90 Day The Last Resort Between The Sheets Season 1 Episode 17
90 Day The Last Resort Between The Sheets Season 1 Episode 17
90 Day The Last Resort Between The Sheets Season 1 Episode 17
90 Day The Last Resort Between The Sheets Season 1 Episode 17
90 Day The Last Resort Between The Sheets Season 1 Episode 17
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00:00When I met Ari, I was like, mm, she's so tiny.
00:03Like, mm, look at the tiny bitch she has.
00:05I wanted to, like, smash it.
00:13Next up is a bonus scene.
00:14OK, let's see.
00:16No, I definitely remember this.
00:23I didn't kick her out, man.
00:24You got the story wrong, bitch.
00:26Who are you telling, bitch?
00:27Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
00:30That night, she come to my room.
00:32Did you talk to her?
00:33I think Gino regret everything what's
00:36in that lady's glasses, bro.
00:38I think Gino regrets that whole relationship.
00:44It just feels like we aren't really getting anywhere there.
00:47Like, I don't really feel any different towards Rob.
00:50I'd ask Sophie blatantly, do you want to see us work out?
00:53And I could not get a clear answer.
00:55Sophie just played, like, just keep trying, Rob.
00:57If you do the right thing, we'll get there.
00:59And she just never let anything I did be the right thing.
01:05Jasmine, I'll see you when you get back to Michigan.
01:07OK, to work out.
01:09No, to not work out.
01:11To have sex.
01:13I was like, wow, this is a point of no return.
01:17Like, this is actually happening.
01:18I will have to have sex with another man that
01:21is not my husband.
01:23I don't know if I'm going to be able to do this.
01:29We are approaching our 10-year mark.
01:32At times, a part of me feels it's time to let you go.
01:38I was floored.
01:40Like, this was nothing in my mind that would have happened.
01:44Even though who you marry is not your dream man.
01:50Oh my god, that's so sad.
01:50I can't watch this.
01:53You was happy with him.
01:55I'm like, wow, like, I need to treat myself better.
01:59I need to have more love for myself.
02:00I deserve happiness.
02:02It just seems like such a simple thing,
02:03but it was so big to me.
02:16The blonde bombshells are ready for the last episode.
02:20Let's do it.
02:23For the last time.
02:25I'm going to cry.
02:27You're going to cry?
02:27Why?
02:28This is the last film.
02:30OK, Jasmine, we are going to start off
02:32by watching the scene where you and Gino called Matt.
02:36Oh god, this.
02:37This.
02:57OK.
03:08Like, this is actually happening.
03:10Oh my gosh, I will have to have sex with another man
03:14that is not my husband.
03:15Like, it started to feel more real, and I was panicking.
03:22I was checking out.
03:23I was like, I don't know if I'm going to be able to do this.
03:34Matt, can you hear me?
03:36Yeah, I can hear you.
03:37Can you hear me?
03:43I had a lot of pressure from Jasmine to choose Matt.
03:46And, you know, I was thinking at that moment,
03:49like, maybe it's better if she's with a person
03:53that she kind of knows.
03:54I wouldn't want Jasmine seeing random people, you know?
03:59Because that's, to me, that's not very safe, you know?
04:02I mean, she can run into the wrong person,
04:06and you'll never come back.
04:09Let's say she's, you know, starting to fall in love
04:13or get this really strong bond with you.
04:16Jasmine and I agreed that at that point,
04:18we would have to end this.
04:20But when I don't see that she is taken care of the way
04:24she should be, it's kind of heartbreaking
04:27because she has a good heart.
04:29To have him talk to you that way about your wife,
04:35wild.
04:36I mean, that's crazy.
04:39I'd rather just leave that between her and I.
04:46If that guy would have spoken to me about my wife
04:50the way that he spoke to you, I know what Jasmine needs.
04:53I would have slapped the shit out of him.
04:55I'm sorry.
04:56I would have slapped the shit out of him.
04:58Yeah, and I feel bad that I didn't react
05:01differently at the time.
05:02I just had a lot in my mind.
05:05That's something I should have been a red flag to me.
05:08Well, I mean, you're living in a sea of red flags, but yeah.
05:16It's like, dude, you're like, there's
05:18an island of red flags, and then there's
05:21like this beautiful world, and you're on a sailboat,
05:24and you're like, oh, the one with all the red flags
05:26looks really nice.
05:27Yeah.
