VICTORIA and Eve are both exotic dancers that have officially been in a relationship for the last 7 months. They met 3 years ago when Victoria, a cisgender woman went to a transgender strip club with some friends. Eve, who is a transgender woman and a dancer at the club, walked up to Victoria and said she was 'so hot'. Victoria then enjoyed watching her dance on stage, they talked and exchanged Instagrams. Victoria is the first woman Eve has ever been in a relationship with. As a transgender woman, Eve always wanted male energy to feel feminine. This is also Victoria’s first relationship with someone who is transgender, however she is pansexual and says she is attracted to people based on emotional connection. Their friends and family are very supportive of their relationship but they get a lot of hate online. People ask why Eve bothered to transition to go and date a woman. People also accuse them of having a fake relationship because they are both attractive femmes. Victoria also jokes that they are basically a straight couple.They also get hypersexualised by men when they are out at clubs and kiss each other. They plan to move in together as soon as Eve’s lease is up and both want to get more surgery done next year, which they have decided they want to do together. They would also like children and like the fact that they can conceive naturally as a lesbian couple. In this episode, their good friend Jeddy raises the concerns he once had about their coupling...
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00:00Transgender woman, cisgender woman in a relationship.
00:04Society's like, no thank you.
00:06I love when people call us gay,
00:08because it's like, okay, but we're straight.
00:10Some of the things people have said is like,
00:12we're just a freak show, we're a circus.
00:15It's not supposed to happen.
00:17We're the bottom feeders of the planet.
00:19My initial reservation was probably just like,
00:22are you kidding me?
00:23Like, what?
00:24Where's the punchline?
00:26So Vicky, I know you've always fun with guys
00:30for the most part.
00:31So is this phase with the trans girls
00:35just a phase or is it real?
00:38My name is Eve.
00:39My name is Victoria.
00:40And I'm trans.
00:41We're a straight lesbian couple.
00:43People judge a relationship
00:45because I'm with a thin lesbian.
00:47It was like, three years ago we met,
00:49we were being friends, getting to know each other.
00:52I was kind of skeptical,
00:53because all my life, you know, being trans,
00:55I would have never, I would have thought in a million years
00:57I would be with a woman, you know?
00:59I met at her club.
01:00I went to her club.
01:01We both walked up to each other and she was like,
01:03you're beautiful.
01:04I was like, you're hot.
01:05We literally just like, from there.
01:11Which one do you like the best?
01:13These are cute.
01:14Do you remember that post?
01:15Did I post our last night of us together?
01:17Yeah.
01:18Look what this person said.
01:20This makes no sense.
01:21Why would you change yourself to a girl to be with a girl?
01:24This generation is screwed.
01:25What the?
01:26Who cares?
01:27Just let us be.
01:28You know, people are just miserable and sad, honestly.
01:30It's true.
01:31They can't see too bad.
01:32Why are they even looking at our stuff
01:34if you don't want to see that kind of content?
01:36When it happens, I kind of just ignore all the strangers.
01:40Like, I don't really care for their opinions.
01:41Oh, you look so pretty.
01:42Oh, thank you.
01:43Now, come to breakfast.
01:45Okay.
01:47She takes the longest to get ready.
01:49Like, the longest.
01:49Yeah, okay.
01:50Yeah, for sure.
01:51Okay.
01:52100%.
01:53Can I see this?
01:55No, it's definitely me.
01:56The most glamorous one, definitely me.
02:00Like, babe, I love you.
02:01You're perfect, but definitely me.
02:04I love fillers.
02:05I want my boobs even bigger.
02:07I definitely wear the pants in this relationship.
02:09Whatever you say, I'm scared of her.
02:10I call the shots.
02:11But like, I've never ever led you in the wrong direction.
02:15When have I ever had bad intentions?
02:16You've never had any.
02:17She's younger, so I should have.
02:19I tell her the way it is.
02:20She's only a grandma.
02:21I knew she was trans when I first met her
02:24because I walked into a transgender club, so yes.
02:27When people find out that we're a couple,
02:29they think the whole thing is like a scam.
02:30Like, there's no way.
02:32I love when people call us gay
02:34because it's like, okay, but we're straight.
02:36I transitioned at the age of 18.
02:38People judge me for being trans.
02:41Why was the point of you doing this
02:42if you're gonna just be with a woman?
02:44The worst reaction we have ever gotten
02:46when we were out was when we were at a restaurant.
02:49We gave each other a kiss,
02:50and this lady looks at me.
02:51I guess she clocked me.
02:53She realized I was trans,
02:54and she was just like,
02:56testing, like, why are you guys doing that?
02:58And then I just grab her and kiss her.
03:00I'm like, I love her.
03:01I don't care.
03:02Before Eve, no, I was not with anybody trans before.
03:05This is my first.
03:09I don't like to lose that.
03:11I don't believe, it's okay, no, I'm just kidding.
03:13Before Victoria, I only dated masculine men.
03:16I just wanted to feel that masculineness
03:20of the male to make me feel feminine.
03:22I realized that who cares?
03:23If I'm happy, I'm happy.
03:25It is what it is.
03:26So this is my dancer closet,
03:29and I have all of my dancer clothes.
03:31So these are some of my favorites.
