90 Day Fiance S10 E16
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00:00:00previously on 90 Day Fiancé.
00:00:03Surprise!
00:00:06Oh my God.
00:00:08We're getting married.
00:00:11We're gonna party it up in Florida.
00:00:13I wouldn't have it any other way.
00:00:24There are just so many unknowns before the wedding
00:00:27and seeing Manuel in this place
00:00:29honestly makes me really nervous.
00:00:37No strippers.
00:00:41Oh my God.
00:00:42I'm actually just interested in getting her drunk
00:00:45and finding out who she really is
00:00:47because drunk words are sober thoughts.
00:00:52You still want to get married?
00:01:00You're getting married in two days.
00:01:04I borrowed $2,000 from my ex-boyfriend Dane
00:01:07to get butt implant surgery.
00:01:10Why is he giving you $2,000?
00:01:12Now he's gonna expect something from you.
00:01:15What did you say?
00:01:18I wish I had done that last night.
00:01:22I believe I have a right to be upset with Jasmine
00:01:25that she borrowed $2,000 from me.
00:01:27I believe I have a right to be upset with Jasmine
00:01:29that she borrowed money from her ex, Dane.
00:01:31The fact that you're talking to your ex, that hurts me.
00:01:35I think you have to end your relationship with him.
00:01:39I know that I'm not doing anything wrong
00:01:41by being friends with Dan,
00:01:43but I think he's right.
00:01:45Hi, Dan.
00:01:47This is my goodbye to you.
00:01:49It is time for us to put our exes behind.
00:01:54She's gonna be my wife.
00:01:57I mean, I don't push my faith on people.
00:02:02Sam mentioned that he's going to do
00:02:04the Islam wedding ceremony with Citra,
00:02:08and I don't feel I should go to that.
00:02:12One of the most important moments in my life,
00:02:14you want to miss it, and that's up to you.
00:02:16Then let me think about it.
00:02:19I'm bisexual.
00:02:21Oh.
00:02:23Have you had a relationship with a girl?
00:02:26No. I would have told you that.
00:02:28Don't be getting married till you've been with a girl
00:02:30and know that what you really want.
00:02:32I think they're falling out of love right now.
00:02:35She should be the one walking away.
00:02:37One to ten, how good are you feeling?
00:02:39I'm like a four.
00:02:41Sophie has always assumed that we're gonna get married,
00:02:43but I have all the way up until I say I do.
00:02:47I can't believe you're actually gonna buy me a dress.
00:02:51I really thought that you were gonna wrap me in a blanket.
00:02:56No.
00:02:58I'm cheap, but not that cheap.
00:03:00Yes, you are.
00:03:03I'm not gonna buy you a dress.
00:03:05I'm not gonna buy you a dress.
00:03:07I'm not gonna buy you a dress.
00:03:09I'm not gonna buy you a dress.
00:03:11I'm not gonna buy you a dress.
00:03:13I'm not that cheap.
00:03:15Yes, you are.
00:03:25It's been a couple weeks since
00:03:27Jasmine and I returned from Miami,
00:03:30and we got into an argument,
00:03:32but we're in a better place now.
00:03:34We've made up.
00:03:36We don't want that hanging over us.
00:03:38I want us to be happy and in a good place
00:03:40trying to plan the wedding.
00:03:42At your service.
00:03:45Oh, my goodness.
00:03:48Hi.
00:03:49Hello.
00:03:50Hi, Joseph.
00:03:50Welcome in.
00:03:51Welcome in.
00:03:52Nice to meet you, Gina.
00:03:53Welcome to White Magnolia.
00:03:55Today, Gina and I are going to look at wedding gowns.
00:04:00It's very unusual to bring your fiance to dress shopping,
00:04:05but how am I going to get to the store to begin with?
00:04:10How am I going to pay if he has the credit card?
00:04:13So it's a must.
00:04:16I have to bring him.
00:04:17I don't have any other choice.
00:04:19So what are you looking for today?
00:04:22Well, because at the beginning, you know,
00:04:25I wanted a black wedding dress because I'm
00:04:31like the Black Widow, the spider, that it's the husband.
00:04:36I'm just joking.
00:04:37Joe, baby.
00:04:38It's a joke.
00:04:39It's so good he's laughing at it.
00:04:41But no, just being serious, honestly,
00:04:43after looking at all this, just superficially
00:04:46looking at this beautiful white wedding dresses, I'm on it.
00:04:50OK, let's do it then.
00:04:52What are we trying to stay around so I know what to pull?
00:04:55To be honest with you, it's very expensive to have a wedding.
00:04:59You've got to buy rings, wedding dress.
00:05:01So I'm hoping that we can stay somewhere
00:05:03around $1,000 for a dress.
00:05:08That doesn't even exist.
00:05:10Not when it comes to wedding dresses.
00:05:13We can work something out.
00:05:14So don't worry about that.
00:05:16Let's just enjoy the day.
00:05:17Yeah, yeah, I agree.
00:05:18I love her attitude.
00:05:20That's what I need in my life.
00:05:21This moment.
00:05:23Pop open the champagne.
00:05:25Get comfortable.
00:05:26Get drunk.
00:05:27See you in a minute.
00:05:30Well, ultimately, I'm going to have to pay for the dress.
00:05:33So I have to ask the tough questions about how much,
00:05:37you know, do these dresses cost?
00:05:39I hate to ask those questions.
00:05:40But someone has to, and I'm the bad guy today.
00:05:45Sorry I made such a mess.
00:05:46No, no worries.
00:05:47I feel really bad.
00:05:49Absolutely not.
00:05:49It's totally OK.
00:05:51I've been married before once, but I never had a wedding.
00:05:55No dress, no venue, no nothing.
00:06:00This is my last chance.
00:06:03I haven't decided between a princess kind of dress,
00:06:07because, you know, I am a princess,
00:06:09or a mermaid, because I am a mermaid too.
00:06:12It's so hard.
00:06:13But I know that walking down the aisle,
00:06:15I want to feel like a goddess.
00:06:19And I want, you know, to be speechless, like, oh my gosh.
00:06:23You know?
00:06:24That's like the reaction I'm looking for.
00:06:28Oh, I know.
00:06:34Wow, that's beautiful.
00:06:37That is gorgeous dress.
00:06:40Stunning.
00:06:45What do you think?
00:06:46It's beautiful, isn't it?
00:06:48I think it's stunning, yeah.
00:06:50That's a really beautiful dress.
00:06:53I was just curious, you know, what the cost of this dress is.
00:06:56OK.
00:06:57This one's going to be a little over $3,000.
00:07:00Ooh.
00:07:01Yes.
00:07:03Come on, baby, it's just a few thousand.
00:07:04You're not going to go bankrupt, see?
00:07:07Potentially, yes, I could.
00:07:08I mean.
00:07:09Baby, invest it in my happiness.
00:07:13I'm going to try the other dress, OK?
00:07:16All right, let's get started.
00:07:17Yes.
00:07:19$3,000, that's a lot.
00:07:23I want Jasmine to buy the wedding dress
00:07:26that she really wants.
00:07:27But we have a budget for the wedding,
00:07:29and I can't spend a million dollars on this wedding, OK?
00:07:33$3,000, whew.
00:07:44Man, get out of town.
00:07:50Wow, yeah, that is so beautiful.
00:07:54I can see your shape, you know, your figure.
00:07:57I feel like a goddess right now.
00:07:59I look like a mermaid.
00:08:02That is romance.
00:08:03That's what I wanted.
00:08:06Baby, I want this dress.
00:08:08I don't even want to try other dress.
00:08:09This is what I dream of ever since I was a little girl.
00:08:15Do you know how much this cost?
00:08:17Or?
00:08:18Yeah, this one is close to $5,000.
00:08:20$5,000?
00:08:23Oops.
00:08:24I'm innocent.
00:08:25I didn't know the price.
00:08:26Bye.
00:08:27I'm sorry.
00:08:27Ah!
00:08:28Baby, I want it.
00:08:29Baby, I want it.
00:08:31Baby, I want it.
00:08:32Baby, please.
00:08:33Baby, baby, please.
00:08:36I'm sorry I'm so broke, you know?
00:08:42So there's definitely some friction with financials.
00:08:46It's a little uncomfortable.
00:08:48I don't want to interject or get too involved,
00:08:50but it's hard to make both parties happy.
00:09:01Wow, look at you.
00:09:04Oh my gosh, I love this one.
00:09:17Wow.
00:09:18You look stunning, like a queen.
00:09:22I look so, so good that I look like I'm not real, right?
