مدي 1 تي في : مع شيماء برّاز - 09/10/2024
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00:00Salaam alaikum and welcome to a new episode of Patchwork Saeed.
00:20I'm happy to be here with you as always to share with you the new and useful things in the world of culture,
00:26as well as digital and sports.
00:29So, let's get started.
00:36Welcome again.
00:37I would like to invite you again to discover what is the guest of today's episode.
00:46I would like to share with you a very interesting story that I heard in a podcast.
00:51He said in it,
00:52I don't disagree with anyone, but I change his place with me.
00:57How?
00:58I don't communicate with him, I don't respond to him.
01:02I don't give him the same time that I used to give him before.
01:05I don't give him attention, and I don't even think about him.
01:08And beautiful is the verse that says,
01:11And leave them a beautiful departure.
01:13God Almighty has spoken the truth.
01:15The idea was that at the end of any relationship, you must improve the transition.
01:25There is no wonderful person all the time.
01:27There is no perfect person above the description.
01:29There is no successful marriage.
01:31There is no lasting friendship.
01:34There is a full void.
01:35Pain heals.
01:37A shame is hidden.
01:38A mistake is forgotten.
01:40And whispers that need to be forgotten.
01:43And moments of tightness in the chest,
01:45contained by the expansion of the other side of the chest.
01:48Love can be like an arrow from the eye,
01:52shot in the heart,
01:53but it will not be complete
01:55except by reason.
02:00There is a great sustenance in this world,
02:03which comes in the form of a test,
02:05which is the sustenance of shocks.
02:08You are shocked by a person,
02:10so you change your style of choosing people,
02:13and you find that your life after that has become better.
02:18You are shocked by a relationship,
02:20so you re-arrange the priorities of your relationships,
02:24and you find yourself enjoying better relationships.
02:28You are shocked by your work,
02:30so you temporarily lose confidence in yourself,
02:33but you improve your skills and try again,
02:38and you become more successful.
02:40The problem with this type of sustenance
02:43is that it becomes sad and painful.
02:46But if you receive it in the right way,
02:50trust me,
02:51you will find peace and comfort after it
02:54that you have never experienced before.
03:01One of the most common sentences in relationships is
03:05Everyone sees you with their own eyes,
03:07and with the amount of love in their hearts.
03:10Because in our lives,
03:11we meet people who see us as the nicest people,
03:14and others who see us as their worst.
03:16When you meet people,
03:18they give you 50 good points,
03:20because you broke up with them once.
03:22And people,
03:23you made a mistake with them,
03:24and they turn you back.
03:26In order to show you,
03:27you are not good enough for them.
03:29When you meet people,
03:30you don't even have to do what you like with them,
03:33and their mission in life is to criticize you.
03:36And people,
03:37they ask you to say nice things,
03:39just to describe you.
03:41When you meet people,
03:42they hate you for no reason.
03:44And people,
03:45they invent names to please you.
03:47In the end,
03:48you are the same person.
03:50Everyone sees you with their own eyes.
03:53Everyone sees you with the amount of love in their hearts.
03:56And everyone sees you from the angle
03:58in which you stand from their hearts.
04:04Our guest is also a content creator,
04:06Shaima Ibrahim.
04:07Hello and welcome.
04:09Hello and welcome.
04:11How are you?
04:12I'm fine, thank God.
04:14I see you every day.
04:16You know your world,
04:17you know the messages that you try to spread
04:20through the successful and beautiful videos
04:22that you present and share
04:24with your followers.
04:26Shaima,
04:27thank God,
04:28you are well-known,
04:29and you are getting more and more famous.
04:32I want to ask you a question.
04:34Can we say that acceptance is a natural thing
04:38or can it be achieved with time and experience?
04:43Thank you for this beautiful question.
04:46For me, acceptance is a relative thing.
04:49It is the souls with their relatives.
04:52There are souls that are similar.
