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00:00The month of Ramadan, the empire of greatness, the cradle of life, the soul of Makkah, Madinah, makes a man.
00:14Yes sir, today we are going to talk about the best way to raise children.
00:18And in a very beautiful way.
00:20When Qibla Mufti Muhammad Akmal Madani Sahib was speaking before the Waqf-e-Jadid,
00:24he shed light on many aspects and there are many reformative aspects which we should listen to without misunderstanding.
00:30We should act upon them.
00:32Certainly, when the scholars speak, if you act upon them, you will see the benefits of them in your life.
00:40One thing that Mufti Sahib said is that we come to take amulets for children.
00:44So the question arises in the mind of a student like me, why don't we come to take amulets for ourselves?
00:48Give us an amulet so that we can understand and learn the matters of religion and then tell our children.
00:55This is also a common aspect.
00:57Allama Ilyas Qudsi Nazari Sahib is present.
00:59What are the aspects in which the upbringing of children is important?
01:04I want people to be aware of this question as well.
01:08In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.
01:10As Mufti Sahib has mentioned, the first thing we should do is to try to educate our children in the matters that are obligatory upon us.
01:20The Khalil of Allah, Hazrat Ibrahim A.S. has prayed that
01:27May Allah make us and our children to be worshippers.
01:31If we become worshippers and become good, our children will become good.
01:35This is the basic thing.
01:37Similarly, when Hazrat Ibrahim A.S. was leaving Hazrat Ismail A.S. and Hazrat Hajra A.S.,
01:43he prayed a lot in the presence of Allah.
01:49O Allah, I am leaving my children.
01:51Then he started praying.
01:55He prayed in that as well.
01:57O Allah, grant them the ability to pray.
01:59O Allah, grant them the ability to pray.
02:06He said, O Allah, they are alone.
02:08Make them like the stars.
02:10Draw the hearts of people.
02:12Then he said, O Allah, grant them sustenance from fruits.
02:15Eat that sustenance and show Your gratitude.
02:18Today, the king of the world is watching.
02:20This is the order.
02:22First of all, the things that are obligatory upon your children.
02:25Similarly, in the Quran, Surah Luqman,
02:28Hakeem Luqman was not a person of wisdom.
02:34But Allah gave him that wisdom,
02:37Allahu Akbar,
02:39that Allah opened his heart.
02:41So, he brought up his son.
02:43Allah mentioned those blessed words in the Quran,
02:46in Surah Luqman.
02:48First of all, he said,
02:50O my son, do not associate anyone with Allah.
02:53He said, this is a great injustice.
02:55What is injustice?
02:57To put something in its wrongful place.
03:00To lower the status of Allah.
03:02To put someone from the creation
03:04equal to Allah.
03:06No.
03:08There is no equal to Allah.
03:10So, first of all, he said,
03:12O my son, do not associate anyone with Allah.
03:15He said, this is a great injustice.
03:18So, first of all, he said,
03:20O my son, do not associate anyone with Allah.
03:24Secondly, he said,
03:26O my son, obey your parents,
03:28be thankful to Allah,
03:30and be thankful to your parents.
03:32And keep this in your mind,
03:35that the power of Allah,
03:38your faith should be firm upon that.
03:48O my son, do not associate anyone with Allah.
03:51There is no equal to Allah.
03:53Whether it is in the mountains,
03:55on the earth, or in the sky.
03:57O my son, first of all,
03:59your faith should be firm upon that.
04:01That Allah will bring him back.
04:03This is the upbringing of a child.
04:05He is being saved from Shirk.
04:07His faith is being firm upon Allah.
04:10How should your faith be firm upon Allah?
04:13After that, he said,
04:16O my son, keep on praying,
04:20and keep on ordering goodness,
04:22and keep on doing good,
04:24and keep on saving people from evil,
04:26and keep on saving yourself as well.
04:28But remember this,
04:29that when you do good,
04:31and order goodness,
04:33then the return will be very harsh.
04:36He said,
04:37you will have to be patient upon this.
04:40This is the work of those who are determined.
