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00:00Because you have another partner,
00:03are you an AAG couple in real life?
00:06Okay, this chicken rice is $3.50,
00:08you have to give me $1.70.
00:09$2.50, you have to give it back to me.
00:10No, no, no.
00:11There's a rose seller outside,
00:12$5 for a bouquet.
00:13He told me,
00:14no, no, no.
00:15Don't hurt her.
00:16You come to take photos,
00:17you have to give her a rose.
00:18Like this.
00:19So I said,
00:20I saw it.
00:28Hi, girls.
00:29I'm Vivian Liu Xiu Wei.
00:31It's said that
00:32men and women are equal.
00:33But can AAG accept
00:35both men and women?
00:37I'm super relieved
00:38when I see this guest.
00:40Because I think he's very good at talking.
00:42You can throw him anywhere.
00:44Let's welcome Queenie
00:45and Daniel.
00:46Hello, everyone.
00:47I'm Daniel.
00:48Yeah.
00:49I'm Queenie.
00:50Newly popular.
00:52Actually, I'm very curious.
00:53Because you've been dating Justin
00:55for a long time,
00:56and now you've revealed
00:57another identity, which is popularity.
00:58In what way
00:59did you reach a consensus?
01:01In terms of getting along,
01:02do you think this person
01:03is your future partner?
01:05Actually, I think
01:06I don't get along with him.
01:07We don't have any consensus.
01:09But the only thing
01:10between us
01:11that can go on
01:12is that I think
01:13why do we still get together
01:15when we fight every day?
01:17So I think
01:18that person
01:19also feels like
01:20he can't get away with anything.
01:22In terms of money,
01:23do you two fight?
01:25It's a lot about money.
01:26Oh, it's about money.
01:27Sometimes when we're stressed
01:28from work,
01:29or when he's having a bad day,
01:31he'll use this
01:32because he's in a bad mood.
01:33And we'll fight
01:34because of these things.
01:35Maybe he has money issues,
01:37or I have money issues.
01:38We don't share
01:39with each other.
01:40This is a problem
01:41that we have
01:42after we got married.
01:43We'll lock up
01:44our money
01:45and make sure
01:46the other person
01:47doesn't worry.
01:48And then,
01:49slowly,
01:50when we find out
01:51about this,
01:52we'll start fighting.
01:53So you two are
01:54a married couple?
01:55No.
01:56We're more like
01:57I'll treat you today,
01:58you'll treat me tomorrow.
01:59This isn't an A, right?
02:00No, it's not.
02:01Maybe this month
02:02you'll spend more,
02:03so I'll treat you this month.
02:04I'll spend more this month,
02:05so...
02:06That's it.
02:07But in my eyes,
02:08I think, Queenie,
02:09you're a very
02:10strong woman.
02:11If you follow
02:12her Instagram,
02:13you'll know
02:14she's super strong
02:15and makes a lot of money.
02:16No,
02:17both men and women
02:18make a lot of money.
02:19All women
02:20should have
02:21their own career.
02:22So does your other half
02:23feel pressured?
02:24Like,
02:25why is my other half
02:26so strong?
02:27I always tell her
02:28I'm very poor.
02:29Yeah.
02:30You have to
02:31show her
02:32in front of her.
02:33Huh?
02:34I don't have money.
02:35I'm so pitiful.
02:36Let's talk about this later.
02:37So, Big Bull,
02:38because you have
02:39another half
02:40in your relationship,
02:41in real life,
02:42are you a
02:43AA type of couple?
02:44I think I'm the same
02:45as her.
02:46Sometimes you treat me,
02:47sometimes I treat you.
02:48Sometimes when we eat,
02:49you treat me,
02:50then I treat you.
02:51So you don't care
02:52about the obvious.
02:53Like,
02:54give me back my $2.50.
02:55Give me back my $2.50.
02:56No, no, no.
02:57I think this type of
02:58AA type of couple
02:59is usually
03:00built on
03:01a couple
03:02who just started dating.
03:03There are situations like this.
03:04What about you, Big Bull?
03:05When you're in a relationship,
03:06how do you chase
03:07your girlfriend at first?
03:08Do you tell her
03:09that she's yours
03:10and you're mine?
