The Never Ever Mets Season 2 Episode 7
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00:00Renee, here you go, darling.
00:02Oh, that looks great.
00:03I'm definitely into alpha males paying attention to me.
00:07Is it ever OK to keep secrets in a relationship?
00:10Clay Vossier, Tatiana, no!
00:13Mm-hmm.
00:14Oh!
00:15Cut it out.
00:17She don't even know these secrets that these people have,
00:19and she's making these fucking signs.
00:20You don't know what other people got going on in the situation.
00:24What happened with Clay?
00:26What was the secret?
00:27Clay also sounds like a baby.
00:29We all know.
00:30Tati doesn't know.
00:31As a symbol of blossom and love, I got this for mine.
00:35You're the best.
00:37Typically, it really does take me a longer time to open up,
00:41but because I know that he cares about me,
00:43I'm going to be open and see where it can go.
00:46I love you, Tatiana.
00:47Hi, baby.
00:48You're getting so big.
00:49I miss my babies, but I believe that Jared
00:52and I have something special.
00:54I came here to start my life with him.
00:58Oh, can I get one?
00:59Mmm.
01:00Mmm.
01:01Mmm.
01:02Mmm.
01:11Mmm.
01:12It's time for breakfast.
01:13What are you making?
01:15Tacos.
01:15Oh.
01:16You want some?
01:17Yes.
01:20You still sleepy?
01:21Mm-hmm.
01:22Is it cool down here enough for you?
01:24Mm-hmm.
01:25You got a couple of different outfits
01:27that I think are all my favorite.
01:29Which is your favorite?
01:30I think I'm happy to go with the pink.
01:32The pink?
01:33The pajama set.
01:35The pajamas?
01:36Mm-hmm.
01:40That's crazy.
01:41All these feelings I got for you.
01:45The intimacy suite.
01:47You just do whatever feels right
01:49in that moment with your person.
01:53What Tatiana and I really wanted and yearned for
01:55was like that real intimate time together.
01:58Like sexually, we're already vibing,
02:00we're already locked in, we good, we comfortable.
02:02And that's what we wanted.
02:03And I think our biggest thing was just taking our time
02:06and letting things happen and flow naturally.
02:09Y'all taking naps?
02:10I was trying to.
02:11I barely slept.
02:13My bad, big dog.
02:14I told her to wake me up if I snore, that's why.
02:16No, no, hell no.
02:17She made you snore.
02:19I know how that go.
02:22Took y'all long enough.
02:24Welcome to the party.
02:30Creepin' out Paul in his water, bruh.
02:32Hey, look at him.
02:33There you go.
02:35Clay best friend comin' and Tati mama comin'.
02:37You know, he's really been walkin' around here sweatin'.
02:41Ever since he made that,
02:42he should never have had that drunk ass night
02:43talkin' too much.
02:45Mm-hmm.
02:46Remember at first he was like,
02:47okay, I got the baby, okay, cool.
02:49When he started talkin' about the best friend stuff,
02:50like my best friend's comin', then he was quiet.
02:53The night Clay was drunk,
02:55Tati went to sleep early,
02:56and Clay started to breathe hard,
02:57and he was like, my best friend is comin'.
02:59What my best friend is?
03:00Y'all be like, yo, that's crazy.
03:03Oh, your best friend's a girl.
03:04Yeah.
03:06And then he said, she's a porn star.
03:08You're like 5'11", Rose Lim, porn star.
03:12Oh.
03:14So when he said that, I'm like,
03:15what was the point of even sayin' that?
03:17It was no reason we need to know
03:18what she does for a living.
03:19Like, it was no reason he needed to say that.
03:22That's when I was like,
03:23so have you slept with her?
03:24Yeah, he said he never cracked her.
03:26I don't believe him,
03:27because why did you start with her
03:29being a porn star and smile?
03:30Tati's like, one of the sweetest people here.
03:32Yeah.
03:33And now, look, remember yesterday,
03:35they cooked together, he got the roses,
03:37they went to the boom boom room.
03:38Remember how mad she was about the vegan shit?
03:40Imagine what she's gonna do
03:41when she's about to have a baby.
03:43I'm like, this man.
03:44So he got a baby mama that's bad,
03:45and a porn star best friend.
03:46And a porn star best friend,
03:47he got a lot of shit goin' on.
03:47Yeah.
03:48That's a recipe for a dumb ass disaster.
03:51Have you and Brittany slept together yet?
03:54Well, no, we haven't had sex.
03:55Yeah.
03:56Have you and Ty talked about
03:58boom booming, in the room rooming?
04:01Uh, here and there, but I'm not going.
04:04Why not?
04:05Because I'm not there yet with him.
04:07I can understand.
04:08So I'm not interested in going.
04:10In my personal opinion, Ty is kinda out there,
04:13and you know, he's the funny guy,
04:15and Brittany is more reserved,
04:16and usually opposites attract.
04:18But at this point,
04:19he might be going home by himself.
04:22What can he do to make you change your mind?
04:23Nothing.
04:24Really?
04:25There's nothing he can do to change my mind.
04:27Is it like a,
04:29trust me, what is it?
04:31Wait, like I'm not trying to be in your business.
04:34It's a few things, actually.
04:36And I wanna say it's majority mental.
04:39I can understand that.
04:43I heard she was a stripper, or a porn star,
04:45or some shit.
04:46Tatia's not gonna like that.
