Aired (May 25, 2024): Ibinuking ng Kapuso star Angela Alarcon kung paano nga ba bilang isang ama ang kanyang daddy na si Jestoni!
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00:00 Isn't it hard for Angel to introduce you to someone who's already married?
00:03 It's harder for your brother.
00:05 It's okay.
00:08 Because if it's someone he's going to introduce,
00:10 I'd prefer to bring them to my house
00:12 so we can at least get to know each other.
00:14 Instead of having a date outside,
00:17 we don't know each other.
00:18 So it's better to bring them to my house.
00:20 If he's introducing someone to you,
00:21 are you looking for a birth certificate?
00:23 That's a complete requirement.
00:25 Resident certificate.
00:27 There are resident certificates.
00:30 What?
00:31 Like that.
00:32 Isn't your dad a bit strict?
00:34 Did your dad become...
00:36 You know how parents have a headache when their children are sick?
00:39 But sometimes, there are parents who have a headache when their children are sick.
00:42 Especially when you're already boyfriending.
00:44 Because your choices are being hindered.
00:46 Is it painful?
00:47 Your plema is popping.
00:48 It's not popping.
00:50 It's not popping.
00:51 Even your plema is sparking.
00:53 Is that a 110?
00:54 You know, your hearing is different
00:55 because you're in New Year.
00:57 Wow!
00:58 That's amazing.
00:59 Now, I'm with Stripes and Paul Gadatz.
01:05 You know, when we were kids,
01:06 parents would prohibit us from doing that.
01:07 It's luck.
01:08 They said it's prohibited.
01:09 Coins and cash.
01:10 They're fighting.
01:11 So did your dad have a headache before?
01:13 When he always asks me where I am,
01:16 he would sometimes flood my messages.
01:19 He's a super text.
01:21 Sometimes, he would have a bit of a controlling.
01:24 That's all.
01:25 But I get that he's concerned about where I am.
01:28 I'm the one who's saying you get it.
01:29 But you're the one who's trying to find out.
01:32 But Angela,
01:33 more than your mom,
01:34 Jestonic is more texty than your mom.
01:36 My mom is the same.
01:37 But when he's looking for me,
01:39 he would flood my messages.
01:40 What time is that?
01:41 You know what time it is.
01:43 It's curfew.
01:44 It's past curfew.
01:45 It's dawn.
01:46 So, Angela, you're saying
01:48 that your dad is more strict than your mom?
01:50 Yes, something like that.
01:51 She said it's a whole thing, right?
01:54 She just wants to greet you because your mom is there.
01:56 Because your mom is there.
01:57 Hi, mom.
01:58 Angela, are you saying that...
01:59 No, I'm dancing.
02:01 So, it's annoying at times.
02:06 Do you get teary-eyed because of your dad's strictness?
02:09 A bit.
02:10 Because I'm maturing.
02:11 I also want to live my life on my own terms.
02:14 So, there are moments where I want to be independent.
02:18 To my own choices.
02:20 How do you address that?
02:21 Wow, wow, wow.
02:22 I'm a mischievous Englishman.
02:24 We have discrimination.
02:26 We're racist.
02:28 So, how do you face that?
02:31 Did you tell your dad that?
02:33 Or did you just...
02:34 just stick it out?
02:36 Like that.
02:37 That's deep.
02:38 You just stick it out.
02:40 You just poke it in the side.
02:42 There are times when you're stressed, you sweat, you poke it in, but you just stick it out.
02:46 How do you say "stick it out"?
02:49 Oh, oh.
02:50 Your arms are so pretty.
02:52 Social people are different from films.
02:54 Love yourself.
02:58 That's embarrassing.
03:01 That's what you call a "skinita."
03:03 He's angry.
03:07 He's angry.
03:08 He's angry.
03:09 He's far away.
03:10 You're making me feel dizzy.
03:13 Like that.
03:16 So, how did you face that struggle of being controlled by a parent during the time that you have been maturing and wanting to control your own life?
03:25 Amen?
03:26 I'm straight-forward.
03:28 I confronted him, actually.
03:31 I told him that...
03:32 Dad!
03:33 You're controlling my life!
03:36 How did you confront him?
03:38 I told him that I wanted to be independent, that I have my own decisions.
03:45 I don't want to be a 24/7 person that he has to watch over me.
03:49 He understood that, and he's less controlling of me.
03:56 Where did that come from?
03:58 That controlling?
04:00 Did it come from fear?
04:03 Did it come from trauma?
04:05 Where did that come from as a father?
04:08 Well, actually, when you text him, when you follow up,
04:10 if there are still no long-term answers, you have to follow up on your child.
04:15 Because, of course, she's outside with her friends or people you don't know,
04:19 just to make sure that she's safe until she gets home safely.
04:23 That's the only thing that parents always warn us about.
04:25 That we'll be able to sleep when you're okay, you can drive, you're not drunk, or whatever.
04:31 That's all.
04:32 And then, when I answer, "Okay, see you, dad. No problem."
04:34 We'll be able to sleep, as husband and wife.
04:36 And when you're a parent, is there a time when you're not afraid of your children anymore?
04:43 No.
04:44 Right? When you're a parent, is there a time when you're really confident
04:48 and you don't have any fear that you'll feel for your children's well-being?
04:52 Well, actually, I'm not yet, I mean, I'm not yet at the age where I'm really super old.
04:59 But we'll get there.
05:01 They say that when you have a child, your obligation and love for your child,
05:06 until you grow up, it's there.
05:07 Even if you have a family, a child, you have a grandson,
05:10 you still can't tell her how you're doing, if your husband or your children are okay with you.
05:17 So, it won't go away until we're here in this world, we're there behind her to support her.
05:22 That's it.
05:23 Oh, that's it. You're just behind her, why are you texting?
05:26 I'm not answering.
05:28 You're just behind her.
05:29 You're just behind her.
05:30 That's what they say.
05:31 Ah, idiomatic expression.
05:33 Yes, we're just behind you no matter what happens.
05:35 You too, your child is a woman.
05:37 That's it.
05:38 One day, she'll grow up and you'll be the one to take care of her.
05:40 Oh, you mean when she grows up, you're not the ones to take care of her, right?
05:44 She'll be a woman.
05:45 So, while the children grow up, you're the ones to take care of her.
05:48 The kids, the daughters.
05:50 But I appreciate that about her, guys, that she's so protective and she just wants to do good to me.
05:55 For sure.
05:56 Yeah.
05:57 For sure.
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