05:30Well, I think I got all the information I needed
05:32through this first conversation.
05:35So does it mean that you are OK with Matt
05:38be the person that we are going to bring up
05:40into our open marriage, or you have to think about it?
05:45I just think that Gino will pretty much go along
05:49with anything to keep Jasmine from leaving him.
05:53I don't know Matt that well.
05:55But from this moment, I'm OK with it at this moment.
06:01I don't think Gino has got any control over what's
06:03happening in his relationship.
06:05I mean, the guy didn't want his wife to use sex toys.
06:09If you didn't want her to use toys,
06:10then having sex with an actual person is way worse.
06:14Yeah, right.
06:15He might have the c**saurus, you don't know.
06:17And then you, like, and not only is she using c**saurus,
06:20but she got somebody who knows how to use his c**saurus,
06:24and he's been using his c**saurus.
06:25And now he's going to use it on your girl.
06:27Like, bruh, you should definitely let her have a toy.
06:32Jasmine, I'll see you when you get back to Michigan.
06:36OK.
06:38To work out.
06:40No, to not work out.
06:43Oh.
06:43She feels guilty.
06:44I told you I don't want a friendship.
06:47OK.
06:49OK, to have sex then.
06:52There's feelings there.
06:54Like, you can see it.
06:54That's so bad.
06:56I feel bad for Gia, because it's like,
06:58if it is he doesn't want to lose her so bad
07:01that he's willing to do that, then that's really f**king sad.
07:04I mean, if I cannot take these blue pills in just one time,
07:07just give her what's on.
07:08Maybe they should stop working.
07:09This could be true.
07:11Maybe they don't work anymore.
07:12That's so sad.
07:13If the blue pills stop working, and that's the real reason,
07:16then that's really sad because he can't.
07:20Can I hug you?
07:22I don't know.
07:23Remember what Reva said to reconnect.
07:26Give me a hug.
07:28I am very tense.
07:29It was very uncomfortable for me.
07:36When you're going to open up a relationship or your marriage,
07:39you have to make sure your person and you
07:42are 100% in agreement.
07:45And by listening to that conversation,
07:48there was, they're not on the same page.
07:50It appears that Jasmine not only is emotionally connected,
07:55but already wants to be sexually connected.
07:58And I think they said their rule was you can't have
08:01feelings for this person.
08:03Rule number one was broken before rule number one
08:06was made.
08:07Next up, we're going to watch the last night when you guys
08:10went out before the recommitment ceremony.
08:12And Gino, this is when you and Jasmine arrived at the bar.
08:15I wasn't there.
08:17OK.
08:18Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
08:22We ended up calling Matt the person
08:26that Jasmine picked for the open relationship.
08:30Oh.
08:30I told him that, hey, we can't, you guys can't
08:33have such a good friendship, OK?
08:35I told him, and it's going to be in the rules.
08:36I do not believe that you will not
08:38have feelings for him if you start a relationship with him.
08:43I hate that face he makes.
08:46He was so sad.
08:47How do you even do that?
08:53She's already known this guy.
08:55She's already talking to this guy.
08:56He knows too much about your relationship,
08:58and he's already telling her what's wrong with you.
09:03I kind of agree with you, Rob.
09:17We're trying to reconnect.
09:19So I was happy.
09:21I go to the bar, and there are all these bitches
09:25with no exception, OK?
09:28Snakes, traitors.
09:31Name some of the bitches.
09:32All of them, Rob, Sophie, Stacy, the only one I take away,
09:37believe it or not, Florian, and Julia.
09:40Julia was quiet, and Brandon was a lamp, part of the decoration.
09:46I feel like Matt already has feelings for you,
09:52and it's a little too late.
09:57I actually saw the smile and happiness
10:01like I've never seen in you.
10:03I mean, Stacy is normally like Switzerland, like, you know?
10:06Like, she listens to both sides.
10:08But for this time, like, for her to come out and say,
10:11you know what, Jasmine, you actually
10:13do have an emotional connection with this man,
10:15and it's not right.
10:17That was powerful.
10:18At that moment, it clicked in my head.
10:20You know what?
10:22They're right.
10:23That's why I agree with Stacy and Rob,
10:24and I said it can't be Matt in that moment.
10:27For me, it cannot be a random person.
10:29OK, this guy over the bar, come to the open marriage.
10:33It has to be someone that I trust.
10:37Don't let her play that.
10:38Don't let her play that.
