Aired (April 11, 2025): Pagdating sa purposive communication ay magaling si Matchmate Sam, pero kapag sa totoong komunikasyon, isa raw siyang ghoster. Alamin ang kanyang rason.
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00:00Your best friend has been flexing to the people here that you are very good in English.
00:06In fact, you're a dean's lister and you got a perfect score in a purposive communication.
00:12Yes.
00:13Right?
00:13Right.
00:14What do you think is the essence of communication in the advancement of the society nowadays?
00:18Oh.
00:19Wow.
00:21Oral exams.
00:23That's a very good question.
00:24Okay, I think communication is something that can build relationships and also solve problems.
00:35But the problem is when it comes to real communication in real life, I ghost people.
00:43Oh, okay.
00:44I want to deal with that.
00:46Okay.
00:47Let's talk about that.
00:48Let's talk about that.
00:49The last thing that she told us.
00:51About a ghost thing?
00:51It's very good communication in school.
00:53Yeah.
00:53Specifically, purpose of communication.
00:55She got the highest score there.
00:56She got perfect four, right?
00:57Four, yeah.
00:58But when it comes to relationships and dealing with real people, she ghosts people.
01:05What does that mean?
01:07Thank you very much.
01:08I don't have to say that.
01:10I don't have to say that.
01:11What did she mean when she said, she ghosts people?
01:15I think, iniiwasan niya lang po yung drama.
01:20Like, if meron guys siya nakausap and...
01:25I don't know.
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01:30Actually, ganun talaga sila.
01:31Diba?
01:32Si Sam, medyo ano rin eh.
01:34Yeah.
01:34So, magaling siya.
01:35Kasi magaling siya sa communication na subject.
01:38Mm-mm.
01:39Pero sa totoong komunikasyon sa kapwa, hindi siya ganun kahusay sa komunikasyon.
01:44Kasi, nangiiwan siya sa area.
01:46Diba ganun yun ang go-ghost?
01:47Ah, o.
01:47Yung iniwan ka sa area, nang walang pakikausap, pakikipag-usap, at pagpapaalam.
01:51Yes.
01:52Biglang naglalaho.
01:52Diba?
01:53Eh, kasama sa komunikasyon, ang sapat na pakikipag-usap at pagpapaalam sa sandaling ikaw ay lilisan.
01:59Ay, yeah.
02:00Diba?
02:00Baka-importante nun.
02:02Oo, oo.
02:02Diba?
02:03Kailangan mong makapagbigay ng sapat na mensahe at kapaliwanagan sa sandaling ikaw ay lilisan.
02:08Banda lang, iyong paglisan ay maaaring magdulot ng sugat, sakit, hapdi, at pilat sa puso at kaluluwa ng sino mang maiiwan ng kanyang minamahal.
02:19Ah, kaluluwa.
02:20Oo, oo, tama.
02:22Oh my God.
02:23Ano? Wala?
02:23Kasi nga ayaw mag-confront.
02:25Kaya hindi niya masabi.
02:27Oh.
02:28But as a friend, do you think that's...
02:31Right?
02:32Yeah.
02:32I don't think it's right.
02:33Pero, um, I know na she can improve it naman.
02:37She can change it.
02:38Kapag, I think yung mga nakausap lang niya in the past, kasi never pa rin po kasi siya naligawan.
02:45So, wala siya excuse.
02:47Kasi yung mga ginaghost niya.
02:47Ay, sabi, kahit mga friends, pwede mong ighost na.
02:49Oh, yeah.
02:50When you think you're, I'm over and done with this friendship, with this chat group, with this, you know, I gotta go.
02:58Bye.
02:59Gotta go.
03:00Yeah.
03:00She gotta go.
03:01Ikaw ba, ganun ka din?
03:02No.
03:03So, napag-uusapan niyo ba yan?
03:05Gusto mo yung may sandala na upo?
03:07Sorry.
03:07Hindi, actually, hindi ako komportable din dito.
03:10Ako din.
03:10Kaya, ang gata ng suit niya, pero unti-unti, kasi walang sandala.
03:14Ganito talaga sa bar, di ba yung mga bar schools?
