Farmer Wants A Wife Season 1 Episode 4
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00:00To get together, our farmers were struggling to keep their ladies happy.
00:04I wanna kiss you.
00:05That's gonna get things started.
00:06But why don't you wanna kiss me?
00:07I'm not here for the other girls.
00:09Hey, Kirsten.
00:10Hey, Ellen, can I pull you away?
00:11I'm here to meet my potential husband.
00:13I probably had the least amount of time with him.
00:15We put all of our hearts out on the table for him.
00:18He's not giving us the same back.
00:21And Talia was the first to leave Hunter's farm.
00:24He 100% missed out.
00:27Tonight, it's another romantic solo date for each farmer.
00:34I wouldn't mind a little kiss.
00:37Oh, my gosh.
00:38Holy fudge.
00:40And then more farm work for these city girls.
00:43That's a testicle.
00:45I'm gonna be very telling how these girls will actually fit in my life.
00:49I just keep wondering if he feels the same way.
00:51But with so many women vying for the same heart.
00:54You can't date five girls at the same time.
00:56Which lady will walk away from farm life and love?
00:59You can keep asking the same question.
01:00How many times have I asked you?
01:01It's gonna be the same answer.
01:02It's terrible.
01:03Don't attack me like that.
01:04I have no idea if he even likes me.
01:06Like, I don't know what to do.
01:08Oh, bring me a higher love.
01:17My love.
01:18Bring me a higher love.
01:21As our farmers search for love, they're deciding who they want to spend the rest of their lives with.
01:26So today's solo date is absolutely crucial.
01:34It gives him time alone with one lucky lady.
01:37Time to find out if she might be their forever person.
01:41I feel great about anything I'm doing today.
01:58It's raining for the first time in 70 days.
02:02Ranching and farming is controlled by the weather.
02:04We don't get rain.
02:05I don't get crops in the ground.
02:06We don't have grass growing.
02:07I've got to sell cattle.
02:08So rain is literally everything.
02:11And I couldn't be in a better place to go on a date with somebody right now.
02:15Landon still has five city girls living with him.
02:18And as our most remote farmer, his focus is finding someone who will thrive in his lifestyle.
02:23I got a little time at the fair, but I definitely want like more time to get to know him.
02:29Yeah.
02:30He picked career girl Kylie for his next solo date.
02:34So many thoughts are going through my head right now.
02:38I have no idea what to expect.
02:39I don't know what we're doing.
02:41Hey.
02:42Hey, gorgeous.
02:43Having a career is very important to me.
02:46I've gone to Congress.
02:48I've successfully lobbied for a bill that has had passed.
02:51And when you're focusing so much on bettering the people around you, you lose focus on what you're missing.
02:57Watch the steps.
02:58You will get dirty.
02:59Fine by me.
03:00But now I'm ready for my love story.
03:03And I'm hoping to find that here.
03:06Well, it's been a long time coming.
03:08Hey, hey, hey, hey.
03:15So have we ever done this before?
03:16A handful of times.
03:17That's not fair.
03:18I've never done this.
03:19If you need pointers, just let me know, all right?
03:21Oh, yeah.
03:22I'll definitely be asking you for help.
03:23There's so much to Kylie that I have not gotten to see.
03:26Do you want to put a wager on it?
03:28I might need one warm-up round before I start losing money.
03:32And I'm just glad I get the chance to know her.
03:35You want to go first?
03:36Oh, no, no.
03:37Take it as less than the first time.
03:38All right.
03:39Let's see it.
03:40Let's see it.
03:47See?
03:48I'm not worried now.
03:49You shouldn't be.
03:50Oh, you shouldn't have talked it up.
03:52All right.
03:53Let's see how you fare.
03:59Oh, you.
04:00If you could put a four on there under my name, that'd be great.
04:03Maybe you should give me a lesson.
04:05Grab here.
04:06Yeah.
04:07And when you're throwing, you're releasing about there.
04:10Right when you feel that turn.
04:12Uh-huh.
04:13All right.
04:14Let's try that one.
04:15Try it.
04:17You should hammer it.
04:20Look at that.
04:21See?
04:23See, it's pretty easy hanging out with Kylie.
04:25You've got to start somewhere.
04:27She makes me laugh.
04:28She makes me smile.
