Aired (February 9, 2025): Ayon kay “Dayday,” noong magkaroon siya ng sakit na breast cancer habang siya ay nasa ibang bansa, nakatanggap siya ng tulong pinansiyal mula sa OWWA, ngunit hindi ito nakarating sa kanya dahil kinuha ito ng kanyang asawa. May legal na aksyon nga ba para rito? Panoorin ang video.
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00:11We have with us, Dy-Dy.
00:13Dy-Dy, you've been here in Hong Kong for a long time.
00:15Yes, I have.
00:17And your family is in Pampanga and Paranaque?
00:20Yes.
00:21And your mother is watching.
00:22Yes, she idolizes you.
00:24Mother Lourdes, you are the first person Dy-Dy mentioned.
00:28I hope we can help, not just your family, but all Filipinos.
00:33Thank you for your love and loyalty, Mother Lourdes.
00:37So, Dy-Dy, what happened to you?
00:39On December 29, 2020, I underwent an operation on Queen Elizabeth.
00:45I was diagnosed with left breast cancer, stage 3C.
00:51My doctor told me that in a few days, I would be going to Hukay.
00:55I am still thankful to God that I was saved.
00:58I told my father.
00:59Your father was very supportive.
01:00Yes.
01:01Because of the pandemic, I couldn't just go to the hospital or the clinic.
01:07But you had a problem because you were getting assistance from OAH?
01:10Yes.
01:12I went to OAH.
01:13I was in social justice at the time.
01:15I asked for my medical records.
01:18They took it and gave it to me.
01:19They said they would forward it to the Philippines after three weeks.
01:24I got the authorization letter that I wrote to my husband.
01:28And then what happened after that?
01:29Yes.
01:31There was no notice from you that you were denied or that you weren't coming?
01:35None.
01:36But OAH has a record, of course, because you are a member.
01:39So, they have your address to the employer.
01:42Did they get your cell phone?
01:43Yes, they did.
01:44That was in 2020.
01:46When I underwent an operation?
01:47Yes.
01:47So, in 2021?
01:492021.
01:50Yes.
01:51Thank you to the DMW.
01:53Because of cancer patients, the DMW gave me a subsidy.
01:59And because I was scheduled to undergo a thyroid operation on January 8,
02:03I submitted my medical records to the DMW.
02:07And thank God, I got a grant.
02:09I thought to myself,
02:10my medical records were approved by the DMW.
02:14How come I wasn't accepted by OAH?
02:17According to my husband,
02:18there was no call and no receipt.
02:21So, I went to OAH.
02:23I was crying and crying.
02:25I was paralyzed.
02:27All of my hair fell back.
02:28Why?
02:29I was missing.
02:30I was not receiving financial assistance.
02:33That's what I said.
02:34When I went there again,
02:35I called my husband and asked if there was a call.
02:39He said there was none.
02:40So, I went to OAH again.
02:42On December 17, OAH Hong Kong called me.
02:45I replied to OAH Region 2.
02:48They said,
02:50Moises Valenciano received 2021.
02:54I was shocked.
02:56How come 2021?
02:58I received nothing.
02:59I didn't receive anything.
03:01No one reached out to me.
03:03I was the only one who was accepted.
03:05It's like I was embarrassed and hurt at the same time.
03:09My question is,
03:10what assurance or legal action should I take
03:15to my husband that he can't sell my conjugal property?
03:20We got married recently.
03:21When did you get married?
03:22Do you remember?
03:23June 28, 2019.
03:26If you got married in 2019,
03:29it's called absolute property.
03:31It means that what's yours is his and what's his is yours.
03:36Let's talk about OAH.
03:39I'll go first.
03:40Let's talk about your husband's rights.
03:43First of all, you're right about those two things.
03:46Yes, sir.
03:46But I want to emphasize,
03:48the first use of a husband's property is your support.
03:53If he's sick or you're sick,
03:56you can't say,
03:57I don't want to sell it.
03:58I'll drive first, but you're sick.
