MISTRESS Marley, 30, has an unusual occupation. "I make six figures a year telling men what to do," she told Love Don't Judge. "I started this work six years ago, fresh out of grad school. I took a corporate job but I felt like I wasn't making any money from it, I was having a lot of anxiety." Sparked by her dissatisfaction and want for more, Marley Googled 'how to make money online as a woman', webcamming popped up as an option but it wasn't for her. Eventually, during her search, she stumbled across women on the internet earning their living by telling men to send them money and controlling their bank accounts. Her first cheque came in after she requested her $50 lunch bill to be paid. The money arrived straight away from a client, and her new career took off from there. Now Marley checks her online wallet each morning to see what her clients have sent her. "I had a client who sent me $1,000 to be unblocked, two hours later he sent me $2,500," she said. Marley's work also involves her clients doing her household chores, errands and life admin. During the episode, her regular client Beta comes to clean her home, which he relishes. "She gives me tasks, I enjoy to do it. I feel safe with her, that if anything goes wrong, she's always there for me to protect me." He continued: "Sometimes I feel that this is the purpose of my life. That I need to be of service for women, and especially for Mistress Marley." When asked what Beta gets out of the arrangement, Marley said: "As a reward, he gets to be in my presence." Marley believes her job also has a deeper meaning, due to her culture. "95% of my clients are white men, as a black woman I see my work as reparations." Marley shares some aspects of her work online and others have also filmed her in action. One such post went viral with one of her clients walking on a leash, and she received a harsh backlash, with some people sending her racist comments. She explained: "I had a white s** on a leash, next thing I know it was blowing up, going crazy. There were some people in my inbox calling me the n-word, saying 'you should be on a white man's leash'." Despite these comments, Marley believes in what she is doing. "This lifestyle has enabled me to create a better life for myself, I've been able to give myself that creative freedom to not feel that I'm behind bars or locked in a box. Judge all you want, but the money is hitting my account just the same."
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00:00This is Marley.
00:02She fell in love with controlling men's money.
00:06I make six figures a year telling men what to do.
00:08I have a client that sent me $1,000 to be unblocked.
00:11Two hours later, he sent $2,500.
00:13Marley has clients who pay to do her household chores.
00:16She gives me a task. I like to enjoy to do that.
00:1995% of my clients are white men.
00:21As a black woman, I see my work as reparations.
00:24But less obedient people on social media think that what Marley is doing is wrong.
00:28I was going to have this white s**t on a leash.
00:30Next thing I know, this just was like blowing up, going crazy.
00:33There was something like people in my inbox calling me the N-word,
00:36saying, you should be on a white man's leash.
00:41So I wake up in the morning, I go to see what men have sent money overnight,
00:45what men are inquiring about sending me money.
00:48They send me cash, they run my errands, they clean my apartment.
00:51Everything that I want in life, these men are there waiting hand and foot.
00:55My name is Mistress Marley.
00:57I am a woman that takes money from men.
01:01They pay me just to be around me, just to speak to me.
01:04Who's going to send me money today?
01:06I'm going out shopping. I need to be reimbursed.
01:08So boys, if you're watching this, make yourself useful.
01:11Send to my Cash app.
01:13I don't need to pay for anything when I go out today.
01:15Everything is funded by you. I own your wallet, as you know.
01:19I started this work fresh out of grad school.
01:23I took on a corporate job, but I felt like the job, I wasn't really making any money from it.
01:26I was having a lot of anxiety.
01:28So out of curiosity, I just went online and I searched up how to make money online as a woman.
01:33Webcaming came up, but I wasn't really into webcaming.
01:36And I stumbled upon so many women that were pretty much having clients send them money for existing.
01:41I'm here now, six years later.
01:43This client, for example, is saying I'm going to empty his bank accounts.
01:46That's like a fun little thing we like to say.
01:48The ones that just like to talk and they haven't sent any money, I kind of just ignore them.
01:52The first amount of money that I ever got from a man,
01:55I had went out to eat and I had posted my receipt online, like reimburse my meal, it's $50.
02:00And then someone randomly sent me $50.
02:03And I was like, this is real.
02:05When I got that first send, I was like, okay, I need to take this more seriously.
02:09The biggest amount I've ever received from one client in an hour was $5,000.
02:13Every day is different for me.
02:15For instance, I have a client that sent me $1,000 to be unblocked.
02:18He wasn't living up to my standards.
02:20He was getting on my nerves.
