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00:00I'm so excited, nervous, I don't know what's next.
00:16What's next is sleeping on the plane.
00:18The whole family is in town.
00:20Everybody say hello!
00:24Oh, I like it.
00:30I can't believe it's been seven months and we're finally at this point.
00:33I know, I go through a lot.
00:34Today is the embryo time for a day.
00:37It's so exciting.
00:39This thing go to my vagina.
00:45Bye, bud.
00:46Hi.
00:47Last time you guys saw us, we only had two beautiful babies, and now we have...
00:54Three.
00:56I love you.
00:57Back home, we always have something called one-house party when you have a baby.
01:02It's just like a baby shower.
01:04There's going to be lots of food, goat meat, pepper soup goat, some fried rice for the Americans.
01:12We have decided to have a baby.
01:15Are you kidding?
01:18You have to spend time with me.
01:19You gotta remember that.
01:20My childhood with my father was very distant.
01:26I wouldn't see him for months on end.
01:28Past mistakes don't want to repeat itself.
01:33I'm doing very seriously with Xena Paladin.
01:35I already put my two weeks' notice in my job.
01:38You're gonna quit your job.
01:40You're gonna go to school.
01:41Make zero dollars.
01:42For him to make this decision without consulting his wife is shocking.
01:49Everything's bothering me to carry this whole family all the time.
01:51I'm just over it.
01:53Well, we're at the airport heading to California, and today is the beginning of what could be an amazing journey.
02:13Yes.
02:14We are going to the fertility clinic.
02:15It's definitely a life-changing moment.
02:17Wish us luck, because we're definitely going to need it.
02:20I am David.
02:22I am 56 years old, currently living in Fountain Hills, Arizona, with my amazing wife, Annie.
02:28I am Annie, 31 years old, originally from Thailand, and this is my sweet potato king husband, David.
02:36Aw, I love you.
02:39Well, that was pretty quick.
02:41Made it through security, on our way to the gate, and life is about to change as we know it.
02:47So excited, nervous, I don't know what's next.
02:51What's next is sleeping on the plane.
02:56When I was 40 years old, I was divorced after 20 years of marriage.
03:00At the age of 45, I moved to Asia to take a job, and I met and fell in love with Annie, and proposed after just 10 days.
03:12After we were approved for the K-1 visa, we moved to the United States, where I hoped to be closer to my family.
03:19That didn't work out so great.
03:21You walked out of his life and left him with mom.
03:24You got with her, you did this, you bebopped around China and Thailand.
03:27He's 18 years old.
03:28Come on, bitch.
03:33It was not an easy transition.
03:35Yeah, David's family didn't welcome me, but we still got married.
03:40I now pronounce you husband and wife.
03:43You may kiss your bride.
03:50After marry, I am ready to start a family, but David keep putting it off.
03:54I had a vasectomy 24 years ago after Jacob was born, my youngest son.
04:00Never thinking that I would be divorced and remarried to somebody of childbearing years.
04:05I told David that he needs to have a vasectomy reversal right away, or I can have it with someone else.
04:12No, that will not happen.
04:17We're on our way to the HRC clinic to see Dr. Maison, who is going to do the sperm extraction.
04:24Yes, not the fun way to have a child.
04:27When I looked into having the vasectomy reversal, they said it would really be virtually impossible because it's been 24 years,
04:33and the scar tissue buildup would not allow for a proper reversal.
04:37Good morning.
04:39Doctors said there's one of two places that we can get the sperm from, either the epididymis or the ball sacs.
04:46You really want it from the epididymis because they don't have to cut into your balls, and it's less painful?
04:51Let's hope they can do it from the epididymis.
04:53Good night, David. How are you feeling today?
04:56Nervous.
04:57Yeah.
04:58You're going to be justified.
04:59This is a very straightforward procedure for people that have an insectomy.
05:03What we're going to do is make sure you're comfortable.
05:05And after you're comfortable, I'm going to numb you up down there.
05:08And now I'm going to take a small needle and serve it to be epididymis, a disorder, a CRISPR.
05:12You have to do this a couple of times.
05:15You know, until they are happy with your sample.
05:18And it'll save you 30 minutes.
05:20She already shaved you last night, so we're good.
05:21All right.
05:21Good stuff.
05:22Yeah.
05:23We'll do any fine tuning back there, okay?
05:26See you in a bit.
05:26Yes.
05:28Well, I'm just a few minutes away from being wheeled back there in pre-op.
05:32My nerves are off the chart.
05:34Hopefully, the outcome is what is desired.
05:37But we'll see.
05:43Hello, doctor.
05:44Hi. How's it going?
05:45So, everything went well?
