Paano kaya nalagpasan ni Pinky Amador no’ng nalaman niya na namayapa na ang Kuya Manny niya?
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00:00...tayon ay na-experience ng masaktan at tumiyak.
00:03But because life goes on at some point,
00:05kailangan din natin kumanap ng dahilan para ngumiti
00:08and eventually ay tumawa naman.
00:10Ayan. Tama yan, Kuya.
00:12Kasi yan ang mga iyak-tawa moments
00:14na isa-share sa atin ngayon ni Marz Penki and Ma-Marz Pocwang.
00:18Let's start with Marz Penki's iyak-tawa moment.
00:22Ay! Ay! Ayan na!
00:23Ayan! Ito na!
00:24Ito na. Okay. Ah, ayun.
00:26Ayan.
00:26Salamat, dear brother.
00:28Your memory kept us stronger.
00:30Ayan. Okay, this is about my Kuya Manny.
00:34You know him, right?
00:35Kuya Manny, namatay siya in Cebu.
00:39Pero sa kasamaang palad,
00:41he was actually found dead in his apartment.
00:43So according to Soko, parang two days na ata siyang namaya pa.
00:48And nung time na yun,
00:49nung time na yun dapat siyang papasok sa work,
00:51nagka-heart attack siya, no?
00:52Tapos mag-isa siya sa kwarto.
00:54He lives by himself.
00:55Yeah. Well, ano, shared apartment pero kanya-kanya silang rooms.
00:58Yes.
00:59So dalawa ata silang magka-share ng apartment.
01:01Tapos yun, nahanap na lang siyang patay na.
01:04So nung naimbisigan ng Soko,
01:06nalaman nila two days prior,
01:08so inisip ko, asan ba ako noong two days prior?
01:10Nag-host ako.
01:11Nag-host ako sa Miriam College.
01:13Tapos,
01:13siyempre,
01:15how to break the news to my mother.
01:17Paborito niya kasi yung kuya ko.
01:19As in,
01:19favorite,
01:20hinahatid pa niya yan sa school,
01:22kahit high school na sila,
01:23dinadrive pa niya yan sa Ateneo dati.
01:25So,
01:25how to break the news to her?
01:27Diba,
01:28siyempre,
01:28matanda na rin siya.
01:29Tapos iniisip ko,
01:31we have to go to Cebu.
01:32Kailangan namin puntahan.
01:33Iniisip ko,
01:34baka naman pag-uwi namin,
01:35dalawa na yung dalako.
01:36Ala,
01:37Totoo yan eh.
01:37Kasi yung fear mo,
01:38di ba,
01:39na hindi mo na lang alam
01:40kung ano yung magiging reaction.
01:42Di ba?
01:42So,
01:42tapos,
01:43siyempre,
01:43nandun na yung lahat yung
01:45pag-aalaga mo
01:47ng mga kailangan mangyari.
01:49Like,
01:49we agreed na
01:50ipakremate na lang siya.
01:52Kasi mahirap din na
01:53makita yung,
01:54di ba,
01:55yung remains.
01:56Lalo na kung ganun yung
01:57cause of death.
01:58So,
01:58yun.
01:59So,
01:59todo alalay lang talaga ako
02:01sa mother ko noon.
02:02Todo alalay.
02:02So,
02:02we had a mini-wake
02:04sa Cebu.
02:05Tapos,
02:05the following day,
02:06uwi na namin sa Manila.
02:08Tapos,
02:08dito na kami nagtuloy-tuloy na wake.
02:10So,
02:10siyempre,
02:10nandun yung
02:11pagkalinga mo ng extra.
02:13Yes.
02:14Tapos,
02:15hindi ko lang dinaan sa,
02:16oh,
02:16labas tayo,
02:17kain tayo.
02:17Hindi ko lang dinaan sa aliyo.
02:19Pero,
02:19trinay ko rin na idaan sa
02:21pagkinig.
02:24Pagkinig sa kanya.
02:25Giving her extra time.
02:27Tapos,
02:27dumating din ang point na
02:29bumisita din kami sa
02:30parang
02:31psychiatrist for
02:33elderly people.
02:34Parang geriatric
02:34psychiatrist din yung tawag doon.
02:36Kasi,
02:36inaantabayan na namin yung
02:37depression.
02:38Magbuti,
02:39wala siyang resistance
02:40na pumunta sa isang psychiatrist?
02:42Nung time na yun,
02:43parang wala naman.
02:44Parang,
02:45she's also trying naman
02:46in her own way
02:47to cope.
02:48Ano naman ang tawa moment mo?
02:50Marami,
02:51syempre.
02:52Marami naman.
02:53Pero,
02:53para sa akin,
02:54nandun,
02:54I think for me na
02:55alam ko,
02:56even,
02:57so,
02:57after my brother,
02:58my mother naman.
02:59So,
03:00especially during her last days,
03:01na,
03:02naalagaan ko naman siya.
03:03So,
03:04very,
03:04ano,
03:04ka-complete ka feeling ko?
03:06Oo,
03:06ditsaka yung,
03:07ano,
03:07yung,
03:07feeling mo na,
03:10nandun ka lang
03:10para makinig,
03:12hindi para
03:13manghusga,
03:14or hindi parang
03:15ipilit yung gusto mo,
03:16or ipilit yung gusto
03:17ng karamihan na
03:18ito yung
03:19magandang mangyari
03:20para sa kanya.
03:22Walang ganon.
03:23So,
03:23it takes wisdom
03:24to be able to think like that.
03:25Yes,
03:25totoo yun.
03:26So,
03:27ako naman,
03:27feeling ko,
03:27I was blessed na,
03:28I was already quite mature
03:29when it happened to me.
03:31Yun din isa siguro na parang,
03:33ah,
03:33okay naman pala parang,
03:35tapos kaya ngayon,
03:36so,
03:36balay yung father ko,
03:371997,
03:39then my brother,
03:392011,
03:40then my mom,
03:412013,
03:42tapos isa ko naman kuya,
03:43nasa Canada.
03:43So,
03:44ako nalang balay,
03:45mag-isa.
03:46So,
03:46but in a way,
03:47parang there's so much freedom
03:48kasi,
03:49nagagawa mo na talaga
03:50yung gusto mo,
03:51nasa-share mo na talaga
03:53yung hindi mo na kailangan
03:54magpaalam ng,
03:56ano,
03:56hindi mo na rin iniisip na
03:57baka may masaktan,
03:59baka may masabi.
04:00Syempre,
04:00ganon tayo sa pamilya natin,
04:01di ba?
04:02Ano kaya sasabihin nila,
04:03masasaktan kaya sila.
04:04So,
04:05parang for me now,
04:05there's that much freedom
04:07for me to share
04:08whatever I have left.
04:09Yes,
04:10yes.
04:11Ayun.
04:11Oh,
04:11nice.
04:12Thank you for sharing.
04:13Oye,
04:13salamat din niyo.