In an exclusive interview with Bharathi S. Pradhan for Lehren Retro, Shatrughan Sinha opens up about his films, family, love, life, and politics. The superstar shares insights about his early days, family, and time at FTII. He appreciates actors from his home state of Bihar, including Manoj Bajpayee and Pankaj Tripathi, and gives his mature take on Sushant Singh Rajput’s tragic case. Sinha talks about his bond with co-star Reena Roy, credits his wife Poonam Sinha for his success, and praises daughter Sonakshi’s marriage to Zahee Iqbal. He also reveals stories about his sons Luv and Kush and addresses their absence at Sonakshi's wedding. The actor-turned-politician comments on Amitabh Bachchan and Rajinikanth's screen presence and shares a fun cigarette story about Shah Rukh Khan. He also reflects on the political influence of leaders like Atal Bihari Vajpayee and L.K. Advani. Watch the full conversation with Shatrughan Sinha, only on Lehren. Stay Khamosh and enjoy Shotgun’s untold Ramayan.
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00:00:00When you go to someone, when you stay with them, you miss them.
00:00:06The ones who are waiting for you at home.
00:00:09And when you stay at home, it feels like you have kept them as a toy.
00:00:14What will happen to them? How will I go there?
00:00:17So guilt?
00:00:19There is a lot of guilt. A lot.
00:00:23Suddenly Shah Rukh Khan saw me and said,
00:00:25Sorry sir, he was panting.
00:00:29Sorry sir, I think age is catching up with me.
00:00:32I said no, it's not age, Shah Rukh.
00:00:35It's your smoking.
00:00:36You said it.
00:00:37I said it with love. It's your smoking.
00:00:41If those stories were true, then no artist should have done this.
00:00:46I could see a bright future for him.
00:00:50I could see a bright future for him.
00:00:52It's a big truth that Sushant Singh Rajput is not among us.
00:00:57Even if it's a bitter truth, it's a truth.
00:01:01Did you feel a little bad that your sons did not support her?
00:01:05I can understand their pain, their confusion, their worries.
00:01:13That suddenly their friends ask them.
00:01:16You're seeing it from their point of view.
00:01:18Yes, maybe I would have been at that age.
00:01:21Maybe my attitude would have been different.
00:01:37Hi, Pranam, Namaskar.
00:01:40You speak so many languages that I will have to welcome you.
00:01:46Pranam, Namaskar, Namaste.
00:01:49Tell me, how are you?
00:01:51I am absolutely fine.
00:01:53We used to call you Bihari Babu.
00:01:57Then you became Bengali Babu after winning the Asansol competition.
00:02:01But your birthplace is in Maharashtra.
00:02:04And you got married here in Maharashtra.
00:02:07To a Sindhi girl, Miss India, Poonam Chandramani.
00:02:11You have relations with a lot of states.
00:02:14So, would it be right to call you Hindustani Babu?
00:02:18In the correct sense, that's what happened.
00:02:20You made me Bengali Babu.
00:02:23People called me Bihari Babu with love.
00:02:27And Maharashtra is my birthplace.
00:02:30The whole country is there.
00:02:33I keep going there.
00:02:36So, in the correct sense, you gave the right answer.
00:02:39In the correct sense, Hindustani Babu.
00:02:43I am not a foreigner.
00:02:45In my own country, among my own people,
00:02:48I have a birthplace and a birthplace.
00:02:51So, it's Hindustani Babu.
00:02:53Okay, great.
00:02:54So, you should be called Hindustani Babu.
00:02:56Now, whether you say it or not, Rose is a Rose is a Rose.
00:02:59You can call me by any name.
00:03:01That's fine.
00:03:02By the way, your name has given a lot of...
00:03:07There have been so many variations of your name.
00:03:13Yes.
00:03:14You know, because Shatrughan is your name now.
00:03:18But Shatrughno...
00:03:20The correct pronunciation should be the same.
00:03:23Shatrughna.
00:03:24S-H-A-T-R-U-G-H-N-A
00:03:27But people felt that this is a tongue twister.
00:03:31It was difficult to pronounce.
00:03:33And people from different parts of the country
00:03:37used to pronounce it differently.
00:03:40So, to make it simple, I didn't change it much.
00:03:44I said, accept me as I am.
00:03:46Good, bad, or ugly, whatever the name is.
00:03:49But I changed Shatrughna to Shatrughan.
00:03:54I changed G-H-N-A to G-H-A-N.
00:03:56And you know the rest of the story.
00:03:58Yes, yes, yes.
00:03:59And you removed Prasad in between.
00:04:01But there is still Prasad in Parliament.
00:04:04Okay.
00:04:05Yes, Shatrughna Prasad Sinha.
00:04:07Okay.
00:04:08So, you didn't have a problem with it.
00:04:10Because your Jaya Bhachan had a lot of difficulty.
00:04:13Yes, what did I say just now?
00:04:15Jaya Bhachan said it.
00:04:17I said, Rose is a Rose is a Rose.
00:04:20Call me by whatever name you want.
00:04:22You must have seen, I took an oath in Parliament again.
00:04:26I went to Parliament for the 6th time.
00:04:29I took an oath.
00:04:31I said my name as Shatrughna Prasad Sinha.
00:04:36So, I am the Parliament, Shatrughna Prasad Sinha.
00:04:39Okay, okay.
00:04:40You know, you have been a great inspiration.
00:04:43Because you are the first star from Bihar.
00:04:47So, whether it is Pankaj Tripathi or Manoj Bajpai.
00:04:53They are very good people.
00:04:55So, all these people were very inspired by you.
00:04:58And it is said that we have been inspired by them.
00:05:04Because it is difficult to come from there and achieve success here.
00:05:09Still, they did what you did.
00:05:12So, what do you feel about being the inspiration to so many people?
00:05:17From your state.
00:05:19I feel good.
00:05:22And when people say good things, positive things.
00:05:27Recently, I met a very talented artist from Bihar.
00:05:33Like Pankaj Tripathi or Manoj Bajpai.
00:05:37Or our own Shekhar Suman.
00:05:40In the same way, there is a very good artist Sanjay Mishra.
00:05:44He is doing very well in many films.
00:05:46A few days ago, I was talking to him.
00:05:49Sanjay Mishra was telling me that he used to go home to see you.
00:05:55That you live here.
00:05:57At Kadam Kua?
00:05:58Kadam Kua, in Patna.
00:06:00He used to go to see you again and again.
00:06:02He said, Sir, I never expected this.
00:06:04I have a photo with you.
00:06:06He sent me a photo.
00:06:08I took a photo of him.
00:06:10So, I feel good.
00:06:13I feel happy that I was able to inspire many people.
00:06:18I was able to motivate them.
00:06:20A person like me,
00:06:22I often say this.
00:06:24A person like me,
00:06:26A person like me,
00:06:28who had never crossed the border of Bihar in his life.
00:06:32who had never crossed the border of Bihar in his life.
00:06:34He came to Mughal Sarai for the first time from Patna.
00:06:36He came to Mughal Sarai for the first time from Patna.
00:06:38When he was selected in FTII, Pune.
00:06:40When he was selected in FTII, Pune.
00:06:42He went to many places.
00:06:44He went to many places.
00:06:46He didn't even know how to stay in a hostel.
00:06:48He didn't even know how to stay in a hostel.
00:06:50He didn't even know how to meet people.
00:06:52He didn't even know how to meet people.
00:06:54He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:06:56He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:06:58He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:00He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:02He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:04He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:06He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:08He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:10He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:12He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:14He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:16He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:18He didn't even know how to eat properly.
00:07:20Following this,
00:07:22Finally,
00:07:24Finally,
00:07:26Slowly,
00:07:34Slowly,
00:07:36possible ko possible kiya. Lekin iske peeche main yehi kahunga aur aaj bhi main kehta ho
00:07:40aur younger generation ko toh khaas kar main kehta ho. Ki kisi field mein aur khaas kar
00:07:47show business mein teen chaar cheezon ka hona bohoz zaruri hai. Ek toh hai aapka apna aatmishwa
00:07:56aftahi. Talent hona chahiye. Agar show business ki baat karun toh. Talent hona chahiye. Confidence
00:08:04hona chahiye. Conviction hona chahiye. Commitment honi chahiye. Aur sabse badi baat hai ki passion
00:08:13hona chahiye. Ki haan yehi karna hai. Yeh mai kar sakta hoon aur yehi karna hai. Toh yeh
00:08:21passion tha na. Jo aapne hamari boho charchit kitab, biography, Anything But Khamosh mein
00:08:29aapne bohot khubsurat tariqat se likha bhi hai usko. Yehi saari baatein mujhko aage le
00:08:34jaa rahe the. Aur mai samakta hoon yehi sab baatein kuch hadd tak mujh mein dekh kar aur
00:08:40log aur newcomers aur ache ache humare kalakar jo bhi saamne aaye hain. Jaise Pankaj Tripathi
00:08:46hain, Manoj Bajma aur jitne saari ache log hain. Shekhar Suman hain, Sanjay Mishra hain,
00:08:52bohot saari log hain. Ho sakta inme se in baato ne unhe bhi prabhavit kiya ho. Jo log
00:08:59kehte hain ki jo log mujhse inspired hokar aaye. Ho sakta hai koi log mujhse inspired
00:09:04hokar na bhi aaye ho. Koi thode, kuch log jalan mein bhi. Lekin jalan mein bhi, agar
00:09:10wo healthy jalan nahi ho, ki mai yeh kar sakte hain toh mai kyon nahi kar sakta hain.
00:09:15Bohot log sokhte the ke agar Shatrughan Sinha star ban sakte hain, toh mai kyon nahi ban
00:09:20sakta hain. Toh yeh healthy competition hai, healthy jalan mein kahunga. Yeh achi cheez
00:09:25hai. Toh mai in ladkon ki, aapne joon ka naam liya, in bachyon ki, jo aaye hain, ek
00:09:32toh bohot sarana karta hoon. Aur mai bohot hi apne aapko saubhagya shali samatta hoon
00:09:39ki mai inke kuch kaam aa saka, inko prabhavit kar saka, inko inspire kar saka, inko motivate
00:09:45kar saka. Toh yeh sunke acha bhi lagta hai mujhko. Manoj Bajpayee aur ne ek kaha tha
00:09:51ki hum log inspire toh hua hain se, lekin inki journey was different from ours. Kyunki
00:10:00aap Patna sheher se aaye the. Wo gaon se aaye. Wo gaon se aaye, jahan ek cinema hall tak
00:10:06nahi tha. So unke liye toh aur bhi kathin tha na. Hoga, avashay hoga. Bohot, isliye
00:10:15is kaha hai na, confidence ka saath conviction bhi chahiye, commitment bhi chahiye. Aur sabse
00:10:20badi baat maine kaha ki, maine kahi. Aur wo yeh hai ki yeh passion hona chahiye. Passion.
