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00:00दर था मुझे, फूबिया था, बेसे कि कैसे दिलिवर करूंगी,
00:03और मैं बड़ा पिंफूल है जहाँ है जए लेख अब सब्सक्राइब कर देखे हो,
00:06एक यह मेरी जैसी है, यह मेरी जैसी है, यह यूबी जैसी है.
00:10So,
00:12इससे बस्पेलिग हो निह सकते हैं.
00:14if you see other side of that, you know, हर सिख्य के दो पहलोगोच है
00:18then I started focusing on that, कि यार कि बच्चा चाहिए था
00:23so one final day in the life, मेली जिन्दगी मेरे हाथ में देए, कुशी मेरे हाथ में
00:28so, दूसरों की life के बारे में सुन्ती थी, देख्ती थी
00:32so, try भी नहीं कर दूए, तो देना process of freezing
00:37because ये था कि अभी career, you know, पे ध्यान देना है, more of a career पे ध्यान देते देते हैं
00:44हमें चीजे सेट करनी है, life में, भर बनाना है
00:47बच्च्पन में जब अपनी मा को सुबह उत्ते हुए सब के लिए खाना बनाते देख्ती थी
00:53या फिर बिमारी में जब वो सिर्फ घरवालों का ख्याल रखती थी, अपनी तब्यत की चिंता नहीं करती थी
01:00तब बहुत खुशी होती थी, ऐसा लगता था कि मा से अच्छा और मा से special और कोई हो ही नहीं सकता
01:07जब बड़ी हुई तो खुद पे गुस्सा आया कि कभी मा को क्यूं नहीं कहा कि आराम कर लो, आज हम काम कर लेते हैं
01:14या फिर मा और बीवी के अलावा भी उन्हें अगर कोई और पहचान बनानी है
01:20तो उस पहचान को भी वो बरकरार रख रही है उसकी कोशिश कर रही है और वैसी ही एक मा और लेट से न्यू मॉम हमारे साथ है यूविका चौदरी
01:42यूविका, first of all, thank you so much for breaking big, small, any stereotype as a woman, as a mother, thank you so much and we welcome you to Film E-Date
01:53Thank you so much for having me on your beautiful interview, Film E-Date
01:58और आपने इतना बहतरी introduction दिया है इसके लिए, thank you so much
02:03बहुत अच्छा रखता है जब एक तरीकी कि किसी भी रूप पे आपको सरहाना मिने
02:07जी, so yes again thank you, I am not a mom but of course we all know and of course a lot of my friends, sisters they are mom
02:17so we all know that once you become a mother emotionally, mentally, financially, personally in all aspects you know life changes
02:26you navigate and finally आपको कुछ कुछीजे समझने आना शुरू होती है
02:31आप मुझे बताये, how are you?
02:33ये नही जोर्नी कैसी रही है और आप कैसे हो?
02:36हाँ, you said it right, कि हम नविगेट करते ही रहते हैं
02:43जी, जी
02:44एक never ending process यार, I am basically, मैंने अपनी बेटी को पैदा कर दिया है
02:51तो इसको मतलब ये नहीं होता है कि मैं मा बन लेगी उसे बत, of course I am a mom
02:55असली मा आप तब बनते हो जब अपनी जर्णी में एक process को अपने आप को पहचानते हो उस process में
03:01जैसे मेरी बेटी मुझे मा बना लेगी
03:04जी
03:05सो उसकी चीजों को समझना, उसका मेरा bond एक तरीके से अपनी अपनी सब की language होती इरिष्टे की
03:11उसका connection होना
03:14and जन्दगी को एक और बहतरीन तरीके से समझाना
03:19I think मेरी बेटी में मुझे मा बनाया है
03:22ना कि मैंने अपनी बेटी को पहदा किया
03:24it is somehow beautiful way of describing love
03:29and I don't think so
03:31जिसने कहते है ना भगवान नहीं देखा
03:33अगर आपको भगवान देखना है तो माकर उनमें देखती
03:36जिसे मैं अपनी मा में देखती
03:38तो
03:39जिन्दी के ज्यादा बहतर तरीके समझने आपी
03:43एक तरीके से ठहराव
03:46और वो ठहराव
03:49I think कभी आता है जब आप मा बन दाखो
03:51उस्ते पहले आप कितना भी मैं
03:53और इंटेलिजिट बने की कोशिश करो
03:55but no doubt आज भी बहुत
03:57सारी चीज़ों में जब भी जरुरत होती है
04:00किसी भी चीज़ की
04:01आप अपनी माँ को याद करते हो
04:03I think आप बहले एक माँ बन जाओ
04:06लेकिन कही न कहीं फिर भी आप एक बच्चे होते हो
04:09खासका जब अब तक आपके माँबाप का साय आपकी पास होता है
04:12So somehow I'm blessed
04:14कि मैं आप चीख रही हूँ
04:17and I hope
04:18जो मैंने अपनी कुछी माँ से सिखाया
04:20अपने बच्चे को सिखाया
04:21So it's a process जो चल रहा है
04:23It's a beautiful process
04:25God has gifted me with a
04:28such a nice cute beautiful girl
04:30and I'm blessed
04:31I count my blessing now
04:33You know
04:34अब चुटी चुटी कीजों में
04:35एक thankfulness आगई है
04:37gratitude आगई है
04:38that in life में
04:39चो कुछ भी होता है
04:41अच्छी के लिए होता है
04:42I think
04:43I'm grateful
04:44Right
04:45मुझे ही बता है यूविका
