Sad Details About Ben Affleck's Life After Divorcing Jennifer Lopez (this is concerning)
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00:00Sad details about Ben Affleck's life after his divorce from Jennifer Lopez are coming out and it's a bit concerning
00:06It's no secret that Ben's dating history is a who's who of a list names
00:12He had a romance with Gwyneth Paltrow
00:15That became a huge thing in the late 1990s and later spent a significant period with Jennifer Garner
00:25Who became the mother of his three kids
00:27He also formed a high-profile bond with Ana de Armas which dominated
00:32Entertainment headlines for months over the years these ex-partners have given the public glimpses into why these things might fizzle out for instance
00:41Gwyneth once shared on the Howard Stern show that while Ben was fantastic in many ways
00:46He just wasn't in the right place for a serious relationship at the time
00:50She didn't elaborate but it left fans with the impression that he had internal battles of overshadowing the romance
00:56Meanwhile, Jennifer G parted ways with Ben after a 10-year marriage that included intense media scrutiny
01:02And although neither of them elaborated on the precise cause
01:07Outside observers noticed consistent rumors about stress and inconsistent communication
01:12This dissolution of benefit 2.0
01:14The affectionate nickname for both Ben and JLo is now adding another public breakup to Ben's
01:21Circle we could say further fueling, you know
01:24speculation that he might have a pattern of losing interest when things become hard indeed Ben famously confessed in a
01:311999 Playboy interview that he tended to dodge
01:34Relationship troubles by letting issues simmer rather than addressing them head-on once he felt done
01:39He admitted he would just fade away from the connection
01:41It's a habit he hoped to overcome but fans are worried that he's still carrying a version of that approach
01:47if so
01:48That tendency could have reemerged with Jennifer Lopez and according to a source cited by people while Jennifer Lopez
01:54Tried to fix their issues Ben chose to pull away from their marriage
01:58Effectively leaving her behind
02:00So for excitement of the fan base that old interview from more than two decades ago seems to still be relevant today
02:07many recall that Ben's earlier splits occasionally led to him making
02:11Questionable public statements or appearing deeply affected by the swirl of coverage around this personal life dating all the way back to his star making
02:19Turn in goodwill hunting
02:20He has occasionally voiced discomfort over the spotlight once remarking that he found it tough to keep going in his private life
02:28And it became a subject to non-stop discussion some fans suspect that
02:33persistent negative attention
02:34Coupled with yet another divorce may test his limits
02:38Once again, his close friend Matt Damon has in the past spoken about how different their experiences of fame were
02:45Even though they ascended Hollywood's ranks together
02:47Matt implied that he lucked out with a far lower volume of paparazzi interest
02:51whereas Ben
02:52Frequently found himself under a big light the aftermath of a high-profile breakup can hide in that scrutiny leaving him more exposed than ever
03:01JLo once told variety that she and Ben both felt overwhelmed by the level of interest in their first engagement in the early
03:072000s this time around the public fervor to see benefit 2.0
03:12Succeeded with arguably just as intense if not more
03:15Especially in the area of social media that were in every date night red carpet moment or casual coffee run turn into
03:23Serious gossip then came the wedding in Las Vegas
03:26Which fans adored as a sweet callback for their initial early 2000s romance
03:31But success can come with a cost the couple described feeling as though they were stuck in a perpetual
03:37Spotlight according to statements Jennifer Lopez made during promotional interviews that unrelenting coverage sometimes
03:44Overshadowed their real dynamic during the filming of deepwater co-star Jacob Elordi revealed to GQ that Ben asked him about how to handle
03:51unremitting press coverage
03:53Already recounted that Ben was grappling with feelings like everything he did was scrutinized the older actor
03:59Apparently confided that he sometimes wondered if he secretly craved the intention then felt conflicted for wanting it