04:48You said you about to win in the next round?
04:50Yeah.
04:54My friend that's coming to visit is Jamila.
04:56That's my best friend in the whole wide world.
04:58She's literally like the big sister
05:00that I've always wanted.
05:01I got some stuff to tell Tatiana.
05:03And there's been a lot of times in life
05:05I could just go down a list where I fucked up.
05:07No matter when, where, or how,
05:09my best friend always got me through it.
05:12Hey, how you doing?
05:14I'm Chris.
05:15Chris, hi.
05:16How you doing?
05:17I'm good, how are you?
05:18Who you here for?
05:19Clay.
05:20Oh, wow, nice to meet you.
05:21What's your name?
05:21Jamila.
05:22Okay, I'll take you to him.
05:23Okay.
05:26Clay!
05:27Yes.
05:34How are you?
05:34I'm good.
05:36Clay.
05:37This woman jets right past me,
05:39jumps into Vasily on,
05:41and I say, oh, let the games begin.
05:46Oh!
05:47What'd you say ooh for?
05:50She jumped up and like wrapped her leg around and.
05:54Tatiana?
05:55Hi.
05:56Nice to meet you.
05:57You're my best friend.
05:58Hey.
05:59Um.
06:02This is my best friend, everybody.
06:04Hey.
06:05Hey.
06:06Hi.
06:06I'm Jamila.
06:07Hi, Jamila, nice to meet you.
06:09So what's been happening here?
06:12You feel me?
06:13We've been doing different activities
06:15and games and shit like that.
06:17Can I go pee in there?
06:18Okay.
06:20She's, both?
06:23Oh, both?
06:24Both?
06:25Oh, she's incredible.
06:25Wait, but did they rap?
06:27Yes.
06:27They did.
06:28Like locked in on the.
06:29No, no, no, they didn't lock, they didn't lock.
06:30I feel like she would've if she could.
06:33I didn't see the hook.
06:34If he just picked her up and put her down
06:36on some like little sister type of vibes
06:38or something like that, then cool.
06:40But if it was like a jump in his arms
06:42and wrapped a leg around,
06:43then that is pretty disrespectful.
06:46They said the best friend got the hug
06:46and the best friend wrapped a leg around.
06:47Kick it like this.
06:48Get up.
06:49Oh, man.
06:52How pretty is this?
06:54They was fishing out there earlier, too.
06:57Jamila has my back no matter what
06:59and gives me feminine perspective and idea
07:02at the same time.
07:03Super clutch, love her to death.
07:05You got glitter in your mouth, who you been kissing?
07:07No, I'm just kidding.
07:07Nah.
07:08And she's a godmother to my daughter.
07:12So she knew everything from start to finish.
07:15You know, I have my daughter
07:17that's almost three months now.
07:18Yeah, I know that.
07:20And so I didn't tell Tatiana,
07:24so me and her are officially.
07:26Oh, you didn't tell her still?
07:28No, I know.
07:29I know, I know.
07:30I'm meeting her mom tonight.
07:31Shut up.
07:33Yeah.
07:34She picked her off the ground.
07:36What's up?
07:37What's up?
07:37What's up?
07:38What's up?
07:39What's up?
07:40What's up?
07:41What's up?
07:42If your best friend hug you like that,
07:45you finna get your ass beat.
07:46What they talking about in there?
07:48Apparently when she came in, she jumped on him.
07:51She jumped on him?
07:52Yeah.
07:54With her legs up?
07:54Yeah.
07:55Hold on.
07:56Hold on, wait, wait.
07:58Cause this drink about to be on his shirt.
07:59I know.
08:00But wait, wait, wait.
08:01I was totally planning on just giving them their space,
08:03but this man is a liar.
08:06He does not care about me.
08:07He does not care about my feelings.
08:09No, no, no, Tatiana, no, no, no.
08:11Wait, wait, wait.
08:12Everything in my body just went red.
08:15So after I left, she jumped into your arms?
08:18What are you talking about?
08:19Did you pick her up?
08:20They just said after I walked to the living room,
08:22she jumped on you.
08:23I just hugged him.
08:24Like, we always hug.
08:25That's not a hug.
08:27Okay, if you don't want me to hug him.
08:28I don't want you to.
08:29Okay, then I don't.
08:30That's not a f***ing hug.
08:31Don't jump on him.
08:33Okay, then I don't have to hug him.
08:34No, f*** that.
08:36The f*** would you let somebody jump on your f***ing
08:38like that?
08:39This drink about to be in your f***ing face.
08:42No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
08:43Stay the f*** off my man.
08:44How about that?
08:46It's not some more of your caring.
08:48It's your mouth.
08:49My mouth?
08:50Yeah.
08:52I would like you to call her
08:54and let her know that what she did was wrong.
08:56Like, the f*** that we did yesterday was not cool.
08:58I mean, I've always hugged you.
09:00So Clay, do you think that that's fine?
09:02You have five f***ing seconds to say some f***.
09:07I just hugged him.
09:08That's not a f***ing hug.
09:09Don't jump on him.
09:10Okay, then I don't have to hug him.
09:11No.
09:12No, no, wait.
09:13Hold on.
09:14The f*** would you let somebody jump on your f***ing
09:15like that?
09:16I would not.
09:17This drink about to be in your f***ing face.
09:17Okay, so don't assault me.
09:19That's crazy.
09:20You're not gonna assault me.