10:42Run, Jasmine.
10:43Jasmine, run, baby girl.
10:45I can build trust with another person,
10:48but I would have to start the process all over again.
10:50And that should happen.
10:54OK, this is why polyamorous people,
10:57ethical non-monogamous people should
10:58have their own friends, right?
11:00They should have friends who are in the lifestyle,
11:02who can support them, who can give them real healthy advice.
11:05This idea of like, oh, well, he can't catch feelings,
11:08they can't catch feelings, they can't have a friendship
11:11is ridiculous.
11:13Absolutely ridiculous.
11:15Most people, women especially, require trust
11:20in order to have sex, in order to have intimacy in that way.
11:23And it takes a long time to build trust.
11:26And it seems like over these past sexless nine months,
11:30Jasmine has been building trust with Matt,
11:33which is a good thing.
11:36But this idea that she just goes out on the street
11:37and finds some random person says a lot about what they
11:41think about Jasmine as well.
11:54Uh-oh.
12:12Yeah.
12:29She can dish it, but she can't take it.
12:31No, she cannot take it.
12:39Oh, shit.
12:40This is the moment everyone turned on Jasmine.
12:43If I can hold on to nine months without needing
12:45to f*** somebody else, I think you could too.
12:47F*** you.
12:48F*** everybody.
12:50Watching it back, I can see, like,
12:54how everybody kind of came on a little aggressive at her.
12:56And I can see why she reacted the way she did.
12:58Because if I had just come in to meet the group,
13:01and I had just had a conversation with a therapist
13:04and with Julia, and we agreed we're
13:06going to hold off the parents, we're going to have this baby,
13:09and all of them were like, well, what do you mean?
13:11No, no, no, no.
13:12You need to bring her parents here.
13:14You need to not have this child.
13:15I would freak out too.
13:16I would completely understand where she's coming from,
13:19you know?
13:30Jasmine wasn't with me for Christmas.
13:31You kicked her out for Christmas.
13:33I didn't f***ing kick her out, man.
13:35You got the straight wrong bitch.
13:39What are you telling bitch?
13:40No, I'm telling you.
13:43Guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys, guys.
13:46Shut the f*** up, you stupid daddy.
13:49I'm not going to take your s***.
13:50You became the Hulk.
13:54Gino wanted to let out his rage,
13:56but Florian was not the right target.
13:58It wasn't anything about me wanting to fight Florian.
14:01It's just hearing, just have sex with Jasmine.
14:03That's what set me off.
14:05I'm not going to f***ing take your s***, Dan.
14:07You should f***ing f*** him up, my son of a b***h.
14:09I'm not going to take your s***, Florian.
14:10Gino's going through some s*** right now, all right?
14:13Boy, Gino was fighting him off, boy.
14:15I didn't know he was fighting him off like that.
14:23Don't leave it to me, Gino.
14:24Good morning.
14:25You're going to think different.
14:26You don't understand the f***ing problem.
14:28That's the problem.
14:29Yes.
14:30That night, he's come to my room,
14:32knocking on my door and calling my phone.
14:34After the fight?
14:35After the fight, yes.
14:36He almost got into it?
14:36Yeah.
14:37Did you talk to him?
14:38Yeah.
14:39What did he say?
14:39You're my brother.
14:41I love you.
14:42Let's smoke cigarettes together.
14:44Like, I feel sad for him.
14:46And like, he's 55 years old.
14:48And like, I think he's getting angry.
14:50And like, he's thinking, I'm doing s***.
14:52Stop what I'm doing.
14:54You know my point?
14:55Yeah, I think he was.
14:56That's what I was telling you.
14:56I think he's really going through s***.
14:58I think Gino regrets everything
15:01what's in that last resort.
15:03I think Gino regrets that whole relationship.
15:10This is one chosen for Gino.
15:12This Gino, what I'm teaching you, this is...
15:25Let's go, Gino.
15:26I got you, my brother.
15:28All right, Sophie.
15:29Now you're going to watch some never-before-seen footage.
15:32This is your therapy session with Heidi.
15:34OK, let's see.
15:44So I wanted to check in with you today
15:47about where you're at and what's going on.
15:50I think since the session we had with just me and Rob,
15:54we haven't really argued and we've been doing well.
15:56But that's also because, like, you said, like,
15:58we shouldn't bring up the past, which is great.
16:00Like, when we don't bring up the past,
16:02we really don't argue and we do get along.