05:47Everything went great.
05:48Oh, that's amazing.
05:50So, the quantity.
05:51So, they felt like they found some good.
05:52Swimmers.
05:53Oh, yes.
05:54Hopefully, I find some Olympic.
05:56Yeah.
05:57Olympic.
05:57More than a doctor, please.
05:58Hopefully, this will help you guys come with your family.
06:03Thank you so much.
06:05My pleasure.
06:06I have a drink of coffee.
06:11Oh, your days of coffee are done.
06:15How do you feel, Tila?
06:17No, we're excited.
06:19And, yeah, let's see what they're going to do to me today.
06:23Hey, good morning.
06:27Good morning.
06:28Any good morning.
06:29How are you feeling?
06:30Good.
06:31Okay.
06:31So, here's our plan this morning.
06:34We're going to go in there in a few minutes and extract the eggs before the ovulation occurs.
06:39And what's the next step after the egg retrieval?
06:43Go thaw the sperm and do the fertilization process.
06:46Tomorrow, we'll update you, let you know how many fertilized.
06:48Awesome.
06:49Wow.
06:50That's awesome.
06:51All right.
06:51Great.
06:52Good.
06:52Thank you, doctor.
06:54I'm interested to find out how many eggs that you've had.
06:57I know.
06:58How many viable ones.
06:59Yes.
07:00Well, let's keep our fingers crossed.
07:02So much we're writing on this today.
07:04How are you feeling?
07:09I'm done again.
07:10You're done?
07:11I'm done.
07:12That's amazing.
07:14The doctor was able to extract 20 eggs, and the next day they were able to be fertilized with my sperm.
07:20We got some embryo.
07:21We have some embryos.
07:22Of the 20 eggs, we had 12 embryos, of which, after genetic testing, four are viable.
07:30Now we are waiting for my next period, for the embryo transfer, and just waiting for the best.
07:39Oh, my God.
07:40I'm so tired.
07:42I'm tired.
07:43We are heading to New Jersey to my-
07:45Waiting.
07:46Yes, my niece's way.
07:47My only niece's way.
07:48Oh, my God, we made it to Michelle's wedding.
07:53It's so beautiful.
07:54I'm so excited.
07:57We're at my niece, Michelle's wedding, and it's absolutely amazing.
08:01You sound like you're in Hawaii, not New Jersey.
08:16It's Hava Nagila, Hava Nagila, Hava Nagila, Hava Nagila, Hava Nagila, Vemish, Baháhu.
08:24Tip soon, tip soon, tip soon.
08:34After you.
08:35Oh, my God, what a wedding last night.
08:37Hey, guys.
08:40Hi, everybody.
08:41We made it.
08:42We got everyone here.
08:44We're going to be talking to my family today to give them an update about the IVF process.
08:49Mom, hi.
08:50Hello.
08:50Long time since last night.
08:51I'm most nervous to tell Jacob that Annie and I are trying to have a baby, because we haven't
08:56had the smoothest relationship.
08:58Oh, what a night we had last night.
09:00It was beautiful.
09:02Gorgeous.
09:02I have to say, I think Ma was out there dancing.
09:06She is.
09:06I am.
09:07You're the best dancer.
09:08With two titanium hips, you should be the best dancer.
09:19You know, the energy of family is so important, and with that being said, I wanted to let you
09:28know where we're at, what is happening.
09:30And over the last several months, Ma is familiar with it.
09:34We've been going through the IVF process.
09:37We have decided to have a baby.
09:43What?
09:46Are you kidding?
09:49No, I am not kidding.
09:51To actually be honest with you, we are very close to the embryo transfer.
09:58Wow.
09:59I haven't heard this family supply it in a long time.
10:07I don't want to miss the opportunity to be a mom.
10:11Wow.
10:11I understand, like, yeah, your clock is ticking real loud.
10:17You're 31 now, right?
10:19And you want a kid.
10:21But you are not 31 now.
10:23That is correct.
10:24Yeah.
10:24You're 56.
10:25That is correct.
10:26Okay.
10:27You had your kids.
10:29I worry about your health.
10:30I mean, you have valid concerns.
10:35But, you know, I don't want to deny Andy the right to motherhood.
10:39It would be unfair.
10:40And you look at several other celebrities.
10:4381 years old, they just had a job.
10:47Ultimately, this is a decision we've made and we are going through with it.
10:52It will be very interesting to see David be a father because then he will see that.
10:58I mean, you seem to be a parent then, but not to a baby.
11:01Yeah.
11:01You have to spend time with them.
11:02You have to spend time with them.
11:03You have to spend time with them.
11:04You have to spend time with them.
11:05And Jake...