09:21Stay the f*** off my man.
09:22How about that?
09:23Okay.
09:24Respect me.
09:25Okay.
09:25Before it's a f***ing problem.
09:26Stupid hoe.
09:27Who the f*** does s*** like that, you dumb b***h?
09:30Oh, f***.
09:31Okay, so that doesn't seem like a good mother figure
09:35for your child.
09:37Like, she has an issue with me hugging you.
09:40I mean, she'd have an issue with a lot of things.
09:44It's a hug.
09:46It's just a hug.
09:48There's countless videos and photos of you picking me up.
09:52We've been doing it since we was kids.
09:54I'm lost.
09:55Like, that was a lot.
09:56I'm still trying to process it.
09:58That's not a f***ing hug.
10:00You don't wrap your legs around somebody.
10:02That's weird, best friend.
10:03Right.
10:04I missed you.
10:05And I miss you too.
10:06Like, I mean, I love my best friend, like, to the end.
10:10To the end forever.
10:11God damn, he's an idiot.
10:12Why the f*** did you pick her up?
10:14No man of mine is gonna do that.
10:16It made me just feel triggered.
10:18I just felt instantly embarrassed.
10:20Like, once again, it felt like another moment
10:23where I'm the last one to find out
10:25that he's acting up, doing something
10:27that he shouldn't be doing.
10:29I've never seen you date anybody that was this,
10:33like, barbaric.
10:35I wouldn't want your daughter to be influenced
10:38by that type of behavior.
10:40I would never act like that knowing that my child can see.
10:43I don't think this is the best way,
10:46or even what I intended to happen
10:48with my girlfriend meeting my best friend.
10:51I think that maybe you should leave,
10:53and then I can try to calm her down.
10:55All right, I'll see you.
10:56All right, love you.
10:58Love you.
10:59Right here, right now, I think it's best to get Jamila out
11:02and de-escalate everything.
11:06He knows you're upset.
11:07Look who he's outside with.
11:08Exactly, did he come and check on me?
11:10No, not at all.
11:11And not at all, so boom, you made your decision.
11:13Don't try to be in my face later,
11:14because there's a rep for that.
11:16The least this woman could have done
11:18was had some type of respect,
11:20and walked in and gave him a normal hug.
11:22Like, she was just, she was too much.
11:23She was extra.
11:24It was unnecessary.
11:25That whole was funny as.
11:28I ain't gonna lie, bro,
11:29I was with you until she wrapped that leg up.
11:31I was like, like she was jumped up on you, bro.
11:34Think about how he just explained it to you,
11:36man to man, and then think about how
11:38the women explained it to her.
11:40Did you apologize yet?
11:41I didn't get a chance to, I was chasing her around.
11:43Oh, that's the first leg.
11:44It's a perfect time.
11:44Say what you gotta say.
11:45Go, go, go, go, go, go.
11:46Take the asshole to go.
11:47I didn't see anything bad,
11:48but clearly the rest of the house did.
11:51And even though Tatiana didn't see it,
11:53I can imagine having a million people come up to you
11:55saying different things and what that could be like.
11:59I wanna apologize.
12:01You know the flowers I got you,
12:02my best friend was the one that told me to do that?
12:04I don't give a what she told you to do.
12:06Yeah.
12:07Please just don't talk to me about her.
12:09What do you wanna say?
12:11Okay.
12:12I am concerned with telling Tatiana my secret
12:15about me having a daughter
12:17because of everything that took place just now.
12:20Just say it.
12:22But you know what?
12:22No more procrastinating.
12:24Gotta get right to it.
12:25Something else I want to tell you is I have a daughter.
12:29She's now a couple months old.
12:34You're so...
12:35I'm so what?
12:36Stupid.
12:40At this point, I don't even give a about the kid.
12:42You tried to make me look stupid again?
12:45How did I try to make you?
12:46Why the would you let her jump in your arms
12:48in front of a house full of people
12:49who have been watching us be booed up every day?
12:52They can be the...
12:54They told me.
12:55Who was they?
12:59Hi.
13:00Hey, how are you?
13:01Good, how about you?
13:02I'm Jared, it's nice to meet you.
13:04Hi, Jared.
13:05How are you?
13:06Hi, Charlie.
13:06Nice to meet you.
13:07Y'all, chit-chat, just come find us later.
13:09Hi.
13:13I wish I wasn't as vulnerable or as open with him
13:16because of all the deception that was happening.
13:19It made me feel like I didn't know the person
13:22that I came here for.
13:24Oh, I'm happy to see you.
13:27Happy to see you.
13:30Oh, I'm so in love.
13:32Oh, I'm happy to see you.
13:34I love my mom.
13:35My mom is definitely one of my best friends.
13:37I don't wanna be breaking down to people that I don't know.
13:40And like, usually she's my go-to person.
13:42Like, if I need to have an ugly cry,
13:44I was just happy that she was there for me.
13:46Oh my goodness, what's going on?
13:49Just now, whatever, the guy that I was talking to,
13:52he brought this girl over, right?
13:54That's supposedly his best friend.
13:56She ran up on him, literally jumped into his arms,
14:00wrapped around his neck, and she was like,
14:02literally jumped into his arms, wrapped her legs around him.
14:05I didn't see it.
14:06It just pissed me off because I'm just like,
14:08he always is one to be doing all these grand gestures,
14:11like giving me these roses in front of everybody
14:14and being like, oh, I love her, blah, blah, blah.