04:05This conflicted perspective can obviously create confusion leaving the star kind of uncertain how to navigate with this
04:12Constant media intrusion Ben also discussed in a chat with Kevin Hart for the show heart-to-heart
04:17How he's never quite adapted to people snapping his photos at every moment
04:21He joked that people think he's always moody
04:23But the real reason is that being trailed by cameras doesn't exactly put him at ease
04:28Even when he attempts a simple grocery run
04:30You might be greeted by a half-dozen lenses capturing his every expression if one imagines going through a painful divorce under the
04:38Those conditions it's no wonder some observers are concerned
04:42He could be feeling the toll more than ever Ben's personal style came under renewed spotlight back in 2015
04:48When paparazzi images surfaced showing a massive Phoenix tattoo on his back an elaborate design that some fans found puzzling at the time
04:55He claimed it was for a film project
04:57But later admitted on the Ellen DeGeneres show that it was real and meant a lot to him
05:02Critics teased that it symbolized a rebirth following his split from Jennifer Gardner and the public reaction ranged from supportive to downright mockery
05:10So many wondered if the dramatic ink was a sign of identity shift fast forward to August 2024 and fans were again a buzz
05:17When Ben unveiled a new look after apparently moving out of the home he shared with JLo
05:22He was spotted wearing a black leather jacket edgy band t-shirt and sporting a shaved foxhawk while some concluded
05:29It was merely a style choice for an upcoming project
05:32Others labeled it another midlife moment People magazine even ran a piece discussing how drastically different
05:38He looked from his usual dad alike attire then less than a month later
05:41He already gone back to a more traditional style fueling talk that the transformation was kind of short-lived or maybe a role
05:48Shortly before finalizing the divorce from JLo Ben opted to buy a
05:5320.5 million dollar mansion in the Pacific Palisades area in July 2024 sources close to the star told Raider online
06:00He was a relieved to find a property that suited his solo life more than the one he previously shared with JLo for a moment
06:06It looked like a step toward personal independence
06:09Maybe a chance to settle into a new chapter on his terms, but trouble wasn't far behind in early 2025 January
06:15a massive blaze hit parts of Los Angeles including the Pacific Palisades the infernal force
06:21evacuations and destroyed several celebrity homes and
06:26unfortunately
06:26Ben was among those evacuated from the region reportedly crashing and Jennifer Gardner's place in Brentwood until that threat subsided as
06:34images of the scorching flames
06:36Circulated fans fear that the worst of his newly acquired property was hit while other footage later indicated that his house remained
06:43Unscratched as of mid-january the sense of vulnerability hung in the air several close acquaintances stepped in hoping to help him navigate
06:51This challenging moment one insider shared with page six that while the actor wasn't sure of the flames would reach his home
06:57He was in contact with local relief groups wanting to be of service to people who lost theirs in a move that grabbed headlines
07:04JLo reportedly reached out to show concern from him as well
07:07Indicating that not all ties between them have been over some saw it as a sign of lingering
07:12Goodwill others saw it as unresolved feeling amid all these rumors about his state
07:17Matt remained a cornerstone of Ben's support system according to sources quoted by multiple outlets
07:24Reportedly Matt arranged for the two of them to spend more time together on day trips and public outings partly to keep Ben from
07:30Feeling isolated the two have always been unseparable ever since their burst onto the seam of
07:36Goodwill hunting and fans love the idea that their bromance is still going strong. Matt is known for having a
07:41Comparatively drama free personal life. So observers often see him as a stabilizing force for bed
07:47One reason friends are so keen to ensure Ben's well-being is that he's openly admitted in past interviews that continuous media chatter can be overwhelming
07:55Headlines overanalyze every glance or sight of him and a simple coffee run with someone unexpected can spawn
08:03Thousands of conspiracy theories about his love life while plenty of celebrities face paparazzi attention