02:22I still felt like he needed to be blocked.
02:24So then two hours later, he sent $2,500 and says, I will do better.
02:28But he might get blocked again because he's not doing better.
02:31We don't thank our clients for sending money.
02:33They know they're supposed to send that money to me.
02:35I'm not thanking them for something that they're supposed to do.
02:37In total, I've probably had over 500 men send me money.
02:41I can earn anywhere between $3,000 and $5,000 weekly.
02:44And then yearly, anywhere of $100,000 and up.
02:47And then you'll have some clients that will come to you
02:49and tell you directly what they're looking for.
02:51Like, I want to run your errands. I want to clean your apartment.
02:54For today, I have Beta coming over.
02:56He's going to give me money for pretty much taking care of
02:58whatever I need done around the house today.
03:04Beta, you're finally here. It took forever.
03:06Yes. Hello, Mrs. Small.
03:08Come in.
03:10Thank you.
03:11Today, you're going to be cleaning my kitchen,
03:13so you can take that stuff over to the kitchen.
03:15Move quickly.
03:17She gives me a task. I like to enjoy to do that.
03:20Everybody has some limits, and she respects that.
03:23So what have you been doing in your free time?
03:25Been thinking of how you're going to serve me?
03:27Yes, Mrs.
03:28Louder.
03:29Yes, Mrs.
03:30Right, as you should.
03:31The cleaner my house, the better I feel.
03:35Faster, faster, faster. I don't have all day. Go.
03:40Compliment me.
03:41It looks wonderful.
03:42Tell me how beautiful I am.
03:44You are looking gorgeous, Mrs.
03:46I know. It's an honor to serve me, isn't it?
03:48Yes, Mrs.
03:49Exactly.
03:50I never feel like I'm taking advantage of Beta,
03:52because anything that happens between us,
03:54I always communicate ahead of time.
03:56I always like to ask in advance,
03:57what's your schedule for the week?
03:59In what capacity can you serve me this week?
04:01Make sure I establish boundaries with the client.
04:03All right, move. Let me see now.
04:07All right, that's much better.
04:08This is mutually beneficial,
04:09because we're both getting something out of the arrangement.
04:11Sometimes I feel that this is the purpose of my life,
04:16that I need to do service for women,
04:20and especially for Mrs. Marley.
04:24Yes, I enjoy myself a lot.
04:26What do you give Beta as a reward?
04:29I mean, as a reward, he gets to be in my presence.
04:31Beta, I need a foot rest. My feet hurt.
04:34Thank you, Mrs.
04:35Good boy.
04:36I feel like a big reward, too,
04:37is he gets to be around all these powerful women.
04:40Just being able to reward him by having him in spaces
04:43where he can also thrive, too,
04:45as a man that likes to be controlled.
04:47I feel safe with her, that if anything goes wrong,
04:50she's always there for me to protect me.
04:53You did a good job.
04:55Thank you, Mrs.
04:56I'll have you back next week.
04:57You can leave now.
04:58Thank you, Mrs.
05:01Goodbye, Mrs.
05:02Bye.
05:03Thank you.
05:06I have this bag of great little things.
05:08This right here is very important to me.
05:10So this was the first ever tool that I bought
05:13when I first started.
05:14And it has my name on it,
05:15and then it also has reparations on the back.
05:1895% of my clients are white men.
05:20I've had men that say, you know,
05:21I want to pay you for what my race did.
05:23As a black woman, I see my work as reparations
05:26because it is.
05:27The money that I make from this,
05:29I'm some way, somehow, always giving back to my community.
05:32I've done, like, backpack drives.
05:34I've done, like, holiday drives.
05:35And that's why I just like to include it in my work.
05:38This is a video that went viral of me at Homecoming.
05:41And I had to let them know that's not my sugar daddy.
05:43That's a client that pays for that.
05:45The client had reached out, and he was like,
05:47you know, I want to be walked on your leash
05:48at your Homecoming.
05:49I went to a historically black college,
05:50so, like, I knew it was going to be, like,
05:52all black people there,
05:53and I was going to have this white s*** on a leash.
05:56Next thing I know, this just was, like,
05:58blowing up, going crazy.
05:59And there were some, like, people in my inbox,
06:01like, calling me the N-word,
06:03saying, you should be on a white man's leash.
06:05One person was like, it's one thing to do this at home
06:08with somebody you would care about.
06:09It's another to humiliate an old man.
