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00:30Suhail Raza Amjadi, Mufti Ahsan Naveed Niazi, Professor Dr. Mohammad Ahmed Qadri, Hazrat Qibla Allama Maulana Imran Bashir
00:37I welcome you, sir. After a long time, we are meeting after a long time.
00:42And Mashallah, our love for you, Mufti Sahib also keeps on mentioning in his absence.
00:47May your Zikr be blessed. Thank you very much for coming.
00:49Today's topic is divorce, Mufti Sahib.
00:51And on the topic of divorce, we will talk about the rapidly increasing epidemic and disease in the society.
00:56Every other day, there is a voice coming from a house which never came from a Muslim house.
01:02There was a difficult situation in which, despite the fact that it is a Halal thing,
01:08but because it was strongly disliked, there was a voice coming from somewhere.
01:12Now, the Ulema and Muftis are facing it every day, morning and evening.
01:17And surely, the Ulema also feel sad when such a problem comes to the Muftis.
01:23Now, I have a question for Mufti Muhammad Sohail Azamzadeh Sahib.
01:27Mufti Sahib, why was this divorce initiated?
01:29Is this a favoured action by anyone?
01:32There is a shortage of time.
01:38And I want everyone's turn to come.
01:42It should be very good. Everyone's opinion should come.
01:44On one hand, we see that in today's modern era,
01:50we talk about relationships.
01:53We don't want to get married.
01:55We live on relationships.
01:57And after some time, if the heart wants, then we will get married.
02:01And if the heart does not want, then we will separate.
02:07On the other hand, we see that in the case of Christians,
02:14they were so fed up that divorce was declared forbidden.
02:21Once you get married, then you should live with them.
02:26Now, whether they want it or not, they cannot separate.
02:31Islam did not do this.
02:33Islam did not give the order to move forward with moderation,
02:38nor did it give the order to move backward with moderation.
02:42It also said that marriage is a bond between a husband and a wife.
02:48Both are bound to each other.
02:53If they do not want to live with each other,
02:58if the husband does not like the wife, or the wife does not like the husband,
03:02the point is that their car can no longer run.
03:09If they live together, they will harm each other.
03:12For this, the Shariah has declared divorce.
03:16If a divorce is given, or if the wife divorces,
03:19then in this case, there can be a separation between the two.
03:24Remember that Prophet Muhammad said,
03:28In the eyes of Allah,
03:31there is nothing more desirable than to free a slave.
03:39There is nothing more desirable than divorce.
03:43The most desirable among the lawful things is divorce.
03:47And when Satan sets up a throne,
03:49he asks all the servants,
03:52One says, I have committed such and such a sin.
03:56No problem.
03:57The other says, I have created a separation between a husband and a wife.
04:01Did you do this?
04:03Tell us, what is this in Jamarat?
04:06So that the big stones are thrown at him.
04:09This is called divorce.
04:10Mufti Hassan Naveed Niazi,
04:11I want a definition of the categories of divorce.
04:15In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
04:17Peace be upon the Beloved, Muhammad and his family and companions.
04:19There are different categories of divorce.
04:21In terms of time,
04:23in terms of quantity,
04:25in terms of order,
04:27in terms of method and condition,
04:29in terms of words,
04:31in terms of whether it is going to happen or not.
04:35There is not enough time to explain all of this.
04:38Just tell us briefly.
04:39I will briefly explain the broad category.
04:43Divorce is divided according to the order.
04:45Divorce is divided into three categories.
04:47One is called Talaq-e-Raj'i.
04:49One is called Talaq-e-Bain.
04:51And one is called Talaq-e-Mughallaz.
04:53Talaq-e-Raj'i means the divorce after which there is permission to return.
04:58There is permission to return.
05:00There is no need for a separate Nikah.
05:02Talaq-e-Raj'i is the divorce in which there is divorce through clear words.
05:07Clear words means very clear words.
05:10Those words that have been promised for divorce.
05:13Like the word Talaq.
05:15The wife said that you have been divorced.
05:17Or I have divorced you.
05:19If you say such words once,
05:21then one Talaq-e-Raj'i will take place.
05:23If you say twice, then two Talaq-e-Raj'i will take place.
05:25The order of Talaq-e-Raj'i is that
05:27after the divorce,
05:29the husband is allowed to return within the period.
05:32That return can be through words.
05:34That return can also be through actions.
