Men are becoming softer here is why.
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Kashif Mag
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Kashif Mag
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00:00Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh
00:01Today's video topic is Men Are Becoming Softer
00:04Not only that, Men Are Becoming Softer
00:06Women Are Also Becoming Harder
00:08But now I'm talking about Men Are Becoming Softer
00:11This topic is specifically talking about this topic
00:14I'll talk about it
00:15We both have men and women to have some roles assigned to them
00:22A man is masculine, is confident and is strong
00:27As a female, as a female, the kind of brilliance, emotional brilliance and the traditionality and all the other things which she can bring into the relationship and in the society overall
00:41She can stick to her role
00:44But our culture changed, where we are half liberal, half traditional, half cultural
00:53And so many things are mixed up, jumbled up, our roles are completely switched to the same way
00:59And what happens is that the alpha males are less and the alpha females are increasing
01:05And we know that the alpha females are really prefer to have men in the beta role
01:10And then they don't respect them either
01:12And we see this, that women and women, again, here I do not mean that if a woman is publicly disrespecting her, then it's a good thing
01:21We are approving of that
01:31We are approving of that
01:33We are approving of that
01:35We are approving of that
01:37We are approving of that
01:39And we are approving of that
01:41but we are still in this position that one person can't talk about this,
01:48that is why they are not talking about this.
01:51They are taking risk,
01:53they are taking fear, even fear of rejecting other people,
01:58that people, if I am going to say this,
02:01if I am going to say this, if I am going to say this,
02:05which is what I am going to say,
02:06yes, online we are going to say this,
02:08we are going to say this,
02:09in fact,
02:10where we have a lot of narcissistic
02:12attitude is going to happen
02:14I have a specific person to talk about
02:16that they are disagreeing to us
02:18but when we talk about it
02:21we just go with the people
02:22what we say
02:24or what we say
02:26we prefer rather than
02:28our opinion
02:30if we look at it
02:32physically men are becoming softer
02:34and softer and softer
02:36we know that people
02:38our biology designed them
02:40to fight them
02:42they have become a fighter
02:44now that person
02:46on a sofa
02:48or on a car
02:50or on a mobile phone
02:52and he doesn't hit the gym
02:54and he doesn't do anything physically challenging
02:56or he doesn't do anything in sport
02:58so that person has a situation
03:00which is honestly
03:02every person's face
03:04soft body
03:06that the muscular man
03:08which they need to be
03:09because I strongly believe
03:10that what is your mental strength
03:12that is your physical strength
03:14that is with your physical strength
03:16that is physically strong
03:18so it's really really important
03:20that we physically challenging things
03:22either it's lifting heavy weight
03:24in the gym
03:25or it's running
03:26or it's doing some other physical activity
03:28so this thing
03:29that we lack
03:30we lack
03:56you can train and you can be muscular
04:06so here are no excuses here
04:09that I have so much height and so
04:11the other thing is that mentally
04:13we know that people have been made for problem solving
04:16now what happened was that in the 20's
04:18people married and kids had their families
04:21and they had a family for you
04:23you have to do the same things
04:26you need to do the same things
04:27you need to do the same things
04:29you need to do the same things
04:31you need to do it
04:33you know, so many things
04:35you need to do it
04:37now we have to do the 20's
04:38teenage extension
04:4130's and I'm married
04:42mid 30's and late 30's
04:45and we know that
04:46we are choosing the kind of partner
04:49because of different reasons
04:51and I'm talking about it because I will do it in the future.
04:54You know, which doesn't challenge us from that kind.
04:57And we are becoming softer in that sense as well.
05:01Late婚ers, which are due to many problems and problems are happening.
05:05Because your婚 is late and the 20s is happening in the 30s.
05:09Where are you going to be in the plier seeking?
05:12It goes into meeting your needs through wrong means,
05:15through plier seeking, through again things which really give you that dopamine
05:20but in a wrong way and that's why you become even more softer
05:23and your self-discipline remains in that sense.
05:28So, this is also a very big reason.
05:30Then, if you get married, we don't see that a man,
05:33even in a house, in a family,
05:36where a man's masculinity was out of it in a positive way
05:42because you are problem solving and all.
05:44But what is it that women are the ones who are calling the shots?
05:48So, this is something which is causing a lot of problems in our society.
06:00If we want to do the right of our society,
06:03if we want to set the direction of our society,
06:05then we will understand our roles again.
06:08We will have to take traditional roles in our society.
06:10We will have to become feminine in our society.
06:13We will have to surrender to a man, obviously not a toxic man, I'm saying here,
06:18but a healthy man.
06:19You know, they can trust.
06:20And we will have to come back in our alpha role again.
06:24That if we want to say that a man once again,
06:27then the woman will know that he is the one who is going to take deceit.
06:30I will have to give him everything.
06:30Like he is the one who is going to take deceit.
06:33Like he is the one who is going to take deceit.
06:34Like he is the one who is going to take deceit.
06:35He is the one who is the one who is going to take deceit via people andomo.
06:45And that we will have to become stronger.
06:48I know it is a little controversial topic,
06:50but I would really like to know your opinion.
06:53It is an excuse that we should experience a bad person or women.
06:55It is an excuse that we should understand that we are going to this side.
07:00Un 1981 man is a person that only does somethingśiting.
07:02and I will do what exactly is divine masculinity and what is divine femininity because I see women are becoming more and more masculine and obviously that is toxic because a woman is not made masculine.
07:25He will be considerate of you but at the same time he will be the leader of the house.
07:41which Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has been made by men and women are made by women because they spend money on women.
07:51And because they spend money on women because they also spend money on women.
07:55So they are not ready to take that.
07:59So we can see that the people of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has been made by men.
08:15Because the job is different.
08:17But the thing is that we have our biology, our psychology, our evolutionary,
08:21which Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has designed us.
08:23We are trying to challenge it and try to switch the rules and it is causing a lot of chaos.
08:29What do you think about this? Let me know in the comments section.
08:32And if you haven't subscribed to the channel please do.
08:34Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.