00:09:26Like a painting.
00:09:27Like a Barbie doll.
00:09:29This feeling I wish, like, every woman get to experience
00:09:35one day in their life.
00:09:37I feel so beautiful.
00:09:39I look so good.
00:09:40It really pops out my attributes.
00:09:43I love it.
00:09:45I love this dress.
00:09:48And I have good news.
00:09:50I asked her something more friendly to your budget.
00:09:54Yeah, this is our floor sample.
00:09:57Fits her like a glove.
00:09:58So we could do about $2,000 for you,
00:10:01and I think everyone can, yeah, be happy today.
00:10:05Wow.
00:10:06Yeah.
00:10:07I like that.
00:10:08Do you like the dress?
00:10:10Yes.
00:10:10Is this the one that you want?
00:10:11Are you sure?
00:10:13I want to make sure you're happy with the dress.
00:10:15I feel beautiful.
00:10:17That's all that matters.
00:10:19You look gorgeous.
00:10:23I feel like I found my dress.
00:10:25I feel gorgeous.
00:10:26Gino loved the dress.
00:10:28He didn't complain about the budget.
00:10:31And even though I spent all the money on my butt implants,
00:10:34something that I joke about being super necessary,
00:10:38it wasn't.
00:10:39He was willing to pull out $2,000 extra
00:10:42dollar for my wedding dress.
00:10:45I am happy.
00:10:46I love it.
00:10:48Congratulations to you all.
00:10:49And thank you so much.
00:10:50You look great.
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00:11:18Today is the day before the wedding.
00:11:20Finally confirmed with the efficient.
00:11:22He's good to go.
00:11:23I have a makeup artist and a hairstylist
00:11:26for Annalie tomorrow.
00:11:28Just a few days ago, we weren't really
00:11:29sure who was going to do what.
00:11:31But it looks like we've got pretty much
00:11:33everybody ready to go tomorrow.
00:11:39I'm dying of exercise, push-ups, squats.
00:11:43But why only the last day?
00:11:46I have to lose 10 kilos in one day.
00:11:53How was your farewell?
00:11:56It was relaxing.
00:11:59What did you do?
00:12:01Playing and swimming.
00:12:04How was your farewell?
00:12:07It was fun.
00:12:13What else?
00:12:15Just one.
00:12:17Just one?
00:12:22It's just that...
00:12:25your sister surprised me with...
00:12:28triplets.
00:12:31Your sister surprised me with...
00:12:33triplets.
00:12:39Clayton asked me how my farewell was,
00:12:42and I decided to be honest and not hide any more secrets.
00:12:47I didn't even dance, I was just sitting.
00:12:50I was just sitting there.
00:12:53But you ignored the rule.
00:12:56I thought it was immigration because he was a cop.
00:13:03Are you serious?
00:13:10I didn't hire him.
00:13:13I just didn't want to tell him...
00:13:16that your sister had wasted her money.
00:13:22What can I say?
00:13:25I knew it was one of the options,
00:13:28that this was going to happen,
00:13:31but he's treating me as if I had cheated on him,
00:13:34and as if I was the worst person in the world,
00:13:37as if I was the worst.
00:13:39I told him many times,
00:13:41no, no, stay away, stay away, dance with Brandy.
00:13:44And Brandy enjoyed it a lot.
00:13:46But did you finally accept?
00:13:49We were in a party car.
00:13:53He was on the move,
00:13:55so I couldn't throw the stripper out the window, right?
00:14:00No, but it doesn't matter.
00:14:03You accepted.
00:14:05It was very embarrassing for me.
00:14:09For me too.
00:14:11My girlfriend doesn't love me, she loves someone else.
00:14:14You're taking everything out of context.
00:14:16Do whatever you want, really.
00:14:18Because you're really jealous,
00:14:20so you're... I don't know.
00:14:25So you told me everything that happened in...
00:14:29I'm not going to...
00:14:31I'm just asking.
00:14:35What a stripper does is dance.
00:14:37Okay, and he touched you.
00:14:45I don't know, dancing, I don't know, moving.
00:14:50That's why I'm telling you right now,
00:14:53are you going to continue with the same thing?
00:14:55And I asked you one thing.
00:14:57Please, no strippers.
00:15:00How would you feel if I did the same to you?
00:15:04You'd probably cry.
00:15:07I don't... I...
00:15:09So what's the solution?
00:15:13Never again in this world,
00:15:16that this happens again.
00:15:19Don, I didn't bring it,
00:15:21and I think this is going to continue in your life.
00:15:25So you went to the bathroom again.
00:15:28To get out of here.
00:15:30This is just f***ing ridiculous, man.
00:15:32I can't even f***ing talk, dude.
00:15:49What are you doing with your suitcase?
00:15:53There she is again.
00:16:03Hey, so this whole ordeal with the stripper thing
00:16:08is like literally making Annalie pack up her f***ing suitcase.
00:16:13Literally making Annalie pack up her f***ing suitcase.
00:16:16Like, she is acting like she's going to leave.
00:16:24Why?
00:16:25Because I'm upset over the fact that you guys had a f***ing stupid f***ing stripper
00:16:30at this stupid f***ing bachelorette party.
00:16:33Go in there and give her a hug and tell her that you love her
00:16:36and that you'll get through it.
00:16:37I should not be apologizing or taking any responsibility
00:16:41for something that I'm, what I feel like I'm the victim of.
00:16:45The hell did I do?
00:16:50Yep, and you are giving me them and I'm responding
00:16:52and that's just how conversations work.
00:16:55Well, you don't have to be a smartass.
00:17:08I plan on having a wedding tomorrow and she's packing her f***ing suitcase.
00:17:12I don't want this for my life.
00:17:22I understand you're pissed and all of this s*** is obviously about me.
00:17:26Just say I'm sorry.
00:17:27I have a right to feel a certain way.
00:17:30The way he's treating me, I don't really know why I keep fighting at this point.
00:17:35I do have limits.
00:17:37Say I'm sorry and that's it and we'll move past it.
00:17:43Yeah, I know it's okay.
00:17:49Something's getting in the way.
00:17:54I don't want you to change.
00:17:59But it don't feel the same.
00:18:02I'm playing with fire.
00:18:04As the flames go higher.
00:18:08Should I let you go if I don't know who you are?
00:18:17What's up?
00:18:18Hello.
00:18:20Did you miss me?
00:18:21Yes.
00:18:22Did you?
00:18:23Yes.
00:18:24Did you miss me?
00:18:25Yeah.
00:18:28Yesterday, Sophie and I got into her mom as well.
00:18:31Sophie made sure that her mom knew that she was not happy in this apartment.
00:18:35And then I feel like Claire just switched up.
00:18:38She just has to ride for her daughter.
00:18:41She stayed the night with her mom instead of staying home to work things out with me.
00:18:46You know, I feel like she did not have my back.
00:18:48I feel like she let me down.
00:18:49She wasn't on my team and that's kind of like a big deal to me.
00:18:54So I need to hear something from her that makes me feel like she gets it.
00:19:00How was it hanging out with your mom?
00:19:02Yeah, it was nice.
00:19:03Yeah?
00:19:04Yeah.
00:19:05That's good.
00:19:06It was nice to spend time with my mom, obviously, but I definitely, like, woke up and was missing you.
00:19:14I mean, I half expected you and your mom to have spent the whole night just talking about how terrible I am.
00:19:19No, not at all.
00:19:22So when it was you and your mom and she would say something negative about me, you would have my back?
00:19:29Yeah, I really did.
00:19:32I'm curious, where was that energy when we were all together?
00:19:38I mean, the energy was that I was agreeing with some of the things she was saying.
00:19:43And, you know, obviously if I agreed with what you were saying about my mom, I would say, yeah, Rob, I agree.
00:19:50It was a necessary period for you to even agree with her.
00:19:55You really let me down right there.
00:19:58You really let me down right there.
00:19:59Like, I thought we were a team.
00:20:00And I felt, and after that conversation, I felt like you were not on my team.
00:20:04I felt mad alone.
00:20:06You weren't on my team.
00:20:07I didn't mean to make you feel like that.
00:20:09And I'm sorry for making you feel alone.
00:20:11I didn't mean to make you feel like that.
00:20:13I'm sorry.
00:20:14I am sorry.
00:20:16All right.
00:20:17I hear you.
00:20:19I think in this instance, like, I do understand how maybe he may have feel, you know, it was him alone against me and my mom.
00:20:26And I don't want him to feel alone.