00:10:26Hum sure Manoj Bajpayee mein wo passion hoga. Hoga. Wo gaon se aaye. Aur doosi baat hi bhi
00:10:32kehadun, kayi logon ko aisa, yeh sachayi nahi hai, kayi logon ko Mumbai ke mukhable mein
00:10:41ya show business ke mukhable mein, ya Maya nagri ke saamne, Patna bhi gaon hi lagta
00:10:47raha. Ab toh khair aur bahut tarakki ho gayi hai, bahut badiya ho gaya. Mujhko toh duniya
00:10:55ka sabse badiya shahir Patna lagta hai. Aur Patna, do shahir mujhe sabse pyaara hai,
00:11:02ek Patna hai jahan, pehda hua aur padhai likha hi hui, jis hatta hui. Aur uske baad
00:11:09ek Pune Institute, Pune, Pune shahir, bahut pasand hai mujhe. Isliye ke waha pehwari
00:11:15culmination hua, waha se FTII gaye, waha se pass karne ke baad, ya nikalne ke baad, finish
00:11:21karne ke baad, baaki. Aur aapko ek disha mil gayi, kahan jaana hai. Disha mil gayi, ab
00:11:27toh lagta hai ki sahi disha mili. Aur isliye, jaise Bihar, Mumbai, ya Bihar, ya Jai Maharashtra,
00:11:37mujhe bahut pasand hai. Jai Maharashtra ka toh main abhari hu, itna lagta hai ki agar
00:11:44hum nahi aaya hota, aur in loon itna pyaar, itni hausla, afzai nahi ki hoti meri, toh
00:11:52shayad mere sapne saakaar nahi hote. Toh uske liye toh Jai Maharashtra, main amisha
00:11:56Jai Maharashtra ka toh, uska bahut khaayal hu, bahut abhari hu. Toh yeh sab cheezein
00:12:02humari zindagi mein jaise bahut mehtapoon role ada ki, usse toh main sure, main maanta
00:12:10hu ki main, main bhi, kuch hatta, kuch logon ke zindagi mein, ek mehtapoon role ada kiya
00:12:16hoga, maine, khaas kar unke motivation, inspiration, unke nirmaan ke maamle mein. Toh yeh toh
00:12:25acha aur yeh zindagi ka silsala aise hi chalta hai, jaise main, politics mein agar aaya,
00:12:30samaajik zimmedaari ke taht rahatneeti mein aaya, toh main Jai Prakash Narayan ji se
00:12:35bahut prabhavit hua, bahut acha laga, main, baad mein Yashwant Sinha jaise aadmi hi,
00:12:42jo bureaucrat hai, shayad pehle bureaucrat honge, jo chhodakar wo raadneet mein aaye,
00:12:47toh in log se amisha protsahan milta raha, mujhe khaas kar Jai Prakash Narayan ji se
00:12:53bahut hi prabhavit hua. Baad mein Atal Bihari Bajpayee ji, Hilal Kesharwani ji, aise bahut
00:12:59ache ache log zindagi mein, in se bahut milne ka, saasa bahut kuch seekhne ka maukha mila,
00:13:06jaise Jyoti Babu the, Jyoti Bashu Bengal ke mukh mantri the, bhalein doosri party mein
00:13:13the, yaar communist party mein the, mujhe bahut pasand the, aaj mi hai. Aur usse tarah
00:13:18Atal Bihari Bajpayee, Advani ji, Bihar mein the, apne Kailash Patri Mishra ji swargiye,
00:13:25yaar Delhi mein jinn ko Tiger kaha jaata tha, Madanlal Khurrana, unse bahut training mili,
00:13:32ussi tarah se bhaare, guru toh nahi kaunga, lekin train karne mein unka bahut haath hai,
00:13:38khaas kar public life mein, congress party ke the, hain, Subodh Kansa hai.
00:13:44Right, yes. Aapke gehri dosti thi, kis saath bahut gehri dosti hai.
00:13:49Main aaj bhi bahut maanta hoon, unki kadar karta hoon, mujhe public life mein, dhakelne
00:13:56mein, ya utarne mein, hasaaron ki bheed, 25,000, 50,000, jagas bheed ko, kaise wo humein unhone
00:14:07shakti di, protsaan diya, aur kaise bagar security ke bagar kaise pohonch jaate the bheed
00:14:13mein. Toh in log ka main hamisa abhari hoon aur abhari rahunga, aur main maanta hoon aur
00:14:19maanta hoon, hamisa maanta rahunga. To come back to Manoj and Pankaj Tripathi,
00:14:25aapne unka kaam dekha hai? Haan, dekha hai, Manoj ki do ek filme dekheen
00:14:33shuru mein, bahut accha kalakar hai, uske andar bahut intensity hai, badhiya hai wo,
00:14:39aur do teen filme dekheen, ek toh wo film bahut mashoor hoi thi, wo hi dekhi thi main
00:14:46ne, Satya, Satya dekhi thi, uske bahut laga ki hunaar, virwaan ke ho, chikne paat,
00:14:55mujhe laga ki yeh ladka bahut accha hai, aur aage bahut accha karega, aur usse tarah
00:15:00unki, wo film mein dekhene ki khaish thi mujhe, Aligarh, Aligarh, dekh nahin paaya
00:15:06hun, lekin dekhunga kise di, usse tarah se, Shekhar Suman, Shekhar Suman, wo mein samjhata
00:15:15hoon bahut hi confident hai, insaan, bahut accha se wo, koi cheez ko uske timing bahut
00:15:23acchi hai, aur khaas ka light roles ke liye, comedy ke liye, bahut badhiya hai, usse tarah
00:15:32Pankaj Tripathi ke dekhta hoon, kitna badhiya hai, wo bhi Pankaj Tripathi bhi shayad gaon
00:15:36se aaye, humein mile the wo Patna mein, accha mile the? aaye the, Pranam kiya hoon, hui
00:15:41Maurya Hotel mein jahan wo kaam karte the, haan wahiin mile the, aur aage, aur maine
00:15:47kaha, ussi din mein tweet mein, ussi din ittafaak tha, ussi din apne tweet mein, main unki
00:15:52kisi film ki ya kisi ghatna ki tarif ki thi, aaye bahut Pranam kiya, bahut aadhar ke saath,
00:16:00I think lift ke paas mile the, bahut accha laga tha, aur kahi jagah dekhi hai, unki ad
00:16:06bhi dekhi hai, ad mein bhi lagta hai ki ladke mein bahut dham hai, Pankaj Tripathi accha
00:16:13hai, badhiya hai wo, ek aur ladka Shushant Singh Rajput, wo bhi Bihar ka tha, haan haan,
00:16:20accha, aap mile the unko? ek baar mulaqat hui the, dekhi logon ne bahut beech mein controversy
00:16:26mein janta hoon, unnecessary, haan unnecessary, meri the mulaqat hi ek baar hui the unse,
00:16:32accha, wo bhi mein Vidhu Vinod Chopra nahi, doosra inki jo Hira Mandi aayi hai inki, Sanjay
00:16:38Leela Bansali, Sanjay Leela Bansali ke saath baitha hua tha, kisi theatre mein, wo Vijayanand
00:16:45Goldie ki, Goldie ka theatre tha na wahan pe, Pali Hill mein, toh wahan Ketnao, Ketnao,
00:16:52Ketnao baitha hua tha, toh aayi, bahut pradam kiya unhone ne chukke, bahut aadhar ka saath,
00:16:58aur bataya hai, wo cigarette pee rahe the, mujhe bhi yaad dekha, usse thoda lihaaz mein
00:17:04hai, ghabraar ke cigarette phekha unhone ne, daud ke aaye mere paas aaye, bahut aadhar
00:17:09ka saath, bahut sammaan ka saath mile wo, mujhe acche lage wo, main sun ke baar sun chuka
00:17:15tha, ki Patna ek shahar hai, jaha ek doosre family ko log janta hi hai, toh main sun chuka
00:17:20tha, ki bahut acche parivaar se aate hain, acche logon ke beech mein se aate hain wo,
00:17:23aur unke log bahut acche hai, Sushant Singh Rajput ki bahut tarif hoti thi, ek film main
00:17:29ne dekhi bhi thi, kya Kaapo, kya wo, Kaipoche, Kaipoche, kaipoche, bahut accha laga tha,
00:17:37usko bhi dekh ke laga, wah, yeh toh ladka bahut aage jaa sakta hai, iske andar wo capacity
00:17:41thi, wo capabilities dekhi, toh accha laga mujh ko, lekin uske baar mulaqat mein hi
00:17:47hoti thi meri, meri milne ke khaish ho, usne kaha ke sir main aapke ghar pe aunga, aap
00:17:50se milna chahara ho, bahut, lekin uske baar jo hua, bahut hi dukh hua, aur thoda sa, jo
00:18:00woh akhwaayin waghar ho rahi tha, sun ke thoda, thodi chinta bhi hui, thoda ghusa bhi aaya,
00:18:06ki yeh tariqa nahi hai, ki ek acche hunhaar kalaqaar ko, aur khaas ko uske jaane ke baad,
00:18:13yaa jaane mein, wo kahe chale gaye, jo kisse sun rahe the, agar wo sach the kisse, toh
00:18:20aisa, kisi kalaqaar ko aisa nahi karna chahiye, is tarah se, abhi uska bhavishye bahut ujjal
00:18:26dikh raha tha mujhe, bahut hi ujjal dikh raha tha, kya hota kal wo toh hum nahi kya sakta
00:18:32hai, lekin bahut ujjal dikh raha tha, lekin uska jaana sahi maano mein, Karachetra ke
00:18:39leh bhi hum log ke liye bahut afsoos, bahut dukh ka bishay tha, main uske baad, itni
00:18:46controversy ki dekh kar, hume bhi shamil karne ko shish ke, hala ke mera toh meri mulaqat
00:18:51hi ek baar hui thi, toh maine koshish bhi ki thi, Patna mein ke ghar pe jaane ki, baad
00:18:57mein, lekin jab main gaya tha, maine bataaye, jinn log se kaha, ke wo khabar kar do, main
00:19:02aane wala hu, toh lagta hai, unke pitaaji wahan the nahi, us din shayad kahin aur gaye
00:19:07hua the, isle mein nahi jaa saka, aisa, bairaal, yeh badi sachayi hai, ke Sushant Singh Rajput
00:19:14humare beech nahi hai, lekin, bhalayi yeh karvi sachayi ho, lekin sachayi toh hai.
00:19:20Sachayi toh hai.
00:19:22Hum baithe hain Ramayana mein, yeh bahut nayab hai, very very unique, anuka hai ki ek parivaar
00:19:30mein, Ram, Lakhan, Bharat and Kshatrughan, chaar bete aise naam ke hain.
00:19:38How did your parents think of this?
00:19:40Bata nahi kaise, wo bhi lagta hai, bahut confidence tha, pehle toh koi santaan nahi thi, santaan
00:19:47nahi, ab aapki kitab mein bhi likha hai, lekin wo, ek Varanasi mein abhi bhi hoga, achha hai,
00:19:54ek bandi tha, Ram Ramapati Bank, aur America se, America jaane ke pehle, unhone,
00:20:05Kaun aapki pitaaji?
00:20:06Mere pitaaji, America se unhone, B.Sc. M.Sc. kiya tha, Kansas se aur Pennsylvania State
00:20:12University se, lekin uske pehle unhone, jab santaan praapti nahi ho rahi thi toh, jo hum
00:20:20logo bataya gaya hai, toh Ram Ramapati Bank mein shayad, sawa sawa lakh haram naama rojh
00:20:26likhna padta tha, wo arzi deni padti thi, wo arzi kar swikar ho gayi, toh chaar takke
00:20:32chaar putra praapti ki aapki, sambhavna aur aapki arzi manzoor hoti thi, uske baad, agar
00:20:39aur aap kehte toh, laalaj manan jata tha, greed, toh aisa log kehte hai, wohin pe jo
00:20:46ne pooja paath kiya maawaapne aur sawa sawa lakh haram naama rojh likhna, aasaan nahi
00:20:53hota, wo karke aur wo kaise wahaan jamaa kiya, kaise arzi manzoor hoi, aur ekdum jo
00:21:02sawal aapne kiya, bahot log kehte the, kaise pata tha pitaaji ko, ki chaar hi bete honge,
00:21:08tabhi naam rakha, Ram, Lakhan, Bharat, Shatrughna.
00:21:12And bahot anokha hai, kyunki I have never heard of aur koi parivaari nahi hai, jahan
00:21:18aisa chaar bete hain.
00:21:20Isi liye logon kahe, ghar ka naama Ramayana kaise ho, Ramayana isliye ho.
00:21:23Main actually poochne wali thi ki, idea kiska tha, ki aapne jab bungalow banaya, uska naam
00:21:29Ramayana hona chahiye, kiska idea tha?