16:05But it just feels kind of like we aren't really
16:08getting anywhere, though.
16:09Like, I don't really feel any different towards Rob.
16:13Rob and I wasn't fighting because I was deliberately
16:16withholding my feelings.
16:17Because every time me and Rob would argue,
16:19it stems from I voice something about how I feel
16:24and he would take it as I'm attacking him
16:26because he doesn't do enough or he's not good enough.
16:28And yeah, that made me realise, like, oh, OK, it's like,
16:30we're getting along because I'm withholding things
16:34that I want and my needs and my feelings.
16:36It shouldn't be like that.
16:37Like, I should be able to speak about how I feel
16:39and what I want and it just be validated rather
16:42than it's a huge argument.
16:44I, it's like I do love him and I care about him so much.
16:47It's like every time I think about, OK, like,
16:49maybe this isn't what I want, it's
16:51like I think about him having a life without me and I just.
16:54He's your person.
16:55I don't, I don't know.
16:57It's just we have good times together and I can be,
17:00there's happy moments there.
17:01And then I think about the happy moments
17:03and it's like I don't want them to go.
17:05I'd ask Sophie blatantly, do you want to see us work out?
17:09And I could not get a clear answer.
17:10All I ever wanted was for Sophie to give me clarity
17:14on what the hell was what.
17:15Sophie never did that.
17:17She never even did that.
17:18Sophie just played like, just keep trying, Rob.
17:21Just keep trying and maybe, maybe we'll get there.
17:24If you do the right thing, we'll get there.
17:26If you do the right thing, we'll get there.
17:27And she just never let anything I did be the right thing.
17:29Sophie, I want you to write a letter
17:32to the little younger Sophie and guide her to where you are.
17:37Like, here's what you're going to face.
17:39Stay away from this.
17:40And kind of giving insight to how life is going to be.
17:44I think that Sophie wants to pick herself
17:47but has never picked herself.
17:49One thing is, is that she's had a lot of trauma in her life.
17:53She's dealt with a parent who had an addiction.
17:56And a lot of times, there's this feeling
18:00of shame attached to that.
18:02So with Sophie, I knew that she needed to get
18:05in touch with her inner child.
18:07Her writing this letter was imperative.
18:10Like, what advice would she give herself
18:13with where she is today?
18:15And I think that starts to put things into perspective.
18:17And I knew that this would give her some clarity.
18:20Uh, Brandon, you are now going to get to watch
18:22your picnic with Julia.
18:24Oh.
18:25You and Julia had a picnic?
18:28Yeah, right before the recommitment ceremony.
18:31This is the day of the recommitment ceremony?
18:33Mm-hmm, yeah.
18:34Wow.
18:35Damn.
18:36I didn't see Sophie the whole morning of, like, that whole day
18:38until the recommitment ceremony.
18:42Yeah, our therapy is all done.
18:44How are you feeling about all of it?
18:47Yeah.
18:52Julia's always so much risk, you know?
18:55She doesn't plan things.
18:56She doesn't think things through.
18:57And I have left to be the one to do that, carefully plan.
19:02Um, Molly's mom, she throws caution to the wind.
19:05And I feel like this was a risky move for our family.
19:09And I don't want to be the one to do that.
19:11I don't want to be the one to do that.
19:13I feel like this was a risky move for our family.
19:16And I was just trying to make the best decision for us.
19:18That's all it was.
19:19She was ready to risk it all.
19:21Exactly, right?
19:22Yeah.
19:24You know, maybe if you had told me when you first filed,
19:28we could have talked about this.
19:29And I could have come up with something.
19:31If you decide you're not going to help me with my parents,
19:35don't show up.
19:38Oh.
19:39Don't come to this ceremony.
19:44Think about that.
19:51I am floored and blown away, to say the least,
19:54at the fact that she gave him an ultimatum.
19:56Because I have watched this couple
19:59from the beginning to the end.
20:00I have worked with them from the beginning to the end.
20:03There was no need for an ultimatum.
20:05And I feel like she could regret that at some point.
20:08Because she might be like, did he
20:10choose to stay with me because I gave an ultimatum?
20:13I'll never know.
20:20All right, guys.
20:21It is game time.
20:23Woo!
20:25This is called, Who Said It?
20:28In that fishbowl, there are quotes that each of you
20:32have said while you're at the retreat.
20:35You will read the quotes, and give your best impression
20:39of them.