04:29It's just kind of that border of, like, flirty and talking smack.
04:34Oh, so close.
04:42Over in Tennessee, Alan is our most reserved farmer.
04:46But hopefully, his date with Kelsey will open him up a little.
04:50We're just driving.
04:51We're going fishing.
04:52I don't think I've ever caught a fish.
04:53What?
04:54So if I caught my first fish with you, that would be super cool.
04:58You never caught a fish?
04:59Oh, we're going to fix that.
05:01Time to get up, time to get up now.
05:11All right.
05:12Is this a good spot?
05:13Good luck.
05:14The moment's here.
05:15I finally get some alone time with Alan.
05:19There you go.
05:20I think that's, like, just our special time for us to open up to each other.
05:27Yeah, this is a good spot.
05:32We were talking about being hard for you to express your feelings.
05:35Everybody handles stuff in different ways.
05:38Obviously, I don't show my emotions and stuff very well a lot, and so I look at the facts.
05:42Because I'm, like, total opposite.
05:44Are you?
05:45I'm just emotional.
05:46I just wear my heart on my sleeve.
05:48I was a little worried with him not being able to express his feelings or emotions because
05:54I come from a broken home.
05:55I didn't have my mom.
05:56It was hard growing up.
05:57And my dad, he was always at work providing for us.
06:00So I think, emotionally, I grew as a person because it was very difficult.
06:04But really, it's just, like, if you open up to me, then I'm going to open up to you.
06:08So I hope that he's willing to work on that.
06:14Hey, you got a fish?
06:16You got a fish?
06:17You got a fish.
06:19You've got a fish.
06:21Ah!
06:23No way!
06:27Did it.
06:28Here, I'll hold the pole.
06:29That's what I'm talking about.
06:31You did this.
06:32I caught my first fish.
06:34Eh, eh, eh.
06:37Let's go eat.
06:40Oh, my gosh!
06:41Holy fudge!
06:51Oh, my gosh.
06:53I'm glad you were there to save me.
06:54Come on, show me love.
06:55Show me, show me love.
06:56I'm excited to get some one-on-one time, Miss Stephanie.
07:09Farmer Hunter chose Stephanie from California for his next solo date.
07:13Are you nervous about conversation and knowing what to talk about and what you want to talk about?
07:18I think a struggle for me is that I am really guarded.
07:22We all go through our own journeys, and it's just hard to, like, put that out there.
07:26And, like, it's kind of scary.
07:28Yeah.
07:31Past relationships, I feel like they have not gone well.
07:35Unfortunately, a lot of those city guys, they're not really that loyal.
07:38And for me, I really want someone that's going to be there by my side.
07:41The time alone that I'm getting today with Hunter is really valuable.
07:44So I really want to just get to know him as an individual and see if, like, our lifestyles match up.
07:49Come in!
07:50Come on in!
07:51Ladies, how are you?
07:52Hello!
07:53Oh, don't you look dapper.
07:54Same goes for you.
07:55Stephanie, you about ready to roll?
07:56I'm ready.
07:57All right, let's go do it.
07:58God above and not too much fun.
07:59Let's come together.
08:00Lean in and let's take the class forever.
08:02Ryan chose Lily and organized a date especially for her.
08:06Oh, look, you look so clean.
08:08Let's come together.
08:09Did Ryan clean you?
08:10I picked Lily for my date because I already know she's outgoing, but I want to see her deeper side.
08:17So I'm going to take her riding because she grew up with horses and I feel like that's where she feels most at home.
08:23What do you think they're going to do?
08:24Horses, baby.
08:25What if they don't do horses because they need to see if they have anything in common besides?
08:27Besides that connection that they have with a horse.
08:28Right.
08:29Lily is a great girl with one and two.
08:30They definitely have the little flirty thing going on, but I think at the end of the day, it's really who he has the best connection with.
08:36I want to see her deeper side, so I'm going to take her riding because she grew up with horses and I feel like that's where she feels most at home.
08:41What do you think they're going to do?
08:42Horses, baby.
08:43What if they don't do horses because they need to see if they have anything in common besides?
08:46Besides that connection that they have with a horse.
08:48Right.
08:49Lily is a great girl with one and two.
08:51They definitely have the little flirty thing going on, but I think at the end of the day, it's really who he has the best connection with.
