The Disappearing Invite
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00:00It was all about the dilemma today for Ben and Nicole on their 7-15 second date update.
00:05Now, we get why Nicole would be upset about this and very annoyed.
00:11And a lot of ladies backed her up when they called to support her.
00:15But Ben thought he was doing the right thing, but it didn't work out too well for him.
00:19Check this out. Leave a comment. Where are you at on this?
00:21It's your 7-15 second date update.
00:23Alright, so Ben is very confused because he went on a great date with Nicole.
00:26Lana, we say, if it ends with a kiss, that's a good sign.
00:28Yeah, not only that, they talked about going out on another date.
00:31And I asked him if he was doing something on social media.
00:34He said no. So I kind of want to figure out what's been going on with this.
00:38So good news. Kevin's got Nicole on hold right now.
00:41We're going to bring her on and see if we can get some answers.
00:43Good morning, Nicole.
00:45Hey, guys.
00:46Hey, Nicole. So I think you talked to Kevin. Did he kind of give you a rundown here?
00:50Yeah, I know you guys wanted to talk about Ben.
00:54Yes. And I really do appreciate you doing this.
00:57He said you guys have been on Hinge.
00:59You had a great first date.
01:00You guys had a kiss.
01:01And you guys were even talking after that date and setting up another date, making plans for one.
01:05And then now you've just kind of disappeared.
01:08And he's trying to figure out where you went, I guess.
01:11Well, I don't know if he told you about what the second date was supposed to be.
01:16But, you know, we did have a really nice date.
01:20And he had actually called me and asked if I wanted to go as a plus one to one of his family members' weddings.
01:30Oh, wow. That's kind of quick.
01:32Were you freaked out by that?
01:34No. I mean, I actually thought it was sort of like weddings are fun and we had a good time.
01:39So I thought, why not?
01:41And I kind of got excited about it and, you know, got a dress and everything.
01:45And then he called and said that, you know, he had to give the plus one to someone else like the day before.
01:52He invites you to a wedding and he tells you you can't come at the last minute?
01:57Yeah. And I like, you know, sort of repaired for it.
01:59It's not like I have, you know, cocktail dresses in my closet just like randomly hanging in there.
02:03So, yeah, I kind of was preparing for it, got a dress, got a pair of shoes.
02:09And it was just it seemed really flaky.
02:11So I was like, yeah, I don't I don't need to be involved with this anymore.
02:15Wait, I don't understand why he disinvited you to a wedding after he already invited you.
02:19It was a reason he came up with.
02:21Hang on. Hang on. Can I explain?
02:23All right. There we go.
02:24Nicole, that is Ben.
02:27I think the question might be better for Ben.
02:29Yeah. Ben, why did you why did you blow her off for the wedding date?
02:32I didn't blow her off.
02:35I actually already explained it to her.
02:38The groom had contacted me and said that he needed to give my plus one to a number another family member.
02:46Like, I think it was like an aunt or something of ours.
02:49And I didn't I didn't I didn't take somebody else.
02:54I gave it up.
02:55I was just trying to help out the bride and groom because they needed the invite for for another family member.
03:01But you already invited somebody, though.
03:04Well, I you know, what was I going to do?
03:07They they called.
03:08They asked me if they could, you know, give my plus one to somebody else.
03:12It was for a family member.
03:13I you know, I was just trying to help them out.
03:15It's their day.
03:16You know what I mean?
03:17Like, why would I do that?
03:19I've had that happen to me where they ask, hey, do you want to bring a plus one?
03:22I go out and I'm single or whatever.
03:24You know, you can give to somebody else.
03:25But you had already invited her then, which I kind of put you in a tough spot, I think.
03:30I mean, Nicole, it sounds like you had already heard that explanation.
03:33But that that was not enough for you.
03:35Well, no, I mean, you totally told me that.
03:37But the thing is, is that if your family member invites you to the wedding, they know you're single.
03:40They're going to say, like, yeah, you bring somebody.
03:42So at the last minute, you just don't give it away.
03:44You say, oh, I just gave it to, you know, it's a new girl or whatever.
