Paradise Lost
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days...
00:00:03Baby, I'm gonna take my shirt off since you have yours off.
00:00:06But I'm here. I'm employed.
00:00:07I'm going to the swimming league next week.
00:00:09He's, like, shirtless with Shay here.
00:00:12This is double standard.
00:00:14Are you ready?
00:00:16If this relationship may not last,
00:00:22it was still a badass wedding.
00:00:24♪♪
00:00:29I think we're boarding.
00:00:30Yeah, we're boarding, all right.
00:00:33Autism really hampers me in social situations.
00:00:36I'm concerned about stepping into a new culture.
00:00:39Some people in Ghana doesn't understand autism.
00:00:50And some people believe it's a curse.
00:00:53Memozinho, this is for you.
00:00:56I love you, Rosa.
00:00:59We have a very strong connection.
00:01:01I feel it.
00:01:02I have something for your son.
00:01:04It's just I'm worried because I really don't know
00:01:08what she's thinking.
00:01:12I just need her to see that I'm not the person
00:01:13that I used to be.
00:01:16Great.
00:01:19It's still not 5,000.
00:01:20What are you trying to buy for?
00:01:21Hey, what are you trying to get for?
00:01:23Victoria knows my chickens are like family members to me.
00:01:26What kind of person would just kill somebody's family
00:01:28right in front of them?
00:01:30You're going to sit here, then I'll go get you.
00:01:32I won't eat it.
00:01:33You're going to have to shove it down your throat yourself.
00:01:35Ever since I was young, I've always had this feeling
00:01:39about some sort of drama with a man's sister.
00:01:42And most things that I feel deep within
00:01:44end up coming to fruition.
00:01:48I have gonorrhea.
00:01:50It's a sexually transmitted disease.
00:01:52Do you have sex together?
00:01:54Yeah.
00:01:55I thought you're serious of me, but you're cheating, lying.
00:02:00I want to say to you that I need some time now.
00:02:03I really messed up, and I don't know
00:02:05what I can do to make it right.
00:02:16I'm freaking out because I'm going to meet my boyfriend
00:02:18for the first time, but I have my ex-boyfriend here with me.
00:02:21I wish I could see her right now.
00:02:23All right, come over here, man.
00:02:26Are you sure?
00:02:27Because I can literally see out that door.
00:02:29Is that Shane?
00:02:40Sugar, sugar, too sweet.
00:02:43Caught you looking at me.
00:02:46You want to lick my ice cream.
00:02:48My sugar, sugar, too sweet.
00:02:51My sugar, sugar, too sweet.
00:02:53Want to lick my ice cream.
00:02:56My sugar, sugar, too sweet, too sweet.
00:03:00Baby, I need to get up.
00:03:09I don't even know how I'm going to walk to the car today.
00:03:11Mm.
00:03:36OK.
00:03:41Very important to me to show my wife my beautiful country
00:03:45before she going back to America.
00:03:5330 minutes?
00:03:54No, baby.
00:03:58Why?
00:04:07Baby, we sitting in the car for hours.
00:04:09Why you want to make your hair done?
00:04:11I always need my hair done.
00:04:12You can do it there.
00:04:14No, no, no.
00:04:16I think that this whole, you know,
00:04:19husband and wife thing is very new for Adnan.
00:04:23And there are things that he needs to get used to.
00:04:27Taking a long time to get ready is just a part of who I am.
00:04:33But he'll learn.
00:04:40Hello.
00:04:47Cruz and Che, they coming to Petra to help my wife.
00:04:50So my brother going with me in this trip
00:04:52because when I am tired, when I am driving, he helping me.
00:04:56He can do anything I ask him.
00:04:58He loves me.
00:04:59This is my brother.
00:05:10It's been a long time.
00:05:11I have been waiting for you.
00:05:12I am getting slower, waiting three or four hours.
00:05:15It's OK. She's your wife.
00:05:18You have to get her.
00:05:19She is your wife.
00:05:22But if you don't work for her,
00:05:25she's going to be waiting for you all your life.
00:05:29My man.
00:05:30Enjoy your life.
00:05:32You will have a beautiful wife in the future.
00:05:34You don't get her.
00:05:36That's why I said we going to keep an eye on you.
00:05:38Hush him out of the house, eh?
00:05:42Hiya, what's this?
00:05:47Baby, this is so annoying.
00:05:48What, baby?
00:05:49Every time I was going to anywhere,
00:05:51I wanted to wait with what you are for five hours.
00:05:54Baby, I have to get my hair done.
00:05:56Four hours to make your hair done?
00:05:59I can't.
00:06:00I can't wait every day to get it done.
00:06:02Baby, you have a wife now.
00:06:04Are you ready?
00:06:05I'm ready.
00:06:06I'm ready for just five minutes.
00:06:07I'm get ready.
00:06:07Let's go.
00:06:08And the crews make her hair like five hours, four hours,
00:06:13three hours every day.
00:06:14Baby, you're a guy.
00:06:15Listen, you're a guy.
00:06:16You can get ready in like five minutes.
00:06:18It's OK.
00:06:18You can find a way.
00:06:19You can do it.
00:06:20Do you want me to look ugly?
00:06:21You are always a queen.
00:06:23I know that.
00:06:23If you wanted someone that only takes five minutes.
00:06:27Wait.
00:06:28Wait.
00:06:28What?
00:06:29Hi.
00:06:30Good.
00:06:31How are you?
00:06:32This clothes is not good in Jordan.
00:06:34Hey, another one.
00:06:35You stopped me again.
00:06:36But next time.
00:06:38This is not your business.
00:06:39This is my business.
00:06:40OK.
00:06:41I don't like him.
00:06:43I don't like him.
00:06:44I'm not a table man.
00:06:45OK, OK.
00:06:46But I'm just giving you advice.
00:06:47You should give advice to people.
00:06:51Let's wait a little bit.
00:06:51Let's see.
00:06:56I'm completely annoyed.
00:06:58I spent all this time getting ready for him.
00:07:02But Adnan's not being patient with me.
00:07:06You want to fix up these things?
00:07:07No.
00:07:08Why?
00:07:09You'll have to get used to it, baby.
00:07:11On top of Adnan yelling at me, I have his brother,
00:07:15Thayer, complaining about my outfit.
00:07:17While Adnan has his shirt and button to his belly button.
00:07:23It is completely ridiculous.
00:07:26Are you going to be in this bad mood for the rest of this trip?
00:07:30I don't know.
00:07:34It makes me nervous that we have only
00:07:37been married for three days.
00:07:39And we are already arguing like this.
00:08:00Call me a fool.
00:08:01Call me a leader.
00:08:02Got my ass out jumping on the bleachers.
00:08:04Shame, shame in a low cut t-shirt.
00:08:07Never thought much to listen to the preacher.
00:08:09You like the way my name tastes on your tongue.
00:08:12You like the way my name tastes on your tongue.
00:08:14Honey, be sweet, but you will get stung.
00:08:18The doctor's is over here.
00:08:20Going to be some steps.
00:08:21Come up.
00:08:22One, two, three.
00:08:26I've been in Nigeria almost a week now.
00:08:29Chitty and I have been so connected, so in love,
00:08:31so happy.
00:08:32But the other day at the nature walk,
00:08:34it was really hard to hear Chitty
00:08:36talk about losing his sight.
00:08:37It breaks my heart.
00:08:41These are inside voices.
00:08:43When we went home, we kind of talked more about it.
00:08:46And I found out that he hadn't been to an eye
00:08:48doctor in over 10 years.
00:08:50That's shocking, don't you think?
00:08:52So I made an appointment so that he could see a specialist
00:08:55in hopes that there's medical advancements that
00:08:57might help him.
00:08:58You can sit on the end.
00:09:01Even though I'm attracted to him so much because he can't see,
00:09:05if I could help him, I would honestly help
00:09:07him restore his eyesight.
00:09:08That's how much I love him.
00:09:13Male or female?
00:09:16I'm just kidding.
00:09:18Well, I haven't seen anything yet.
00:09:22I'm going by your voice and your looks.
00:09:28I'm just nervous.
00:09:31I don't know what the doctor is going to say.
00:09:33Yeah.
00:09:34I've heard of technology that has come out that
00:09:36actually can help people see.
00:09:39I'd love to do that for you, right?
00:09:43It's possible.
00:09:44Let's see how it goes.
00:09:49Mr. Chitty?
00:09:50Yeah?
00:09:50Please come with us.
00:09:51OK.
00:09:53If there is anything I pray for every day
00:09:55is for advancement in science that
00:09:57can cure this glaucoma.
00:10:02It would completely transform my life.
00:10:07It always seemed like a far-fetched reality for me.
00:10:12But Renee's optimism that something can still be done
00:10:16has renewed my hope.
00:10:19I'd like to examine your eyes.
00:10:21OK.
00:10:28Can you see this?
00:10:29Mm-hmm.
00:10:30You can perceive this.
00:10:32OK.
00:10:32Cover your eyes, sorry.
00:10:36Can you perceive anything, right?
00:10:38Mm-hmm.
00:10:38Just relax.
00:10:41At this point, emotion is running high.