11:05It's hard to hear Jacob say he's concerned how David is going to be a dad.
11:14And it's not the first time that I heard that.
11:17Do you want kids?
11:18Yeah.
11:19You see the relationship he has with us, right?
11:22Do you expect that it would be different for your child?
11:25I don't know.
11:27Maybe you should think about that.
11:31That was a different chapter in life.
11:33I can't change what was.
11:35Just worried about what ifs, what's the possibilities, because past mistakes don't want to repeat itself.
11:41Absolutely.
11:42My childhood with my father was very distant.
11:48I mean, the few times that I would see him, it would be maybe an hour or two, and I wouldn't see him for months on end.
11:55So I do have concerns with my father raising the child.
11:59Words can only mean so much.
12:01He can say he wants to do better, he can do better, but you've got to prove it.
12:05He's there, wonderful, if not, how to predict good.
12:07Well, and hopefully make everything works out much better than it did last time.
12:13I can't change what was, you know?
12:14But I will do everything I can to make a stronger, better family.
12:18I can't change what's like.
12:29Nice, all.
12:31You ready to play?
12:32Me with me, too.
12:33Say, yeah!
12:35Go, go!
12:36My name is Kara. I am 32 years old.
12:41My name is Guillermo. I'm 26 years old.
12:44And we have been married for three years.
12:57Guillermo and I met six years ago in the Dominican Republic when I was on a work trip.
13:01It all went hard and fast and he came over on a K-1 visa to start our lives in Charlottesville, Virginia.
13:10Welcome to the United States.
13:13Oh, my love.
13:16We made it.
13:17And 90 days later, we decided to get married.
13:26Wow, look at that.
13:28Shortly after we got married, I got pregnant and gave birth to our son, who is wonderful and beautiful.
13:38And he is growing so fast.
13:41Nico is 20 months old. He loves playing. He loves screaming. He loves music.
13:46And he always goes, cheers, with his water bottle. Cheers.
13:49So we're just trying to keep up and navigate all the twists and turns of a growing family.
13:55Woo!
13:56Woo!
13:57Woo!
13:58But trying to balance all of it is incredibly overwhelming at times.
14:02Do, do, do, do, do, do, do.
14:07Did you get the list of houses that I had sent to you?
14:09Oh, thank you.
14:11Finkle.
14:12Chicken.
14:13Awesome.
14:14Yeah, did you get the list of houses that I had sent to you?
14:16I've been a realtor now for three years.
14:17I've been able to build up a really solid real estate business, which has been great.
14:19But during that time, I've also had a child.
14:20But if you want, I can definitely look into that property and just see what the sewing
14:21instructions are.
14:22If the time works.
14:23Wow.
14:24For you and me.
14:25And then we'll go to the property, if that's okay.
14:26Is there anything else that wasn't super clear on what looks to be?
14:27Got up.
14:28So it's definitely been great.
14:29Awesome.
14:30Awesome.
14:31Yeah, did you get the list of houses that I had sent to you?
14:32I've been a realtor now for three years.
14:33I've been able to build up a really solid real estate business, which has been great.
14:34Wow.
14:35For you and me.
14:36And then we'll go to the property, if that's okay.
14:39Is there anything else that wasn't super clear on what looks to be?
14:42Got up.
14:43So it's definitely been a push to try to grow a business and also be a mom and a stay-at-home
14:52mom.
14:54Hey.
14:55Hey, what's going on?
14:58Usually Guillermo's at work all day managing a hotel.
15:01But even when he's around to help with Nico, I do feel like I'm bearing the brunt of everything.
15:05There's never an uninterrupted moment in this house.
15:08You know I'm trying to work here.
15:09Fine.
15:10I just need a second, you know, to do the thing.
15:14I didn't know.
15:15I didn't know you were in a cold.
15:17That's it.
15:18I mean, look, Nico is crying and needing your help.
15:22My help?
15:23But you're here.
15:24Yeah, because he gets happier when he's with you.
15:26I just feel like, apart from our regular jobs, I'm also managing the house and getting
15:32the groceries and cooking the food and like making sure that he hits his nap times on
15:35schedule.
15:36I know.
15:37You know, as a supervisor, you gotta be managing people, dealing with people, taking the time.
15:46You know, it's a lot of mental stress as well.
15:49I'm very happy to be working and actually very happy to be contributing financially to
15:57my family.
15:58But having a demanding job, a one-year-old, and a relationship, it's definitely been a
16:06huge roller coaster.
16:08And I'm a little proud of this, but sometimes I bring the work stress home.
16:12It's unfair for Kara and Nico, so I need to change.
16:17I need to change something on here.
16:19Mommy.
16:20Mommy.