04:46जिसे हम जो लड़कियां रहती है
04:48okay
04:49especially
04:50जब हम अपने teenage years में
04:51जाते है
04:52समझते है
04:53okay, शादी ही होता है
04:54okay, माँ बनना ये होता है
04:55कुछ लड़किया है
04:56जिनको बच्पन से
04:57they are somewhere sure
04:58that I want to become a mother
05:00and कुछ है
05:01which eventually
05:02उन्हे समझ में आता कि
05:03नहीं, उन्हें माँ नहीं बनना है
05:05and they don't have those motherly instincts
05:07talking about you
05:09was motherhood something
05:10जब हमेशा सोचते थे
05:12or maybe there was a phase
05:13where you were not sure
05:14how was your journey with motherhood
05:16before you actually became a mother
05:17Yes, I was not sure
05:18I was pretty career oriented
05:20I still, I am
05:22but
05:23I used to have this fear
05:25oh my god
05:26I mean delivery
05:27कितना painful होगा
05:28that journey
05:29you know
05:30I was listening to other people's lives
05:31and listening to other people's lives
05:32and watching
05:33so
05:34somehow
05:35I was ready
05:36but I was not ready
05:37and
05:38and
05:39there is a big jump
05:40in the years
05:41a comfort life
05:42you are working
05:43free life
05:44and suddenly
05:45in your life
05:47there is a responsibility
05:48and when you have a responsibility
05:50and when you have a responsibility
05:52in your life
05:53there is a lot of things
05:54like
05:55you have to keep yourself
05:56in your life
05:57so
05:58but honestly
05:59the fear
06:00that
06:01I had a jump
06:02but I think
06:04when I was pregnant
06:05there was a fear
06:06and a phobia
06:07basically
06:08how can I deliver
06:09and my body
06:10painful
06:11and all that
06:12I used to say
06:13all this
06:14no Baba
06:15I don't know
06:16I will be a child
06:17what will happen
06:18I will not do it
06:19and all that
06:20initially
06:21but when the child
06:23suddenly came in my stomach
06:25I don't know
06:26it is
06:27I think God
06:29you have angels
06:31you have angels
06:32you have a place
06:34you have a place
06:35or you have a place
06:36you have a place
06:37in the process
06:38you just go with the flow
06:40like a water
06:41and
06:44whatever journey
06:45it wasn't easy for me
06:47but
06:48I think not just for me
06:50it happens for everyone
06:51when I was pregnant
06:53I felt like
06:54oh God
06:55who said
06:56pregnancy
06:57is good
06:58it is not good
06:59it is not good
07:00who is
07:01but
07:02if you see other side of that
07:06you know
07:07you know
07:08every two people
07:09then I started focusing on that
07:11that
07:12man
07:13was a child
07:14but
07:15but
07:16finally God has gifted you
07:17with the
07:18child
07:19inside your body
07:20you have a child
07:21now
07:23it is your responsibility
07:24for your child
07:26baby
07:27boy
07:28or girl
07:29you have to give best
07:30now
07:31there is someone
07:32who has
07:33life
07:34which is
07:35who has become
07:36inside
07:37you know
07:38human
07:39then you forget everything
07:40right
07:41responsibility
07:42is a thing that
07:43you have to change everything
07:44right
07:45okay
07:46make a mother
07:47make a mother
07:48make a mother
07:49make a couple
07:50make a choice
07:51because eventually
07:52their life is the most
07:53change
07:54but
07:55of course
07:56the moment
07:57you get married
07:58maybe people will keep
07:59quite for two years
08:00or max to max three years
08:01but there are some talks
08:02since you people are
08:03celebrity
08:04you know
08:05media may be
08:06I am sure
08:07you have to go to
08:08some specific thing
08:09interview
08:10people ask
08:11and it actually makes you
08:12uncomfortable
08:13sometimes
08:14you let go
08:15and all that stuff
08:16but you know
08:17when a certain period passed
08:18of you and prince
08:19getting married
08:20okay
08:21do you ever have to
08:23watch your relatives
08:24friends
08:25or social media
08:26and if you get married
08:27in that time
08:28as a couple
08:29or as a woman
08:30what kind of things
08:31do you have to do?