00:10:45Good.
00:10:47I keep imagining how it will feel.
00:10:49She'll be able to see the awesome world again.
00:10:53Please come forward.
00:10:55Relax.
00:10:58Just relax.
00:10:58Good.
00:11:00I am deeply nervous to learn if my dream will
00:11:05finally come to fruition.
00:11:10OK.
00:11:11Can you sit back, sir?
00:11:17All right.
00:11:22Mr. Chitty, for the left eye, I'm
00:11:26seeing some signs of cataract.
00:11:33Yes.
00:11:56Restoration of the vision.
00:12:01Ah, well.
00:12:07Just got back from the clinic.
00:12:08So seven straight days of fun pills.
00:12:12I never thought getting a **** was going to give me gonorrhea.
00:12:16But here I am with an STD and a leaky penis.
00:12:19I reached out to Faith this morning, but nothing back yet.
00:12:24This could be the end of everything.
00:12:38Now we get to Matilda.
00:12:41I know I'm putting a lot into this.
00:12:43If this were to not work out, it will devastate me.
00:12:46It will hurt.
00:12:54I just got back from the clinic.
00:12:56I do have gonorrhea.
00:12:58But you know, mistreatable.
00:13:00I got to take pills for the next week.
00:13:02So seven straight days of fun pills.
00:13:15One down.
00:13:18I am not sure if I can do this.
00:13:22I never thought that getting a **** from my friend
00:13:27was going to give me gonorrhea.
00:13:29I really did not expect that to happen.
00:13:32I feel like I wasn't doing anything unsafe,
00:13:34because she gets tested regularly, and she seemed OK.
00:13:38But here I am with an STD and a leaky penis.
00:13:44I really hope that after all this, you know,
00:13:47I get cleared up.
00:13:48We have some time to think, some time to talk.
00:13:51And that me and Faith can go back to trying
00:13:54to have a future together.
00:13:59She's the one upset.
00:14:00So ultimately, she's in control of all of it.
00:14:05The last I left off with Faith, she said she wanted space.
00:14:08And I haven't seen her or spoken to her since yesterday.
00:14:14She's very upset, and I don't know if she'll ever
00:14:16even talk to me again.
00:14:18And so now I'm getting worried that I came all the way
00:14:20out here, and this could be the end of everything.
00:14:35Hey, Esther.
00:14:39Hello.
00:14:43It's fine.
00:14:44I expected to have a lot of jet lag, and I didn't.
00:14:47Me and Esther are very open about everything.
00:14:49We're like best friends.
00:14:51So she knows how important this relationship is to me.
00:15:00First day was good.
00:15:01I started to get some sense of humor,
00:15:03a little back and forth, a little chit-chat.
00:15:06We're not really talking right now.
00:15:08Yeah.
00:15:12So yesterday, Faith planned this lovely day out.
00:15:16And then I decided it was a great moment
00:15:18to tell Faith I have gonorrhea, which kind of just
00:15:23shot the whole day, the rest of the night.
00:15:25Wait a minute.
00:15:26Wait a minute.
00:15:27Rewind.
00:15:28How do you know you have gonorrhea?
00:15:31Well, I got the text message from a Halloween date.
00:15:35And then I'm like, wow, I do have discharge
00:15:36coming out of my penis.
00:15:40That's one way to start the morning.
00:15:44Wow.
00:15:46And it turns out when I told her I'm sleeping with people,
00:15:49she was under the impression that only meant sleeping.
00:15:52I guess that, like, didn't, like,
00:15:54that didn't translate properly.
00:15:56So she's a little pissed.
00:16:00She needs some space.
00:16:01She doesn't want to see me right now.
00:16:04Ugh.
00:16:05Any reasonable person would be upset, you know?
00:16:12But what are you going to do?
00:16:15I don't know.
00:16:17Well, I got to find a way to explain to her
00:16:19that she is my other half.
00:16:21Yeah.
00:16:22If Faith is your one true love, like you say,
00:16:26and she wants to be exclusive and that's a deal breaker,
00:16:31are you going to be OK not exploring other people
00:16:36and just being exclusive with her?
00:16:42Before I came to the Philippines,
00:16:44I was hoping I could convince Faith to have
00:16:46a non-monogamous relationship.
00:16:49I feel like if you love each other enough
00:16:51and your relationship is strong, then sleeping around shouldn't
00:16:54be an issue for each other.
00:16:56But at this point, I can tell that Faith sees monogamy
00:16:59as a very serious thing, and I don't want to lose her.
00:17:04This is everything you wanted, everything you dreamed of.
00:17:08Faith is perfect for you.
00:17:12Yeah.
00:17:13I can do it.
00:17:16It's going to change my life a little bit.
00:17:18I know you can do it.
00:17:20But she also was really upset last night.
00:17:22You didn't see it.
00:17:24Not everything comes easy.
00:17:25You know you have to fight a little.
00:17:29Yeah.
00:17:30Now I just kind of have to hope that Faith gives me
00:17:33any kind of sign that it's OK to come back and talk
00:17:36to her about anything.
00:17:39I love Faith more than anything.
00:17:41And so if I don't want to lose Faith,
00:17:42I have to give up the idea of non-monogamy.
00:17:46The only thing I care about now is getting back to Faith
00:17:48and showing her that I'll still love her.
00:17:51Getting back to Faith and showing her
00:17:52that I'll do anything to make sure that I don't lose her.
00:17:56I just hope she gives me a second chance.
00:18:03One last flight.
00:18:05Oh, there it is.
00:18:07B-24.
00:18:08Last stop before Matilda.
00:18:16At the title of the poem, I will write for Matilda.
00:18:19The distance.
00:18:21Now, I imagine she's a metric system kind of girl.
00:18:23So translate that for her, just in case.
00:18:27I'm just one very long flight away
00:18:30from meeting my girlfriend Matilda
00:18:32for the first time in Ghana.
00:18:35I'm probably going to run to her arms, not walk.
00:18:39Imagine a child running to go get ice cream.
00:18:42That's what's going to happen.
00:18:44I have butterflies in my stomach.
00:18:46But also, I'm anxious about what is
00:18:48she going to think of me, you know?
00:18:51Matilda has already told me that she
00:18:52has accepted my disability.
00:18:55However, it could be different once we're in person.
00:18:59To quote the great Mike Tyson, everyone
00:19:01has a plan until they get punched in the face.
00:19:13Final stretch.
00:19:17-.
00:19:35I am very excited, because my baby, Naus,
00:19:38is coming to Ghana to see me.
00:19:40Before coming back to Ofenso to get married,
00:19:47we are staying together in Accra for a few days.
00:20:01We want God to bless this relationship.
00:20:04So, me and Nile says we are not going to have sex
00:20:07until we get married.
00:20:09But, to be honest, I don't know I can resist
00:20:13because this guy is so cute.
00:20:27I'm happy.
00:20:29I can't wait to see your husband.
00:20:31I can't wait to see you.
00:20:33I hope that I'm coming with you.
00:20:37It's going to be fine.
00:20:39I'm going to Matuda because I know Niles has autism.
00:20:43And I don't really know until I meet him in person
00:20:47that he can take care of Matuda.
00:20:49So, I will check out if he's a good guy.
00:20:52Then I will leave Matuda to Niles to spend some time together.
00:21:07Finally, we are at the airport.
00:21:10I'm so happy to meet my babe.
00:21:12All the way from...
00:21:15When I see Niles, I will run and hug him
00:21:19and I'm going to kiss him.
00:21:21I will say that, Daddy, welcome to Ghana.
00:21:24And Niles will say, Babe, you look sexy and hot.
00:21:32I'm finally here.
00:21:37We're moving.
00:21:39Slowly but surely, we are moving.
00:21:42Now we get to Matuda.
00:21:44We're going to find her.
00:21:46I can't believe that I'm about to finally meet Matuda.
00:21:51I know I'm putting a lot into this.
00:21:54And if she doesn't turn out to be who I think she is,
00:21:59it will devastate me.
00:22:01It will hurt.
00:22:03But I can't sit here and worry about it anymore.
00:22:12Where is he?
00:22:30Here I come, Matuda.
00:22:34Daddy!
00:22:57Welcome to Ghana.
00:22:59Sorry, sorry, sorry.
00:23:04Oh, my goodness.
00:23:07This is a fairytale story.
00:23:09I'm with the woman that I love.
00:23:11I can finally see her.
00:23:13I can finally feel her, be with her, talk to her.
00:23:17There's nothing like being able to see it for yourself.
00:23:21Wouldn't you say, Matilda?
00:23:25I know. I know you can't.
00:23:28How are you doing?
00:23:30I'm fine. How are you?
00:23:33Hey, be careful.
00:23:35Hey, hey, hey, don't pass out now.
00:23:38Don't pass out yet. Don't pass out yet.
00:23:40Let me help you.
00:23:42Yeah, my brother-in-law.
00:23:44Actually, you know, you can pass out. I can carry you.
00:23:47My heart is pumping.
00:23:50Oh, I'm very happy.
00:23:53Daddy!
00:23:55You wanted me to call you daddy.