16:21Mommy.
16:22Nico, Nico.
16:23Hey, listen, it's very obvious to me that you've now pooped your pants because it smells
16:26really strong.
16:27So we're going to go, ah, clean your butt.
16:30Let me help you.
16:31How about that?
16:32Oh, my God.
16:33Stop it.
16:34How about that, Vincent?
16:35I help you.
16:36Good morning.
16:37Good morning.
16:38Today's the day.
16:39Today is the day I'm finally going to put her in a kayak and she's going to get wet, vertical,
16:54horizontal.
16:55I can't say that I'm like super pumped, but I'm excited to share the day with you and
17:02reconnect.
17:03Oh, my God.
17:04We go off.
17:05We have childcare.
17:06We took the day off.
17:07We block our schedule.
17:08I'm so thankful we do.
17:09All right.
17:10Get in.
17:11Nice.
17:12Bye.
17:13It's going to be a good day.
17:18I'm going to tell myself that I really like water.
17:22I feel like recently, Guillermo and I haven't really been seeing eye to eye.
17:26There you go.
17:27You look good?
17:29Nice.
17:30Good girl.
17:31This is the coolest I've ever felt.
17:34And I love my husband and I want us to connect and I want us to try to get back to where
17:39we used to be.
17:40So, we're just going to go with the flow.
17:42Thank you so much.
17:43You're so welcome.
17:44Are you feeling good?
17:45I feel like I'm sitting in a kayak.
17:46All right.
17:47I feel like I'm sitting in a kayak.
17:48All right.
17:49I like it.
17:50All right.
17:52I feel like I'm sitting in a kayak.
17:53Ready?
17:54Oh, .
17:55I like it.
17:56All right.
17:57We do.
17:58To me, this is a perfect day between us because I can finally show her what I like to do and
18:05the beauty of the river.
18:20Water, trees, birds, and us.
18:23I mean, it's actually, if you think about it, very romantic.
18:30I got you.
18:33Are you okay?
18:38I'm going to be honest.
18:50It looks like you're drowning.
18:52Can we go like over there?
18:57I'd really like to spend this beautiful time in the river with Kara, but I brought her
19:03actually to tell her something important.
19:06The past few weeks have been tough between us, and I've made a big change in my life.
19:13And honestly, I don't know how she is going to take it.
19:17Well, that was cute.
19:19How do you feel?
19:20Oh, excited.
19:21Yeah, that was so nice.
19:23And your new boat.
19:25So, I need to talk to you about something.
19:34I'm doing very serious with being a pilot.
19:37You want to be a pilot?
19:39I've been getting in contact with some people, and yeah, I think I'm actually very serious
19:45about it.
19:47My father was an aeronautical engineer, but because of the economical crisis in Venezuela, that
19:55was never an option for me.
19:58In America, becoming a commercial pilot, it's something that I can pursue.
20:04But I can not do it alone.
20:06I need her to be on my side.
20:10Have you, I mean, isn't it expensive?
20:13Yeah, but I can get a loan.
20:17I can, you know.
20:18I don't, I, you know.
20:20Logistically, it might be a big undertaking.
20:23Why?
20:24Why not?
20:25Well, a big fat student loan that's in our name.
20:26Uh-huh.
20:27And?
20:28Time, holding down your full-time job while going to pilot school simultaneously.
20:32Well, that's going to end in two weeks, actually.
20:35Maybe before that.
20:36What?
20:37I already put my two weeks notice in my job.
20:41Are you joking?
20:43No.
20:44You're not joking.
20:46Have you thought about this?
20:47Yeah.
20:48So you're going to quit your job?
20:50You're going to go to school, make zero dollars?
20:53What's your plan?
20:54How are we going to pay the bills?
20:57I'm furious because he is one of the two people contributing to our household and the only
21:04one that has given our family insurance.
21:06And so for him to make this decision without consulting his wife or at least talking about
21:12it, it is shocking.
21:16Everything falls on me to carry this whole family all the time.
21:19I'm just over it, like.
21:34If you don't know my name, you're gonna know, you're gonna know it.
21:37All right, we're going to do a house tour.
21:39I love my front porch and my plants.
21:42Love my plants.
21:43Here we go.
21:45My name is Emily.
21:47I am 32 years old and I live in Salina, Kansas.
21:51I am Cowie from Cameroon.
21:53I am 37 years old.
21:55I live with my beautiful wife.
21:57In our own house?
21:59You want to give the house tour?
22:01Yeah.
22:02Come take the phone.
22:03Okay, come over here.
22:04Hold the phone.
22:05Hi, everybody.
22:06Come on, bring your hand.
22:07This is the basement.
