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The Good Doctor Season 4 Episode 7

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00:00We can't both shower at the same time, Leah. One of us would block the stream of water
00:22for the other. Oh, Sean, this is not for the purpose of cleanliness. This is for the purpose
00:26of having sex with you. Oh. No, no. It would be inconvenient, possibly dangerous. Soap might
00:36get into difficult places if we leaned against the shower handle. We could scold ourselves.
00:40Bottles could be disarranged. It was just a thought. It was a bad thought. I'm surprised
00:47you're such an intelligent person. I'll reset your alarm.
00:56It's a three-day weekend and a full moon. People are going to do stupid things. I'm asking
01:02everyone to take an extra trauma call in the ER. Make yourselves available if you're needed.
01:07Questions? How'd you get the brews? First casualty of the full moon. I smacked my head on the
01:13cupboard door when I was reaching for my coffee mug. Any other questions? Why is there a Subaru
01:17in your parking space? Because it's my car. Do you have a car? You're going to be seeing
01:22a lot of it. I sold a Ducati. What? No. It just wasn't practical. Is it already gone
01:27because... The guy from Craigslist snatched it up. Any other questions? Not dealing with
01:32the bike. It wasn't that much of a bruise. But the doctor at the ski resort told us I might
01:40develop a hematoma? It's not unusual, but it will need to be drained. I see you were treated
01:46for melanoma six years ago and more recently breast cancer. Hence the ski trip. A celebration.
01:53One year cancer-free. Also five years cancer-free. I don't suppose a long needle will be involved
02:01in this? Your hematoma extends pretty deep, so the needle will have to be long, but it's over
02:06quickly. Sorry, I have to intervene before this deal goes south. You don't mind if I step out?
02:10Would you like us to wait for your husband to come back? No. Let's go ahead.
02:22How do you get frostbite in San Jose? Cryotherapy accident. I stayed in the booth a little too
02:27long. I was going to stand outside for the full three minutes, but he said... I said no need. I'd set
02:32the stopwatch on my phone, after which my thoughts immediately drifted and... I came back to find him
02:37frozen in carbonite. You know, I'm more worried about the fever. Was the cryotherapy meant to
02:42treat something? No, routine self-care. We've made life extension part of our health regime.
02:47Supplements, meditation, exercise. Three of my gaming apps have gone viral. I'm lucky enough to afford
02:52basically whatever I want. I spend it on my health. You know, I figure fever must be an infection.
02:59Well, I know that frostbite can make you vulnerable. It just, it didn't seem severe enough to...
03:07I'm sorry, I feel a little queasy, but...
03:11Ah!
03:11What?
03:12Ow!
03:13Ow!
03:22I need a medical transport team to step. Perforate a bowel if he needs immediate surgery.
03:25No, no. Why do people hate wind farms? Everyone thinks they're noisy. This could make a turbine sound
03:41as quiet as a page turning in a library. That's not worth our investing in? Did you even look? Hold on.
03:46Anything I need to know?
03:48Hematoma's drained. We're sending a sample to pathology. Routine. Should have it back sometime
03:52tomorrow. Thank you.
03:55I couldn't help overhearing a little. Are you a venture capitalist?
04:00The only people who ask me if I'm a VC are people who want a VC to invest in their project.
04:07Maybe after we get your wife healthy again, we could talk.
04:11Call whenever you're ready. My life is listening to ideas. If it's good, I'll run it by my two
04:15partners. If it's really good, we'll take a 30% equity position in your company.
04:18I think I've been asked out on a date.
04:31Nice. No, I work with him.
04:33Hasn't stopped you before.
04:34I supervise him. Schedules can be changed.
04:36He's polyamorous.
04:39Unless he also texted you a ring. It's just a date and you need to get out more.
04:44So do I.
04:48You want to take down the splenicolic ligament? Just don't nick the inferior mesenteric artery.
04:57I feel the IMA under my finger, placing the stapler and cutting.
05:06I voted approve.
05:10Disapprove.
05:12No opinion.
05:13There's a poll?
05:14Yes, about shower sex. I know it's wrong to discuss shower sex at work, so I did a poll instead.