00:23:59So, daddy.
00:24:00Hey, no one's shooting from the waist down, are they?
00:24:02We are in public, you know, that's right.
00:24:07Welcome to Ghana.
00:24:10I'm so happy to be here.
00:24:12This is what happiness feels like.
00:24:15Oh, I can't say it. Wow.
00:24:21Look at him.
00:24:24It's really nice to be here with him.
00:24:27At the same time, you have to be careful.
00:24:31My story isn't just about him being a drug dealer.
00:24:34It's a good story.
00:24:44Mr Chidi, for the left eye, I'm seeing some signs of cataracts.
00:24:57I've seen people that had cataracts,
00:25:00and they were operated on,
00:25:02and their eye condition was remedied.
00:25:06So if it is established that it is cataract,
00:25:09there could be restoration of the vision.
00:25:17Um, well...
00:25:23Right now, we are not dealing with only cataracts.
00:25:29There is glaucoma signs.
00:25:33The pressure in your eyes is very high.
00:25:37Your right eye is 59, and your left eye is 63,
00:25:41against the normal, which is 11 to 21.
00:25:46There's no light perception.
00:25:49When there's no light perception,
00:25:51it means that the nerves are not active,
00:25:56and the nerves don't regroup.
00:25:59Once they die off, there's nothing that can be done.
00:26:05Chances of seeing again is slim.
00:26:11And also, over time, if the pressure is high,
00:26:16without being managed,
00:26:18it could result to a complication
00:26:20that can make the eye to be removed.
00:26:29Hearing nothing could be done to restore my vision
00:26:34is indeed heartbreaking.
00:26:37And of course, the thought of losing my eye entirely,
00:26:41it is kind of scary.
00:26:44I never really imagined that such a thing could happen to me.
00:26:49So, I'm going to put him on medication.
00:26:52To reduce the pressure?
00:26:54Yes.
00:26:56But at the same time,
00:26:58I am, of course, thankful that Rene encouraged me to go to the doctor.
00:27:03And despite the negative report,
00:27:05I still believe that, by the grace of God,
00:27:07something positive could still happen someday.
00:27:14You'll never be able to see again.
00:27:16This life could be just as bright with me in it.
00:27:26IN THE NEXT EPISODE
00:27:40Yesterday, Arthur had a lot of fun.
00:27:44Me too. I loved it.
00:27:46He had a lot of fun.
00:27:48The kids are also nervous, sometimes, with the chair.
00:27:51The wheels.
00:27:52They just want to touch the wheels and look.
00:27:55But he wasn't curious or scared.
00:27:58No.
00:28:00Meeting Ingrid's son last night was really special,
00:28:02and I believe it helped our relationship.
00:28:04And I would like to keep that momentum going.
00:28:06So, while Ingrid's son is at school today,
00:28:08I arranged a date for us to go to a ranch on the Tocantins River.
00:28:13He's here!
00:28:14I'm hoping we can get back on track with romance
00:28:18and a little bit more of physicality.
00:28:21Hi, nice to meet you.
00:28:22Hello!
00:28:23Make yourself at home. I'll take my chair.
00:28:27He'll fix his chair on his own.
00:28:29I'll get the chair.
00:28:30That's great.
00:28:33OK.
00:28:34Is it easier this way?
00:28:35This way is easier.
00:28:39This is our palm tree ranch,
00:28:41made to welcome you,
00:28:43beautiful couples like this, right?
00:28:46Look at the view.
00:28:48Beautiful, beautiful, beautiful.
00:28:49It's beautiful, right?
00:28:50Wow.
00:28:51I've been to Brazil more than 30 times,
00:28:53and if people wonder why,
00:28:55it's because of places like this.
00:28:57This country is so beautiful,
00:28:59and this resort is exactly what we need.
00:29:02Oh my God!
00:29:04It's going to explode!
00:29:10Let's go?
00:29:11Let's go?
00:29:12Yeah, let's go.
00:29:13Let's go.
00:29:16This day here with Brian is really cool.
00:29:19I'm here with him, enjoying nature.
00:29:22Your leg?
00:29:24In the hot sun, Brian?
00:29:28The husband he's having
00:29:31has been really nice.
00:29:35At the same time, I get scared.
00:29:39I just found out now
00:29:41that he's been a drug dealer,
00:29:43a drug user.
00:29:46I take care of my children,
00:29:48I take care of myself.
00:29:49I have to be careful.
00:29:52Put your back on it and give it a massage.
00:29:56Give it a massage.
00:29:59Oh, your finger!
00:30:03Put your hand here.
00:30:08Crazy.
00:30:15Crazy.
00:30:24Is it good?
00:30:25It's always good.
00:30:26I'm loving it.
00:30:27The place you brought me to.
00:30:29It's really cool, thank you.
00:30:31You're welcome.
00:30:34The other day I told a story,
00:30:37but my story isn't just about him selling drugs.
00:30:40He's a drug dealer.
00:30:43It's a good story.
00:30:46It's a comeback story, you know?
00:30:49After that accident,
00:30:51I went to the hospital for two months,
00:30:53lying down.
00:30:56Imagine, lying down for two months.
00:30:59He got me up,
00:31:00and after that I was mine.
00:31:03And when I get out of here, what am I going to do?
00:31:06Why are you messing with me, man?
00:31:08Leave me there.
00:31:09Leave me lying there.
00:31:12When I was in rehab hospital,
00:31:15I was super depressed.
00:31:17The bullet burned a spinal cord,
00:31:19and to know that I won't be getting back to normal,
00:31:24anything close to normal,
00:31:28kind of made me think about
00:31:30how I got into the situation,
00:31:32and maybe the trade-off I gave
00:31:36was my legs and my hands for selling drugs.
00:31:39But, in a way, I was saved by that.
00:32:09Meditate, relax more,
00:32:11think about life.
00:32:13I feel like it's my reason
00:32:16to help people, you know?
00:32:19It's amazing.
00:32:21It's a new trade-off.
00:32:23After six years,
00:32:25five or six years playing rugby,
00:32:27talking to people,
00:32:29dating, driving.
00:32:32It's good, right?
00:32:33Yeah.
00:32:34Yeah.
00:32:35Yeah.
00:32:38It's bad.
00:32:39Trafficking, blah, blah, blah.
00:32:41But afterwards, it's a beautiful story.
00:32:46Very emotional.
00:32:47I thought it was very beautiful,
00:32:50this part of him,
00:32:51of redemption, right?
00:32:56And still wanting to help people.
00:33:01It's been very difficult
00:33:02to deal with this story of his past.
00:33:05But now I see him differently.
00:33:07And maybe our relationship
00:33:09could survive.
00:33:13So, let's meditate a little?
00:33:14Let's go, let's go.
00:33:15Can I?
00:33:16Go ahead.
00:33:28I feel like we're soulmates.
00:33:29He fills me in his heart,
00:33:31his mind, his body.
00:33:32So, something happened
00:33:33physically between the two of you.
00:33:36I can't believe that she even asked me
00:33:37if Chedi and I were physical
00:33:38at the dinner table in front of family.
00:33:41Honestly, I'm really sick of her
00:33:42getting into our business.
00:33:48This is crazy.
00:33:49I'm kind of freaking out
00:33:50because I don't know what I would do
00:33:51if Sonny saw Rory.
00:33:53I don't want a big,
00:33:54explosive situation right now.
00:33:57Wait till we exit.
00:33:58Alright, I heard you the first time.
00:34:00I will text you.
00:34:03What the f*** am I doing?
00:34:14Is that Chedi?
00:34:16No, no, no, no.
00:34:17Rory, are you sure
00:34:18he can't see you right here?
00:34:19It's gonna be a f***ing joke.
00:34:20Walk this way, walk this way.
00:34:21He sees you.
00:34:22He cannot see you right now.
00:34:23You're stressing me out.
00:34:24I'm stressing the f*** out.
00:34:25What the f***?
00:34:33This is crazy.
00:34:35I'm here in Durban, South Africa.
00:34:38I just traveled for 36 hours
00:34:40to meet Sonny.
00:34:43And there's only a glass door right there
00:34:45so I'm kind of freaking out
00:34:46because he has no idea
00:34:48that I have my ex-boyfriend
00:34:49here with me.
00:34:50And I don't want
00:34:51a big, explosive situation.
00:34:55So if I text you 777,
00:34:57that means you're good
00:34:58to exit this building.
00:35:00Wait till we exit.
00:35:01Alright, I heard you the first time.
00:35:03I will text you.
00:35:06Oh my God.
00:35:07That's why I broke up with you.
00:35:08I broke up with you.
00:35:09No, you didn't.
00:35:10Yes, I did.
00:35:11No, you didn't.
00:35:12That's not the point.
00:35:13I know right now
00:35:14is not the right time
00:35:15to introduce Rory and Sonny
00:35:16to each other.
00:35:17I wanna meet him first.
00:35:18I don't wanna run
00:35:19our first moments together.
00:35:21So me and Rory
00:35:22came up with a plan.
00:35:23When me and Sonny leave,
00:35:25I'm gonna text Rory 777
00:35:27and then he can exit.