04:56So naturally,
04:57as soon as you feel that person is similar to you,
05:00you connect with him or her emotionally,
05:03you accept anything that comes from him or her,
05:05anything from his or her beautiful words,
05:07you feel that he or she respects you,
05:09you feel that he or she feels for you,
05:11you feel that he or she is one of your followers.
05:13In this case,
05:14I think it is the same.
05:15As long as the souls are similar,
05:17there is no acceptance.
05:19But what can we do about it?
05:21We can do something about it from an ethical point of view.
05:25The more you do something ethically,
05:28the more you will feel that person is kind,
05:30that person knows how to say good words,
05:32that person knows how to be polite,
05:34that person knows how to be forgiving with people,
05:37then of course,
05:38he or she will enter your heart.
05:40We are listening to you now,
05:41as if you were watching a video.
05:43Shima,
05:44even in the body language,
05:45you can play,
05:46even in the smile,
05:47you can play.
05:48There is an attitude
05:49that we are open to people
05:51and it is easier for people to get closer to us
05:54and to enter us,
05:55as we say,
05:57do you agree with me?
05:58Yes,
05:59of course.
06:00Look,
06:01always,
06:02inside,
06:03there is a reflection on the outside.
06:04And not the opposite.
06:05Not the opposite.
06:06Not the opposite.
06:07Because,
06:08as much as a person is convinced
06:09that good is necessary,
06:10naturally,
06:11he or she will be satisfied.
06:12But,
06:13always,
06:14what you carry in your soul,
06:15in your heart,
06:16in your morals,
06:17always reflects on the outside.
06:19And,
06:20of course,
06:21there is a desire to forgive,
06:22as I told you,
06:23from an ethical point of view.
06:24But,
06:25always,
06:26the base is
06:27the seed planted by God
06:29in your heart,
06:30what does it carry?
06:31Our mind,
06:32how does it work?
06:33Exactly.
06:34You should know
06:35what is Shema?
06:37Who is Shema?
06:39How do you describe yourself?
06:40This is a universal question.
06:42An existential question.
06:44How do you think,
06:46what is your profession?
06:48Because,
06:49they say,
06:50what you do in life,
06:51it is not necessarily
06:52what is your profession.
06:54But,
06:55among the things
06:56we want to know about you,
06:57also,
06:58what is your wife?
06:59What is your mother?
07:00What is your content creator?
07:01How do you present yourself?
07:04What is your coach,
07:05for example?
07:06In general,
07:07I will tell you,
07:08Shema is a person
07:09who is always
07:10in search of himself.
07:12Always.
07:13A person who
07:14always tries to
07:15turn his head
07:16and always tries
07:17to find
07:18one thing
07:19and turn to the next,
07:20to see what is following him.
07:21So,
07:22instead of
07:23professionally speaking,
07:24I studied a lot
07:25of things.
07:26Thank God.
07:27Many things.
07:28This is what gave me
07:29a kind of
07:30flexibility
07:31in dealing
07:32with life.
07:33From the
07:34formation
07:35which was
07:36economy,
07:37early marriage,
07:38for example,
07:39I am a wife
07:40and mother
07:41of three children.
07:42Thank God.
07:43I have a husband
07:44and two daughters.
07:45They are 11 years old
07:46and I have a daughter
07:47who is 9 years old.
07:48Thank God.
07:49Early marriage
07:50and early
07:51marriage
07:52is
07:53a
07:54new
07:55journey
07:56for me.
07:57It's a new
07:58adventure
07:59for me.
08:00It is
08:01like
08:02the Moroccan
08:03youth
08:04who read
08:05and turn
08:06their heads
08:07and turn
08:08to work
08:09and on that
08:10journey
08:11they search
08:12for
08:13work.
08:14There are
08:15many
08:16disappointments
08:17and many
08:18failures.
08:19But
08:20I have a Ph.D. degree in the digital world and I am currently working in the content industry
08:27and I have found a lot of things that are similar to mine.
08:30I am trying to find a way to continue my career as a mother, a wife and a friend.