22:08This is not the basement.
22:10What is it?
22:11This is the living room.
22:12This is the living room.
22:14Okay.
22:15This is my sister's room.
22:17It's getting her clothes on.
22:19Oh.
22:20Show us the bed.
22:21This is my dad.
22:22This is our bed.
22:23It's so comfy.
22:25This is my baby.
22:26Kobe finally got his wish.
22:28We bought a home with five bedrooms, three bathrooms.
22:32I don't have to give all the details.
22:34Yeah.
22:35I need him to know that we bought a big enough home to fill with children.
22:40Kobe and I met in Xi'an, China.
22:42It was supposed to be a one night stand, but a few weeks later I found out I was pregnant.
22:48I came back to the U.S. and I immediately started the K-1 visa process.
22:53But because of COVID, it took Kobe almost two years to get to America.
22:58So he didn't meet our son, Kobe, until he was a year and a half.
23:04Who's that?
23:05You see Papa?
23:06You see Dada?
23:07Oh, my goodness.
23:08Hi.
23:09You're shy.
23:10Can you give him a hug together?
23:11Oh.
23:15And then 90 days later, we were married.
23:17I now pronounce you husband and wife.
23:22Last time you guys saw us, we only had two beautiful babies.
23:27And now we have...
23:28Three.
23:31Gotta go get the babies now.
23:33Hi.
23:34Hi.
23:35Bubba's.
23:36I get you.
23:37I get...
23:38Hi.
23:39I'm brushing my...
23:41I'm brushing my hair.
23:42You're brushing your hair?
23:44Let me get Bubba's hair.
23:45Bubba's hair.
23:46Hi.
23:47Oh.
23:48Okay.
23:49Can Bubba go to Myrtle Beach?
23:50Can Bubba go to Myrtle Beach?
23:51Yeah.
23:52Oh.
23:53I love you.
23:54Kobe from the jump was like, I want to name him Atem.
23:57After his friend who didn't really like me that much in Cameroon,
24:01Kobe was like, look, the name's really important to me.
24:04And I gave in.
24:06His name is Atem.
24:07He's so cute.
24:08He's so cute.
24:09He's so cute.
24:10He's so cute.
24:11He's like the chillest baby.
24:12I would have seven of him.
24:15Nope.
24:16Yep.
24:19So we're here and I'm getting ready for the bone house party.
24:22I can't wait.
24:23Okay, Bubba.
24:24Okay, Bubba.
24:25Back home, we always have something called bone house party when you have a baby.
24:32Just like a baby shower, there's going to be lots of food.
24:36Goat meats, pepper soup goats, barbecue goats, some fried rice for the Americans.
24:45We're all coming to experience a cultural journey.
24:48Wait, how many chairs did we get?
24:5025.
24:51Okay.
24:52But we have more than 25 chairs.
24:55Oh, look, Dad's coming to help.
24:57This is very important for me that I get to understand, okay, my dad is from Africa,
25:00he's from Cameroon, and a little bit of Cameroon history.
25:04Is all of this going to fit?
25:05Mm-hmm.
25:06Of course.
25:08Okay.
25:09I've been wanting to help Kobe plan for this party, but he wants it to be the true Cameroonian
25:15Bourne house party, and so I'm totally hands-off, it scares me, but this is Kobe's thing,
25:20this is what he wants, and I respect that.
25:22Yeah, why don't you guys pick up, like, seven at a time?
25:28What'd you say?
25:29I'm just kidding.
25:37Stella?
25:39I'm stressing out.
25:42Why?
25:43I feel like there's, like, 70 people coming in a couple days, and, like, I have no idea
25:49what's going on.
25:52When I plan a party, like, I literally have it down to a T, so the most stressful part
25:58about this party is I have absolutely no idea what's going on.
26:03I still don't really know, like, the itinerary or who's coming or what's happening.
26:08I know a lot of people are coming from all over.
26:10I know there's going to be Cameroonian food and dancers, and that's, like, basically it.
26:15I mean, that's a lot.
26:18Everyone's going to come in town.
26:19Nobody knows when they're coming to our house.
26:23What time is the party?
26:25I just asked everybody to come over around five.
26:28Over where?
26:29Here or Mom and Dad's?
26:30Mom and Dad's.
26:31So the cooking's going to happen all day at Mom and Dad's?
26:34Not only, there's cooking that are going to be done here.
26:39So people are going to cook all day, but we're going to be in separate houses, and then
26:42everyone's going to come at five to Mom and Dad's?
26:44Yeah.
26:45So who's going to be here when people are cooking here?
26:50So from now, I don't know.
26:51I can't tell you that.
