Aired (January 4, 2025): Session 5 - In Aid of Attraction: Magkaibigan o Magka-ibigan? Posible nga bang maging "friends lang" ang isang babae at lalaki? Baka naman abangers lang si kuya? O nagpapakipot lang si ate? Si Paolo Contis ang iimbestigahan tungkol dito sa unang session ng 2025 sa Your Honor. #YourHonor #YouLOLYourHonor #YouLOLOriginals
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00:00Can a man and a woman really be friends without a mistake?
00:06Of course not!
00:07It's a fact, right?
00:08You type a woman and she wants to be friends with you.
00:10We'll wait for a day and you'll give it to her.
00:12Or is it just you?
00:13No, it's all of us.
00:14I'll split it in half.
00:15All of us in Showbiz.
00:16How disgusting is the term that we're always saying?
00:19We're just friends.
00:20Ten!
00:21Ten being really disgusting?
00:22It's really disgusting.
00:23You know who's the one who's denying it?
00:25Here, I'll do it one by one.
00:26Paul, let's talk about exes.
00:28What do you call money in Japan?
00:31Can you be friends with your exes?
00:33I don't believe that exes should be friends unless you actually have reasons to be.
00:38I will never speak ill against anyone.
00:40But, I never fight.
00:41Never.
00:43Hearing is now in session in 3, 2, 1.
00:57Order!
00:58Order in the court!
00:59Order!
01:01Order!
01:02What did you order, Your Honor?
01:04Two weng-weng, one kailawin.
01:05Okay.
01:06Second Honor?
01:07Wait a minute.
01:08Our waiter is a bit rude.
01:10He's still ordering.
01:11He doesn't care about you.
01:13Okay, everyone.
01:14Please rise for your honor.
01:16Madam Chair, Tuesday Vargas.
01:18Thank you so much.
01:20And everybody, please sit down for your second honor, Mr. Vice Chair Buboy Villar.
01:24Sit down.
01:26That's why our waiter is a bit rude.
01:28He's mad at me.
01:30Okay.
01:31Welcome to our hearing here in the House of Honorables.
01:35This is the craziest hearing in the history of the country.
01:38And this is not just a hearing.
01:40It's a vodka spa.
01:41This is
01:42Your Honor!
01:44Good day to all of you.
01:46You can watch us exclusively on the YULOL channel on YouTube.
01:50You can also listen to us on Spotify.
01:52We are also live-streaming on our fresh episodes on YULOL.
01:55That's right.
01:56Mr. Vice Chair, you're very good at that.
01:58Chikahan, chismisan, investigasyon, debate.
02:01All of those are what you will learn here in Your Honor.
02:04And today, we will investigate the issue,
02:08Can a man and a woman really be friends without any mistakes?
02:16I'm sure you have different opinions on that.
02:19So if you have a comment, question, and violent reaction,
02:23just comment down below.
02:25Just post your answers in the comment section.
02:27Yes, we really want that.
02:29Type away, my friends.
02:30And to help us solve this issue,
02:33we invited a very talented actor.
02:36Actually, he anticipated this.
02:38Because of a lot of things that happened.
02:40Actually, he arrived.
02:41He just arrived earlier.
02:42He was the first one.
02:43Right away?
02:44Yes.
02:45He arrived here in our show as a friend.
02:48Please welcome, Paolo Contis!
02:53Hi, Pao!
02:54Hi, Pao!
02:55How are you, Pao?
02:56Hi, guys.
02:57Before anything else, may I have your oath, please?
03:01Raise your right hand, Paolo.
03:03Do you swear to tell the truth?
03:05Look, I'm getting confused.
03:07Because he's saying that he won't tell the truth.
03:10He won't tell the truth.
03:12Don't ask anymore.
03:13Don't ask anymore? Okay.
03:14Do you swear to tell the truth?
03:15The whole truth and nothing but the truth.
03:17So help yourself.
03:18Of course not.
03:21And I accept that.
03:24I won't be caught.
03:25Right?
03:26Not all of our guests can be truthful.
03:28Sometimes, we can be liars as well.
03:30Okay.
03:31But speaking of lies,
03:32for your opening statement,
03:37from 1 to 10,
03:39you'll be pushed to the showbiz.
03:42How harsh is the term that we always say,
03:45we're just friends?
03:4710!
03:4810 being harsh?
03:49That's harsh.
03:50Harsh, harsh, harsh.
03:52Do you know who's denying?
03:53Who?
03:54Here, I'll do it one by one.
03:56Are you ready?
03:58Are you ready?
03:59It's like we don't have a whisperer here.
04:01No, one by one.
04:03It's like he won't use the executive whisperer at all.
04:06Here in our showbiz.
04:08You know him.
04:09You've been friends and colleagues for a long time.
04:11He's my gym buddies.
04:12Yes.
04:13Bubuy's body is getting better.
04:14I don't know why.
04:16It's like he's preparing something.
04:18Okay.
04:19Let's go to the hot topic we're talking about.
04:22Is it okay, Paolo,
04:24for example, you're friends.
04:25You're just friends.
04:27He's not wrong.
04:28There's no direction
04:30in a boy-girl relationship.
04:32Personally, I don't believe in that.
04:34Why?
04:35Okay, qualify.
04:36Huh?
04:37Qualify.
04:38There's a lot to say.
04:39Go on.
04:40I'll think about it.
04:41I hope you'll sit down.
04:42Yes, I hope so.
04:43Yes, it's possible.
04:46No, no, no.
04:47It's a case-to-case.