04:44After this, in terms of morals,
04:46Hakeem Luqman said to his son,
04:48O my son,
04:49when you live among the public,
04:52do not show arrogance.
04:54There should be no arrogance in your actions.
05:04He said,
05:05do not show your face to people.
05:07They say,
05:08he has shown his face to people.
05:10He said,
05:11do not show your face to people.
05:13He said,
05:14do not show your face to people.
05:16My son,
05:17Allah does not like those who show arrogance.
05:20He does not like those who show arrogance and pride.
05:23In the end,
05:24he said,
05:25O my son,
05:26your life,
05:27your life,
05:28you should keep a balance in it.
05:30In your spending,
05:31in your words,
05:32in your actions,
05:33in everything,
05:34there should be a balance.
05:44See,
05:45the way of the blessings of the Quran.
05:47Yesterday,
05:48we were talking about this.
05:49Today,
05:50the biggest thing,
05:51Allah's blessing,
05:52we have the Quran.
05:53And today,
05:54the world is selling the stories of the world
05:56on the media and social media.
05:57They are selling the stories of grandparents.
05:59The stories of thieves and soldiers are also being sold.
06:01You can imagine.
06:02So,
06:03what kind of moral training will that nation get?
06:05The Quran is there for moral training.
06:07Whether you train your children,
06:09or you train your creation.
06:14So,
06:15O my son,
06:16there should be a balance in your actions,
06:18there should be a balance in your words.
06:20And,
06:21don't think that you have done a great job by making a loud voice.
06:26Hamir and Himar call a donkey.
06:28He said,
06:29a loud voice belongs to a donkey as well.
06:31There should be a balance in your voice,
06:33there should be a balance in your spending.
06:35On the other hand,
06:36for the people of the Lord,
06:37He said,
06:38He said,
06:43The people of the Lord spend neither excessively,
06:46nor miserly.
06:47In fact,
06:48there should be a balance.
06:49This is what Hakeem Luqman said to his son.
06:51Now,
06:52you see,
06:53from your beliefs,
06:54your actions,
06:55your morals,
06:56your society,
06:57everything should be trained.
07:00I say that,
07:01have we ever taught our children to stop?
07:05This is what Hakeem Luqman said.
07:07Has there ever been a Friday Sermon on this?
07:09Except,
07:10the ones given by the scholars.
07:11Otherwise,
07:12there are many other things.
07:13So,
07:14the need for this is that,
07:15we are crying for our children.
07:16Munir Niazi says,
07:21We have destroyed ourselves as well.
07:23And,
07:24today,
07:25Majeed Furqan-e-Hameed,
07:26saved the wealth of those children,
07:28whose fathers had passed away.
07:31And,
07:32he said to Hazrat Khidr,
07:33to repair this wall,
07:34so that,
07:37their father,
07:38Halaal Tayyib,
07:39has left the treasure,
07:40but,
07:41Halaal Tayyib has left.
07:43If we had taken care of Halaal Tayyib,
07:45the example given by Mufti Sahib,
07:46we would have done all the business,
07:48knowing the whole world.
07:49And,
07:50after that,
07:51we want our children,
07:52to become the grandsons of Hazrat Junaid-e-Baghdadi.
07:54So,
07:55this cannot happen.
07:56As,
07:57we will do it ourselves,
07:58the environment of the house will be there.
07:59The environment of the house,
08:00as Dr. Sahib said,
08:01is the first training.
08:02The mother,
08:03the father,
08:04and then,
08:05the teachers,
08:06and then,
08:07the friends.
08:08In this too,
08:09I will say one last thing,
08:10that we do not even see,
08:11what is the front circle of our children,
08:12with whom they are sitting.
08:13Sometimes,
08:14this happens.
08:15Sometimes,
08:16this happens,
08:17that the parents are feeding Halaal,
08:19they are trying for them,
08:21but,
08:22suddenly,
08:23when the child comes out,
08:24in that company,
08:25in Farsi,
08:26they say,
08:27that,
08:28there is a snake,
08:29and,
08:30there is a friend.