00:35:29So what's 777?
00:35:31777 is my lucky angel numbers.
00:35:35The universe will look out
00:35:36for me, hopefully.
00:35:42You're going back
00:35:43to the hotel, right?
00:35:44Mm-hmm.
00:35:45See you in a couple days?
00:35:46I have to see what the vibe
00:35:47is like with Sonny
00:35:48and that will determine
00:35:49when I feel comfortable
00:35:50introducing him.
00:35:51Absolutely.
00:35:52Because I don't wanna
00:35:53f*** anything up.
00:35:54Alright, I will see you
00:35:55in a little while.
00:35:56Alright, give me a moment.
00:35:57I'll see ya.
00:35:58Okay, bye.
00:35:59Adios.
00:36:01What is she getting
00:36:02herself into?
00:36:04There was a lot of chaos
00:36:05in my life growing up.
00:36:08So it's hard for me
00:36:09to allow someone
00:36:10to take care of me
00:36:11and to let my guard down.
00:36:13But I would say
00:36:14Sonny's different for sure
00:36:15and I want a future with him.
00:36:17I'm just really excited
00:36:18and nervous and anxious.
00:36:19I could go through
00:36:20those glass doors
00:36:21and my life could change forever.
00:36:28Okay.
00:36:46It's been a long time.
00:36:47You smell so good.
00:36:50You smell so perfect to me.
00:36:51Like a candy.
00:36:52I'm not gonna lie.
00:36:53Yeah.
00:36:55Do you have any presents?
00:36:56Yeah.
00:36:57Let's see what it is.
00:36:58My favorite.
00:36:59What is this?
00:37:00There's this thing here.
00:37:01You're so sweet.
00:37:03Instead of getting
00:37:04each other's lips,
00:37:05we got each other
00:37:06on the side of the mouth.
00:37:07Like maybe a little
00:37:08tiny bit on the lips.
00:37:09I don't know.
00:37:10It wasn't really a kiss.
00:37:11We're just a little awkward.
00:37:12But I think we just
00:37:13will build up
00:37:14to being more comfortable
00:37:15and less awkward
00:37:16with each other.
00:37:18You've been waiting
00:37:19for this brown chocolate.
00:37:21Finally you have
00:37:22the brown chocolate.
00:37:23I know.
00:37:24I can't believe
00:37:25I finally get to hug you.
00:37:26It's weird.
00:37:28On the camera,
00:37:29you look so beautiful.
00:37:30But in real life,
00:37:31you're more beautiful.
00:37:33You can hold my hand.
00:37:35I have a surprise
00:37:36in the house
00:37:37waiting for you.
00:37:38Oh, you do?
00:37:39Yeah, I do.
00:37:41Shut the f*** up.
00:37:42You're lying.
00:37:44He's lying.
00:37:45Don't say that.
00:37:46It's a joke.
00:37:56Still in time.
00:37:59Fun, fun, fun.
00:38:04What the f*** am I doing?
00:38:07How did I get in this situation?
00:38:11I'm a grown-ass man.
00:38:12I'm hiding in the airport
00:38:13from this kid.
00:38:14It's so weird.
00:38:17Come, let me help you
00:38:18to open the door
00:38:19for you as well.
00:38:20Don't you have to go
00:38:21on this side?
00:38:22No, this side.
00:38:23This is South Africa, honey.
00:38:24It's not America.
00:38:26What?
00:38:27What the f***?
00:38:28Yeah, you're driving the car.
00:38:29Okay, stop.
00:38:30Okay, I get it.
00:38:32I'm so excited.
00:38:34I'm in this brand new country
00:38:36and it's really amazing
00:38:37to be with Sonny.
00:38:39He's being so sweet
00:38:40and so cute
00:38:41and I really want to build
00:38:42a relationship up with him
00:38:44before I tell him
00:38:45about Rory being here.
00:38:57But I feel really bad and guilty
00:38:59about the situation.
00:39:01I feel like I'm starting
00:39:02this relationship in person
00:39:04with a lie
00:39:05and that was never my intentions.
00:39:26You're going to have a party.
00:39:42I really, really, really
00:39:43love chickens.
00:39:44Like I said,
00:39:45they really do have
00:39:46a wonderful personality.
00:39:47I've named all of them.
00:39:48They always pay attention
00:39:50and they follow me everywhere
00:39:52and they actually talk to you.
00:39:57Wow.
00:39:58You have a personal,
00:39:59deep connection
00:40:01with those chickens.
00:40:03It's quite amazing.
00:40:05Since our trip
00:40:06to the doctor yesterday,
00:40:08I feel more connected
00:40:10to Rene than ever.
00:40:12While the prognosis
00:40:13is not something I had hoped,
00:40:15Rene was there for me
00:40:17in the face of that tragic news
00:40:19and held my hand
00:40:20through it all.
00:40:22You?
00:40:23Yeah?
00:40:24Dinner is ready.
00:40:25All right.
00:40:26This is Rene.
00:40:27Hey.
00:40:28Let's go.
00:40:31Yeah.
00:40:32I'll go now.
00:40:33I was just telling him
00:40:34about the chickens.
00:40:36Tonight,
00:40:37I asked my sister
00:40:38to prepare a special meal
00:40:41of her favourite Nigerian dish.
00:40:43Chidi!
00:40:44I'm waiting.
00:40:46Yeah, we are coming.
00:40:49Rene has always
00:40:51had this fear
00:40:52of my family not loving her.
00:40:55Mm-hmm.
00:40:56Fix your hair.
00:40:57There you go.
00:40:59So I'm excited
00:41:00for the chance
00:41:01to bond together
00:41:02over this meal.
00:41:05How are you doing?
00:41:06Okay.
00:41:09Use your chair.
00:41:16Rene, sweetheart,
00:41:17wash your hands.
00:41:19So just wash hands?
00:41:20Yeah, you eat
00:41:21with your bare hands.
00:41:22Okay.
00:41:23Okay.
00:41:24So you can pass water
00:41:25to him
00:41:26to wash his hands.
00:41:28There you go.
00:41:30Okay,
00:41:31and you would
00:41:32kindly guide
00:41:33his hand to the gary.
00:41:35Okay?
00:41:36Please kindly.
00:41:37Now or?
00:41:38Here.
00:41:39Adjust to him.
00:41:40I got it.
00:41:42And he will take you
00:41:43from there.
00:41:45Okay?
00:41:46Mm-hmm.
00:41:48Honestly,
00:41:49since that first day
00:41:50at the market,
00:41:51I've been getting
00:41:52some weird vibes
00:41:53from Victoria.
00:41:55It's kind of like
00:41:56a real dark energy
00:41:57that vibrates
00:41:58throughout my body.
00:42:00I don't think
00:42:01she really trusts me
00:42:02with Chitty.
00:42:03And even though
00:42:04we're all hugging,
00:42:05I'm like,
00:42:06there's something there.
00:42:07Even when we look
00:42:08at each other in the eyes,
00:42:09there's something there.
00:42:12So, babe,
00:42:13this is gary.
00:42:15This is how you mold it.
00:42:16Right?
00:42:17Mm-hmm.
00:42:18Then
00:42:19you take it like this,
00:42:20this strip.
00:42:22It goes straight to your mouth.
00:42:25Around.
00:42:29Your stomach.
00:42:30It looks like Play-Doh.
00:42:33All right,
00:42:34you can give it a try.
00:42:43So, how is it?
00:42:45Hot.
00:42:48But it's good, right?
00:42:50It's different, yeah.
00:42:54The soup was very spicy.
00:42:56I don't know how
00:42:57that baby was eating it.
00:42:58And the gary
00:42:59was really bland
00:43:00and it was really hard
00:43:01to swallow.
00:43:02I got it up into
00:43:03a little pea-sized ball
00:43:04and it stuck to the
00:43:05back of your throat
00:43:06like a little dry
00:43:07Velcroed pill in there.
00:43:08I was like,
00:43:09you have to be a snake
00:43:10to be able to swallow
00:43:11a golf ball size that big.
00:43:12Who do you want us
00:43:13to give you for dinner?
00:43:15I can serve you rice if you want.
00:43:16Oh, no, I'm good.
00:43:18I'm good.
00:43:19You're good?
00:43:23So,
00:43:24what kind of soup
00:43:25do you cook?
00:43:26What kind of food
00:43:27do you eat?
00:43:29We don't really cook,
00:43:30especially in the U.S.
00:43:31Everything's mostly
00:43:32like prepackaged,
00:43:33warm up.
00:43:36We have a big selection.
00:43:38We've got tomato soup,
00:43:39cream of chicken,
00:43:40cream of mushroom.
00:43:41I mean,
00:43:42there's a huge selection.
00:43:44But no,
00:43:45when it comes to cooking,
00:43:46I'm just like hot pocket pizza.
00:43:49I don't really cook.
00:43:54It's weird.
00:43:56Yeah, we're a bit worried
00:43:57because
00:43:58Chidi is a black man.
00:44:00He eats
00:44:01African food.
00:44:05It's going to be difficult
00:44:06for Chidi because
00:44:07there's a limit
00:44:08to what Chidi can do
00:44:09for himself
00:44:10when it comes to cooking.
