When kids become burnt out and stressed, how would Joey Paras give them love and understanding?
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00:00Who doesn't have a personal question?
00:04If you don't have a question,
00:06we'll be honest.
00:08We don't have a problem.
00:10But we don't have a pressure.
00:12Let's say,
00:14let's say,
00:16one problem.
00:18But let's say,
00:20anonymously.
00:22Right?
00:24He really wants to shout out their problem
00:26and let everybody know.
00:28Anonymous!
00:30It's the universe of God.
00:32We'll try it, Mars.
00:34That's the Mars sharing group.
00:36We're going up today.
00:38We're going to ask our current issue,
00:40problem or question
00:42that we need advice.
00:44Let's put it in our bowl.
00:46We'll send it randomly
00:48and we'll give this advice
00:50to the anonymous sender.
00:52Who will send it?
00:54Mars!
00:56Oh my God!
00:58Let's repeat it.
01:00These problems come to us.
01:02But we don't know.
01:04If you have a problem,
01:06it's hard, Mars.
01:08It's hard to advise you to yourself.
01:10Correct.
01:11You need help.
01:13This is it.
01:14I love it.
01:16How to handle mental stress
01:18stress for kids during pandemic?
01:22Magandang tanong yan.
01:23Ako,
01:24ang mapapayo ko for this is...
01:28Patience.
01:30Aside from prayers.
01:32Ang mga bata,
01:34kasi may iba silang ano talaga eh.
01:36Iba pa yung kultura nila
01:38o iba pa yung takbo ng utak nila, diba?
01:42Yung iba hindi.
01:43Aral.
01:44At may iba't ibang personalities
01:46at characteristics ng tao.
01:48We differ from each other.
01:50Yes.
01:51As adults,
01:52as parents,
01:53meron tayong capability
01:55to know
01:56and to label
01:58or...
01:59To adjust.
02:00Yes.
02:01To adjust.
02:02Kung ano yung bata,
02:03yung needs ng bata.
02:04Agree.
02:05So, sa aspeto ng mental stress,
02:08I think,
02:09kailangan mo rin magpahinga,
02:12matulog.
02:13Huwag mo masyadong indahin yung problema.
02:17Para sa akin, yun ang mapapayo ko
02:19kay sayo.
02:20Charo!
02:22Kasusunod na ba na bubunod?
02:24Mars!
02:25Okay, pero ngayon daw bawal ng umamin sa problema.
02:27Ako ba ba na sabihin?
02:28Okay.
02:29Ako lang amin.
02:30O.
02:31Paano ba magpalaki ng batang magiging teenager na?
02:34You know, times are changing.
02:37Yung pag-iisip ng mga teenager na ngayon,
02:40iba sa pag-iisip ng mga teenager noon.
02:43Correct!
02:44Di ba?
02:45So, these are changes that you have to move with.
02:47You have to adjust your way of thinking.
02:50So, kailangan mo rin matutulan na
02:54itabi mo muna yung sarili mong emotions
02:57and feelings.
02:59Especially when you see your child going through something.
03:02I agree.
03:03Kasi, there are times na, as parents,
03:05gusto mong pagsabihan agad eh.
03:08Bakit mo niisip?
03:09Iyan kasig eh.
03:10Madalas, actually.
03:11Ganon ang...
03:12Unang reaksyon.
03:13Ng isang pilo ng magulan na.
03:15Iyan kasig!
03:16Bakit mo niisip?
03:17Bakit mo niisip?
03:18Bakit mo nagawa niyan?
03:19Oo, but...
03:20Yung nga, as a teenager who I'm sure...
03:22Ganon yung acting.
03:23Ganon yung acting.
03:24Ganon yung acting.
03:25Ganon yung acting.
03:26Taas agad.
03:27Who will make mistakes and who may have to learn the hard way.
03:28You have to respect them.
03:29You have to put your emotions and your personal battles aside
03:33and just listen to your child
03:35and to support them in whatever way.