Aired (August 11, 2023): Alamin ang nakakakilig na second chance love story nina Jomari Yllana at Abby Viduya kasama ang 'King of Talk' Tito Boy Abunda. #GMANetwork #GMADrama #Kapuso
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00:00 [AUDIO OUT]
00:03 [MUSIC PLAYING]
00:07 [CHEERING]
00:10 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
00:16 And welcome to Fast Talk with Boy Abumbe.
00:22 [CHEERING]
00:26 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH] is about love.
00:30 Is love really sweeter the second time around?
00:35 And can love really blossom in times like the pandemic?
00:41 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
00:43 Please welcome Jomaril Llana and Abby Viquir.
00:46 [CHEERING]
00:50 Thank you for being here.
00:54 Thank you for having us.
00:55 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
00:58 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
00:59 So good to see you, boy.
01:01 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
01:02 Thank you, Nestor Quartero, for being here.
01:05 My old friend.
01:07 Yes.
01:08 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
01:09 We're good.
01:10 [LAUGHTER]
01:13 Like--
01:13 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
01:14 We're OK.
01:15 We're super OK.
01:15 Yeah.
01:16 I know.
01:16 I know.
01:17 Nice to be with old good friends, you know?
01:21 Not old, literally, but people you've
01:23 known for a long, long time.
01:25 Yeah.
01:25 It's been a very long time.
01:27 You probably saw us [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
01:30 together, I guess.
01:31 Oh, I'm talking about "Gwapings."
01:33 That was the first time you guys met, right?
01:36 Yes.
01:36 Yeah.
01:37 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
01:38 1992.
01:40 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
01:41 [LAUGHTER]
01:43 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
01:45 And then we did the film.
01:46 We met in the film set, "Gwapings First Adventure."
01:50 Yes.
01:51 I remember that we were drinking,
01:54 and we were so young, but sorry, huh?
01:57 Children, do not follow this.
02:00 Anyway, we were drinking, and then [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:03 And then we just started getting into talking.
02:07 And it's like, I like you.
02:08 I like you.
02:11 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:12 Something like that.
02:13 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:14 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:16 Why like you?
02:17 Why not I love you?
02:18 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:19 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:21 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:22 You don't say I love you right away.
02:23 You don't.
02:24 No?
02:24 Because I used to do it.
02:25 Oh.
02:26 [LAUGHTER]
02:28 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:29 So I like you.
02:29 I like you too.
02:30 OK.
02:30 And then where did it go?
02:33 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:35 Very--
02:36 Short-lived.
02:37 Career.
02:38 I know.
02:38 Nine months.
02:39 Career.
02:40 In my research.
02:40 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:41 Because of the career?
02:42 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:43 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
02:44 Yeah.
02:44 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:01 How did this happen?
03:04 30 years?
03:05 I know.
03:05 30 years?
03:06 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:12 And then, you know, socials and all that.
03:15 And then I saw her.
03:18 On Facebook?
03:19 Yeah, I saw her.
03:20 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:21 So messenger.
03:21 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:22 Yeah, yeah.
03:23 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:23 OK.
03:25 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:26 Hi.
03:26 Hi.
03:27 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:28 Hi.
03:28 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:29 And then she called me up right away.
03:31 Yeah, I called to make sure it was him.
03:33 And I'm like, hi.
03:34 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:36 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
03:37 Recognize the voice.
03:39 And then--
03:40 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:43 Really good friends.
03:44 Yes.
03:46 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:47 And both were single?
03:50 In 2015, no.
03:53 No.
03:53 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:55 No.
03:55 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:56 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
03:58 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
03:59 So--
04:00 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:02 Sharing.
04:03 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:04 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:05 Laughter.
04:06 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:08 Yes.
04:09 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:10 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:13 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:14 Long lost friend.
04:15 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:17 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:19 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:22 Very comfortable.
04:23 And then we became single.
04:26 Until it got to a point, John, when you said,
04:30 you know, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:33 But of course, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:36 Oh, yeah.
04:36 Oh, yeah.
04:37 We're very open [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:42 Can we be together again?