05:21Much better.
05:22Dr. Murphy, do you really want people knowing the details of your personal life?
05:27You don't think they took it as an abstract question?
05:29No. We all take it as something that happened between you and Leah.
05:33And that there was a fight.
05:34Sometime before 8am today, which was when the poll was sent down.
05:37Dr. Murphy, you are very astute.
05:41I'm seeing diffuse dilation of the large bowel here. Is that normal?
05:46Some calcified lesions.
05:50The wall's thin too.
05:51Her sprungs?
05:52I thought her sprungs was a disease only babies and young children got.
05:55It is.
05:56But he has it.
06:07We treated the her sprungs by removing the dilated part of your colon.
06:11It won't impact your life, but we would like an explanation.
06:14Dr. Murphy doesn't mean we expect you to be a diagnostician.
06:17It's just, this was kind of singular.
06:20So if you have any thoughts, did anyone in your family suddenly develop these symptoms?
06:29I did something singular to myself about six months ago.
06:34I modified my genetic code.
06:36I did a CRISPR procedure under the guidance of some researchers I know in China through my work.
06:40They put together a series of cocktails.
06:42They FedExed them to me and Sophie helped me inject them into my bone marrow.
06:48Why?
06:49If you know anything about CRISPR, you know how risky it is to tinker with your genome.
06:53You have no idea what problems you might let loose.
06:55But I needed to optimize my telomerase activity.
06:58It's the enzyme responsible for correcting cell replication errors, essentially the cause of aging.
07:02You can't stop aging through changing your telomerase activity.
07:05You might extend your life a little, but exercise, it does the same thing.
07:10Much less risky.
07:11Your decision makes no sense.
07:13Extending my life by a few years is only my short-term goal.
07:17Look, you know how fast medicine is moving.
07:19The day isn't that far away when cloning will make transplants as easy as switching out a light socket.
07:24AI will start to make breakthroughs that we can't predict or understand.
07:27Medical knowledge will rise exponentially.
07:30There are babies born now who could live to see it.
07:33Could live to be a thousand years old.
07:35Maybe more, maybe forever.
07:37Or at least as long as they want to.
07:38So, our plan is to give my crisper a year to make sure the telomerase change works, and then we'll do her.
07:47We'll aspirate a sample of your bone marrow.
07:50See if we can figure out what the hell you did.
07:51Hey, um, I don't think coffee's a good idea.
08:04Entire civilizations rely on it, but I don't think you're referring to the beverage itself.
08:09I don't think it's a good idea for first years and fourth years to go out.
08:12I'm bound to supervise you at some point in the future, and it'll get complicated trying to change dates out.
08:18And the fact is, seeing somebody you work with rarely ends happily, so I appreciate you thinking of me.
08:26I thought it was a date.
08:29I'm still new here, and I thought it was a good opportunity to get to know each other.
08:33Coffee's perfect because you're asking the least amount of commitment from another human being.
08:39It's not even lunch.
08:42If it's still a no, it's still a no.
08:44But I'll let you rethink your answer.
08:54He only claimed it wasn't a date to save face.
09:02Or maybe I just assumed.
09:05But why did I assume?
09:06I don't think I'm some kind of narcissist who thinks every man wants to get close to me.
09:11Or we both assumed it's a date because it's a date.
09:15This is fun. I like being your bestie.
09:17Slumber party?
09:24I made a poll to test the popularity of shower sex.
09:27I heard. I fielded some questions about that.
09:31Approve has won, but don't get too excited, Leah.
09:35It's only 5838 with several complicated noncommittals, so clearly my attitude is reasonable.
09:43We don't have room for a skier exercise thing.
09:47I'm only putting it together so I can take a picture and sell it online.
09:51Why do you have it if you don't want it?
09:54Why do you have it if you don't want it?
10:00My ex sent it.
10:03Ex?
10:05Husband.
10:08I left this thing in the attic until I got settled somewhere with enough space.
10:12And okay, that was 10 years ago, but it's not like it was in his way.
10:19We got married, not for long, right out of high school.
