What should we do when someone never listens to us? Do words have any power? Should we keep explaining our point or stay quiet? How to communicate with others effectively?
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00:00If
00:29somebody's ego blinds so much that
00:31they are not open to see
00:33others' opinion and can only believe
00:34that they are correct or right,
00:37how do we open their eyes?
00:39Why do you want to open their eyes?
00:42You have to adjust
00:43with them and solve
00:44the requirement. I don't want to
00:47change their opinion.
00:49Just you can say, this is my opinion.
00:51Whatever your opinion is with you,
00:53my opinion is with me.
00:55Don't say your opinion is with you, but you are
00:57always correct, but inside
00:59mind you have to say, by your
01:01viewpoint, not by fact.
01:04Because we have
01:05to adjust, otherwise
01:07we will stop
01:09our progress. He don't want to get
01:11any progress, but we are losing our progress.
01:14So we have to adjust
01:15and we have to accept
01:17whatever you are believing is okay.
01:19This is my viewpoint, this is your viewpoint.
01:21I want to get my progress.
01:23Don't change their opinion.
01:26Don't open their eyes.
01:29He wants to know
01:31something more, then we will help
01:32them.
01:34He don't want to, he is a result, he don't want
01:36anything, then don't change them.
01:39And one thing there,
01:41if you are adjusting
01:43that person, automatically
01:45he will feel something different
01:46because other people
01:49they are attacking
01:50him or blaming them.
01:53And we are not giving any blame
01:54any attack.
01:56We are
01:56instead of attacking
01:58we are adjusting them.
02:00So he will feel better
02:01than other person.
02:04And that will help.
02:05In future
02:06sometimes you feel so
02:08my opinion is so and so
02:09whatever you are believing
02:11you can see
02:13this
02:14this is some
02:15thing
02:16you want to
02:17understand something like that.
02:19If you say
02:19he will accept for it
02:21because you have not hurt him
02:22and
02:24he don't want to
02:25change his opinion
02:26but we should not
02:28give any opinion
02:29for that.
02:31He is so and so person
02:32he is a result person
02:33he is a
02:33feeling that always right
02:34he is
02:35he is wrong sometimes
02:37but don't give any opinion
02:38for him.
02:40If you care about the person
02:41you want
02:42them to see
02:43you want them to
02:44you want them to be open
02:48you don't want them to be
02:49closed
02:50in the way that
02:51their ego is
02:52blocking them
02:53from believing
02:54anything else
02:54that anybody says.
02:56You do conversation only
02:58whenever if you say
02:59you think for this
03:00this is my opinion
03:01now you study
03:03whatever you are deciding
03:04you are believing
03:05it is okay for you
03:06but this is my viewpoint
03:07and if you have
03:09if you don't have any
03:10insistence
03:11then he will
03:12think for your opinion
03:13your suggestion
03:14because
03:16if you pull
03:19and he will pull
03:19then there will not be
03:21any
03:21compromisation
03:22if you leave
03:24your opinion
03:25and you will see
03:26his viewpoint
03:27then he will try
03:28to see your viewpoint
03:29and that will
03:30helpful
03:31little helpful
03:33for him.
03:40to see you next time
03:42to see you next time