08:32of course
08:33you know
08:34it's a
08:35unwanted pressure
08:36nobody knows
08:37how we are planning our life
08:39because
08:40there is a certain goal
08:42in your life
08:43there is a different goal
08:44that you want to make your house
08:45a house
08:46where your child
08:48can run
08:49and you can
08:52and you can
08:53give your child
08:54so
08:55this
08:56I don't think
08:59people have to say
09:00of course
09:01of course
09:02of course
09:03certain things are for you
09:05for you know
09:06for your own family
09:08and of course
09:10your parents know
09:11your brother
09:12sister knows
09:13but
09:14in the world
09:15to clarify
09:16that
09:17what we plan for our lives
09:19what we plan for our lives
09:20so it happens
09:21that people
09:22know the amount of life
09:23that we see
09:25but
09:27there is one
09:28thin line
09:29we live in that thin line
09:30we live in that thin line
09:31we live in that
09:32in the morning
09:33brush
09:34fresh
09:35that's our personal space
09:36so
09:37what we know
09:38in that personal space
09:39when things
09:40is misunderstood
09:41you feel like pressure
09:42and there was a point
09:43when
09:44I read article
09:46that
09:48you wake up
09:49babies
09:50and all that
09:51so I was like
09:52try
09:53but it was in the process
09:54of freezing
09:55because
09:56it was like
09:57that
09:58you know
09:59more of a career
10:00you know
10:01in that career
10:02we need to set
10:03things
10:04in life
10:05we need to set up
10:06that
10:07we don't need to
10:08think
10:09anything else
10:10so
10:11yeah
10:12in that phase
10:13when people
10:14write things
10:15of course
10:16but
10:17you can say
10:18you have to be silent
10:19when you are alone
10:20so you have to be quiet
10:21and I
10:25somehow ignored
10:27initially
10:28but
10:29I realized
10:30you have your own life
10:31in your own
10:32so I am happy
10:33so
10:34I just ignore
10:35some negativity
10:36and I see
10:37better
10:38better things
10:39that's the only
10:41yeah
10:42and the best way
10:43yeah
10:44the world is good
10:45it will be bad
10:46it will be bad
10:47it will be bad
10:48right
10:49you become
10:50you know
10:51of course
10:52you are also
10:53today
10:54you know
10:55for a woman
10:56for a girl
10:57you know
10:58especially
10:59you know
11:00once
11:01a lady
11:02you know
11:03you know
11:04you know
11:05just
11:07once she crosses
11:08thirties
11:09or
11:10once she has
11:11entered in mid
11:12thirty five
11:13then
11:14a lot of pressure
11:15especially
11:16mother
11:17and
11:18after that
11:19there is a section of women
11:20who try
11:21to conceive
11:22and
11:23God forbid
11:24and
11:25the amount of
11:26tannas
11:27they have to hear
11:28that is something
11:29unbearable
11:30now since
11:31you are
11:32someone
11:33who
11:34emotionally
11:35settled
11:36and
11:37you have done
11:38without thinking too much
11:39about the right time
11:40right time
11:41about the society
11:42what is that one advice
11:43you want to give to all those women
11:45one friendly advice
11:47and
11:48one practical advice
11:49of
11:50you know conceiving
11:51in your mid thirties
11:52or after thirties
11:53okay
11:54practical advice is
11:55if you have plans
11:57to work
11:58or to travel
11:59or other responsibilities
12:00in your life
12:01so
12:02you have to plan
12:03because
12:04you have to have a body clock
12:05and you have to have a body clock
12:06and you have to have a doctor's view
12:07so