04:48If it's a group.
04:49It's been a long time.
04:50It's been decades.
04:51It's a long time.
04:52It's a group that's always as a group.
04:54I think it's possible.
04:55It's a group.
04:56For me, a group is different.
04:58We're BG girls.
04:59We're charisma.
05:00We don't talk.
05:01We're friends.
05:02We're a group.
05:03But if it's a best friend,
05:04and it's opposite sex,
05:08it won't happen.
05:09It's not wrong.
05:10Why is that?
05:11Yes.
05:12Or is it just you?
05:13No, it's all of us.
05:14It's all of us.
05:15I'll split this.
05:16All of the guys.
05:18Well, 95 percent.
05:21Of the guys.
05:22Yes.
05:24Okay, let's do this.
05:25I said this earlier.
05:26Best friends are girls and guys.
05:28They're just best friends
05:30because it's clear to the girl.
05:32It's clear to the girl
05:34that we're just best friends.
05:36Ah, I get it.
05:37So the girl is the gatekeeper.
05:39Yes, the girl is the gatekeeper.
05:41I don't know all of them,
05:42but mostly all of them.
05:43Unless you have a partner or what.
05:45Maybe...
05:46Especially,
05:47I shouldn't have a female friend.
05:49Yes, you shouldn't have one.
05:50But it's impossible.
05:52Especially if it's a guy.
05:54Let's put it the other way around.
05:55For example,
05:56the girl is the one waiting
05:58for the stimulus from the guy.
06:00So for me, it's a girl.
06:02I have a friend,
06:03but I want to elevate
06:05or go to the next phase.
06:06I'm waiting for him.
06:07I'm the one opening the gate.
06:09What are you opening?
06:10The gate.
06:11Ah, okay.
06:12I'm making sure.
06:13What about the guy?
06:15He's not feeling anything.
06:17How do you handle that?
06:19Has that happened to you?
06:20A girl says,
06:22I don't want to be just friends.
06:24I want to take it to the next level.
06:26If the guy doesn't want it,
06:27it won't happen.
06:28Really?
06:29Of course.
06:30You're saying,
06:31take it to the next level.
06:32What?
06:33Yes.
06:34It will be a relationship.
06:35It won't happen
06:36if the guy doesn't want it.
06:37Unless,
06:38the girl wants
06:39something else.
06:40Other thing.
06:41Some other thing.
06:42Unless,
06:43the girl wants
06:44something purely physical,
06:45the guy will go for it.
06:47But if the guy
06:48doesn't want to be in a relationship,
06:50no matter how the girl feels,
06:51it won't happen.
06:52It won't happen.
06:53The guy won't court her.
06:54So there should be a mutual agreement.
06:56Yes.
06:57But what if
06:58she says,
07:00but it's beautiful.
07:01You want it.
07:02You want it too.
07:03It's beautiful.
07:04If the girl is beautiful
07:05or the guy is handsome,
07:06****.
07:11Let's be straightforward.
07:13They won't date anymore.
07:14They won't be friends anymore.
07:15They won't be friends anymore.
07:16They're all getting old.
07:18They won't be friends anymore.
07:20Oh,
07:21automatic.
07:22You know, automatic.
07:23Sorry,
07:24I didn't believe in friends.
07:26I didn't believe in that.
07:28It will change.
07:29Yes.
07:30The dynamics will change.
07:31Yes.
07:32But it's a trend.
07:33It's a trend, right?
07:34It's like...
07:35It's like a club, right?
07:36Yes.
07:37It's like friends with benefits.
07:39I didn't believe in that.
07:40If it's like that,
07:41it's a loss for the girl.
07:43Of course, ladies.
07:44Don't do that to yourselves.
07:45Yes, yes.
07:46And for some reason,
07:47we're in a time where
07:49equality,
07:50equal,
07:51blah, blah, blah.
07:52But up to that point,
07:54the feeling of the girl is,
07:56whatever the guy can do,
07:57we can do it, right?
07:58But I believe that
08:00when it comes to that,
08:01you're not equal
08:02because it's a loss for you,
08:03the girl.
08:04That's true.
08:05We have more vulnerabilities
08:06than the guy.
08:07Yes, yes.
08:08And we're also the ones
08:09who can do well.
08:10Correct.
08:11If it doesn't work out,
08:12something happens.
08:13Correct.
08:14We'll bring it.
08:15This is how it is.
08:16I'll tell you.
08:17Hey!
08:18This is not about me.
08:19Madam Chair.
08:20I thought this was about me.
08:21Can you calm down?
08:22It's like we're going
08:23in that direction.
08:24But,
08:25Paolo,
08:26when does it go wrong?
08:28What's the starting point?
08:30For example,
08:31you and I,
08:32we don't have anything.
08:33I'm sure you have
08:34platonic friends
08:36with the girls.
08:37But how does it cross?
08:39How does it push
08:40to the other side?
08:41How does it go wrong?
08:43Second chair,
08:44that's what I think.
08:45I hope so.
08:47No, no.
08:48I'll pass it to you.
08:49What is that,
08:50Your Honor?
08:51Wow!
08:52You know,
08:53it's hard for guys
08:54to deal with questions.
08:55No, okay.
08:56You, Madam Chair.
08:57What is it?
08:58It's emotional.
08:59Exactly.
09:00Like I said,
09:01mutual agreement,
09:02right?
09:03So, in the middle of a crowd
09:04like a bargada,
09:05for example,
09:06there's 20 of you,
09:07but you have two
09:08to understand.