08:31And,
08:32Allah,
08:33said,
08:34that,
08:35a snake,
08:36is worse than,
08:37a bad friend.
08:38Allah's,
08:39Prophet,
08:40said,
08:41that,
08:42a man,
08:43is on the religion,
08:44of his friends.
08:45A man,
08:46is on the religion,
08:47of his friends.
08:48You should see,
08:49in which circle,
08:50you are sitting,
08:51with which friends,
08:52you are sitting.
08:53As soon as,
08:54the gathering happens,
08:55believe me,
08:56the true saints of Allah,
08:57the pious people,
08:58their children,
08:59are also ruined,
09:00because of this circle,
09:01and,
09:02because of this gathering,
09:03of friendship,
09:04they are in addiction.
09:05Now,
09:06in school,
09:07at a young age,
09:08the children,
09:09are doing,
09:10addiction business,
09:11and,
09:12are getting ruined.
09:13We see,
09:14that,
09:15in our class,
09:16our children,
09:17are like this.
09:18The class is different.
09:19Absolutely.
09:20Status.
09:21No,
09:22son,
09:23you should not,
09:24sit with such children.
09:25The status people,
09:26are giving ice,
09:27to your children.
09:28The status people,
09:29are giving,
09:30cocaine,
09:31to your children,
09:32and,
09:33what all addictions,
09:34they are getting.
09:35So,
09:36this is also,
09:37the responsibility,
09:38of the basic parents,
09:39to look at their circle,
09:40and,
09:41the gathering.
09:42Absolutely.
09:43In this society,
09:44good and bad people,
09:45are present everywhere,
09:46and,
09:47are found.
09:48But,
09:49the upbringing,
09:50of the house,
09:51if it is strong,
09:52if it is stable,
09:53if it is stable,
09:54then the child,
09:55from a bad environment,
09:56will not take,
09:57those effects,
09:58on his life.
09:59So,
10:00this is what,
10:01is being debated.
10:02Sir,
10:03do upbringing,
10:04do upbringing.
10:05We did,
10:06as much as we could.
10:07And,
10:08if we didn't do it,
10:09then what harm,
10:10would we have done?
10:11So,
10:12let's talk about this,
10:13with Dr.
10:14that,
10:15Dr.
10:16if parents,
10:17are not able to,
10:18do upbringing,
10:19then,
10:20the harm,
10:21of the world,
10:22and others,
10:23it would be,
10:24very good,
10:25if you would,
10:26inform them.
10:27A lot of people,
10:28in our society,
10:29if we look at it,
10:30everyday,
10:31we face,
10:32such problems,
10:33that the soul,
10:34trembles.
10:35That mother,
10:36whose motherhood,
10:37is famous,
10:38whom,
10:39love,
10:40shines,
10:41sometimes,
10:42we see mothers,
10:43in this torment,
10:44that they,
10:45for their children,
10:46spread their arms,
10:47and are cursing,
10:48and are saying,
10:49this should happen,
10:50that should happen,
10:51with them.
10:52What is the problem?
10:53That,
10:54not paying attention,
10:55to the upbringing,
10:56at the right time,
10:57they,
10:58become,
10:59victims,
11:00of humiliation,
11:01and torture.
11:02A mother,
11:03came to,
11:04SSP Central,
11:05and said,
11:06you,
11:07don't release,
11:08my child.
11:09She was surprised,
11:10and asked,
11:11why?
11:12She said,
11:13when he comes,
11:14he is addicted,
11:15I have,
11:16young daughters,
11:17he does,
11:18such things,
11:19and comes,
11:20and steals,
11:21and takes money,
11:22from people,
11:23and after that,
11:24people come home,
11:25we face,
11:26a situation,
11:27where,
11:28due to,
11:29not giving,
11:30proper upbringing,
11:31to the daughters,
11:32they are in a hurry,
11:33to leave.
11:34So,
11:35due to this,
11:36they go,
11:37to the next house,
11:38and are not able,
11:39to fulfill,
11:40their responsibilities,
11:41and their houses,
11:42break.