00:44:11So it's going to be
00:44:12very bad for him
00:44:13since Rene doesn't cook.
00:44:17So I'd like to ask you, Rene,
00:44:19would you like your children
00:44:20to be close to Chidi?
00:44:22Oh, yeah.
00:44:23He already is.
00:44:24Like, they hear about him
00:44:25so much
00:44:26every day of their lives.
00:44:27Like, they've heard it
00:44:28for like the last
00:44:29five and a half years
00:44:30every day.
00:44:31Literally.
00:44:33What do you usually tell them?
00:44:36I tell them that
00:44:37I feel like we're soulmates.
00:44:39That he feels me in his heart,
00:44:40his mind, his body.
00:44:42Just so deep and spiritual.
00:44:44How do you mean, dear?
00:44:47Huh?
00:44:49What do you mean by spiritual?
00:44:51God-ordained.
00:44:52God-ordained.
00:44:53God-ordained.
00:44:54God-ordained.
00:44:55Okay.
00:44:56Okay.
00:44:57Not something that happened
00:44:58physically between two of you.
00:45:03Oh, no, never.
00:45:05Okay.
00:45:06Good.
00:45:09I can't believe
00:45:10that she even asked me
00:45:11that she was going to
00:45:12I can't believe
00:45:13that she even asked me
00:45:14that Chedi and I were physical
00:45:15at the dinner table
00:45:16in front of family.
00:45:17That's private.
00:45:20Honestly, I'm really sick
00:45:21of her getting into our business.
00:45:29Why do you look so angry?
00:45:33I'm not angry.
00:45:34No, but I see you all the time
00:45:35and I'm just saying like
00:45:36throughout this whole time
00:45:37you've been looking real angry.
00:45:42Honestly, okay?
00:45:44There's no reason to be angry.
00:45:45Even if you don't like something
00:45:46I say there's no reason.
00:45:47I am not angry.
00:45:49I'm just stressed about my baby, okay?
00:45:51Yeah, she's stressed.
00:45:52No, I'm just making
00:45:53that's why I asked you.
00:45:54I said, are you angry?
00:45:55No, no, she's not.
00:45:56She's not.
00:45:57100%.
00:45:58You understand?
00:46:00Stop.
00:46:01No, no.
00:46:02We are excited that you're here.
00:46:04That's what I keep telling her.
00:46:05Yeah.
00:46:08Since I can't see
00:46:09what is happening
00:46:10I kind of find it difficult to
00:46:12know if Renee is overreacting.
00:46:15But my sister is never
00:46:17an angry person.
00:46:20Renee is deeply insecure
00:46:22and she always feels
00:46:23everyone is against her.
00:46:27I understand how vulnerable she is
00:46:30but the way she talks to my sister
00:46:32is alarming to me.
00:46:35I am deeply worried.
00:46:37That's all right, Renee.
00:46:39You, we have one big family.
00:46:40You are part of the family.
00:46:42Whatever it is that is
00:46:43bugging your heart,
00:46:44bugging your emotions now.
00:46:45Nothing bugs me anymore.
00:46:48When I don't get along with people
00:46:49I move on.
00:46:50I don't linger.
00:46:57Excuse me.
00:47:07This is my outfit
00:47:08Is my outfit not okay?
00:47:10This is not good for Jordan.
00:47:13She has to dress the way
00:47:14that you want her to dress.
00:47:15It's not your business now.
00:47:17But I'm in the car
00:47:18and you're creating
00:47:19a lot of tension.
00:47:20Jordan, man is the man.
00:47:23You're my wife, huh?
00:47:33Four hours to make Tiger Lady hair.
00:47:35Come on.
00:47:36Baby, stop.
00:47:37Let's just all settle down.
00:47:42Adnan is angry.
00:48:08Are we fighting right now?
00:48:10Are we fighting?
00:48:11What are we talking about?
00:48:12It's not your business now.
00:48:14But I'm in the car
00:48:15and you're creating
00:48:16a lot of tension
00:48:17and you're making me anxious.
00:48:19So I'm making it my business
00:48:20because you're making it
00:48:21my business.
00:48:24We're in the car
00:48:25driving to Petra
00:48:26for our honeymoon.
00:48:28But Adnan is so angry
00:48:30about how long they took
00:48:32to get ready.
00:48:34I have never seen
00:48:36I have never seen him
00:48:37like this before
00:48:38and I don't like it.
00:48:58You're trying to protect
00:48:59Tiger Lily?
00:49:00Yeah.
00:49:01Can you explain to me
00:49:02what is wrong
00:49:03with Tiger Lily's outfit?
00:49:06Oh, you don't leave it.
00:49:08OK.
00:49:10OK.
00:49:18So do you think that
00:49:19is my outfit OK
00:49:21or should I have
00:49:22worn something else?
00:49:24Yeah.
00:49:35So it's not OK?
00:49:37It's not OK.
00:49:39Yeah.
00:49:42She has to dress
00:49:43the way that you want her
00:49:44to dress.
00:49:45Yeah.
00:49:46No matter where she goes.
00:49:47Yeah.
00:49:54Everywhere.
00:49:55Everywhere.
00:49:56In the States,
00:49:57that's very conservative.
00:49:58Yeah.
00:50:03I feel that Adnan's rules
00:50:05are a lot to handle.
00:50:06Yeah.
00:50:07Tiger Lily needs to dress
00:50:09a certain way.
00:50:10She can't be alone
00:50:12with other men
00:50:13or shake hands.
00:50:15I just really hope
00:50:16that Tiger Lily
00:50:17doesn't lose her voice
00:50:18in this marriage.
00:50:19She's being this passive
00:50:21Tiger Lily.
00:50:22Which is not really
00:50:23her.
00:50:25Is this something
00:50:26that she'll be able
00:50:27to wear in the States,
00:50:28Adnan?
00:50:32Are you OK if I wear this
00:50:33in the US
00:50:34or is it only Jordan?
00:50:36Everywhere, baby.
00:50:37Not just in Jordan.
00:50:38You are my wife now.
00:50:40There is man
00:50:41and here is man.
00:50:43They can look into your body.
00:50:44Not just in Jordan.
00:50:45OK, so next time
00:50:46before I leave,
00:50:49like,
00:50:50next time before,
00:50:51like, when you see me,
00:50:52when you see me
00:50:53wearing something,
00:50:54then just tell me.
00:50:55OK.
00:50:56It's just like
00:50:57it's gonna be a learning
00:50:58process for me
00:51:00to know, baby.
00:51:04I don't really understand
00:51:06all the rules
00:51:07about the Muslim dress code.
00:51:09Here we are.
00:51:10The issue is
00:51:12I am learning these rules
00:51:14from Adnan
00:51:15and they're not clear.
00:51:18I am not even
00:51:19showing anything.
00:51:20I have long sleeves on.
00:51:21Am I supposed to wear
00:51:22a trash bag?
00:51:23A big old sack?
00:51:26All right,
00:51:27we're all checked in.
00:51:28I'm excited about Petra.
00:51:30We'll see y'all early tomorrow.
00:51:31OK.
00:51:32Y'all have a good night.
00:51:33OK.
00:51:34Of course,
00:51:35it is important
00:51:36that Adnan feels like
00:51:38I'm respecting him,
00:51:40but he can't just place
00:51:42all these rules on me
00:51:43and expect me to
00:51:45just go along with it.
00:51:48This is not gonna be
00:51:50that kind of relationship.
00:51:53I'm so tired.
00:51:55I know, me too, baby.
00:52:01You have to try to do your best.
00:52:03Be a good husband.
00:52:05Don't hide anything
00:52:06from Matilda.
00:52:07I really want to tell Matilda
00:52:09tonight about
00:52:10postponing the marriage,
00:52:11but I'm not quite sure
00:52:13how I'm going to
00:52:14break it to her.
00:52:15Matilda has a
00:52:17big temper.
00:52:20I know.
00:52:40Can you turn off the A.C.
00:52:41a little bit?
00:52:42No air conditioning.
00:52:43Fresh air.
00:52:44Oh, there's no air conditioning.
00:52:45Yes.
00:52:46Well, this is my—
00:52:47the first thing that's
00:52:48different from America.
00:52:49I finally landed in Ghana
00:52:51and met Matilda
00:52:52for the first time.
00:52:53It's just so amazing
00:52:54to be in her presence.
00:52:56It's indescribable.
00:52:57That's the only way
00:52:58I can say it.
00:52:59We have to find a place
00:53:00to go eat.
00:53:01Yes.
00:53:02I want us to go to
00:53:03Ghanaian restaurants.
00:53:04Yeah.
00:53:05How do you see Ghana?
00:53:07It's an experience.
00:53:08It's new for me.
00:53:10Trying to take it all in.
00:53:12I couldn't balance stuff
00:53:13on my head like that.
00:53:14I'm not coordinated
00:53:15enough to do that.
00:53:17I might need a day
00:53:18to really just
00:53:20let it sink in.
00:53:21Here I am with you.
00:53:24I'm very happy.
