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Laya and Danger, with a 31-year age gap, have been together for over a year. They met on a dating site and instantly hit it off when they both swiped right. Danger, a professional magician and photographer, plays a key role in supporting Laya behind the scenes with her spicy content and also joins her in front of the camera.
Laya has always been drawn to older men, explaining, "Men my age sometimes don't meet the standards I need. Older men do because they meet those standards." On the other hand, Danger used to date older women when he was younger but has since shifted his preference. He says, "I’ve found that I’m more comfortable and attracted to younger women now."
The couple faces significant backlash online, with many people assuming that Danger is Laya’s sugar daddy. Laya is quick to clarify, saying, “He is not my sugar daddy at all.” They often encounter comments like, “You should date within your age range” or “You should date someone of your own race.” The judgment doesn’t stop there - Danger’s family disapproves of his relationship with a younger woman, especially one from a different racial background. Danger humorously adds, “I do have nieces older than her.”
Laya’s sister, Daria, who is very protective of her, had concerns when she first found out about the 31-year age gap. She admits, “This is definitely the biggest age gap my sister has dated that I know of.”
The pair doesn’t let the negative comments get to them. Instead, they’re focused on creating more memories together and proving that love is love.
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Laya and Danger, with a 31-year age gap, have been together for over a year. They met on a dating site and instantly hit it off when they both swiped right. Danger, a professional magician and photographer, plays a key role in supporting Laya behind the scenes with her spicy content and also joins her in front of the camera.
Laya has always been drawn to older men, explaining, "Men my age sometimes don't meet the standards I need. Older men do because they meet those standards." On the other hand, Danger used to date older women when he was younger but has since shifted his preference. He says, "I’ve found that I’m more comfortable and attracted to younger women now."
The couple faces significant backlash online, with many people assuming that Danger is Laya’s sugar daddy. Laya is quick to clarify, saying, “He is not my sugar daddy at all.” They often encounter comments like, “You should date within your age range” or “You should date someone of your own race.” The judgment doesn’t stop there - Danger’s family disapproves of his relationship with a younger woman, especially one from a different racial background. Danger humorously adds, “I do have nieces older than her.”
Laya’s sister, Daria, who is very protective of her, had concerns when she first found out about the 31-year age gap. She admits, “This is definitely the biggest age gap my sister has dated that I know of.”
The pair doesn’t let the negative comments get to them. Instead, they’re focused on creating more memories together and proving that love is love.
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00:00My name is Danger. I am 55 years old. I am a professional magician. My girlfriend, Leah, is 31 years younger than me. I do have nieces older than her.
00:10I realized we were attracted to each other on our first date. It was his magic show. It really blew my mind. People tend to say really horrible things.
00:19That he's my sugar daddy. We should date our race. My ancestors are not proud of me for dating him.
00:25My ancestors would be very proud. My sister is coming over and she has some reservations about our relationship.
00:32It took me by surprise because of the age difference. This is definitely the biggest age gap my sister has dated.
00:39So Daria, what did you think of me the first time we met?
00:45Which one do you think I should wear?
00:48Hi, I'm Leah and I am 25 years old. I am a content creator.
00:53This is my boyfriend, Danger, who's 31 years older than me.
00:57I'm 55 and I am a professional magician.
01:00We're often judged because I have a 31-year age gap, but we really don't care.
01:05We met on a dating app in October 2023.
01:10I realized I was attracted to her as soon as I saw her profile on the dating app.
01:16That's why I swiped right.
01:18Yeah.
01:19I mean, I don't typically swipe right on the ugly ones.
01:21We went on our first date.
01:23During our first date, the chemistry was really good.
01:26I liked it a lot of stuff that he do with his magic and his photography.
01:31We had a lot of fun.
01:32A lot of things in common, too.
01:33It was just like a match made in heaven.
01:36And we've been together ever since.
01:37I really like this one on you.
01:39I think that is super cute.
01:40So, I like this one because it has the top it, which is the little pocket inside.
01:47Cool.
01:47I can put that in my waistband.
01:51And then when I move forwards, it opens the pocket and I can let things disappear just by
01:57flicking them inside.
01:59That's nice.
02:00Now, when I'm performing, I always wear my top hat.
02:03It's a very important part of my act and my style in general.
02:08I love that people immediately know that I'm a magician and I like the way I look.
02:18All his tricks are really mind-blowing.
02:33Our first date was his magic show.
02:35It was one of the card tricks that really just blew my mind.
02:39All of the card tricks are my favorite because they all basically catch my attention and startle me.
02:45Cool.
02:49You like that?
02:50Yeah.
02:50First thing we're going to do is I want you to write your name on this card.