14:17And then doing stupid shit like this.
14:19And then another thing, he has a kid or whatever.
14:22I guess he had a kid.
14:24I feel like he keeps trying to embarrass me,
14:26but really I feel like it just makes him look like a liar.
14:28Am I gonna get to meet him?
14:30Sure.
14:32Me and my mom, we're both believers
14:33that everything just works out for the good.
14:35So regardless of how he was acting in that moment,
14:39we both know he's not the only man on earth.
14:41He better get it together.
14:43Hi.
14:44How you doing?
14:45Good.
14:48You should sit on that couch.
14:51Okay, can I introduce myself to your mom?
14:56I'm Clay Fossey, nice to meet you.
14:57Hey.
14:59I want to apologize to you and your daughter.
15:03I made her really upset.
15:04Definitely trying to make me look stupid.
15:06I would never want to hurt you or make you feel bad.
15:09And I really do care about you.
15:11Have a funny way of doing it.
15:14You've met her, so I would love to continue talking
15:16to my mom before she has to go.
15:18Okay.
15:19Yeah, have a good night.
15:20It was a pleasure meeting you, ma'am.
15:21Nice to meet you, too.
15:25You okay, mom?
15:26Yeah, you know I just want you to be happy.
15:28Yeah.
15:29We know what you deserve.
15:31Yeah, much better.
15:32No, nothing but the best.
15:34Yes, absolutely.
15:37Aw.
15:43I'm really okay.
15:45I'm more so just mad that a bitch tried me in my face.
15:48More than anything.
15:51I'm just disappointed because he does have
15:53a lot of good qualities, you know?
15:55Are you up for this?
15:57I mean, I want to sleep on it.
15:59Emotions are high.
16:00You're right.
16:01What would you do?
16:03I wouldn't do anything but have a good time.
16:05And that's what I'm trying to do.
16:06That's why I was like, where are the drinks?
16:08Okay.
16:09I'm trying to just sit with my emotions
16:14because truthfully, the pride in me wants
16:18to just be like I'm dead.
16:20Obviously, I genuinely care about him.
16:26But I'm hurt.
16:27I love you, mom.
16:28I love you.
16:29I love you, babe.
16:36I knew it was going to blow up.
16:36I didn't think it was going to blow up that way.
16:38Me either.
16:39If he could figure out a way to get over that,
16:42the baby thing is nothing now.
16:44Right?
16:45She doesn't even worry about the baby.
16:45The baby thing is nothing now.
16:47But now he can't be with Tossie
16:49and have her as a best friend, though.
16:50So let's shut that up.
16:52When you get married, your wife goes above all.
16:55He's looking for his wife.
16:57I've tried the married life.
16:58I was married for three years.
17:00And I know how to be a great boyfriend, husband, whatever.
17:05But it's very exhausting keeping that pace
17:08and doing it for a long time.
17:10And it didn't work out for me.
17:12So until I find a person that doesn't give me
17:15that exhausting feeling after a while,
17:16maybe that's my person.
17:17But until then, I'll just keep looking.
17:19Even if he reconciles things with Tati,
17:22there's always going to be a clash
17:24between Jamila and Tati.
17:27You don't want to live your life like that.
17:29Yes.
17:33You trying to go to sleep?
17:35Uh-uh.
17:36What you trying to do?
17:37I'm trying to go to sleep.
17:38Not be ticklish?
17:39If you tickle me, one on one, I'll be ticklish.
17:43Get your ass over there, man.
17:44Brittany, she gets very touchy with everyone but Ty.
17:48And for her to be walking around how she does
17:50and not even care about his feelings,
17:52the way she acts with all the other guys is f***ed up.
17:55You ready?
17:56It's been a long-ass day.
18:08She about to drag him to the dirt.
18:10Oof, oof, oof, oof.
18:12Tati, she has every f***ing reason
18:13to feel the way she feel.
18:15Yeah.
18:16Being embarrassed for days,
18:17then this s*** happened after a great night.
18:19She's like, damn, I done already gave myself to him
18:22and then he do this s***.
18:23Yeah, crazy.
18:25That's crazy.
18:38I feel like f***.
18:41Like, I must've hurt my girl badly.
18:46Yeah, she mad, right?
18:48But also, she's standing right here.
18:50So obviously, there's still a certain level of care there.
18:59I think first and foremost, I do want to apologize.
19:02If I was to say I love you but I don't respect you
19:04and I keep doing things to disrespect you,
19:06do you think that's genuine?
19:09Nah, I see your point.
19:11I'm not perfect and I f***ed up.
19:12You didn't check her when she was here.
19:14You let her prance around and let her walk out the door
19:17without saying anything.
19:19And you chose her and not me by not coming to check on me
19:22and walking around with her and walking her out the door,
19:24acting like everything was sweet for her.
19:26Actually, you know what I would like you to do?
19:28Talk to me.
19:29I would like you to call her
19:31and let her know that what she did was wrong.
19:33And I want to hear the conversations.
19:34Because if I can't trust you,
19:36I don't want you to trust me.
19:38I want you to trust me.
19:39I want to hear the conversations.
19:41Because if I can't trust you
19:43with somebody who's supposed to be your best friend
19:45and now you have a baby mom,
19:46how am I supposed to trust you with any other women
19:49and it's supposed to be long distance?