08:08Watchers note that Ben's combination of personal complexities high-profile romances and occasional public statements make him a magnet for extra
08:17Scrutiny and in 2023 during a press junket for a project
08:21He told an interviewer that as much as he tries to brush off the never-ending speculation it occasionally wears him down more than once
08:28He's been seen looking visibly
08:30Exasperated by the swarm of reporters shouting questions about his relationships rather than about his cinematic work
08:36Some fans argue that if anything the meltdowns over benefit 2.0 only amplified that phenomenon
08:42I mean, it can't be easy to have like all these paparazzi on him like 24 hours
08:47So I
08:48Completely understand why he feels like that after every storm
08:51He finds a way to make a comeback though often surprising fans and people and you know
08:55Perhaps the biggest question is whether he can find lasting happiness beyond the flashbulbs
09:00Can he's carve out this sort of balanced life that eludes so many in Hollywood while the tabloids keep spinning stories or alleged midlife
09:07Overhauls and complicated personal entanglements
09:09He may well be charting a path entirely of his own working on new film scripts or preparing to direct the next big project
09:16so yes fans have reasons to be worried a high-profile split baggage from previous breakups a
09:22property scare and unrelenting cameras capturing every moment can be
09:27Overwhelming Ben has been with JLo for a while
09:29But after everything that went on in the greatest love story never told he's probably missing his ex
09:34Here's why Ben Affleck regrets divorcing Jennifer Garner. You really can't
09:39It's so much of more Jennifer's than most have entangled Ben Affleck and none of their
09:44Romances have quite resulted in the happily ever after that. He was presumably looking for
09:51Fans were left more perplexed than ever by his on again off again relationship with Jennifer Lopez
10:01Which had not one but two chances before imploding once more and ending in divorce
10:09The other Jennifer the one who still hurts the most is Jennifer Garner
10:17Affleck has stated unequivocally that all of his well-publicized breakups. The one with Garner is the one that haunts him the most
10:28He says that he is only responsible for himself the first Jennifer JLo has an interesting story with Ben
10:34Seemed like a fairy tale
10:35But it really wasn't the narrative of Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez's romance had been told for decades and has included numerous films
10:42hundreds of scandalous tabloid articles and even two failed engagements
10:50The two movie stars were one of the most attractive pairs to watch in the early 2000s
10:56This is my wife, this is the belligerent nurse being so difficult
11:00They eventually gained the moniker Bennifer and dazzled their millions of devoted fans with their star power and red carpet appearances
11:12But when they finally called it quits in
11:142004 they shocked fans everywhere by announcing they weren't meant to be
11:18Fans were thrilled when the duo who had split up with their previous spouses got back together almost two decades later
11:26However
11:28Despite another engagement an unexpected wedding in Las Vegas and a shared residence in Los Angeles
11:34Bennifer called it quits once again in 2024 and JLo filed for divorce
11:39It's such a meta story, right?
11:41This couple is struggling to make a name for themselves in the world of Hollywood
11:45Even though a lot of people are cheering for them to ride off into the sunset together in Los Angeles
11:49Many have hypothesized that Affleck's low-key lifestyle may not have been able to withstand the JLo effect
11:55Which refers to her capacity to greatly influence pop culture and only get better with age
12:05So back to Jennifer Garner meeting on the set of Pearl Harbor back in 2001
12:09Affleck and Garner got back together for daredevil two years later
12:13However, they didn't start dating until 2004 and by 2005 they were hitched three children
12:18Violet Serafina and Samuel were born into their family throughout the ensuing 10 years
12:27Then right after hitting their 10th wedding anniversary
12:29They blindsided fans with a joint breakup statement after much thought and careful consideration
12:35We have made the difficult decision to divorce