09:09You'll go out
09:10in a circle
09:11and you'll talk.
09:12Correct.
09:13Then you're not friends.
09:14You're not friends.
09:15It goes wrong
09:16when there's
09:17a bouncing back
09:18of energy.
09:19For example,
09:20you emit
09:21flirty energy.
09:22You touched her.
09:23You touched her
09:24and she touched you.
09:25Then you're already
09:26touching her.
09:27That's a different story.
09:28The energy is reversed.
09:29Someone is flirting with you.
09:31Someone is flirting with me.
09:32Someone is flirting with you.
09:33Someone is flirting with you.
09:34Someone is flirting with you.
09:35You can see it
09:36in the audience.
09:37Flirting with the face
09:38is what they're doing.
09:39It's a good thing
09:40she's covering her face
09:41because flirting with the face
09:42is embarrassing.
09:43Yes.
09:44There's nothing
09:45wrong here
09:46in everything you said.
09:49I just asked the wrong question.
09:50We went to
09:51flirting with the face.
09:53It's my fault
09:54because those are my words.
09:55That's what I'm saying.
09:56She's just talking
09:57wrongly, Madam Chair.
09:58What is this?
09:59Let's go to the next one.
10:01We often hear
10:02in our world,
10:03in showbiz,
10:04from our fellow actors
10:06that if there's a rumored
10:07partner or lover,
10:09we're just friends.
10:11Do you think
10:12this person is telling the truth?
10:14Is this just to save the career?
10:16Or is there a career path
10:17that will be discredited
10:18if he confesses?
10:20What if there's already
10:21a relationship
10:22and you confess
10:23but you still don't want to?
10:25Is it true
10:26that we're just friends
10:27or it's just luck?
10:28Most of the time,
10:29it's just luck.
10:30But you have to
10:31understand also
10:32because we work
10:33in an industry
10:34where you have
10:36a lot of responsibilities
10:37to your bosses,
10:38to the network,
10:39and to the fans.
10:40So there are things
10:41that you really need
10:42to follow.
10:43And your partner,
10:44even if it's not
10:46your lover or whatever,
10:48you guys have to talk
10:49about it and understand
10:50the situation.
10:51It's true.
10:52Because of our career,
10:53there are two agreements.
10:55Personal agreement
10:56between the two of you
10:57and then the professional agreement.
10:58Yes.
10:59Because there are careers
11:00that will be affected.
11:01We're a bit
11:03moral.
11:05We're a bit loose.
11:06We're a bit loose.
11:07No, I mean,
11:08as an artist,
11:09we're a bit loose
11:10because we do a lot of things
11:11that normal people
11:12don't do.
11:14For example,
11:15love scenes,
11:16kissing scenes.
11:17There are things
11:18that we do
11:19that are cheating
11:20for normal people.
11:21Yes.
11:22So we're a bit loose
11:23in that.
11:24Are you close?
11:25For example,
11:26you have double nudity
11:27or you don't like this,
11:28you don't like that.
11:29Considering your partners.
11:30I don't have...
11:31I don't have...
11:32Offer.
11:33I don't have...
11:34I mean, I don't have...
11:35I have an offer
11:36but it's close open.
11:37Close open.
11:40So, to the producers,
11:41will Paolo agree
11:42to be close open?
11:44Because we're different.
11:45Do you have
11:46an offer like that?
11:48That's what I'm
11:49a bit dismayed about.
11:50No one's offering.
11:51You're the one offering
11:52and they don't want it.
11:53Please, get me
11:54an offer like that.
11:55If you see
11:56Buboy,
11:57he's a bulldog.
11:58Why?
12:00They say
12:01huskies have
12:02this kind of size.
12:03Yes,
12:04when they're walking.
12:08Sometimes,
12:09they have anatomy class.
12:11Yes,
12:12but that's for another podcast.
12:15That's for another podcast.
12:17It's a bit
12:18dangerous.
12:19It's hard
12:20to draw a line.
12:21Friendship,
12:22lovers,
12:23super close
12:24as long as there's
12:25understanding.
12:26But is it still possible
12:27that, for example,
12:28male-female relationship,
12:30we're just strictly friends.
12:32Is this still possible?
12:33Again,
12:34women will follow.
12:35Yes,
12:36if a woman wants it,
12:37and you want something else,
12:38is it still possible
12:39even if a man wants it?
12:40Yes,
12:41the man will agree.
12:42Why?
12:43Why will the man agree?
12:44Because
12:45we're waiting
12:46for one day
12:47you'll give it.
12:49That's true.
12:50Stop me.
12:51Don't do that.
12:52Of course,
12:53the comments here are
12:54like,
12:55Satan,
12:56don't do that.
12:57I'm not hypocritical.
12:59You're just saying it
13:00the way it is.
13:01It's a fact.
13:02Type a woman
13:03who wants to be friends.
13:04Okay,
13:05let's be friends.
13:06Right?
13:07Okay,
13:08let's be friends.
13:09So I can...
13:10Waiting in the wings.
13:11Yes,
13:12while waiting,
13:13why not?
13:14Right.
13:15I'll date someone else
13:16or I'll make friends
13:17with someone else.
13:18But once there's
13:19an opportunity,
13:20it will pass.
13:21Yes.
13:23I believe that
13:24girls should not
13:25be naive
13:26that
13:27we're just friends.
13:29So what should we do?
13:30What should we talk about?
13:31Boundaries?
13:32What should we do?
13:33What should we talk about?
13:34Again,
13:35boundaries.
