Aired (March 9, 2025): Ano kaya ang maipapayo ni Allan Cayetano kay “Bryan” na sinaksak ang lalaking nanghipo umano sa kanyang ina? Panoorin ang video.
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00:00This is Kaitan in Action.
00:02Case to face, the confrontation.
00:05Here is the complainant, Jason.
00:09Meanwhile, the complainant is Brian.
00:14Welcome, Jason, Brian.
00:19On the one hand,
00:20you, Brian, because you said
00:22you love your mother so much
00:25that you didn't even think about it.
00:26So good.
00:27On the other hand,
00:28I was wondering why you didn't blame her right away.
00:31I hope the two of you know how blessed you are.
00:34You, if you shouldn't be in jail,
00:37you're already dead.
00:39Right?
00:40That's why I said you're already dead
00:42because I'm looking at it.
00:43If, for example, you just got a job,
00:46the first chance,
00:48like you said,
00:49you just got a bottle,
00:50that's why you're already right.
00:52So I think it's already dark.
00:54Maybe the first thing he did was to let go of the bottle.
00:58But if I only knew that's what he was going to do that night,
01:02I would have been able to defend myself.
01:04That's what I mean.
01:05When you defend yourself,
01:06usually, it's not just to hurt him.
01:08Of course, you're also going to punish him.
01:10Yes, because he's guilty.
01:11So that's what Brian means,
01:13that God loves you,
01:14he gave you a second chance.
01:16So let's go to the law first.
01:17First of all,
01:18there's only one excuse for a person
01:20when you use violence,
01:22which is self-defense.
01:24Maybe there's one exception.
01:25If you caught your wife
01:27hitting on someone,
01:29you killed the person,
01:31you won't be punished.
01:33That's the only exception in the law.
01:35Because the law recognizes
01:37that you might have lost yourself.
01:39Everything else in the law
01:41is just an excuse for violence
01:43when you defend yourself.
01:45So, assuming,
01:47he was raped,
01:48he was killed,
01:50our law is that you defend yourself.
01:52And you trust the law,
01:54you trust the authority
01:56to solve that.
01:57What's in Jason's mind
01:59is his life
02:01rather than revenge.
02:03So, Jason, let me ask you.
02:04Do you think Brian is sincere
02:06in asking for forgiveness?
02:08That's okay.
02:10So you believe that he's sincere in apologizing.
02:12Yes.
02:13But of course, there's damage to you.
02:15You lost your job,
02:16you got sick.
02:17Okay.
02:18One of his issues
02:19is that he really thinks
02:21that Jun...
02:22It's not true.
02:23It's not just not true.
02:24He thinks that's what makes you angry.
02:26Maybe.
02:27Because we also had an issue, right?
02:29We did have an issue back then.
02:31But I proved it to him
02:33that he was wrong.
02:36Let's not complicate things.
02:37Because if he has a relationship with Jun
02:40and you have a problem...
02:42No, I don't have a problem.
02:43No, I mean, he's already out there.
02:45His point is
02:46don't cover it up.
02:48Okay.
02:49Brian,
02:50if you have a job,
02:52I'll tell you to pay for it.
02:54But are you still studying?
02:55No, I stopped.
02:57Okay.
02:58Here's my deal to you.
02:59I'll give him his one month.
03:02But you'll study.
03:03Yes.
03:04I'll really go back to my office.
03:05That's why.
03:06Your main job is to study.
03:09Because we can't just help
03:12and you'll just apologize.
03:14You won't apologize
03:15if you think you're right.
03:17If you think you're right,
03:18you'll get mad
03:19if you think you're wrong.
03:20But it's wrong
03:21if your reaction is wrong.
03:23Right?
03:24Okay.
03:25This is where I'll add
03:26an element of the law.
03:27You said that in the barangay,
03:28you're being signed.
03:30What you can forgive
03:32is the civil liability.
03:35Yes.
03:36So when you did something bad to him,
03:39you have two liabilities,
03:40criminal and civil.
03:44What's the difference?