00:21:31Mane logon ne kaha, so yeh toh parivaar hai, jiske chaar bhai hain, aap log chaar bete
00:21:37hain, aur Ram, Lakhan, Bharat, Shatrughna, toh isse Ramayana se badhi hai, aur kya naam
00:21:43ho satta hai, so Ramayana ki, Ramayana ki characters hai, Ramayana se aate hain saare.
00:21:48Toh isliye haan, toh isliye besa rakha hai, aur dekhiye tafaq, ki jab yahaan pe, hume
00:21:55bachon ka phal mila, putra prapti hui, junma beton karoop mein, toh isse pehle hum faisla
00:22:03karte, sab logon ne, media ne, saare logon ne, ki love kush ka, its arrival of love
00:22:11and kush in Ramayana, toh aise hua, yeh karke, ek ittafaq hai, isko sanyog kahenge, prayog
00:22:20nahi kahenge.
00:22:21That's true, that's true, Sunoo ji, aapka image jab aap acting karti the pehle pehle,
00:22:31toh aapka image tha of a very macho he-man, yeh wo, aur ladkiya aap pe marte the, shayad
00:22:38abhi bhi marte honge, toh, lekin yeh bhi sahi hai na, ki aapka jo influence raha hai aapki
00:22:49zindagi mein, sabse zyada women have influenced you more than anybody else na, jaise ki your
00:22:56mother, jaise ki Mumtaz, matlab every corner of your life, every turn, humesha ek aurat
00:23:08ka haath raha hai aapki, hai na?
00:23:10Haan, amma ka bahot hi haath raha, bhagwa bolti thi humko, aur star ban gaye, so called
00:23:20a star ban gaye, ghar jaate the, Patna jaate the, humesha jaana lag raha, aur itni bahar
00:23:25bheer lagi rahati thi, dekhne ke liye, log aate the, pyaar karte the, unko bahut fakar
00:23:30bhi hota tha, bihar se pehli baar ko itna bada star banaya, toh unko achha lakta tha,
00:23:35toh, lekin wahan bhi wo saamne aake kai baar bolti thi, ki jao wo samaan leke rao bahar
00:23:41se, bhawa, aur humne ka, maa samaan leke rao, yahan toh crowd sabala nahi jaa raha hai,
00:23:47bahar kaise jao sakte hai, kya matlab hai, bahut bade aajme ban gaye hain aap, kabhi
00:23:51bhi nahi kar rahe the, bahar jaa ke, wahan bhi churi baali hai na, unko bole ga, maine
00:23:55churi ka order diya tha, wo leke aaye, wo bhi leke raahiye, kahi baar kar de tha, samjhaan
00:24:04nahi maan de, lekin aap prabhavit huye the na, unse, she influenced you a lot na, bahut
00:24:11zyada, in fact jab aap FTII Pune ke liye nikal rahe the, toh aapke pita ji na khush the,
00:24:20but your mother was very similar to you, unko bole ga, jaayiye aap bilkul, ab jo raasta
00:24:26chun liya hai aapne, toh yeh hi hoga aapko, jaayiye aap, bol ke huye, hum jab FTII jaa
00:24:33rahe the toh, mere pita ji toh bahut disciplined aadmi the, bahut disciplined, shaam ke 6
00:24:39baje, saara 6 baje khaana kha lena, raat ke 9, saara 9 baje so jaana, jo aaj film industry
00:24:46mein shayad Akshay Kumar kar wo, toh wo toh Amerika ke the, padhe leke, lekin uske baad
00:24:52wo disciplined the bahut, aur ekdum jaldi so jaate the, khaana, toh unno kaha ke nahi,
00:24:58aur gadi thi humare pa, car, kar nahi di, wahan jaane ke liye, station jaane ke, station
00:25:06jaane ke, nahi aap struggle pe jaa rahe hai, yeh kya acting ke kya course hota hai, aap
00:25:11kya banege acting, joker banege, kya banege, unko samjh mein nahi aage acting ke training
00:25:16kya hoti hai, isliye mere, jo uspe, form pe likhna hota hai, parents ka, parents, father
00:25:25or the, usse mein parent nahi hota hai, father or the guardian, aap toh shayad maa ka bhi
00:25:30hota hoga, hota hai, aur achi baat hai, toh father or the guardian, father ne kaha ke
00:25:36nahi, main ispe sign nahi karunga, halage baad mein mujh pe bahut fakar kiya, bahut
00:25:40maante the andar se, unko takleev thi, aur pehli baad ghar ka sabse chota beta, wahan
00:25:46se jaa rahe hain pune, bada beta toh America chala gaya, doosra beta ki America, Dr. Ram
00:25:52Sinha America mein the, Dr. Lakhan Sinha ki America jaane ki baat ho rahi thi, Dr. Bharat
00:25:58Sinha doctor of medicine, wo shayad London jaate, unse baat chal rahi thi, aur mera FTII
00:26:06jaana, actor banne, actor banne wo bhi, teenon aapne dekha na, teenon ke naam ke aage, Dr.
00:26:14Dr. Ram, Dr. Lakhan, Dr. Bharat, main toh compounder banne lag nahi tha, toh mere aage
00:26:20toh doctor title lag nahi sakha, ye baat alag hai ki ek din main desh ka health minister
00:26:24banne, health minister banne, wo alag issue hai, jo kisi kaabil nahi hota hai, kahi baad
00:26:28Lok Tantra mein, wo aise bhi mantri ban jaata hai, health minister ban jaata hai, mera saad
00:26:32hi shayad aise aayi hua hoga, toh wahaan pe mother jo hai wo, main rickshaw pe samaan
00:26:39rakkar, aur samaan kya, pehli baad train se aur Bihar ka border cross kar raha tha, toh
00:26:46baksa bolte hain, baksa, toh baksa leke uspe, rickshaw pe rakha humne, jab jaane ki ghadi
00:26:56aayi, toh naturally main toh bahut ro raha tha, aur wo ro raha tha, aur wo amma bhi bahut
00:27:02ro rahi thi, aur rote rote hai, you were her ladla na, haan, bahuwa tabhi toh bolte, bahuwa,
00:27:09doll, bahuwa, chutka bahuwa, usse chota beta, aur uske baad woh behosh hogi, behosh hogi
00:27:18toh main utar gaya, rickshaw se, aur meri himmat nahi jaane ki, humne kya nahi jaata,
00:27:25bas train ki ticket hai, kitna 32-36 rupee ki ticket hai, wohi cancel hoga na, jo bhi
00:27:31wo sab dekhte, wo bhi baad-baad nahi mil jayega, toh humne kaha kya nahi jaaunga main, khair,
00:27:40thode jame unko hosh hai, unko kaha, yeh kya kar rahe hain aap, aap jayiye, agar wohi
00:27:45moment tha, is paar ya us paar, us paar, okay, and woh moment unko, aap jayiye, ekdum, ekdum
00:27:51chinta mat kahiye, hum theek ho jaayenge, toh ekdum yeh kar gaya, aur kaise rota hota
00:27:56gaya, wohi main kahi baad kisa suna chuka hoon, aapko hi bata chuka hoon ki, train mein
00:28:02baitha, train mein aaya, humein malum hai ki, aapki pehli mulaqat promi se udhar hi
00:28:11train mein, but aap 45 years almost, 44 years toh aap saath rahe hain, and there has to
00:28:20be something to say about that, matlab bahut hi successful marriage hai.
00:28:25Acha raha, badiya raha bahut, grace of God.
00:28:28With all its ups and downs, ups and downs toh har jagah hota hai, but 44 years together
00:28:35is a big, is a good index.
00:28:38Aap 44 years pehle kuch zyada emphasize kar rahi hain, aur dekhne wale kuch kanyaan
00:28:44agar dekh rahi hongi toh shayad mera image kharab ho jayega, toh pheech de badh jao main.
00:28:49Sonu ji, aapka, what would you say is the reason for such a successful marriage?
00:28:55Because dono taraf kuch na kuch adjustments hua hoga na?
00:29:00Pehli baat toh, woh I would say bahut hi zabardast quality aur bahut hi zabardast samarpan ki
00:29:13bhawana ke saath, jisko kahte hain family ke liye commitment, woh quality toh zabardast
00:29:21rahi, woh nahi rahi ki soh koi, main kisi ke shikayat nahi kar raha hoon, lagi yeh nahi
00:29:27raat mein koi kitty party mein ja rahe hain, chahiye club mein ja rahe hain, chahiye champagne
00:29:32party ho rahi hain, main kisi ke shikayat nahi kar raha hoon, jo log karte hain, karte
00:29:35hongi. Lekin yeh sab nahi rahi. Matlab promi mein. Promi matlab punam, jin ko hum log
00:29:43promi. Ji ji ji, bilkul nahi, bahut hi zabardast unke andar quality rahi. Family first. Family
00:29:51first. Jaise America mein Trump kahte hain na, nation first. Yes, America first. America
00:29:59first. Toh haan inke liye family first. Family first. Aur issi maamle mein issi tarah se kahi
00:30:06baar utaar chadhao bahut kuch hote rahe, kahi logon ne kaha ki soh kaise bardaash kar rahi
00:30:13hain, woh yeh kar kar, tarah tak baat. Toh boltein thi ki soh yeh utaar chadhao ke liye
00:30:17kya aadmein break kar de, banani mein itna waqt laga hai. Aur yeh break karne ke liye
00:30:23kya ek bahana kaafi hona chahiye. Toh karenge, theek hoga. Woh patience, woh kahana ek commitment,
00:30:33ek patience. Bahut hi beautiful toh nahi log maante hain, lekin bahut beautiful person.
00:30:40Bahut beautiful nature. Jaane, baadmein jah padhaaye udaaye puri ki, toh unko laga ke soh
00:30:47karna chahiye. Toh yahan aane ke baad, dating, courtship period tha, us waqt unko sab kiya.
00:30:55English mein bhi honours kiya. Sab koi yeh sab karke toh ne, jo ek family ki demand dikhi,
00:31:02yeh jo hamara laga ke hum usse aur strengthen kar paayenge family ko, parimaar ko. Aur machho
00:31:10hone ke baad pe bilkul, apne ko toh samala hi samala, bahut usse zyada ghar ko samala,
00:31:16machho ka samala. Aaj agar meri koi khaane peene, har maamle mein koi meri taarif karta hai,
00:31:21toh main saara taarif kashre apni patni ko derata hoon. Bilkul, bilkul. But don't you think,
00:31:29us zamana mein aur aaj bahut antar hai? Kyunki wo, matlab, Promi gave up her career,
00:31:38bilkul family first mein aaye thi. Ab jab aapki beti ki shaadi hui, toh zamana itna badal gaya
00:31:45hai, abhi koi nahi bolega ki, Sonakshi ko ghar mein betna chahiye aur unko, you know,
00:31:50a career, she should give up her career and become Mrs. Zaheer Iqbal. Aaj koi aesa sochta
00:31:55hi nahi hai, na? Nahi nahi, sochna chahiye bhi nahi. Abhi toh woman empowerment ka daur hai,
00:32:01halaag aesa nahi ki hamare maamle mein, woman empowerment, woman empowerment tha,
00:32:05ki jitna ghar ke, she has been the, not only the ghar ke maamle mein, running the show,
00:32:13har maamle mein, mere maamle mein. Har maamle mein, aapki campaign mein, har jahat hai. Mujhe
00:32:16yaad hai, Advani ji ek baar keh rahe the, Mr. Hilke Advani, aur unki patni ke saamne,
00:32:23kisi baat pe keh rahe the, lighter weight mein hi kaha tha, baaton mein dum tha, unhone
00:32:28kaha tha ki so, desh chalana shayad phir bhi, utna mushkil nahi, jitna ghar ko chalana.
00:32:35Correct.