00:20:28And also, knowing me and Rob's history, if I don't apologize, then the argument probably won't end.
00:20:35And I just don't have any mental space left to keep arguing with him.
00:20:38I just want to move past this.
00:20:41Home, I know you hate it.
00:20:42Sweet home.
00:20:44I don't hate it.
00:20:46I still kind of want to talk.
00:20:48So if you want, we could just sit outside for a little bit.
00:20:51Yeah.
00:20:52It's chilly.
00:20:54Yes, it is.
00:21:06You ever heard the phrase, left out to dry?
00:21:10Yeah.
00:21:12I felt very left out.
00:21:13I felt very left out to dry.
00:21:15I felt very vulnerable with no support.
00:21:19And that's what made me upset.
00:21:23It's like I am really fighting for Rob and our relationship.
00:21:26But it's like, the way he's treating me, I don't really know why I keep fighting at this point.
00:21:34It's like he just wants to sit there and feel bad and make me feel bad.
00:21:38I do have limits.
00:21:40Look, I understand how you felt.
00:21:42And in the car, I apologized.
00:21:44And I understand it.
00:21:46I don't know what more you want me to say.
00:21:47I'm sorry.
00:21:48I feel like the least you could say is, I'm sorry for being disrespectful to your mom.
00:21:52It's still my mom at the end of the day.
00:21:53It's like, you don't have to apologize to me.
00:21:55I'm sorry I yelled at your mom.
00:21:57I'm sorry I raised my voice.
00:21:59And I'm sorry that I said things that I really tried not to say.
00:22:04Okay, thank you.
00:22:05That's all I can ask for.
00:22:07And it's like, I'm willing to move past it.
00:22:09And it's like, yesterday, when I was sleeping without you, I was missing you a lot.
00:22:13And then this morning, I woke up.
00:22:14I saw on Facebook that you was up to four posting a lot of posts, which were obviously aimed at me, which I thought was pretty childish.
00:22:21It wasn't aimed at you.
00:22:22For the last 24 hours, it started with you posting something saying, I've always had myself, so I'm going to be good alone.
00:22:28And then it was the post saying, when she buys you a meal one time and she acts like she takes care of you, which I'm like, no, no, I'm talking, I'm talking, I'm talking, I'm talking.
00:22:37Then you said that, which is like, okay, you're throwing little weird digs.
00:22:40And then it was the quote about how I sleep at night knowing she lies and doesn't take accountability.
00:22:44And then it was another one saying, oh, I'm just going to act emotionally intelligent to people who aren't emotionally intelligent.
00:22:51Or something like that, throwing shade at me again.
00:22:53And there was just loads of them in the last 24 hours.
00:22:58I'm not denying that it relates to my life.
00:23:00I didn't post it just for other people.
00:23:02I posted it because it was relatable.
00:23:04And if she did see it, then like, I don't know, maybe she'd get where I'm coming from by seeing it coming from a different perspective or, you know, not coming from my mouth.
00:23:13But I'm not really expecting her to get it because I reposted a meme.
00:23:19There's no way for it to just not sound like I'm 19.
00:23:24I understand you're pissed and all of this is obviously about me.
00:23:28So you want to hurt my feelings?
00:23:30I don't want to hurt your feelings.
00:23:31You don't have to look at my, you don't have to look at my Facebook.
00:23:33You know I see you.
00:23:34Just say I'm sorry.
00:23:35I have a right to feel a certain way.
00:23:37You've done something to hurt my feelings.
00:23:39Even if you didn't intend to.
00:23:41Say sorry.
00:23:44I want to talk about that matters.
00:23:46And you want to talk about you want to talk about social media posts.
00:23:48Maybe you can't just.
00:23:49Your feelings were hurt.
00:23:50My feelings were hurt.
00:23:51Why can't you just say sorry?
00:23:57Just say I'm sorry.
00:23:58And that's it.
00:23:59And we'll move past it.
00:24:00I can't keep putting all the f**king effort into this relationship.
00:24:03You need to also do the f**king same, bro.
00:24:06I'm f**king sick of it.
00:24:08I stick up for you and I'm f**king by your side all the time.
00:24:11And you can't even just say I'm f**king sorry for hurting your feelings.
00:24:24Just everything we've been through and just so many problems.
00:24:28It's like we might as well be both talking to a brick wall.
00:24:47Are you going to have your dad kind of walk you up front?
00:24:51Because that's kind of traditional of American.
00:24:55Like this?
00:24:58Yeah.
00:25:04How many chairs do you think we'll need?
00:25:10Besides who's standing up with us.
00:25:12We want like the important parts of the family up front.
00:25:17Where should the food and stuff go?
00:25:19It's going to be in the front.
00:25:21The front yard.
00:25:22Tomorrow's the wedding day.
00:25:24A lot going on.
00:25:25I'm converting.
00:25:26And then after, like, having my spiritual ceremony.
00:25:30And then my American wedding.
00:25:33A lot of moving parts that need to come together.
00:25:37We're going to have music here or what?
00:25:40Definitely.
00:25:41The night before my wedding, I feel nervous.
00:25:45You know, a bit stressful.
00:25:47And also my face get breakout.
00:25:50That's why it's like from stress.
00:25:53After I convert and we're, like, married.
00:25:56And Isaac gone.
00:25:58You know, like, I'm not just after sex.
00:26:01But after waiting this long, like, it's killing me.
00:26:07Sam is really excited about the bang-bang part after we get married.
00:26:12And I'm, like, a little bit scared for that.
00:26:16I mean, I don't know how it's going to feel like.
00:26:18Is it going to be hurt?
00:26:20I don't know.
00:26:21I feel, you know, nervous.
00:26:24You want to unload your blue balls or something.
00:26:28You're the queen of blue balls over here.
00:26:31You're going to cause me, like, a penile problem.
00:26:35What?
00:26:36I don't know. I just made it up.
00:26:38But it's probably true.
00:26:51Wow.
00:27:05I look good.
00:27:08It's a good color on you.
00:27:10We're going to the mosque today for me to convert, finally become a Muslim.
00:27:15And we're married in the eyes of Allah.
00:27:17And then after, we're going to have our American wedding at the farmhouse.
00:27:29I'm wearing a long dress to cover my head.
00:27:33It's called hijab.
00:27:34And he's wearing a, it's called baju koko, like, for guys.
00:27:40They're wearing that kind of shirt to pray.
00:27:47No, no.
00:27:50Look, look.
00:27:51My dad fit.
00:27:53Yeah.
00:27:54No, no, no.
00:27:56No.
00:28:00Is it hurt?
00:28:02Well, it's my feet are stiff.
00:28:04Trying to bend my feet, like, that way, it's kind of painful.
00:28:09And it's just awkward feeling.
00:28:14And, like, Indonesians, they're all small, so, like, they can ball up.
00:28:18But it's a learning experience, that's for sure.
00:28:31So you need to practice more because it's going to be, like, five times in a day.
00:28:35Sorry.
00:28:45Really?
00:28:48I see my dad really wants to talk to Sam.
00:28:51And I'm hoping that he's going to give him blessing.
00:28:56If my dad doesn't give us blessing to get married,
00:28:59then I will be devastated because I love Sam, that I want to marry him.
00:29:06So, yeah, just click that.
00:29:07OK.
00:29:08There, yeah.
00:29:15OK.
00:29:16Before the wedding, are you ready?
00:29:20I feel like I'm ready as I can be.
00:29:23And I'm so happy you and her family are here.
00:29:27I really feel like we became a family.
00:29:38OK, Sam.
00:29:40OK, Sam.
00:30:01OK, Sam, I am Citra's father.
00:30:04Just a message to you.
00:30:06Please take care of my child.
00:30:08Love him.
00:30:12The language barrier, it's like we might as well be both talking to a brick wall.
00:30:17And Google Translate does not help.
00:30:20Like, that just makes it worse because Dad doesn't even get it right.
00:30:29A lot of the time, they don't even put, like, different words, completely different meaning.
00:30:34But for the most part, you can kind of get the gist of what someone's saying.
00:30:43Yeah, honestly, I want to be like you and Citra's mom.
00:30:48Like, you guys were the perfect example.
00:30:50And that's how I want our family to be.
00:31:28OK, Sam, I believe what you said to me.
00:31:31In the next few hours, we'll be responsible, Citra answered.
00:31:35I will leave it to you.
00:31:37I believe in you.
00:31:38You are sure you can take care of my child.
00:31:42OK.
00:32:07I promise I'll take care of him.
00:32:09I wish you.