10:24Literally the boy next door. We grew up together. People expected it. It was a big mistake.
10:31We both realized it pretty quickly.
10:32Why would you even want to live forever? You'd be bored out of your mind.
10:42The person I am now is miles away from the person I was at 14.
10:47I only get more distant every year. You learn to understand and love books that you once hated.
11:00Sometimes people you once hated. Music that you didn't get the point of becomes magical.
11:06And a thousand new doors will open. I look forward to the adventure.
11:12Oh, sorry. The adventure is not always going to be fun.
11:15I figure it takes 40 or 50 years just to get over the things your parents did.
11:23If only we lived long enough, the human race might finally have a chance to grow up.
11:28What size shoes do you wear?
11:38Seven and a half.
11:41Dr. Allen's walking on clouds and certs. Putting doctor in the name is always good marketing strategy.
11:45They're designed to reduce inflammation that could lead to plantar fasciitis,
11:50calluses, arthritis, and they feel damn good.
11:53Does this have anything to do with our patient's venture capitalist husband?
11:56I need testimonials.
11:57Do you have some path for Hannah Palmer?
12:02Aren't we all busy enough learning how to be surgeons?
12:05Do you really want to divide your focus onto something trivial?
12:13Because wanting to make money taints the purity of medicine?
12:18I have five brothers. I've been taking care of people my whole life.
12:22Someone got hurt. They came to me to patch them up.
12:25I became a doctor so I could get paid for it.
12:29But also because I'm good at taking care of people.
12:32It's possible to do something for more than one reason.
12:46The news is bad.
12:52There's an abnormally healthy population of hematopoietic progenitor stem cells.
13:03He did it?
13:03It's significant. He's succeeded in optimizing enough telomerase activity to potentially add 10 years to his natural life.
13:11Well, assuming he doesn't subtract about 50, there's already an autoimmune reaction that mimics Hirschsprungs.
13:16Who knows what else he did?
13:17What if this is the opposite of an autoimmune condition?
13:20What if he's done something that lowers his resistance to infection?
13:23Then we'd be seeing more opportunistic infections of the lungs and skin.
13:26Megan, if you lived another thousand years, would you be with the same person at the end as at the beginning?
13:32No.
13:35No, if you assume monogamy. I mean, that puts too much strain on a relationship.
13:38Is one person supposed to be everything to another all the time for a thousand years?
13:42Yeah, apparently Jesus agrees on monogamy. He said that in heaven there'll be no more marriages.
13:48I guess humans can't sustain a relationship that long.
13:51You read the New Testament too?
13:53And the Quran. And other things.
13:55It's like you're a stalker. It's like you and God had an acrimonious divorce.
14:00What if he caused neurofibromatosis? Microscopic tumors forming on the nerve sheath?
14:06Impossible, but there'd have been some evidence of Schwanz cell growth around his colon.
14:09Would you still love your wife in a thousand years?
14:14You have three answers. That should be enough.
14:16Park's marriage failed in far less time and Enrique doesn't even try. Asher is a...
14:22unknown quantity. You're committed. You've made promises.
14:29I've made promises based on an understood human lifespan, Murphy.
14:34Most likely diagnosis is autoimmune polyneuropathy. It damaged the enteral ganglion
14:39nerve and led to the perforation. Start them on steroids and immunosuppressants.
14:43Dr. Andrews, so you wouldn't have gotten married if you thought it would be forever. You expect all
14:50relationships to fail over time. It's just a question of how long?
14:55I love her now. I intend to love her as long as I live.
15:02But eventually, everything breaks.
15:06I always go back to comfort reading when I'm in the hospital. Cozy mysteries in little English
15:19villages where nothing bad happens to anyone we like.
15:21We've gotten your results back. When will your husband be...
15:27Is it cancer?
15:31Yes. Thyroid carcinoma.
15:35We're going to do a complete imaging series to pinpoint just how advanced...
15:39Treatment.
15:41Surgery. To remove some or all of your thyroid is usually the first line of defense.
15:47Sometimes we can wait, but given the hematoma was probably caused by the tumor invading nearby
15:52vasculatures, we should probably do it in the next few days. Later, there'll be radioactive iodine
15:58surgery. Panic attack?