08:58So do you see yourself staying here and living here for the rest of your life?
09:08What makes my home a home is my horses.
09:11The location doesn't matter.
09:12It's just setting.
09:13It could be anywhere.
09:14Growing up, my home was my horses for sure.
09:16Yeah.
09:17My dream since I was a little girl was to have a farm and wake up to my horses and have my kids running around and grow up in that very wholesome lifestyle.
09:25My love for horses definitely helps Ryan and I's connection.
09:32So it was, you know, it was special.
09:35Your girl can ride.
09:36I see it.
09:37Catch it if you can.
09:38Come on.
09:40I'm going to stir up with.
09:49This date has been great.
09:52She's 24 years old.
09:53I'm 32.
09:54I didn't know who I was when I was 24.
09:57But I think that there could definitely be some love there.
10:00She's going to give me around for the money.
10:01Love, love, love, love.
10:05Mm.
10:06Coming up.
10:08The kissing count rises.
10:13And so does the heartbreak.
10:15It's like I'm getting nothing right now from him.
10:17And when questions don't receive answers.
10:19I actually want to interrupt.
10:21Can I pull you for a second?
10:22Yes, yes, yes.
10:23Okay. Let me say what I want to say.
10:24And then you can talk after.
10:25One lady takes matters into her own hands.
10:28This is a two-way street.
10:29Because he's really, truly that ready.
10:43All four farmers are on their second solo date.
10:46And after their axe-throwing fun,
10:48Landon and Kylie dive into more serious conversations
10:51about the future.
10:52I wholeheartedly expected you to beat me at Axel.
10:55I thought I was going to, too.
10:56Still apologize for just completely shaming you.
11:02Dork.
11:03She's fun.
11:04She's easy going.
11:05Lots in common.
11:07So what made you want to do this?
11:09I do want to start a family.
11:10I'm tired of pushing everyone away,
11:12pushing everything off.
11:13And when I find it,
11:14I'm ready to go full steam into it.
11:19Landon's very much my kind of guy.
11:21And I think that today really solidified that,
11:23because I go for somebody who's funny,
11:26endearing, kind, smart.
11:32You sure are cute.
11:33You're cute.
11:34My mother would kill me.
11:35I promised her I wouldn't kiss anybody on camera.
11:37I'd be a liar if I say I didn't think about it.
11:40She's great.
11:45I was very, very happy with the outcome of the date.
11:51Landon and Kylie ended their date with a sweet kiss.
11:54But as Kelsey's date draws to a close,
11:56she's still waiting for Alan to show her how he feels.
12:00She's starting to get cool?
12:01Yes.
12:02Yes.
12:03Got a blanket and hold on.
12:05So I finally got to go on my date with Alan,
12:07and it was just as special as I thought.
12:10It was very romantic.
12:13Thank you, sir.
12:14Yep, you bet.
12:15So I told you I was trying to work on expressing my feelings.
12:23And so I do want to tell you that, like, your smile,
12:32like, it's just, you have this great big smile all the time,
12:35and that is a beautiful part of you.
12:36And you seem, you always seem so happy.
12:38And I just want you to know that I do notice that,
12:42and I appreciate that from you.
12:46Yes, ma'am.
12:47Yeah, and I've worked really hard on that,
12:48just being positive and being happy, you know,
12:52and not letting things affect me like they used to.
12:54Yeah.
12:55So I really appreciate that.
12:58Yeah, I just, I don't know.
12:59Anyway, I just wanted to, I just want to tell you that.
13:02Are you hoping he kisses you?
13:07Um, yes, I wouldn't mind a little kiss.
13:11Just to feel confident and really see what the connection is,
13:14if it can grow romantically.
13:26It's getting kind of late, I guess, huh?
13:31Ready to go to the house?
13:32Ready to head back?
13:33Yeah, let's do it.
13:34Let's go back to it.
13:36Do you find yourself wanting to kiss her sometimes?
13:40I think I do.
13:41I would like to kiss her at times.
13:43But I do move kind of slow.
13:45I just think it's better and more genuine that way.
13:47Emotions don't get too high too quick,
13:49and then, you know, kind of flake out.
13:52You did have a good time today.
13:53You too, thank you.
13:54I'm struggling with it a little bit because there's still no, like, affection.