12:08freeze your eggs
12:09it's a smart decision
12:11nowadays
12:12everybody has this knowledge
12:13and
12:14second advice
12:15I would say
12:16don't listen to anyone
12:17it's your body
12:18just be educated enough
12:20to
12:21have knowledge
12:22and do
12:23certain things
12:24are important in life
12:25otherwise
12:26nobody is giving you food
12:29you don't have food
12:30you don't have food
12:31they are not living your life
12:32they are not living your life
12:33everyone's body clock
12:34is different
12:35everyone's lifestyle
12:36nobody should compare
12:37your life
12:38with any other life
12:39so
12:40I feel
12:41what is your life
12:43is your life
12:44nobody will understand that
12:46so
12:47do not compromise
12:48when it comes to your life
12:50so
12:51people say
12:52if you are doing good work
12:53people will do great
12:54everybody wants to be friends with you
12:56everybody is so nice to you
12:58suddenly
12:59your life
13:00will change
13:01suddenly
13:02people will change
13:03with you
13:04then you will realize
13:05oh shit
13:06this is what
13:07people have changed
13:08attitude
13:09so this is the world's
13:10destiny
13:11it's part of life
13:12you
13:13are
13:14your life
13:15your life
13:16your life
13:17and
13:18you are responsible for that
13:20nobody
13:22so
13:23this decision
13:24can be made
13:25and
13:26you
13:27will say
13:28that
13:29your life
13:30can be made
13:31because
13:32your problems
13:33you know
13:34and
13:35celebrate
13:36so
13:37celebrate your life
13:39and never compromise in your life
13:41so
13:42you get a life
13:43and one time
13:44and don't have time
13:45to go to that time
13:46and don't know
13:47and if you have certain things in your life
13:48in your life
13:49or you have to do career
13:50or you have to do
13:51responsibilities
13:52so
13:53plan your career
13:54plan your life
13:55that way
13:56and rest all
13:57leave it on God
13:58because
13:59I have to do
14:00my life
14:01and if you have to do
14:02things in your life
14:03as per your plan
14:04then
14:05leave it on God
14:06this is a better plan
14:07and it has made
14:08something more
14:09and more
14:10and more
14:11my attitude
14:12always shows
14:13that if
14:14it doesn't happen
14:15in my life
14:16it means
14:17there is bigger
14:18and better
14:19made by God
14:20so
14:21tell me
14:22please
14:23now
14:24people have to talk more about this
14:25before
14:26it didn't happen
14:27once you deliver
14:28your baby
14:29especially
14:30mother
14:31she goes through a lot
14:32emotionally
14:33a lot of people go into depression
14:34a lot of people are fighting
14:35without the
14:36mental thing
14:37how was your journey
14:38once you
14:39delivered your baby
14:40what was your mental phase
14:42not easy
14:43trust me
14:45it's a shock to your body
14:46and mind
14:47and
14:48that imbalance
14:49when your body
14:50and mind
14:51is happening
14:52it's tough
14:53it's tough
14:54it's tough
14:55and
14:56all you have to do
14:57you have to fight
14:58within yourself
14:59you have to fight
15:00yourself
15:01you have to fight
15:02you know
15:03bring it on
15:04all these things
15:05are happening
15:06lay out
15:07do what you have to do
15:08but
15:09you have to do
15:10your own
15:11pressure
15:12your hormones
15:13you have to do
15:14the more you are
15:17emotionally dependent
15:18this
15:20process
15:21is
15:22I know
15:23it's not easy
15:24you need people around you
15:25who love you
15:26and of course