02:53Write it big.
02:54Write it proud.
02:55Write it like it's a neon sign.
02:57It's opening night and you're the star of the show.
02:59All right.
03:00We have the Leia card.
03:02There's only one card like it in all the world.
03:04We take the Leia card and we're going to fold it.
03:08And then we're going to give it another little fold.
03:11Then we're going to give it a little tear.
03:13And then we're going to give it another little tear.
03:16Did you happen to bring a blowtorch?
03:18No.
03:18I may have something I can work with here.
03:29There you are, Leia.
03:30Almost good as new.
03:33Wow.
03:33I definitely have asked them a lot like, how do you do that?
03:37Would I be able to do that?
03:38I have always preferred older men because I am very mature for my age.
03:43Men my age, like, you know, sometimes they don't meet the standards that I need.
03:49When I was younger, I actually dated older women.
03:53And as I've aged, that has shifted.
03:56And I now found that I am more comfortable and more attracted to younger women.
04:03My family doesn't like me dating younger women or another race.
04:09Leia is younger than many of the kids in our family.
04:14I do have nieces older than her.
04:18Today, my sister is coming over to give us her opinion on our relationship because in
04:24the beginning, she wasn't really that supportive.
04:27Leia is my younger sister.
04:28It's just me and her.
04:29The first time in my danger, like, last year, it took me by surprise because of the age difference.
04:35This is definitely the biggest age that my sister has dated that I know of.
04:39So, Daria, what did you think of me the first time we met?
04:44First, I was a little concerned because, you know, you are the age difference.
04:48So, once I got past the age difference, I was like, okay, yeah, he's cool.
04:54Y'all work together, like, in a good sense.
04:57Once you get over the age difference, everything's perfect.
05:01And then whatever makes her happy makes me happy, too.
05:03So, that was a big plus.
05:05What type of stereotypes do you guys have to deal with?
05:07Basically, like, our age difference, like, he's too old for me or I'm too young for him
05:14or, like, you know, we should date our race.
05:20We have been into places where literally, like, we'll walk in and it gets silent.
05:24The most extreme reactions that we get are always on social media.
05:28People tend to, like, say really horrible things.
05:31Because of how young I am and how old he is, we get that a lot.
05:35Like, it's not right for us.
05:36We should date in our age range.
05:39We get a lot of interracial comments.
05:42Like, you know, people saying that we should date our race.
05:45A lot of people have told me, like, you know, my ancestors are not proud of me for dating him and stuff like that.
05:51My ancestors would be very proud.
05:54And if he's my sugar daddy or if I'm using him or not, I just know.
05:57I don't even mind being used a little bit.
05:59How do you guys deal with judgment?
06:01I just ignore it.
06:02Some of the comments made online, it bothered me a lot.
06:05And then I tell him about it.
06:06He's, like, telling me, like, you know, don't worry about it.
06:08Sometimes it is kind of humorous.
06:10And the more f*** up s*** they say, the more humorous it is.
06:15So now, since being around us, what have you thought about our relationship?
06:18Great team, though.
06:19Seriously.
06:20Really, though.
06:21He pushes you to do stuff that you wouldn't usually do.
06:24Yeah.
06:24So, yeah, that's good.
06:26We get along on a very fundamental level.
06:30You know, we enjoy each other's company.
06:32And I love to be taught things.
06:33He definitely has taught me a lot of things.
06:35Yeah, I enjoy mentoring.
06:37Because I am younger, my attitude sometimes is, like, too much for him.
06:42But I'm working on it.
06:44Working on being to his, like, you know, his attitude and nonchalant to how he is.
06:50Yeah, she does have a fiery personality.
06:56We like to shoot spicy content that we do.
07:00We like to exercise together.
07:04We like to cook together.
07:05You're such a liar.
07:07You don't like to do anything with me.
07:08Yeah, we do enjoy the creativity.
07:14We enjoy shooting together.
07:16I enjoy the photography.
07:18She's a really good model.
07:19She's come a long way.
07:20We both like photography.
07:22That's what really brung us together.
07:25Well, it was a fun shoot.
07:26I think we got some good material.
07:29The thing I love the most about him is he listens to what I'm saying and he can help me stay calm.
07:36I'll let her smile.
07:37It just melts my heart every time.
07:40I don't really worry about the future.
07:42I live in the moment.
07:43The next big thing in the future that I see for us is growing our business more, winning an award for it.
07:51Yeah, I'm excited about how the magic has grown.
07:54I think we'll continue to grow our businesses, stay focused as a team, and we'll be privileged together.
08:01What would I say to people that judge our relationship?
08:04Eat my shorts.