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00:00Do you think sex and love can be separated in a relationship?
00:06I think people with strong sexual desire
00:08They will be more on...
00:10Can't be separated
00:11For me, it's like
00:12You eat those people's food
00:13You should separate Samba from rice
00:17I mean...
00:18It's possible
00:18But I can't
00:24Hi girls
00:24Yeah yeah hi
00:25Hello, I'm Vivian Liu Xiuwei
00:27Today's topic is awesome
00:29I believe a lot of people would like to know
00:32But you may not say it out
00:35Can sex and love be separated in a relationship?
00:39Today's guests are also awesome
00:42They are Mizi and Ryan
00:44Hello everyone, I'm Mizi
00:46Hello everyone, I'm Mizi's boyfriend, Ryan
00:50So should I call you Ryan, Mizi or Mizi and...
00:52Both are fine
00:53Both are fine
00:54You can also call Mizi and handsome
00:57You are handsome, that's fine
00:59But usually...
01:02Your friends call me Mizi
01:05They call me Ryan
01:07But if it's like this...
01:09Netizens will call you Mizi and Ryan
01:11Yes yes yes
01:12Then I'll be your netizen today
01:14No no no
01:16Because I've seen your video, it's awesome
01:18You said you didn't want to get married yet
01:20Because at this time, you are very...
01:22Very sweet
01:23And it's more free
01:24You can travel everywhere
01:26Actually, what I want to say in that video is...
01:29There is no need to get married for me
01:31Because when I get older, people will say...
01:33You are not married yet, etc.
01:34I think...
01:35I really hate this sentence
01:37No, it's not
01:38It's not in a hurry
01:39You can explore the world
01:40Our position is like this
01:43How many years have you been together?
01:45This year is the 8th year
01:46This September is the 8th year
01:48They said you have been together for 7 years
01:51It's still there, it hasn't been 8 years yet
01:53You know every time I tell him
01:55This year is the 8th year
01:56He said no, it's still 7 years
01:58But it's okay
01:58I heard this 7 years ago
02:00It's been a long time
02:01But it's okay
02:02It's been 8 years
02:03He can't say it anymore
02:04So do you plan to propose?
02:05Hey hey hey
02:06No no no
02:07I can say it
02:09Okay, because you two have been together for many years
02:11The 8th year
02:12Do you think sex and love can be separated in a relationship?
02:18Do you want to say something?
02:18Actually, this question...
02:19At that time, I was thinking...
02:21I'm very sensitive to this question
02:22But this question is indeed worth discussing
02:24Yes, I think it's a question that many people will face
02:27It seems that there are some Jewish friends
02:28They think it can be separated
02:30My love is love, it has nothing to do with sex
02:32But sometimes some people
02:33Just because you have love
02:35Like my friends, they will say
02:36You just love this person
02:37When you see him, you will feel
02:39Want to have a closer relationship with him
02:41Like this
02:41So it can't be separated
02:43I think this is very related to your sexual desire
02:47I think usually people with strong sexual desires
02:49They will be more on
02:51Can't be separated
02:53Yes
02:54But if your sexual desire is not so strong
02:56Everyone will think
02:56Oh, no, I can be nice to him
02:59Because he himself has no desire
03:00I think it's like this
03:01It depends on the individual
03:02If your sexual desire is stronger
03:03I think
03:05I think it should be difficult to be separated in this era
03:08I think most people
03:11I don't think we can separate
03:12This thing
03:13Generally, I also think
03:15If you can't, you can't
03:18Men seem to be pitiful
03:20If you can't
03:21But if you talk about my point of view
03:23I think
03:26Can't be separated
03:27Me
03:27Because I think you love a person
03:29Everything is for him
03:31I mean, I do have friends around me
03:34Talk about love and sex can be separated
03:36But personally, I can't
03:39For me, it's like
03:41You eat nasi lemak
03:42You forcefully separate sambal and rice
03:45I mean, yes
03:47But I can't
03:47That kind of feeling
03:49Because I think after dating
03:51Maybe you want to step into the next stage
03:53I think the previous test drive is ok
03:55But I don't agree with dating
03:57What do you think
03:58Because a lot of people now
03:59For example, like a real love
04:02A lot of people think
04:03We don't have to be officially a boyfriend and girlfriend
04:05We can also have a relationship
04:07Do you have such examples?