11:43A mother,
11:44is not able,
11:45to tell her daughter,
11:46how to live,
11:47in that house,
11:48and is not able,
11:49to show her,
11:50as a role model.
11:51The daughter,
11:52who has always,
11:53seen her mother,
11:54scolding her grandmother,
11:55that her house,
11:56is being destroyed.
11:57Similarly,
11:58if you see,
11:59in the newspapers,
12:00due to,
12:01the distribution,
12:02of ordinary property,
12:03the brothers,
12:04are held,
12:05against each other.
12:06Sometimes,
12:07the son,
12:08comes against the father,
12:09and we have seen,
12:10and read,
12:11so many incidents,
12:12that the son,
12:13may Allah,
12:14forgive us,
12:15even kills the father.
12:16So,
12:17imagine,
12:18all this is happening,
12:19due to,
12:20not giving,
12:21proper upbringing,
12:22to the children,
12:23that they did not,
12:24know,
12:25the importance,
12:26of their,
12:27childhood.
12:28The children,
12:29were left,
12:30on these paths,
12:31and later,
12:32the parents,
12:33start getting,
12:34upset,
12:35because they are,
12:36not able to face,
12:37anyone.
12:38And in this,
12:39the most important,
12:40problem is,
12:41the use of,
12:42social media.
12:43The children,
12:44born after,
12:45the year 2001,
12:46have,
12:47a lot of information,
12:48data,
12:49devices,
12:50gadgets,
12:51these are called,
12:52alpha generation,
12:53No one will share their sorrows on social media.
12:57They idealize them and want the same to happen.
13:01We have seen this ourselves.
13:03Sometimes when we go to restaurants,
13:05small children are given mobile phones by mothers for their convenience.
13:09We see this every hour.
13:11According to a recent report,
13:13more than 70% of children under the age of 10
13:16were affected by the use of mobile phones.
13:19And this is not the only problem.
13:21Because of this, there is a moral decline.
13:24There are reels in which children see
13:27and try to follow it by making it ideal.
13:31They neither stay here nor there.
13:33A recent documentary has shown
13:35that the state of children is such
13:37that the way they get rid of addiction,
13:39they become helpless.
13:41When a child is given a mobile phone
13:43which is a habit of mothers,
13:45their condition becomes such
13:47that they want to get a mobile phone in any way.
13:50In the documentary,
13:52the mother snatched the phone
13:54and the child went to another room.
13:57He brought his bat
13:59and hit his mother on the head.
14:01So imagine,
14:02there is a loss in every way
14:04due to lack of education.
14:06And these are worldly losses.
14:08If we look at other losses,
14:10it has been mentioned in Hadith Mubaraka
14:12that every person is a scholar
14:14and he will be asked about his responsibilities.
14:16So we should be afraid of Allah.
14:18And for that, we should acquire knowledge
14:20and then try to act on that knowledge.
14:22You have said a very good thing.
14:24And the way social media is creating
14:26frustration in children,
14:28creating extremism,
14:30and creating such a hypocrisy
14:32that they are not even capable
14:34of coming under the control
14:36of their parents and society.
14:38We are seeing a very big loss.
14:40But if you are close to the scholars
14:42of the Quran and Hadith,
14:44it will definitely be better
14:46We will listen to their statements,
14:48their advice.
14:50We will take a break and then
14:52continue this topic.
14:54Stay with us.
15:08And now we would like to take messages
15:10on that.
15:12All three scholars had a very good
15:14conversation in which there were
15:16messages of the Quran and Hadith,
15:18instructions, and many advices.
15:20I would like to know from Allam Ali Aqid Hussain
15:22Azari, what message would you like
15:24to give on this topic for parents
15:26regarding today's transmission?
15:28See,
15:30children are a great blessing
15:32of Allah the Almighty
15:34for which the Prophets
15:36also requested in the court of Allah.
15:38Hazrat Zakariya Ali
15:40peace be upon him,
15:42requests in the court of Allah
15:44that, O Allah,
15:46I have reached this age
15:48and my bone marrow has also
15:50finished.
15:52But I am never disappointed
15:54in your court.
15:56And grant me children.