00:32:36Jo desh chalane wale ghar mein rahete hain, unko chalana, unko mazboot rakhna, unka har
00:32:41baat ka khyaar rakhna, unka kab unko hasi, kab unka rootna, kab unko manana, kab unke
00:32:49jhagda karna, kab nahi karna, sense of timing, dabai kisab dena, kaun kaunse dabai dena,
00:32:55dabai check karo, pehle where, yahan jo log desh chalate hain, unko jo chalate hain ghar
00:33:01pe, wo to kamaal ka role hain, to wo hi keh raha hoon mein. Aur khoob nubhaaya unhone.
00:33:07Haan, haan, bahut. To yahaan pe aaj ke zamani mein koi nahi keh raha hoon, kehna bhi nahi
00:33:12chahiye. Ab to hum log maante hain, hum log to khaar shadi ke baad hi maante the equality
00:33:19mein, hum ne equality kya, hum to shuru se agar aapko yaad ho, to maine shuru se khaad
00:33:24log 35%, 35% women reservation ki baat karte hain, hum ne khaid, unko to poora de do, nahi
00:33:30to kamse ko 50% to do hi unko, kyu nahi doge 50%. So abhi to definitely bahut development
00:33:38ho rahe hain, ab to ladkiyaan hawai jahaj bhi chala rahi hain aur space mein bhi jaa rahi
00:33:43hain, hum to ghazab kar rahi hain wo. Aur karna bhi chahiye, main samatta hoon, unko
00:33:47encourage karna chahiye. Encourage karna chahiye. Yeh power jo hai empowerment, empowerment
00:33:55ke waqt mein. Aur jahaan jahaan bhi ladkiyaan, yeh shitr mein, jab jaa rahi hain, to ghazab
00:34:04kar rahi hain. Aap apne ko dekh lo na, kitna aap aayi, aap kitne saalon journalism kiyaan
00:34:11start kiya, kitne magazines kiyaan editor rahi hain, karte gayi, shaadi hui, logon ne
00:34:16ka, ab nahi kar paayegi, ab jo aapke husband ne bhi aapko encourage kiya, aapke bachche
00:34:22ne bhi aapko saath diya, aapka saath diya hoga. Aur aaj dekhi aap, sab koi aapki tarah
00:34:28bharti nahi ban jata hai na. Aapne kar ke dikhaya hai, to wo to achi baat hai. Hum
00:34:33isko bahut hi encourage karte hain. To go back just a little, Mumtaz ne aapko kaise
00:34:40influence kiya? Kyunki Mumtaz ka ek bada role tha na aapke career mein. Usne bahut
00:34:47maanti thi, very affectionate towards him, kayi log galat matlab mein nikalte the, but
00:34:52nahi, she has been very very nice lady in my life. Aur main toh same and struggler tha,
00:34:58naya tha, kaam ki talaash mein tha. Aur wo already badi, she was already a big heroine.
00:35:05Of course, main toh abhi bhi kehta hung bahut hat tak, we do respect to anybody and everybody,
00:35:12mujhe khilona jaisi film, main samatha hu sabse bada role unhi ka tha, jo mujhe khilona
00:35:18film mili ho, jisse kaafi naam ho. And that was a career changing role. Bahut naam
00:35:22hua. Toh bahut abhi bhi aati hain, Mumtaz toh yahan ghar pe zarur aati hain. Zaroor.
00:35:29And humari aksar baat abhi chalrodh pehle baat hui. Zalna milati hai. Kyunki humara toh yeh
00:35:34hai aur unka bhi shayad, Mumtaz ka bhi. Toh isme maante hain hum log. Once a friend,
00:35:41always a friend. Always a friend. Wo toh aap, you are famous for that. Ki aapki dosti toh
00:35:47matlab 30-40 saal ki dosti bhi aapka abhi bhi nibhate hain. Aur abhi bhi aap, matlab wherever
00:35:54you meet anybody, aapka, you know, aap hamisha yaad rakhte hain logon ko. Haan hamisha.
00:36:01Koshish karte hain hamisha. Aur aapki jo memory hai, that is very. Touchwood. Toh uske liye
00:36:10aap kuch khaas karte hain? Nahin, nahin. Main bohot saal toh yoga karte raha, yoga karte raha,
00:36:16tohde exercises karte raha. Lekin yeh. Aur badam karte hain? Badam bhi karte hain.
00:36:23Badam bhi karte hain. Lekin ab yeh kuch, mera ek tariqa raha. Log, I know, main us din,
00:36:33kahi log keh rahe hai ki sir Amitabh Bachchan bhi aapki hamisha tarif karte hain ki 10-10
00:36:36pages of dialogue. Aap kaise ek baar mein yaad kar lete the aur kaise aise dekha aur. Toh yeh
00:36:44ho sakta hai main pehle content samasta tha. Jo kehna kya chah raha hai. Right. Usse agar
00:36:50convinced hoon, toh phir shabdon mein gahna ya rashna, woh phir dikkat nahi thi humare liye.
00:36:57Right. Udostana ka ek kissa hai na? Jahaan aap late aaye the, your,
00:37:03pandhra minute mein aapko bura lamba ek shot dena pada. Nahin dena pada nahin. Main toh
00:37:10doosri baar phir dena tha. Toh Amitabh mein khud hi gale laga diya. Usne kaha, nahin pehle
00:37:15wala bahut acha tha. Woh rehne do aur 2 bhajiye ke pehle jo 1.5 bhajiye karein shuru kiya tha aur
00:37:202 bhajiye ke pehle khatam ho gaya. Khatam ho gaya. Acha raha ho. Acha experience tha.
00:37:26You know, aapki jo jeevaniye hain, that has been so inspirational for a lot of people.
00:37:35Lekin aapne bhi khud har mod pe kuch na kuch seekha hoga na, zindagi se. Of course.
00:37:43Toh can we go back just a little ki aap 20s mein jab the aur aapko nai nai kamya bhi mili yahaan
00:37:51aur you were the first villain jinko, jinko entry pe taliyan aati the. So how did you feel
00:37:59and what did you learn from that? Did it go to your head? How did you take that success? Kyunki
00:38:04bahut jaldi aa gayi the aapko. Thoda sa struggle kiya. But jab aaye, chapar phaad ke sab.
00:38:10Haan haan nahin nahin. Zindagi mein humne bahut kuch jo bhi seekhne ke koshish ki toh saath saath
00:38:18yeh bhi seekhne ke koshish ki, kya kya karna chahiye ke saath saath kya kya nahin karna chahiye.
00:38:24Correct. Woh bhi equally important hai, bahut mahtupon hai. Aur main jab shroo mein,
00:38:34jab popularity aa rahi thi aur jaise aapne ka villain ke entry pe talib hatti thi, pehla kabhi
00:38:42nahin hua aur shayad baad mein bhi kabhi nahin hua. Aur phir kahi baad aisa hota tha ki villain
00:38:48ka role jo main karta tha, agar hero ko main maarta tha toh talib hoti thi. Hero agar mujhe
00:38:53palad ko maarta tha toh usko galiyan milti thi. Footing hoti thi uski. Aisa bhi hua.
00:38:59Lekin ispe kisi nachcha ka, dekho yeh wave hai. Aur wave zyada din sustain karna bahut
00:39:07mushkil hota hai. Yeh toh wave hai, chal raha tumhara abdham. So isse dimaag, toh yeh baad
00:39:12mereko baith hai dimaag bhai. Ancha. Ke so nahin nahin, yeh toh awan jaman hai, yeh koi
00:39:18baat nahin. Aisa hai, toh main preparation, isse dekh kayi logon ne kaha, ki meri kayi
00:39:24picture jo nahin bhi chali baad mein, toh aisa nahin ke main abdham devdas ban gaya.
00:39:33Nahin, isse ke baad isme ek toh mere yoga hai, yoga ne bahut matat ki meri. Aur doosra
00:39:39yehi sabak. Ek line mujhe bahut pasand hai, this too shall pass away. Yeh bhi chala jayega.
00:39:48Aapki bahut log priyata hai, wo bhi shayad ek din kam ho jayegi, yeh chala jayega. Aur
00:39:53aapke paas agar udasi hai, safal nahin hai aap, yeh bhi ghadi ek din kham ho sakti hai.
00:39:59Toh yeh kuch understanding rahi mera andar, isle mai kaha sakta ho, fortunately, Prabhu
00:40:05kaisi manukampa Allah Taala ka fazal, Waheguru ka aashirbaad raha, ki mere pyaar zameen
00:40:11pe hi raha hai. Feet on the ground, firmly. Isliye… Aapko nahin laga, you made any
00:40:18mistakes at that time? Because you got carried away, because you were young. Matlab mistakes
00:40:24ki? Kwon nahin karta hai, galtiyan toh karta hi insaan. Kitni galtiyan? Jaise aap late
00:40:29aate the. Yeh bhi wo bhi galti thi humari. Aaj main eknam time pe aata hoon. Aaj dekhi
00:40:34mein. Aaj kal jaada hi punctual hai aaj. Aur fact hai ke aapko teen maje ka time toh
00:40:40toh main daai maje se ready behta hoa tha. Aur neeche instruction de diya tha humne.
00:40:44Toh ab yeh hi seekhta hai na aadmi. Karke bahut kuch hua, usme ek kaaran yeh bhi tha
00:40:52ab jib late aata tha na, Bharti. Toh main raat mein bahut kaam karta tha. Teen teen
00:40:59chaar chaar shifting karta tha. Toh kahi baar do baje, teen baje raat mein sota tha
00:41:04main. Aur aap believe nahin karoge, kahi log mujhe se puchte, mujhe ek aadat thi, thanks
00:41:10to my wife, Promi. Maha studio mein bhi poora dabba, 10-12 aadmi ka khana bhejti thi, lunch
00:41:18mein. Aap bhi gawa hai uske. Aur raat mein ek aadat nahin shuru, jib tak aake ghar mein
00:41:25nahaata nahi tha, tayyaar nahi hota tha, tab tak main khana nahi khaata tha. Toh aap believe
00:41:31nahin karoge ki mere 10-15 saal, kam se kam, khaas kar star banne ke baad, mera dinner
00:41:39time jo tha, wo kareeb 3.30 se leke 4.30 in the morning. In the morning? In the morning.
00:41:46Kahi baar toh aisa bhi hua, humare dost the bohot achhe, friend philosopher, guide and very
00:41:52close friend, unka main bahot abhari hun, Sanjeev Kumar, great actor. Kahi baar toh wo aate the,
00:41:58wo bhi jab jaante the, 2.30-3.30 mein jaga hua hun, toh kahi baar aa jaate the. Aur kahi baar
00:42:04unko jo chhodne, main gate pe jaata tha, 5-6 baje, savere. Jum inke jaane ka waqt hota tha.
00:42:11Sunday bagara, next day kaam nahin hai, toh aaram se. Toh doodh wala udhar se aata raata tha,
00:42:17dekhta tha, doodh wala. Usko lagta tha ki hum abhi morning walk ke liye jaana tha.
00:42:23Nahin pata tha ki humne sohne jaana tha. Aapne ek baar mujhe kaha tha that
00:42:31aapki zindagi mein ek baar you were, you know, you had your feet in two different boots at the
00:42:38same time. Two different boots? Kahi baar toh maini boots mein the.
00:42:45Matlab, and aapne yeh bhi kaha tha mujhe ki log samajhte hai that a man who's got two women in
00:42:54his life is a very lucky man, kitna fortunate aadmi hai, lekin he's not so fortunate, usme
00:43:01problems bhi hai. So what do you feel about that phase of your life jahan
00:43:07Reena bhi thi aur Promi bhi thi aapki zindagi mein? Nahin, main ab kisi ka naam nahin loonga
00:43:14because I'm very grateful to all the women who have come to my life, who have been in my life.