04:09For me
04:09Like he just said
04:10He thinks he can't be separated
04:12I think we can be separated
04:15So you ask me
04:16It's like dating
04:18Do you want to test
04:20Do you want to test
04:21I think I can't
04:23If we haven't reached the stage of dating
04:25I can't
04:27I can't guarantee
04:29I think girls will think this way
04:31Because for boys
04:32They don't suffer
04:33I mean, it's what you ask me to do
04:35Yes
04:36But technically I can't
04:37Can't either, right?
04:38Because I know a lot of people say
04:40What test
04:41Do you want to test
04:42Can you
04:42Don't if you can't
04:44But that test
04:47Can't pass that level
04:49It's like I have to test 5-6 jobs for the same job
04:53I can't
04:54I really can't
04:55Ryan's example is very good
04:56Can you
04:57Can you
04:58No more
04:59Before dating
05:01Dating is sex
05:02I can't
05:04Not too much
05:05Because I don't have a high sex desire
05:07So I think
05:08If he really
05:09Where are you
05:10After dating
05:12After dating, it's very small
05:14It's very small
05:15For me
05:16Maybe like this
05:17You didn't see
05:18You will be unhappy for the rest of your life
05:20What to do
05:21Speaking of this
05:22I also have an example to say
05:23I have a gay friend
05:24I should have said it in the first episode
05:26But he didn't say
05:27Oh no
05:30It's okay
05:32He said
05:33He said
05:34Because for gays
05:35They
05:36Not like us girls
05:37Male and female
05:38Will have intercourse
05:39Will get pregnant
05:40So for them
05:41They will be more free in this regard
05:42Want to
05:43Come on baby
05:44Yes
05:45He has tried
05:46They all date
05:48He dated a guy
05:50When the guy took off his pants
05:52He found that he was very small
05:54He made a very impolite move
05:56He told him
05:57Hey
05:58Put on your pants
06:00He left as soon as he opened the door
06:01Very small
06:02Leave a big shadow
06:04I think this is very bad
06:09I can't imagine
06:11I can imagine that scene
06:13But I can't imagine
06:14He told him to put on his pants
06:15Very careful
06:16You already
06:17It's the same
06:18He said don't waste time
06:19Because we all take time
06:21Very hurt
06:22Really hurt
06:23I won't say who it is
06:25But it's really hurt
06:26But fortunately
06:27He
06:28No
06:29He is very proud
06:34Is there anyone
06:35Do you have any friends
06:36After trying
06:37Like my friend just now
06:38Yes
06:39Actually I have a girl friend
06:41Actually
06:43Very lucky
06:45Then they also agree
06:46Before dating
06:47Try it first
06:49He can't do this
06:52So there are also girl friends
06:54Will mind
06:55Because after all this aspect
06:56Is a boy
06:57Will be like this
06:58If it's like some boys
06:59Will also care about the girl's
07:00Breast
07:01Size
07:02And so on
07:03The feeling of a girl is that you care so much
07:04Yes
07:05It's the same feeling
07:07Same feeling
07:08If
07:09If the girl is disliked by the boy
07:10Then what will your girl do
07:13It's coming
07:14It's coming
07:16Will the two of them break up
07:17Wake up
07:18He said before
07:19Before being together
07:20Before being together
07:21So together
07:22But
07:23Because the girl's
07:24You can see me
07:25You have accepted
07:26You don't mean
07:27We can't see
07:30You at least
07:31You can see it at a glance
07:33Then you
07:34Dislike me is your problem
07:37Isn't it
07:38How to say
07:39Actually boys are more at a loss
07:41No
07:42No
07:46Then what about the ambiguous period
07:47You think if
07:48Just try it in front
07:49Because we can't accept it
07:50Then the ambiguous period
07:51Can't be without physical contact
07:53Yes
07:54What do you think is the most heart-touching
07:55Physical contact
07:56Heart-touching
07:57Heart-touching
07:58I think the back hug
07:59It's also quite heart-touching
08:00Back
08:01Just
08:02The boy is holding you behind
08:04I think
08:05I think when it's ambiguous
08:07All actions are very heart-touching
08:10So what did Maisie do
08:11Make you feel heart-touching
08:12Wow, everything is heart-touching
08:13She hugged me
08:14Heart-touching
08:15She kissed me
08:16Heart-touching
08:17Don't
08:19I think
08:20Before
08:21Because we have been together for a long time
08:22I think she
08:23When it was ambiguous
08:24Make me feel
08:25Heart-touching
08:26Heart-touching
08:27Heart-touching
08:28Sometimes
08:29Heart-touching