03:11Think about it.
03:12If a guy
03:13tells you
03:14that after we date,
03:15all of our stuff...
03:16On Monday,
03:17you give him
03:181, 3, 5.
03:19I give him
03:202, 4, 6.
03:21I don't think
03:22we'll be together.
03:23Then how do you
03:24get along with your girlfriend?
03:25Because as a girl,
03:26at least we know each other.
03:27As a guy,
03:28I'm quite curious
03:29about this.
03:30Okay, I think...
03:31What about you?
03:32From a guy's point of view,
03:33if you're chasing a girl
03:34or you have feelings
03:35for a girl,
03:36and you want to
03:37go on a date with her,
03:38it must be a guy's feeling.
03:39It's impossible
03:40to expect
03:41that after we date,
03:42we'll be even.
03:43It's not very...
03:44Actually, sometimes
03:45I don't understand
03:46one problem.
03:47Why do you say
03:48it must be a guy's feeling?
03:49That's right.
03:50This thing is a bit...
03:51I think this is because
03:52we think that
03:53men and women are equal.
03:54I think...
03:55Why do I think
03:56it's a guy's feeling?
03:57Because I think
03:58we need to prove
03:59our feelings.
04:00Ah, at the beginning.
04:01We need to prove
04:02our feelings.
04:03I get it.
04:04It's like
04:05if the guy
04:06doesn't have feelings for her,
04:07you let him go.
04:08I think girls will say
04:09I let you go
04:10because I don't have feelings for you.
04:11If you want to go,
04:12go ahead.
04:13But if I have feelings for you,
04:14I won't be willing
04:15to let you spend money.
04:16Because I think
04:17there are many
04:18single men and women
04:19who don't know
04:20how to
04:21date.
04:22If you want to
04:23date a single person,
04:24the cost is high.
04:25Do you think
04:26if you want to
04:27date a single person,
04:28you need to
04:29set a good example
04:30or do you think
04:31it's better
04:32to let the guy
04:33pay for the date?
04:34I think
04:35it's better
04:36to let the guy
04:37pay for the date.
04:38If it's a guy,
04:39because I think
04:40it's usually a guy's date.
04:41It's not necessarily.
04:42I'm sorry.
04:43I haven't played
04:44the dating app.
04:45Sorry.
04:46Sorry.
04:47Sorry.
04:48Sorry.
04:49Sorry.
04:50I think it's better
04:51to let the guy pay for the date.
04:52It's like when he's
04:53done with the whole trip
04:54and he's going to
04:55meet a girl.
04:56It's more thoughtful.
04:57It shows sincerity.
04:58What about you, Queenie?
04:59If you're going to
05:00meet someone,
05:01what would you do?
05:02I would think
05:03if it's very expensive
05:04at the moment,
05:05like if it's cheap food,
05:06I would think
05:07I should let him pay.
05:08If it's very expensive,
05:09I would feel embarrassed
05:10because I feel like
05:11I owe him money.
05:12I would feel like
05:13I owe him money.
05:14But he wouldn't accept it.
05:15So I would go...
05:16It's usually like this.
05:17When I was single,
05:18he would chase me
05:19and take me to fancy restaurants
05:20to eat.
05:21I would go to the counter
05:22to pay.
05:23I would tell him
05:24I don't want to
05:25accept your kindness
05:26because I don't like you
05:27yet.
05:28I just want to go out
05:29with you.
05:30Going out with you
05:31doesn't mean anything.
05:32It's just that
05:33you're chasing me.
05:34So I'll go out
05:35with you to eat.
05:36But it's impossible
05:37to have an afterlife.
05:38But it depends.
05:39It all depends on
05:40the person.
05:41What if he
05:42takes the money
05:43and doesn't return it?
05:44Then you'll be touched.
05:45No!
05:46He'll be touched
05:47if I treat him to a meal.
05:49Are you okay?
05:50That's the first impression.
05:53No, I think
05:54treating him to a meal
05:55and going out with him
05:56doesn't make me
05:57have a good impression
05:58of him.
06:02It's more about
06:03the way you talk
06:04and your attitude
06:05on the day.
06:06It's about
06:07whether a girl
06:08would accept
06:09this.