16:08Her trachea has deviated to the right. The tumor is compressing it. We're doing surgery now.
16:24What happened? The nurse just said surgery. Was it the hematoma?
16:28It's more serious.
16:32It's not cancer. Again. Thyroid carcinoma.
16:38We've removed her thyroid. She's doing well. We're looking into potential causes.
16:43Genetic, environmental. There may be a deeper issue that we can find and address.
16:59I can't do this.
17:03You've done it before. You'll do it this time.
17:07You know what it's like to wake up every morning and know your wife might not be here next year?
17:18All those treatments, they all have this little tag attached to them that says because she might die.
17:31When you see them put those gloves on before they hook up the chemo, you know why they do that?
17:37It's because it's poison. And you sit there and you watch them shove poison into the person you love.
17:48And why? Because she might die.
17:53We're killing her because she might die.
17:59Go for a run. Go punch a wall. You need to release some endorphins.
18:10My release is my job. That's why I love it.
18:13My work requires total focus. And every minute I'm working is a minute I'm not thinking about losing her.
18:28I have to go.
18:35Your pain and weakness are consistent with polyneuropathy, treatable with steroids and immunosuppressants.
18:41If you live a thousand years, will you still love Sophie?
18:47Yes.
18:48How can you be sure? People change. You expect to change.
18:53Sophie and I will change together. We'll go through the same adventures and learn the same lessons.
18:58What if you go through the same adventures and learn different lessons?
19:02Even if we did, whoever, whatever we become, Sophie will always be beautiful.
19:07I mean, she could turn into a machine or a set of pixels or a giant purple flower.
19:11And she'll still be beautiful because it's part of her essential nature.
19:19But if you don't know how you'll change, you don't know how you'll change.
19:23Sean.
19:25We'll let you get some rest and the steroids should make you feel a lot better.
19:28Why didn't you ever mention you had an ex-husband?
19:40Sean, I've barely thought about him in years. I didn't mention him because he's not important.
19:48I know that's the problem. At one time you felt he was important enough to your life
19:54to marry him and now you barely think of him. You make long-term plans. You have expectations and then
20:02something happens to you and suddenly you're a different person.
20:08I know you don't like change, but it's not all bad.
20:13After all, you are working to change yourself all the time.
20:17I'm working to be a better surgeon, a better boyfriend, better at the things I've chosen.
20:26But this other change, it's unpredictable. You don't choose it. It just comes at you.
20:33It's like hurricanes before 1873 when the Army Signal Corps first put up flags to warn people
20:38storms were coming. Before that, houses were flattened, lives destroyed, and there was no way
20:42to see it was heading for you. John, our relationship will not end in natural disaster.
20:50It did begin in one.
20:54I'm going to look in on my patient.
21:06Blood and saliva will tell us if there is a genetic cause,
21:09and the samples we take from your house will tell us if there is something environmental.
21:15I know it's stupid. I've almost felt guilty for my cancer. Like I arbitrarily decided to be sick
21:24and burdensome. Do the people you're close to ever act like you're a burden to them?
21:32Do you mean that one?
21:36He's scared. He takes the exit he's got and he turns to his work. You're okay with that?
21:43I accept this compromise. That's not the hard part. The hard part is
21:57not knowing. Each new thing that happens, I worry. Is this it? Is this where I lose him?
22:06Is this where he breaks?
22:17So this is boiled coffee. Some people call it Turkish coffee, or Greek coffee, or Egyptian coffee,
22:24because we need to take ownership and put things in categories.
22:27Yeah. So you actually live in this thing? In the hospital parking garage?
22:33Why not? Convenient for work, when I want to spend a few days off the beaten track. Convenient for that too.
22:40Ooh, I'm going to get three sips in this. But three really great sips.
22:46That's how I try to live my life. Try to appreciate, savor, not pass by.
22:52Why? Is that what the polyamory is about? Does it really work? Or is it one of those
23:01theories about life that people regret later? No regrets so far.
23:05Mm-hmm. No, I guess not. Not while you're young and having fun.