03:16Wala talagang backrest.
03:18It's a struggle.
03:19It's okay.
03:19Later we go to the library, it's more comfortable there.
03:24Ganito sa bar, walang tatakim.
03:26Oo, ganyan talaga.
03:27Hindi pwede.
03:27So, sino mga gina-ghost niya?
03:30Yung mga nakausap niya lang po, na hindi naman po dumating sa port na niligawan siya,
03:35pero di niya po kasi alam paano i-deal, parang paano umalis dun sa situation.
03:41Pag hindi na siya komportable?
03:42Opo, parang gano'n.
03:43Parang ayaw niya na, hindi niya lang masabi?
03:45Yes.
03:46O, bakit hindi mo gamitin ang mga napag-aralan mo sa purpose of communication?
03:50Sa pagbibigay ng damdamin mo sa mga tao, kung nangyari hindi ka na komportable,
03:54ayaw ko na, pakipakiwari ko'y wala nang kinabukasan naman ng usapan na ito.
03:58Itigil na natin, hindi naman tayo nagkiklik.
04:00Why is that so sad?
04:03Ako po kasi, pagka kunwari may kausap ako na guy,
04:07tapos, kunwari, nag-uusap kami,
04:10tapos, three days pa lang, ha, magsasabi siya,
04:14oh, ba't di ka kumakain? Nagagalit ako.
04:17Ayaw ko, so na, may ick, parang ayaw-ayaw ko to.
04:20May ano? May ick.
04:22May ick.
04:23So, ayun po, igungkos.
04:25Oo, sabi kasi tik-tik ang tawag siya.
04:27Bakit?
04:28Ick, ick, ick, ick, ick.
04:30So, ginagalit yung mga yero.
04:31Ick, ick.
04:33Oo.
04:34Masyado ng feeling close, three days pa lang.
04:37Cringy, kung baga.
04:39Oo, nakakadiri.
04:41Pero yung may iba kasi, di ba,
04:43hindi naman talaga nila minimin, nagpapakute lang.
04:46Oo, di ko nagsabi sa akin, ha.
04:49Ba't rin ba kung di ako nakatulog?
04:50Oo, mayroon ganun naman.
04:52Di ba, nagpapakit, nagpapakit lang.
04:54Pero mayroon din naman talaga ang aggressive, wow, jowa.
04:57Oo.
04:58Ganun.
04:59Yes, ko ba.
04:59So, pag ikaw yung girl now,
05:02pag na-turn off ka,
05:05you turn your back.
05:06Opo.
05:06Di mo na sinasabi na,
05:07ay, iyo ko na.
05:09Hindi ka nagpapaano.
05:10Hindi na po.
05:11Kunwari, chat yun sa Instagram or Messenger,
05:13hindi ko na po i-review.
05:15Tapos, pag nag-double chat,
05:16hindi ko na din po i-review.
05:19So, doon na, nag-end.
05:20Tapos, i-unfollow ko na mga next week.
05:23Oo.
05:24Oo, nang walang sabi-sabi.
05:25Wala po.
05:26Okay ka sa ganung ano,
05:28sa ganung ganap?
05:31Busy po kasi ako.
05:33Kunwari, may school, finals,
05:34wala na po akong time mag-explain.
05:37So, kunwari, pag nakita na kami,
05:38Pero may time ka bakit pag-chikahan pag-bet mo.
05:40Pero pa kaya mo na,
05:41wala akong time mag-explain.
05:43Yes, feelin mo mo yung feelings nila.
05:47Ayaw niya siguro mo naman masyadong aggressive.
05:50Nagay.
05:51Ayaw niya masyadong?
05:53Aggressive.
05:53Yung parang,
05:55parang feeling agad na ganun.
05:56Pati una.
05:57Kasi po, never pa po talaga siya nagka-boyfriend and ligaw.
06:01So, parang, kapag nakaka-experience siya ng,
06:04nag-uusap pa lang,
06:05ganyan na umas na parang.
06:06Hmm, yun.
06:07Hmm.
06:13women.
06:15Hmm.
06:33Hmm.