00:32:11Thank God, or I mean Allah, that he gave me his blessing.
00:32:16Just everything we've been through and, like, a real father-son bond.
00:32:22And it's just great.
00:32:24I've never had anything like it before.
00:32:27So, it was a special moment for both of us.
00:32:30Let's go check on the lady.
00:32:32It's a seven.
00:32:33Mosque.
00:32:34OK.
00:32:35I can't believe I'm about to be a married man already
00:32:37and about to have two weddings back to back.
00:32:41Like, it's just, it's crazy.
00:32:45But, honestly, I don't know a whole lot about being a Muslim.
00:32:49So, I just hope I don't make a fool of myself at the mosque during the conversion.
00:32:55Like, it would kind of bring shame and disrespect on their family.
00:33:00It would kind of bring shame and disrespect on their family.
00:33:03I could still lose Citra if something bad happens with the conversion.
00:33:08I can't mess this up.
00:33:15I'm just concerned about your family ruining my special day, our special day.
00:33:20I don't see them welcoming me into their family at all.
00:33:24I know that they don't like me.
00:33:25How do you think they feel if they couldn't make it?
00:33:27Put yourself in their shoes.
00:33:29They're asking for prenups and looking at me like a freaking gold digger.
00:33:33You should talk to them.
00:33:43I didn't spend the last two and a half years building this relationship with Annalie
00:33:48all for her to pack her suitcase, go get her passport, and go home.
00:34:00Wow, this town looks like the Cowboys movies.
00:34:04You know?
00:34:05Ta-da-da!
00:34:06With the guns.
00:34:07Oh!
00:34:11Does this give you a feeling of the Wild West?
00:34:13Yes!
00:34:23I mean, this is what makes you a Muslim.
00:34:27I mean, this is what Michigan is.
00:34:29Look at today.
00:34:31Look at this beautiful, sunny, warm day.
00:34:33This is what you can expect in the summer.
00:34:37If it could only stay like this forever, I think I would make it.
00:34:44I would survive.
00:34:47We're almost there.
00:34:49I'm so convinced that this is the place for us to be married,
00:34:52and I really think you're going to like it.
00:34:54From my side, this is the best place I've found, and also, like, you know, it fits our budget.
00:35:03I want you to look at this place, I want you to give me your honest opinion today.
00:35:07You know, I'm really feeling good about it.
00:35:11Gino's dream wedding is quite different from mine,
00:35:14because my dream wedding, first of all, is going to be by the ocean,
00:35:19with the palm trees, barefoot.
00:35:22Barefoot.
00:35:24Like a crown of flowers.
00:35:26No family, we're low.
00:35:28Coco, Gino and I, and that's enough.
00:35:32But he wants to have his family there,
00:35:34and he wants it, like, to be something, like, old-fashioned,
00:35:40style, super antique,
00:35:42because he wants to wear the freaking fedora hats,
00:35:45and, like, something from the 1920s.
00:35:49You know, something closer to his age.
00:35:53Oh, my God, look at this place.
00:36:01Hi there.
00:36:02Hi, are you Jasmine?
00:36:03Yes.
00:36:04Hi, Jasmine, I'm Anna.
00:36:05Hello.
00:36:06Nice to meet you, Anna.
00:36:07Nice to meet you, Gino.
00:36:08Hi, Anna, how are you?
00:36:09Nice to meet you guys, good.
00:36:10Congratulations on your recent engagement.
00:36:13And welcome to Corman Farm.
00:36:14Well, if you guys want to follow me,
00:36:15we can start over in the barn that allows for up to 75 guests.
00:36:18Okay.
00:36:19Wow.
00:36:20Nice, right?
00:36:21Yeah, I'm just admiring the place, baby.
00:36:26So, if you want to follow me this way,
00:36:27this is the lower level of the barn.
00:36:30Awesome.
00:36:34Wow, this is big.
00:36:35Wow, look at this, slumps.
00:36:40Holy cow.
00:36:42I have to be honest that I really like the place.
00:36:46This is an old antique,
00:36:48this is an old antique house.
00:36:50It's so beautiful.
00:36:51It feels like being in a museum.
00:36:54This is huge.
00:36:57Old fashioned.
00:37:00The only wrong thing about this place
00:37:03is that it is in Michigan, not in Panama.
00:37:06Because I'm quite sure that if I had had the same place in Panama,
00:37:10I would be like, yes, forget about the beach wedding.
00:37:15I want it to happen here.
00:37:17But I'm not going to give it up that easy to Gino.
00:37:21I have to be bitching about Michigan.
00:37:23I'm so used to it.
00:37:25So, if your guest count fell between 15 and 75,
00:37:28this is where most of your event would take place.
00:37:31Our team will set up a tablescape,
00:37:33a floor plan that we had agreed on previously.
00:37:36Oh, okay.
00:37:37Wow, you really take care of everything in this place.
00:37:39That's what I like.
00:37:40I just want to come, nothing for you to worry about.
00:37:43Don't worry about anything, and just be happy.
00:37:46Yeah, it'll be a chill day for you.
00:37:48But what about, like, because you guys are doing everything,
00:37:52is, like, the cost?
00:37:57Yeah, so for smaller weddings,
00:37:58we can see anywhere from $5,000 to $15,000.
00:38:02For those larger weddings,
00:38:03we can see anywhere from $15,000 to $35,000.
00:38:07It really all depends on what you add on,
00:38:09what kind of things you bring in,
00:38:11how many people you guys have.
00:38:12And guests, number of guests.
00:38:14Yeah, I love this place.
00:38:15This is really beautiful in here.
00:38:18I don't know.
00:38:21Well, do you guys want to head back over to the farmhouse?
00:38:24Perfect, okay.
00:38:26Bye, barnhouse.
00:38:28This house is actually very beautiful,
00:38:30and it's, like, a dreamy location.
00:38:34It has a beautiful landscape,
00:38:36but a part of me is really concerned
00:38:39that I still have a lot of unresolved issues
00:38:42with most of Gina's family members, unfortunately.
00:38:46I wish I could change it, but it is what it is.
00:38:50Well, since you guys have a lot to think about,
00:38:52a lot of decisions to make,
00:38:54I'm going to head outside and work on a proposal for you all,
00:38:57and I'll give you guys some privacy to kind of discuss,
00:38:59see what you guys are thinking.
00:39:01Sounds good to me.
00:39:02Anna, thanks so much.
00:39:04One of a kind.
00:39:05So I'm still not quite sure about this being our wedding place,
00:39:12of course.
00:39:13Still? After seeing this beautiful place?
00:39:16Well, I like it.
00:39:19I still don't know.
00:39:21So I'm just concerned about your family ruining my special day,
00:39:25our special day.
00:39:27What if they say something mean, or they don't like something,
00:39:30or they come with their questions?
00:39:34I mean, it's just a lot of things I'm trying to process.
00:39:39I made a promise to Gino when we were in Miami
00:39:41that I was going to try to get along with his family,
00:39:44but I don't know how easy that's actually going to be.
00:39:47I don't see them welcoming me into their family at all.
00:39:51I know that they don't like me,
00:39:53and I don't think there is a way I can be accepted by them.
00:39:58How do you think they feel if they couldn't make it?
00:40:01Put yourself in their shoes.
00:40:04I want this experience to be beautiful,
00:40:07and I don't want anyone to say anything that day or make me feel bad.
00:40:11I don't know.
00:40:12They're not going to make you feel bad.
00:40:14They're only going to make you feel good.
00:40:16How do you know that? How can you guarantee that?
00:40:18It's not going to be a bunch of questions like the first time you met them.
00:40:21But that's the impression that I have.
00:40:22That's the only experience that I have had with them.
00:40:24We're going to celebrate our wedding.
00:40:26That's the only experience that I have had with them,
00:40:28and they're asking for prenups,
00:40:29and looking at me like a freaking gold digger.
00:40:32You should talk to them, like, hey, you know what?
00:40:34Stop asking, like, bombing Jasmine with so many questions.
00:40:38She's going through a lot of s***, you know?
00:40:42You should be, hey, take it easy with her, you know?
00:40:47I want to get to a day in which I don't cry and I feel okay and I'm...
00:40:55I'm so far away from home, babe.
00:40:57No, it's okay. Everything's going to be okay, babe.
00:41:01Don't cry.
00:41:04We're going to work it out.
00:41:06We're going to figure out a good wedding for us.
00:41:12I know Jasmine wishes her family was here, you know,
00:41:16and I know she misses them, but I want Jasmine to feel loved.
00:41:21I want her to feel that my family is her family.