19:50And I want to see you have a backbone with her.
19:53If you can't do that,
19:54then I don't think we can move forward.
19:55I mean, you wanted me to make the call.
19:57I don't have a problem doing it.
20:00Go ahead.
20:04Okay.
20:05All right.
20:07Hello?
20:08Okay.
20:09So right now it's me and Tatiana here right now.
20:11And I wanted to let you know that
20:13like the shit that we did yesterday was not cool, bro.
20:16It was a lot.
20:17I mean, we've been best friends
20:19since I was like seven years old.
20:22You know, I've always hugged you and I, you know.
20:25Can we clarify that that was not a regular hug?
20:28Like let's not play dumb.
20:29So there's a difference between giving someone a hug
20:32and jumping into his arms and hugging him.
20:35Jumping into his arms and wrapping your legs around him.
20:37That's obviously not going to be okay
20:39with somebody who has a girlfriend.
20:41I didn't wrap my legs.
20:42Okay.
20:43Did y'all see that?
20:45Everybody in the house saw it.
20:47So I don't know.
20:48Well, I can see that your tax bracket is a lot below mine.
20:52I don't behave this way.
20:53I'm sorry.
20:54I'm not a porn star like you.
20:55So you don't have to be clear.
20:59Well, you were drinking wine out of a shaker.
21:01Yeah, I was.
21:02I could drink out of the,
21:04whatever the I want to,
21:05because clearly I was stressed out
21:07because you coming in and disrespecting me.
21:09So Clay, do you think that that's fine?
21:11Do you think it is fine?
21:12No, what she's saying is that's fine with you
21:14for her to jump into your arms
21:16when it's clearly upsetting me.
21:17Is it fine?
21:18No, say it verbally, say it so she can hear it.
21:22Let her know because to her, there's nothing wrong, clearly.
21:25Let her know.
21:27Let her know.
21:29You have five seconds to say something
21:31because she's saying stupid.
21:33Everybody here knows that was disrespectful
21:36and you're not saying nothing.
21:37You're just letting her talk.
21:37I'm not going to continue this phone call
21:39because I don't like to let people-
21:41You have five seconds before I get the out of here.
21:44Tell her it was wrong.
21:47Okay, I'm talking.
21:47Stop talking to me and talk to her.
21:49Tell her that it was wrong.
21:51I think it was wrong.
21:52I don't want to be disrespected.
21:54There's nothing to talk about.
21:55I just said it was wrong.
21:56You're not speaking up for me.
21:57You're not protecting me right now.
21:59You're not doing anything but sitting there looking dumb,
22:02letting her run her stupid ass mouth.
22:04I just hugged him and I'm so sorry
22:06that I've known him since I was seven.
22:07I don't give a if she was there when you were born.
22:09It was up.
22:10She was disrespectful and you needed to say that.
22:12I just said it was wrong.
22:13So that's why I have to step in
22:14because I got my back even if you don't.
22:18This bitch is just sitting there.
22:19What'd you call me?
22:20So I feel like after all of that, are you done with him?
22:23Or do you want to work it out?
22:24Where are you at?
22:26I'm at a point right now where I want to be petty.
22:30I want to see if I can make him feel how I felt.
22:34I would like to go to therapy.
22:36Yeah, I feel like the therapy thing
22:38is going to be good for you guys.
22:39Maybe you can help me out with some of the things
22:42that I'm not good at.
22:43I'm not good at it.
22:44I'm not good at it.
22:45I'm not good at it.
22:45I'm not good at it.
22:46I'm not good at it.
22:47I'm not good at it.
22:48I'm not good at it.
22:49I'm not good at it.
22:50Maybe she can help him figure out why he has to lie.
22:53Yeah.
22:54And if he works that out,
22:55then he can be for you who we thought he was.
22:57Cause he does seem sweet.
22:58And aside from all the shenanigans,
23:02everything is so good.
23:04So.
23:07You're looking lovely.
23:08Oh, thank you.
23:09You too.
23:10We stay wearing black.
23:12First date we was wearing black.
23:13Now we're wearing black.
23:14I set up a second date for me and Brittany.
23:17She has no idea I'm going to take her to my apartment here
23:20in LA.
23:21Hopefully she's going to like it.
23:22I'm excited.
23:23Yeah.
23:24Where do you think we go?
23:25I don't know.
23:25So I didn't know what to put on.
23:27I plan to make her a favorite to show her
23:29that I'm interested,
23:30that I'm wanting her,
23:31that I plan to please her, you know,
23:34by prioritizing her as she wanted to be.
23:37You know, my humble abode.
23:40It's where it goes down at?
23:41I mean, well, it could go down.
23:44I'm just saying, it don't usually go down,
23:46but it could go down if you want it to go down.
23:50Did you see the menu?
23:51Oh, you're making crab legs.
23:53Yay!
23:57I'm excited.
24:10Have a seat.
24:12I know over the last 12 hours,
24:14you guys' relationship has been teetering.
24:16So I brought in my good friend, Dr. Ali.
24:20And she's going to take it from here.
24:21All right, thank you.
24:22My expectations walking into the session
24:24with Dr. Ali are to be optimistic.
24:27I'm hoping to get some tools that, you know,
24:30hopefully me and Tatiana can use,
24:32but let's just leave taking something away.
24:35All right.
24:36Why am I here?
24:37Yesterday we had a family come over.
24:39I brought my best friend.