06:11I'm like, you guys don't understand that
06:13he reached out to me.
06:14The client also loved it.
06:15Like, I have a conversation with him where he was saying,
06:17I loved being on your leash.
06:19You were bomb yesterday.
06:20There's valid concerns in, like, my client's state of mind.
06:24There are some potential clients I've had in the past
06:26that messaged me, and I could tell they were not
06:28mentally in a good space.
06:29I think it's better to ask questions
06:31than to just assume.
06:32A lot of the criticism I get back is that
06:34I'm taking advantage.
06:35I'm taken from them because they don't know anything else.
06:38You figure out what they can afford
06:39through conversation.
06:40So, like, if you have that client that can only stand
06:43for, like, coffee or, like, breakfast,
06:45you pretty much know, like, that's what they can afford.
06:47The judgment in the beginning when I first started
06:49was a lot because I wasn't used to being at the forefront,
06:53being so public-facing.
06:54It's to the point now where it's like,
06:56I really don't care.
06:57They're still going to have their opinion
06:58at the end of the day.
06:59It's not going to change.
07:00So the best thing I could do at that time
07:01for my mental health was just block them.
07:04I also make money by throwing educational events
07:07for women that want to get into this type of thing.
07:09Hi, ladies.
07:10I'm Mistress Marley, and today I'm going to be giving you
07:12the top three tips on how to get men from money.
07:15Get men from money.
07:17That's a new one.
07:19I throw them all over the world.
07:21So women come together.
07:22We network.
07:23We learn how to do this work safely.
07:24Are you more sadistic?
07:27Are you more powerful?
07:28Are you more nurturing?
07:29You need to figure out who you are in this space.
07:31There have been, like, comments surrounding, like,
07:33am I promoting something dangerous?
07:35That's why I'm really, really big on teaching about safety,
07:37teaching about vetting each client.
07:40The warnings that I like to give women
07:41coming into this industry
07:42is not to have unrealistic expectations
07:45because some of them come in,
07:46and they think they're going to make $5,000 their first day,
07:49and it's not always like that.
07:51Another warning I like to give, too,
07:52is to just be careful about who you're speaking to.
07:54There are some men that will try to scam you,
07:57making sure you're not giving out any personal information,
07:59anything that can be identifying,
08:01just really protecting yourself.
08:03I feel very empowered by the work that I do.
08:06There were times in college and undergrad
08:08where I was, like, in a relationship.
08:10I felt like I was being controlled,
08:12so taking my power back from that.
08:14I also feel empowered just helping other women.
08:16They just feel so great after they leave,
08:18like, I did something today.
08:20I told a man what to do, and he did it for me,
08:22and I didn't feel guilty after.
08:24A lot of women feel guilty of asking men
08:26to do things that benefit them.
08:28My ultimate message to other women about my work
08:30is just take back the power in your life.
08:33You only have one life to live.
08:35Just move around like you got it going on,
08:38because we do have it going on as women.
08:40I'm headed to the dungeon
08:41to control men some more for the rest of the night.
08:46We're here. We're about to enter the dungeon.
08:48This is where everything happens.
08:50There's certain things that we use in here,
08:52but, of course, I can't show you all,
08:54because you have to pay for that.
08:55The backgrounds of these men that come here vary,
08:57so some of them are CEOs.
08:59Some of them work on Wall Street.
09:01Doctors, educators, police officers.
09:03Most of the men do have jobs
09:04where they're in high positions of power,
09:06and they come to see people like us
09:08so they can just get rid of that power,
09:10even if it's just for an hour.
09:11I don't like to date clients.
09:12I like men that are gonna take the lead,
09:14and a lot of people find that to be ironic,
09:16but when I'm in my personal relationships,
09:18I like dating alpha males.
09:19On the first date, I will tell them what I do.
09:21Sometimes it takes some explaining.
09:23I do want a long-term relationship,
09:25so I want to get married. I want to have children.
09:27I want something definitely separate
09:29from the lifestyle and what I do.
09:32I can see myself doing this job till I'm 80, 90 years old.
09:35You know, being really old, like,
09:36give me your money, like, in a nursing home
09:38or something like that.
09:39This lifestyle has been able
09:40to make a better life for myself.
09:42I've been able to give myself that creative freedom
09:44to just not feel like I'm, you know,
09:46behind bars or just locked in a box.
09:48To people who judge me,
09:50I pretty much just say,
09:52judge all you want.
09:53The money's still hitting my account the same.