23:10It is fun, but not for the reasons that you're thinking. It isn't about sex. It's about commitment.
23:17Emotional connection. The joy I'm sure you get out of a relationship, I get a little more.
23:21Also, I have to give a little more. But that's meaningful too.
23:29Mind if I ask you something, since we're getting personal?
23:36Sure. What's your favorite misheard song lyric?
23:49This is nice.
23:52I'm glad it's not a date.
23:55Me too. I don't believe in those categories.
23:57He reported widespread bilateral pain, then he keeled over. BP dropped to 80 over pound.
24:07All over a vasopressor. Already did.
24:09Good. We need an EKG, CBCN, chest images, and a new diagnosis. Whatever he caused with CRISPR,
24:15it's not just neuropathy. Something else is killing him.
24:18What if he's caused something that mimics carcinomatous autonomic neuropathy?
24:29It explains the BP and bowel issue.
24:31That doesn't explain the sensory issue that led to the frostbite.
24:34Connective tissue disorder?
24:39That would have shown up on the scans. His chest looks normal.
24:42Maybe we can't think of the answer because there is no answer. We keep trying to jam it into these
24:51categories we know, the diseases that we know. But this never existed before. He created a new
24:57combination of genetic code. That means a new combination of symptoms.
25:00So we shouldn't be looking at what fits the picture, but at what's closest to the picture,
25:04so we can at least figure out a treatment.
25:06And what it's closest to is amyloidosis.
25:10This isn't an autoimmune neuropathy, so the nerves must be under attack by something else.
25:15Something like amyloid disease could leave deposits along the nerves, causing the symptoms we've seen.
25:19Where do we look for those deposits?
25:22Explain.
25:23I drink all eight ounces.
25:32We talked. We had a few laughs.
25:35Sounds datey to me.
25:36I don't think Enrique's a player.
25:39Well, he's kind of the opposite of a player. With him, emotional connection is the point.
25:43He's trying to live some idealistic fantasy where everyone is nice and no one is jealous.
25:47I am so staying away.
25:48Well, of course. Once I heard emotional connection, I knew the game was over.
25:53What does that mean? I'm against emotion?
25:56I'm not the one with cold-hearted bitch as my social media hashtag.
26:00She's an excellent doctor.
26:01Every time you've loved somebody, it's ended in disappointment or death.
26:04Sometimes both.
26:05It's like a reflex now. You just expect that everything ends badly, so why start?
26:10So, despite the many practical reasons not to go out with the first year, this is all about me.
26:15Is that a diamond ring?
26:19It's pretty.
26:20The patient caught her fiancé cheating. Big fight. He demanded the ring back.
26:24She swallowed it.
26:25I did.
26:26You don't even know if this is going out, and that's the point. It doesn't matter what Enrique's offering, whether it's friendship or romance, you're not investing. You're risk-averse.
26:35Your portfolio right now is entirely in T-bills and money market.
26:38I have no idea what that means.
26:39And it's too bad, because a guy that can make you laugh might be just what you need right now.
26:44It's regressed to your large intestine.
26:45Here's a plastic bag. Put it over the toilet seat. You'll have every opportunity to recover your property.
26:50Don't run away from a chance at love.
26:58It's a date. Maybe. I don't know.
27:05Her house is full of TCE. Side effect from chip making back in Silicon Valley's early days.
27:10So they move away from their toxic home, and hopefully things get a little better.
27:14Probably not much. She also has a genetic predisposition.
27:17It's both. She shouldn't go outside in a rainstorm.
27:22How do you tell a woman that her third cancer likely won't be close to her last?
27:29Unfortunately, this is a teaching moment.
27:34Dr. Allen, after 12 hours on duty, I can report that your inserts came through.
27:40Check your email. You found my testimonial.
27:43Claire, Olivia.
27:47And if you're right, what will you do?
27:55We'll treat the symptoms with targeted drug therapies.
27:57There really isn't a disease as such that we can address.
28:00The pain shifted?
28:09Yeah.
28:11Never mind about the ultrasound. It'll be easier to check for deposits after the organ's been removed.