00:43:20Main bahut hi unka hasaanmand hu, koi sabse kuch seekhne ka mila hai. Mujhe kisi bhi khas ka jo
00:43:26humari zindagi mein muhtarma kahen, ladkiya kahen, dost kahen, saheli kahen. Main kisi
00:43:33ke khilaf mera dil mein koi bhagawat nahin hai, koi buray khayal nahin hai aur main sabka
00:43:42bahut hi hasaanmand hu, unse bhi bahut kuch seekhne ka mila hai life mein. Aur kaltiyan
00:43:47keen hai humne, aisa nahin ke kaltiyan nahin keen, main koi bahut bada, ab naturally jo
00:43:52patna se aa raha hai, itne door se aa raha hai pehli baar, jisne aad tak abhi isse chakka
00:43:57chaund dekhi nahin, achanak itna chakka chaund dekhna aur itna zyada stardom kaise kya hota
00:44:05hai, jisko yeh nahin pata tha kaise raah jaata hai aur kaise saha jaata hai bahut sari baaton
00:44:11ko aur kaise price fix karte hai aur kaise price badhata hai aur kaise price badhta
00:44:17hai, yeh sab karne wala aadmi jab uski courage ya uska naam jab itna hone lagta hai to sambhavna
00:44:29rehti hai behag jaane ki kahi baar aur chunki utna thos nahin tha uswaq aur yaha pe koi
00:44:37guardian factor nahin tha, jab humare zindagi mein promi aayi, punam aayi to baat badhalte
00:44:45gayi aur samalte gayi, to unka to bahut ahsaanmand hui, lekin saath hi saath, iss tarah se ho
00:44:54raha tha main kise ka naam nahin le sakta hu, bilkul nahin, sorry, main nahin le liya,
00:45:00haan aap ne le, main naam nahin loonga, lekin yeh zarur kaunga ki mujhe kisi se koi shikayat
00:45:05nahin, on the contrary main sabka bahut ahsaanmand hu, unse bahut pyaar mila hai, bahut ko seekh
00:45:11ne ko mila hai, bahut samalne ko mila hai, samarne ko mila hai, apne aap ko apne zindagi
00:45:15sajhaane ka mila hai unse, aur main kisi ke khilaab mere complain nahin hai, I hold them
00:45:21in very high esteem, aur iss baat pe aapke jo aap kehte hain na, agar aadmi achha ho,
00:45:31agar achha ho, to yeh jo aap kehte hain, achha isliye mein zor diya main ne, ki agar do teen
00:45:39jagah uska kahin commitment chal raha hai, ya jisko samajh raha hai ki commitment hai,
00:45:45aur ek jagah bahut hi committed ho, to uske liye bhi dikkat bahut hoti hai, uska chain,
00:45:52sukoon, blood pressure, sab pe bahut ahsar padta hai, kyonki ek ke paas jaata hai,
00:46:00jab rahta hai, uski yaad aati hai, jo ghar pe wait kar rahi hai aapka, aur ghar pe jab
00:46:07rahta hai, lagta hai usko kyon khilone ki taraham rakha hai, uska kya hoga, wahan kaise jaao,
00:46:15jab tak koi aise understanding nahin ho to alag baat hai, to guilt, gifai ka guilt to bahut
00:46:20hota hai, bahut hota hai, achhe achho ko hota hai, aur main to chutka bahu, main to Bihari
00:46:31bahu, Patna, wahan se aane wala, dheere dheere star bana, dheere dheere, ek logpriyata badhi,
00:46:38log chahane wale, maanne wale, pyaar karne wale, badh gaye, badhte gaye, to usme,
00:46:45lekin dil to aise hi raha na, jo sanskaar the mere andar, jo maa ka aashirbaat tha,
00:46:52chahe jo background raha, wo jo hamara sanskaar raha, to uske to bahut chinta hoti thi mujhe,
00:46:59so kahne ka matlab hi agar sanksheb mein kahen to, sirf larki ke saath hi zulma aur zayati nahin
00:47:06ho rahi hai, larkiyon ke saath, balki wo purush bhi apne upar bahut zayati, purush ho chahe jo
00:47:12ho, wo us insaan ko upar bhi badhi zayati hoti, bahut zayati, usko bhi, ab usko nikalna chahata hai,
00:47:22nikal nahin paata hai.
00:47:26You know, haali mein Shah Rukh Khan ne kaha ki he has given up smoking, unhone chhod diya hai
00:47:34smoking, so what do you feel about that, kyunki aap ek zamani mein bahut famous the aapke
00:47:41smoke rings ke liye, hum log aake aapka photo bhi lete the.
00:47:45Lekin ek zamani se abhi bahut famous hu anti-tobacco campaign karne ke liye,
00:47:52jab mein health minister tha, to aapko pata hai ki bahut saare kaam pe jo humne kiye usme
00:47:58ek tha anti-tobacco campaign humara aur ye gutka aur zarda aur ye chewing tobacco,
00:48:08inke khalaar samjhe sahi tarah kaisa humara sangharsh aur andolan chal raha tha, aap duniya
00:48:13ko pata hai, maine aapke dost jo hai Shah Rukh Khan, unko maine khud bhi kaha tha kahi baar,
00:48:22ki chhod do cigarette, kyunki ek baar mujhe, main pyaar se hi kaha tha, affectionately,
00:48:27mujhe ek baar dance kar rahe the, wahan pe stage pe aur main aur meri patni Poonam saamne
00:48:32baati hui the, toh aachanak Shah Rukh Khan ne mujhe dekha aur kala sorry sir,
00:48:37mohaaf rahe the, he was panting, he was sorry sir, I think age is catching up with me,
00:48:44nahi age nahi Shah Rukh, it's your smoking, pyaar se hi kaha, it's your smoking,
00:48:51bahut saare log hai, main abhi bhi kehta hu aur aapke is program ke zarye kehta hu,
00:48:55ki abhi bhi waqt hai, sabse pehla kaam aapko karna chahiye tha, sabse badiya waqt hota,
00:49:04jab aap tobacco start nahi karte, jisme smoking bhi hai, chewing tobacco bhi hai,
00:49:11lekin doosra sabse badiya waqt hai, aapke liye abhi aur issi waqt chhod dijiye,
00:49:18koshish ki yeh chhod lege, main toh khud peeta tha aapne kaha, toh maine toh anti-tobacco day,
00:49:24jab poora world mana raha tha, I think 1st of March, 1st of March aur 1st of April,
00:49:35aapne kaha duniya itna dollars kharsha kar rahi hai, lakhon, karoron dollars kharsha kar rahi hai,
00:49:42aur main kya karna hu yeh, toh mujhe cigarette chhodna chahiye, aur maine bakaar kisi option ke,
00:49:49bakaar kisi, chewing tobacco toh chhodiye, chiklet ho ki kya ka, kuch nahi, ekdum sankalp ke saath,
00:50:00strong will ke saath, chhoda aur aaj main anti-tobacco campaign karta hu,
00:50:05aur aaj poora anti-tobacco free atmosphere mein raha tha hu, aur koshish kartha hu,
00:50:11aur logon ko rakhne ki bhi, toh main abhi bhi kehta hu, main un logon ki bahut taarif karta hu,
00:50:17jino ne chhod ke, shuru karke chhod diya, jaise humare dost Amitabh Bachchan,
00:50:26hum logon ne saath hi decide kya chhodne ki, wo chhod gaye, aur usse main hum nahi chhod sake,
00:50:31logon bola, bahut accha raha tha, wo bhi acche cigarette peete the, Amitabh Bachchan,
00:50:36Shashi Kapoor peete the, toh unhone bhi chhod diya tha, aise bahut saare log hai.
00:50:40Abhi Ranbir Kapoor, when he saw his little daughter, he said ki unke liye accha nahi hai,
00:50:46beti ke liye accha nahi hai, toh jo nuksan poncha sakte hai beti ko, usko main chhod dunga,
00:50:52bol ki unhone give up karte hai. Bahut acchi baat hai, koi bahane se chhodo,
00:50:56niklo iss se, warna yeh aapke, kayi logon malum hai, kayi doctor toh 25 saal se jo chhoda hua
00:51:04hai na, 25 saal tak ko bhi kayi baad log maante hain, smoker category me darte hain,
00:51:11halange 25 saal pehle chhoda diya hai, damage, toh ab usko abhi rokna chahiye,
00:51:17aur chaar, main apne tamaam doston ko kehta hu, yeh plane mein jab aap kehte hain,
00:51:25tobacco nahi peena mana hai, acchi baat hai, nahi hona chahiye, toh kayi logon ne beech mein
00:51:31shuru ka diya tha, wahan se America wagar ke flight mein, videshon ke flight mein,
00:51:37gud ka khaana shuru ka diya tha, zarda lena shuru ka diya tha, aise karte the,
00:51:42aap dekhte hain, kayi baad plane se utarte hain, first class mein, business class mein,
00:51:46toh aap dekhte hain, ekonomy class mein bhi dekhte hain, bohot saare pouches,
00:51:49kya pouches bolte hain na usko, woh bohot saare pouches wahaan pe pade hote hain,
00:51:54toh usmein woh khani zarda wagar le leta hain, yeh nahi hona chahiye, galan baat hai,
00:52:00aur Shahrukh Khan ne, Shahrukh Khan ne agar chhoda diya, toh main samjunga bohot hi sarani
00:52:05hai, bohot hi prashansani hai, aur unke fans ke liye khaaskar, bohot hi anukarani hai.
00:52:12Aap maante hain ki celebrities should set an example?
00:52:17Why not, bilkul.
00:52:18Aap maante hain?
00:52:19Bilkul maante hain.
00:52:19Kyunki aapne bhi shuru kiya tha, because you saw Raj Kapoor smoking, you saw all these people smoking.
00:52:23Oh yes, oh yes, oh yes, bilkul, bilkul, bilkul.
00:52:26Toh aapka…
00:52:27Aur shayad mera khyaal hai, hamara dost hai, ab toh, pehle toh bohot maanta tha,
00:52:31aapne kitab me likha bhi uske baare mein, Rajnikanth waghara, Rajnikanth jo great actor,
00:52:37unhone bhi, aur bahut saare logon ne bhi shayad, cigarette shuru karne mein,
00:52:43ya cigarette ke habit ko badhane mein, ya style maarne mein, mera bohot-bohot haath ho sakta.
00:52:51Yes.
00:52:52Main uske liye bhi guilty feel kata tha.
00:52:53Right, okay.
00:52:56Aur Rajnikanth was very inspired by you, kyunki wo jo stylized acting aap
00:53:02mashoor the uske liye. He also started doing the same thing of blowing, you know,
00:53:07the smoking rings, aur wo hit karke ghadi dekhna, wo sab unhone bhi kiya.
00:53:13Toh, lekin aapko ek thoda sa yeh hai ki he did not follow you into politics.
00:53:20Why should he follow, bhai dekhiye, main jo karun, sabko hi karna zaruri hai kya?
00:53:25Aapki andar capacity kya hai, aapki andar ki capabilities kya hai,
00:53:30aapka andar ka junoon, ya passion kya hai, aapka shauk kya hai.
00:53:35Aap humse itni purani mitr hain, aap humari, toh aap bhi toh politics mein nahi aayi.
00:53:40Toh aisa thoda mein kahaunga, aap nahi aayi toh main naraz hogaya aapse, kyu hoyi?
00:53:44Aur aap itni badhiya likhti hain, aapki drafting acchi hai,
00:53:48kitne badhiya aapka, angrezi pe toh khar bahut badhiya control aur command hai aapka.
00:53:53Toh main toh likhna shuru hi nahi kiya waise.
00:53:57Shahid mein jaisra bolta hu, kayi logon nahi bol pate hongi.
00:54:00Yeh thodi ki usse unki kamzori hai, chahe unko waise hi bolna chahiye.
00:54:04So you are not disappointed that Rajinikanth did not come into politics?
00:54:08Nahi, but mujhe lagta tha.
