The Push Over
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00:00all right trying to help out patrick this morning sounds kind of shy but uh it sounds like a very
00:04nice guy they went to shaker and peel and he thought things went great he was very excited
00:10to see andrea again and he asked her to text him when she got home after he uh walked into her car
00:16and she never texted him now she may have forgot or got busy or got on a phone call on the way home
00:21maybe but we did get her on the phone right now we have her on hold i want to bring her back on
00:25andrea you there yeah hey andrea random i know that we called you today but i do appreciate you
00:31being down to come on the air with us uh we just want to ask you about this guy patrick we heard
00:35you guys went to shaker and peel uh he thought everything was great the food was great the
00:40the conversation was great uh he didn't feel like he you know threw up any red flags in your face or
00:46anything like that and i guess he walked you to your car um and then said hey text me when you get
00:51home and then he never heard from you again and he's just kind of confused on what happened so
00:56we're just wondering if you could help us out and kind of shed some light on what the deal is here
01:00like why aren't you getting back to this guy because he sounds really nice yeah he's super nice like
01:06that's the problem he is too nice wait what do you mean too nice yeah he's like he's like a wet
01:13blanket he's like a total pushover he's a pushover i mean what did he get pushover on
01:17oh my god like every single thing that happened that night i was like are you kidding me wait a
01:25minute this guy's too nice i mean you got to give me some examples because like you're only with him
01:29for what two hours okay well um when we got there there was obviously it was super busy and we came
01:37up to the hostess stand and she she took our names down and then this other couple pushed up behind us
01:43and like consulted with her and then she came over to us and was like hey do you mind if this couple
01:48behind you get seated first because they're really in a rush and before i could say anything he was
01:53like oh yeah no problem that's totally cool we don't mind waiting and i was like excuse me and he
02:00just let them get seated before us without even asking me if i was cool with that but then patrick
02:05ordered something and the waiter came back and was like oh sorry you know what we're actually out of
02:10that thing and patrick was like oh yeah no problem no worries i'll just get this other thing and i was
02:16like the chef could make you something similar to what you ordered like it's not that complicated
02:21it sounds like a very easygoing guy that's a good thing right i mean except the food came out
02:28and it was cold and i'm like okay that's like he was like oh yeah the food's kind of cold i'm like oh
02:34well they could totally warm it up for you if you sent it back no big deal he's like oh no i don't
02:39want to trouble anyone it's no big deal i'll just it's fine it's not that bad and i'm like
02:43you are paying for this like it's not like you're getting like a costco hot dog like you are getting
02:51a meal at a nice restaurant why don't you just get your food warmed up it's not it's going to take
02:55two seconds and he was just like no no no it's cool i'm fine i'm surprised this bothers you because
03:01i feel like someone who would cause a big scene or a ruckus or whatever would be bothersome to you
03:05versus someone who's just like yeah whatever you know we'll figure it out yeah but like you should
03:10also get what you want wow it just it seems so i don't know kind of pathetic to me so i decided to
03:18test it oh man so i was like oh can i switch seats with you can i sit on the other side of the booth
03:24and he was like oh yeah sure no problem like let me just move over to the other side of the booth
03:31and that bothered you because he said i'm gonna accommodate you if you first said you got another
03:36booth because you tested him yeah there's no reason i needed to move i was perfectly happy in
03:41my spot i just wanted to see if he would do whatever i said and i'm like this is this is way too passive
03:46for me like i want alpha like i want a guy who's going to take the lead who's going to stand up for
03:51himself and for me i want to know that i am safe if we go out that he's not going to be like oh you want
03:56to like touch my girlfriend's butt sure go ahead no problem oh come on andrea this is crazy all
04:04right well listen here's the deal andrea we actually have patrick on the phone and i want to bring it
04:07back on because i i can guarantee you he didn't think that was the issue uh let me bring it back
04:12on right now if you don't mind patrick hey i'm gonna let you talk to andrea because uh there's a lot
04:17of things that she's saying and i mean i'll just let you kind of address her yeah hey andrea it's me i
04:24just um i guess um i don't know i so it was because i was like too nice about like dinner
04:30yeah you're just i don't know it feels like you just have kind of a weak disposition like you don't
04:37like you let four people just push you around in that 90 minutes like that i mean to me that's a red
04:44flag well i mean i was just like i just want everybody to be like happy i'm not trying to like
04:48causing like problems and stuff like that i mean if i feel like i was helping people out that you
04:55know like whether it's the staff or even other people there i i didn't think we were in a rush or
04:59you know anything you know where i would you know i just don't want to have any like trouble with
05:04anyone or so andrea so this is a deal breaker to you because this guy is too polite and too
05:10respectful i mean like it's just if if you're like this on the first date right like you're in your
05:16best behavior you're like really trying to impress the person exactly right oh he's trying to be on
05:21his best behavior yeah and you're you're trying to impress the person and like it's only going to
05:27go downhill from here like i feel like i could so easily control him and that's kind of grossing me
05:32out well i'm confused on this one but uh patrick i'm gonna give you the last word man yeah just you
05:38know i'm really sorry she feels that way and you know i i just i'm not the type of person to
05:43cause a scene especially at a restaurant you know and i know everybody has a job to do and
05:48there's you know other people involved and you know oh my god you can't even stand up for yourself
05:53right now like you're like you can't you need you need to like get a role model or something like
06:00you need a man in your life who's going to show you how to be a man okay i'm gonna jump in here uh
06:04patrick hey listen it's not gonna be andrea i don't think you guys are a good match personality
06:08wise i don't think you guys are a good match andrea i'm gonna let you go but i do appreciate you
06:11coming on with us patrick now you got an answer and i think it's good that you just kind of go in
06:15a different direction but i appreciate your time patrick yeah no i mean uh thanks a lot for
06:20for doing that and getting to the bottom of this i i it didn't work out but i really do appreciate
06:25you guys yeah man stay positive i like it stay positive all right you take care man you too all
06:31right thanks andrea i mean listen i think she's saying this now but i think if he were to
06:38you know be assertive or more assertive or whatever i think she'd be the first one to
06:42shut it down as well yeah i mean i could kind of kind of see where she's coming from though
06:47a little bit i mean i think y'all situations are different but yeah this is this is kind of a tough
06:54one i'm curious to uh hear what our listeners have to say let's see what we got qik family what do you
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