03:48Like, it's fine that you're trying to help out, you know, the family.
03:52But I just I just had one date with you and then was invited to this.
03:56So I'm agreeing to this.
03:57It just seems very inconsiderate.
04:00And that's why I wanted to take you out again to make it up for you.
04:04And if there's a wedding like next time, you will definitely be my plus one.
04:11Listen, when somebody like cancels on you short notice within the first few dates,
04:15I think that that's just a sign you're a flaky person.
04:18And it's really cool.
04:19I don't need you to reach out again, especially on a radio station.
04:23But it's just it's not my thing.
04:25But thank you.
04:25And she bought a dress and shoes and everything.
04:29Look, I'm sorry.
04:30I was just trying to do the right thing by helping out the bride and groom on their special day.
04:34They asked me for a favor.
04:36So I wanted to give them a favor.
04:37How is that wrong?
04:38It's just not vibing with me.
04:40That's not how I roll.
04:41So you're going to have to take her somewhere nice where she can wear that dress and those shoes.
04:46I absolutely.
04:46I mean, but I guess she doesn't want to.
04:49So whatever.
04:51Well, I mean, I kind of understand the situation that Ben was in, because if the groom said,
04:54hey, I have a family member we have to invite.
04:56I get that.
04:57I mean, yeah, maybe bad counting on their part.
04:59But it is the bride and groom's day.
05:01I mean, Nicole, can you see that at all?
05:03I can see it.
05:04But I don't know Ben.
05:05I don't know the family members.
05:06I was just accepting an invite and went out of my way to do, you know, to get a dress,
05:12to get shoes.
05:13And then the last minute, it's like they should have arranged that before.
05:16So you don't want to go out on another date with him at all, even though you guys had such
05:20a great time on the first one?
05:22Yeah, no.
05:23Well, Ben, I get the dilemma that you were in.
05:27Unfortunately, now the dilemma is Nicole does not want to go back out with you.
05:31But man, I'll tell you what, I would have been torn, too, on this.
05:34But I do understand that Nicole was disappointed.
05:36She put some time and effort in preparing for this.
05:38But Nicole, thank you for coming on with us.
05:41Ben, I wish we had some better news.
05:43And I wish you luck.
05:45Thanks, guys.
05:46I just, all right.
05:48I'm just like really unfortunate.
05:50It's not even my fault.
05:50Well, Nicole, think about it for a couple of days.
05:53You got Ben's number.
05:54If you feel like reaching out, do that.
05:56All right.
05:58Boo.
05:58I'm ghosting.
05:59Boo.
06:01All right.
06:02Thank you, Ben.
06:03Thank you, Nicole.
06:04Sure.
06:06I'll say it again.
06:07I would be torn on that.
06:08Because if your family members think you're single and they give you a plus one, hey,
06:11if you want to invite someone, you can.
06:13Last minute things happen at weddings where maybe someone needs a plus one.
06:16That's tough.
06:17You don't know if the family member asked him.
06:19He could have met some other chick and wants to take some other girl.
06:22I mean.
06:23Oh, so you don't believe that it was for a family member?
06:25I don't know.
06:26All right.
06:27Well, I want to know.
06:27800-992-1099.
06:29800-992-1099.
06:31Are we buying what Ben's saying?
06:33Do you think it was a right thing to do?
06:34Or does Nicole have a point?
06:35Hit us up.
06:36Yeah.
06:37Do you think it was a big outinger.
06:37Do you think it's a big outinger?
06:37Right?
06:38Yeah.
06:39Do you think it was a big outinger?
06:40Do you think it was a big limit Jonah?
06:41Do you think it was a DRM?
06:42That's all the thing.
06:43Yeah.
06:43Do you think it was a lot here?
06:44Yeah.
06:45Yeah.
06:45Gay.
06:46Floyd, got told me that I was.
06:46They did a lot of people.
06:47Yeah.
06:47We mean, they put a lot of people that I gave up.
06:49Do you think it was a big outing mentally?
06:50But then, like, when I gave up the phone, I called청 it.