“I was in massive, massive turmoil of life.” Ashish Chanchlani revealed how things went wrong in his relationship.
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00:00I dated someone and it did not turn out to be as I expected.
00:05My feet slipped off the ground.
00:07I was away from my parents.
00:09Where were you missing?
00:13So, a lot to unpack.
00:16In 2022, when I made Sasta Shark Tank, one of my most successful videos of my life.
00:23And I didn't expect it at all. I thought it would be a controversy.
00:27That was a time when the video did well.
00:29I was like, okay, now, you know what, Ashu?
00:32Now it's time to settle.
00:34You should find a new home. You should move out.
00:36So, we came to Bandra.
00:38You were living in Ulhasnagar?
00:40Yes, Ulhasnagar.
00:41So, we came to Bandra. We bought a house here.
00:43And as soon as I came here, now,
00:45I had a basic dream.
00:47My dream was that I should settle down.
00:49I should get married now.
00:51What I was.
00:53It's 2024 now. I was 28.
00:55Now I want to get married.
00:57Because this is the right time to get married, have kids.
00:59So, obviously, I also wanted to have a family.
01:02But then,
01:04I dated someone.
01:06And it did not turn out to be as I expected.
01:11If you want to get into the nitty gritties,
01:13not getting into the nitty gritties of it,
01:15how was it?
01:17Was it mentally taxing? Was it toxic?
01:19How did the relationship go?
01:21I'll tell you.
01:23I was expecting something else.
01:25It turned out to be completely different.
01:27My feet slipped.
01:29And I don't want to get
01:31much into it.
01:33I don't want anybody
01:35to disrespect that person.
01:37Because this is my side of the story.
01:39And Shahan, it put me into
01:41a very bad place.
01:43I didn't say anything for 1-1.5 years.
01:45From 2022 to 2023,
01:47mid, I would say,
01:49April 2022,
01:52June 2023,
01:54I was in massive, massive turmoil
01:56of life.
01:58I mean,
02:00I had gotten into a lot of bad things.
02:02I got away from my parents.
02:06Muskaan, my sister,
02:08we didn't meet
02:10after living in the same house.
02:12My friends, Kunal, Jadu,
02:14all my childhood friends,
02:16all got away from me.
02:18And everyone used to say the same thing.
02:20Bhuvan used to tell me,
02:22where have you disappeared?
02:24Everyone, every single person
02:26from my personal life,
02:28from my professional life,
02:30I got lost from everyone's life.
02:34But then,
02:36as I kept moving forward,
02:38I realized, I started seeing the truth.
02:40And then I decided,
02:42okay, it's now time to take a stand.
02:44Now it's time to move away from this toxicity.
02:46My eyes opened.
02:48Bhuvan came to my house.
02:50It was in 2023.
02:52I talked to him.
02:54He explained to me very nicely
02:56that leave everything.
02:58Stay with your parents first.
03:00Pay attention.
03:02My friends, my siblings,
03:04my sister, my parents
03:06got me out of this.
03:08And there is a line
03:10of Guardians of the Galaxy,
03:12sometimes the things
03:14that you search the most
03:16you don't realize that.