Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Ben&Ben, hanggang saan ang hangganan ng paninindigan? (Episode 536)

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Aired (February 18, 2025): Masasabi nga ba ng Ben&Ben na may hangganan ang paninindigan sa pagmamahal ng isang tao?

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00:00My question is, in a romantic relationship, is there a chance or a justification for the moment when one decides that I can no longer defend my love?

00:25Let's pause for a while because you have a reveal.

00:29Let's start with Tony.

00:34That's a deep question.

00:38If there are two people in a relationship, they also have their own individual journeys.

00:45So I think, as much as everything can be discussed and fixed, sometimes there are two people who can't decide where to bring their relationship.

01:05And that's a moment that I can walk away and say, my promise to stand by is enough.

01:12Andrew, you.

01:14I think a relationship will work in the long run when you hit a moment and you realize that whatever happens to this person, I'm game to fix it.

01:28And if there is any barrier to that decision, it's okay to walk away.

01:33It's okay to say that I don't think I'm ready for this yet.

01:36Pat, Agnes.

01:37I think when you're married, it's harder to do that.

01:42When you're married.

01:44Because you have a different dimension.

01:47As much as possible.

01:50Before you get married, I think you should think about it.

01:54Like what Tony said, if you have a path, you can imagine your life in the future.

01:59You evolve every year as people.

02:02But you should also gauge if you can still love this version of this person five years from now.

02:10You can't say it, but at least you can gauge it.

02:12And I think by the time you get married, you should have decided that this is what you can love.

02:19Every day when I wake up, I will see this face.

02:22I should be sure.

02:25I'm getting sentimental because I'm replaying pictures.

02:29Because I'm sentimental.

02:31I'm reminiscing.

02:33I think, well, to keep things healthy, I mean, right?

02:38To keep things healthy, sometimes I think there are couples who can't give more than they can currently.

02:46And sometimes, you know, sometimes people just don't work out.

02:50And I think there are sometimes, there are a lot of sometimes, right?

02:54Sometimes it's okay to walk away.

02:56Especially if giving more means depleting your energy, depleting everything that you are.

03:04You know, there are two different thoughts.

03:06And that's quite interesting.

03:08We don't have time.

03:10Because one is saying, when you get married, the consideration is different.

03:14It's like, it would be longer, or you're talking about forever, if I heard it right.

03:19And one is saying, because there is a dimension, I have the right to get hurt.

03:28And there are things that you discover after.

03:31There are things that you discover about each other.

03:34And that you have the right to walk away.

03:37So this is a theme song for many of us.

03:41But thank you for sharing with us.

Fast Talk with Boy Abunda: Ben&Ben, hanggang saan ang hangganan ng paninindigan? (Episode 536)

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