20:40And you have to guess who said it.
20:43Got it.
20:44Got it.
20:50Can I have my wine?
20:51If you're going to insult me, at least I'm going to be drunk.
20:57You're just like your Natalie and Josh.
21:03Actually, that's a good accent.
21:05I know.
21:08Those pills gave me a great orgasm.
21:11I'll take them by myself if I have to.
21:14I mean, that does sound like Gino.
21:16It's because it is Gino.
21:17That does sound like Gino.
21:19I like that.
21:20I'll take them by myself if I have to.
21:22Taking myself if I have to.
21:27Chihuahua, you want a treat?
21:29You want a treat?
21:33You want a treat, Florian?
21:36OK.
21:37Oh, that angry man.
21:39Yeah.
21:41It's not about you right now.
21:43It's about everybody.
21:46Everybody.
21:48Look at me.
21:49Look at me.
21:50It's not about you right now.
21:53This is not about you right now.
21:55This is about everybody.
21:59Look at me.
22:01Julia?
22:01Yes.
22:03Oof.
22:05It's not about you right now.
22:10Ready?
22:11Yeah.
22:12I want to be free.
22:15I want to be free.
22:19I want to be free.
22:24I want to be free.
22:27Oh my god, that was me.
22:29Really?
22:30Let me see.
22:30I want to be free.
22:34Wow, that one's too easy.
22:36Stacey.
22:38There you go.
22:39There you go.
22:40Stacey.
22:44It kept going.
22:45It just kept going.
22:46OK.
22:47Yeah, that was definitely Stacey.
22:50All right, Sophie.
22:51Next, we're going to watch your recommitment ceremony
22:53with Rob.
22:58OK, yeah.
22:59Let's get over it.
23:00OK, all right.
23:01Just go ahead.
23:04OK.
23:09Mine is kind of different because I wrote, like,
23:13a letter to my younger self.
23:14So I have anxiety, but I'm going to read it, OK?
23:19Dear younger Sophie, you are now more confident,
23:22you finally have friends, and even end up getting married.
23:28Oh my god, that's so sad.
23:30Even though I don't want to watch it.
23:35Ah.
23:38Will you marry?
23:40It's not your dream, man.
23:46You was happy with him for a few years
23:51and will always love and care for him.
24:00Can you tell me about how you're feeling?
24:09Watching that moment was definitely difficult
24:11because I could, like, feel the emotions
24:14that I was feeling in that time.
24:15And I just was, like, so anxious and upset and just—
24:20I'm proud of myself, though, because it
24:22was the right thing to do.
24:24Like, imagining young me, it's like, you know, a kid.
24:28It's like, oh, like, you know, they deserve love.
24:30They deserve care and kindness and, you know,
24:33to have their feelings heard.
24:35And it's like, that's still me.
24:37That's just older me.
24:38And it's like, oh, like, I deserve all those things, too.
24:41It just seems like such a simple thing.
24:42But it was so big to me because I'm like, wow,
24:44like, I need to treat myself better.
24:46I need to have more love for myself.
24:48I need to really, like— I deserve happiness.
24:51And it was like, yeah, just thinking about it from that,
24:54it's like, OK, I do love me because younger
24:57me is me.
25:03Well, I think that's pretty much it, then, huh?
25:07I would like to bestow her with what you are.
25:14No.
25:19What I wrote doesn't matter.
25:23Did she come to your room, or did you see her at the resort
25:28I came to her room because I had to pick up some stuff.
25:31I needed to pick up some of my clothes.
25:32And she's crying, trying to hug me.
25:34And I'm, like, literally standing in a corner with a chair
25:36between me and her because I'm like, don't touch me.
25:37She's like, I didn't mean it.
25:39You broke up with me at the end of Happily Ever After.
25:44I felt like she used me.
25:46Like, I felt like my only purpose in Sophie's life
25:49was to help her realize that she had childhood drama
25:53And then, literally, in her leaving me,
25:58she's going to go fix that.
26:00So it made me feel very, like, used up.
26:04And just, like, I'm the punching bag.
26:06Like, I'm just here for you to get all that frustration
26:09and all that pain and trauma out.
26:11And then you can leave the gym and go
26:15be that better version of yourself for somebody else.
26:24He's not happy.
26:26Neither am I.
26:28I know that.
26:29And I wanted both to be happy.
26:32I was cheering up because I was so fucking happy.