03:46The civil liability is the damage,
03:48the fact that he wasn't able to enter,
03:49the medical expenses.
03:51The criminal liability
03:52is your debt to the society
03:54that you did something illegal.
03:56There are things that you did illegally
03:58that only the complainant
04:00can complain about.
04:01For example,
04:02if I said that Jason libeled me,
04:05I'm the only one who can demand that.
04:07The police can't demand that.
04:09But for example,
04:10you hit me in public.
04:12I'm not the only one who got hurt.
04:14The peace and order got hurt
04:16because we got into a fight.
04:17We got into a fight.
04:18Theoretically,
04:20you and the barangay
04:21can't forgive Brian.
04:25You can sue Brian.
04:27But there's a complication.
04:28The liability is different.
04:30You can't prove it.
04:31Yes.
04:32So of course,
04:33if the barangay says
04:34and Jason says,
04:35no one will testify.
04:37So you'll just get fired.
04:40So in the law,
04:41that's a practical aspect.
04:43And of course,
04:44for people like you,
04:45who among us
04:46wants to go to jail
04:47even if it's just for 5 years?
04:49When you get out,
04:50especially if you didn't study,
04:52if your heart is hard,
04:54if something bad happened,
04:56if you were taught wrongly in jail,
04:58no one will benefit, right?
05:01Yes.
05:02To our fellow countrymen,
05:04especially to the barangay,
05:06don't drink when you can't.
05:09Yes.
05:10There's no excuse in the law
05:12that you drank.
05:13If you're going to drink,
05:15you need to be able to handle your anger, etc.
05:18What's your dream, Brian?
05:21Police.
05:22Police.
05:23I hope 10 years from now,
05:26you'll be our guest again,
05:28you'll be in uniform,
05:30and your example will be good.
05:32I hope that's the purpose here.
05:35To you, Jason,
05:36we'll help you.
05:37What's your job?
05:38I'm a teacher.
05:40If you're going to take a test
05:42and you're going to have a skill,
05:44for 15 years,
05:45it's easy to become 20 or 30.
05:47It increases.
05:48I hope that we won't just be able to help with the law.
05:51The word we use,
05:52there's a transformation.
05:54When you go here,
05:55there's a change happening.
05:56Mark, Matt,
05:57what are your observations?
05:59I'll just add,
06:00for the benefit of the viewers,
06:04because usually,
06:05I always say that I have a dark perspective.
06:08So in our law,
06:10the closest thing to a dark perspective,
06:13we call it passion or obfuscation.
06:16It's not exempting,
06:17it's not justifying,
06:19it's just mitigating.
06:20So you're still liable for what you did,
06:22but the penalty will be reduced.
06:26So for example,
06:27in front of you,
06:28your mother sat down,
06:30you pushed her.
06:32He's saying that the penalty will be reduced
06:34because the law recognizes
06:36that your anger is emotional.
06:39But for example,
06:40one week later,
06:42you were asked.
06:44It's not an excuse
06:45because the law is assuming
06:48that you're more than what you are.
06:51Maybe to add,
06:53you pointed out this earlier in the interview,
06:56when did the snoring happen
06:59and the sobbing.
07:01So the time element is important.
07:03It's important that the action you took
07:06to defend another person or yourself
07:09is close to what happened.
07:12The allegation,
07:13October of last year,
07:14February of last year.
07:16So in whatever angle we look at it,
07:19whether it's justifying,
07:21self-defense of relative or stranger,
07:23or a dark perspective,
07:25it doesn't modify the circumstance
07:29or the level of liability.
07:31So whatever you did,
07:33that's how it is.
07:34We can't consider
07:36those kinds of situations.
07:38In October,
07:39the snoring happened.
07:42But it was just told to me now.
07:45So isn't that admissible,
07:48for example,
07:49in court,
07:50that my reaction
07:51is based on now.
07:53Now, it was told to me
07:55that my mother was snored.
07:56But the story I told you,
08:00you have a duty to know
08:02if it's true or not, right?