00:53:27Right now,
00:53:28I'm just hyper-focused
00:53:29on taking in
00:53:30the environment
00:53:31and enjoying my time
00:53:32with Matilda.
00:53:34But I know that
00:53:35I'm going to have to
00:53:36come clean eventually
00:53:37to her concerning
00:53:38postponing the marriage.
00:53:40Wait, wait, wait.
00:53:41Wait, wait, wait.
00:53:43Oh, okay.
00:53:46You're very welcome.
00:53:48Also, let me know
00:53:49if you don't like me
00:53:50opening doors for you, okay?
00:53:51I like it.
00:53:52Okay, good.
00:53:54I really want to tell
00:53:55Matilda tonight,
00:53:56but I'm not quite sure
00:53:58how I'm going to
00:53:59break it to her.
00:54:00I want to say
00:54:01I have a plan,
00:54:02but I don't.
00:54:06Okay.
00:54:07And you?
00:54:08What do I need?
00:54:09What do I need?
00:54:10I'll try that.
00:54:11I think I should try that.
00:54:12Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:54:13You have to try it.
00:54:16I ordered a soup.
00:54:17It's crab,
00:54:18smoked fish,
00:54:19snail,
00:54:20and goat meat.
00:54:23You and your husband.
00:54:24Okay.
00:54:26I want now to have
00:54:27the best Ghanaian dishes,
00:54:28because I want to
00:54:29pamper my man.
00:54:33Okay.
00:54:35This snail,
00:54:36it's so good.
00:54:37It's so good.
00:54:39This snail.
00:54:41That's a snail?
00:54:42Mm-hmm.
00:54:45Just eat it?
00:54:46Mm-hmm.
00:54:48Chew it, chew it,
00:54:49eat it.
00:54:56It's fantastic.
00:55:02I am.
00:55:08Because I have to protect Matilda,
00:55:10because she's my sister,
00:55:12and I love her.
00:55:14You have to try to do your best
00:55:16and be a good husband.
00:55:17You understand?
00:55:18As far as I understand,
00:55:19from my duties as a man,
00:55:21don't cheat,
00:55:22don't lie to her,
00:55:24don't mistreat her.
00:55:25Yeah, you are right.
00:55:26Mm-hmm.
00:55:27Because I think a lot of people
00:55:29say Matilda has a quick temper.
00:55:33What do you mean by quick temper?
00:55:35I get angry a lot.
00:55:37Yeah, when you get angry
00:55:38or you get mad,
00:55:39but, you know,
00:55:40don't hide anything from Matilda
00:55:41and make her happy.
00:55:43If you treat her good,
00:55:45you're not going to see anything.
00:55:47You understand?
00:55:50I think we can manage it.
00:55:53Okay, okay.
00:55:56From our conversations,
00:55:57I could see that Matilda
00:55:58was pretty strong-willed,
00:56:00but temper issues,
00:56:01I never really got that from her.
00:56:05And when it comes to telling her
00:56:07that we have to postpone the wedding,
00:56:09right now the courage
00:56:10is kind of leaving me here.
00:56:13I just don't want anything
00:56:14to ruin our first night together.
00:56:17I just,
00:56:18I love touching her face.
00:56:19Mm-hmm.
00:56:20Because it's beautiful,
00:56:21that's why.
00:56:23I can't wait to spend
00:56:24some one-on-one time
00:56:25with Matilda.
00:56:27But even though
00:56:28we both have had sex before,
00:56:30we want to make sure
00:56:31that we do things
00:56:32the right way this time around
00:56:34and refrain from having sex
00:56:35until marriage.
00:56:37It's going to be hard
00:56:38to control our urges
00:56:39because,
00:56:40have I mentioned
00:56:41I'm heterosexual today?
00:56:43I don't know why.
00:56:44I don't know why.
00:56:45I don't know why.
00:56:46I don't know why.
00:56:47I don't know why.
00:56:48I don't know why.
00:56:49I don't know why.
00:56:50I don't know why.
00:56:51I don't know why.
00:56:52And that I have
00:56:53a very beautiful woman
00:56:54in my bed with me.
00:56:58Oh, God.
00:57:03You have to get some sleep.
00:57:04Don't wait for me.
00:57:08Oh, but I will.
00:57:10But I will wait.
00:57:11Why?
00:57:12Oh, no reason.
00:57:14After all,
00:57:15nothing's going to happen tonight.
00:57:18Then you better
00:57:19start sleeping.
00:57:22To be honest,
00:57:23being with Niles in person,
00:57:25it's even better
00:57:26than what I imagined.
00:57:29This man is very handsome.
00:57:34Can I get some kiss?
00:57:41I don't think
00:57:42I can keep my hands off him.
00:57:52I need you, babe.
00:57:54Oh, Matthew,
00:57:55we needed you so long.
00:58:09Loren has broken my heart.
00:58:10And now,
00:58:11I don't know
00:58:12if I can ever forgive him.
00:58:22Yeah.
00:58:23So you're allowed
00:58:24to shake girls' hands,
00:58:25but I can't shake
00:58:26Chris' hands?
00:58:27I am so angry.
00:58:29It's a complete
00:58:30double standard.
00:58:32So you have different roles
00:58:33than me?
00:58:34Not different roles.
00:58:35I told you before.
00:58:36Then what is it then?
00:58:37You make me so angry
00:58:38and so stressful.
00:58:39I can't.
00:58:51Hi.
00:58:56Hi, Mommy.
00:58:57Hi.
00:59:11I still haven't talked
00:59:12to Loren
00:59:13since I found out
00:59:14he was sleeping
00:59:15with other women.
00:59:22My friends have no idea
00:59:23what's been going on.
00:59:25They had plans to come
00:59:26do my nails
00:59:27and meet Loren today.
00:59:28And I didn't want to cancel
00:59:29because I need their support.
00:59:32But I don't know
00:59:33what to say.
00:59:34It's humiliating.
00:59:51It's okay.
00:59:53What do you mean?
00:59:55Where is he?
00:59:56In his room.
00:59:58Why?
00:59:59Huh?
01:00:00Why are you so quiet?
01:00:03You're acting like
01:00:05you don't know anything.
01:00:08Have you known each other
01:00:09for a long time?
01:00:11Tell us.
01:00:12We're your friends.
01:00:22So,
01:00:23we left yesterday.
01:00:24And then...
01:00:28Don't cry.
01:00:29I'm crying.
01:00:30Hey!
01:00:33And then
01:00:34he revealed a kiss to me.
01:00:40Because he has a mole.
01:00:43Huh?
01:00:45He has a mole.
01:00:46Really?
01:00:47It's true.
01:00:48I'm not lying.
01:00:50Is it a generea?
01:00:55And then he told me
01:00:56he got it from a girl
01:00:58on Halloween.
01:01:00But you were together
01:01:01on Halloween, right?
01:01:10Do you have any idea
01:01:12that he's lying?
01:01:13Like that?
01:01:14What do you feel?
01:01:16We're always updated.
01:01:18We always talk.
01:01:19He always tells me
01:01:20who he's with.
01:01:23I thought they were just talking.
01:01:26But when I asked him,
01:01:27I trusted him a lot.
01:01:31And then,
01:01:33within six months,
01:01:37something else happened.
01:01:43It's just sad.
01:01:48I'm sorry.
01:01:53I was wrong.
01:01:54It was my fault.
01:01:56What are you talking about?
01:02:00I was wrong.
01:02:02You know that, right?
01:02:09This is exactly
01:02:10what I was worried about
01:02:12with having a boyfriend.
01:02:14That I would end up heartbroken.
01:02:17And now,
01:02:18Loren has broken my heart.
01:02:48But if you don't trust him,
01:02:51it's over.
01:02:52You can't just
01:02:54make it up.
01:02:56That's why I'm nervous.
01:02:58I'm nervous that I don't know...
01:03:01You know,
01:03:02you said that
01:03:03he has plans
01:03:04to meet you.
01:03:06Of course.
01:03:07So maybe he really loves you.
01:03:09Because if he doesn't love you,
01:03:11he won't admit to you
01:03:13that he has
01:03:15STDs.
01:03:17Maybe.
01:03:19What about you?
01:03:21Talk to him.
01:03:22Talk to the two of you.
01:03:24It's up to you.
01:03:25Give him a chance.
01:03:26We're just here.
01:03:29I put too much into this relationship
01:03:31to walk away without a conversation.
01:03:34And I need Loren to understand
01:03:36how much he hurt me.
01:03:39But I'm not sure
01:03:40if Loren can fix this.
01:03:43I don't know if I can ever forgive him.
01:03:48Maybe by the moment.
01:03:50How'd y'all sleep?
01:04:17Horrible.
01:04:19So horrible sleep.
01:04:20Really?
01:04:21I'm doing...
01:04:23I have people here in the room.
01:04:26So creepy and so horrible.
01:04:28So weird.
01:04:29I slept like a baby.
01:04:30Here, you can wear this tonight.
01:04:34Thank you so much.
01:04:35It's for me?
01:04:36Yes.
01:04:37I always am sure
01:04:38whenever I go to different places
01:04:40that I protect myself.
01:04:41I wear crystals.