15:27that happens
15:28but
15:29it's not easy
15:30you don't understand
15:31you don't understand
15:32you don't understand
15:33when I'm rolling
15:34when I'm blank
15:35when I'm happy
15:36when my excitement
15:37comes
15:38so
15:39it's weird
15:40and that's how
15:41our female body
15:42made this way
15:43and
15:44I think
15:45you have to
15:47realize that
15:48you have
15:49power within you
15:50and
15:51it's such a good power
15:53that
15:54if you realize
15:55you have to hold
15:57everything together
15:58everything together
15:59so
16:00time goes
16:01it's not easy
16:02but
16:03I have to take it
16:04now
16:05things happen
16:06it doesn't go
16:07so easily
16:08in fact
16:09some friends
16:10who have delivered
16:11but
16:12thankfully
16:13I'm in that shell
16:14I'm disconnected
16:15when my body
16:16is not aligned
16:17when my mind
16:18is not aligned
16:19when my body
16:20is not aligned
16:21when my mind
16:22is not aligned
16:23then I'm blank
16:24so
16:25it's a good thing
16:26that I don't understand
16:27things
16:28I'm like
16:29numb
16:30if something is good
16:31then
16:32no reaction
16:33no reaction
16:34I'm like
16:35that
16:36but
16:37I used to feel
16:38that
16:39I don't know
16:40but
16:41it is that difficult
16:42yeah
16:43it is that difficult
16:44but
16:45you have to say
16:46the day
16:47that I want to be
16:48myself
16:49even if
16:51I plan to take
16:53counselling
16:54but
16:55I realized
16:56one day
16:57that when I will
16:58be counselling
16:59for me
17:00this is a Sahara
17:01that when I will
17:02go to doctors
17:03you know
17:04they will be counselling
17:05so
17:06one final day
17:07I realized
17:08that my life
17:09is my life
17:10so
17:11so
17:12get up
17:13and move
17:14and when you have
17:15your baby around
17:16you know
17:17what's her atmosphere
17:18you know that happiness
17:19and
17:20when you feel active
17:21your body responds
17:22I felt useless
17:23when
17:24my body
17:25was not reacting
17:26pain
17:27but
17:28pain
17:29I feel
17:30worn as
17:31when
17:32because
17:33I am very active person
17:34I have to do this
17:35and she will do it
17:36and she will do it
17:37I like to do everything
17:38on my own
17:39so
17:40but finally
17:41that time came
17:42दो आए वो वक्त आया यहां कि है अधिया रही हैं जो मैं यह दर इसने एक कमजूर पढ़ गली है तो हमारी माँ ने तो कुझा है कैसे कैसे नो क्या-क्या दोड़ देखें है तो तरह आप तरह वक्त और आप तो इस तरीके से मैं यहां तक लेकी आए फिर फिर वारे प्रें
18:12इतना ज्यादा नहीं कि तो यह निकला हो ताइब बच्चा का ना इत्सक्राइब भी होता है यह बट दीलिंग विट सच थिंग और अधर्वाइस या तो लाइफ में खुछ से लड़ जगड के अपने आपको मजबूत बना लो या फिर उस
18:31कंडिशन में यह रहाइं रहा जाओ जिसमें आपकी क्यो हम यह कर सकता है एक रिsan Chバイ
18:35कंडर के पास देखतक ही बट्टेक्ताइब रहाँ है रहाँ माहाल है
18:39You know, forever, nobody is one of it.
18:42Right.
18:43ऐसा कहा जाता है कि, you know, जब आप गर्ष्रेंट वर्ष्रें वर्ते हो, पिर जब आप पती पतनी बनते हो, तो और नहीं चीज़े फिगर आउट करते हो,
18:51और उससे भी शायद ज़ादा नहीं चीज़े फिगर आउट करते हो जब वही कपल पैरेंच बनता है,
18:57यहुँखरद आउट आउट टालन्जे, यहुआ दिफिकल दे पाते हो, इमोशनली फुच चल रहा है, मिस्टप, मिस्टप,
19:03then there comes a time,
19:05थेराव आता है,
19:06and अब और सुन्दर सुन्दर चीज़े figure out करते हो,
19:09एक दूसरे को लेगे, ओ ये ऐसी मा है, ओ ये इतना अच्छा पिता है,
19:12you know,
19:13मुझे बताईए आपके और प्रिंस की जोनी कैसी रही,
19:16start to end,
19:17जितना भी आप बता सकते हो,
19:18when it comes to the end.