26:54Kobe's never thrown a party while we've been married, so we will see.
27:03What?
27:04Oh, yeah.
27:06We are getting ready for the Born house today.
27:16It looks good.
27:18I'm really nervous.
27:19The party's in 30 minutes.
27:21We have 70 people showing up to my parents' house.
27:24There's people in my kitchen, in my mom's kitchen.
27:31I know I'm not helping plan anything, but I'm still a host.
27:35So I just want to make sure the party goes smoothly.
27:38So right now, we are going down to the Elos place with the guys around.
27:43We want to go make sure that everything looks good so far.
27:46I trust these guys.
27:48Got it, bro.
27:49All right, are we ready?
27:50Perfect.
27:51Rio, are we set?
27:53All right, let's go.
27:54Let's go.
28:03It looks good.
28:04Yeah.
28:05Yeah.
28:06We still have a lot more?
28:07Yeah.
28:08Yes.
28:09A lot.
28:10Oh my gosh.
28:11We're going to have a lot of guys and making sure that's Noel.
28:14What's up for this?
28:15Making sure that everything is looking good so we're mounting the canopies.
28:17And this is the main man.
28:18What?
28:19The person who makes sure that the event is the successful one.
28:22It's hard out here.
28:23It's hard out here.
28:24Thank you so much.
28:26Yeah.
28:27Look how pretty Mom looks in her outfit.
28:31So beautiful.
28:32It's a temps party.
28:33Yay, you too.
28:34Okay, what are we making?
28:36Oh, I love it.
28:40Oh my goodness.
28:42Yay.
28:51I'm so happy, man.
28:52There are so many people over here.
28:53That means that we have a lot of people who are really out here to support us.
28:58And the whole family is in town.
29:01Everybody say hello.
29:03Hello.
29:04I'm not going to talk very much.
29:09But I just want to say that we are deeply blessed to have you all.
29:13It's such a special moment for us.
29:15I never thought I could get this emotion, but I already get it very emotional.
29:19I know you guys should have been somewhere else.
29:21America, time is money.
29:23But you choose to make this moment a very special one for us.
29:26To celebrate, you know, our son, Atem, with us.
29:31I just want to say thank you guys so much for showing up.
29:33I mean, there's so much traditional meal over there.
29:35If you can go three, four, five times.
29:37If your stomach can handle that, just keep going.
29:40All right.
29:41Thank you guys so much for the over there and the drinks as well.
29:45It's really a beautiful thing to see that there's so much support and love going on over here.
29:52Like, this is the beauty of Cameroon culture.
29:55Everybody who came in town for the Born House Party is really putting an effort to making sure that everything is a success.
30:04I'm just really, really happy that we were able to do it here.
30:07Yeah.
30:08You know, in Salina.
30:17I made it happen, babe.
30:18It's okay.
30:19You did.
30:20You did.
30:21I don't want to do it again.
30:22I'll do it.
30:23I promise you.
30:24Our next baby.
30:26Ready?
30:27Teenie.
30:28Woo!
30:37Since we are not going to be able to go on a tropical trip, I wanted to make us a tropical snack.
30:46Okay.
30:47Okay.
30:48Thank you so much.
30:50Annie and I met in Thailand while I was working in Asia.
30:53We got married seven years ago, and now we are trying to have a baby.
30:57Mmm.
30:58Ah, that's good.
31:02Mmm.
31:03You know what?
31:04I want Annie to have one final cocktail before the embryo transfer, because if everything
31:09goes well, it'll be nine months before you have your next dink.
31:12Maybe a year.
31:13Maybe a year.
31:14Depends.
31:15Up to you.
31:16I'm not going to put any pressure on you.
31:18Are you ready for this?
31:20No, yeah.
31:21Because I have to count on you, too, you know?
31:24David's family in New Jersey brought up some good points for David being a dad.
31:29I have been traveling and having fun up to this point, so I kind of worry you might not
31:34be up for responsibility again.
31:36You know, even though I'm in the thousand percent, I just want to make sure are you with this
31:41with me?
31:42You know, are you ready?
31:43Because it seems like your family has some concern, you know?
31:48I mean, I understand and I can appreciate their concerns, because you know what?
31:53I even had to ask myself those same questions.
31:56I had a vasectomy at the age of 32 after having three children.
32:00Had I not met Annie, I honestly wouldn't be thinking about having kids.
32:04I said to you I would never deny you the right to motherhood.
32:07Didn't mean that I was going to forget that being a father, because we're in this together.
32:12But I don't want you to worry or to fear.
32:15Matter of fact, I even have this paper.
32:17We can have a little schedule.
32:19All right?
32:21Night one will be your night.
32:24No, night one should be you.