13:36So we won't reach
13:37that level.
13:38That's important.
13:39I think
13:40it's hard to...
13:41Well,
13:42a man should
13:43because
13:44I'm not credible.
13:46I want him to admit it.
13:47No,
13:48I believe you.
13:49He really admitted it.
13:50No,
13:51you should always respect
13:52what a woman wants.
13:53Okay.
13:54At the end of the day.
13:55But,
13:56sadly,
13:57again,
13:58a lot of men
13:59have that style.
14:00Maybe as for me,
14:01I'm getting old already.
14:03So I know
14:04that I need to respect
14:05her boundaries.
14:06Now,
14:07a woman
14:08sets rules
14:09and boundaries
14:10for herself
14:11and she cannot be,
14:12again,
14:13naive
14:14that
14:15this is okay,
14:16this is okay.
14:17It's impossible.
14:18I have a question.
14:19I've been wanting to ask this
14:20for a long time
14:21even though we're off
14:22from our work.
14:23You have three girls,
14:25right?
14:26These three girls
14:27are beautiful,
14:28like your mothers
14:29and also the dad.
14:30There's also
14:31a half of humanity
14:32that's beautiful
14:33and that's from you.
14:34One day,
14:35there's someone
14:36who came to you
14:37and said,
14:38Tito Pao,
14:39my friend
14:40is...
14:41Oh my!
14:42Summer,
14:43for example.
14:44Is it okay
14:45if I come here
14:46once in a while?
14:47But knowing
14:48what you're thinking now
14:49that,
14:50Oh my!
14:51Waiting in the wings.
14:52I'll be waiting
14:53for an opportunity.
14:54Will the advice
14:55you're giving
14:56to our viewers
14:57apply
14:58to your own kids
14:59and your own blood?
15:00How will you handle it
15:01if one day
15:02your daughters
15:03come to you?
15:04It's gonna happen anyway.
15:05There's nothing I can do.
15:06Aren't you afraid, Pao,
15:07that they might
15:08get to know
15:09someone like you,
15:10Paolo?
15:11That's the number.
15:12Aren't you afraid?
15:14But every day
15:15you're praying for that.
15:16Are you alone?
15:17You're alone.
15:18You're alone.
15:19You're the only one.
15:20You're the only one
15:21Paolo Conte on earth.
15:22You're the only one
15:23Paolo Conte on earth.
15:24But what,
15:25how will you handle it?
15:26I'll beat you up.
15:27And you said,
15:28Hey, me!
15:29This is it.
15:30Let's talk like this.
15:31You mentioned the kids.
15:32The goal,
15:33me,
15:34as a person,
15:35ever since a month,
15:36the goal is to be
15:37a guy
15:38who you want
15:39to court
15:40your kids
15:41to be like you.
15:42So that's my goal.
15:43Sadly,
15:44I mean,
15:45you make mistakes
15:46but you're wrong.
15:47Now,
15:48I can say that
15:49if Paolo
15:5010 years ago
15:51or 15 years ago
15:52was the one
15:53who introduced me
15:54to myself,
15:55Oh my God!
15:56I'll beat him up.
15:57So,
15:58with that statement,
15:59are you saying,
16:00Paolo,
16:01that the Paolo now
16:02has changed immensely
16:03because of what
16:04happened to you?
16:05Oh no,
16:06it's an ongoing process.
16:07I cannot say I'm,
16:08but I'm,
16:09you're already
16:10in the process
16:11of changing.
16:12You already know
16:13your mistakes.
16:14You're already
16:15correcting your mistakes.
16:16You're already
16:17correcting your mistakes.
16:18I'm 40.
16:19So,
16:20it's necessary.
16:21I've seen you
16:22in most of the decades
16:23of your life.
16:24Since you were a kid.
16:25You're really
16:26a person.
16:27I really didn't
16:28fall into
16:29a trap
16:30or a situation.
16:31Why are you looking at me,
16:32Madam Chair?
16:33Because I'm really
16:34giving you
16:35this opportunity.
16:36Actually,
16:37I've accepted this,
16:38Madam Chair.
16:39You don't want to
16:40change,
16:41Mr. Vice-Chair?
16:42You're happy
16:43with that?
16:44So,
16:45this is just
16:46friends, right?
16:47Yes.
16:48It's really just
16:49friends, right?
16:50Of course.
16:51Those are just
16:52my friends.
16:53You know,
16:54your hair will
16:55burn while you're
16:56saying that.
16:57Don't
16:58continue.
16:59I'll put
17:00a spray net here.
17:01Yes,
17:02don't,
17:03don't,
17:04don't.
17:05So,
17:06the boundaries
17:07in talking,
17:08because it's hard,
17:09it's hard
17:10to set,
17:11especially when,
17:12for example,
17:13you didn't think
17:14it will lead to anything,
17:15and then it became
17:16something.
17:17I didn't do that.
17:18I got divorced
17:19right away.
17:20Ah,
17:21you made your
17:22intentions clear.
17:23Now,
17:24when we got
17:25divorced,
17:26that's when we
17:27became friends.
17:28So,
17:29the intention
17:30was to get to
17:31know you,
17:32and then not
17:33to be friends.
17:34Right?
17:35Not to be friends.
17:36Because,
17:37first of all,
17:38it's confusing
17:39for a woman.
17:40For a woman,
17:41yes.
17:42So,
17:43what was
17:44the intention?
17:45I'm courting you.
17:46It's not
17:47popular anymore,
17:48right?
17:49Friends,
17:50friends.