19:19you sum up in one beautiful thing,
19:21one way में,
19:22कि जब आपने बच्चे को देखते है,
19:24because he knows,
19:25ये मेरी भी body का part है,
19:26और इसकी भी body का part,
19:28so ये हमारा हिस्ता है,
19:29so ये कोई अलग नहीं कर सकता है,
19:32जब आप अपनी हलग देखते हो बच्चे में,
19:34फादर अपनी हलग देखता है,
19:36अलग सर्टन नेचर देखते हो,
19:38कि ये तो मेरी जैसी नेचर,
19:39ये मेरी जैसी है,
19:40ये मेरी जैसी है,
19:41ये यूवी जैसी है,
19:42so,
19:43इससे बेस्त पिलिंग हो नहीं सकते है,
19:46and then you forget everything,
19:48ये आपका bond और मजबूत करना देखते है,
19:51I think this is a only thing,
19:53मुझे समझ में आता है,
19:54कि लोग बोलता है कि बच्चा कर लो,
19:56बहुत जरूरी है,
19:57राइट ताइक बच्चा हो जाए,
19:59क्यों?
20:00Because it has beautiful,
20:03I think it's a different kind of love,
20:07जो आप तभी feel कर सकते हो,
20:10एक unique bond बनता है,
20:12that's called family,
20:14आपकी family ही तब form होती है,
20:16जब आपको बच्चा होता है,
20:17वो प्यार,
20:18unbreakable bond,
20:19वो आप तभी समझ सकते है,
20:20वो आप तभी समझ सकते है,
20:21when you have your baby,
20:22वो एक्वल रिस्टे के लेहाने लगती है,
20:25when your father,
20:26your daughter's father is doing something for your daughter,
20:28or for you,
20:29taking care of you,
20:30तोटी-चोटी चीज़े,
20:32your partner is going out,
20:34bringing something for baby,
20:35for you too,
20:36you know,
20:37that family,
20:38little-choti-choti चीज़े,
20:39for me,
20:40बहुत मैटर थे,
20:41small gestures,
20:42you know,
20:43आपको बहुत स्पेशल फिल कराते है,
20:44so,
20:45यह होता है,
20:46and of course,
20:48जब एक आदमी,
20:50एक female को
20:52pain के प्रू जाते देखता है,
20:54entire process देखता है,
20:55आप बोलो ना बोलो,
20:56बना तहीं ना तहीं,
20:57accept करो ना करो,
20:58एक इंसान,
20:59end of the day,
21:00है तो इंसान है,
21:01तो बना बनावाता है,
21:02तो बनावाता है,
21:03प्रिंस कैसे पिता है,
21:04अभी भी वह सीख रहे हैं,
21:06और रही हैं,
21:07अभी भी उनकी भी बस जोनी चली रहेंगी है,
21:08अभी भी बस जोनी चली रहेंगी है,
21:09अभी भी बूत आर लर्णी है,
21:10अभी बूत आर लर्णी है,
21:11as I said,
21:12I started with this,
21:13you know,
21:14when I started with the interview,
21:15I said,
21:16कि हम दोनों मापब बन रहे हैं,
21:17because हमारी पेटी हमें मापब बना रहे हैं,
21:18कि हमारी पेटी हमें मापब बना रहे हैं,
21:19अभी बना रहे हैं,
21:20अभी बना रहे हैं,
21:21and of course,
21:22family help is there,
21:23दादा दादी is there,
21:24नाना नानी is there,
21:25सबका अपना experience है,
21:27सबको बच्चे हैं,
21:28of course,
21:29so हम सबसे चोटे,
21:31सबसे चोटा बच्चा,
21:32so,
21:33सबका suggestion लेते हैं,
21:35and हमारी जर्णी में,
21:36जो हमारे साथ चीजें,
21:37लग रहे हैं,
21:38कि हमें यह करना चाहिए,
21:39यह fit बैठेगा,
21:40we take that,
21:41otherwise,
21:42we apply our own new roles,
21:44जो हमारी बेवे के लिए फिट बैठेगा है,
21:46because end of the day,
21:47she is making us parents,
21:48you know,
21:49mother, father,
21:50so,
21:51this is beautiful.