05:36It can also be through actions.
05:38And there is no need for a separate Nikah.
05:40But if the period has passed,
05:42after the period has passed,
05:44this Talaq will be converted into Talaq-e-Bain.
05:46Now if you want to return,
05:48then you will have to do Asar-e-Nau Nikah.
05:50You will have to do Tajeed-e-Nikah.
05:52Without Tajeed-e-Nikah,
05:54you cannot return after the period has passed.
05:56You can return within the period.
05:58So this is Talaq-e-Raj'i.
06:00Talaq-e-Bain is that
06:02divorce has been given,
06:04but with such words that
06:06those are not clear words,
06:08but they are clear words.
06:10They are round words.
06:12They are used for divorce
06:14as well as for non-divorce.
06:16Their linguistic meaning
06:18is different,
06:20but they are used for divorce as well.
06:22Those words are called round words.
06:24With these words,
06:26the condition for Talaq is
06:28that either the husband's intention
06:30is to give Talaq,
06:32or there is a situation
06:34that is indicating Talaq,
06:36through which Talaq is being understood.
06:38That is, there is a situation
06:40where Talaq is being discussed.
06:42These words,
06:44are Talaq-e-Bain.
06:46Bain means to separate.
06:48With this Talaq,
06:50the wife leaves the Nikah immediately.
06:52She cannot return.
06:54If she has to return,
06:56she will have to do Nikah.
06:58There is no need for Halal,
07:00but there is a need for Nikah.
07:02And if the clear words
07:04are used in detail,
07:06like Talaq,
07:08or Talaq,
07:10or Talaq,
07:12then Talaq-e-Bain is used.
07:14And Talaq-e-Mughalaz is the last one.
07:16There are three Talaqs,
07:18whether it is given in one sitting
07:20or after that,
07:22it is called Talaq-e-Mughalaz.
07:24After Talaq-e-Mughalaz,
07:26there is no permission to return.
07:28Now, if she has to return,
07:30she will have to do Nikah,
07:32and apart from Nikah,
07:34there is no permission to return.
07:36We will take a break here,
07:38and after the break,
07:40we will take the opinion
07:42of Doctor and Maulana.
08:04Welcome to our show.
08:06We have with us
08:08Professor Dr. Muhammad Ahmed Qadri.
08:10What are the reasons
08:12for divorce?
08:14What are the reasons
08:16for divorce?
08:18I seek refuge with Allah
08:20from the accursed Satan.
08:22In the name of Allah,
08:24the Most Gracious, the Ever Merciful.
08:26May peace and blessings of Allah be upon
08:28His Beloved, the Best of all Creation.
08:30O my Lord, grant us success
08:32in the path of Your mercy.
08:34When a person's mental balance
08:36is disturbed,
08:38then he takes the path of divorce.
08:40He leaves the negotiation.
08:42A person becomes mentally ill
08:44in a state of intolerance,
08:46whether he is a man or a woman.
08:48It is good that you explained
08:50whether he is a man or a woman.
08:52I am not blaming men or women.
08:54Islam is not for women or men.
08:56Islam is for humanity.
08:58In such a state,
09:00if there is a desire to become a millionaire
09:02in one night,
09:04relationships become weak.
09:06When a man or a woman
09:08does not pay attention
09:10to their family,
09:12the consequences are very dangerous.
09:14Psychologists have written a lot.
09:16Psychologists are different.
09:18But my master,
09:20Tajdar-e-Madina,
09:22has written about family,
09:24about women,
09:26about men.
09:28He has written about homo-psychology.
09:32The main reason is
09:34that there is a communication gap.
09:36A woman's distance from Shariah
09:38or a man's distance from Shariah
09:40I am only talking about signs.
09:44The biggest thing is
09:46that if she cannot keep
09:48the limits of Allah,
09:50and if she goes beyond the limits of Allah,
09:52then the results are the same
09:54as in the case of divorce.
09:56In today's era,
09:58which is called the era of tribulation,
10:00which was indicated by
10:02Allama Jadid and Allama Hassan Niazi,
10:04especially Allama Jadid said
10:06that Christianity,
10:08especially the big people,
10:10whether they are Catholic,
10:12Mormon,
10:14or Protestant,
10:16they have highlighted the issue
10:18of divorce.
10:20The biggest reason is
10:22the lack of trust between husband and wife.
10:24People get suspicious.