14:00And, you know, that's our only time, really, away from the girls to show what we're really feeling.
14:09While Alan's taking it slow, Farmer Ryan and Lily aren't wasting any time getting to know each other.
14:14Cheers.
14:19So, right now, are you closer with your mom or your dad, or...?
14:23I'm not close with either, honestly.
14:25Okay.
14:26It doesn't feel like I have a mom or a dad, if that makes sense.
14:29For me, my parents were pretty consistent in my life.
14:33Yeah, tell me about them. I've never really asked you.
14:35Um, they were married, then they separated, then I was born.
14:38So, my mom's firstborn was my older brother.
14:41Mm-hmm.
14:42But he was born as a premature.
14:44You know, he was born at, like, 23 weeks or 24 weeks old.
14:47Yeah.
14:48And, um, he passed away when he was 9 years old and I was 7.
14:56It's not easy to go through something like that.
14:59So, when he passed away, I didn't think it was real.
15:02Mm-hmm.
15:03I just kept thinking it was a dream, kind of.
15:08Yeah.
15:09You know, um, I didn't really understand.
15:11It just, it frames you.
15:13Being vulnerable growing up, there was very little time for it.
15:17When I lost my older brother, I didn't cry for a week.
15:21You just kind of have to keep going.
15:23I appreciate you sharing that.
15:25I have no idea it, like, brings tears to my eyes.
15:28Lily is intuitive, and that is beautiful.
15:31Thank you, kind sir.
15:34Mm-hmm.
15:39The beauty with Lily is she just gets it, man.
15:45Being with her is, it's a joy.
15:52While Ryan's date ended with a kiss,
15:56Hunter wants to know if Stephanie will fit into his world
16:00before he takes things further.
16:05I think there's definitely some chemistry with Stephanie.
16:07Thank you!
16:08Good job!
16:09Ooh!
16:10Putting herself out there.
16:11These are my friends.
16:12These are people that I work with,
16:13and she just really, like, dove right in.
16:17There's a lot to be said for all that.
16:20Oh!
16:21I got one!
16:23What's the one thing you're looking to gain from this experience?
16:28Really, why I'm here is find love, find happiness.
16:31Right, outside of that.
16:32I feel like, I mean, it already has taught me so much.
16:36I mean, it's an adjustment to really see, like,
16:38if I can handle, like, you know, a whole different environment.
16:41It's helping me grow.
16:42For sure.
16:43Get right in the saddle and go.
16:44Yeah.
16:45I feel like, coming to this date,
16:47I was a little, like, nervous because I'm from Temecula, California.
16:50This is foreign to me.
16:51But, uh, I feel, like, really at home here.
16:56Last question.
16:57Good job.
16:58Would you like to go dance?
16:59I would love to go dance.
17:03All right, you ready to do a little two-step?
17:08There you go.
17:10That's all we do.
17:12I don't feel like I've ever dated anybody like Huntry for it.
17:14Like, he's definitely unique.
17:16This date has been one of the best dates I've been on in a long time.
17:20There we go.
17:22I don't know that the date could have gone much better.
17:24What's my heart saying right now?
17:26Get Maria in back in there and keep dancing with that pretty girl
17:28and quit talking to you.
17:39Bye-bye. Thank you.
17:40Bye-bye. Thank you.
17:45Oh, thank you so much.
17:50Thank you for tonight.
17:55My heart right now is telling me that there could be something here
17:58that could be real.
18:10It's a new day on the farms and all the ladies are eager to know what went down on the solo dates.
18:20Because later today, decisions will be made on who will be next to leave the farm.
18:24Morning.
18:25Morning.
18:26How was your day yesterday?
18:30Yeah, so we went fishing.
18:31I caught my first fish.
18:32I think I handled him taking Kelsey out on a date much better than I thought I would.
18:38But he's still, you know, not the best with affection.
18:42And, um, I don't know if it's more than a, like, friendship.
18:46So, I don't know if y'all talked about his, like, ex-wife at all,
18:49but do you think that he's, like, fully over and, like, doesn't have walls up after that?
18:53Or is that just his personality and he's not very affectionate in any way?
18:56Like, is that how he is?
18:57Do you think part of that is just that there's three other girls?
19:00Yeah.