24:41We grew up together like,
24:42like almost like that's my big sister.
24:44So when she seen me, she ran, she jumped.
24:47And wrapped her legs around him.
24:50And then Tatiana came out
24:51almost as if it was a different person.
24:54I had not seen the side of Tatiana before.
24:56And in my head, I'm just like, what the?
24:58I feel very like unprotected,
25:01very much like he doesn't care about my feelings.
25:04I've just been having problems with him in general,
25:07just lying a lot.
25:08And it's just like,
25:09I'm always the person on the outside that doesn't know stuff.
25:12I see your text messages.
25:14No.
25:15No, no, no, no, no.
25:17If you're not gonna do what I asked, then that's fine.
25:19But just know, I know that it's not
25:20what you're saying that it is.
25:23Okay, so it seems like your primary issue is the friend.
25:27And then that he's like lying a lot
25:28and just, or not telling full truths from your perspective.
25:31So she has been very succinct.
25:33Is this the same thing you understand?
25:34Yeah.
25:36Where are you emotionally right now?
25:38I'm exhausted.
25:40I'm stressed and overwhelmed.
25:43Your hand was shaking a second ago.
25:44Yeah.
25:46I got bad nerves and anxiety.
25:48Something I didn't tell her is like about the PTSD
25:50and traumas I have from my deployment.
25:52I have no problem owning up to me f***ing up.
25:55But at the end of the day, I just want f***ing peace.
25:58When I hear people say, I just want peace,
26:01it makes me start to think of what we call avoidance coping.
26:04Your response to the trauma is to freeze.
26:06You had all these thoughts going through your head.
26:08You had all these experiences,
26:09but in order to keep the peace,
26:10you didn't want to talk about them.
26:11You didn't want to surprise what comes on the other side
26:13of having the difficult conversation.
26:15And so where are we now?
26:23You're on drink duty.
26:24Look, I even got a whole thing right there
26:26in case you need to make any garnishment.
26:29I don't like sugar on my rim.
26:30I should be sweet enough.
26:31I need to see.
26:32Let me see.
26:36No tongue?
26:38I can't get no tongue?
26:39No.
26:39Just a little bit of tongue?
26:40Maybe later.
26:42Wanting, you know, more kisses and this and that.
26:45I would rather prefer him allow me to come to him,
26:49but I don't, I didn't want to, you know, mess with his ego.
26:53You look good, by the way.
26:54I mean, I wanted to slap you, but you know.
26:57I'm trying to exercise consent.
27:00Do I have consent to?
27:01You know what?
27:02That is a great idea.
27:03Do I have consent to slap you?
27:05No, you don't.
27:12What are you feeling right now?
27:15I feel hurt.
27:16It made me feel upset.
27:20It made me feel like,
27:24I feel like I'm only angry
27:25because I feel like I have to be to protect myself.
27:28But I just feel like if he doesn't really care about me,
27:31I would rather him say that
27:33than to keep saying like, oh, I love you.
27:35I love you.
27:36And know that he's going to keep doing stuff like this.
27:38And I feel like I've been very vulnerable with him.
27:41And giving him like a real shot.
27:42And I feel like he just keeps playing in my face.
27:45The anger is understandable.
27:47A boundary's been crossed.
27:49It will be a part of your job
27:52to make sure she feels trust in you.
27:56You get that?
27:57Yes.
27:59I care about you, Tatiana.
28:01I do.
28:03This was one of those pivotal moments in a relationship
28:06where you have that first huge argument.
28:09And it's just about you figuring out your limits
28:12when you're ready to be done.
28:13I just want there to be respect.
28:15And I just feel like his actions
28:17don't match up with his words.
28:18Are you willing to fix this relationship?
28:20Or are you done?
28:27Are you willing to fix this relationship?
28:29Or are you done?
28:36I don't know.
28:38I just don't know if I could trust him.
28:40How invested are both of you?
28:41Like zero to 10?
28:4210.
28:44I came in on like a seven.
28:47But I feel like it's dropped down to like a two or a three.
28:52Now it's going to be about
28:53is this actually a relationship ending situation?
28:57Or is this something that's teaching me a little bit more
28:59about my own wounds right now too?
29:02Yeah.
29:03It's hard to bring new people into your life, right?
29:05Period.
29:05Can we still talk this out?
29:07Is it worth that?
29:09And that's a test of a relationship.
29:11Mm-hmm.
29:12Yeah.
29:16Wait, wait.
29:17Okay, okay.
29:24That's amazing.
29:25This is just for us.
29:25It's so good.
29:27Since we've been together.
29:28We had a little hiccup,
29:30but we're over that now.
29:32But this is everything right now.
29:35Ty and I had had such a vibe online.
29:37You looking fly.
29:39Lord, I need to keep up.
29:40Can't wait to see it.
29:41And now I'm just trying to find the chemistry
29:43that we have over the phone here in real life.
29:47Let's cheers to an amazing meal.
29:49Yes.
29:51Thank you for my favorite drink.
29:53Yes, ma'am.
29:54Favorite drink, favorite food.
30:02Hey, what's up?
30:03What's up, girl?
30:03Who you here for?
30:05This is Chris.
30:06My cousin.
30:07He's coming to the house.
30:08I feel really good.
30:10We grew up in a sandbox together.
30:12This man know everything about me.
30:14This is the lovely lady.
30:15How you doing?
30:16I'm good, how are you?