04:43 Did you actually ask her?
04:45 No.
04:45 I said, come home.
04:47 I don't know what your expression--
04:48 You know why?
04:49 Because she said that I will never
04:52 come back to the Philippines.
04:53 Why were you saying that?
04:55 Abby--
04:56 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
04:57 I know.
04:58 [LAUGHTER]
04:59 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:00 OK.
05:02 I had my life there already.
05:04 I mean--
05:04 We're talking about Canada.
05:05 We're talking about Canada.
05:06 Um, and [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH] I mean,
05:10 why am I going to go back here?
05:12 There's nothing for me to go back to.
05:15 Like, my family's all there, right?
05:17 So I said, ah, this was in probably like 2015.
05:23 I said, oh, I'm not going to go back there.
05:25 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:26 [LAUGHTER]
05:28 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:30 I was still in Canada.
05:31 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:32 Oh, OK.
05:32 So I was like super busy with work.
05:35 And then [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:47 OK.
05:48 But I asked her.
05:49 And then she said, yes.
05:51 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:52 Now, go back to the Balikbayan boxes.
05:53 What were they?
05:54 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:59 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:02 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:07 OK, this was after you said, come home.
06:08 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:09 And then?
06:10 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:15 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:16 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:17 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:23 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:24 [LAUGHTER]
06:26 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:28 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:31 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:34 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:35 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:36 I don't know.
06:36 I have--
06:37 [LAUGHTER]
06:38 OK.
06:39 OK.
06:39 Sometimes I have this thing that people--
06:41 oh, this is interesting.
06:43 I want to try it.
06:44 Like trying to live in a different country.
06:47 I have that there.
06:49 I like trying.
06:51 Like I want to live and see how their life is there,
06:54 experience.
06:55 And the adventure.
06:56 The adventure.
06:57 OK.
06:58 So [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
07:00 - He doesn't believe me. - So it was stopped over.
07:02 It was in Hong Kong, so it was stopped over.
07:05 Then they said it was going to fly.
07:07 So I got myself a car and I said, "It's coming."
07:14 So I waited. It was coming.
07:18 At that time, I was at the terminal, I was waiting for a call.
07:25 They said that it was coming out. I saw her for the first time.
07:27 - How was it? - It was so emotional.
07:35 I saw the same person. She looked exactly the same.
07:42 - Very, very slim. - Yeah, I was slim when I arrived.
07:45 And she was beautiful. Nothing changed.
07:47 She was looking for me like that.
07:51 I was there and she couldn't see me.
07:54 She was confused. I was there and she saw me.
08:00 She was shaking. Her whole body was shaking.
08:03 Her whole body was shaking.
08:05 I said, "Are you okay?"
08:07 When she hugged me like that, she was shaking.
08:11 - I was so scared. I was nervous. - Scared of?
08:14 Of what I did. I came back home and I'm going to be with him.
08:18 I mean, when I got home, we were living right away.
08:24 - Right? - Right?
08:26 - That's great. - We had to come and live in.
08:28 I mean, he picked me up at the airport and brought me home.
08:31 And wedding is going to happen when?
08:34 At the end of the year.
08:36 It's a quick civil wedding.
08:38 - We'll leave the country. - Here, 2023?
08:40 No, we're going to Vegas.
08:44 - The civil? - The civil one.
08:46 It's just a quick one.
08:48 - Next year, maybe in church. - 2024.
08:51 - You can't be absent. - Right.
08:53 And you can't be absent when you have a lot of friends.
08:56 That's how we are.
08:58 So, for Las Vegas, the wedding will be here in...
09:01 The plan is in Naga.
09:03 - In Bicol. - Where my mom and dad got married.
09:06 - In PeƱa, Francia. - That is beautiful.
09:08 - I was so surprised. That's beautiful. - Yes.
09:10 Congratulations. Best wishes to the both of you.
09:13 But later when we come back, we'll do fast talk.
09:16 I have some questions that I want to ask you.
09:21 For example, I had on the show Andrea Torres some weeks ago.
09:30 I also had Mick and Megan.