19:01He doesn't want to show favoritism and he doesn't want to kiss, like, four girls in one week.
19:05That's why we didn't get connected with Ryan.
19:07Yeah.
19:08That ain't our type, honey.
19:13Over at Landon's farm, not all the ladies are finding this process easy.
19:18Especially Nicole, who is yet to be picked for a date.
19:22You know, like, I'm getting nothing right now from him.
19:26And then, like, I feel like I'm just, like, an emotional person.
19:28And then, like, I just get, like, really, like, um, like, I put, like, a wall up, you know?
19:34Like, I don't know what to do.
19:37You know, like, dating a guy that's also, you know, trying to date five other women.
19:42You know, we're in a house with really strong personalities.
19:44It's really hard to get his attention.
19:47I'm really physically attracted to him.
19:49And then, like, I just think that he's, like, a really sweet, caring guy.
19:52And it's just really tough.
19:54What do you want?
19:58You don't, uh, seem very happy.
20:00I'm just struggling right now.
20:02I cannot imagine how hard it is to be you all and be in this position.
20:09At any point that you want to, grab me, pull me to the side.
20:14If someone's bothering you, I will do whatever I can.
20:16Nicole is, is struggling.
20:19When she's struggling, I struggle.
20:21It breaks my heart.
20:23I know that it feels good.
20:25Yeah, it feels good.
20:29After a kiss with Stephanie last night,
20:31Hunter has a day planned that could show him which lady might be suited to his lifestyle.
20:37So what are we doing today?
20:38We're gonna do some tagging and a little bit of, uh, accounting, I guess.
20:41Accounting?
20:42Yeah, you gotta account for two things on a bull to make him a steer.
20:46Oh!
20:50Let's go on in here and see what we can get done.
20:53Hunter and I for sure had a great connection on our date.
20:55But, I mean, I had no idea what I was gonna do when I woke up today.
20:58But, it's okay. I like learning new things.
21:02Getting ready to do some tagging and castration on some bulls that are not gonna cut it as herd bulls.
21:07This is a very labor-intensive, mentally exhausting, physically draining lifestyle.
21:13But, in my opinion, it's the most rewarding.
21:15It's a passion that I've had since I was a little kid and I wanna share that with somebody else.
21:21There you go.
21:24Oh no, that ain't a herd, is it?
21:26Good boy!
21:27Oh!
21:28Castration, it's genuinely for the animal's best interest.
21:30It's not an everyday deal, but it's part of the ranch that has to be done.
21:33He just went straight for it. Just, just did it.
21:39They go in a black bucket.
21:40Thanks.
21:45Here, Devon.
21:46Yeah?
21:47You want some?
21:48What is that?
21:49What is that?
21:50What is that?
21:51What is that?
21:52That came out of that bull.
21:53What part?
21:54What?
21:55Huh.
21:56That's a testicle.
21:57Damn.
21:58That's a big testicle.
21:59Get him!
22:00There you go.
22:01My experience with farm life is very minimal.
22:02You know, some of the other girls have a lot more practice in all of this.
22:04I'm sorry, buddy.
22:05I don't have a lot of animals back at home.
22:06We just grew up with dogs, and the only time I've ever seen this done is just on TV.
22:08Get to her.
22:09Get to her.
22:10Get to her.
22:11Get to her.
22:12You got it.
22:13You got it.
22:14You got it.
22:15You got it.
22:16Oh!
22:17Oh!
22:18Oh!
22:19Oh!
22:20Look at that!
22:21Oh!
22:22Oh!
22:23Oh!
22:24Oh!
22:25Oh!
22:26Oh!
22:27Oh!
22:28Oh!
22:29Oh!
22:30Oh!
22:31Oh!
22:32Oh!
22:33Oh!
22:34Oh!
22:35Oh!
22:36That's technically my first time flipping a cow, but it's a lot of fun.
22:39There we go.
22:40Perfect.
22:41There you go!
22:42There you go!
22:43I kind of felt back at home seeing some cows, and I guess you'll see the countryside of
22:52me.
22:53So we're just letting them run through, or are you roping them?
22:55Negan's definitely the most comfortable in this atmosphere.
22:58I know you probably need a hearing aid, but questions normally require answers.
23:02Hell, she put me in my place a couple times, you know.