00:54:10Kyunki ek zamani mein aap bolte the ki unko aana chahiye.
00:54:13Nahi nahi, woh toh mera abhi bhi kehna hai, good man, a good person,
00:54:17jo bhi yeh jo society ke liye jisko feel hota hai,
00:54:21yeh jaante ve ki bahut rough weather ka saamna karna padega.
00:54:27Lekin aur bahut tough hoga aapke liye.
00:54:29Lekin mera apna maanna hai, jo humne bahut pehle quote suna tha,
00:54:33a good person, a good person is not entering into politics.
00:54:39Then he should be ready to be governed by the bad people.
00:54:41A good person not entering into politics, he should be ready to be governed by the bad people.
00:54:47Achche log agar aaj neet mein aayenge hi nahi,
00:54:50toh aapko bure logon ke sashan mein ghut ghut ke jeene ke liye,
00:54:55ghut ghut ke marne ke liye tayyaar aana chahiye.
00:54:58Aaj shayad yeh hi sab baatein hai,
00:55:00ya Jai Prakash Narayan je se prabhavit hua main,
00:55:03ya itne saalon se 6 baar ka MP hun,
00:55:06koi mazaak nahi hoda kahiye toh lagataar, nirantaar,
00:55:11uske baujood aaj toh do do baar Hindustan mein,
00:55:14poore Bharat Varsh ke film industry ka record tuta,
00:55:18ki cabinet minister bana, full-fledged cabinet minister.
00:55:21Full-fledged, you are the first actor.
00:55:24First actor, first film personality.
00:55:26Film personality, jo full-fledged cabinet minister bana hai.
00:55:30Cabinet Minister of Health and Family Welfare and then Cabinet Minister of Shipping.
00:55:35Toh uske baujood aaj tak kahi baaton se aap meri sahmat hoon ya sahmat na hoon,
00:55:40but yeh toh aap maanenge ki aaj tak aapne kabhi bhi,
00:55:43kisi bhi haal mein kabhi bhi, kisi waqt,
00:55:46aapne mere khilaf koi corruption ka koi allegation nahi suna hoga,
00:55:51aaj tak kabhi bhi nahi suna hoga.
00:55:53Toh yeh toh fortunate hain hum, lucky hain hum kahenge,
00:55:56acha lagta hum koi sunke.
00:55:58Toh bhai zarur humara maana hai abhi bhi,
00:56:02hala ke ab toh bahut paise ki raajneeti hogayi hai,
00:56:05kya kya nahi hora hai, kya kya kharche nahi hora hai,
00:56:08kya kya jaal saazi nahi hora hai,
00:56:10bahut kuch hora hai.
00:56:12Lekin uski, usi mein aapko raasta nikalna hoga,
00:56:15abhi ache log nahi aayenge, toh phir bure log toh aate hi rahenge,
00:56:18jink ke baare aap keh raha hoon,
00:56:20jaal saazi jo karte hain, chahiye,
00:56:22wo toh karte rahenge.
00:56:23Aap museebat hai, when going gets tough,
00:56:26the tough get going.
00:56:28Museebaton se paar wohi kar sakta hai,
00:56:31jiske andar museebaton ko jhelne ki shakti hoti hai,
00:56:33mujhe lagta tha.
00:56:35Ki Rajnikanth hain.
00:56:35Ki Rajnikanth hain, aise aur bahut saare humare dost hain,
00:56:39jink ke andar yeh shakti hai ya shakti thi,
00:56:42baharhal yeh unka apna choice hai,
00:56:45unke parivaar ka, unka, unke sehat ka,
00:56:48bahut saari baatein ho sakti hai,
00:56:50toh uspe mai kabhi koi tika tipni nahi karunga.
00:56:54Okay, aapki dosti with Amitabh Bachchan pehle se thi,
00:56:58matlab before both of you became such big stars.
00:57:01Aur kaafi ups and downs hua hai na usme.
00:57:04Hota hai na,
00:57:05kahin bhi koi bhi aapki dosti ho kisi se,
00:57:08bahut achi dosti ho,
00:57:09kaha na competition toh hota hai,
00:57:11yeh ek competition mein wajah ho jaati hai,
00:57:13kuch humare hain so-called fans ke wajah se,
00:57:16kuch competition mein,
00:57:17kuch so-called chamches bhi aa jaate hain,
00:57:20chamcha agri jab hoti hain aapki aur unki, kisi ki bhi,
00:57:23toh yeh sab ho jaa,
00:57:24but isko aap dil mein baan ke thodi rakhta hai,
00:57:27abhi ho gaya na,
00:57:28aapne ab aapke andar thairav aata hai,
00:57:30aapke andar maturity aati hai,
00:57:32experience hota hai,
00:57:34jab wo tajrubah hasil karte hain,
00:57:36seniority hoti hai,
00:57:37toh phir aap in chino,
00:57:39kahi chino ko nazar andar bhi karte hain,
00:57:41aur kahi chino jaisa aapne zor diya,
00:57:44bahut kuch seekhte bhi hain,
00:57:45aur saath saath yeh kahi maar yeh bhi seekhte hain,
00:57:48what to do,
00:57:49aur saath saath yeh bhi seekhte hain,
00:57:51what not to do.
00:57:52What did you learn from Amitabh Bachchan?
00:57:54I have learnt so many things,
00:57:55I have learnt ki,
00:57:57so dekhiye,
00:57:58room at the top,
00:58:00log kehte hain na,
00:58:01ki bahut lonely hota aadmi,
00:58:04aisa log kehte hain Amitabh ke baare mein,
00:58:06hala ki mai jis Amitabh ko jaanta hu,
00:58:08uske andar bahut hi flexibility hai,
00:58:12uske andar bahut hi intelligence hai,
00:58:16bahut hi intelligence se bhi zyada,
00:58:19main kohunga bahut intellectual insaan hai,
00:58:21aur unke andar jo bahut kam logon ko pata hai ki,
00:58:25ek child bhi dekhta hu main unke andar,
00:58:27unke andar jo flair for comedy jo hai,
00:58:31kahi log samjhenge nahin,
00:58:31bahut serious type ke aadmi,
00:58:33ab toh khaar kaun banega hai,
00:58:34crore ko pati se koi log jaanta honge,
00:58:36ki chad chad kar lete hain,
00:58:36sense of humor hai,
00:58:37acha humor hai,
00:58:38sense of humor hai,
00:58:39bas sabse zyada sense of timing,
00:58:41Amitabh ki,
00:58:43Amitabh bahut sharp observer hai,
00:58:45wo observe karte hain logon ko,
00:58:47aur kahi baar unke andar khasiyat hai,
00:58:50wo observe karke iske copy bhi kar sakte hain,
00:58:53toh bahut achahi hain,
00:58:54bahut hain,
00:58:54bahut kuch,
00:58:56hum log mein bahut cheezein milti bhi hain,
00:58:58common bhi hain,
00:58:58tabhi toh bhi toh mujhe khayat,
00:58:59itne saalon ka hum log,
00:59:01so what did you not learn from him,
00:59:03aapne kaha na,
00:59:03har cheeze se aap kuch,
00:59:05what to do,
00:59:06what not to do,
00:59:07hum,
00:59:08but Amitabh se kya,
00:59:09bahut logon se,
00:59:10Amitabh toh khaar,
00:59:11bahut senior aadmi hain hi,
00:59:12dost hain,
00:59:13purane hain,
00:59:13struggled hain ke sathi hain humare,
00:59:16aur,
00:59:17unse,
00:59:18but,
00:59:19ye bhi lagta hai,
00:59:20ki unse baanchi jab hoti hai,
00:59:22ki,
00:59:24jis tarah se wo,
00:59:26jitne paas,
00:59:28utne door,
00:59:29ye cheeze se seekha hai,
00:59:30ke ghar aapke saamne rehenge,
00:59:32toh lagega bahut paas hain aapke,
00:59:35darasal wo bahut door rehte hain,
00:59:37unko,
00:59:37itna aasani se,
00:59:40unko aaj ke din mein bhi,
00:59:41main nahin samatta hu,
00:59:43koi unko apna,
00:59:45sahi maane mein jo dost ki paribhasha hoti hain,
00:59:48us paribhasha ke tehd,
00:59:49koi unko dost kah sakega,
00:59:52dekhi humin iska koi shikarat nahin hai,
00:59:53theek hai,
00:59:54kyunki kayi baar,
00:59:55unki jo dosti karne aate hain,
00:59:58cha chahate hain,
00:59:59jo naddi unke karibh aate hain,
01:00:02ho sakta unmein se bahuton mein,
01:00:04swaarth bhi ho,
01:00:06dosti karne ke peeche koi maqsad bhi ho,
01:00:08ki yeh wo nahin hota hai,
01:00:10ke hum log hasi mazaak ki,
01:00:11aisa kal phir milte hain,
01:00:12parsa phir milte hain,
01:00:13usmein lagta hai,
01:00:14ki mauke ki talaash bhi ho,
01:00:16aur Amitabh jaise logon ke saath,
01:00:18aisa ho sakta hai,
01:00:19main apne,
01:00:20ab isliye so nahin shamil nahin karna hu,
01:00:22ki ab main full-fledged politics mein hoon,
01:00:24toh politics mein kehne se kaam nahin chalega,
01:00:27ke aap milenge nahin,
01:00:28aap public figure hain,
01:00:29toh public mein toh aapko milna hi parhega.
01:00:32That's true.
01:00:33As a father,
01:00:34kyunki aapne itna jo jhela hai,
01:00:36aapne jhela hai,
01:00:37dekha hai,
01:00:38seekha hai,
01:00:39toh what is your advice to your sons?
01:00:44To love and push.
01:00:45Unke career mein,
01:00:46unke zindagi mein,
01:00:47aap kya unko bolna chahenge?
01:00:50Kya advice denge?
01:00:51Nahin, nahin,
01:00:51abhi main unko,
01:00:54main ek samay ke baad,
01:00:57they are very good boys,
01:00:59bada ek tarah toh mujhe bahut fakhar hota hai,
01:01:02ki aaj ke daur mein,
01:01:05jaha main anti-tobacco ki baat kah raha tha,
01:01:08chahe nasha ki baat kah raha tha,
01:01:10kisi kisam ka nasha,
01:01:12chahe wo drugs ki baat ho,
01:01:15toh usse toh koson,
01:01:17koson,
01:01:18meelon,
01:01:18meelon door hai machchein mare.
01:01:20Dono, haan.
01:01:21Dono, haan.
01:01:21Dono, correct.
01:01:22Total,
01:01:23sawal hi nahin peda hota hai.
01:01:26Aur,
01:01:27smoking kabhi try bhi nahin,
01:01:30beer bhi nahin,
01:01:32aisa nahin kar raha hoon,
01:01:32jo beer lete hain,
01:01:33jo champagne lete hain,
01:01:35main unki bhartana kar raha hoon,
01:01:36chah unki ninda kar raha hoon,
01:01:37nahin.
01:01:38Theek hai,
01:01:39unka apna nasariya hai,
01:01:41lekin,
01:01:42sehat ke liye toh kharab hota hi hai.
01:01:43Yes.
01:01:44But, fairer,
01:01:44main kisi ki shikayat nahin kar raha hoon,
01:01:46lekin,
01:01:47is maamne toh bahut fakhar hota hai,
01:01:49ki humare bachche gym jaate hain,
01:01:51apne ghar mein hi gym hai,
01:01:53yeh sab sehat ka khaas khyaar lakte hain,
01:01:56sanskaar hai unke andar mein,
01:01:58hot talented hain,
01:02:00bade good looking hain,
01:02:01achche hain,
01:02:02aur uske baujuj,
01:02:04unke bhi pyaar zameen pe hi hain.
01:02:06Okay.