09:33 One of the things we talked about was the rules of marriage.
09:39 Mick and Megan said, "No, we're just talking."
09:42 "This is our agreement. These are our boundaries."
09:47 I spoke to Andrea about this also.
09:50 And this is about fidelity.
09:53 This is about cheating.
09:55 They actually talk about rules.
09:58 What are our boundaries?
10:00 And how exciting is it to be in a relationship in your 40s?
10:06 It's different, right?
10:08 That's what we'll talk about.
10:10 We'll be back after this fast talk with Boy Abundant.
10:13 We're back on the show.
10:19 We're still with Jom and Abby.
10:22 Just fast shoutouts.
10:24 Daryl Maningo of Leyte. Thank you.
10:27 Maribel Bilono of Cavite.
10:29 And Ori J. Miliena of Zabuanga, Cebu.
10:32 Ria Zorita and family of Binangonan Rizal.
10:35 Jonas de las Alas of San Francisco, California.
10:38 Albert Garcia of Dubai.
10:40 Thank you all for tuning in to our program.
10:44 Here on Fast Talk with Boy Abundant.
10:46 Thank you so much.
10:48 I want to go back to what we were talking about.
10:50 But we have to do fast talk first.
10:52 Okay.
10:54 We're doing it together?
10:56 Yes.
10:58 I think we have two minutes to do this.
11:00 Our time begins now.
11:02 Me or him?
11:04 Who's the first one to get excited?
11:06 Me.
11:08 Who's the first one to get angry?
11:10 Me.
11:12 Who's the first one to get shy?
11:14 Me.
11:16 Who's the first one to cry?
11:18 Me.
11:20 Who's the first one to get jealous?
11:22 Me.
11:24 Hug or kiss?
11:26 Both.
11:28 Hot or cold?
11:30 Hot.
11:32 Rough or gentle?
11:34 Rough.
11:36 Random or scheduled?
11:38 Random.
11:40 Traditional or experimental?
11:42 Experimental.
11:44 I'm just saying.
11:46 What does Jom do that makes you feel sexy?
11:50 The way he looks at me.
11:52 There's someone around Jom.
11:54 What will you do?
11:56 Kill me.
11:58 If Jom is a beast, what will he be?
12:02 He's a stallion.
12:04 Jom, what does Abby do that makes you feel hot?
12:08 The way he holds me.
12:10 What will you do if Abby is a mamba bash?
12:14 I'll fight her.
12:18 If Abby is a dish, what will she be?
12:22 Sweet.
12:26 Best decision you made together?
12:28 To get back together.
12:30 Worst thing you did for love?
12:32 This one.
12:34 One of us.
12:36 Worst thing you did for love?
12:38 You go first.
12:40 I can't answer it.
12:42 Giving it all.
12:44 Best thing you did for love?
12:46 Same.
12:48 Giving it all.
12:50 Lights on or lights off?
12:52 Lights on.
12:54 Is that happiness or chocolates?
12:56 Happiness.
12:58 Happiness.
13:00 Best time for happiness?
13:02 Morning.
13:04 Afternoon.
13:06 Three times.
13:08 Okay.
13:10 Complete the sentence.
13:12 Our love is sweeter now because...
13:16 Our love is sweeter now because we're together.
13:20 At this age that we're mature.
13:24 Our love is sweeter now because we're older.
13:26 There you go.
13:28 [Applause]
13:30 Let's talk about what I said earlier.
13:34 Did you express the rules of the relationship?
13:36 Yes.
13:38 Very.
13:40 Very detailed.
13:42 Talk about it.
13:44 Our setup at home.
13:46 Our direction to each other.
13:50 What I like and what I don't like.
13:52 We tell each other everything.
13:56 I think that's the advantage of getting into a mature relationship.
14:00 Let's talk about specifically about fidelity.
14:04 Do you talk about it?
14:06 Yes.
14:08 Always.
14:10 Actually, we talked about it.
14:12 If we cheat on each other, it's like we're hurting each other.
14:16 So why?
14:18 We don't do it.
14:20 Is it a deal breaker?
14:22 Yes.