08:38And all this while working full-time, as they say.
08:43In addition to the content industry, which is a full-time job,
08:46which is a dream of many people who want to become content creators,
08:51I have to say today that it is a job.
08:54It is not easy.
08:56It may be a hobby, but little by little it becomes a job
09:02and it becomes a good source of income, sometimes enough.
09:11But let's stop for a moment at the places and buildings of your life.
09:17Did you try a lot of specializations, a lot of professions or did you try a lot of jobs?
09:23In short, I got my Ph.D. degree with three children.
09:30I have three children.
09:32You got your Ph.D. degree and you had three children?
09:34In the three years of my Ph.D. degree, I had three children.
09:39I got my Ph.D. degree because I had twins.
09:42In the same year, I had a daughter.
09:45Thank God.
09:46The conditions of my studies were very difficult.
09:49At the same time, I was married to a doctor in specialization.
09:56He also had reading.
09:58All of you are busy.
09:59Everything is busy, everything is reading.
10:01After that came the stage of appointment in another city, which was Azeelal.
10:08At that time, I didn't have any professional experience.
10:12We went to Azeelal and settled there.
10:15At that time, we were on a search for success in the field of work.
10:20I got my Ph.D. degree for the first time in less than a year.
10:27I applied for contests to integrate.
10:30I applied to universities that wanted me to get a job,
10:36especially to be a mother and a wife.
10:39I didn't succeed.
10:42I didn't get a job in a city.
10:48I started thinking about what I should do.
10:52I had a dream, like many other girls,
10:56that I would have a brand to wear.
10:59Many people don't know this date.
11:02I wanted to have my own brand.
11:05I didn't want to sell or buy,
11:07but I wanted to create my own brand,
11:10to get the added value of my work.
11:13I started thinking about how to do it,
11:15until I created my own brand of clothes.
11:19I started manufacturing in workshops.
11:22I opened the first store and the second store.
11:24After that, I opened my own workshop.
11:27I produced my own products in my workshop,
11:30and I distributed them in a couple of stores.
11:32So, you did well.
11:33I did well, and people still ask for it.
11:36The brand didn't survive.
11:38No, it didn't.
11:39Why?
11:40As a result of the circumstances of work and life.
11:45This is what taught me that when I was young,
11:48I was looking for God.
11:50You tried many things.
11:51I tried many things.
11:53Before that, I tried small things,
11:56like selling clothes,
11:57buying weapons from a place.
11:59You tried everything.
12:01I tried everything.
12:02After COVID-19,
12:04I started living on my own.
12:06I had a small shop,
12:07because I had a baby brother,
12:09and the conditions of working with doctors
12:12who don't live in the same city as their families.
12:14You are alone in the city.
12:16There were a lot of circumstances that made me stop for a while.
12:21You can't go backwards.
12:23You have to know that you are going in the wrong direction.
12:26You have to go fast,
12:28and you feel like someone is pulling you down.
12:30It doesn't give you a quick start.
12:32I got stuck,
12:33and I was thinking,
12:35and I had thoughts and feelings.
12:37It was a work failure,
12:40as we saw in the video.
12:42But it allowed me to reorganize my papers.
12:45In the midst of this failure,
12:48I got my income back,
12:50and I tried to work with my head.
12:52I had a lot of problems with my head.
12:54I stayed on the journey of research.
12:56The journey of healing,
12:58and the journey of getting out of the dark areas.
13:02I was offered an interior decoration proposal.
13:07I did the diploma of interior decoration.
13:10I worked as an interior decorator.
13:12I did several projects.
13:15I posted on Instagram,
13:18in a shy way,
13:20but I did it.
13:21Those were the beginnings.
13:22Those were the beginnings,
13:23through writing.
13:24I published what I wrote.
13:26After that,
13:28things started to evolve little by little.
13:31I didn't ask for more.
13:33After I was born,
13:35I saw that I could still add to my content.
13:41I understood that the content
13:43had to be successful.
13:45It had to be seen and heard.