04:01It goes to the support.
04:03That property is yours.
04:05And in the law, there's a hierarchy.
04:07The higher one is your husband's support.
04:10Okay, let's do it first.
04:12Let's ask the LTO,
04:15if the property is yours,
04:18because that's called notice.
04:21If there's a notice from a person
04:23that it's not his or he has a partner
04:25and you bought it,
04:26it's bad faith, you can get it back.
04:28Okay.
04:28But if there's no notice from him,
04:30of course, he doesn't know.
04:32But if it's in the register or in the title,
04:34that's called notice to the whole world.
04:36Oh.
04:37Right?
04:37So, if I look at this house,
04:39it's beautiful.
04:40If I talk to Atty. Ruff or Atty. Matt,
04:42I'll buy this because they're there.
04:44If I don't look at the title,
04:46and it's in the title of Day-Day,
04:48you can chase me.
04:50Because that's a notice to the whole world.
04:53But of course, Day,
04:54it's going to come back and back
04:55when you talk to your two spouses.
04:58Yes.
04:59But I really am grateful that you
05:02shared your experience.
05:03I cannot say I understand
05:05or I know how you feel because
05:08you're here, your family is here,
05:10you got cancer, you're that bad,
05:12you're on stage three.
05:13I'm so sad that I didn't go home
05:17to get treatment.
05:18Oh, God,
05:20my hair is back.
05:22Day,
05:24we want to be of help.
05:25So, as we said,
05:26this is a big help to others
05:28that they listened to your experience,
05:30they stood up for you.
05:31That's the most important thing,
05:32what you said,
05:33to have faith in the Lord
05:34as you fight.
05:35So, Atty. Matt and Atty. Ruff
05:37will continue talking
05:39to see how we can help.
05:41And of course, we pray that
05:42you'll have a good conversation
05:44with your spouses, right?
05:46If you can talk to her.
05:49What's your first name?
05:51Moises.
05:52Brother Moises,
05:53Day Day has something to say to you.
05:56For me,
05:58not only is 40,000 the value of love,
06:01right?
06:01And trust.
06:03We can earn 40,000
06:06if you're strong,
06:08you don't have a disease,
06:09like me, I already have a disease,
06:10I was desperate not to go home to the Philippines
06:12to get treatment here.
06:14And then, 40,000 is the value,
06:16even if I'm going to die,
06:17I still have to use it.
06:19Despite all of that,
06:21you're willing to forgive.
06:22Just fix it.
06:23Yes, because
06:24I said to my husband,
06:27let's make up.
06:29I'm not mad anymore.
06:30But because I was hurt,
06:31it's still there.
06:33Brother Moises,
06:34we're not judging,
06:35that's between you and Day Day,
06:37but you heard,
06:38you heard the love,
06:40so,
06:41we're here to help,
06:43we're here to be a bridge,
06:44but also to pray
06:46that you'll fix it properly, okay?
06:48And we have a small thank you,
06:50we have a small gift for you.
06:51Thank you so much.
06:53And if it's not enough,
06:55let me know.
06:55I hope you can buy it.
06:58Because,
06:59Day,
07:00for all that you've been through,
07:03we're blessed to say,
07:05you deserve what you need,
07:06you'll get it.
07:08God bless you.
07:09God bless you.
07:14Even if Day Day has been through a lot,
07:16we can learn from it,
07:18and I hope this will be a guide,
07:21especially for the newlyweds,
07:23who will be abroad, right?
07:25Let's make up for their sacrifice and love.
07:28We'll be right back with
07:29Tano in Action with Boy Abunda.
07:33Our action towards Day Day continues.
07:36Even in Hong Kong,
07:38she received a post-mastectomy prosthesis
07:41and prosthesis bra
07:42to make her right breast look more normal
07:45even if it's already been operated on.
07:47And in Tano in Action,
07:49we also pray for your continued well-being,
07:52Mother Day Day.
07:54Oh my, oh my.
07:55Thank you so much.