12:37We go forward with love and friendship for one another and a commitment to co-parenting our children whose privacy we asked to be respected
12:44During this difficult time Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner have maintained an incredibly cordial relationship throughout their divorce
12:51Co-parenting like pros while Affleck went on and finally got married again, but in typical Affleck manner
12:56He knows he's the one who ruined it all which is why he still regrets how things ended with Garner to this day
13:02Not because he still feels something for her
13:04It rarely works out well when Ben Affleck marries a lady his friends detest according to sources
13:09Okay, magazine
13:10His best friend Matt Damon never liked Jennifer Garner with one insider claiming Damon told Affleck that if his wife just loosened up a bit
13:18Things could have been different Matt believes Ben's marriage was in shambles before the name
13:23There was too much anger there Damon wasn't pushing for Ben to end it
13:27But he knows Ben will be happier with another woman
13:29There are other of Affleck's friends that supposedly didn't get along with Ben's wife in besides Damon
13:34Kevin Smith said to Yahoo movies in July 2014 that Garner had essentially destroyed his friendship with Affleck
13:40We're not tight. I have not been close with him in decades. He griped. That's old Ben
13:45He's got a wife that don't care for me at all
13:47In addition Kevin Smith stated that same month at a silent Bob speaks tour stop via the New York Daily News
13:54Jennifer does not share the same sense of humor as me. She did not like any of my jokes
13:58I was picking on Ben Affleck making fun of him because I've known him for a really long time and
14:03Jennifer goes, you know, if you keep saying stuff about him, I'm going to kick your bleep
14:08She has a really girly sense of humor and didn't understand that
14:11I was kidding TMZ said that Ben Affleck's gambling habit was a major contributing factor in the breakup according to TMZ
14:17Affleck was indeed barred from the Hard Rock Casino in Las Vegas in May 2014 for reportedly counting cards when playing blackjack
14:25Over
14:30The years he supposedly made a sizable fortune playing blackjack. He even reportedly won $800,000 in a single night
14:42However Affleck denied being a compulsive gambler and said he's technically not banned from the casino as a whole noting to details via people
14:50That's all bull. I wish I could say they were afraid of me in every capacity
14:54But they only said no blackjack in his speech of congratulations to following Argo's best picture triumph
14:59Ben Affleck expressed gratitude to his current spouse for working on their marriage for 10 Christmases
15:05I want to thank you for working on our marriage for 10 Christmases
15:09Whoa, the way that was worded sounds awful. Even if it was intended as a compliment
15:15How about thank you, honey for your support?
15:17I love you so much or even I couldn't have done this without you by my side
15:21That would have sounded much better and then while Ben Affleck was filming the town 2009
15:27Okay
15:29Like to have a good a source informed in touch weekly
15:32He hit on Blake Lively, but she was not interested at all
15:35There are rumors that he also gushed about lively and interviews
15:39Jennifer Garner who co-starred with Affleck on gossip girl may not have been the only one to be concerned about him
15:44While Affleck was filming gone girl in 2014 a source informed the National Enquirer
15:49Jen was so worried about Ben and Emily
15:52Ratajkowski that she asked her pal Neil Patrick Harris to keep an eye on them
15:56Well on set if Ben Affleck hadn't allowed his drinking to ruin his marriage
16:00He and Jennifer Garner may still be together in a 2021 interview with Howard Stern Affleck acknowledged feeling trapped in their relationship
16:07Which caused significant anger, but in reality, he was just trying to express how lonely he was
16:12He had a marriage that didn't work this happens
16:15It was somebody I love and respect but to whom I shouldn't be married any longer
16:19He said we had a marriage that didn't work this happens
16:22There's somebody I love and respect what I did was I drank a bottle of scotch and fell asleep on the couch
16:28Which turned out not to be the solution?
16:30Affleck went into further detail in an interview with the New York Times about how much he regrets not doing better in marriage
16:36The biggest regret of my life is this divorce?