23:04know so sassy everybody's really shining but there are difficult decisions that have to be made and
23:08they got to be made sooner rather than later all right ladies we got enough here to cook something
23:14good to eat you're lying hell no might as well enjoy the spoils of it you know
23:24in oklahoma landon wants to show his ladies what a typical day looks like
23:28to be sure it's a life they'd be happy in most of you guys have probably built fence in water
23:32right every friday every friday whether it needs it or not today's going to be very telling how
23:38these girls will actually fit in my life it's cold it's wet it's muddy it's hard there's nothing fun
23:44about it and i'm asking them to drastically change their lives for me can i get for my jewelry oh
23:50yeah here ready i'm gonna drop all these in there thanks so uh this is a flowing waterway we're gonna
23:56have to build a water gap here which is a fence that's made to break who wants on the saw you
24:01want on the saw yeah okay i want the sharp objects dive in girls
24:09oh there it goes
24:14honestly just two feet up is fine this is where height is not an advantage i'm as tall as the water
24:20think life out here is a little slower than it is in dallas but i love being out here and like getting
24:27dirty seeing his life bring it back and just living a piece of his world my daughter harper is
24:34in a laugh when she sees me in the mud getting dirty she would totally love it out here i think we could
24:40fit in right in there right in here right in there
24:50okay i'll have to be honest with you he doesn't look at me i have no idea if he even likes me like
24:55i felt like there was like a spark when i first met him and now i just feel like it's really just
24:59dwindling away i definitely know that i need reassurance so like i can feel you know more confident
25:05being here you guys charged by the hour to nicole she's kind of just secluding herself more and more
25:12and taking herself out of the picture so i feel like for her this whole country ranch lifestyle was
25:18a fun idea but maybe just not the best in reality for her i mean it's not the worst fence fixing i've
25:26ever seen the good news is we can only go up from here it's not a fun part but they can't all stay
25:32i mean unless we go to utah coming up a big thing is showing affection one woman will take the reins
25:42i don't want to be miserable because only one person's gonna get alan and walk away from her farmer
25:48but if that's not gonna work then i'm out
26:02the five ladies still on ryan's farm he's dated and kissed three of them i think we should do one
26:10food table and drink table and then set a table those who haven't received the same affection from
26:15ryan are starting to feel concerned
26:20how are you feeling i don't know i feel like i'm not feeling it really yeah i don't know i might pull
26:29ryan aside and let him know like what i'm feeling yeah i mean i completely understand like you have
26:34to do what's best for you yeah if i had to give me and ryan's connection a grade it's not an f but it
26:41probably would be like a d minus it would be it would be really low because i see the other girls are
26:48more engaged with him i don't feel pursued and yeah just right now it feels like we're just friends
26:53nice this looks good are you excited yeah i'm excited i mean i got a lot of people here that's
27:00gonna really be enjoying all this bring them on in so today i have some friends that will be joining
27:07us they're gonna hang out with the girls a little bit and get to know them i can follow up with them
27:11and see who they think may be a good match for myself hi hello nice to meet you nice to meet you
27:19so what do y'all like about ron i've gotten one date with him which is amazing but in order for me to
27:26commit myself to anybody i'm gonna need a lot yeah a lot i want to make sure that he can adapt to what
27:32i need from a man but if that's not gonna work then i'm out what about barn chores like how are you
27:40enjoying the barn chores i mean i scooped some it wasn't the worst thing ever do you think he's ready
27:46for marriage whatever he decides i need some tea well you better go get some sugar and put it
27:56what you want what you want i've never been in love so that's something that i want but i also
28:02like i'm not like super big on like the physical stuff so i don't want to just have like just
28:06attractions there has to be other stuff there like you have to be friends i need that in order
28:11for me to reciprocate how you know you want love if you ain't never experienced it i mean i've read
28:17about it i've seen it like i have my mom like i i've felt like familial love friendship love i mean
28:24i've never felt romantic love i've just not felt the connection to someone that would initiate a
28:30relationship but i know that i am worthy of love and that's why i'm here
28:39so cowboy um glad y'all came out what do you think about hayley
28:43i really like hayley i think she does not know the country life yeah but i like her a lot
28:51and then lily with our date yesterday she got really deep so i think there's some depth there
