Bakit nga ba mas pipiliing mag-isa ng singer-songwriter na si David Archuleta?
Panoorin ang buong episode:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJ7flAKw8Cs
Panoorin ang buong episode:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJ7flAKw8Cs
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00:00You have a really very intriguing song for me. The title of the song is Rather Be Lonely, and a lot of people would say, I would rather not be lonely, but here comes David saying, I'd rather be lonely. Tell me something about this song.
00:17Yeah, I think a lot of times you have wounds from your past that still hurt you and you feel like you need to protect yourself from other people and from love, from relationships. It can feel scary because of, what if I get hurt again?
00:35And so in that sense, it's like, sometimes these bad ways of thinking, even if you're with someone who's very caring and loving and supportive, you still have work on yourself that it's like, you know what, I don't think I'm ready to receive this.
00:49And I found myself in that situation where it's like, even though this is a beautiful person and they want to support me and love me and be there for me, I'm not ready to receive that. It triggers too much in me. I don't know what that is, and I need to have some more work to understand why I get triggered from intimacy and being close to someone and building a relationship with them.
01:14The song says, I don't know why I keep doing this, but I feel like I need to end this because intimacy is scary. Now, why is it scary? I don't know. So let me go to therapy. Let me go talk to my family. Let me go talk to friends to understand why I feel this way, because I don't think I'm supposed to.
01:32But at the same time, I feel like for now, I'd rather be lonely because relationship just brings so much anxiety to me.
01:43Briefly to the question, is that your real state of mind or you just wrote it out of releasing past hurtful experiences?
01:54I would say it's from a combination. I wrote the song last year, and I released it this year. Everything I've released over the last 10 years has come from real experiences.
02:11I think the next songs that I'll be writing, I'm playing around more. I'm having more fun. Maybe it's based off of a true story, but not all of it's true. Just to play around more as a creator and an artist and a performer.