16:39He said acknowledging that as his drinking spiraled so did their relationship shame is really toxic
16:45There is no positive byproduct of shame
16:47It's just stewing in a toxic hideous feeling of low self-worth and self-loathing in addition Ben acknowledged that splitting up was never in
16:55His cards during a conversation with Diane Sawyer. I didn't want to get divorced. I didn't want to be a divorced person
17:01I really didn't want to be a split family with my children
17:04He confessed and it upset me because it meant I wasn't who I thought I was
17:09Fortunately the two have reached a stable position where they co-parent their three children while being close friends
17:14Half like made it pretty clear in the note. He wrote for Garner that she will always be someone he holds dear
17:19Thank you. Thank you for being thoughtful considerate
17:22Responsible and a great mom and person life is full of regrets. I have a feeling Ben Affleck can relate
17:27Let's check out some reasons Ben Affleck regrets marrying Jennifer Lopez. It taught me not to do interviews
17:35That was planted
17:40We all know Ben and Jen's tumultuous relationship
17:43They've been on and off and for almost a year now there have been breakup rumors surrounding them
17:47Well, this may have been the straw that broke the camel's back
17:50Stay with me while I paint you a picture
17:51Beautiful people grinning and clinking glasses on a stunning summer's day in Italy with the craggy Amalfi Coast
17:57Serving as the backdrop the focal point of the gathering is an immaculately made-up
18:02Jennifer Lopez as she gets ready to take a sip of her drink
18:05She gives the camera a knowing smile this marked the introduction of JLo's own cocktail line
18:10Delola similar to other well-known Hollywood figures like Sarah Jessica Parker and George Clooney
18:15JLo had aimed to create her own beverage line in order to increase the value of her business
18:20Because her beverage business was one of the things that broke the camel's back as a close friend of her husband Ben Affleck stated to Daily
18:27It's also acknowledged that the beverage company was founded before they
18:30Reconciled and Ben knew about and encouraged the venture
18:33They even go so far as to imply that in the midst of rumors that their marriage is finally over it helped Ben
18:39Not Jen decide to call it quits. Why did Ben find this prominent business venture so weird?
18:45Well, according to friends
18:46He regarded his wife's sales of vodka and tequila odd because he was a recovering habitual drinker after all
18:52He had battled his habits for many years
18:55He was reported to be confused when the label was originally introduced in the previous year the fact that he thought her sole purpose for
19:01Starting her drink brand was to make hard cold cash. Just made him feel more conflicted since
19:072001 when he first sought help for his habitual drinking Ben has gone to help several times
19:11His marriage to Jennifer Garner ended as a result of his habits worse JLo then embarked on a highly visible
19:18Promotional tour telling the press how much she enjoys drinking to relax and let loose
19:22She even shared a photo of herself to promote the newest item in the line showing herself
19:27Relaxing on a sunbed while wearing a swimming outfit Ben had to fight to get his life back after overcoming the drink Ben's buddy said
19:34To the mail knowing that he had lost
19:36Everything including his family's love and that he would relapse
19:39Jen made the decision to launch her own spritzer line in an attempt to get extra money
19:43Jen and Ben who featured in Oscar-winning films including Argo and Goodwill hunting have reportedly already filed their divorce paperwork
19:51They both understand that what they had earlier is no longer there what appeared to be a moving story of rediscovered
19:57Love for someone lost has come to a sad end before getting married the couple separated in
20:022004 after becoming together in 2002 and getting engaged following his
20:062005 marriage to Jennifer Garner Ben and Garner went on to have three kids before divorcing in
20:112015 and completing their legal separation three years later JLo later wed singer-songwriter Mark Anthony with whom she had twins
20:18Which were 16 years old 10 years passed during their marriage after JLo's failed engagement to baseball player Alex Rodriguez in
20:252021 Ben and Jen
20:27Reconciled much to the pleasure of fans in the press around the globe the next year they were married in Las Vegas and had a second
20:33More elaborate ceremony at Ben's plantation in Georgia, which was worth nine million dollars
20:38The pair hasn't been spotted together months before the divorce became official though with Ben declining to attend JLo's Bridgerton themed
20:4555th birthday celebration just recently rather when the couple listed their 68 million dollar Beverly Hills home for sale
20:52He purchased a 20 million dollar bachelor apartment in Los Angeles, but there were problems even last year in 2023