06:10For example,
06:11when Fei chased me,
06:12he planned to go
06:13to a Japanese restaurant.
06:14But he didn't
06:15research
06:16whether the restaurant
06:17was open or not.
06:18So we went to
06:19a nearby restaurant.
06:20I was okay with it.
06:21But he
06:22did a good job on the day.
06:24You pay attention to details.
06:26I don't like to eat.
06:27So I think
06:28it's okay
06:29to eat.
06:30It's about
06:31who you eat with.
06:33What about you, Daniel?
06:34I think
06:35a lot of girls
06:36are like this.
06:37Girls
06:38are considerate of guys
06:39and think
06:40they should pay
06:41in advance.
06:42Does this make
06:43guys feel
06:44burdened?
06:45I don't think
06:46so.
06:47I'm happy.
06:48I'm happy.
06:49No, no.
06:50I mean
06:51when she pays,
06:52if I want to treat her,
06:53I'll pay in advance.
06:54I'll tell her
06:55that even if
06:56she pays,
06:57I still want to
06:58treat her to a meal.
06:59Or
07:00I'll plan
07:01a better trip
07:02so that she
07:03can feel
07:04that I want to
07:05treat her well
07:06and take her
07:07out to play.
07:08When do you
07:09feel burdened?
07:10When do I
07:11feel burdened?
07:12Maybe
07:13when you buy a house
07:14or a car.
07:15Because
07:16it's hard
07:17to make money
07:18if you want
07:19to run a family.
07:20When you buy a house,
07:21you might need
07:22half of the money.
07:23Do you feel
07:24the same way?
07:25Are you going
07:26to the next stage?
07:27The house is hers.
07:28So she
07:29has to pay for it.
07:30But
07:31we used to
07:32live in
07:33an AA house.
07:34Everything
07:35in the house
07:36is equal.
07:39I think
07:40this situation
07:41is more suitable
07:42for living together
07:43because we don't live together.
07:44We don't
07:45live together
07:46so we don't
07:47have this problem.
07:48Sometimes
07:49when we buy
07:50expensive things,
07:51she might
07:52pay for it
07:53herself.
07:54She doesn't
07:55have to pay for it
07:56herself.
07:57I think
07:58it's normal
07:59to buy things
08:00for yourself.
08:01Have you ever
08:02experienced
08:03a terrible situation
08:04in your life?
08:05Why do you
08:06have to pay
08:07so much?
08:08Do you have
08:09this experience?
08:10I don't have
08:11this experience.
08:12My friend
08:13didn't have
08:14a bad experience.
08:15She would
08:16pay for
08:17everything
08:18she ate.
08:19She would
08:20pay for
08:21everything
08:22she ate.
08:23She would
08:24pay for
08:25everything
08:26she ate.
08:27She would
08:28pay for
08:29everything
08:30she ate.
08:31She would
08:32sum up
08:33how much
08:34she spent
08:35on food
08:36this month.
08:37If there
08:38are people
08:39who have
08:40AA experience,
08:41they have
08:42to pay.
08:43You have
08:44to pay.
08:45I don't
08:46have this
08:47experience.
08:48I've
08:49never experienced
08:50it this way
08:51but I have
08:52friends who
08:53have.
08:54I think
08:55my friends
08:56might not
08:57be my friends
08:58in the future.
08:59Your friends?
09:00I have
09:01friends
09:02who don't
09:03spend money
09:04on their girlfriends.
09:05They spend
09:06their valentines
09:07or other
09:08holidays
09:09as a way
09:10to celebrate
09:11I have a girlfriend, my ex-boyfriend
09:13My ex-ex-ex-ex-ex-ex
09:15She did something that I was dumbfounded
09:17When I shared this with her
09:19I was like, wow, this is amazing
09:21I told her, because girls like flowers
09:23But for her, buying flowers is a waste of money
09:26Then she told me
09:29You like roses, right?