08:30Because I was very small at that time
08:31I was only 19 years old
08:32Heart-touching
08:33Like this
08:34Because she is very tall
08:35Like when touching the head
08:36Then
08:37Let me tell you
08:38Ray is amazing
08:39Although he has no experience in love
08:41But
08:42When it was ambiguous
08:43He did this to me
08:44Wow
08:45A lot
08:46What are you talking about
08:47Touching the head
08:48Holding hands
08:49Big shoulders
08:50Huh
08:51This is not Ryan's style
08:52You know what Ryan did to me
08:53Just
08:54I was ambiguous with him
08:55For a few months
08:56Then he
08:57Put my face
08:58Stick to his face
08:59The eyelashes
09:00Stick to the eyelashes
09:01And then
09:02Hit me
09:03This is the first time I've heard of this
09:04It's really
09:05Eyelashes
09:06Stick to the eyelashes
09:08He was holding my face
09:09Then
09:10But he didn't kiss
09:11Because
09:12It's ambiguous
09:13He put the eyelashes
09:14Then he moved
09:15You feel my eyelashes
09:16You will really feel it
09:17Actually
09:18Your eyes
09:19I told him to close his eyes
09:20His eyelashes
09:21Then my eyelashes
09:22Just
09:23What are you looking at
09:24What am I looking at
09:25Your eyelashes are long
09:26It's not very long
09:27Prove that you are very close
09:28Very close
09:29Really close
09:30So at that time I was
09:31Silly
09:32Like this
09:33Where did you learn
09:34I haven't heard
09:35I haven't seen
09:36I haven't heard
09:38So this is what he thought of
09:39I think
09:41Then you should love him
09:42Will think like this
09:43Of course
09:44At that time I really wanted to get him
09:45But I was afraid
09:46Just
09:47Afraid of too oily
09:49I didn't say oily
09:50Because handsome
09:51Don't want to do anything
09:52I'm handsome
09:53I'm not afraid of oil
09:54Just very afraid
09:55Enter the next stage
09:56At that time
09:57Just oil
09:58Don't want
09:59Test
10:00What about Miss
10:01What did you do that made you feel very heartbroken
10:02Wow
10:03Actually a lot
10:04Because sometimes
10:05We were ambiguous
10:06Just
10:08Suddenly he will
10:09Hook my hand
10:10Wow
10:11But you said
10:12You can do anything at that time
10:13You know
10:14Didn't say anything specific
10:15He can do anything
10:16Just
10:17You want to hook
10:18Or he suddenly
10:19It's like
10:20Erase my face
10:21Ah
10:22Wow
10:23Come on
10:24Wow
10:25Cool
10:26Really cool
10:27At that time
10:28Oh
10:29I have erased
10:30Forgot
10:31It's been a long time
10:32Did you erase his face
10:33It's been a long time
10:34I can't remember
10:35Because I only remember
10:36He treats me
10:38Are you two first love
10:39Or did you have it before
10:40No no
10:41There was another half
10:42Correct
10:43Did you have any experience before
10:44It's very scary
10:45My words
10:46No
10:47Because I actually
10:48Although I have an ex
10:49But I didn't do anything
10:50The so-called puppy love
10:51That kind
10:52It's stupid
10:53Just like this
10:54Huh
10:55No more
10:56No more
10:57Together
10:58Break up
10:59I have tried one
11:00It's pretty scary
11:01But he is not my ambiguous object
11:02Nothing
11:03Just a group of friends to watch a movie
11:04That man thinks he wants to chase you
11:05I thought he was very good
11:06Very handsome
11:07Buy horror movies
11:08Take the girl to see
11:09Buy it in advance
11:10He is more afraid than you
11:11No
11:12He is afraid of you
11:13This is terrible
11:14Because you don't like this person
11:15Correct
11:16Even if you are afraid
11:17You will pretend to be strong
11:18I'm not afraid
11:19He saw the ghost coming out
11:20Pull you over first
11:21Don't be afraid
11:22Hello
11:23I'm not afraid
11:24Don't touch me
11:25I will be like this
11:26I feel very scared
11:28You will feel this person
11:29You don't want to get in touch with him anymore
11:30Correct
11:31Why do you have to be like this
11:32Because you are originally
11:33Not interested in this man
11:34Correct
11:35Because you two
11:37I don't think this progress is fast
11:39What do you think
11:40To give
11:41Everyone who is watching the show
11:42What advice
11:43How long is the ambiguous period
11:44Before you can start
11:45Body
11:46Have a body contact
11:47Some people are too anxious
11:48Really quite rebellious
11:49Yes
11:50I don't think it's ambiguous
11:51How long
11:52I just want to meet
11:53Just meet the whole person
11:54If you meet every day