30:17Good, good, Sean too.
30:18Nice to meet you.
30:18Nice to meet you as well.
30:19That's right, that's right.
30:20Yes, sir.
30:21It's so good to see you.
30:22Hey, you too, man.
30:23Oh, man, this is great.
30:24I'm glad to see you.
30:26Hey, how you doing?
30:27Hey.
30:28Nice to meet you.
30:28Dr. Maya?
30:29Hey, yes.
30:30Hey, I'm Jared.
30:31This is Mr. Lexus right here.
30:33Look at you.
30:36We've been friends for about six years.
30:39We're really cool, really close.
30:41She was interested in meeting Christopher
30:44because he's a little bit younger.
30:46And she wants to see that dynamic between us.
30:50Was she better online than in person?
30:53It's crazy you ask that question because, you know,
30:55with me and her, it's a 10-year age gap.
30:57When I seen her, I thought she was a little,
30:59you got your, like, cool.
31:00I'm a tool.
31:02A little tiger, yeah.
31:06But no, man, she's 45.
31:07I made a date with, like, two older women.
31:09But they weren't the controlling type.
31:11You see what I'm saying?
31:12She's too aggressive, too.
31:13Kind of aggressive.
31:14And that's what I want her to calm down.
31:16I got some condoms for you.
31:21She was pushing the sex agenda hard.
31:22And, you know, that's fine.
31:24But if I do give her an honest chance for us to move forward
31:28and be together, she's not going to be on that type of planet.
31:29So if she's so more submissive, you'll take it out
31:31on that boom-boom room.
31:32You're damn right.
31:33What'd he say?
31:34It's got all of our sex.
31:36Oh, is that what he said?
31:37I'm like, I ain't never worked this hard for a young boy.
31:39Did you?
31:42Hey, how you doing?
31:42Hello.
31:43I'm Chris.
31:44Hello, Chris.
31:45Nice to meet you.
31:46You look amazing.
31:46Manya.
31:47This is my cousin, my family.
31:48Hey, how you doing?
31:49Shantou.
31:50So Manya wants to talk to you by herself.
31:52And we're going to go and talk.
31:54Come on, let's talk.
31:54We can do some talking.
31:55So how is it being here with all these people?
31:59It's been a lot.
32:00But I feel like me and Alexis both
32:02been managing it pretty well.
32:04So talk to me.
32:06How can I maneuver around Christopher?
32:09Now, he need a strong woman.
32:11But I think it's not so much your caring, it's your mouth.
32:17My mouth?
32:17Yeah.
32:18OK.
32:19But he really likes you.
32:20I know he really want to grow and continue and build with you.
32:24So when you first laid eyes on her face to face,
32:28what was going through your mind?
32:29Well, I mean, she's a pretty beautiful woman.
32:31But I want her to get more fitness.
32:33And I understand fitness can be a journey for people.
32:35We ain't got to start out fast.
32:37I'm willing to go slow.
32:38And she reciprocated that with me.
32:40Just continue to be that feminine power,
32:43energy that you are.
32:45And you got my blessings.
32:47Come on, let's go join them.
32:51All right, she got my vote.
32:52What makes you say that?
32:53I feel like she listens.
32:55It was very, very straightforward.
32:57I could appreciate that.
32:58I'm so glad you guys could make it.
33:00Yeah.
33:01The friend and family visit was awesome.
33:03It's nice to see Maya, because she
33:06has a nice insight on people.
33:08So I'm glad she got to look in.
33:09It was definitely needed.
33:11You got this.
33:12All right, thank you.
33:13All right.
33:15Ooh.
33:17That was tough.
33:20You go first.
33:21And I can teach you if you want.
33:22Or we can just play.
33:23You can learn that way.
33:29Can I try to teach you something?
33:32Don't explain nothing to me.
33:41Shorty.
33:44Yep.
33:45I really appreciate you saying that you will still give me
33:49a chance to work with me.
33:52Nobody's perfect, and no relationship is perfect.
33:58So.
34:04That was good.
34:06Can you get me some juice?
34:07Sure, honey.
34:08I'll be right back.
34:09Is it OK?
34:10I don't want to.
34:11Don't touch me.
34:12OK.
34:13I won't.
34:16We had a session.
34:17And at our session, I felt like we was making some progress.
34:21And we're starting to mend and pull back together.
34:23But every time she jerked away and snatched away,
34:26it was just like, damn.
34:28It hurt.
34:29You don't get full granted access
34:31just because you say sorry.
34:32I handed you everything, and you shit on it.
34:36I felt like we were in a better space than we were earlier.
34:39I was really trying to challenge myself
34:41and try to move forward.
34:44And you want to move forward, like give it your all.
34:47I'm not going to give it my all.
34:48So if we're not doing shit with our all,
34:50then what are we doing?
34:51But I feel like I need more time to kind of fill it out.
34:54Because I don't want to prematurely be like,
34:57I'm over this situation.
34:59Your actions change our dynamic.
35:03We're back.
35:05Hey.
35:06Y'all look so good.
35:09Let me get this for you.
35:10How was it?
35:11Tell me about it.
35:12It was great.
35:14Did you get some in his pants?
35:16I don't know.
35:19It's not happening.
35:21The least compatible people in the house
35:24would be Brittany and Todd.
35:26They had a date, and they didn't give physical or kiss
35:30or anything at their intimate setting at his house.