09:31I said, yes
09:33But I can't buy them for you
09:35Because you know, flowers leave the soil
09:37She said, every flower that leaves the soil
09:39You are harming a life
09:41Fine, I gave up
09:43We didn't talk for a while
09:45But one time, around 4am
09:47She woke me up
09:49She took me on a 3-hour journey
09:51She took me to Jin Ma Lun
09:53To Rose Garden
09:55She said, I can't buy them for you
09:57But I can take you to see
09:59She took you to see, I thought she was taking you to pick flowers
10:01No, don't let me pick
10:03I want to pick, but I can't
10:05They sell roses for 5 dollars
10:07You take a picture
10:09Take a picture with the roses
10:11She thought it was a success
10:13She didn't know what I wanted
10:15I didn't receive it, I didn't see it
10:17She took me on a 3-hour journey
10:19She took me on a 3-hour journey
10:21It's more expensive than 5 dollars
10:23She's very thoughtful
10:25But she's a bit stingy
10:27This is quite funny
10:29Can you accept that your partner
10:31Has already fallen in love with you
10:33She suddenly told you
10:35Let's settle this first
10:37We'll have dinner together
10:39Can you accept that?
10:41Is it like this?
10:43She told you
10:45After we got together
10:47Every time we watch a movie
10:49Every time we go out to eat
10:51We'll share the bill
10:53We'll use the money to pay
10:55As long as it's a relationship
10:57We'll use the money
10:59That's impossible
11:01I think this situation
11:03Our relationship isn't that deep
11:05But you told me these things
11:07I was shocked
11:09I have some female friends
11:11We're used to it
11:13After all, we're a family
11:15It's not easy for a guy to make money
11:17But some girls think
11:19We can't have everything
11:21We're girls, we have to be spoiled by guys
11:23We have to pay for everything
11:25But there are guys who are willing to pay for these girls
11:27And they're happy together
11:29What do you think
11:31You're stupid
11:33You're a girl
11:35All my female friends are like this
11:37They talk to me like this
11:39They think
11:41I'd rather find a rich guy
11:4310 guys will be spoiled
11:45But if you choose a rich guy
11:47You'll feel better
11:49If you choose a poor guy
11:51You'll be spoiled
11:53They think like this
11:55But I think you can't force a relationship
11:57If you don't like it, don't like it
11:59I really can't do it
12:01Because I think
12:03I'm very strong
12:05Don't force me with money
12:07I'll force you back
12:09I'll feel
12:11I can't accept guys
12:13If you pay me a little more
12:15And you tell me when you fight
12:17What you eat is all mine
12:19She'll be gone
12:21Will you feel burdened?
12:23If a girl says
12:25If you want to chase me, you have to pay
12:27No, I don't think so
12:29If she says that
12:31It means she wants you to pay more
12:33If she says that
12:35It's like asking for your money
12:37It's like asking for your money
12:39If she says
12:41Baby, yours is mine
12:43Mine is mine
12:45No, no
12:47I don't think so
12:49I think it's a mutual goal
12:51If she says that
12:53It means what I want is what I want
12:55And what you want is also what I want
12:57So I think
12:59It's not a mutual thing
13:01It's not a mutual goal
13:03It's more like
13:05I'm asking you to do more than me
13:07It's like Lulu
13:09It's like being cheated
13:13Do you have any advice?
13:15If you want to grow healthily in a relationship
13:17Until you expose your marriage like Queenie
13:19Do you have any advice
13:21For couples
13:23Or friends
13:25Who want to start a relationship
13:27You have to learn to be financially independent
13:29I think it depends on your age
13:31If you are our age
13:33You have to see what you can do
13:35Otherwise, if you can't even afford it
13:37How can you be responsible for another girl
13:39I think that's it
13:41This is what guys think
13:43Because I think the current society
13:45It's hard to be equal
13:47Girls have to be financially independent
13:49If you want to buy something
13:51If you want to buy something
13:53It's wrong
13:55Because if you can find someone who likes you
13:57This is a very happy thing
13:59Thank you to our guests today
14:01Daniel and Queenie
14:03Do you agree with AA?
14:05Or disagree?
14:07Tell us in the comments
14:09Don't forget to like, comment and share
14:11See you in the next episode
14:13Let's get high
14:15It's a shame
14:17They are a group of good brothers
14:19Let's be brothers
14:21I'm the worst
14:23And they can be brothers
14:25And they can like the same girl
14:27And they can like the same girl
14:29And they can like the same girl
14:31I'm like that too