26:36They were getting divorced.
26:37Tell me how you really felt.
26:38I never hated anyone like him.
26:46Yeah.
26:50I think it was sort of selfish of Rob
26:52to deny reading Sophie the letter
26:54because she could have gotten some closure
26:56and understanding of where he was at emotionally with her,
26:59even if he wasn't going to recommit or if he was, you know?
27:02So I think that was just him, you know, being spiteful
27:05and being like, oh, well, you just laid your emotions out
27:07for me, but I'm not doing the same for you.
27:09Bye.
27:10So basically, he was a bitch from beginning to end.
27:13That's a closure.
27:15Rob, then up.
27:16Your wife rejected you.
27:19She put you where you belong, the trash.
27:22If you were putting all the energy
27:25that you were putting into sabotaging my marriage with Gina
27:28and putting stupid ideas in my husband's mind,
27:31taking care of your woman, maybe she
27:33has recommitted to you, baby.
27:40I remember.
27:40Can I tell you something?
27:41Can I?
27:42Just the last thing.
27:43When I met Ari, I was like, mm, she's so tiny.
27:46Like, mm, look at the tiny bitch she has.
27:48I wanted to, like, smash it.
27:50Like, you're so tiny.
27:51And then I was like, wow, these all, these fit on my arm
27:54like a champ.
27:55Ah!
27:57OK, we are now going to watch the recommitment ceremony,
28:00and we are going to watch Stacey and Florian.
28:02Ah!
28:04Uh-oh.
28:04Not that I'd like to see it.
28:10I know right now, I think, to be honest,
28:12that's what comes from my heart right now.
28:16I'm no, like, fan therapist.
28:19Oh, we know that, Florian.
28:21You actually helped me so much.
28:24You're my everything in my life, and I'm sorry for everything.
28:28I love you.
28:30Florian was there.
28:32He tried speaking from the heart as best as he could.
28:36Would it have been nice for Florian to share more?
28:39Yeah, it would have been nice.
28:40But let's go back to the person that
28:42has trouble emoting and being vulnerable
28:44and sharing and speaking from that softer place
28:47and connecting with Stacey.
28:49So to me, this was a baby step.
28:53We are approaching our 10-year mark.
28:56I'm getting older and wiser.
29:00At times, a part of me feels it's time to let you go.
29:07Oh.
29:15Oh.
29:23I'm sorry for all the bad times and all the negativity,
29:32but I'm not going to leave you.
29:36I really felt she was ending this marriage,
29:39and I was floored.
29:41I was floored.
29:41Like, this was nothing in my mind that would have happened.
29:44But I think she got some things out that she needed to say.
29:47Unfortunately, it probably fell on deaf ears.
29:52Florian's young, and I don't know right now
29:56if he's going to change, but he has
29:57the capabilities of change.
30:00You know, as they grow and develop
30:02more and more into their marriage,
30:03he may start to make some different changes.
30:06But right now, I think he's OK with where he's at.
30:09I think he likes how his life is, just the way it is.
30:13If we recommit, you need to agree to respect boundaries.
30:20Do you still hang out with Darcy as much as you used to?
30:22No.
30:23No more, to be honest.
30:24I don't hang out no more with her.
30:25Oh, word.
30:26No, no, no, no more.
30:27No more, no.
30:28But keep calling my phone.
30:29That I know.
30:30She's still trying to get you to go out, though.
30:32She's going to go out.
30:33Like, with some friends one night, she called me.
30:35She told me, where are you?
30:36I tell her, with some friends.
30:37Oh, I can come.
30:38I tell her, no, no, no.
30:39Stay home.
30:40Stay home, please.
30:40No, no, no, no.
30:41Later, later.
30:43The table is full.
30:43No can accept nobody no more.
30:45Man.
30:46Hey.
30:46Yeah.
30:47That's called burning a bridge.
30:48Yep.
30:51And I promise to you to listen more and talk less.
30:57Now let's go live our best life.
30:59Te Dua.
31:01Love you.
31:02I love you.
31:03Oh.
31:04I feel like with Florian, he has it in him to change,
31:07but it's not going to happen overnight.
31:09When I said my speech, I wanted to let him know, like,
31:12I'm committing to us.
31:13You know, I didn't want to throw everything away.
31:16And I feel like a lot of these other couples,
31:18they were giving each other, like, ultimatums, you know?
31:21And I just felt like I wasn't going
31:24to throw away 10 years together.