00:41:25This is super important. I really want them to get along.
00:41:28It's not going to be easy, but it's, you know, it's very important to me.
00:41:35Ma, I asked him to set up a call with his mom
00:41:39because despite all the secrecy, all the back and forth,
00:41:43they are going to be my family.
00:41:47I am ready to be your wife, and he will come here.
00:42:02It's like, how is our relationship going to work if we just keep arguing?
00:42:07I'm sorry for hurting your feelings over some social media posting.
00:42:10It's not that hard.
00:42:13I can't always keep being unfair to myself.
00:42:15fair to myself. You're either able to change or you're not.
00:42:23They're expecting us to fall down and mess this up.
00:42:29Hey, Ashley, what's happening?
00:42:31We found the spot where I'm getting married in.
00:42:33The water looks stunning.
00:42:35The sand is a little spicy, but it feels good.
00:42:40You're getting married here.
00:42:41Vamos a casar aqui.
00:42:43Si.
00:42:45Does it feel real?
00:42:46It's beautiful.
00:42:47Is it real right now?
00:42:48It's very real.
00:42:50Very.
00:43:09Ashley!
00:43:12Yes, honey?
00:43:13I'm ready to make the call.
00:43:15Okay.
00:43:16I'm home.
00:43:17Yes.
00:43:20Since Manuel's been missing Ecuador,
00:43:22and I've had such little contact with his family so far,
00:43:25I asked him to set up a call with his mom
00:43:27because she can't be there for her son when he gets married.
00:43:30So I want to include Swagger as much as possible.
00:43:33And I want to make sure Manuel knows that I care
00:43:36that his people aren't here and that I know.
00:43:41There's a piece of my heart missing, too.
00:43:44Hello, Mom.
00:43:46Hello, son. How are you?
00:43:47I'm good, Mom. I'm good.
00:43:49Hello, Mother-in-law.
00:43:51Hello, my dear daughter-in-law. How are you?
00:43:55I'm good.
00:43:56I'm a little anxious because we're getting married,
00:44:01but I'm good.
00:44:03Yes.
00:44:05All I'm asking is that you understand each other.
00:44:10Understand each other.
00:44:13Respect each other and love each other as a couple.
00:44:19Because God willing, nothing bad will happen.
00:44:22You're getting married.
00:44:24And you're going to be one.
00:44:27I know that distance is very hard.
00:44:30I know that it's not what you've always dreamed of.
00:44:35I don't want to see him cry.
00:44:46I really do feel bad around here.
00:44:50I'd like you to share this happiness and joy with me.
00:44:55I would've liked to share it with you,
00:44:58with my brothers, with my children.
00:45:01I would ask God to make everything beautiful.
00:45:05But I can't be in your marriage, Manuel, and that hurts me.
00:45:11I'm sorry, Mom. I wish I could be in your wedding.
00:45:17I can't imagine getting married without my parents.
00:45:21I feel terrible.
00:45:23Yes.
00:45:25I feel terrible.
00:45:26I'm sorry.
00:45:27I'm sorry.
00:45:28Yes.
00:45:30I feel terrible.
00:45:34That's right, honey. That's true.
00:45:36That's right.
00:45:38Promise me that he's okay.
00:45:41I'll take care of him and my parents too.
00:45:45My parents too.
00:45:47And I'm ready to be his wife.
00:45:51And he's going to be okay here.
00:45:56You're going to be my son's wife.
00:45:59And you're going to be my daughter.
00:46:01I love you, Mom.
00:46:03Thank you, Mom. I love you so much.
00:46:06God bless you. Amen.
00:46:08Okay, Mom.
00:46:11Bye. Bye, Mother-in-law.
00:46:13Okay, Mom. Bye.
00:46:14Bye. Bye.
00:46:21It feels good to be included in this conversation
00:46:25because Manuel, in the past,
00:46:28would have had this conversation separately
00:46:30or, I don't know, gone to the bathroom or something like that.
00:46:34And so, despite all of it, all the secrecy,
00:46:37all the back and forth,
00:46:38I hope that this is the beginning
00:46:42of us cultivating a deeper relationship
00:46:44on, like, all spectrums, you know?
00:46:47Because they are going to be my family.
00:46:50As Mom said, love, tranquility, and everything is going to be okay.
00:46:56Yes.
00:47:12It's like, how is our relationship going to work
00:47:15if we just keep arguing?
00:47:17It's not going to work if we just keep arguing.
00:47:20And the only way it's resolved is I apologize.
00:47:43I'm sorry for hurting your feelings over some social media posting.
00:47:47It's fine.
00:48:04Okay.
00:48:05I know that I've been lacking in how I'm responding to some things.
00:48:10I know that.
00:48:11I am really trying to get better and I am really trying to stay calm
00:48:14and I'm really trying to only think about myself.
00:48:17but I'm trying even harder, I really am.
00:48:21You know, it's hard to see you're trying
00:48:28when we keep getting the same result.
00:48:32As much as I love you and want to marry you,
00:48:34I need to be happy too.
00:48:35And I can't always keep being unfair to myself
00:48:38by ending these arguments.
00:48:39Keep arguing and then I always have to end them
00:48:42because you just won't see my side.
00:48:44Eventually it's going to get to me
00:48:45and I'm going to be an unhappy wife
00:48:46and I don't want that.
00:48:47So it's like, yeah, I do want to marry you,
00:48:49but I do need to realize for myself
00:48:51whether or not you are able to change.
00:48:53You're either able to change or you're not.
00:48:55I'm trying to do that for us.
00:48:59Well, do you reckon if you keep trying,
00:49:02you can get to the point where
00:49:03you just take constructive criticism as what it is
00:49:06and there's never an argument in the first place?
00:49:08Or are you always going to take it as an attack and an argument?
00:49:11I don't take constructive criticism as an attack.
00:49:13No, that's you not taking accountability.
00:49:16You're not trying.
00:49:17I take shade.
00:49:18Just answer the question.
00:49:19It's never shade.
00:49:21Just take accountability right now.
00:49:23Please help me realize that you can change
00:49:25because this is important for me.
00:49:27Yes, because I wouldn't even be...
00:49:30Again, it's not an attack.
00:49:32I'm asking you.
00:49:33So are you going to take accountability?
00:49:35Yes.
00:49:36Okay.
00:49:37If I wasn't, I wouldn't be trying to change.
00:49:39I wouldn't be trying to work on those things.
00:49:42I finally see that I'm getting through to Rob
00:49:45and he starts to be genuine,
00:49:46which that's what I wanted all along,
00:49:48is just to see...
00:49:49Look at him and see he's being sincere and genuine
00:49:51and he can care that I'm upset.
00:49:53So I'm in more of a forgiving mood
00:49:55and it's like, you know,
00:49:56I feel like it ended how I wanted it to start,
00:49:59which was us just both being genuine,
00:50:01saying we're sorry.
00:50:02I just wish it would happen a bit sooner.
00:50:06I do love you to death,
00:50:08or I would not be doing all of what I can
00:50:10to fix this relationship
00:50:11or to make this relationship what we both feel like it can be.
00:50:16Because I don't want you to feel like I get angry.
00:50:19I want you to feel like you can talk to me.
00:50:21We've been happy before, okay, babe?
00:50:23Yeah.
00:50:24We can and will be again.
00:50:28Okay?
00:50:29Yeah.
00:50:30I mean, I've always believed that.
00:50:32It's just today I did have a doubt,
00:50:34but I still believe we can.
00:50:36So did I.
00:50:37So did I.
00:50:39But I still believe we can as well.
00:50:43Okay, I forgive you.
00:50:45I forgive you also.
00:50:49I feel like Sophie and I will have these heated arguments
00:50:52and then we somehow find each other at the end of them
00:50:55and I really appreciate that Sophie's able
00:50:58to move on from these moments
00:51:00and I really try to myself because I need that.
00:51:04I need to know that my partner isn't ready to give up
00:51:07and that we can work these things out.
00:51:12A lot has happened, but I still obviously love him.
00:51:15I don't not love him anymore.
00:51:16I still want to marry him.
00:51:18It does suck that we have all these issues going on.
00:51:20Like, we had the whole kid situation
00:51:23and then we had me coming out as bi
00:51:25and then Rob not getting along with my mom,
00:51:28but, you know, I'm still with him
00:51:31and I still want to marry him.
00:51:33Yeah, I'm hopeful too.
00:51:36I'm sorry again for snapping at you.
00:51:40I'm sorry as well.
00:51:47I love you.