01:04:43Thank you so much.
01:04:44Yes.
01:04:45Here, Tiger Lily.
01:04:46This will protect you at night, too.
01:04:48Perfect.
01:04:49I love it.
01:04:51Do you want me to help you put this on?
01:04:53Yeah.
01:04:54Oh, wait, wait.
01:04:55I don't know if you can.
01:04:57Baby?
01:04:58Can I put this on?
01:04:59Do you want to do it?
01:05:01Out of respect for my husband,
01:05:03I've changed how I interact with men.
01:05:06Especially Cruz.
01:05:08And it's hard because
01:05:10Cruz and I have known each other
01:05:12for a really long time.
01:05:14And before, we would hug
01:05:16when we saw each other.
01:05:18I just don't think you know
01:05:20how awkward it is in the U.S.
01:05:23Just tell them you have a Muslim husband.
01:05:26Of course they know.
01:05:31Okay, guys.
01:05:32Are you excited to see Pink City Petra?
01:05:35I am very excited.
01:05:37We're actually on time today.
01:05:39Before sunset.
01:05:40All right.
01:05:41Let's go.
01:05:42Let's do it.
01:05:43Thank you, God, for
01:05:45making Tiger Lily in time,
01:05:47getting ready.
01:05:49Because I planned a very exciting day.
01:05:52We'll meet you guys outside by the car.
01:05:55Okay.
01:05:57Petra is one of the seven wonders in the world.
01:06:01It's ruins of an old city.
01:06:03Carved in rock.
01:06:07It's amazing.
01:06:08I want to make sure every moment
01:06:10is a romantic time with Tiger Lily.
01:06:14Excited?
01:06:15I'm very excited.
01:06:16I'm going to Petra three times.
01:06:29I need my Google translator.
01:06:32Wait, so you're allowed to shake girls' hands,
01:06:34but I can't shake Cruz's hand?
01:06:37What are you saying?
01:06:39Same thing that I do when I just say hi.
01:06:44I guess we can shake hands now, Cruz.
01:06:46And maybe we can even hug.
01:06:49I don't want to get in trouble.
01:06:50Like all my hands.
01:06:53Like all my hands.
01:06:54No, no.
01:06:56I am feeling completely betrayed.
01:07:01Him shaking Shay's hand,
01:07:03it's a complete double standard.
01:07:06Adnan's having these rules for me,
01:07:09but at the same time,
01:07:11he just thinks that the rules don't apply to him.
01:07:13And I don't like that.
01:07:23It's a problem because it's disrespectful to me.
01:07:27If I did that, if I shook a guy's hand in front of him,
01:07:30he would be so angry.
01:07:37I met your family at the wedding.
01:07:40Your uncles and your different people,
01:07:42they didn't shake my hand.
01:07:44So you have different rules than me?
01:07:48Then what is it then?
01:07:56She is your family. That's fine.
01:08:01These are your rules. These aren't even my rules.
01:08:04Why would I be making up my own whatever?
01:08:06This is your thing.
01:08:10I don't like when I see you like this.
01:08:12Yeah, yeah.
01:08:13You make me so angry and so stressful.
01:08:15I can't. I can't do anything now.
01:08:17It's your fault that you put me like this.
01:08:19You can fix it, but without this face.
01:08:22I don't like this face.
01:08:23What's wrong with my face now?
01:08:25Now there's something wrong with my face.
01:08:29I am so surprised.
01:08:31My sweet wife, she is so mad with me
01:08:35when my brother is sitting in the back seat.
01:08:38Women in Jordan, they don't do this,
01:08:41sharing a problem with her husband like with other people.
01:08:45This is so not respectful for me.
01:08:49I didn't mean to cause any drama.
01:08:51I just did it instinctively.
01:08:52No, I know you didn't. I know. I know exactly.
01:08:55This is just what we do in the U.S. I get it.
01:08:58It should be different for him because this is his life.
01:09:04Based on this fight, there's some double standards
01:09:07that Tiger Lilly probably wasn't seeing before,
01:09:10and now she is.
01:09:12But at the same time, they're already married,
01:09:16so it's a little too late.
01:09:18They just have to deal with stuff.
01:09:20Yeah.
01:09:21Tiger Lilly, Adnan love you.
01:09:24Okay?
01:09:25I know he does.
01:09:26But I just think it's really hypocritical that, like,
01:09:29he's telling me that I can't do things
01:09:32while he's doing them himself.
01:09:34Don't get angry and do all of these things you do it.
01:09:38I'm your husband now. I am not anyone in the street.
01:09:40Because I'm mad at you.
01:09:43Whenever you shake another girl's hand in front of me,
01:09:46I'm not allowed to.
01:09:47You are next to me.
01:09:48I am not alone. You are next to me.
01:09:51It's even worse.
01:09:54I am just feeling so angry.
01:09:57Where are you going?
01:09:58I said everything that I needed to say.
01:10:01It's a big problem when you leave your husband.
01:10:04I'm not going to be in a relationship with someone
01:10:07that doesn't respect me.
01:10:09There's no way I can do that.
01:10:12It's a big problem here.
01:10:14You met the Lilly. Now this is the Tiger.
01:10:17Rawr!
01:10:18He's pissed.
01:10:23Oh, this is nice.
01:10:25I like these roses you put on the bed.
01:10:27The candles.
01:10:28You're really going all out.
01:10:31He's being so romantic.
01:10:33I don't want to continue to keep this secret from him
01:10:35without Rory being here.
01:10:37So, um...
01:10:48Make sure you're staying in your lane, okay?
01:10:50I don't like driving right now.
01:10:52Because I can't hold your hand.
01:10:55We're going to die.
01:10:56I don't want to drive. Don't hold my hand.
01:11:01Just nervous because you are next to me.
01:11:03That is the reason.
01:11:07To finally be together with Sonny,
01:11:09it just feels so different.
01:11:12Even though I've talked to him
01:11:14and we've built a relationship for the past year,
01:11:16it's different in person.
01:11:18It's like, no, you're starting over
01:11:20with, like, your comfortability with him.
01:11:24How do we turn the AC on up in here?
01:11:26I feel hot.
01:11:28How do we turn the AC on up in here?
01:11:30I feel hot.
01:11:31Yeah.
01:11:32This is the excitement, honey.
01:11:34I want to make your heart beat a little bit faster.
01:11:37Because...
01:11:38It's foreplay?
01:11:41Foreplay.
01:11:42Let's play.
01:11:44Do you know what foreplay is?
01:11:46Yeah, just play.
01:11:48Wait, no, what's foreplay mean?
01:11:52I don't know.
01:11:54Foreplay means four people playing together.
01:11:58No, stop! Are you lying?
01:12:01I don't know.
01:12:03So foreplay is like...
01:12:05what you do before sex.
01:12:09Kissing, touching, hugging.
01:12:12Come on.
01:12:14I thought she was talking about she wanted to play foreplay,
01:12:17like four people gonna play together or something,
01:12:19like that cards or something.
01:12:21Foreplay.
01:12:22That's what foreplay is.
01:12:23It's when four people play cards.
01:12:29OK.
01:12:31Let's get to the hotel.
01:12:34Ladies first.
01:12:37It'd be cute if he wasn't super experienced.
01:12:40Could teach him some things.
01:12:42But I don't think that we're going to do anything tonight.
01:12:45Even though we've done things on video chat,
01:12:47it's weird in person.
01:12:49I definitely need a little bit of time
01:12:51just to get more comfortable with him
01:12:53before we get freaky.
01:12:56Surprise.
01:12:57Did you like the place?
01:12:58Yeah, it's cute.
01:13:02Baby, are you hungry?
01:13:04Um, yes.
01:13:06Come sit here.
01:13:08It's my turn to treat you like a queen.
01:13:10OK.
01:13:14What is this?
01:13:15This is like kind of bread.
01:13:17We normally eat with the bread.
01:13:19There's a chicken curry for you.
01:13:21A lot of hard work I did on that.
01:13:28I appreciate it, but I don't want to eat it.
01:13:32Are you serious?
01:13:34I don't want to offend Sonny,
01:13:36but I've always been very particular
01:13:38what I will put in my body.
01:13:40Does it look bad?
01:13:42No, it's just I'm weird about what I eat.
01:13:44I'm really picky.
01:13:45I told you this.
01:13:47They call me sheltered,
01:13:48but I've just never eaten curry before.
01:13:50I don't know what's even in curry.
01:13:52I'm tired. I'm jet-lagged.
01:13:54And I just don't want to eat something
01:13:56I don't know what it is right now.
01:13:58I appreciate it,
01:14:00but I just don't want to eat it.
01:14:02Sorry.
01:14:04OK, that's cool. I'll eat it myself.
01:14:06I love my food.
01:14:08So I'll show you your bedroom in just a minute.
01:14:10I need the time.
01:14:12OK, I'll sit here and wait.
01:14:14OK, thank you.
01:14:24I feel like that's rude.
01:14:27Food is really important in my culture.
01:14:29Like making a food with love.
01:14:31I wanted to introduce those things to Vea
01:14:34so she can also love my culture.
