Aired (June 1, 2024): Parang mas lalong mahirap kung ilang beses kang na-engage tapos lahat nauwi sa wala? #ItsShowtime
Category
😹
FunTranscript
00:00 It's true.
00:02 Okay, before we open the curtain and introduce you to the mothers behind the curtain,
00:10 my question is, what is the effect on a woman who has three proposals and engagements but it never happens?
00:20 What is the effect on you, on your womanhood, on your personality, on your thinking, on your beliefs about marriage?
00:28 Because you might get into a situation where you don't want to have any more proposals.
00:33 You might get traumatized.
00:35 Amazingly, I still believe in it. I still believe in love. I still believe in marriage.
00:43 I still believe that one day I'll find that man for me.
00:48 But of course, it's tiring. Especially the last one. I was thinking, "What is this? Is this a joke?"
00:53 Is this a joke? This is the third one. What's wrong? Am I like…
01:00 How do you face that? Do you get depressed whenever it doesn't happen?
01:06 You just take it and say, "It didn't happen? Okay, I'll work on it. Thank you, next."
01:12 How do you face that? Do you get depressed?
01:16 Of course, it's more on… Because you broke up, you don't have the person you love anymore.
01:24 It's less on, "I'm not getting married anymore."
01:27 It's more painful to have the person you're ready to spend the rest of your life with and then you're separated.
01:35 I really get depressed.
01:37 How do you announce that the wedding is not going to happen?
01:41 Especially if there are a lot of people who know about it.
01:44 You post a ring.
01:46 Yes.
01:47 How do you do that? You post a ring and then you remove the post.
01:50 I didn't remove it. Because for me, that's part of my story.
01:55 And then people will be confused. "Her ring is different. It's three."
01:58 And then people will be waiting.
02:01 The ending is not yet a wedding, but she became a midwife.
02:05 She made a lot of money there.
02:07 She had a jewelry business.
02:10 But the second one, I returned it, right?
02:14 The third one, she took it.
02:17 Oh.
02:18 She took it, which was surprising.
02:21 That's why it's good that you don't develop anger towards men.
02:26 Especially the people you love, who you thought you were going to marry,
02:29 you promised them a good life, you got a ring.
02:32 You got a ring.
02:34 The other one gave you a ring, but it didn't fit.
02:36 And then you didn't return it, because they said they were going to resize it.
02:39 It's good that it didn't affect you.
02:42 And then, there's the crying.
02:46 Yes.
02:47 The second one, the first breakup,
02:52 you're going to get married, because there's a wedding prep.
02:55 So, it took a few months before I recovered.
03:00 I developed a panic attack.
03:05 It was like that. First time in my life.
03:07 The second time, maybe because I learned it,
03:10 I just cried, I didn't have a panic attack.
03:13 She's brave. I think she's brave.
03:17 The one engagement that got called off, it's like it's crushing.
03:21 There were two, three, but she's like...
03:23 And when did you break up? March? April? May?
03:27 It's only been two months, and now she's here.
03:29 Who's the search number one?
03:31 What's your pick-up line? Search number three?
03:34 She's different, right? She's different.
03:37 She's strong.
03:38 She's brave.
03:40 People are different.
03:42 There are women who will cry for a long time.
03:46 There are women who will cry for a time.
03:48 There are women who will say, "I'll get up right away. Thank you. Next."
03:52 Get up again.
03:53 But that doesn't mean you didn't cry.
03:57 I just want to speak for other women too,
03:59 maybe the ones who are quick.
04:01 I have a long gap in relationships.
04:04 Like the second one, almost two years before the next one.
04:08 What I meant was now, it's only been March that you broke up.
04:12 And it's not a normal relationship,
04:15 that you broke up with someone and you're engaged.
04:18 It's like there's a wait.
04:20 It was just March, still two months, May, June.
04:24 But my heart is still there.
04:26 It's just that I've learned enough that you have to move on
04:32 and you have to open the world for yourself.
04:34 Because no one else will do it for you.
04:36 And you're that person.
04:38 I...
04:40 [silence]
04:42 [silence]
04:44 [silence]
04:46 [silence]
04:48 [silence]
04:50 [silence]
04:52 [silence]
04:54 [silence]
04:56 [silence]