00:51:53You always got a bunch of lipstick on.
00:51:56I do.
00:52:00We have a brother today with us
00:52:02who is going to pronounce his Shahada.
00:52:03We have to listen to him.
00:52:05I feel like a frightened kid
00:52:07about to do a play at school,
00:52:09just stage fright.
00:52:10No matter how I feel inside,
00:52:12I have to play it cool.
00:52:33That's you.
00:52:39So I'm about to do a conversion
00:52:42and then we're about to get married
00:52:44and it just feels so unreal.
00:52:48Were you worried I wasn't going to do it?
00:52:51Well, you didn't really show me at first, like, you know.
00:52:55I'm hurt.
00:52:57Yeah, but I'm glad that we're finally here at our wedding.
00:53:01I'm glad that we're finally here at the most
00:53:03and have my family that can see you converting.
00:53:08I'd really like both my parents to be there when I convert,
00:53:11even if they don't agree with it.
00:53:13It's a big moment for me and her
00:53:16and her parents are there,
00:53:18why can't I have my parents there?
00:53:20Like, you know, at least,
00:53:22I hope that I can count on them at least for this.
00:53:32Do you follow me?
00:53:33Huh?
00:53:34Follow me.
00:53:35Voodoo.
00:53:36Voodoo is purifying yourself before the prayer.
00:53:40You wash your hands, feet, mouth, face three times each
00:53:44and then you say the Sahara.
00:53:46Think I'm saying it right?
00:53:48Still new to it, sorry.
00:53:50Yeah.
00:53:52It's just like a whole little ceremony.
00:54:02Don't touch me, don't touch her.
00:54:07Yeah, no, no touch woman.
00:54:10Don't touch me.
00:54:11I don't touch her.
00:54:13Don't touch me.
00:54:15Don't touch her.
00:54:17Don't touch me.
00:54:18No, no, touch woman.
00:54:20Don't touch woman.
00:54:21If you touch woman, back to voodoo game.
00:54:32Even if I did wing it, I'd pull shit off, all right?
00:54:39I think that's your dad.
00:54:41Yeah.
00:54:46It'd be nice if my mom was here, but, you know,
00:54:50kind of hurts, but I'll take what I can get.
00:54:54Kind of surprised, but very happy my dad's showing up.
00:54:58He's not religious at all, but he loves me enough
00:55:01to be there and support me.
00:55:03Thanks for coming.
00:55:04I know what it's like to go to something
00:55:12and have none of your family there.
00:55:15My mom, she's not coming.
00:55:18It definitely makes me sad, because she kind of gave me
00:55:20hopes that she might actually come,
00:55:22and having Citra's dad and my parents
00:55:26there would have just been the perfect moment,
00:55:28but I don't think I'm going to get that today.
00:55:32Hi.
00:55:33Yo.
00:55:34Hello.
00:55:39I find all religions interesting to some extent.
00:55:43Good to see you.
00:55:44Yes, me too.
00:55:47I mean, I'm an atheist.
00:55:49It just makes more sense to me that the gods were more likely
00:55:53from other solar systems, especially with the way
00:55:56the pyramids are set.
00:55:58But I was left alone a lot during my marriage,
00:56:01you know, and my side of the family,
00:56:03so I would never do that to Sam.
00:56:07I got it.
00:56:09Sure?
00:56:10Mm-hmm.
00:56:15That's a lot to wear in this one.
00:56:16Assalamu alaikum.
00:56:17Hi, welcome, welcome.
00:56:19Welcome, welcome.
00:56:20Assalamu alaikum.
00:56:21Assalamu alaikum.
00:56:22How are you?
00:56:23I'm good.
00:56:23Welcome.
00:56:24Welcome.
00:56:25Welcome.
00:56:26Good luck, God willing.
00:56:27Amen.
00:56:33âȘâȘ
00:56:45âȘâȘ
00:56:55âȘâȘ
00:57:05âȘâȘ
00:57:16Inshallah, we have a happy event today.
00:57:19So our brother, who is going to pronounce his shahada today,
00:57:25you know, he was preaching.
00:57:27If you please come.
00:57:29âȘâȘ
00:57:38It kind of feels like everything's happening too fast.
00:57:42Sit down.
00:57:43It would have been nice to have a little bit of time
00:57:46just to prepare myself.
00:57:48âȘâȘ
00:57:52We have a brother today with us who is going to pronounce his shahada.
00:57:56We have to listen to him.
00:57:58I feel like a frightened kid about to do a play at school,
00:58:01just stage fright.
00:58:03No matter how I feel inside, I have to play it cool.
00:58:06Feeling like my life's really about to start.
00:58:09Super nervous about living up to the expectations.
00:58:13It's all such a new shock, so opposite to the way I used to live.
00:58:18âȘâȘ
00:58:22I want to know what it's going to take to be loved and accepted by you.
00:58:27Gino needs to have my back at any given moment.
00:58:32It's now or never.
00:58:34You in bikinis and on the beach, and this is not normal.
00:58:39âȘâȘ
00:58:42First, we have the bride and the groom.
00:58:45Second, the guardian.
00:58:47I'm about to get married, feeling like my life's really about to start,
00:58:51but super nervous.
00:58:53We should ask the father,
00:58:55do you agree about concluding that marriage, inshallah?
00:58:58My heart kind of dropped for a second.
00:59:00It's like a thousand minutes just waiting for his response.
00:59:04âȘâȘ
00:59:07âȘâȘ
00:59:26Here we are.
00:59:28Our wedding is quickly coming upon us, and we've been so busy.
00:59:32There's still a lot of last-minute details we had to work out
00:59:35with the photographer, the music, and the food.
00:59:39Awesome.
00:59:41It's a lot, a lot of planning, organizing, and a lot of stress
00:59:47because we don't have a lot of time to figure all this stuff out.
00:59:51You know, it's stressful.
00:59:56So who's coming?
00:59:58Dana's coming, Michelle, and Amanda,
01:00:02and also my nephew, Anthony.
01:00:05And what about Lordy and Tani?
01:00:09They messaged me that they're not going to be able to make it.
01:00:16Jasmine has mentioned to me that she was hurt by some of the things
01:00:20that she heard from some of the family members
01:00:23at our first dinner meeting.
01:00:25Our wedding is right around the corner, and it's really important.
01:00:29Jasmine puts an effort in with my family tonight
01:00:33in that she's just open to talk to them and try to work things out.
01:00:38That's really important to me,
01:00:40and I hope she can hash out the things that she's concerned with
01:00:45with my family, and we can have a super wedding
01:00:49where everyone's comfortable.
01:00:51Hi.
01:00:53Hey.
01:00:55Hi.
01:00:57Hey.
01:00:59How are you?
01:01:03I'm willing to give Gino's family another chance,
01:01:07not because of them, but because of Gino
01:01:10and how much I love him,
01:01:13and there is anything I couldn't do to make him happy
01:01:16just because of that.
01:01:18But Gino needs to have my back at any given moment
01:01:23with no hesitation.
01:01:25It's now or never.
01:01:30So you guys are getting ready? Are you guys nervous?
01:01:33Of course.
01:01:35Yeah, it's been like, I don't know, it's hard to explain.
01:01:40I've been happy, you know, because this is something
01:01:43that I prayed for in the past, and it's happening right now.
01:01:48I was very nervous to come here,
01:01:52and I was telling Gino that I don't want to feel this nervous
01:01:56and this anxious every time we are having a family gathering.
01:02:01I understand you having, you know, like, this fear of,
01:02:06oh, is she going to hurt him? What is she looking, you know?
01:02:10And you have valid reasons to fear that,
01:02:13but I can tell you guys that that's not the case.
01:02:18That's not the case.
01:02:21I want to know what it's going to take to be loved and accepted by you.
01:02:28I really... I really need you guys.
01:02:33Like, I need... I need you.
01:02:46I miss my family. You have no idea.
01:02:51I also want to open my heart and think, like,
01:02:54but I have an American family now.
01:02:57It's very important for me to feel like I belong and that I'm welcome
01:03:02because I'm not having it easy.
01:03:12This is one of the hardest things that I have done in my life.
01:03:22What we're doing right now is probably the start,
01:03:26and I'm really glad that you are straightforward with your feelings.
01:03:31And, you know, the only thing that I can say is, like,
01:03:34everyone had their concerns.
01:03:36It's like, she's beautiful.
01:03:38Why can't a woman like that find a man in Panama?
01:03:40Why's she got to come all the way here to Michigan and steal our Gino away?
01:03:44Because look at him. I mean, he's a babe.