15:58Children are a great blessing
16:00of Allah the Almighty.
16:02Both wealth and children.
16:04And this is the source of
16:06the spring of the world
16:08and all the liveliness of the world.
16:10He said,
16:12wealth and children
16:14are the adornment of the world.
16:16But these children
16:18are also a test for man.
16:20Your wealth and children
16:22are a test.
16:24Similarly,
16:26wealth is a test for man
16:28and this wealth
16:30becomes charity for man.
16:32The three things
16:34mentioned by Allah the Almighty
16:36which become charity for man
16:38One of them is that
16:40man goes to the grave
16:42and if he dies,
16:44he leaves behind
16:46good children.
16:54So this is such a great
16:56charity.
16:58He will raise his hand for you,
17:00he will pray for you.
17:02Whatever good deeds he does,
17:04your grave will remain cool
17:06But this will happen
17:08when we have tried
17:10and worked hard for it.
17:12Otherwise,
17:14all these things
17:16cannot be achieved by man.
17:18What message would you like to give?
17:20If Allah has given you
17:22more than one child,
17:24then do justice between them.
17:26Sometimes, one child is given priority
17:28and the other child is completely ignored.
17:30So his personality
17:32is damaged from childhood.
17:34Parents should give
17:36respect to their children.
17:38Treat them equally.
17:40If someone has one good quality,
17:42the other will have
17:44another quality if they try.
17:46Secondly, teach your children
17:48religion.
17:50I am sorry to say that
17:52in this era, some scholars
17:54take their children
17:56from religion to other fields
17:58which is their inferiority complex.
18:00What have we done
18:02to them?
18:04So they try to
18:06transfer this quality
18:08to their children.
18:10Religion is a great blessing.
18:12It is a great wealth.
18:14It is a great honor.
18:16It should be passed on to
18:18the next generation.
18:20They should be able to
18:22teach their children
18:24religion in a way
18:26that their parents
18:28consider their children
18:30to be their parents.
18:32Alhamdulillah,
18:34after listening to the scholars
18:36on ARYQ TV,
18:38not just the scholars,
18:40the parents are trying
18:42to make their children
18:44scholars.
18:46Allah gives respect
18:48to the scholars.
18:50What would you like to say,
18:52Mufti Sahab,
18:54in the form of a message
18:56for our viewers?
18:58We are Muslims.
19:00After death,
19:02after passing from the world of hell,
19:04there will be a battlefield.
19:06Then there is heaven or hell.
19:08Where do you want to take your children?
19:10To heaven or hell?
19:12Do you want to
19:14be a good friend
19:16or an ignorant friend?
19:18An ignorant friend
19:20is sometimes doing
19:22enmity in the name of love.
19:24What will happen
19:26if you put your children
19:28in hell or become an ignorant friend?
19:30From the beginning,
19:32do not teach your children
19:34religious knowledge or
19:36moral training.
19:38Instead,
19:40encourage them on sins.
19:42If a guest comes,
19:44tell him to be careful.
19:46This Shonu is very dangerous.
19:48He picks up and kicks.
19:50Shonu,
19:52abuse your mother.
19:54He is stealing pencils and sharpeners
19:56from school.
19:58Do not tell anyone.
20:00You are doing wrong training from the beginning.
20:02If a member of the family
20:04starts training,
20:06we get into it.
20:08Grandmother, aunt,
20:10sometimes husband and wife.
20:12How many sisters complain
20:14that I want my child
20:16to fast because he is 9 years old.
20:18Father says,
20:20don't let him fast.
20:22One person is becoming an obstacle.
20:24And the last thing is
20:26to put it on sins.
20:28If a person is doing
20:30unlawful business,
20:32then he tries to
20:34brainwash the child.
20:36All the luxuries, cars,
20:38bungalows,
20:40have to be done up and down.
20:42Now think for yourself
20:44whether he is an ignorant friend
20:46or an ignorant friend.
20:48Is he putting his child
20:50in front of you?
20:52First of all, you are committing sins.
20:54Secondly, you are poor.