17:51So,
17:52it's confusing.
17:53People are
17:54confusing,
17:55right?
17:56Yes.
17:57So,
17:58in my time,
17:59in my time.
18:00Wow.
18:01Until now,
18:02I believe that
18:03your intention
18:04should be clear
18:05to begin with.
18:06So that everyone
18:07knows that
18:08I'm becoming
18:09your friend
18:10because I want
18:11it to be clear.
18:12It's clear.
18:13But the kids now,
18:14I observe.
18:15So,
18:16Mr. Vice Chair
18:17and our resource person,
18:18I noticed that
18:19I have a 23-year-old son,
18:20and I asked him
18:21about his relationship
18:22or what he observed
18:23in his age group.
18:24He said,
18:25now it's blurred.
18:26Yes.
18:27Everything is like
18:28transactional
18:29or passing through.
18:30Nothing sticks,
18:31nothing stays,
18:32which makes me
18:33both happy and sad.
18:34Because,
18:35happy because
18:36they are now aware
18:37that there are
18:38many kinds of relationships.
18:39They should not
18:40just be committed
18:41relationships that are valid.
18:42There should also be
18:43mutual understanding.
18:44There should also be
18:45co-dependency
18:46that has a positive
18:47outcome for the two people.
18:49It's confusing.
18:50So, you,
18:51Pau,
18:52what should women
18:53understand
18:54about us men?
18:56It's like I'm reading
18:57a book here.
18:58There's a cloud
18:59with a lot of words.
19:00No, because
19:01you're right
19:02in what you said.
19:03It's hard to say
19:04now because
19:05it's really different.
19:06The mindset is different.
19:07The mindset is different now.
19:08And,
19:09let me repeat,
19:11and I'll defend that,
19:13they're pitiful now.
19:15Regardless of
19:16how you feel,
19:17they're not.
19:18Right?
19:19Because for me,
19:20old school,
19:21okay,
19:22tell me what you want
19:23to tell me.
19:24But,
19:25at the end of the day,
19:26at the end,
19:27you're pitiful.
19:28You might not
19:29realize it now
19:30because,
19:31um,
19:32what do you call it,
19:33the judgment
19:34is blurred
19:35in the fact that
19:36you can do it,
19:37I can do it.
19:38I'm an independent woman.
19:39I can love
19:40who I want to love.
19:41Exactly.
19:42So,
19:43and then one day,
19:44you will,
19:46you will meet
19:47the right person
19:48and then
19:49there will be things
19:50that you cannot
19:51even tell him
19:52because
19:53you did something
19:54that's not good
19:55just because
19:56you want to prove
19:57that you all
19:58are equal.
19:59Right?
20:00So,
20:01for women,
20:02take care of yourselves.
20:03Take care of yourselves.
20:04Especially for young people,
20:05take care of yourselves.
20:07For everyone,
20:08for men.
20:09And,
20:10also,
20:11I believe that
20:12nowadays,
20:13for men,
20:14try to be a man.
20:15That's right.
20:16I mean,
20:17I think that
20:18men nowadays
20:19are becoming very,
20:20um,
20:21aggressive?
20:22No, not even,
20:23not even aggressive.
20:24Again,
20:25because of the equality
20:26that
20:27that generation
20:28believes in,
20:29the boundary
20:30of respect
20:31disappears.
20:32Women,
20:33respect that.
20:34And men,
20:35at your age,
20:36you'll learn
20:37how to change wheels,
20:38you'll learn,
20:39you'll be a man.
20:40You'll stand up
20:41when you're a man.
20:42Yes, stand up.
20:43Don't just
20:44be cute.
20:45I must say anything.
20:46I hope you don't cut this
20:47because we already know
20:48Paolo.
20:49Yes, of course.
20:50Paolo may be like this,
20:51mouth and all,
20:52words and all,
20:53Paolo's word choice
20:54is for corporate.
20:55For corporate.
20:56This is very,
20:57I'm really for corporate.
20:58Very,
20:59um,
21:00Basilica of,
21:01minor Basilica
21:02of this.
21:03What you can say
21:04when you dip
21:05but anyway.
21:06Approved by the Pope.
21:07Approved by the Pope.
21:08He may seem like this
21:09but in real life,
21:10you know,
21:11when Paolo says,
21:12be a man,
21:13do this,
21:14do that,
21:15he really stands by
21:16the values he believes in.
21:17So he's our friend.
21:18He's just annoying
21:19but he's a good person.
21:20Of course.
21:21And you too,
21:22Mr. Vice Chair.
21:24Come back to me.
21:25You too.
21:27You too.
21:29Arigato.
21:30You too.
21:31Arigato.
21:32Let's talk about exes.
21:33Thank you guys.
21:34Thank you guys.
21:35I have a question, Paolo.
21:36Let's talk about exes.
21:37What do you call
21:38money in Japan?
21:42It suddenly became a quiz.
21:44You may not,
21:45may opt to not answer that,
21:46Paolo.
21:47Okay, Mr. Vice Chair.
21:48Okay,
21:49let's talk about
21:50friendship versus relationship.
21:51There you go.
21:52Let's talk about exes first.
21:53This is when it comes to exes.
21:54Okay.
21:55This is it.
21:56When it comes to exes.
21:57Based on my research.
21:58Wow, he has research.
21:59He has research.
22:00When it comes to exes,
22:01can you really be friends
22:02when you have an ex
22:03or can you be friends
22:05with your exes?
22:06Wow.
22:07Like me,
22:08I'm friends with my exes.