20:58Ben saw JLo's April 2023 drink company launched Alola as a warning indication that she preferred her profession
21:05over him in
21:072024 their respective desires his for a quiet existence and hers for unrestricted all-access exposure came to a head even though he tried
21:15To give into her demand for attention their disparate views on their careers caused their marriage to falter
21:20Ben was the one to pull the plug on their marriage here a friend stated
21:23He perceived this as picking right back up since Jennifer had led him to believe that she was the same person that she had been
21:29When they initially fell in love although he dislikes walking the red carpet with celebrities
21:33He did it because she did he could no longer handle her infatuation with fame
21:38She had to be loved and captured on camera
21:40He felt as though nothing remained sacred for him because she would reveal so much of herself to everyone
21:45This was something she had to do her popularity had become an integral part of her identity
21:50JLo's friends also report that she had altered her appearance and manner of dressing
21:54She says that performing is more than just a profession to her and that she ultimately felt unable to give it up like with her
22:00Previous three marriages she made the decision to prioritize fame over him
22:04In fact, it seemed like JLo was basing a large portion of her recent successful commercial production on their
22:10Romance some even claimed that he was not exactly thrilled because her new album was all about him
22:15And he didn't even like her television program
22:18This is me now a love story that documentary which featured Jen's account of her own road to love was widely panned and failed to connect
22:25With viewers costing millions of dollars according to a person close to the pair Ben was incensed
22:31He didn't want her to do this at all. She asked him to invest in it and be involved in a project
22:35He was absolutely against in the end
22:37He was glad it flopped it to destroyed their marriage Ben didn't want their love story to be told only she did they lost
22:4318 million pounds and it ruined Ben's trust in her Ben seeing her spread their love letters on a table for others to read as
22:51She did on-screen
22:52Infuriated him. This is when he knew that she put fame above love
22:56Indeed during the documentary JLo showed a book to the camera saying this book is a book Ben gave me on our first
23:02Christmas back together. It is every letter in every mail that we wrote to each other from 20 years ago and today
23:08She highlighted one note that read the greatest love story never told by Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck
23:142001 to 2010 and counting but a friend of Ben said he asked her to not do the
23:19Documentary because he wanted to keep this stuff private and because it cost too much money, but she did it
23:25Anyway, he asked her to pull back from doing red carpets and events so much and she wouldn't listen
23:30She dragged him out. Anyways, it was never about him
23:32It was always about her the two appeared nervous at the launch of JLo's Netflix movie The Mother
23:38She later revealed that they had clashed over her outfit choices saying he'll joke with me
23:42Sometimes he'll say things like where's the rest of that shirt? I'm like, oh this one doesn't have anything else
23:47JLo abruptly announced to her followers that she was taking time off to be with her children family and close friends when she abruptly
23:54Canceled her planned summer tour Ben was later seen driving his son Samuel to basketball practice in Santa Monica with actress Jennifer Garner his ex-wife
24:01The following day JLo showed up to watch Samuel play as well as give her husband an awkward-looking kiss
24:07Well, his wife has continued to wear her wedding ring
24:09Ben had been spotted recently without it and then there was their Beverly Hills mansion Ben
24:14It appears just thought the price was too high
24:17friends remarked that JLo believed that her twins emin max as well as Ben's children violet Finn and Samuel would be pleased with the house
24:24Nope, buying that massive house was another huge red flag said one close to Ben
24:28He didn't want that house because it cost a ridiculous amount of money
24:32It never felt like home to him and he cannot even believe that he moved into the home
24:36She didn't want a marital home for them to grow old in she wanted a massive
24:40Structure that cost more than anyone else's home to flaunt her wealth and her marriage in she thought that this would make everyone happy
24:47They talked a lot about this things also seem to be generated by a decline in her profession
24:52Which she battled so hard to achieve in following the documentaries failure a source said she became less popular
24:58Less people wanted to see her perform and this made her irate and she took it out on Ben
