"Eye On The Prize"
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00:00Trying to help out Scott. He sounds pretty straightforward.
00:02I felt like he had a pretty good date, and now we are tracking down the date that's not getting back to him, which is Tara.
00:08They were actually set up, so that's kind of cool, because you think if your two friends are setting you up, it would be a good deal.
00:12Right, and he mentioned that she lives down by Jackson, so that's where they went for dinner.
00:18They hung out there, which is a beautiful place, because it's right there on the water.
00:21I mean, can't go wrong there.
00:22Yep.
00:23Let's see what went wrong, because he has not heard from her since the date, and we have her on the phone right now.
00:28Tara, are you there?
00:30Hi.
00:31Hey, Tara.
00:31We appreciate you talking to Kevin off the air, and we appreciate you agreeing to come on with us.
00:35We just wanted to ask you about Scott.
00:37We heard that you guys got set up.
00:38We heard you guys went to Jackson's.
00:39I guess you live on Harbor Island.
00:41He lives on Plant City, so he kind of made the drive down to enjoy a great meal at Jackson's with you,
00:47and he thought things went really well, said you were beautiful, said you guys had some meaningful conversations,
00:51and now can't get a hold of you.
00:53We're just trying to figure out what's up.
00:55I'm kind of shocked, to be quite honest.
00:58Like, Scott?
00:59Like, why?
01:00He is not interested in me.
01:03Okay, you guys, like...
01:04Well, he called us, which is kind of an odd thing, right, Tara?
01:07He is interested, yeah.
01:07Okay, this is strange.
01:09Okay, he did take me on a date, and we went to a great restaurant with a lot of pretty girls,
01:14including me, and we're all dressed up, but he's definitely not interested in me,
01:20because he looked at every other woman in the room.
01:23What do you think?
01:23You just caught him looking, or what, like rubbernecking?
01:27I was about to use that.
01:28Oh, man.
01:29I've never felt more neglected, okay?
01:32I'm not interested in a turkey necker, right?
01:35Okay.
01:35Or a turkey necker.
01:36I said rubbernecker, but a turkey necker.
01:38Go ahead.
01:38Yeah, go for that.
01:39I mean, he cared at every other woman, okay?
01:45Every other woman, like, you know how it is when you're with someone, and they kind of,
01:50like, look at other women, and then when they pass, they take a double look at their
01:54backside, like, ooh, and then they turn back, like, you don't even notice?
01:58Like, even the waitress, when she would pass by, he would, like, look at her behind,
02:04like, stick her head out the boot.
02:06What?
02:07Yeah, he would stick his head out the boot.
02:09And look at her.
02:09It was so obvious.
02:11That's what really got to me.
02:13So, I mean, just maybe super uncomfortable.
02:16Like, I don't think he looked at me for even maybe five minutes.
02:21Well, did he compliment you on how you looked?
02:23No, not at all.
02:25He didn't even say a thing.
02:26He just kept looking at all these other women all night.
02:28I felt so neglected.
02:30Like, he needs to learn how to go on a date, and I don't have time for that.
02:33Yeah, it's one thing to people watch, and then it's another thing to actually stare.
02:37So, Tara, I can feel you on why this would be uncomfortable for you and rude to you.
02:42A real man makes a woman feel like she's the only woman in the room.
02:45Yeah, that's true.
02:47Well, listen, Tara, we actually have Scott on the phone with us right now, and I want to bring him back on and get his take on this.
02:52Uh, Scott?
02:53Um, yeah.
02:55I mean, dude, it's one thing to, you know, take a peek at somebody that's walking by you because you're admiring their beauty,
03:00but it's another to make Tara feel uncomfortable.
03:02Your date, who's just getting to know you, and you're showing more attention to someone else, do you feel like that's how the night went?
03:08I mean, I didn't know.
03:09I didn't think it was, like, I was being that obvious.
03:12I mean, you know, it was a nice place.
03:14There were a lot of pretty people there.