28:15After it's...
28:16Yeah. This plane's about to rupture. Call the transport team.
28:18It's called Lee Framini Syndrome. LFS.
28:33An inherited predisposition to developing a wide range of cancers.
28:37Yes, there was a toxin in your environment that likely played a role in this,
28:41but there will be other triggers in the future.
28:44Your body is super sensitive and will respond with tumors for the rest of your life.
28:48I know that's a shock, but here's what you should know.
29:01Most cancers are treatable if found early enough.
29:04We know the most common associated with LFS, and we can do surveillance,
29:13nip anything in the bud before it becomes a problem.
29:18It may not seem this way now, but this is good.
29:21We know what we're dealing with. We're warned, and we'll be ready.
29:35He won't be able to handle this.
29:42Liver, pancreas, other organs look normal,
29:46but there are calcified lesions along these nerves.
29:49He's going to be in pain like this for the rest of his life.
29:51No, there's a reasonable chance it'll get worse as time goes on.
29:56I need my sharp, blunt-curved scissors.
29:58What if we use CRISPR to reverse CRISPR?
30:02Researchers have identified a protein in certain bacteria that inhibits CRISPR.
30:07What if we insert the DNA that makes that protein into our patient's genome?
30:11That would deactivate the CRISPR gene.
30:12So CRISPR messed him up permanently, and do you think we should do more of it?
30:15Well, our patient is a risk-taker.
30:17We need a delivery mechanism.
30:19The code would have to be introduced through a virus.
30:21A virus that specifically targets nerves.
30:26Polio targets nerves.
30:28Because this isn't risky enough.
30:30Polio is such a dangerous virus because it's so good at pancreas.
30:42All right, all right.
30:52Dr. Murthy?
30:57She's going to be this way forever.
31:01Okay.
31:01She'll have good periods and bad periods, but she will always have to be on her guard.
31:07is she always going to have to be on guard against you too what does that mean chronic
31:15illness puts strain on relationships statistically it is more often the man who can't handle it
31:20our marriage is none of your business her health is my business and your behavior adds to her stress
31:26you look at her you imagine she's gone and that is hard i get it
31:34she thinks the same thing when she looks at you i never complain to her i know it's nobody's fault
31:43you don't think she knows you have trouble with all this every time something new happens she wonders
31:49is this the straw that is going to break your marriage you've got her living in a constant
31:56state of uncertainty that is practically the definition of stress
31:59so this is the straighten up and fly right lecture no
32:06i am i'm telling you to consider how best to time your divorce
32:15there are going to be a lot of new issues dropping on hannah and if you're going to end up leaving
32:21anyway you should start planning now i don't want to leave my wife my best advice
32:25help her through this next round of treatment as best you can and get out
32:32it's hard living with someone who needs so much i know you feel there is a point where you have
32:40nothing left or you're ready to break
32:43just don't break when she needs you most
32:49get out before that
32:52reading an article that's five years old
33:16dr glassman was once involved in an experimental attempt to treat parkinson's with crisper technology
33:22it failed
33:23so it's both old and it didn't work
33:25dr glassman likes his failures to be informative that's why his articles are longer
33:30do you worry about losing the people you love
33:32because we can't stop ourselves from changing which means we might stop loving someone or they might
33:44stop loving us it is a very bad thing
33:46it is
33:48so no one can ever feel safe
33:56how can you keep going if you never feel safe
34:00well sometimes not changing is just as dangerous
34:07so how do you know when to do what
34:13if you find the answer to that let me know
34:18i have it
34:26you do
34:27dr glassman used faricella zoster virus as the delivery mechanism which didn't work
34:33his first choice was herpes simplex
34:34but the technology was not up to putting their dna package into it
34:38the technology has improved it can be done
34:42using conventional treatments there's nothing more we can do for you
34:51the pain will be permanent and it could get worse
34:54i've not been one to be limited by the conventional
34:59we think we can reverse the crisper