01:02:06Kabhi aap nahin dekhte hoon,
01:02:07unkoi bodhi-bodhi party mein,
01:02:09aur koi aaj tak unke baare mein
01:02:11koi kaand nahin suna hoga,
01:02:12koi usko usko nahin karte hain.
01:02:14Ab unko yeh hai,
01:02:15ki jis field mein jaana chahein,
01:02:17jahan jaan kuch kar raha hain,
01:02:18business mein kar raha hain,
01:02:20kush direction bhi kar raha hain,
01:02:22doosre film mein shaloo karne waale hain,
01:02:24toh wo log kar rahein,
01:02:25waha pe achcha hai,
01:02:25unko agar usme humko koi zaroorat padegi,
01:02:28toh main hoon usmein.
01:02:29Main kabhi bhi,
01:02:32shuru se belief karta tha,
01:02:33jaise ek udhaaran durunga,
01:02:35yeh saari kahaani ho jayegi,
01:02:3718 saal ke hua tha shayad,
01:02:40bahut pehle toh,
01:02:42kisi dost ke haan baitha hua tha,
01:02:4418 ke tha ya 25 ke tha,
01:02:46theek se yaad nahin hai,
01:02:47hua toh kisi dost ke haan baitha hua tha,
01:02:50toh waha pe unko,
01:02:53beer wagar offer kiya ho gaya ho,
01:02:55ab toh aap bachcha mein hota hai,
01:02:56jab aap jawaan ho gaye toh,
01:02:58chalo celebrate,
01:02:59let's celebrate,
01:03:00beer,
01:03:01wo andar aaye,
01:03:02andar se phone kiya,
01:03:05ki kya karein,
01:03:06yeh log beer dena chah rahein,
01:03:09so,
01:03:10beer, beer bol rahein,
01:03:11beer piyo,
01:03:13kya karein,
01:03:14yeh toh humne ka,
01:03:15tumne pooch ke hi hum se bohot,
01:03:17mahaan kaam kiya hai,
01:03:18ki mujhse pooch rahe ho tum,
01:03:20ki kya karein,
01:03:21yeh tumhari badappan hai,
01:03:23lekin,
01:03:25abhi iss maamne mein,
01:03:26mai kuch nahin kahunga,
01:03:27tumhara apna dil kya kehta hai,
01:03:29agar tumhara dil kehta hai,
01:03:31karna hai,
01:03:32toh ab main toh nahin rokh sakta hua,
01:03:34because 25 saal ke ho gaye,
01:03:36yeh,
01:03:37dekin haan,
01:03:38agar mujhse koi poochega,
01:03:39toh main toh anti-tobacco kehta hi hu,
01:03:42yeh aur agar nahin karoge,
01:03:43toh bahut achcha rahega,
01:03:45karte jo aap kehna hai,
01:03:46nahin karoge,
01:03:47achcha rahega,
01:03:47wo mera dil pehle hi keh raha tha,
01:03:49tabhi toh aapko phone kiya tha,
01:03:51aur nahin liya,
01:03:52nahin chhota.
01:03:53Toh certain things,
01:03:54jo aaj ke zamane mein,
01:03:55aapko bahut fakar feel karata,
01:03:57mehsoos karata hai,
01:03:59achcha,
01:03:59wo hai,
01:03:59bachon mein,
01:04:00yeh khasiyat hai,
01:04:02ab baaki,
01:04:03kis ki kya kismat hai,
01:04:05kal kya hoga,
01:04:06aapke bachche ho,
01:04:07kisi ke bachche ho,
01:04:09unko jitni koshi chal rahi hai,
01:04:10sincerity chal rahi hai,
01:04:12us sincerity ke raaste mein,
01:04:14agar koi archan aayegi,
01:04:16aur agar hum usko sort out kar sangega,
01:04:18toh kyun nahin,
01:04:18hum zarur karenge,
01:04:19of course,
01:04:19as a father friend,
01:04:21or friend father.
01:04:22But to keep frustration away,
01:04:24what do you tell them?
01:04:25How do you,
01:04:27matlab aap kya unko bolte hain,
01:04:29kya advice dete hain,
01:04:30so that they don't get frustrated?
01:04:32Follow three C's,
01:04:34three C's,
01:04:36cool,
01:04:36calm,
01:04:36and composed.
01:04:38Achcha,
01:04:39okay,
01:04:39very good.
01:04:41Yeh teen C follow karo,
01:04:42koi baat nahin.
01:04:43Were you cool,
01:04:44calm,
01:04:45composed,
01:04:45when Sonakshi got married?
01:04:49Aap toh aayi thi shadi mein?
01:04:50Main aayi thi,
01:04:51and I thought,
01:04:51she made the most radiant bride.
01:04:54Maine itni khush,
01:04:56such a happy bride,
01:04:57maine bohot kam dekha hai.
01:04:59Radiant bride dekha,
01:05:01khush dekha,
01:05:02khubsurat dekha,
01:05:04bohot hi khush thi,
01:05:05and I was so happy to see her glowing.
01:05:07She was absolutely glowing,
01:05:09and I think thoda sa,
01:05:10it was also because you were there to support her.
01:05:13Of course,
01:05:13kyun nahin karunga?
01:05:14Yeah.
01:05:15Bhai aap sidi baat hai,
01:05:19shadi kis ki hai?
01:05:20Bachon ki hai.
01:05:22Kis ki zindagi hai?
01:05:23Bachon ki zindagi hai.
01:05:25Toh jab zindagi unki hai,
01:05:28shadi unki hai,
01:05:30toh main kaun hoon toh aap beech mein aane wala?
01:05:32Arre bhai,
01:05:33yeh hi toh aapne kaha hai,
01:05:34baara pootne life mein kya seekha ho,
01:05:36kya nahin seekha.
01:05:37Yeh hi tumne seekha,
01:05:38yeh hi,
01:05:39yeh nahin seekha hai,
01:05:40arre hum toh hai aise hain,
01:05:43aur aise hain.
01:05:44Kyun bhai,
01:05:45miya bibi razi,
01:05:46toh kya karega Kazi?
01:05:48Unki shadi hai,
01:05:49unki zindagi hai,
01:05:51aur uspe toh aap,
01:05:53as a father,
01:05:53mother,
01:05:55aapka farz banta ho,
01:05:56khas ka as a father,
01:05:57uska man,
01:05:58uski maturity hai,
01:06:00seniority hai,
01:06:01experience hai,
01:06:03hum amesha saath rahe hain,
01:06:04aur father ka toh aise bhi,
01:06:06abhi humne ladies ke baare,
01:06:08mahilaon ke baare,
01:06:09betiye ke baare mein kahan,
01:06:10empowerment ka zamana hai,
01:06:12aur usse mein agar aap,
01:06:13katab uthate hain,
01:06:13achha kaam kar rahe hain,
01:06:15shadi kar koi,
01:06:16ghair kaanuni kaam toh nahin kar rahe hain na aap,
01:06:18ya ghair samvidhanik kaam toh nahin kar rahe hain na aap,
01:06:21aap samvidhan ke andar baat kar rahe hain,
01:06:23aap kaanun ke daire mein kaam kar rahe hain,
01:06:26agar kaanun ke daire mein nahin hota,
01:06:27shayada mana bhi karte hain,
01:06:29but yeh toh nahin hai,
01:06:30yeh toh aapka,
01:06:31But mujhe hamesha se malum tha,
01:06:33ki aapka reaction yehi hoga.
01:06:36Because knowing you,
01:06:37I knew ki jis din,
01:06:38shanakshi aapko aake Zaheer ke baare mein batayegi,
01:06:41kyunki hum log ko malum tha,
01:06:42saath saal se jo friendship chal rahi thi,
01:06:45hum sabko malum tha,
01:06:46lekin mujhe yeh bhi malum tha,
01:06:47ki jis din wo aake aapse baat karege,
01:06:51aap objection nahin lenge,
01:06:53you will support her.
01:06:54Mujhe hamesha se malum tha.
01:06:56Bilkul support kar,
01:06:57you will always be.
01:06:58Always be supporter.
01:06:59Poore party mein sabse mil raha tha,
01:07:00sabka swagat kar raha tha,
01:07:01toh hi tarah,
01:07:02bahut khushi ho rahi thi mujhe,
01:07:04aur dono ko maine dekha bhi,
01:07:06shanakshi Zaheer dono,
01:07:07bilkul made for each other couple lag raha tha,
01:07:09bahut badiya lag raha tha dono,
01:07:11aapki kaanain glow kar raha tha,
01:07:12katne khumsurat.
01:07:13She was looking lovely.
01:07:14Wohi khumsurat nahin dekha raha tha,
01:07:15poore couple hi bahut khumsurat dekha raha tha.
01:07:17Aur baaki toh atmosphere ghazab hai.
01:07:21Arrangements were super.
01:07:23Did you feel a little bad,
01:07:25that your sons did not support her?
01:07:28Is topic pe phir baad de baat karege.
01:07:31Okay.
01:07:33Because it would have been nice,
01:07:35khushi karege topic nahin,
01:07:36agar full family was there.
01:07:36Usne main koi shikayat nahin kar raha ho,
01:07:38kisi ki,
01:07:38wo bhi ek reaction hota hai.
01:07:40Dekho,
01:07:41insaan hai,
01:07:42bachon ko ek culture shock hota hai,
01:07:44kehi ho pe,
01:07:45hota hai na.
01:07:46Abhi unka andar shayad
01:07:47utni maturity nahin hogi,
01:07:50jin logon ne aisa kaha hoga.
01:07:51Lekin hum se aisa,
01:07:56jitna,
01:07:58main unke bhi dard ko,
01:08:00ya unke bhi confusion ko,
01:08:01ya unke bhi,
01:08:02ya unke bhi,
01:08:03isko,
01:08:05parashani ko samajh sakta ho,
01:08:06ke achanak jo hai,
01:08:07unke dost pooste hoga hi hota hai.
01:08:09You're seeing it from their point of view.
01:08:11Haan, ho sakta hai,
01:08:12shayad main bhi usse age mein raha tha,
01:08:14toh shayad mera sochane ka ravaiya,
01:08:15kuch aur hota.
01:08:17Ab toh,
01:08:18understanding hai,
01:08:19maturity hai,
01:08:20seniority hai,
01:08:21I've learned in life,
01:08:23so many things.
01:08:23So much.
01:08:24Toh isliye aisab cheez se,
01:08:26humne bahut achche se,
01:08:27aashirvaad diya.
01:08:28That's right.
01:08:29Like a stambh main saamne raha.
01:08:31Yes.
01:08:31Aur abhi bhi,
01:08:32bilkul.
01:08:33One last question,
01:08:34since we keep learning from everything,
01:08:372024 mein aapne kya seekha,
01:08:40aur 2025 mein aap kya,
01:08:43kya ummeed rakhte hain,
01:08:44aap 2025 mein?
01:08:46Nahi, 2025 mein,
01:08:492024 mein kya seekha,
01:08:51abhi toh analyse karunga baad mein,
01:08:53lekin haan,
01:08:55seekha.
01:08:56You became a father-in-law again.
01:08:58Father-in-law hogaya.
01:09:00You got a damaad for the first time.
01:09:04Jo aap bolte the ki,
01:09:06mujhe ghar damaad chahiye,
01:09:08wo nahi hua.
01:09:09Nahi hua.
01:09:11Wo toh main shuru mein kehta tha.
01:09:13Kehte the aap,
01:09:14ki ghar jamaad chahiye.
01:09:16Hum maine koi logon ke example bhi diya tha,
01:09:18Sharad Pawar ka.
01:09:18Sharad Pawar ka apne bhi diya tha,
01:09:20correct.
01:09:22Kyuki,
01:09:22you've been so attached to the daughter,
01:09:24especially,
01:09:26mere baare mein,
01:09:26toh duniya ko pata hai,
01:09:27ki hum bahut hi zyada,
01:09:29Sonakshi se attached raha hai.
01:09:30Yes.