25:03She started to realize her star power was fading and he told her it was her own fault because she was overexposed
25:09She took the fact that her documentary and album was a flop out on Ben because as her husband
25:14He was the closest one to her. He asked her to take a step back and she didn't he wasn't a huge fan of her
25:19New album being so centered around him and she thought it was beautiful
25:22Notwithstanding the intense feelings surrounding the highly publicized end of their parents as romance
25:27Sources indicate that their five children are eager to maintain communication a source said it is hard on the kids
25:33But in the end they are all pretty grown up
25:35Enough grown up to be able to see that it was not working between their parents the kids will be okay
25:40And we'll stay close becoming a family for a minute was fun
25:43And this will always be special in their hearts
25:45But JLo who is 55 years old and has been married four times is currently unmarried friends worry
25:51She ruins her romantic relationships. She knows she destroyed it all and was super apologetic
25:56But it was too late one said he tried for a couple weeks giving her the benefit of the doubt and even wore the wedding
26:02Ring because she asked him to so that they could get a little space from the hounding press, but he's done
26:07He found his home and she's not living in it
26:09She knows this and now it is the time for them to both move on
26:12Ben seems to be giving his divorced wife time to rebrand JLo's friends claim that she altered her appearance and style of clothing
26:19She's smiling in public and she's not acting all like a diva her social media is bright and happy and she's speaking about her true
26:26Feelings of being fragile she's staying out of the spotlight and keeping her life private
26:30Basically Jennifer is now pretending to be the person that Ben thought she was all along this made him fall in love with her
26:36But he's not going to fall for it a third time two strikes. She's out
26:39They are done for Lopez's fairytale marriage to Ben Affleck became a nightmare from JLo getting jealous of Jennifer Garner to JLo
26:46exposing secret love letters that Ben asked her not to
26:49To them having completely different ideas of what a relationship should be like to a messy divorce to passive-aggressive post
26:56Where did it all go wrong when JLo was dealing with her heartbreak? She didn't exactly keep it low-key
27:00She hit social media with some seriously bold moves posting pics of her behind throwing out some old shady quotes
27:06It did not take long for people to start talking and let's just say not all of it was good
27:10For someone as a list as JLo that public emotional outburst came off as a little tacky
27:17We all know breakups are rough
27:19Especially when the whole world is watching
27:20But this was a classic case of maybe think before you post JLo seems to be flaunting her curves rubbing it in Ben Affleck's face
27:27But the internet was wasn't exactly loving this vibe
27:29A lot of fans thought it came off as desperate and reflected poorly on her
27:33It was like she was trying to make him jealous, but instead it just made her look messy
27:37But hey, this whole drama was a reminder that even celebs who we think have perfect lives go through some serious heartbreak
27:42However, it also showed why it's so important to keep your dignity in check
27:45Especially when you're feeling all types of emotions social media is a great tool for self-expression
27:50But airing your dirty laundry not so much. Keep it classy people and
27:55Speaking of messy. Let's talk about the love letters JLo shared some of Ben's most private love letters that he had
28:01Specifically asked her not to share major
28:04Oops, Ben the king of privacy has always kept his life pretty quiet despite being one of Hollywood's biggest stars
28:10So when JLo went and blasted his heartfelt words to the world
28:13It was like opening a can of drama Ben wasn't thrilled people couldn't help but joke about it calling him pen Affleck
28:19But Ben who tries to come off as a pretty chill guy
28:23Did admit that it was kind of beautiful in a greatest love story never told kind of way now Ben talked about how he really?
28:29Felt about their social media presence. He was not about that over share life
28:33In fact, he initially wanted to keep their relationship under wraps because their first go-around was way too public for his comfort
28:40But as we all know that ship has sailed they were just two people with different views trying to make it work
28:45But wait, there's more right after JLo filed for divorce some seriously bad stories about Ben started hitting the tabloids
28:51I source told people that Ben supposed mood swings were a huge factor in the breakup. Apparently he was showing some major
28:57Extremes and then it was creating a toxic environment one insider even said he was so unpredictable with these huge mood swings
29:04I think he was trying to tell the press something but he was still playing along. Yikes