35:33I mean, he should have just dropped her off at the door
35:36and went the fuck home.
35:39Y'all look crazy.
35:41How was everybody's day?
35:42Amazing.
35:43Y'all had a therapy today, Tante?
35:45Mm-hmm.
35:46How did it go?
35:47It went good.
35:53You straight, shorty?
35:54I'm not going to give it my all.
35:57It's been a long ass day.
35:59I got up early.
36:01You ready to go to bed?
36:03Not with you.
36:07I'm wasting my time here.
36:12Keep it real with me.
36:13I'll keep it real with you, baby.
36:14Like, if you're not going to be all in,
36:15like, I don't got to be all in either.
36:17Yo!
36:18Play!
36:20Ain't enough attention on her.
36:22I'm not falling for it.
36:24Wow, what's up?
36:25Yeah, I'm trying to leave, bro.
36:26I'm going home.
36:27I said, like, are you all the way in?
36:29She's like, no, I'm not.
36:30I'm just kind of here.
36:31You should be happy.
36:32Because she's mad.
36:33You got to understand, she's a woman that's hurt,
36:35that's embarrassed in front of all these people.
36:38She really loves you.
36:39I don't want to waste my time here right now.
36:41If you leave, you're a waste of time.
36:43We're closer to the finish line than we is to the beginning.
36:45That's true.
36:47You can't make no good decisions off of emotion.
36:51I'm ready to slide, bro.
36:53I have no more fight.
36:55Listen.
36:56Listen to me, bros.
36:58No more gas in the tank.
37:00Oh, my god.
37:01What is it now?
37:04I'm done.
37:12He hasn't grasped the concept of women behavior
37:16with an attitude yet.
37:17He hasn't grasped it.
37:20None of it.
37:21Tatiana, can you come here?
37:26What the hell is going on?
37:28He's ready to go.
37:29What the fuck is wrong with him?
37:30I done had four different 45 minute conversations today.
37:33I'm done.
37:35I don't think this is working.
37:37You said that you don't want to give it your all.
37:40I really don't want to waste my time.
37:42So I feel like you're being a big man baby right now.
37:45You just need to accept the fact that it's going to take me time.
37:48He got to wait it out.
37:49He can't.
37:50His mind is not mature.
37:52But if you want to go home, just let me know and stop playing with me.
37:55If you want to make this work, then I'm here.
37:59I started packing.
38:01He can't get past his pride of feeling like he hurt him
38:03because she's saying stupid shit.
38:05Okay, so is that your decision?
38:08What's your decision?
38:09I started packing.
38:11So do you want to go? It's yes or no.
38:15No, I don't.
38:17Seeing that look in her eyes again, it gave me kind of hope.
38:20I felt love.
38:22Okay, then what are we talking about?
38:25I need you to not waste my time.
38:28I'm not wasting your time.
38:29I literally have shown you progress.
38:30Where are you going?
38:31I'm going back downstairs so I can have a good night.
38:34So what was your purpose of coming here?
38:36Was it for them or was it with me?
38:38So I can leave right now.
38:39Do you want to go?
38:40No, if I said I'd pack.
38:42Oh, stop saying that.
38:43You literally keep flip-flopping.
38:45If you want to go, then...
38:46All right, now you straight. You got it.
38:47Okay, bet. Let's tell everybody.
38:49I already did.
38:50No, you didn't.
38:52Hey, I'm sad for Tati.
38:53That's kind of...
38:54Yeah, yeah.
38:55She got an idiot.
38:58He decides that he wants to go home because he feels like I'm not giving it 100%.
39:02That's fucked up.
39:07Darling, this would have never even surfaced
39:10if it wasn't for that hug at that front door.
39:12Somebody was messy.
39:13Yeah.
39:14Other folks.
39:15Did you see how she jumped up in his lap?
39:17Did you see how she put that leg up on his arm?
39:20Then you're going to turn around and take advice from these folks?
39:22Yeah.
39:23Yeah.
39:26I'm not going to beg him to stay.
39:28Sure.
39:29You ain't begging him.
39:30Because if he stays, then it'll be tomorrow.
39:33He going to be all right, man.
39:34If you guys were going to go through all that counseling
39:37just for him to make a decision that he wants to go home,
39:41you all of a sudden want to go home to get the attention back on you,
39:44it was a bitch move.
39:46Take care, Clay.
39:47He's a sweet guy. He's very sweet.
39:49But he got a lot of shit to learn.
39:55Zero out of ten.
39:57Girl, negative ten out of ten.
40:00Negative ten out of ten.
40:01Okay, I'm about to block him on everything,
40:03because this is just too much.
40:05But this was a cool experience, though.
40:06Honestly, I met y'all.
40:08Yeah.
40:09And that was the best part.
40:10And I felt like I was ready to move forward
40:13and try to see, like, can we make this work?
40:16But I feel like he made a rash decision
40:17because he just needed to have a little bit of faith and patience
40:20that if you could just make it through the night,
40:22it's going to be better tomorrow.
40:24Oh, that's crazy.
40:27Bye.
40:28So nice.
40:29I guess my tolerance for bullshit was a little high.
40:32Because I wasn't ready.
40:37I'll fight both of y'all if y'all decide to leave.
40:40I mean, no, no, no. I'm staying.
40:42You think I'm going to leave this man?
40:45Carly's one of the most lovely women I've ever met.
40:48But that honeymoon phase is over.