31:27I meant every word I said.
31:29And I really felt like he spoke from his heart, you know?
31:33And I felt the love.
31:37So I'm excited for what our future holds.
31:41OK, the next clip we're going to watch
31:43is Gino and Jasmine's recommitment ceremony.
31:45Of course.
31:54I promise you my unconditional love, tenderness,
31:59and undying devotion.
32:02And to love you, comfort you, protect you, and shelter you
32:08all days of my life.
32:11At that moment, just, you know, standing in front of Gino,
32:15I still had no freaking idea if he
32:18was going to recommit or not.
32:20I was like 50 and 50.
32:21I just wanted to confirm to him, to regardless
32:24what his decision was, recommitting to me or not,
32:30I just wanted him to know that I love him.
32:33And when I made that choice to love him,
32:35that would be forever.
32:37Even if I divorce him, even if we didn't end up together,
32:41I will always love him.
32:44I love you very much.
32:45I don't want to lose you.
32:46And I'm willing to do, you know, whatever
32:49it takes, you know, to keep you.
32:52So it means that you are committed
32:55to move forward with our open marriage agreement
33:01and our third person to be Matt?
33:11Yes.
33:12Yes, I'm open to it.
33:32I'm open to it, but we have to have in the rules
33:39that if you and Matt grow too much of a friendship
33:45or it's affecting our marriage, then I want to be
33:49able to avoid the contract.
33:53It's really hard to get couples to examine
33:58the power dynamics at play in their relationship.
34:01And I saw Jasmine and Gino kind of starting to do that.
34:08But when presented with an alternative solution,
34:14instead of really examining, what does this look like?
34:18What could this look like?
34:19Does this feel good to us?
34:20And being honest and transparent with each other
34:22about that, they're like, oh, nope, that's it.
34:25We're doing it.
34:26Let's go.
34:27And while I wanted more representation of what healthy
34:32polyamory, healthy ethical non-monogamy looks like,
34:36this ain't it.
34:38Polyamory and ethical non-monogamy is not a band-aid
34:42for your failing relationship.
34:46Jasmine's face lights up when she hears
34:48I'm agreeing to open marriage.
34:53Hey, I'm home.
34:58After she said all these beautiful words to me
35:00when we were standing there in recommitment ceremony,
35:04I didn't have very too many options.
35:06I just knew that I wanted to still be with her
35:08and I didn't want to end our marriage at this moment.
35:11I want to keep going with her.
35:15Let's recommit to each other and let's see what happens
35:19and let's hope for the best.
35:21But I didn't really think so much about,
35:24oh, my God, when I get home,
35:26she's going to be going to Matt's house to have sex with him.
35:29Am I going to be able to handle it?
35:34I don't know.
35:39Whoa, what the f***?
35:41Okay, gentlemen.
35:43Yes.
35:44In honor of the recommitment ceremony,
35:47we are going to have you two create your very own
35:51last resort wedding cake.
35:53Oh.
35:54That is your cake to decorate.
35:56Okay.
35:57We'll have icing, decorations, do what you like.
36:01Maybe some little hearts, what do you think?
36:02Yes, and broken hearts for the ones that didn't recommit
36:06because they deserve to be honored.
36:08Well, they don't, but we're nice.
36:10I find the donkey good.
36:12Who chicken?
36:14That's Josh.
36:15Josh?
36:16Because all of us chicken walking like this in front of girls.
36:20You should make something representing Sophie.
36:22Sophie?
36:23I mean, could he just not be here?
36:25Okay.
36:27Oh my gosh, what is this?
36:29Whoa, sprinkles.
36:33Yay, so cute.
36:36Make it rain, baby, make it rain.
36:39Sprinkle me.
36:44Sorry.
36:46As you can see, in big bold letters, good luck.
36:49Good luck to everybody.
36:51Yeah.
36:52Yeah, Solveig.
36:54This is me and Stacy.
36:56Oh, you look so handsome.
36:57Look, you look like a vampire.
36:59You look like Twilight.
37:00So this is our last resort cake.
37:02All the animals are like all the couples,
37:05and then everyone has these little army guys
37:07because everyone is like attacking each other.
37:09And this is Jasmine and Gina.
37:10Jasmine are T-Rex and Gina are goose.
37:13And then Matt is the cockroach.
37:17The couples that make it here.
37:20You can see the heart.