20:56Thirdly, God forbid,
20:58if Allah gets angry
21:00and throws your child
21:02into hell,
21:04then your desire will be
21:06justified.
21:08And if your children
21:10ask you a question
21:12whether you were a friend
21:14or an enemy.
21:16Have you shown this way?
21:18We are going to hell
21:20due to lack of education
21:22and attention.
21:24What did you do to us?
21:26Will this question be answered?
21:28That is why I request
21:30our brothers and sisters
21:32to come closer to religion.
21:34You should also do
21:36a course on unlawful
21:38business.
21:40At least get your children
21:42to do a course on
21:44unlawful business.
21:46We do this in our academy.
21:48Do a course on
21:50how to raise a child
21:52from 1st year to 3rd year.
21:54From 3rd to 7th year,
21:567th to 10th year,
21:5810th to 12th year.
22:00When a syllabus is set,
22:02we will follow it.
22:04We may not benefit
22:06but in the hereafter we will.
22:08God willing, you will benefit
22:10step by step.
22:12Some questions
22:14should be asked.
22:16Did you raise your children
22:18correctly?
22:20Do you see the same
22:22in their lives?
22:24When you get
22:26a negative answer,
22:28you should consult
22:30religious scholars.
22:32Thank you very much.
22:34Allama Aliya Qudusi Nazari
22:36and Dr. Atif Islam Muraad
22:38have come.
22:40Qibla Mufti Muhammad Akmal Madani
22:42will join us in the next segment.
22:44In the next segment,
22:46we will present
22:48Hazrat Behzad Lucknavi's
22:50biography and tribute.
22:52We will also include
22:54his writings.
22:56Respected viewers,
22:58Allama Aliya Qudusi
23:00referred to
23:02Hazrat Ibrahim and
23:04Hazrat Ismail.
23:06Qibla Mufti Akmal referred
23:08to great personalities.
23:10We can only see
23:12how Allah's pious people
23:14have done great things
23:16and they are still being named.
23:18Qibla said,
23:20this was the miracle of
23:22the school.
23:24This was the miracle
23:26of the school.
23:28Who taught Ismail
23:30etiquette?
23:32This was the training
23:34that Hazrat Ismail
23:36was ready to present
23:38and we can see
23:40this training
23:42of great scholars
23:44and scholars.
23:46May Allah enable us to
23:48act on what we have heard.
23:50Respected Prophet,
23:52we will present
23:54Waqf-e-Ikbaad after this.
24:08Waqf-e-Ikbaad
24:38Karam Hai Aaka
24:43Yeh Sab Tumhara
24:48Karam Hai Aaka
24:53Ke Baat Ab Tak
24:58Bani Hui Hai
25:03Yeh Sab Tumhara
25:08Karam Hai Aaka
25:14Kisi Ka Haisaan
25:21Kyu Taae
25:30Kisi Ko Halaat
25:36Kyu Bataae
25:41Kisi Ka Haisaan
25:47Kyu Taae
25:52Kisi Ko Halaat
25:56Kyu Bataae
26:01Tumhi Se Magenge
26:06Tumhi Doge
26:10Tumhi Se Magenge
26:15Tumhi Doge
26:20Tumhi Se Magenge
26:25Tumhi Doge
26:30Tumhare Dar Se Hi Laun Lagi Hai
26:40Yeh Sab Tumhara
26:45Karam Hai Aaka
26:51Aata Kiya
27:05Mujhko Dard-e-Ulfat
27:14Kahaan Thi Yeh Purkhata Ki Khismat
27:25Main Is Karam Ke Kahaan Tha Kaabil
27:45Huzoor Ki Parda Parwali Hai
27:56Yeh Sab Tumhara
28:01Karam Hai Aaka
28:07Malki Mere Asaan
28:21Kiya Hai
28:27Bajuz Nadhaan
28:40Ke Paas Kiya Hai
28:47Amal Ki Mere Asaan
28:52Kiya Hai
28:57Bajuz Nadhaan
29:02Ke Paas Kiya Hai
29:07Rahe Salamat
29:10Tumhari Nisbat Rahe Salamat

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