11:56I think maybe
11:57More than a week
11:58Two weeks can start
11:59Holding hands
12:00Not holding hands
12:01Maybe
12:02Pull him over
12:03Pull him over
12:04Pull him over
12:06I think it's okay
12:07This kind of slight body contact
12:08If it's a girl
12:09Shouldn't be against him
12:10Will be more excited
12:12Because of the ambiguity
12:13Then maybe
12:14Put on a jacket
12:15On him
12:16This can be
12:17This can be
12:18This kind
12:19You want jacket now
12:22But if it's me
12:23You say
12:24Is there a specific definition
12:25The answer is no
12:26Is that you think
12:27It's okay when the time comes
12:29But if you talk
12:30It seems to be
12:31On the side of the heart
12:32Just
12:34OK
12:35This is between people
12:36OK
12:37Indeed until now
12:38I also have a lot of friends
12:39They are also
12:41Anytime
12:42You can just want
12:43Also have
12:44Just feel
12:45Must get married
12:46Can't have sex before marriage
12:48Yes
12:49Is their
12:50Maybe their religious belief
12:52Or not necessarily a religious belief
12:53They feel
12:54Also
12:55Can both sides accept
12:57Understand
12:58That's it
12:59Then there is a question
13:00I think this is also
13:01Everyone's trouble
13:02Everyone dare not ask
13:03Is if you guys
13:04After the interaction
13:05Just found out
13:06Is the sex
13:07This is not coordinated
13:08Will you choose to break up?
13:12Or do you think
13:13Just bear it
13:14To be honest
13:15He doesn't have this trouble
13:16I am with him
13:17Actually this is a
13:18Such a stage
13:19I said
13:20I am not so strong in my heart
13:21But the male
13:22Compared to him
13:23It must be stronger
13:24Just cooperate
13:26I think
13:27For this quarrel
13:28May also
13:29Because
13:30Maybe I feel
13:31This girl
13:32He said
13:33It must be
13:34I think it must be
13:35Communicate
13:36Give everyone
13:37Just men
13:38Maybe a little bit
13:39Women may give a little
13:40Like this
13:41To say good
13:42Not necessarily
13:43I also have by my side
13:44Women want men don't want
13:46That hand
13:47Men want to push a little
13:48Women want to give a little
13:49I didn't necessarily say
13:50Which side
13:51But if both sides
13:52If not balanced
13:53I think
13:54Communicate
13:55To talk about this
13:56Because I believe
13:57If you really love someone
13:58You
13:59OK
14:00Method always
14:01The method must be more than the problem
14:03There must be a way to solve the problem
14:05If really
14:06OK, I believe
14:07There is no problem that cannot be solved
14:09If you talk about size
14:11This time really can't solve
14:14At that time
14:15I can only compromise
14:16Right
14:17But if you love someone
14:18No way
14:19It's like if you love someone
14:20A happy event in the eyes of a lover
14:22Terrible
14:23I think after this show
14:24Many people will like you very much
14:25Really
14:26Because you talk a lot
14:27I am
14:28Unexpected things come out
14:29Yes
14:30If you want to say
14:31You will break up
14:32Or something
14:33No, you are really thinking about the problem
14:34Help them solve
14:35If you want to break up
14:36I think he should break up
14:37It's been half a year
14:39Yes
14:40OK
14:41I always hold this seed
14:42If you really love someone
14:44There is no problem
14:46You must want to help
14:47Just like
14:48The boat to the bridge
14:49Must be straight
14:50There must be a way
14:51Just
14:52Really can't
14:53You have a way
14:54Just see how much you want to compromise
14:56Or how much you want to accept
14:58Yes
14:59If you really don't want to break up
15:01This may not be avoided
15:03So I think it doesn't matter
15:04You love someone
15:05Just go
15:06Just go to your partner
15:07Go talk
15:08Communication is really important
15:09For example
15:10You are a very lucky person
15:11But if your partner is not
15:12You love him
15:13Not just love him
15:14There are many aspects
15:15All aspects
15:16If
15:17If
15:18Just curious
15:19If your other half
15:20Tell you one day
15:21Then you play yours
15:22I play mine
15:23Can you accept
15:24Turn
15:25So
15:26You watching the show
15:28Do you think love and trust
15:29Can be separated
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15:34Thank you
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15:53If
15:54If you call someone else's name
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