The ML Show: Date Em Or Dump Em - She Called Me Her Boyfriend
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00:00I know this is your favorite segment of the week, Loren. People think it's War of the Roses,
00:03but you actually hate testing relationships because you don't like to break them up.
00:07I do, because at the beginning of a relationship, it's different, right? Like if you walk away,
00:11no harm, no foul. That's why I like Datum or Dumpum.
00:13There's hope there. This is Paul in High Point. Good morning, Paul.
00:17Good morning.
00:18Thanks for DMing us and reaching out for Datum or Dumpum. Tell us what's going on
00:23in your relationship. I kind of teased the audience a little bit and said that she told
00:26you I love you, but how many, I'm sorry, she told you that she was, you were her boyfriend?
00:32Or did I jump ahead?
00:33Yeah, you did. I mean, he's already freaked out by the boyfriend thing.
00:38Sorry, Paul.
00:39No, we're not there.
00:40How many dates in did she refer to you as her boyfriend?
00:44So I met her on Bumble and we've been on about five to six dates by now. The last date that I
00:51went on with her, we went to like a brunch date with all our friends and stuff.
00:56And she basically introduced me to everyone as like her boyfriend.
01:01Okay. So stop right there if I could, Paul.
01:03Yeah.
01:03Six dates, Loren. Meeting friends. This is the new man in your life. You could easily see how she
01:10would just refer to him as her boyfriend. Am I right?
01:14Yeah, I could.
01:14I could.
01:15I'm not going to lie.
01:17We agree.
01:18I get it a little now that I'm thinking about it, but like in the moment I was shocked and
01:23like, we still have not had that whole exclusive conversation. You know, we're putting a label
01:29on it or anything. So like, I don't know.
01:33Are you exclusive with her?
01:35Do you, yeah. Are you exclusive?
01:36I mean, at the moment, no, I haven't been on any other days, but like, we never had that
01:42conversation. I didn't, you know, know we were going around telling other people, oh,
01:47I have a boyfriend.
01:48Fair. Do you want to be exclusive?
01:50That took way too long to answer.
01:57Yes, I could see it going that way. But like, now I'm a little thrown off because like,
02:02I don't know how long she was calling me her boyfriend. Like, I don't know if she's just
02:05clingy or it was impulsive. You know, that date, not really sure. I did. I did end up bringing it
02:13up to her, kind of asked her like, oh, we calling you, you know, boyfriend, girlfriend now.
02:17And she pretty much just laughed it off and said, ah, honey, you love it and made a kind
02:22of a joke out of it. So I'm not really sure if I'm the one that's a little, you know,
02:28thinking too much into it.
02:29Paul, is she clingy in any other aspects? Like, is she constantly calling you? Is she
02:34constantly texting you? Does she want to know where you are?
02:38I mean, she texts me pretty much all day. I wouldn't say like, she's completely psycho yet,
02:43but like, I don't know.
02:44You already think she's going to be in.
02:47Well, he did say in his DM, that's what he said. He goes, am I dealing with a stage
02:50five clinger here or what? And we were like, dude, just come on with us to date him or
02:53dump him. We'll figure this whole thing out. We got lots of text messages, including a text
02:57message from someone who is actually at that brunch who texted in. And we'll read that here
03:02in a second. But dude, the overall text and calls that we're getting are that you're the
03:09problem. You're overreacting to labels. If he actually liked her, none of that would
03:13matter. Just dump her and stop dating. Just hook up with people. You're clearly
03:17not into relationships.
03:18Yeah. Someone texted and said, this guy is the red flag. Someone else said, dump her
03:22for her benefit.
03:23Dump her for her benefit. You sound like the problem. Now, Lorraine, we got a text from
03:27someone who is at that brunch.
03:28Yeah. Paul, did you meet someone named Sarah?
03:34Yeah, I think so.
03:35He doesn't know. There was 20 people there.
03:37She texted us and said, this is so funny, Paul. You're wondering if you should dump
03:42her. I was there. And after you left, the whole conversation was that she should dump
03:48you. Totally awkward.
03:50Well, that's not what I want to hear.
03:55I'm sorry.
03:58But that's why I was wondering if she's a red flag in the first place, because she goes
04:02and calls me her boyfriend in front of all of her friends. And I guess they trash me behind
04:06my back.
04:07I don't know. Listen, it just sounds like at the end of the day, you guys are not clicking
04:10on all levels.
04:11It's over anyway.
04:12I mean, it's over the audience, the radio fam.
04:15You guys have have spoken and you said you've got to end this thing one way or another.
04:19Most people side with her.
04:20So, man, Dana, dump them.
04:22You never know what we're going to get.
04:23Eight or five every Wednesday.