13:47It had to have a story.
13:50It had to have a good voice.
13:52I started with a humble video,
13:54and I kept on developing it
13:56until I got to this content,
13:58which I still want to develop.
14:01This was the professional journey.
14:04Now, I can say that I am very happy
14:08with the development of events
14:10that allowed me to reach this result.
14:12I am now in harmony with my content,
14:16my ideas.
14:17I love sharing,
14:19I love writing,
14:20I love expressing my ideas and words.
14:23May I ask you,
14:24in your style of writing,
14:26can we say that it is a memory,
14:28a message,
14:29and everything that has to do with self-development?
14:34I don't want to get lost here.
14:36In my videos,
14:38I find a diversity.
14:40I don't want to get lost in one thing.
14:42I want to say that I am here,
14:44I am present in this parallel world.
14:47Anything that I do in my life
14:49that I can convey a message to people
14:52in a certain way,
14:54or that I can add to the community
14:56that follows me,
14:57I do it.
14:58Whether it is me as a mother,
15:01or me as a friend,
15:03or as a sister.
15:04These are not memories,
15:06because I am a person who loves literature a lot.
15:09You read a lot.
15:10And I am influenced by words.
15:12I am a person who lives a lot with words.
15:15Words can come out of me,
15:17and words can come out of me.
15:18It is possible that you read a book,
15:20or you read poetry,
15:21and a word or a sentence
15:23attracts your attention,
15:24and you record it,
15:25and you make a video of it.
15:26This is what happens.
15:27It is normal.
15:28I have a night,
15:29a daily time,
15:30until I calm down,
15:31and there is silence in the house,
15:33and I sit with my head,
15:35and I start reading.
15:37I live.
15:38When I got the idea to make this video,
15:41I used to return to the texts that I liked,
15:44in a loud voice,
15:45and I would record them,
15:46so that I could listen to them.
15:47I wanted to live with words.
15:48To live with words,
15:49to live with the story,
15:50and to immerse myself in the feeling of the word.
15:52Then I got the idea to start sharing
15:55this clip of my day,
15:59videos that will reach the community,
16:02and find a big success.
16:04What are the videos in the Arabic language
16:07that have a big success?
16:09The videos in the Arabic language,
16:11there are videos in Darija,
16:13Darija is the white language.
16:15They had a big success,
16:16and there are videos in Fosha,
16:17they had a big success,
16:18and they had a big success
16:19even in the Arabic world.
16:21The videos in Fosha,
16:22they have a particularity,
16:24as we say,
16:25that they have the ability
16:27to convey the feeling,
16:29and give life to the word.
16:32In the Arabic language,
16:33you can convey the feeling
16:35in an endless way.
16:37You can really
16:39understand this feeling
16:42in detail.
16:44This is the particularity of the Arabic language.
16:46Sometimes there are videos in Darija,
16:48sometimes there are videos in Darija
16:50that are in Arabic,
16:51but there are no overlaps.
16:53Of course, we move them as they are,
16:54and we find them in the same language.
16:58In the Arabic language,
16:59in the Fosha,
17:00in the way you film,
17:01in the way you choose,
17:03the words, the sentences,
17:05and also the topics,
17:07and we see that you have two cameras,
17:09and a microprofessional,
17:11so you are a global star,
17:12little by little.
17:13Congratulations.
17:15I would like to ask you
17:16how do you feel
17:17that you influence
17:18your followers?
17:21What are the messages
17:22that you receive from your followers?
17:25There is a sentence
17:26that you receive from people
17:28that you meet,
17:29and they get used to it.
17:30Then you can say,
17:31this is my life mission.
17:33Because it is a feeling
17:34that you get from hundreds of people
17:36that you meet directly,
17:38and you know that you are followed
17:41by hundreds of thousands.
17:43What I like a lot,
17:45and what they say a lot,
17:46is that your words reach the heart,
17:49and your words come at the right time,
17:52and your words are relaxing,
17:55and I can be busy in my day,
17:57and when the next video comes,
17:58I feel calm.