22:09Let's be more specific.
22:10Are you friends with your exes?
22:12Civil.
22:13At least you talk.
22:14It's a different story.
22:16Saying they're friends
22:17and civil,
22:18it's different.
22:19And we have reasons to be.
22:21Right?
22:22I don't believe that
22:23exes should be friends
22:25unless you actually
22:26have reasons to be.
22:27Correct.
22:28Why?
22:29Why don't you believe
22:30that you can still be friends?
22:31You already broke up.
22:32I think it's your respect
22:33to your partner.
22:35Especially...
22:36If you have one.
22:37Right?
22:38Yes.
22:39Your partner.
22:40I mean,
22:41that's a lot.
22:42For your partner.
22:43For your partner.
22:44If you don't fight,
22:45that's okay.
22:46If you're civil,
22:47like when you see each other,
22:48hey, how are you?
22:49Blah, blah.
22:50Right?
22:51But friends,
22:52like how are you?
22:53Yes.
22:54You had your time
22:55to say how are you.
22:56But now,
22:57how are you?
22:58Right?
22:59It's hard to detach
23:00the emotion
23:01from your past
23:02to your present.
23:03Especially if you have a partner.
23:05It's embarrassing.
23:06It's embarrassing.
23:07And I believe,
23:08me,
23:09I don't like that either.
23:11If your partner is like that.
23:12Why would you put yourself
23:14in a difficult situation?
23:15Exactly.
23:16It's confusing.
23:17Let's not make it difficult.
23:18Yes.
23:19So,
23:20when we're done,
23:21we can talk.
23:22Hi, hello.
23:23But other than that,
23:24how are you?
23:25When we see each other,
23:26how are you?
23:27Have you eaten?
23:28Tsk.
23:29Right?
23:30It's good that you said
23:31you had your chance.
23:32Yes.
23:33Why are you like that?
23:34How are you?
23:35I hope you're okay.
23:36You were like that before.
23:37Why didn't you say hi?
23:38Like that.
23:39Like that.
23:40Like that.
23:41When Paolo's done,
23:42he's done too.
23:43Pupu always seems
23:44to have something to say.
23:45No, no.
23:46This is Balik Tanaw.
23:49Balik Tanaw.
23:52Don't, don't, don't.
23:54Laugh, laugh, laugh.
23:57Okay, last.
23:58Quick.
23:59What can you say
24:00about the theory
24:01that friendship
24:02is the foundation
24:03of a strong relationship?
24:05Wow.
24:06Is that true?
24:07Do you agree with that,
24:08Pausky?
24:09That's true.
24:10That's true.
24:11At the end of the day,
24:12especially if you've been
24:13partners for a long time,
24:14if you're not friends,
24:15you don't talk.
24:17Right?
24:18Of course,
24:19for years,
24:20you've been
24:21making each other
24:22laugh.
24:23Eventually,
24:24you need to
24:25be friends.
24:26Right.
24:27And if we're hypocrites,
24:28you said that
24:29very straightforwardly,
24:30Paulo.
24:31The first thing you feel
24:32is your attraction.
24:33Of course.
24:34Physical attraction.
24:35We're hypocrites.
24:36We're friends.
24:37That's why I'm attracted to him
24:38because he's a good listener.
24:39Right?
24:40Joke!
24:41That's just it.
24:42For me,
24:43the foundation
24:44of friendship
24:45is true.
24:46But again,
24:47that happens
24:48during the courtship.
24:49Inside.
24:50Inside the courtship.
24:51Before you become friends,
24:52check if you'll
24:53become friends.
24:54Yes.
24:55Right?
24:56For example,
24:57you have a partner.
24:58Right?
24:59You have a girlfriend.
25:00Then,
25:01you can't be together
25:02outside.
25:03In the gimmick
25:04of your friend.
25:05Right?
25:06Because
25:07you're hiding a lot.
25:08Because your friend
25:09might tell you something.
25:10Right?
25:11While you're courting,
25:12that's your opportunity
25:13to come clean.
25:15For me,
25:16tell him everything.
25:17Tell him everything.
25:18Because that's the reason
25:19why a guy
25:20won't be with his girlfriend
25:21during the night out
25:22of his friend.
25:23Maybe he'll tell her
25:24something.
25:25Right?
25:26Sometimes,
25:27when he sees her,
25:28he'll be like,
25:29hey bro,
25:30what's up?
25:31Nothing like that.
25:32If you want to be together
25:33for a long time,
25:34come clean.
25:35If she accepts you,
25:36good.
25:37If not,
25:38bad.
25:39Right?
25:40Now,
25:41that's where
25:42friendship comes in.
25:43At the end of the day,
25:44you'll use that friendship
25:45for a long time.
25:46You'll see
25:47the two of you.
25:48If you're okay
25:49as friends.
25:50Because it's important
25:51that you're okay
25:52as friends.
25:53You're okay
25:54as friends.
25:55Right?
25:56But,
25:57sometimes,
25:58it's good that
25:59you're with her.
26:00When you're not afraid
26:01and she's peace of mind.
26:02Okay, Paolo.
26:03Clarify that.
26:04Do you think
26:05you have
26:06the raw end of the deal
26:07that in your relationships,
26:08plural,
26:09the perspective
26:10of those
26:11you see outside
26:12of the relationship
26:13is Paolo's fault?
26:14Is Paolo a gay?
26:15Is Paolo wild?
26:16When,
26:17in fact,
26:18on the get-go,
26:19you're already
26:20clear.
26:21You're already
26:22laying your cards.