28:57lily she's she's a good person at heart i just um i'm not so sure got my butt heads a little bit
29:02and then we have portia too i mean what do you think i think about portia she's so sweet she's
29:08very sweet lady maybe not the right one for you but very sweet oh boy so i'm glad i'm not in your
29:15shoes yeah yeah i told you this stuff is intense it was great to have my friends out today to get
29:22their perspective i really value what they say and i trust their opinions
29:25being able to lend a hand on the farm is important for alan think of it like a great
29:33big lawn board it helps with weed control so today he's teaching the ladies how to mow the fields
29:39with a tractor whoever's first jumped the tractor all right all right go for it with alan i think it
29:47seems that he has a good relationship or connection with kelsey and rebecca it's kind
29:52of overwhelming if i'm being completely honest i don't think he has a connection with kirsten
29:56go ahead and lower this down how far all the way down i haven't had a lot of one-on-one time with alan
30:02but i am a big believer in like being pursued oh he's out on it let it go and i think it has a lot
30:12to my past you know like daddy drama and rejection and like i'm always anxious always second guessing
30:18always doubting and that's just something that i personally struggle with
30:28good lovey
30:32i'm trying to be a good sport about the whole like i get what we're doing and i understand what
30:37to sign up for but honey you got four chicks fighting over you it's true don't worry i'm in
30:41control are you yeah it's fine this might be the only time you're in control i just won't let you
30:47know is that right yes i really like him i just keep wondering if he feels the same way
30:55with farm work done for the day it's time to decide who is best suited to our farmers and their
31:01lifestyle and who will pack her bags does anyone feel like their relationship with ryan has not
31:08progressed i feel like that you do yeah yeah i don't feel like it's progressing as much as you
31:13guys i don't want to waste my time yeah what i've been feeling has been bubbling up for a while
31:20i don't feel like our connection is that strong come on in and stay a while i can see myself with any of
31:26these girls so it's difficult yeah but here we are i want to make sure that each time i'm with someone i
31:35want it to be authentic but like how do you do that do you feel like you've given everyone the
31:40equal amount of time or i don't know because i think all of you guys are different and i mean
31:46i'm trying to genuinely connect and i'm smitten with mostly like all of you it's just trying to
31:52eat that most right you can't have your cake and eat it to you you can't date five girls at the same
31:57time well i mean i understand i actually want to interrupt can i pull you for a second yes yes yes yes
32:03all right we'll be back
32:10what's going on yeah i just wanted to kind of just like say my piece like let me say what
32:16i want to say and then you can talk after
32:18what's going on i just wanted to say my piece let me say what i want to say and then you can talk
32:38after i just feel like since i was i guess like picked like being the top five girls i haven't
32:47felt like you actually tried to pursue me like everyone else if i could be blunt i guess obviously
32:53would have been truthful here it's just go ahead it's just i think that i don't think that we
32:58connected that well and so i really didn't know how to you know i didn't know how to move about it
33:05just say how you feel that honestly would have meant way more to me than you just letting me stay
33:12here and wasting time i put my life on pause my job is in jeopardy right now because i'm doing this show
33:18and i just i just feel like that's kind of a disservice to me
33:24so i'm just gonna you know i'm gonna go i'm just gonna leave i think that's what's best for me
33:32i'm just um i respect that
33:41i came here to find someone and to fall in love and that didn't happen so i am disappointed but
33:47it is what it is it ended like this and i think it was for the best
33:50thank you and i'm sorry that you put your situational hole and everything
34:00hi guys hey baby okay so me and ryan talked i think it's best if i just go i really i'm gonna miss
34:08miss y'all a lot oh my god i don't want to cry
34:19i'm gonna go back home and keep trying and keep dating and i'm just gonna be positive
34:24yeah this is really nice before hunter reveals his decision it's time to enjoy the spoils of
34:39today's work could you just put in the uh tossicles right there oh yeah we're gonna have us some calf
34:43fries all right well here's to a good day in a pen amen it's actually not bad at all it's actually
34:58pretty good see i don't want to like it i know i'm not mad at this i really loved the nuts and i think
35:07they need some sweet chili sauce but those were tasty balls dropping you know i thought today was
35:18going to be something that kind of like separated everybody but actually just made everything more
35:22difficult which is which is a great thing you know it just makes it um makes all the decisions that much
35:27more difficult seeing hunter and his element today made me feel a lot more for him than i did before