18:00These are the advantages
18:01of the shared words,
18:04and the shared friendships
18:06that you get from your followers.
18:08Although in normal life,
18:10I am not a calm person.
18:12You are not active.
18:13No, I am not even active.
18:15I am active in certain situations.
18:18I am a patient person,
18:19and I can be active.
18:22But with my closest friends,
18:27they know that I have
18:29a dose of anger,
18:31and on the other hand,
18:33I am calm.
18:35Who is your husband like?
18:39Not many.
18:40My husband is someone
18:41who doesn't want to be treated.
18:43We are all the same.
18:45We are like a magnet,
18:48that spins like this and that.
18:50It is the same thing.
18:52We are complementary
18:53because we are different.
18:54We don't want to be treated.
18:56My husband is a person
18:58who likes to work in the dark.
19:03He is a very cerebral,
19:06rational, logical person.
19:09He is a surgeon.
19:11Not a surgical surgeon.
19:13But he is very supportive.
19:17As I told you,
19:18my husband and I are young,
19:19so a big part of my upbringing
19:22in life was on him.
19:24We spent a lot of time together.
19:26He was like us,
19:28and I was like him.
19:30I was with him in what he was doing,
19:32and he was with me in what he was doing.
19:34We were never blocked.
19:37We were never blocked.
19:39We never had any conditions,
19:41or obstacles.
19:43On the contrary,
19:44he was always supportive.
19:45He would say,
19:46I want to do this,
19:47and I would say,
19:48I want to do that.
19:49I want to do this,
19:50and I want to do that.
19:51We were always together.
19:52What I liked about him
19:53was his pride.
19:57He liked everything I presented to him,
19:59even though he loved me
20:02for not showing up.
20:05But for me,
20:06he encouraged me.
20:07Your children,
20:08what do you say to them?
20:09My children?
20:10Your children,
20:11what do you say to them?
20:12What do you say to them?
20:13That they are with you,
20:14that they support you,
20:15that they discipline you.
20:16Yes.
20:17Is it a blessing?
20:18No.
20:19We don't get a prize like that
20:21without working.
20:22We get a prize
20:23that God gave us in life.
20:24Either you do something
20:25that will be fruitful
20:26and that will give you a profit,
20:27or you lose it.
20:28As we say,
20:29your children always have
20:30an opportunity
20:31to spend time with you.
20:32This time is extended
20:33for 18 years,
20:34and from 12 to 18 years,
20:35it doesn't last
20:36because it is a difficult stage.
20:37This investment in your children
20:38is from summer
20:39until 12 years old.
20:40This investment
20:41in your children
20:42is from summer
20:43until 12 years old.
20:44This investment
20:45in your children
20:46is from summer
20:47until 12 years old.
20:48This investment
20:49in your children
20:50is from summer
20:51until 12 years old.
20:52This investment
20:53to be a source
20:54for loving,
20:55for safety,
20:56for support,
20:57and that you are
20:58the place
20:59where your child
21:00will return
21:01after a hard day
21:02and a problem
21:03and a bad feeling.
21:05This is my view
21:07about
21:08dealing with
21:09my children
21:10and what I see myself,
21:11I see them
21:13as an açılable space
21:14although they face
21:16difficulties,
21:17but they deserve it.
21:19They deserve it
21:20You deserve it, and they are the ones who will meet you later, your friends.
21:24It's an investment.
21:25It's not an investment because you want to take advantage of your relationship with them later,
21:31but they are your friends, they are your family, they are your friends.
21:36And they also support me a lot.
21:39When I meet them at school, they show people my videos, they make me happy, they encourage me.
21:46And that's why I started this journey of searching for myself.
21:50Shima, how do you see the future of content creation?
21:54In terms of how much and how?
21:57In terms of how much?
21:59The creation of content and the existence of social media sites?
22:04Of course, this is a very big and urgent issue.