21:52आक्री दो सवाल,
21:53you know,
21:54especially,
21:55I always say,
21:56I'll say again,
21:57because you people are celebrity,
21:58so,
22:06मुझे भी भी आदे,
22:07when Bharti,
22:08Bharti Singh,
22:09she delivered her baby,
22:11so, उन्होंने within 12 days पे,
22:13rejoined किया थे,
22:14reality show as a host,
22:15Kareena Kapoor also,
22:16I'm not very sure whether it was Taimur or Jay,
22:19but after delivering the baby,
22:21and after 3 days,
22:22she was spotted at a dinner with her husband,
22:24and there were,
22:26you know,
22:27a lot of criticism,
22:28you know,
22:2912 दिन हुआ है,
22:303 दिन हुआ है,
22:31and किस तरह की मा हैं आप,
22:32अब दूद के असे प्राइटेरिया भी नहीं,
22:35but इस तरह के,
22:36comment देखने को मिलते हैं,
22:38you know,
22:39eventually,
22:40when you started,
22:41कि चलो अब थोड़ा थोड़ा बाहर निकलना शुरू करते हैं,
22:43you know,
22:44काम करना शुरू करते हैं,
22:45आपने आजो-बाजो ऐसे कुछ चीजे देखी
22:47कि social media पर देखा,
22:48या फिर,
22:49even for a fraction of second,
22:50यह दिमाग में आया था,
22:51यह सब चीज है?
22:52No, I,
22:53on this,
22:54तो कभी नहींगी,
22:55कि देखो,
22:56I don't know,
22:57गुआ भी हो,
22:58तो मेरे सामने नहीं या,
22:59because मेरा वर्थ वैसे वाला regular नहीं है,
23:03कि मुझे,
23:04सेक पे जाना ही जाना है,
23:06मैं अपनी शूट्स करती हूँ,
23:07घर से करती हूँ,
23:08and I chose that life because,
23:10मुझे पता है कि प्रियॉरिटी यह,
23:12not just because मैं मा बनी हूँ,
23:13तो मुझे पज्जे के लिए करना ही है,
23:15मुझे यह लाइफ जीनी है,
23:17because I know यह वापिस नहीं है,
23:19और सबकी अपनी प्रियॉरिटी होती है,
23:21आपकी प्रियॉरिटी लाइफ में,
23:22you don't know na,
23:23आपकी लाइफ में अभी इस वक्त क्या important है,
23:26and सब अपनी comfort के साफ से चीज़े करते है,
23:28जान पूछ के तो अपने बच्चे को छोड़के जाये गाने,
23:30I'm sure,
23:31baby must be in a good hand with parents and everyone,
23:35so, यह होता है,
23:36so I am someone,
23:38जो मैं खुद ही अपनी body के struggles से गुजर रहती,
23:41I had my own personal problems,
23:44like feeding problems,
23:45so, उसमें I was taking time,
23:47मैंने बहुत अच्छ से समय लिया,
23:49and I started my life,
23:52I'm back to work,
23:53my baby is six months old now,
23:55and,
23:56यार, अपना comfort होता है,
23:58and no one should judge कि आपकी,
24:00कि वही ना दूसरों के जिंदगी,
24:02अच्छी होती है अगर आप ना judge करें,
24:05because आप में जिया नहीं है,
24:06so it's very easy,
24:07gossip बहुत आसानी से फ्हलता है,
24:09लेकिन लोग नहीं समझते हैं,
24:11कि उनकी क्या मजबूरी है,
24:13कोई चीज करने में,
24:14उनकी क्या,
24:15क्या शाइब लोग खुश होएं से,
24:17जरूरी नहीं है,
24:18हट चीज में मजबूरी है,
24:19but,
24:20सबका अपना अपना करीका है,
24:22बच्चे पानने का,
24:23no comments on that,
24:24कोई,
24:25school में बच्चा इंटेलिजेंट होता है,
24:27कोई slow होता है,
24:28कोई बहुत fast होता है,
24:29nobody is equal,
24:30but,
24:31सब जा रहे है,
24:32school,
24:33they are living their life,
24:34they are also saying,
24:35हमारी अपने अपने सबकी अलग तरीके की जिनिए,
24:37अलग तरीके की relationship है,
24:39end of the day,
24:40everybody is happy.