35:35and i'm looking forward to see where the future takes us i want hunter to genuinely know that i am
35:42one thousand percent fully committed to be here so i don't want to get sent home
35:48each one of y'all have touched my heart in your own genuine and sincere way there's
35:55there's nothing that i can do like and feel right about it
35:59i just can't send anybody home tonight cheers to that when more people stay it makes it a little
36:11more challenging to get to know him as a person we're all fighting for the same man at the end
36:16farmer allen has also come to a decision so ladies i have four women in my house it's hard to decide
36:29who i might send home they're all really great ladies so it really is not it's not an easy decision
36:35this dinner last week i just sent somebody home but um i would like for you all to stay another week
36:47but of course if you guys want to stay you know um nobody's nobody's keeping you here
36:54my feelings are a little difficult after him choosing to keep everyone here because he doesn't
36:59want to show favoritism but eventually it's going to have to happen and i think we all need to know where
37:03he's headed so we can figure out if we want to continue the journey or specifically me if i want
37:08to continue it eventually decisions do have to be made yep and we're women so like a big thing is
37:15showing affection it's hard for me to show affection or whatever for fear of upsetting another you know
37:22so that's something i'm trying to figure out as i go
37:25well if um if everybody's good to stay then i guess that settles that right i i need to ask him
37:34some questions so i can vet this out a little bit better can i talk to you first yeah sure all right
37:39absolutely is he really truly that ready this is a two-way street i need to see the connection in a
37:48more of a romantic kind of way i don't want to be miserable because only one person's gonna get alan
38:07i need to ask him some questions so i can vet this out a little bit better
38:10can i talk to you first yeah sure all right absolutely is he really truly that ready i've
38:17dated guys who weren't great communicators i've learned the hard way it won't work if i don't
38:22have that affection from someone i want to make sure that if i'm going full throttle
38:28that he was open to that too okay i want to know like
38:32like are you ready for this yeah what are you ready for a wife to have that partnership again
38:41and to um are you scared because you had that right and i haven't yeah i haven't had that partnership
38:48ever yeah i want it so bad yeah i mean i know i'm here for the right reasons are you ready you
38:55like you're not afraid to have a wife again i don't know how many times i have to tell you i'm not
38:59afraid again no i'm not afraid okay so you can keep asking the same question how many times i
39:06asked you it's terrible i'm not trying to hurt anybody's feelings i'm sorry i take things slow
39:15don't attack me like that it's all fine it's all it's all good just relax just relax i am hugging you
39:29now relax now relax i feel better let's go inside all right
39:37you can only kiss me my heart's racing
39:45for landon finding someone who will thrive on his isolated farm is his priority
39:50and he has come to a very difficult decision it's unnatural to date five girls at one time obviously
40:00i have to end up with one i know today wasn't the most fun i appreciate you guys trying to make it
40:06fun i think it was fun i would be really sad to go home and not be able to get to know him more
40:12i just don't know what landon is thinking or where we stand i just need some clarity at this point
40:20you have a wine no gotta have at least two bottles at the table nicole you want to help me go grab
40:25another bottle i asked her into the house so that i could talk about things that have just been rolling
40:33through my mind you were my number one could not be more excited to get to know a person when i walked
40:40into this since you've come here it's been i feel like minimal happy moments for you yeah
40:49like i see this this spirit in you and it's almost like this place stifled it and i've wanted nothing
40:57more than to see a sparkle in your eye when you're here and i've seen way more tears than sparkles i just
41:09really struggled with it like i just like shut down i just get quiet just like i don't know where
41:15you stand like at all i just don't feel like this place is going to benefit you i'm trying
41:26and i guess that's just who i am and if that's not what you're looking for then like that's okay
41:30it's not that i don't want you here
41:31i don't feel like this is your life like i don't feel like this is a life that you're going to
41:38thrive in
41:39okay so i'm sorry it's okay okay
41:47it is very tough to date a guy with four other women i'm not really cut out for it i wish him nothing
41:54but the best i really hope he finds someone that wants to be here and have this lifestyle with him
42:14coming up on farmer wants a wife you kiss i want to make sure staying here is the right choice
42:26one of these ladies could be my person for the rest of my life hearts are going to get broken