08:04To the point of what is true,
08:07when Brian's mother said
08:10that she was snored,
08:12as opposed to the testimony
08:15of Jason,
08:17where he said,
08:18it was just told.
08:19How important is the testimony
08:21of the woman in this case,
08:23where she said,
08:24I was snored.
08:25I was violated.
08:26Of all the allegations of crime,
08:30of snoring,
08:32of assault,
08:33of abuse,
08:34or even physical,
08:36the problem all throughout history
08:39was the saying,
08:41only the two of you know.
08:44So that's the problem
08:46in the matter of evidence.
08:49So having said that,
08:51the problem is
08:52when you take the law
08:55into your own hands,
08:56the issue is gone.
08:58So if what Brian did,
09:00his mother talked to him,
09:01or he went straight to the barangay,
09:03and he didn't accept
09:05that it wasn't solved,
09:07Jason should be called.
09:09If I was in Brian's position,
09:12drunk,
09:14confirmed by the drunk
09:16that your mother snored
09:19last October,
09:20my personal reaction,
09:23I would probably be very angry.
09:25Even if you give me a week,
09:26two weeks,
09:27two months,
09:28until I don't see the abuse,
09:31until I can't recover,
09:33I won't stop.
09:35What is that?
09:36But what's in the law?
09:37In the law,
09:39you're not the one who's going to take the blame.
09:41You're going to take the blame,
09:42and you're going to let it go.
09:44So Mr. Alan,
09:45what can we do to them?
09:47As we also honor
09:49your apology,
09:51we'll take care of you,
09:52you'll go to school,
09:54and basically,
09:56instead of giving you permission to go to school,
09:59we'll take care of Jason's one month.
10:02Right?
10:03As for you, Jason,
10:05you're in charge of repairing everything.
10:07You're the captain's friend,
10:09you'll take care of his mother,
10:10if she doesn't believe you,
10:11sorry.
10:12Right?
10:13And then,
10:14we'll make sure
10:15there's no trouble in your place.
10:18Right?
10:19You know Brian,
10:20when you're young,
10:21everything seems like
10:24you're a fighter,
10:25you're in a hurry,
10:26it's a waste.
10:27But when you get older,
10:28you'll see how valuable time is
10:30when you're young.
10:32So I hope
10:33this will be a good lesson
10:34to use wisely.
10:36Thank you very much
10:37to the two of you.
10:39Brian,
10:40continue to love your mother,
10:42and I hope you can use the right expression.
10:46How will you love your mother?
10:48I'll do everything I can.
10:49I can do it.
10:50I want to be a policeman.
10:51Yes, right?
10:52Study.
10:53Do whatever you can
10:54to get closer to your dream
10:57to serve and love your mother.
11:02Don't leave
11:04because the...
11:07Captain of the barangay
11:09Captain of the barangay
11:11Captain of the barangay
11:14In front of the barangay captain,
11:16Brian finally gave to Jason
11:18the 15,000 pesos
11:20as damages to Jason's hospital expenses.
11:23This is an important step
11:25towards fixing their complaint.
11:28Today,
11:30our complainant,
11:32Jason Sibelieja,
11:34and the respondent, Brian,
11:35are facing each other again
11:37to fix our office.
11:39And luckily,
11:41we were able to settle their problem today
11:44and Brian was able to pay
11:46the 15,000 pesos as damages.
11:51That's why Jason
11:54won't be able to file a complaint
11:56against him
11:57for what Brian did to him.
12:00But it wasn't just the financial issue
12:02that was resolved by the program
12:04because the C.I.A. with B.A. team
12:06accompanied Brian
12:07to Trinidad-Texas Elementary School
12:09to learn about the process
12:11of joining the Alternative Learning System
12:13or ALS.
12:14He was given an enrollment form
12:16if he wants to continue his studies.
12:18He can join next school year,
12:20beginning June 20, 2025.
12:22He just needs
12:24the enrollment form
12:26which is okay.
12:27We gave it to him.
12:28With the help of the barangay
12:29and the C.I.A. in action with Boyabunda,
12:32not only was justice given to Jason,
12:35but also a new hope was opened.