32:26Night one, night two, night three should be you.
32:28We're going to rotate.
32:30But I'll take night one.
32:31You can have night two.
32:32Okay.
32:33And then for diaper duty, I'm going to put you daytime.
32:37Yeah.
32:38I'll do nighttime.
32:39You sign your name.
32:41I sign my name.
32:43We make a deal.
32:44The notary sign's here.
32:45You ready, my love?
32:46I'm so ready today's day.
32:47Maybe when you walk out, you'll be with child.
33:03So excited.
33:04All right.
33:05Long time go soon.
33:06No, I get it.
33:07Today is the embryo time for a day.
33:10There's so much riding on this.
33:12I just can't.
33:13So scared.
33:14So nervous.
33:15So excited.
33:17I can't believe it's been seven months and we're finally at this point.
33:20I know.
33:21I go through a lot.
33:22A lot of shots.
33:23Blood work.
33:24Um, this out.
33:25These things go to my vagina like many, many times.
33:29And not even for fun.
33:30Not even for fun.
33:31I have no idea what it looks like.
33:38You know, it's so exciting and so emotional.
33:43It's like no words to explain.
33:47Good morning.
33:48You've got your team.
33:50David, are you going to do anything here?
33:52You're paying the bill?
33:53What's happening?
33:54We're going to dim the lights.
33:56I'm going to put a speculum in.
33:57We're going to do the ultrasound.
33:58And then Michelle's going to go ask the embryologist to bring the catheter in.
34:02And transfer will happen right after.
34:09Deep, slow breaths.
34:10Just relax.
34:12Here we are.
34:13One normal embryo for Andy, so I'm from Rossi.
34:16Yes.
34:21We gently passed a soft, flexible catheter through her cervix into the uterine cavity,
34:27with an embryo that was brought to me with an inner sheath.
34:31Breathe.
34:32When we placed that under ultrasound guidance,
34:34we were then able to gently place that embryo inside her uterus.
34:37Perfect.
34:38Did you see a little fluid flash going in?
34:40Right there.
34:41That's it.
34:42I'm done.
34:4310 out of 10.
34:44You did awesome.
34:45I'm so proud of you.
34:48There is so much anxiety and so much going through my mind.
34:53Will this work?
34:54We're going to know everything in eight days.
34:56Okay?
34:57Okay.
34:58All right.
34:59Good luck, guys.
35:00We're going to get you a picture of the embryo.
35:02All right.
35:03There's your personal picture.
35:04Congratulations.
35:06We don't know what the outcome is.
35:07We're just going to keep following the protocols and pray for the best.
35:20I can't sleep well last night.
35:24Nervousness?
35:25Mm.
35:26I'm excited.
35:27Well, today is the day that we are going to see if you're going to be a mom.
35:33I'm so nervous.
35:35I prepare for every outcome, but wish for the best.
35:41In the morning, get my breath test to see if I am pregnant or not.
35:48So they're doing a stab, so it's a four to six on the camera.
35:53Okay?
35:54Can't come fast enough.
35:55We're still waiting for confirmation from Dr. Bustanfar, and we're going to do a call
36:00to find out the results of the embryo transfer.
36:03David, Annie, can you see me okay?
36:06Hi.
36:07How are you, doctor?
36:08So I know you're really anxious about it, but I'm beyond happy to report that your pregnancy
36:16test was positive today.
36:17Congratulations.
36:18Look at it.
36:19We really did it.
36:20Just over four weeks pregnant.
36:21Can you believe that?
36:22Four weeks?
36:23What?
36:24Yes.
36:25So the embryo's already at about the three-week stage, approximately.
36:28Oh!
36:29Isn't that cool?
36:30That's why I feel the kicking.
36:31No, that's David.
36:32It's been an amazing journey just to get to this point, T-Doc.
36:45Yes.
36:46And now we have a long eight and a half months ahead of us.
36:48I couldn't wait.
36:49Thank you so much for being in this together.
36:53There's nobody else in this world that I would want to share a life with, a journey with,
36:58than you.
37:01Don't forget you have to help me changing the diapers sometime.
37:05We have signed the contract.
37:07Yes.
37:08And I know you had it notarized.
37:09Good morning, everybody.
37:22What a beautiful day.
37:26Yeah.
37:27Trying to be excited for you.
37:30I don't, you don't look that excited.
37:32I think you need to be a little more excited.
37:34I'm happy that you're happy, but I'm not sold on it yet.
37:38Guillermo and I met in Dominican Republic.
37:42We got married three years ago, and now we have a beautiful son named Nico.
37:46But things have been a little rocky since Guillermo decided that he wants to change careers.