10:26People come and say
10:28that your husband was seen at this place.
10:30The woman believed him
10:32and started checking his mobile.
10:34She asked him to give her the password.
10:36He took out the password and started.
10:38Would the house have been saved
10:40from the password?
10:42The smart people will put
10:446 more passwords in it.
10:46She will make it open 6 by 6.
10:48There is one more thing left.
10:50I am not talking about everyone.
10:52Those ignorant saints
10:54have done the work.
10:56They said that the mother-in-law
10:58cast a spell on the daughter-in-law
11:00and the daughter-in-law cast a spell
11:02on the mother-in-law.
11:04Then there will be divorce
11:06because of such saints.
11:08We did not have faith in God.
11:10We had more faith in these ignorant saints.
11:12As a result, we did not find God.
11:14The scholar who stands
11:16in the society
11:18stands and sees
11:20and talks about all the scenarios
11:22of the society.
11:24This divorce
11:26in our society
11:28is considered
11:30a very common matter.
11:32Whether you understand it or not,
11:34divorce is given.
11:36I would also like to know
11:38about the era of the Prophet.
11:40How was the matter
11:42of divorce?
11:44If you had a case,
11:46how would you get angry?
11:48Now,
11:50the lawful thing
11:52is divorce.
11:54In lawful things,
11:56divorce is the most
11:58despised act of God.
12:00In the era of the Prophet,
12:02a person gave three divorces.
12:04Today,
12:06it has become a curse.
12:08It has become a means
12:10to remove anger
12:12or illness
12:14in the minds.
12:16Because of this,
12:18it is becoming so common
12:20that divorce is written
12:22on the form.
12:24In the era of the Prophet,
12:26a person gave three divorces.
12:28Because
12:30all the matters
12:32had to come to the Ummah
12:34from there.
12:36The Prophet said
12:42The face changed
12:44with the words of the Prophet.
12:46I am still present among you.
12:50So, this is the first thing
12:52about divorce.
12:54Secondly,
12:56when a man controls
12:58his hand
13:00and a woman controls
13:02her tongue,
13:04then all the matters
13:06are solved.
13:08Secondly,
13:10women need
13:12to read the Seerat-e-Tayyiba
13:14of the Prophet.
13:16Just like Fatima
13:18used to serve her mother-in-law,
13:20have we ever read
13:22her Seerat-e-Tayyiba?
13:24Just like she used to serve
13:26her mother,
13:28her mother-in-law,
13:30Fatima,
13:32is also serving her.
13:34Then,
13:36she never asked
13:38her husband for anything.
13:40When she asked for a reason,
13:42she said,
13:44it is possible that
13:46your husband does not have it.
13:48Allahu Akbar.
13:50Very good.
13:52Dear viewers,
13:54we will talk more
13:56during the break.
13:58Mufti Muhammad Sohail
14:00will answer your questions.
14:02But for now,
14:04we will take a break.
14:06You can call us during the break.
14:08We will answer your questions.
14:30Welcome.
14:32We will start with a caller
14:34and then we will move to the message.
14:36Assalam-o-Alaikum.
14:38Assalam-o-Alaikum.
14:40What is your question?
14:42My question is that
14:44I do not have a child.
14:46I do not have a husband.
14:48I do not have any money.
14:50How much money do you have?
14:52Do you have money?
14:54Mufti sahib,
14:56please explain it to us.
14:58We have another caller with us.
15:00Assalam-o-Alaikum.
15:02Assalam-o-Alaikum.
15:04Assalam-o-Alaikum.
15:06I wanted to ask
15:08what are these stones in my mother's stomach?
15:10Your question has just been written.
15:12We will come to the answer.
15:14Mufti sahib,
15:16what message will you give to the society?
15:18Divorce is increasing in Pakistan.
15:20We have a lot of women here.
15:22They are our sisters.
15:24Sometimes,
15:26they come in a hurry.
15:28They come in anger.
15:30They ask for divorce
15:32from their husbands.
15:34They ask for divorce.
15:36They want to be separated from their husbands.
15:38They say that
15:40if a woman had the right to divorce,
15:42she would get divorced 10 times a day.
15:44Sometimes, she gets emotional.
15:46Some sisters are not like this.
15:48They are very stubborn.
15:50Anyway,
15:52a woman has been given the right to divorce.
15:54I will tell my sisters
15:56to listen to this hadith.