01:14:36She refused to even try it.
01:14:38That makes me sad.
01:14:40But I don't want to put those things on my head
01:14:42because she's here now.
01:14:44I can't be sad. Let's go forward.
01:14:48Are you ready?
01:14:50There's something else I want to surprise you.
01:14:52Show me.
01:14:54But you have to close your eyes for that.
01:14:56I'll hold it. I don't trust you.
01:14:58I'll hold it myself.
01:15:00Be ready.
01:15:02Are you ready?
01:15:04Are you sure?
01:15:10This is going to be our bedroom.
01:15:12Oh, this is nice.
01:15:16I like these roses you put on the bed.
01:15:18You're trying to be all romantic.
01:15:20I am.
01:15:22The candles. You're really going all out.
01:15:30So...
01:15:32I'm going to take a shower, I think.
01:15:34Can I join with you?
01:15:36Not tonight.
01:15:38I'm really tired.
01:15:40OK.
01:15:42OK.
01:15:44Bye. Enjoy your shower.
01:15:50I think it's really cute
01:15:52that Sonny has done all this.
01:15:54He's being so romantic. He's being so sweet.
01:15:56But I just keep thinking
01:15:58that I haven't told him about Rory being here.
01:16:00You ready for bed?
01:16:02Yeah.
01:16:04I don't want to continue to keep this secret from him.
01:16:06But I'm in a situation
01:16:08where it's like,
01:16:10where do I tell him? How do I tell him?
01:16:12I'm just really scared
01:16:14that Sonny will never forgive me.
01:16:16He could break up with me and send me home.
01:16:18He could mess up everything
01:16:20that I've had planned for the past year.
01:16:24Good night.
01:16:28Sweet nightmares.
01:16:30I was just wondering
01:16:32if you would feel comfortable
01:16:34to, like, stay in a hotel room with me.
01:16:36Like, you even say yourself,
01:16:38we're soulmates, we're meant to be.
01:16:40So I don't see the issue with you being alone with me.
01:16:42I live in a society
01:16:44where there are norms,
01:16:46Hey!
01:16:48You care more about the world
01:16:50and your family thing versus us.
01:17:17Dinner with Chitty's family
01:17:19last night was really tense.
01:17:23Victoria's starting to show
01:17:25clues to maybe as to
01:17:27why I might have some deep down issue
01:17:29when it comes to sisters.
01:17:31Questioning me if Chitty and I were physical
01:17:33was the last straw.
01:17:35That's disrespectful.
01:17:37My gut is never wrong.
01:17:39Never wrong.
01:17:43So much negative energy here.
01:17:45So I'm going to talk to him
01:17:47about getting a hotel room.
01:17:52I think he would stay with me.
01:17:54It's just he would be really hesitant
01:17:56and scared over what his sister
01:17:58and the husband are thinking.
01:18:03Good morning, Chitty.
01:18:05Babe, good morning.
01:18:07You're reading your Bible?
01:18:09Yep.
01:18:11That's cool.
01:18:13That's a trip how you learned that.
01:18:15Yeah, but it's not that difficult.
01:18:19You know what I was thinking?
01:18:21You want to go for a walk?
01:18:23Yeah, it's not a bad idea.
01:18:25Let me change my pants.
01:18:27Okay, I'll wait for you in the living room.
01:18:30After last night's dinner,
01:18:32I was very worried about
01:18:34Renee's state of mind regarding my sister.
01:18:38It's real nice outside and cloudy
01:18:40and the water's running down the street
01:18:42and the chickens are all over
01:18:44and there's people all over.
01:18:46And yeah, there is a school nearby.
01:18:48I am very relieved that
01:18:50Renee seems to be in a better spirit,
01:18:52but I am just worried
01:18:54that she will not be able
01:18:56to get along with my family.
01:18:58Want to sit down?
01:19:00Right here, there's a place.
01:19:02Of course.
01:19:06Are you comfortable there?
01:19:08Yeah, this is nice.
01:19:12So about last night,
01:19:14I wanted to apologize
01:19:16because I did raise my voice
01:19:18a little bit,
01:19:20but it was only out of obvious frustration.
01:19:24Sometimes, yes,
01:19:26we have differences
01:19:28and we have issues,
01:19:30but unless we get over them,
01:19:32it will still be difficult to carry on.
01:19:36You understand?
01:19:38I appreciate your sister,
01:19:40but I don't know if
01:19:42our problem will be resolved
01:19:44in the end of all this.
01:19:46So I was just wondering
01:19:48if you would feel comfortable
01:19:50to stay in a hotel room with me?
01:19:56You don't look enthused.
01:20:02It's not a bad thing.
01:20:04It's not a bad idea.
01:20:06So you'll do it?
01:20:10I just...
01:20:12I wish
01:20:14we can still
01:20:16have
01:20:18more time together at home.
01:20:22If the room
01:20:24is the problem, we can interchange.
01:20:26At least...
01:20:28I'm good. I get it.
01:20:30It's not that I'm uncomfortable.
01:20:32I'm just uncomfortable with the situation
01:20:34that I came so freaking far
01:20:36to see my soulmate that I'm supposed to marry,
01:20:38that he wants to marry me so bad.
01:20:40I'm just looking for that
01:20:42little bit of quality time alone with you.
01:20:46Well, remember,
01:20:48it's just my faith.
01:20:50You understand?
01:20:52Like you even say yourself,
01:20:54we're soulmates. We're meant to be.
01:20:56Like you believe God has ordained us,
01:20:58so I don't see the issue with you being alone with me.
01:21:00Because I am a man.
01:21:02I have Lord running all over me.
01:21:04You understand?
01:21:06You know what? No, I don't want to argue.
01:21:08Shut up. I'm trying to be nice to you.
01:21:10Since you might think that maybe
01:21:12I'm such an animal, I'm going to jump on you,
01:21:14I want to promise on your entire life
01:21:16that the entire trip I'm here,
01:21:18I'm not going to touch you
01:21:20in any sexual way.
01:21:22I just want to hang out with you, OK?
01:21:28As a woman, I want to marry.
01:21:30I need privacy with her.
01:21:32That is real. That is reality.
01:21:34But I believe
01:21:36if we move into a more
01:21:38quiet and private place
01:21:40that I might capitulate.
01:21:42So in order to
01:21:44avoid breaking
01:21:46my vows, there are some things
01:21:48I need to just avoid.
01:21:52You know,
01:21:54I love you,
01:21:56and I would do anything to keep you
01:21:58but
01:22:00I live in a society
01:22:02where there are norms, where there are
01:22:04principles.
01:22:06And you know what the sad part is?
01:22:08You care more about what people think?
01:22:10You care more about
01:22:12the world and what people
01:22:14and your family think versus
01:22:16us?
01:22:18It's all about belief.
01:22:20You understand?
01:22:22Well, I'm not going to come to your beliefs
01:22:24because I'm far beyond your little beliefs.
01:22:28I'm on a different spiritual plane.
01:22:32And now that I know that you see me
01:22:34as too much of a temptation by staying with me
01:22:36in the room shows me that you're just not ready for me.
01:22:38Right? Like, I know, like, I could sit here
01:22:40and I'll be like, oh, but you're my soul mate.
01:22:42I hate noise. It disturbs my brain.
01:22:44And I am extremely
01:22:46overwhelmed by Rene right now.
01:22:48The more louder
01:22:50she gets, the more disoriented
01:22:52I become.
01:22:54Never one time did you ever say,
01:22:56I'm in love with you.
01:22:58Why do you have me here?
01:23:00No, I'm just saying.
01:23:02No, I'm serious. I wasted a lot of money.
01:23:04A lot of time. Don't say no.
01:23:06I wasted a lot of money
01:23:08to come over here, so respect me.
01:23:10I am sorry.
01:23:12No, I'm serious.
01:23:14It hurts me greatly to hear her mean words,
01:23:16her aggression, her anger.
01:23:18But I still love Rene.
01:23:20And I don't want to lose her.
01:23:22I'm worried that if I don't
01:23:24go with her to the hotel,
01:23:26she will end our relationship.
01:23:28So I don't know what to do.
01:23:34Next time on
01:23:36Before the 90 Days.
01:23:38I'm super confident
01:23:40in every aspect of my life.
01:23:42But when it comes to relationships,
01:23:44it's been a sh** show.
01:23:46Everything you do
01:23:48is showing everybody.
01:23:50Now I
01:23:52am going to Croatia to meet Bojo.
01:23:54But I'm worried because of
01:23:56what happened in the past.
01:23:58You don't even know anything about
01:24:00this other woman.
01:24:22It's normal to have sex.
01:24:26I like babies.
01:24:28Very soon,
01:24:30I'll get married to the man
01:24:32I love. There's a lot of
01:24:34people coming. It's more
01:24:36than 200 people.
01:24:38I think we're past the point of snowballing here.
01:24:40At this point, it's turning
01:24:42into an avalanche.
01:24:44Matilda, I have a confession to make.
01:24:48Baby, why are you crying?
01:24:50He's not used
01:24:52to having a woman call him out on his
01:24:54behavior.
01:24:58You accept my apologies or not?