01:09:31Isi liye keh raha tha,
01:09:33ki Sonakshi se itne attached raha hai,
01:09:35itne attached raha hai,
01:09:37ki ghar main uska saath nahi deta,
01:09:39uske iss crucial moment mein,
01:09:42decision mein,
01:09:43toh aur kaun deta.
01:09:44Yeh toh mera ekdum farz tha,
01:09:47kartab kya,
01:09:47rashtriya kartab mein tha mera.
01:09:49Parivari kartab mein tha mera.
01:09:51Correct.
01:09:51And you were also happy this year,
01:09:53that you saw,
01:09:54Heera Mandi,
01:09:55she did a very good job.
01:09:56Fantastic.
01:09:58You, did you watch Heera Mandi?
01:09:59Poori.
01:10:00Acha.
01:10:00Okay.
01:10:01Poori lagata.
01:10:02Kyunki aapme itni yeh nahi hai,
01:10:03ki aap poora web show deekhi.
01:10:05Ek din mein nahi dekhi.
01:10:06Aapne hi dekhta hai,
01:10:07mujhe walo mera.
01:10:07Hum se ladh rahi thi,
01:10:09jagad rahi thi,
01:10:09kaise nahi dekha.
01:10:11Ab ekdum dekha,
01:10:12do teen din mein dekhi usko,
01:10:13karke dekhni thi na.
01:10:15Lekin,
01:10:15main abhi bhi kahunga,
01:10:17mujhe Sonakshi ki,
01:10:18jo sbse badiya film lagayi,
01:10:20bandh mein,
01:10:20zyada film mein nahi dekhi uski,
01:10:23wo lagayi thi,
01:10:28I wish you had seen Dahar,
01:10:29aapne dekhe.
01:10:30Aur haan.
01:10:31She was very good in Dahar also.
01:10:32Very good in Dahar,
01:10:33boho acha.
01:10:34Wo role hai aisa tha,
01:10:36ki wo tailor made for Sonakshi.
01:10:38Absolutely,
01:10:39wo aur uske baal Heera Mandi.
01:10:40Heera Mandi,
01:10:41yes.
01:10:41Kya shades hai,
01:10:43kya iske,
01:10:44role ki flexibility thi.
01:10:45You know,
01:10:45she is drum scream personality,
01:10:47you know.
01:10:48She's got that same thing,
01:10:49that you've got.
01:10:50Ek aur cheez hai,
01:10:51jo,
01:10:52kam logon na notice kiya hoga,
01:10:53Sonakshi mein,
01:10:55sense of humour bhi bohot badiya hai.
01:10:57Sonakshi has always been
01:10:59the apple of your eye.
01:11:01Hamesha.
01:11:02Aur,
01:11:02jab choti thi tab,
01:11:04birthday party ka jab,
01:11:06Lehre mein unka reel bani thi,
01:11:08tab also you were there with her.
01:11:10To,
01:11:12how do you feel about,
01:11:13you know,
01:11:13you have a,
01:11:14you have a long association
01:11:16with Lehre also.
01:11:17Oh yes,
01:11:17oh yes.
01:11:18Sonakshi,
01:11:19of course.
01:11:19Lehre ke paath humare
01:11:20bohot badiya,
01:11:21badiya episodes hain.
01:11:23Aane,
01:11:24jab main Sanjay Dutt ko,
01:11:25Bala sahib Thakre se milane le gaya tha,
01:11:28wo bhi hai.
01:11:29Aur,
01:11:30bohot saare,
01:11:31aur,
01:11:32humare birthday ke bhi hain,
01:11:34Vijay Sinha ke film
01:11:35Ranbhoomi ban rahi thi,
01:11:37usme hum log tha,
01:11:38wo,
01:11:39Sonakshi ke birthday ki,
01:11:41ya Love Kush ke birthday ki,
01:11:42to,
01:11:43teeno birthday to,
01:11:44ek hi hafta mein hai na,
01:11:45June mein,
01:11:46first week mein.
01:11:47That's right.
01:11:47To,
01:11:48Sonakshi toh apple thi,
01:11:50to,
01:11:51uska birthday mein,
01:11:52duniya mein kahin rahta,
01:11:54kahin bhi ho,
01:11:56lekar uska birthday mein,
01:11:57aajaata tha yahaan bhi.
01:11:58Correct.
01:11:58Kahin,
01:11:59kitna busy raho.
01:12:00To aake,
01:12:02uske sahabhi,
01:12:02Sun and Sand mein,
01:12:03usko swimming karana le jaata tha main,
01:12:06hotel mein,
01:12:07andar paisa,
01:12:08sikka daalta tha,
01:12:09sikka jaake,
01:12:09tayar ke,
01:12:10nikal ke lati thi.
01:12:11Nikal ke leti aap.
01:12:11Haan.
01:12:12To,
01:12:12birthday mein,
01:12:13yahaan to,
01:12:13uska,
01:12:14wo,
01:12:14kabhi nahi bolte thi,
01:12:15mera birthday,
01:12:16bolte thi,
01:12:16mera happy birthday.
01:12:18Mera happy birthday,
01:12:19uska happy birthday yahaan pe.
01:12:20Aur,
01:12:20aapko best test,
01:12:21daddy bolte thi.
01:12:25Main cheez,
01:12:26wo bhi mana karti thi.
01:12:27Hmm.
01:12:27Shahrukh,
01:12:28aap bhi sunli,
01:12:29ya aapke ghar mein bhi,
01:12:29bachche shahad bolte hone.
01:12:31Ek to,
01:12:31kehti thi,
01:12:33ladki se baat nahi karne ka.
01:12:34Aacha.
01:12:35Doosra,
01:12:37beer nahi pinne ka,
01:12:38drink ko beer samjhti.
01:12:39Oh,
01:12:39beer nahi pinne ka.
01:12:41Aur,
01:12:41teesra,
01:12:43cigarette nahi pinne ka.
01:12:44Aacha.
01:12:45Kab bhi,
01:12:45isli,
01:12:46jo aapko,
01:12:47aapne kaha,
01:12:47ki kisi nahi kaha,
01:12:48aapko,
01:12:49ki beti,
01:12:50hogi aur chhodna pada.
01:12:51Hmm.
01:12:52Ranbir.
01:12:52Ranbir ka aapne zikar kiya.
01:12:54Hmm.
01:12:54Mere andar bhi yeh bhavna thi.
01:12:55Hmm.
01:12:56Ki yaar,
01:12:57main apne bachche ko kahl,
01:12:58kaise kaunga,
01:12:59ki aap cigarette mat piyo,
01:13:01aap chahad,
01:13:02tobacco ka istamaal mat karo,
01:13:03jo main khud hi leh raho to.
01:13:05Hmm.
01:13:05To mere diyaag ke andar hi aa raha tha,
01:13:07kaise chhodna hai,
01:13:08nahi chhodna hai.
01:13:09Unke saamne to,
01:13:10main kabhi himmat hi nahi karta tha,
01:13:12jab ek aad,
01:13:12do chaar baad lee bhi ho,
01:13:13Hmm.
01:13:14Himmat nahi,
01:13:15aur phir karte karte,
01:13:16main ek din.
01:13:16Aacha.
01:13:17Chhod hi diya.
01:13:18Chhod hi diya.
01:13:18Haan bilkul.
01:13:19Excellent.
01:13:19Lekin yeh,
01:13:21Sonakshi jo hai,
01:13:22wo to,
01:13:23aap ladki se baat nahi,
01:13:24ladki ka matlo,
01:13:25jo badi mushkil se banaaya tha,
01:13:26ki maa se baat kar sakta ho,
01:13:28Ha ha ha ha ha.
01:13:28Pehle ke mummy se yeh baat nahi.
01:13:30Aacha,
01:13:30jo to,
01:13:31possessive ho ki.
01:13:31Jaise aap baitha ho,
01:13:32jaise main haan baitha ho,
01:13:33very possessive.
01:13:34Hmm.
01:13:35Main baitha ho,
01:13:35to kaise,
01:13:36nahi,
01:13:37aur haan,
01:13:37mummy aankar baith gayi,
01:13:39to kaise,
01:13:39yeh haans hat ho,
01:13:41yeh papa ka.
01:13:42Aacha.
01:13:42Yeh papa ka,
01:13:43yahan koi nahi baith sakta hai.
01:13:44Wow.
01:13:44Ladki ka,
01:13:46kis ladki se baat karo,
01:13:47main poottha tha Sonakshi jo.
01:13:48To kis ladki se baat karo,
01:13:50kehti sirf mujhse.
01:13:51Oh,
01:13:52how sweet,
01:13:53how sweet.
01:13:53Okay.
01:13:54Thank God.
01:13:55Aur aap 25 ki kya ummeed rakhte hain?
01:13:5825 ka?
01:13:59Ji.
01:14:01In terms of,
01:14:01dekhiye,
01:14:02aap jab development ki baat karte ho,
01:14:05toh definitely,
01:14:06hum apne mulk ko
01:14:07bohot aage barthawa dekh rahe hain.
01:14:09Okay.
01:14:09Bohot aage barthawa dekh rahe hain.
01:14:11Okay.
01:14:12Mujhe lagta hai,
01:14:15ki,
01:14:16gareebi se leke,
01:14:19science uska izafa hona chahiye,
01:14:22kam hoga,
01:14:23science technology ke maamleme
01:14:25bahut development hoga,
01:14:27space technology ke maamleme hoga,
01:14:29economy ke maamleme hona chahiye,
01:14:31hona chahiye bahut,
01:14:32aur hoga.
01:14:33Correct.
01:14:33Aur hum toh aise bhi
01:14:34ashaabadi hain,
01:14:35positive hain,
01:14:36hum toh yeh hi ummeed rakhte hain,
01:14:38aur saath hi saath,
01:14:39yeh bhi ummeed rakhte hain,
01:14:41ki yeh jo bhi,
01:14:43berozgaari hai,
01:14:45mehngaari hai,
01:14:45yeh sab cheeze jo hain,
01:14:47aur dollars ka daam
01:14:48jo asmaan ko chura hai,
01:14:51rupiah itna gir raha hai niche,
01:14:53yeh sab purane vaide the,
01:14:55politicians apne vaide ko
01:14:57pura kar paayenge,
01:14:58aur pura kar,
01:14:59politicians apne vaide ko
01:15:00pura kar paayenge,
01:15:01aur pura karne ke
01:15:03nazdeek laa paayenge,
01:15:05yeh hum ummeed karte hain,
01:15:06kyonki politicians ke maamleme
01:15:07toh hummisha kahte hain na,
01:15:10zyadaatar politicians,
01:15:12ki upar Dushyant Kumar ki yeh
01:15:14shair bilkul fit
01:15:16aur hit baithta hai,
01:15:17ki chunaon se pehle
01:15:19badi badi baatein,
01:15:20badi badi daavein,
01:15:20badi badi vaidein,
01:15:22kahan toh taitha chiraaghaan,
01:15:25har ek ghar ke liye,
01:15:27chunaon se pehle
01:15:28daawa karenge,
01:15:29vaida karenge,
01:15:30kahan toh taitha chiraaghaan,
01:15:33har ek ghar ke liye,
01:15:35aur ek baad chunaon
01:15:36khatam uske baad,
01:15:37kahan chiraag mayasar
01:15:39nahi shair ke liye,
01:15:41phir sab andhere mein,
01:15:43aisa na ho,
01:15:44yehi kaamna shuk,
01:15:45kaamna manu kaamna hain,
01:15:48aur hamara aur
01:15:49aapka poore desh ka bhavishya
01:15:50aur ujwal ho.
01:15:51Aur ujwal ho,
01:15:53thank you so much.
01:15:54Thank you Bharatiya,
01:15:55wonderful you are,
01:15:56thank you,
01:15:57thank you,
01:15:57very nice of you,
01:15:58thank you.