01:03:49And this is, like, this is not normal.
01:03:52You know, we didn't know you.
01:03:53We saw some pictures of you in bikinis and on the beach,
01:03:57and, you know, so we really just got to know you.
01:04:00You know, like, I just got to know you too,
01:04:03and you're smart and funny, and, you know, I love you.
01:04:08I know that you guys are super important for Gino,
01:04:11and I would love to have a family, to see you as my family too, you know.
01:04:17I'm here by myself. I only have Gino.
01:04:20And I'm sorry, baby, in front of your family,
01:04:22I'm sorry for being so bitchy to you and for being rude.
01:04:27I am so sorry.
01:04:28You have given me nothing but love and support.
01:04:35I wasn't really open-minded to everything when you first got here,
01:04:38because I didn't want you to get here and then just turn around and leave again
01:04:42and break his heart, you know.
01:04:43That's just another thing that I was worried about for him,
01:04:45because I see the twinkle in his eye every time he looks at you,
01:04:48you know, how much he really loves you, you know.
01:04:51And you're coming to my awkward uncle, you know,
01:04:53we all know he's awkward at some times.
01:04:55He's not awkward. He's super awkward.
01:04:59Yeah, super awkward, and, you know, it just all didn't make sense,
01:05:02but the more we seen you guys together, I mean, it just started to click for us.
01:05:07When I first met Jasmine, I was really skeptical on, you know,
01:05:10the whole deal with her coming over here and marrying my uncle.
01:05:13You know, he went through something like this in the past,
01:05:15and, you know, I just kind of wanted to be that kind of shield for him.
01:05:19After really getting to know her and really vetting her
01:05:22and seeing the emotions that are coming from her, yes, you could really tell
01:05:25that she wants to do the best for my uncle.
01:05:28So, you know, she really does, you know, love with her heart.
01:05:31I really appreciate that about her.
01:05:33So I just want to toast to Jasmine and Gino
01:05:36I just want to toast to Jasmine and Gino
01:05:38and just welcoming Jasmine into the family.
01:05:40Cheers!
01:05:48Back to the whole family thing, I mean, you're stuck with us now.
01:05:56It's such a relief for me to hear from Gino's family
01:05:59that they welcomed me into the family because I love Gino,
01:06:03and I know that the family is very important for him
01:06:06as much as it is for me,
01:06:08and I really don't want to have any inconvenience or problem
01:06:12with my husband in the future because of family issues.
01:06:17See, I told you I had nothing to worry about.
01:06:19My family loves you, and, you know, my family is your family.
01:06:34Okay, you have listened to, you know,
01:06:38the Six Articles of Faith and the Five Pillars of Islam.
01:06:43Yes.
01:06:45I'm about to convert before I get married,
01:06:48feeling like my life's really about to start,
01:06:51but super nervous about living up to the expectations
01:06:55and just, you know, I don't know,
01:06:59super nervous about living up to the expectations
01:07:02and just, it's all such a new shock
01:07:05and, like, so opposite to the way I used to live.
01:07:09So now you can say what means,
01:07:12I testify that there's no deity worthy of my worship but Allah,
01:07:16and that Muhammad is the final prophet and messenger, okay?
01:07:20Say,
01:07:30Allah.
01:07:32He's doing it really good because I teach him before to say that shahada,
01:07:37so he's doing really good, and I'm surprised.
01:07:41I was a teacher's pet.
01:07:43Mm-hmm.
01:07:45I testify that Muhammad is the final prophet and messenger.
01:07:57Takbir.
01:07:58Allah Akbar.
01:07:59Congratulations.
01:08:03It is a big thing for me that he finally became a Muslim,
01:08:07and I'm really proud of him.
01:08:10It's not easy for someone to convert to other religion.
01:08:14Like, honestly, if you go in trying to fake it,
01:08:17you're not going to make it out.
01:08:18It's not going to work.
01:08:19I was definitely a bit of a f*** up in the past,
01:08:22but since being with her, she really straightened me out.
01:08:26Yeah, if you f*** up anymore, you have to answer me.
01:08:29Okay.
01:08:39Yeah.
01:08:41She's coming.
01:08:44First and foremost, you know, we have the bride and the groom.
01:08:48Second, the guardian, the father will be in the middle here, please.
01:08:54So, first and foremost, we should ask the father,
01:08:58do you agree about concluding that marriage, inshallah?
01:09:11Yes.
01:09:12Okay.
01:09:15So, when the imam asked Herman if he still agrees to the blessing of our marriage,
01:09:20like, my heart kind of dropped for a second.
01:09:22It felt like a thousand minutes just waiting for his response,
01:09:25and then that big wave of relief when he gave his blessing.
01:09:30I just fully felt accepted by Sitra's dad at that moment.
01:09:34Now, I will ask you first,
01:09:37do you agree to marry Sister Sitra according to the Quran and the Sunnah,
01:09:43the methodology of Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him?
01:09:47Yes.
01:09:48Okay.
01:09:49Sister Sitra, do you agree to marry Brother Sam,
01:09:52according to the Quran and the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad, peace and blessings be upon him?
01:09:57Yes, I do.
01:09:58Okay.
01:09:59You will look at him and tell him,
01:10:07meaning, I marry myself to you.
01:10:10Brother Sam, and you say what means I have accepted.
01:10:14Say,
01:10:18Congratulations.
01:10:19May Allah reward you.
01:10:20May Allah bless you.
01:10:22Allah Akbar.
01:10:24Allah Akbar.
01:10:26Allah Akbar.
01:10:29I couldn't believe my eyes.
01:10:32I was so happy to see my daughter, Sitra,
01:10:35and Sam getting married in an Islamic way.
01:10:39Congratulations.
01:10:40Praise be to Allah.
01:10:49It's great.
01:10:50I know that he loves Sitra,
01:10:53and he seems to be happy,
01:10:56and that's all a parent can want.
01:11:00What are you doing?
01:11:01Praise be to Allah.
01:11:05Praise be to Allah.
01:11:07Welcome, welcome, welcome.
01:11:09Praise be to Allah.
01:11:10We did it.
01:11:11We're married now.
01:11:12I've been waiting three years for this.
01:11:14I can't believe the day is finally here,
01:11:16and we're through it.
01:11:18It's what I've been waiting for all my life, it feels like.
01:11:22It happened so fast.
01:11:23You blink your eyes, and then that's it.
01:11:26We're married.
01:11:27It just feels unreal.
01:11:29I feel like we're ready to get off in the car with the tin cans behind us.
01:11:33It's just crazy.
01:11:35We did it.
01:11:36We're getting married.
01:11:40Congratulations.
01:11:43Congratulations.
01:11:45Thanks.
01:11:48Good luck.
01:11:50I'll need it.
01:11:54Ashley, looking at the climate,
01:11:56it looks like we're going to have tropical storms.
01:11:59Oh God, okay.
01:12:00I did not take into account hurricane season
01:12:03when I chose the wedding date.
01:12:05Oh my God.
01:12:06The word storm is making me hyperventilate
01:12:09because I don't have a plan B.
01:12:26I had an amazing bachelorette.
01:12:29It turned out perfectly.
01:12:31I want to do it again with you.
01:12:33I want to do it again with you.
01:12:46Oh my God.
01:12:47Armando messaged me.
01:12:49Oh my God, okay.
01:12:50Okay, okay.
01:12:52Armando is our wedding planner slash officiant,
01:12:55and he is the one taking care of business for the big day.
01:13:00Okay, here we go.
01:13:02Ashley, looking at the climate,
01:13:07it looks like we're going to have tropical storms.
01:13:09Oh God, okay.
01:13:10My head.
01:13:11You have to understand when you're on the beach,
01:13:14you're possibly putting your people
01:13:17in a really serious situation.
01:13:21Oh my God.
01:13:23Hearing the word storm is making me hyperventilate.
01:13:32I'm not a Floridian, okay?
01:13:35I did not take into account hurricane season
01:13:38when I chose the wedding date.
01:13:41At all.
01:13:43Okay.
01:13:45See, I'm perfect.
01:13:46This is why we're all here.
01:13:47This is why I'm here.
01:13:48Yeah.
01:13:50I'm not really sure how we got to this place.
01:13:52This is my dream wedding,
01:13:54and I can't even think of bad weather ruining it.
01:13:59Okay.
01:14:00I'm freaking out.
01:14:01Okay.
01:14:02What happens if it rains?
01:14:04Or even worse, if there's a hurricane,
01:14:07I'm going to die.