22:09Because if people are convinced that social media sites are necessary,
22:14they will definitely impose it on us, the reality we live in now.
22:18Otherwise, what we don't say is sad or sad, because that will come over time.
22:25We still need the existence of these other people who have what they say,
22:32who have what they add to the remaining society,
22:35who have not found enough courage to exist in social media sites.
22:39There is still the prejudice of social media sites,
22:43as if it is a taboo, as if the person who chooses to appear in front of you
22:48sees it as something harmful, not something that society lives with.
22:53These ideas will go away.
22:55Because now we can say that, and there are a few of them,
22:59but we can say that, for example, in Morocco and the Arab society,
23:02there is content that deserves to be watched and followed,
23:07and we deserve to be inspired by it.
23:14Ideas and messages.
23:16What do you mean by one of your goals?
23:22Your ambitions, for example.
23:24My goals and ambitions.
23:27Honestly, so as not to be…
23:31I will speak to you in the language of wood.
23:33Since I started this diverse experiment,
23:39I can tell you that I no longer have big goals and ambitions.
23:47I live, I try to believe in the best that I have,
23:51and I try to live in harmony with my inner self,
23:54and this comes on its own.
23:56As I told you before, in the first experience,
23:59I was like an ant against a fly.
24:01I did not succeed.
24:02When you live life in harmony with your soul,
24:06with your inner self,
24:07your goals and ambitions come true.
24:10Of course, my practical goals,
24:14I want my work to continue to flourish,
24:16my content to improve and reach more people,
24:19and I want to present something better,
24:22because we always aspire to be better.
24:25But I don't think my dreams will come true.
24:30But can we see you perhaps in the future
24:33in broadcasting, television,
24:36coaching offices, or what you write?
24:40I don't think of coaching offices.
24:41All that I said, broadcasting, television,
24:44I am open to any new experience that I can add to my life,
24:48and no coaching.
24:50No coaching, because I am not a coach.
24:53I am a person who participates in what is most important to me,
24:58which is entertainment.
24:59I benefit from the advice of these people.
25:04As for other experiences,
25:06such as media experiences,
25:08of course it will be an enriching and interesting experience.
25:13You recently won a prize,
25:15the Emek Influence.
25:17Yes.
25:18What was the prize?
25:19The prize was five awards
25:24from the best content creators.
25:27Each one in a category.
25:29I was nominated in the category of public and family.
25:35It was a very honorable category,
25:37and I was impressed by it.
25:38I didn't expect it.
25:39I didn't know anything about the competition,
25:43until the last moment.
25:44You were already traveling.
25:45I was traveling,
25:46and they were trying to contact me for days,
25:48but they couldn't,
25:50because I was off-zone.
25:52Then they contacted me 24 hours earlier,
25:56and I came,
25:57and I was facing the efforts I was making.
26:03Not only in content creation,
26:05but also in the search for what it is.
26:08This search for what it is,
26:10I said it three or four times,
26:12it could be the title of this episode.
26:14Always.
26:15Today.
26:16Let's not waste time with you,
26:18Shima, one last word.
26:20Thank you, Osama.
26:21Hello.
26:22Thank you for having me,
26:23and thank you for being a content creator.
26:27I acknowledge you,
26:29and I acknowledge that you exist,
26:32and that you have a message.
26:34Your invitation honored me a lot,
26:36and your show is beautiful,
26:38with a little bit of light,
26:40and a little bit of soul,
26:41and when we reach a lot of beautiful content,
26:44your show reaches us in a very beautiful way,
26:47and they honor me and make me happy
26:49to be with you today.
26:50God bless you.
26:52God bless you,
26:53and good luck in the future.
26:55God bless you.
26:56God bless you.
26:57This is the end of today's episode.
26:59Thank you, Technical Team 1,
27:00for having me today.
27:01Thank you very much for your loyalty,
27:03for your sincerity.
27:04Thank you for watching us all day long.
27:06God bless you,
27:07and see you next time.
27:21TECHNICAL TEAM 1