26:23This is me.
26:24Honestly,
26:25you don't even have
26:26to lay,
26:27I don't even have
26:28to lay my cards.
26:29Go to Google.
26:30You'll see everything.
26:31So,
26:32they're aware
26:33that they're in.
26:34And,
26:35you're lucky
26:36that you'll see
26:37not only the real news
26:38but also the fake news
26:39on Google.
26:40So, it's complete.
26:41It's complete.
26:42They have resources.
26:43Yes,
26:44they have resources.
26:45They're aware
26:46that they're in
26:47the relationship.
26:48But,
26:49did you,
26:50for example,
26:51mask it in some way
26:52or downplay it
26:53to your ex-friend?
26:54Never.
26:55Never?
26:56You just say everything?
26:57No,
26:58I say the truth.
26:59The truth behind everything.
27:00The stories?
27:01Yes.
27:02Because,
27:03everything they hear
27:04is news.
27:05I never spoke.
27:06Never.
27:07Ever.
27:08I will never speak
27:09ill against anyone.
27:10You know that.
27:11That's probably
27:12the only thing
27:13I do.
27:14They have
27:15first-hand information
27:16from me.
27:17But,
27:18I never clean up.
27:19Never.
27:20Okay.
27:21So,
27:22the stories
27:23are based on
27:24like,
27:25okay,
27:26here it is.
27:27The whole
27:28resume.
27:29Like,
27:30bang,
27:31that's it.
27:32Then,
27:33the girl reads it.
27:34Take it or leave it.
27:35The links.
27:36The links.
27:37The links.
27:38These are the links
27:39of fake news.
27:40These are the fake news.
27:41These are the fake news.
27:42These are the fashion police.
27:43These are the
27:44peps.
27:45These are the
27:46peps.
27:47These are the
27:48pep troika.
27:49These are the
27:50news.
27:51Especially now.
27:52It's a trend
27:53on Facebook.
27:54They fake
27:55quote you.
27:56Yes.
27:57They do.
27:58For clickbait.
27:59Yes.
28:00For clickbait.
28:01You have a face
28:02and a quote.
28:03You have a page.
28:04Your name.
28:05Then,
28:06the blue check.
28:07Then,
28:08what you said.
28:09Yes.
28:10Then,
28:11when you look at it,
28:12this is too much.
28:13There's nothing
28:14you can do.
28:15But,
28:16when you see
28:17in the comments,
28:181,500.
28:19Then,
28:20you have to
28:21post it.
28:22Right?
28:23So,
28:24I have a tip.
28:25Sorry,
28:26I forgot.
28:27It's okay.
28:28I have a tip for you.
28:29You saw my page.
28:30Fact-check it.
28:31Go to my page.
28:32See what I posted.
28:33It's that simple.
28:34So,
28:35now,
28:36I just remembered.
28:37I just remembered
28:38a new quote.
28:39I just want to
28:40love.
28:41When did I say
28:42I want to love?
28:43You don't
28:44talk like that.
28:45You don't
28:46talk like that.
28:47I'm sorry.
28:48I just want to love.
28:49When did I say
28:50I want to love?
28:51You don't
28:52talk like that.
28:53Again,
28:54it's
28:55out
28:56in the open.
28:57Yes.
28:58You didn't hide it.
28:59The only thing
29:00that I could do is
29:01air my side
29:02in such a way
29:03that I don't make mistakes.
29:04I mean,
29:05I never said
29:06that I'm innocent.
29:07Right?
29:08So,
29:09it's up to you.
29:10What if
29:11you meet
29:12the younger Paolo?
29:13Like,
29:1410-15 years
29:15younger Paolo.
29:16What will you say
29:17to him?
29:18For example,
29:19he has a friend
29:20that he's talking to.
29:21I know this moment.
29:22What will you say?
29:23I remember this.
29:24We're going to transition
29:25from friends
29:26to something else.
29:27What will you say?
29:28To whom?
29:29To your younger self.
29:30What a boy.
29:31That's what you'll say.
29:32You're different.
29:33You're different.
29:34You're different, boy.
29:35Why?
29:36You're brave.
29:37You're brave.
29:38You know,
29:39I did a lot
29:40that I'm not proud of.
29:41Okay.
29:42But,
29:43so,
29:44to my younger self,
29:45maybe,
29:46like,
29:47um,
29:48you should be,
29:49like,
29:50I don't care.
29:51Exactly.
29:52I mean,
29:53in terms of,
29:54like,
29:55what people will say
29:56to me,
29:57I really
29:58don't care.
29:59You know,
30:00they're all like,
30:01what do you feel
30:02about bashing?
30:03Nothing.
30:04No,
30:05but,
30:06I'll say,
30:07you have to,
30:08you have to care more
30:09about what people say.
30:10You don't know
30:11that you're sick.
30:12You don't know,
30:13it's not bad
30:14to care about,
30:15not too much,
30:16but just enough
30:17for you
30:18to check yourself
30:19from time to time.
30:20Nice.
30:21I like it.
30:22I like it.
30:23Clap for Paolo.
30:24He has some realizations.
30:25Okay.
30:26So,
30:27it's time, Paolo.
30:28You thought that was the
30:29meat of the interview?
30:30No,
30:31we still have time
30:32to do something else.
30:33But,
30:34you still have nothing
30:35to show.
30:36We've been talking
30:37for 10 minutes,
30:38but you still have nothing
30:39to show.
30:40Your body is only
30:41usable for 10 minutes.