37:53If they take us actually up in a plane, I might poop my pants.
37:58What if he decides to give me the control?
38:01No.
38:02No.
38:03I'm jumping.
38:04You're jumping.
38:05Parachute.
38:06All day.
38:07You have like the worst thoughts ever.
38:11You're not a pilot.
38:12I have my mind focused.
38:21After our fight at the lake, Guillermo apologized for not consulting me prior to making such a large decision,
38:26and I've had a little bit more time to just cool off a bit.
38:29While I'm still skeptical about Guillermo being a pilot, he has convinced me to do an informational tour at a local pilot school.
38:37Here we are.
38:39Aw, look at this cute little plane over there.
38:42Yeah.
38:43You have to keep it open mind, babe.
38:44Mm-hmm.
38:45Keep it open mind.
38:46Sure.
38:47Sure.
38:48So, Guillermo, what made you want to pursue flying?
38:57I work in a hotel and we receive a lot of pilots.
39:02Oh, really?
39:03Like many different pilots every single time.
39:05And I haven't heard from one person saying like, oh, being a pilot is a .
39:11You know what I mean?
39:12You don't hear me say it.
39:14Yeah.
39:15One of the cool aspects of it is there's so many different avenues that you can go down.
39:19You know, there's airline jobs, crop dusting.
39:21You know, I'm running a flight school right now as a, you know, working as a flight instructor.
39:26My questions are like, how much does it cost to do it?
39:30I'd say there's some variables there too, but in the $45,000 to $50,000 range to go all the way through to the commercial rating.
39:40$50,000.
39:42You think your job, whatever job you're going to get, is going to be able to pay for your flight school and all the bills that we currently have?
39:48Yes.
39:49But just like, stop making the thing like it's a problem.
39:52Just think about like everything that's going to be good.
39:54So you want me to just go through life and not think about the pros and cons or the good and bad or how it may work or how it may affect our family?
40:01Yes.
40:02Yeah, that's the life you live.
40:03That's the lane that you live in.
40:04No, no.
40:05I don't live that way.
40:06I don't live in any land.
40:07I live in my place right here.
40:08No, you live in a fairytale land.
40:10Fairytale.
40:12Where's the cockpit?
40:14Oh, oh, oh.
40:16There you go.
40:17You want to run through some of the flight instruments?
40:19Yeah.
40:20Top left here is the airspeed indicator, altimeter, vertical speed indicator, heading indicator, and turn coordinator.
40:31If you want, we can pull it out of the hanger and show you a little bit more.
40:35All right.
40:36Seeing Guillermo in the cockpit and the expression on his face, I can't help but feel really excited and happy for him.
40:43But I'm a little apprehensive.
40:46I just don't know if he's really thinking about what that looks like in real life.
40:51I just feel like you look really excited about it.
40:54Yeah.
40:55I feel like there's no going back.
40:56Mm-mm.
40:57And you're going to pay for this?
40:59Exactly.
41:00Okay.
41:01I'm so not convinced that this is the right career path for Guillermo.
41:04I'm worried about the money and I'm worried about the time away from our family.
41:07But he's my husband and I love him.
41:09And I feel like I don't have any choice but to support him.
41:12I'm going to be the most sexy pilot ever.
41:16You should buckle up because I'm going to take you for a ride.
41:21Really?
41:24Let me out.
41:30We are not in Orlando.
41:33I must have killed all my life.
41:35Like, it's happening, girl.
41:37Yeah.
41:38Yeah.
41:39Go, Lissy!
41:40Try to get her coordinated.
41:41Get some body awareness.
41:42A little bit of strength.
41:44Uh-oh.
41:45Hey, look that way.
41:48I've really been thinking a lot about what my family said about dating a country boy.
41:52So while I'm here, I need to create a whole new profile to show them I love to do farm stuff.
41:57How do I get this?
41:59I'm just going to pose like this.
42:02You?
42:03I want the guys to think, like, I'm a local.
42:05Yeah, I hope these guys out here love it.
42:07Kiss the chicken.
42:08Kiss the chicken.
42:13I'm about to make a huge leap in my transition process.
42:17I am going to have my first gender-forming surgery.
42:21Obviously, I'm really excited to get it done, but I'm really scared.
42:24Any kind of surgery is scary, especially because I'm having it on my face.
42:29I'm terrified.
42:31When he left, he did not go to China directly.
42:37He went to Arizona.
42:39Johnny had finally been able to save up enough money to come visit me in America.
42:44Then I learned some lies that he was telling about his departure.
42:48I don't think you need to worry about him, and I don't think I would.
42:51I would let him go.
42:52So, I really want to talk about Arizona.
42:57You really want to talk about that?