37:21The couples that didn't make it continue fighting,
37:24rest in peace.
37:25This was for fireworks because there was good fireworks,
37:28bad fireworks.
37:29Some couples used the sparkles.
37:30Yes, exactly.
37:31They rekindled their sparks.
37:33Why are they laying down?
37:34Because Natalie turned into an alien
37:37and she just starts taking out all the therapists.
37:41Boom, that one didn't work.
37:43Boom, that one didn't work.
37:44Boom, that one didn't work.
37:45And then I finally surrender.
37:47And then I die.
37:51Wow.
37:52Should we eat some cake now?
37:54Yes.
37:55Ready?
37:56One, two, three.
38:01Okay, let's watch the after party
38:03after the recommitment ceremony.
38:05No, I definitely remember this.
38:10Open the champagne.
38:11Open, Gina, open.
38:12Open, Gina, open.
38:13Open, Gina.
38:14Do the honors.
38:18I feel like at the end of the day,
38:20this experience is worth it.
38:22I regret nothing from it.
38:25I would do it over again.
38:26The only thing I might change,
38:27I probably wouldn't call Julia a whore.
38:29That might have been a little far,
38:31so there's that.
38:33But all in all,
38:36I don't regret the experience in any way, you know?
38:39Grab me some, baby.
38:41Your wife's first.
38:42Build this glass up.
38:44Let's party.
38:45Let's cheer for Natalie Vincenzo!
38:48Natalie, go get it, girl!
38:52I will regret one thing.
38:57We didn't have a party at Josh's house.
39:00I really wanted to have a party at his house.
39:02I think it would be a nice ending
39:04and throw a syrup on him.
39:07Cheers!
39:12No more therapy!
39:14No!
39:17I'm really glad we're going to this retreat
39:19because it's really helped another opinion of people
39:22who doesn't have part of your life.
39:25And especially Brandon started opening up more,
39:28and I'm so happy to see.
39:30And, like, after the resort,
39:32I talk still with Sarah.
39:33I like her.
39:34Yeah, I do the same thing with, like, James.
39:36Really?
39:37Yeah.
39:38All the therapists are the same, right?
39:39Yeah, that's what I said.
39:40They're all so good.
39:41Yeah.
39:43Yeah.
39:46Aww.
39:47Yeah.
39:48You guys are the best.
39:50Yes, I'm so happy to be here with you guys.
39:52Well, Jasmine seems very happy.
39:54Cheers.
39:56I feel hopeful and very happy
39:59because we recommitted.
40:01This is very difficult to do,
40:02but I'll do whatever it takes
40:04to have a beautiful relationship
40:07like we've never had before.
40:09Woo!
40:10Yeah!
40:11Yeah!
40:14My ultimate goal for all of this
40:16is that we build our emotional connection back
40:19and, you know, that we can be intimate.
40:24Sorry.
40:28Baby.
40:29Baby.
40:41You OK?
40:42Yeah.
40:45But just watching it back, you know,
40:47I don't know, like...
40:52That was so dumb.
40:53Anyway...
40:56It has been such a hard process.
41:00And...
41:01But we don't want to lose each other,
41:03and we're going to try our best.
41:07That night, I felt, you know, like,
41:09OK, we're finished at the retreat.
41:11It was genuinely like a new beginning.
41:14We are just getting started.
41:17Now it's when it comes,
41:19the most important part of all the therapy.
41:22It was not the therapy itself.
41:25It was to actually put into action
41:28what we learned.
41:29I wanted to save my marriage,
41:31and, well, it was not the idea,
41:33but let's try the open marriage.
41:36It's a new beginning, guys.
41:38New beginning!
41:39Woo!
41:40Adios, amigos!
41:47Oh!
41:52Oh, my gosh. Thank you, everyone.
41:54Goodbye. Farewell.
41:56I don't want to say goodbye.
41:57I don't want to say goodbye.
42:01Well, that's a wrap on Rob.
42:03Goodbye, see you never.
42:08Should we meet again?
42:09Yeah, we should meet again.
42:10Stay tuned.
42:11Thank you for listening our bulls***.
42:14Yeah.
42:18And there's those in need of sex.
42:21Let me show you videos of us naked.
42:23Yeah, let's go.
42:24And have sex in the public.
42:25What?
42:26Do you want to have sex in the bathroom?
42:27No, let's go.
42:28And that's a wrap.
42:31Yes!
42:32And everyone, we can cut.