45:11Anyway, my reason is I'm very, you know,
00:45:13I'm extremely tired.
00:45:14It's 4 in the morning in England.
00:45:15So you're not helping.
00:45:17You're not helping the moment.
00:45:20You're ruining the moment.
00:45:26I'm so tired.
00:45:27I'm so tired.
00:45:39Coco and I just made it to Michigan.
00:45:42I don't want to sound rude.
00:45:44But this place looks so great.
00:45:48But I can't believe I'm in the same building as Gino.
00:45:52I'm about to see him.
00:45:55And this time, you're not saying goodbye.
00:45:58I am so, so happy.
00:46:00I can't believe it.
00:46:07I'm still very frustrated with Gino.
00:46:10He knows that when I block him, he did so wrong.
00:46:14If I haven't blocked him, we're still, you know,
00:46:17I'm mad, but not that mad.
00:46:19It is like a fighting ritual.
00:46:22But it was a good thing that it was a long flight
00:46:24because I had a lot of time in to think about
00:46:27my relationship with Gino.
00:46:29And I kind of preview in my mind all our happy moments
00:46:35and the love that we have for each other.
00:46:38It made me calm down.
00:46:41And I'm still a little bit mad,
00:46:44but not as mad as I was before taking the flight.
00:46:52The longer I'm pacing back and forth waiting for Jasmine
00:46:57and she still hasn't walked through the door yet
00:47:00and I'm waiting for her and waiting for her,
00:47:03I'm thinking in my head, you know, is she coming?
00:47:06Why isn't she here yet?
00:47:08We've been waiting forever for this day
00:47:10and this is not the way it's supposed to be.
00:47:21♪♪♪
00:47:31♪♪♪
00:47:35Baby!
00:47:36Meemaw!
00:47:38Woo-hoo-hoo!
00:47:40Baby!
00:47:42Oh, my God!
00:47:44Woo!
00:47:46I missed you so much.
00:47:48I missed you so much.
00:47:50It's so good to see you.
00:47:53Oh, my God.
00:47:55I can't believe you're here.
00:47:57Oh, my God.
00:47:59I can't believe you're here.
00:48:01Oh, my God.
00:48:03♪♪♪
00:48:06It's okay.
00:48:08Oh, my God.
00:48:09Welcome to Michigan.
00:48:14Oh, my God.
00:48:15It's okay.
00:48:20Coco!
00:48:22Oh, my God.
00:48:23Coco, where are you going?
00:48:25Oh, my God.
00:48:27Coco, are you okay?
00:48:29Daddy's here.
00:48:30I am so excited to see Jasmine in Michigan.
00:48:33It's an awesome feeling.
00:48:35It's a dream come true.
00:48:37Finally, after three years.
00:48:40Daddy!
00:48:41Look at you.
00:48:43Coco, you remember me?
00:48:45It's finally happening, baby.
00:48:47I can't believe it.
00:48:48No more, good boy.
00:48:50Let me see you.
00:48:51The tongue.
00:48:52The tongue.
00:48:53Stick it out.
00:48:54Mmm.
00:48:55Mmm.
00:48:56Mmm.
00:48:57Mmm.
00:48:58I can suck Gino's tongue every night for the rest of my life.
00:49:05Among other things, but I'm not going to say it.
00:49:10You have a nice tongue.
00:49:13You haven't noticed anything.
00:49:15Oh, you got a new haircut.
00:49:17Yes.
00:49:19Did you change your hair?
00:49:20You noticed.
00:49:21You got a haircut.
00:49:22I love it.
00:49:23Oh, my God.
00:49:25Coco's desperate, baby.
00:49:27You look wonderful like that.
00:49:28You like it like this, right?
00:49:30Yeah, it's very natural.
00:49:32Baby, baby, listen.
00:49:35I have never loved anyone the way I love you.
00:49:40This is the hardest thing I have ever done in my life.
