Full Video: Stop hating your ex || Acharya Prashant, at Delhi University (2023)
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00:00Can you please guide me on how to stop hating someone?
00:03The mind should be treated like a temple.
00:06And you keep only sacred ones in the temple, right?
00:11And you want to keep the temple very, very clean, correct?
00:13Now tell me, what do you do when you hate someone?
00:16When you hate someone, do you forget them?
00:19Or do you get deeper into their memory?
00:21Deeper.
00:22So the one that you are hating, in a very perverse way, very indirect way,
00:27but in a very real way, you have made them your God.
00:30Only God deserves to be in the temple, right?
00:33But see who you have put in the temple.
00:36Someone you hate means someone who is pretty unworthy, correct?
00:40The best act of hatred, real hatred, pure hatred,
00:45would lie in forgiving and forgetting.
00:48If you are still hating someone,
00:50it means you still have a very strong relationship.
00:53You are preserving that person in your mind.
00:55Is that hate?
00:57No, that's worship.
00:58Why are you worshiping that person?