Effective communication is the key to solving any relationship issue. In this video, we share practical tips and strategies to improve your communication skills and resolve conflicts with your partner. Watch now and transform your relationship!
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00:00What I did not realize is that oftentimes each one of the forms of these components
00:05deliver very different messaging. So oftentimes you can say something,
00:09but the messaging comes across very different than what you're trying to say.
00:13It would be equivalent to me if I were to look you in the eyes, say you're my spouse,
00:16and I would be like, I love you. Now the words indicated that I love you,
00:24but what did my facial expression, my body language, and my tonality indicate?
00:29That I really didn't love you, that I felt frustrated in having to even tell you.
00:34And oftentimes when we're communicating, there are cross signals and mixed messages
00:38because we haven't effectively learned how to blend these three components together
00:42to resolve issues. And so one of the challenges is that we haven't learned how to effectively
00:48communicate. So a lot of people say, well, we have a sex problem, or we have a financial problem,
00:53or we have a parenting problem, or we have an in-law problem, but what you have is an inability
00:57to effectively communicate. And as a result of that, areas begin to pop up all throughout
01:02your marriage that present problems. But if you could learn how to effectively communicate,
01:07you could resolve probably 90% of all the challenges that you face.
01:11The second thing I had to learn was this.