35:02you want to reverse what i did my telomerase change
35:06they want to stop your pain
35:07so it's temporary what is it 40 years that's nothing
35:11our real lives are ahead of us
35:13okay look as long as this doesn't kill me
35:16i've made the right choice no matter how bad things get
35:19no
35:20i was willing to exercise for hours and fast
35:26to give up all sugar and alcohol
35:29and do all the other things that we needed to do to get to a future that i knew might never come
35:35but now you're asking me to watch you suffer for the rest of your life
35:42you're the one who embraces change
35:54so change to the person who can be happy with me
36:00here and now
36:03doctors would you mind waiting outside
36:14why did she want us to leave
36:23i think she's delivering an ultimatum
36:33are you sure about this
36:41seems there's always something else that i have to give up
36:45but this isn't like sugar or cigarettes
36:51you won't get over this in a hurry
36:53no
36:54not in a thousand years
36:57are you gonna be okay
37:08i'm fine
37:10alan's at work but there should be a taxi waiting
37:13i won't say goodbye
37:15dr brown
37:16because i'll probably be seeing you again pretty soon
37:18i sent your cab away
37:24i'm sorry i wasn't here sooner
37:27i had to present a proposal
37:30to my partners
37:31i'm selling them my share of the business
37:41is there something else you want to do
37:48yes
37:51i want to be your husband
37:54i realized
38:03i was so afraid of losing you in the future
38:08i was losing you now
38:13i was losing you now
38:13give me one more thing to cry my eyes
38:19give me one more day to realize
38:21smokes in our eyes are in the distance
38:24either way we're gonna miss
38:27give me one more year to get back on track
38:30give me one more life to win you back
38:33smokes in our eyes are in the distance
38:36either way we're gonna miss
38:39sorry
38:41i hear your vc contact decided to quit the business
38:45he did the right thing
38:49baby don't lie to me
38:56you know
38:57my feet are killing me
39:01if it ain't me
39:04come
39:05just
39:06give me a little more time
39:08give me a little bit of one
39:11baby i'm gonna be fine
39:14but i figured i would
39:16give me one more second to dry my eyes
39:19give me one more day to realize
39:22smokes in our eyes are in the distance
39:24i'm open
39:25to being friends
39:27that's great
39:28i'm open too
39:29to whoever this goes
39:31it's going to friendship
39:33understood
39:36but life is about change
39:38which means one day you might change your mind
39:40and if you did
39:40i'd be open to that too
39:41it's not gonna happen
39:43okay
39:47let's go
39:49first there should be no soap involved
40:10also we need to stay at one end of the shower
40:12so we don't accidentally knock into the temperature control
40:15what changed your mind
40:18i've been thinking about change over time
40:21i spoke with people and also grabbed several possibilities for us
40:25using time as the horizontal axis and change as the vertical
40:28i realized that the problem isn't really change
40:31it's whether two people change in the same direction
40:35we want to keep our coordinates close to each other for the rest of our lives
40:39we certainly do
40:42but people do sometimes drift apart
40:46yes
40:47you need a warning
40:48when you and your partner might be starting to veer off
40:51so you can both change course a little
40:53you don't want a surprise realization when it's too late
40:56surprises are awful
40:57the u.s. army signal corps used flags to warn of hurricanes
41:00i brought us this
41:01a cowbell
41:05if you see us heading in different directions
41:08you ring it
41:09do we really need a bell
41:11can i just tell you
41:12when you ring it
41:14i'll pay attention
41:15i really hate the sound
41:17only in emergencies
41:20i've already moved the shampoo bottles
41:23what?
41:25oh
41:29you mean now
41:31don't worry about putting the bottles back
41:38i'll do it later
41:38i love you
41:41it's no trouble
41:42i remember where they all go
41:44i'll do it later
41:46i'll do it later
41:46i'll do it later
41:47i'll do it later
41:48We're gonna miss it.
41:52Give me one more second to drop my eyes.
41:56Give me one more day to realize.
41:58Smokes in our eyes are in the distance.
42:02Either way, we're gonna miss it.
42:04Give me one more year to get back on track.
42:07Give me one more life to win you back.
42:10Smokes in our eyes are in the distance.
42:13Either way, we're gonna miss it.
42:18We're gonna miss it.