14:24 How do you view giving each other second chances in the context of infidelity?
14:30 No.
14:32 It's not going to work.
14:34 That will be a closed book.
14:36 If you cross that line, you won't get anything good.
14:40 Are you saying this because of your experience or is this something that you just agreed with each other now?
14:48 That this is how you view loving each other?
14:52 I think it's both.
14:54 I think it's from past experiences and also because we're very open with each other.
15:00 We know what we want.
15:02 I know for a fact that if he ever cheated on me, it will kill me.
15:08 And vice versa.
15:10 What is the most important lesson in life and love that you learned?
15:16 What did you learn from this relationship?
15:20 For me, it's to be honest.
15:22 To be honest.
15:24 What about you?
15:26 To be honest in all aspects.
15:30 To be honest in your love.
15:32 Give everything.
15:34 And give the truth.
15:36 That's all.
15:38 What about you?
15:40 Same here.
15:42 To be honest with each other.
15:44 And to be able to relay what you want and what you don't want.
15:50 I think that's important.
15:52 No guessing game.
15:54 So if it's in the morning or in the evening, you need to be unpredictable.
15:58 Yes, you need to be unpredictable.
16:00 You need to be able to say, "Come here."
16:02 "Come here."
16:04 "Come here."
16:06 "Come here."
16:08 Because you really have to make it work.
16:10 Holistically.
16:12 Emotionally, intellectually, physically.
16:14 Everything.
16:16 A lot of hard work.
16:18 A lot.
16:20 But the return, the consequence of hard work, it's joy.
16:26 And in that way, you grow together.
16:30 You grow together.
16:32 Your careers are the same.
16:34 You grow together.
16:36 We give each other a lot of support.
16:40 Everything that we do.
16:42 Do you like to be together all the time?
16:44 We're always together.
16:46 We're always together.
16:48 We're not hard.
16:50 We're not like each other.
16:52 Again, that's because you were apart for 30 years.
16:56 I guess so.
16:58 When I'm away for a long time, he puts my T-shirt on his pillow.
17:04 My T-shirt is used.
17:06 No, this was the time that you had to go to America.
17:08 For work, yeah.
17:10 For work.
17:12 Breakfast, lunch, and dinner, we can't not be together.
17:16 We can't eat together.
17:18 If we're not together.
17:20 We're always together.
17:22 I work, and I come home early.
17:24 Wow, this is about love and love and love and love.
17:26 I know you're getting married at the end of the year, and next year in church.
17:32 Yes.
17:34 But if you were to give your promises now, what would you promise each other?
17:36 Jom, what would you promise Abby?
17:38 Abby, what would you promise Jom?
17:40 We're just going to cry.
17:42 I know.
17:44 Let's do it.
17:46 My promise to you, until the last breath, I will be your companion.
17:56 I am your first, and I will definitely be your last.
18:04 Aww.
18:06 How can I cry?
18:08 Really?
18:10 Should I make you cry?
18:12 Yes.
18:14 I promise to always love you for the rest of my life, and I promise to always guard your heart.
18:24 And always be behind your back.
18:28 I got your back, baby.
18:30 Aww.
18:32 Flowers for you, Abby.
18:34 Aww, thank you, Tito Boy.
18:36 Thank you.
18:38 Thank you.
18:40 And, I hope you don't lose this.
18:42 Oh, no.
18:44 They say in relationships, we need to be deliberate in our decisions to show up all the time.
18:54 That's true.
18:56 In bad and in good, show up.
18:58 Be there.
19:00 May you have an abundant, bountiful, happy life.
19:04 Thank you so much for sharing your story with us.
19:06 Thank you.
19:08 Same to you, boy.
19:10 Same to you, boy.
19:12 Nice eye.
19:14 Thank you so much for sharing your stories with us.
19:16 To your hearts and souls, every day.
19:18 Be kind.
19:20 Make your mom and dad proud.
19:22 #SayThankYou
19:24 And, do just one good thing a day.
19:28 And, let's make a change.
19:32 Goodbye for now.
19:34 And God bless.
19:36 [Music]