03:17I like to people watch.
03:18I like looking at people.
03:21Um, you know, I have also a little bit of ADD.
03:24Probably doesn't help, so.
03:26That's the, that may be the best excuse I've ever heard.
03:29For a guy looking at another woman.
03:31Look at the chicks, because I have ADD.
03:32What do you want me to do?
03:33I got ADD.
03:34Did you even notice me?
03:37Yeah, like, Tara, you're pretty, too.
03:39I was very happy to be there with you.
03:41I mean, I, I'm sorry that I was, like, distracted by everything.
03:45You say that now, but little do you know, I have a behind shape, like a valentine, so
03:50you missed out, because you didn't even notice me walking away.
03:53I mean, I just, there were a lot of people there.
03:55I was just kind of like, I'm from Plant City, so it's like, we don't have anything out there.
04:01Like, there's no, there's no people, you know?
04:03Like, people don't dress like this.
04:05You got a strawberry festival.
04:07Plant City's awesome.
04:08It was a date, okay?
04:10Of course I dressed up.
04:11I mean, but everyone else was.
04:13So why not look at me?
04:16I am freaking gorgeous, and you're not even showing me that, and I feel ugly, and I left
04:21feeling horrible about myself, and that was a big red flag.
04:24It was rude.
04:25Well, Tara, don't feel bad about yourself.
04:26You don't want that, obviously.
04:28I mean, this sounds like Scott's realizing that maybe he might have been looking around
04:32too much.
04:34Scott, I mean, do you feel like you were just looking, or do you feel like you were staring?
04:37I mean, I don't know.
04:40Probably both.
04:42It's like, you know, I'm just like, I don't know.
04:44Like I said, it was just like, there was just a lot going on.
04:47There was a lot of stimulation.
04:48There was a lot of people.
04:50Everybody was dressed really nice.
04:53But, yeah.
04:54Like I said, Tara, like, I mean, I'm sorry that you felt, I wasn't trying to make you feel
04:58that way about yourself.
04:59Well, that's nice.
05:00I'm beautiful.
05:01You've had something great.
05:02You missed out, man.
05:03You really did.
05:04Wow.
05:04Straight up.
05:05Let me jump in here.
05:06A couple things.
05:06First of all, I love Plant City.
05:08Not sure why they're taking ricochet shots here.
05:10And we're acting like it's at the moon.
05:12It's not.
05:12It's right.
05:13It's part of our community.
05:16And second of all, Tara, since you're telling him what he has to do, are you going to give
05:20him an opportunity to do that on another date?
05:22No, I don't have time to teach someone how to treat me right.
05:26Yeah, someone else will.
05:27So, you know, he apologized.
05:29He was just, it was just a new place for him.
05:31He had never been before.
05:32And he was just checking out the scenery.
05:34It's ADD.
05:35If that's the case, it's still not me to teach him.
05:37I'm tired of teaching men how to treat women.
05:39I want a man that knows what's up.
05:41All right.
05:42Well, Tara, I appreciate your honesty.
05:44Scott, you heard what she had to say.
05:45It looks like she's not looking for another date.
05:46I'm sorry, man.
05:47Tara, thanks for your time.
05:48Scott, thanks for your time.
05:48You guys have a great day.
05:49All right.
05:51Listen, there is people watching and they're staring.
05:54And that's, and he got caught staring.
05:55It sounded like he was staring.
05:57And when you're turning your head.
05:58Yeah.
05:59I mean, yeah, that's, I can, I can understand why she would.
06:02Now, did she sound like the most stable person?
06:04No.
06:05Absolutely not.
06:05No.
06:05She sounded a little high, strong as well.
06:07So I don't know what happened on this date.
06:09And I'm surprised she didn't say something on the date.
06:11Yeah.
06:11That's surprising to me.
06:12Yeah, absolutely.
06:14Well, let's see what you guys think about this.
06:16I actually kind of want to think what you, if you would have thought they would have been
06:17a good couple or not.
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