15:58A woman who
16:00asks for divorce
16:02from her husband
16:04without any justification,
16:06the fragrance of paradise
16:08is forbidden on her.
16:10This is what Prophet Muhammad
16:12has said.
16:14These brothers of ours
16:16who claim that
16:18if they get a divorce,
16:20they blackmail their wives
16:22to get a divorce.
16:24They also blackmail their fathers.
16:26I say that
16:28they are getting rid of
16:30the mercy of Allah.
16:32You married a girl.
16:34You married her wife.
16:36Don't you feel ashamed?
16:38The responsibility of non-nafqa
16:40is on you, not on your wife.
16:42So, be a human.
16:44And try to fulfill
16:46your wife's non-nafqa
16:48according to your ability.
16:50And don't threaten to divorce.
16:52There are arguments.
16:54But don't threaten
16:56to divorce.
16:58Divorce happens
17:00when a person
17:02is angry.
17:04Divorce happens
17:06when a person
17:08is angry.
17:10Do you remember
17:12a caller
17:14who shared her story
17:16with us?
17:18She said that her parents
17:20are very old
17:22and they fight a lot.
17:24These people
17:26live together all their lives.
17:28But they don't fight.
17:30What message do you have for them?
17:32If you have to divorce,
17:34you should not
17:36give three divorces at once.
17:38Some people think that
17:40you can't divorce until
17:42three divorces are not given.
17:44So, correct your view.
17:46You should not give three divorces at once.
17:48Giving three divorces at once
17:50is a sin.
17:52Divorce will happen.
17:54If you give three divorces,
17:56it won't mean that it didn't happen.
17:58Divorce will happen.
18:00But it is a sin.
18:02It is not allowed.
18:04If you have to divorce,
18:06the best way is
18:08to give one divorce
18:10to a pure woman
18:12who doesn't have
18:14a marital relationship.
18:16You have the option of
18:18turning back.
18:20If you don't do it,
18:22the divorce will be converted
18:24and she will leave the marriage.
18:26This is the best way.
18:28This is the best way.
18:30Giving three divorces at once
18:32is a sin.
18:34Divorce during impurity
18:36is also a sin.
18:38Divorce will happen,
18:40but it is not allowed.
18:42So, adopt the best way.
18:44Doctor, what is your message?
18:46My message is simple.
18:48If you have married with love,
18:50it is not because
18:52you have to divorce her.
18:54It is not because
18:56you have to go to the court
18:58and kill the character
19:00of your daughter
19:02and put the blame
19:04on that woman
19:06according to a set formula.
19:08If you have to divorce,
19:10then do it in the best way.
19:12Because the Prophet
19:14has given the principle.
19:16Thirdly,
19:18why should you go to divorce?
19:20Try to sit with her
19:22because
19:24Satan is the one
19:26who increases hatred and distance.
19:28He is your open enemy.
19:30Why do you let him come closer?
19:32If you love God,
19:34love the Prophet,
19:36read the religion,
19:38understand the Quran,
19:40then there will be no divorce.
19:42There are misunderstandings.
19:44Their solution is
19:46to sit together and talk.
19:48Stay away from those people
19:50who spread hatred.
19:52Go to those people
19:54who save each other.
19:56Maulana, what is your message?
19:58First of all,
20:00jealousy destroys a person
20:02and puts him in a position
20:04where he cannot imagine.
20:06One should hide his happiness.
20:08The happiness of husband and wife,
20:10mutual talks, blessings,
20:12try to hide them 100%.
20:14On Snapchat
20:16or other social media platforms,
20:18don't share it.
20:20Stay away from it,
20:22especially those who are giving blessings.
20:24Our sister also said that
20:26Dastar Khan is right.
20:28Those who are eating outside,
20:30they are sharing menus.
20:32Secondly,
20:34I wish we could understand
20:36the sermon of Nikah.
20:38We have put this teaching
20:40to the scholars.
20:42It is not our job.
20:44It is for the sake of Allah.
20:46In the sermon of Nikah,
20:48Maulana Kareem used to
20:50mention Taqwa five times.
20:52Taqwa means
20:54not to look at each other's shortcomings
20:56but to look at our shortcomings
20:58and to look at each other's goodness.
21:00When we understand the message
21:02of the sermon of Nikah,
21:04things will be solved by the grace of Allah.
21:06When we remember goodness,
21:08things will be solved by the grace of Allah.