30:42If you don't want to answer,
30:43it's okay.
30:44You can invoke your right
30:45to answer.
30:46But,
30:47it's better
30:48if you answer,
30:49Paolo,
30:50so that we have
30:51an air.
30:52Okay.
30:53Okay,
30:54so,
30:55to the female artists,
30:56your first crucial question
30:57is what you need
30:58to answer.
30:59To the female artists
31:00that you've already
31:01met,
31:02not just
31:03working,
31:04but you've already
31:05met,
31:06even if you just
31:07saw them,
31:08who are the ones
31:09you can't
31:10make friends
31:11with without
31:12maliciousness?
31:13I really want
31:14to know.
31:15You haven't told us
31:16yet.
31:17Who are the ones
31:18I can't make friends
31:19with without
31:20maliciousness?
31:21When he said
31:22friends,
31:23when we were still
31:24friends,
31:25he didn't
31:26back out
31:27because
31:28there's something.
31:29I feel like,
31:30I don't want to
31:31say it.
31:32No,
31:33this is true.
31:34I don't
31:35make friends
31:36with my
31:37female colleagues
31:38because
31:39I really
31:40avoid them.
31:41I won't
31:42say who
31:43because
31:44why?
31:45All of them.
31:46There were times
31:47before,
31:48for example,
31:49Bubble,
31:50for example,
31:51Bubble Gang,
31:52every Monday,
31:53we used to,
31:54the cast
31:55used to
31:56go out.
31:57After,
31:58I go home.
31:59I go home
32:00because
32:01especially
32:02my work,
32:03my direct work,
32:04I really don't
32:05want to be
32:06affected by
32:07maliciousness
32:08because it's hard
32:09to work
32:10when there's
32:11maliciousness,
32:12because
32:13it's hard
32:14to work
32:15when there's
32:16maliciousness.
32:17So,
32:18it's hard
32:19to work
32:20when there's
32:21maliciousness.
32:22So,
32:23it's hard
32:24to work
32:25when there's
32:26maliciousness.
32:27So,
32:28it's hard
32:29to work
32:30when there's
32:31maliciousness.
32:32So,
32:33it's hard
32:34to work
32:35when there's
32:36maliciousness.
32:37So,
32:38it's hard
32:39to work
32:40when there's
32:41maliciousness.
32:42So,
32:43it's hard
32:44to work
32:45when there's
32:46maliciousness.
32:47So,
32:48it's hard
32:49to work
32:50when there's
32:51maliciousness.
32:52So,
32:53it's hard
32:54to work
32:55when there's
32:56maliciousness.
32:57So,
32:58it's hard
32:59to work
33:00when there's
33:01maliciousness.
33:02So,
33:03it's hard
33:04to work
33:05when there's
33:06maliciousness.
33:07So,
33:08it's hard
33:09to work
33:10when there's
33:11maliciousness.
33:12So,
33:13it's hard
33:14to work
33:15when there's
33:16maliciousness.
33:17So,
33:18it's hard
33:19to work
33:20when there's
33:21maliciousness.
33:22So,
33:23it's hard
33:24to work
33:25when there's
33:26maliciousness.
33:27So,
33:28it's hard
33:29to work
33:30when there's
33:31maliciousness.
33:32So,
33:33it's hard
33:34to work
33:35when there's
33:36maliciousness.
33:37So,
33:38it's hard
33:39to work
33:40when there's
33:41maliciousness.
33:42So,
33:43it's hard
33:44to work
33:45when there's
33:46maliciousness.
33:47So,
33:48it's hard
33:49to work
33:50when there's
33:51maliciousness.
33:52So,
33:53it's hard
33:54to work
33:55when there's
33:56maliciousness.
33:57So,
33:58it's hard
33:59to work
34:00when there's
34:01maliciousness.
34:02So,
34:03it's hard
34:04to work
34:05when there's
34:06maliciousness.
34:07So,
34:08it's hard
34:09to work
34:10when there's
34:11maliciousness.
34:12So,
34:13it's hard
34:14to work
34:15when there's
34:16maliciousness.
34:17So,
34:18it's hard
34:19to work
34:20when there's
34:21maliciousness.
34:22So,
34:23it's hard
34:24to work
34:25when there's
34:26maliciousness.
34:27So,
34:28it's hard
34:29to work
34:30when there's
34:31maliciousness.
34:32So,
34:33it's hard
34:34to work
34:35when there's
34:36maliciousness.
34:37So,
34:38it's hard
34:39to work
34:40when there's
34:41maliciousness.
34:42So,
34:43it's hard
34:44to work
34:45when there's
34:46maliciousness.
34:47So,
34:48it's hard
34:49to work
34:50when there's
34:51maliciousness.
34:52So,
34:53it's hard
34:54to work
34:55when there's
34:56maliciousness.
34:57So,
34:58it's hard
34:59to work
35:00when there's
35:01maliciousness.
35:02So,
35:03it's hard
35:04to work
35:05when there's
35:06maliciousness.
35:07So,
35:08it's hard
35:09to work
35:10when there's
35:11maliciousness.
35:12So,
35:13it's hard
35:14to work
35:15when there's
35:16maliciousness.
35:17So,
35:18it's hard
35:19to work
35:20when there's
35:21maliciousness.
35:22So,
35:23it's hard
35:24to work
35:25when there's
35:26maliciousness.
35:27So,
35:28it's hard
35:29to work
35:30when there's
35:31maliciousness.
35:32So,
35:33it's hard
35:34to work
35:35when there's
35:36maliciousness.