00:49:43Just moving and leaving everything behind.
00:49:46I have never done it, and I never pictured myself doing it for anyone.
00:49:51But you changed that.
00:49:53That's so beautiful.
00:49:54Because you're my soulmate.
00:49:56You're my soulmate, my gringo monito, and I cannot live without you.
00:50:01Even though sometimes I want to strangle him a little bit.
00:50:06Okay, let's make a promise right now.
00:50:08We're starting fresh and new.
00:50:09Let's forget about yesterday.
00:50:11Yesterday is in the past.
00:50:13Pinky promise, no more fights ever.
00:50:17All right.
00:50:18Okay?
00:50:19I'm game for that.
00:50:20Promise?
00:50:21Yeah, I promise.
00:50:23No more fights.
00:50:24No more crazy fights.
00:50:26I'm so happy that you're here, Jasmine.
00:50:29I'm going to annoy you.
00:50:31I mean, love you.
00:50:33I mean, love you for the rest of your life.
00:50:36I love to hear that.
00:50:40We have 90 days now.
00:50:42As of today, 90 days to get married.
00:50:46And I think it's going to be so exciting and fun, and my family there.
00:50:51You know, it's just going to be awesome.
00:50:54I am dying to see our house.
00:50:56More than seeing our house, I want to smell it.
00:50:58Smell it?
00:51:00I want to smell it.
00:51:02What smell are you hoping for?
00:51:03Like flowers, like cleanliness.
00:51:05I can spray a little Lysol, too.
00:51:07You should have done it before.
00:51:09You knew that I was coming.
00:51:12It's not turning back.
00:51:24I feel nervous because she's trans,
00:51:28and the people in our country are narrow-minded.
00:51:59My name is Igor.
00:52:01I'm 36 years old.
00:52:03I'm from Kishinev, Moldova.
00:52:08My friends and family call me Igor,
00:52:11but my fiancée from the United States calls me Justin.
00:52:17Nikki says she calls me Justin because when I was younger,
00:52:22I'm looking like this.
00:52:24It's her version.
00:52:26I work as a personal trainer.
00:52:29I work out, like, five or six times in a week.
00:52:32Fitness is important in my life.
00:52:35For me, this is not about looking.
00:52:37This is about to feel like a universal soldier,
00:52:41to clear my mind and take away all the stress.
00:52:46I feel like a soldier.
00:52:49Tomorrow is coming my fiancée, Nikki, from the United States,
00:52:53and I feel nervous because she's trans,
00:52:57and the people in our country,
00:53:00they're watching like narrow-minded,
00:53:04and because Nikki, every day,
00:53:07she's looking like this,
00:53:09and I feel nervous because she's trans,
00:53:12and the people in our country,
00:53:16and because Nikki, every time, goes out,
00:53:19like, a lot of makeup, nice dresses,
00:53:22and for me, it means a lot of attention from people.
00:53:27And the first thing, I'm worried about her safety.
00:53:45♪♪
00:53:50-♪♪
00:53:55I'm meeting with my friend, Sergey.
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00:54:01Sergey is my close friend,
00:54:03and he knows about Nikki's trans, about everything.
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00:54:10My friendship with Sergey is stronger
00:54:14because he accepted this,
00:54:16and now he's understanding me much better.
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00:57:07When I found out Nikki's trans,
00:57:11for me, it was a big question.
00:57:14Like, I'm a normal guy or not?
00:57:19I needed to do that two or three years
00:57:24to get my mind back and be normal.
00:57:28Was reading books, was running morning, was meditation.
00:57:33Now I'm more open-minded,
00:57:37and I look from another side.
00:57:40I'm looking like for woman without judging,
00:57:45and the Nikki is very nice and sweet woman.
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00:58:20Nikki had a lot of surgeries from the last time
00:58:24when I saw her in Moldova.
00:58:27Now she looks more for woman than other,
00:58:35and that make me feel more calm.
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