01:14:10I can't stop thinking about it.
01:14:11I have a pit in my stomach right now.
01:14:13About what?
01:14:14The rain.
01:14:16Well...
01:14:20There's some things that you can't control.
01:14:24Like the weather?
01:14:25Like the weather.
01:14:26Yeah, I think giving it, like, attention and...
01:14:30I'm trying to not...
01:14:31Speaking, like, it's not helping.
01:14:35I intentionally wanted to marry Manuel
01:14:37as close to the full moon in Pisces as I could,
01:14:39and we've got this full moon hitting right on day 89.
01:14:43All of this is happening in divine timing.
01:14:46I chose the date,
01:14:48but the rest I thought was being handled by my wedding planner,
01:14:51so I don't have a plan B.
01:14:55It's going to be fine.
01:14:57Mm-hmm.
01:14:58Postponing the wedding is definitely not an option.
01:15:00It's a destination wedding.
01:15:01People have flights.
01:15:02And tomorrow also is, like, the cutoff day.
01:15:06The K-1 visa is conditional.
01:15:08You get married within 90 days.
01:15:11After those 90 days, if you don't get married,
01:15:14they get the boot.
01:15:17It's just, like, it's starting to hit.
01:15:19Like, we have 24 hours.
01:15:21Yeah.
01:15:23I have been waiting to marry him for so long.
01:15:26It's happening.
01:15:27We're getting married on the beach.
01:15:28That's the vision.
01:15:29That's what's happening.
01:15:30That's what we're doing at 5.30 p.m.
01:15:34There is no other option.
01:15:36Like, what would happen if that dream was crushed?
01:15:42My world will implode on itself.
01:15:48Everything.
01:15:50Tomorrow.
01:15:52Two-plus years.
01:15:56We've worked so hard.
01:15:59Like, I don't think I've worked harder for anything in my life.
01:16:08I really don't.
01:16:11I really don't.
01:16:17This wedding could be ruined
01:16:20if it gets rained on.
01:16:22And, of course, I'm frustrated at this idea
01:16:25of not just rain, but, like, hurricane.
01:16:28Like, we're not talking about a light sprinkle.
01:16:30Everything that we've worked for to get to this point,
01:16:34it could all just go to waste
01:16:36and quite literally be washed away.
01:16:41Whether it rains or not.
01:16:42Yeah.
01:16:43You know, you're gonna be okay.
01:16:44Like, you do hard things all the time.
01:16:47I see you do it.
01:16:49Yeah.
01:17:12¿Pensar en qué? ¿Pensar en casarte conmigo?
01:17:14¿Pensar en qué?
01:17:42Clayton es una persona muy celosa, la verdad.
01:17:46SĂ© lo celoso y enfadado que es Clayton con este tema.
01:17:52Ăl siempre ha sido asĂ y por eso es que me da miedo
01:17:55vivir un futuro con estas peleas continuas
01:18:00y que Ă©l sea constante con sus preguntas.
01:18:04Y a mà también me hace sentir tan mal
01:18:06que lo Ășnico que quiero es irme a mi paĂs
01:18:09y no volver mĂĄs.
01:18:34Solo abrĂĄzame. No hablas. Solo abraza.
01:18:39AbrĂĄzame.
01:18:46Todo estĂĄ bien, OK.
01:18:54MĂrame mĂĄs.
01:19:03No pensĂ© que un dĂa antes de mi boda iba a estar asĂ.
01:19:10ÂżQuieres sentarte?
01:19:12ÂżSentamos?
01:19:19Mi cĂłlera, mi...
01:19:22Yo estoy... ÂżCĂłmo digo?
01:19:25Estoy mĂĄs enojado con la fiesta
01:19:31que con la vida.
01:19:34Estoy mĂĄs enojado con la fiesta mĂĄs de ti.
01:19:42SĂ, yo me siento que...
01:19:47No sĂ©, es difĂcil para mĂ decir
01:19:51hasta qué punto participaste en lo que sea.
01:19:57En este caso, yo pregunto
01:20:01para no...
01:20:03Mi mente es loco ahora, no sé qué pensar.
01:20:07Solo quiero saber
01:20:10si esta conversaciĂłn ya va a terminar aquĂ
01:20:16o vas a continuar con lo mismo,
01:20:18porque realmente no quiero esto para mi vida.
01:20:23Porque sĂ© que tĂș eres muy repetitivo con tus preguntas
01:20:27y no estĂĄs contento hasta que tengas cada detalle,
01:20:31y esto no me gusta.
01:20:37Obviamente...
01:20:42me gustarĂa saber mĂĄs detalles.
01:20:45Ese es mi problema.
01:20:47TĂș vas a continuar con las mismas preguntas, lo sĂ©.
01:20:53Cuando Clayton quiere saber algo,
01:20:57cuando lo tiene aquĂ,
01:21:00no es fĂĄcil dejarlo
01:21:04porque Ă©l continĂșa y continĂșa
01:21:07porque necesita no una respuesta,
01:21:09necesita muchas respuestas.
01:21:12Y ese es el gran problema.
01:21:16Solo yo querĂa saber
01:21:20Solo yo querĂa comunicarnos mĂĄs del sujeto
01:21:26para que yo pueda calmar mi mente.
01:21:30Es que eso es lo que a mĂ me causa...
01:21:35ÂżEntonces otro tiempo podemos hablar de...?
01:21:38No, es que yo ya no quiero seguir hablando de lo mismo.
01:21:42Creo que lo mejor es que...
01:21:46duerma yo hoy en otra habitaciĂłn
01:21:48para poder pensar mejor las cosas.
01:21:53I love Annalie so much.
01:21:55I don't want some stripper breaking us apart
01:21:59after we've already been through so many things.
01:22:02I didn't spend the last two and a half years
01:22:05building this relationship with Annalie,
01:22:07spending all this money getting her here,
01:22:10doing all this wedding stuff,
01:22:11planning all for her to pack her suitcase,
01:22:14go get her passport and go home.
01:22:16That's just not an option.
01:22:19It's just not an option.
01:22:22No sé, estoy completamente sorprendido de esta respuesta
01:22:26porque solo hace unos minutos todo estuvo bien,
01:22:30estamos abrazando,
01:22:31y ahora dices que necesito pensar en cosas,
01:22:34pensar en qué, pensar en casarte conmigo,
01:22:37pensar en qué.
01:22:40Solo...
01:22:52quiero pensar.
01:22:57EstĂĄs asustĂĄndome ahora.
01:23:03Next time on 90 Day Fiancé...
01:23:06Let me know if my boob pops out.
01:23:10Boob.
01:23:12Now it's all kicking in,
01:23:13the fact that we're about to be married,
01:23:15but my mom and Rob haven't really, you know,
01:23:17made up or spoken since the whole big fight.
01:23:20I walked in and literally with no conversation,
01:23:23you just went and sat on the bed.
01:23:24I just talked to you.
01:23:26You know, I don't need to be here.
01:23:28I can go to a hotel.
01:23:29You're acting like you're doing it for me.
01:23:30Mom, mom, it's fine.
01:23:31I don't need them to be best friends,
01:23:33but I do need them to at least get along.
01:23:35You have to stay here tonight,
01:23:36can't me and you go to a hotel.
01:23:38This is awful.
01:23:42All right.
01:23:44The ceremony is about to begin.
01:23:46Kind of nervous right now.
01:23:49I miss you.
01:23:57This wedding is incomplete because my other half,
01:24:01my family, is not here.
01:24:03To marry, you're not outside of your country,
01:24:06you're not having your family or anything.
01:24:08It's very sad.
01:24:14After the priest says,
01:24:16says, oh, like, do you take this man,
01:24:18do you take this woman as your wife, husband?
01:24:21We finally have our first, like, kiss kiss.
01:24:27I don't have the slightest clue
01:24:28how I'm going to find someone in an hour to marry us.
01:24:31Hey, do you know anyone who officiates weddings?
01:24:34I feel like we're right at the finish line,
01:24:36and then bam, brick wall, like, can't get married today.
01:24:40I'm just so sick of running into problems.
01:24:47I'm going to miss our time together.
01:24:52I'm feeling sad
01:24:54because I wanted to be with her more minutes.
01:24:59I don't know, more seconds, more minutes.
01:25:05There's still things that we need to work on,
01:25:07but I'm very hopeful for our future.
01:25:11Have you heard from Annalie?
01:25:13No, she's not here.
01:25:15I'm ready, everyone in the audience is ready,
01:25:18and my bride is still not here.
01:25:21I feel you, man.