24:41आखरी सवाल,
24:43so,
24:44there is definitely no rule book,
24:46or guide book,
24:47कि किस तरह की मा,
24:49किस इंसान को कैसे बनना चाहिए,
24:51हर कोई,
24:52you know,
24:53figure out करता है,
24:5410 years and 15 years becoming,
24:55and maybe sometimes it's a lifelong process,
24:58लेकिन कभी भी,
24:59जब आपने कंसीड किया,
25:01अब तो आपकी बच्ची आपके पास है,
25:03कभी सोचा है कि किस तरह की मा बनना चाहती है,
25:06and,
25:07some values which you are very specific,
25:09कि ये तो इसमें,
25:10you know,
25:11मुझे अपनी मा जैसी मा बना,
25:14and it ends here,
25:17if you can explain a bit,
25:18you know,
25:19if it is explainable,
25:20Of course,
25:21you know,
25:22my mom ने इतना मेरे लिग किया,
25:24इस तरीके से,
25:25मेरी लाइफ बनानी के लिए,
25:27अपनी लाइफ में compromises की है,
25:29जो,
25:30उन्होंने अपनी चीजों को छोड़ा है ता,
25:31कि मैं आगे पढ़का हूँ,
25:33and,
25:34it's not easy,
25:35अगर मैं उनका 10% भी हो गई,
25:37हो गई तो बहुत बड़ी बात हूँ,
25:39अपने सपनों को,
25:40अच्छी खासी जिम्दीगी को
25:42compromise करके अपने बच्चों के साथ,
25:44खो लेना,
25:45बहुत बड़ी चीजों की,
25:47अपना जीवन खोड़के,
25:49आप बच्चों के लिए समातित होना,
25:51at this,
25:52such a young age,
25:53कौन करता है अच्कों,
25:55तो मैं उसका अगा 10% ही हो गई,
25:57तो उसलिए मैं बोलती हूँ,
25:59मैं अपनी माँ जिसी माँ मनना चाहते हूँ,
26:01I'm sure she's a great mother,
26:04I mean throughout the interview,
26:06you mentioned it four times very strongly,
26:08that I want to become your mother like my mother,
26:10on this note,
26:11thank you so much Yuvika,
26:13I wish you all the best for this journey,
26:16I hope this is your life's most beautiful journey,
26:19क्योंकि हम इस इव पर कर रहे हैं,
26:23जो भी ओरते हैं,
26:24जो माँ बनना चाहती हैं,
26:26जो माँ नहीं भी हैं,
26:27but they have those mother instincts,
26:29anything,
26:30any message you want to give to them.
26:31I would say,
26:32I think,
26:33एक female के अंदर बहुत पावर होती है,
26:36अपनी पावर को पिंचानी है,
26:37कभी मदर ये,
26:38कि आपकी life में struggle आएगा,
26:40I think struggle आपको बहुत strong बनाता है,
26:42and I would say,
26:43be an example,
26:44किसी और ओरत के लिए,
26:46ताकि वो अगर struggle वाली journey जी रही है,
26:49तो उसको ताकत मिल सके,
26:50so let's become a power to each other,
26:53and एक दूसरे को खौसला दीजिए,
26:55बनाईए और आप ऐसे emotion ऐसे भाव में चले जाते हो,
26:59एक बार आप खोड़ा सा जिंदगी को बहतर तरीके से समझने लगते हो,
27:03I think मेरी नजर में आप ऐसा नहीं पहले value नहीं थी,
27:07लेकिन female को समझने की value और बढ़ गई,
27:09अब किसी के लाइख में अगर मैं कुछ सुनती भी हो तो मेरे दिमाग में आता है कि यार उसकी जिंदगी में,
27:16उसके point of view से उसके साथ क्या चल रहा होगा मुझे नहीं पता,
27:19so never judge,
27:20so love each other,
27:22do not hesitate,
27:24live your dreams,
27:25आप एक मा बनना चाहते हैं तो बनी,
27:28आप मा कडर है वो निकाली,
27:30करियर में भी आप successful हो सकते हैं,
27:33इसके कोई चीज नहीं है जो आप अचीज ना कर पहें,
27:35there's one life when female have,
27:37female के पास तो इतनी strength होदी,
27:39मैं आपको बता हूँ,
27:40आपको पता चलेगा आने वाले process में,
27:41इतना किसी के पास में,
27:42if you have that power,
27:44do not leave that,
27:45मुठी बंद करिये,
27:47और हिम्मत से लगे रहिये,
27:49और खुश रहिये,
27:50because अगर आप खुश है,
27:51तो सारा बहुल खुश रहता है,
27:53so never give up and do not forgive on your dreams,
27:57love you.