03:34These.
03:35I love that one.
03:36Yeah, I know you love pink.
03:37Ooh, I used to love this one.
03:39When I was blonde, I'm a natural blonde,
03:41I used to wear the Barbie outfit.
03:42These are my money bags,
03:44because at work, people like to throw a lot of money on me.
03:50Yeah.
03:54We work out often, a lot, on the pole,
03:55because we like to teach each other tricks
03:57and things like that.
03:58We connect in our profession, like, 100%.
04:01I think that's honestly one of our biggest bonds, too.
04:04Yeah, we understand each other because of it.
04:06Yeah.
04:07100%.
04:10My mom's scared I'm gonna get pregnant.
04:12Oh, well.
04:13That's what my mom's scared of.
04:14She worries about it, but we told her a million times,
04:16my sperm count's dead because of estrogen, so.
04:19When we started our relationship,
04:20the most thing was just kind of, like,
04:22honestly about me being trans.
04:24That was, like, the biggest thing
04:25that people would come for.
04:26Transgender woman, cisgender woman in a relationship.
04:30That's, like, society's, like, no thank you.
04:32What is this? What are you doing?
04:33Some of the things people have said is, like,
04:35we're just a freak show, we're a circus.
04:38Look, the scums of the earth.
04:39It's not supposed to happen.
04:39Like, yeah, we're the scums, we're the bottom.
04:41We're the bottom feeders of the planet,
04:43when in reality, they're the ones hating.
04:44Like, I'm sorry.
04:45I like what I like, and it is what it is.
04:47Overcoming judgment has definitely made us strong.
04:50People judging us, again,
04:51for, like, being dancers and that stuff.
04:53I feel like our bond is stronger
04:55because we don't give a shit.
04:57Our friend, Jetty, is coming over today,
04:59and she's gonna talk to us about
05:00how she feels about our relationship.
05:02Jetty has strong opinions and will not hold back.
05:05She likes Red Bull.
05:07Do you feel like anything that Jetty would say
05:09would, like, change her mind about us?
05:10I'm definitely gonna take her opinion into consideration
05:14because, you know, she only has the best things to say.
05:17I originally started just being friends with Eve.
05:20Actually, Eve pulled me in to see
05:24if Victoria was a good match for her,
05:26and we all clicked.
05:27My initial reservations was probably just, like,
05:31are you kidding me?
05:32Like, what?
05:33Where's the punchline?
05:34I just always saw Eve and I with the same type of guys,
05:38and I always saw Victoria with her type.
05:41So, for me, as their friend, I'm like,
05:44is this just some funny, like, spell they're under,
05:48or do they actually like each other?
05:50Whatever works for them, you know?
05:52Different strokes for different folks.
05:55So, like, I know it's kind of hard.
05:57Obviously, our jobs can get a little bit, like,
06:00jealous with people.
06:02So, how do you feel, like, together, both dancing?
06:06Personally, because we both work in the club,
06:08like, I understand completely.
06:11Like, I am not jealous.
06:12We just kind of see, like, it's work.
06:14Jenny, what concerns did you initially have
06:16of our relationship?
06:18It was just more of fling,
06:20and I didn't want you guys to ruin your friendship.
06:24So, it was always something up in the air,
06:26always something to kind of argue about,
06:28because you guys were leading your own lives,
06:31and now you're, like, actually together,
06:33so there's obviously less questioning it.
06:36So, Vicky, I know you've always been with guys
06:39for the most part.
06:41So, is this phase with the trans girls just a phase,
06:45or is it real?
06:46It better not be a phase.
06:47It's not a phase.
06:48Like, yes, Eve is definitely my first trans woman
06:51I've ever been with,
06:52but I have been with guys, girls, every ethnicity,
06:56every race.
06:57I've literally done everything.
06:58So, are you guys happy together?
07:01Yeah, we're really happy.
07:03We're, like, actually together.
07:04No more fling.
07:05No more confusion.
07:07So, is this, like, a long-term thing,
07:10or is it just...
07:12Yeah, no, we definitely have plans.
07:13We want to do stuff.
07:14We've been saving money.
07:16So, we're not just, like, playing it by ear.
07:18No, we're together.
07:19Yeah, we're together.
07:20We already have plans and stuff.
07:23I love you guys.
07:24And you look absolutely beautiful, by the way.
07:26Yeah, you look so good.
07:27Cheers.
07:28Cheers.
07:32So, Bim, how did you feel about Jenni coming over?
07:34I feel like she said what she said,
07:35and, like, she gave us nothing but love.
07:37She was so supportive.
07:38Like, she was your best friend first.
07:41She was my best friend,
07:41and, like, now she's back in our life.
07:43And she's over here with nothing but love,
07:44so I'm really happy.
07:47Oh, babe, this is perfect.
07:49Do you want to take a picture here?
07:50Yeah, let's take a couple photos.
07:51Okay.
07:52Your smile looks so pretty.
07:55What do you see, like, in our future?
07:57I hide your hormones and you get me pregnant.
07:59I love that.
08:02Okay.
08:03I see us really taking the next step forward,
08:05and these last, like, couple of months coming up,
08:07and, like, moving in.
08:08I'm really excited about it.
08:09Yeah, I know.
08:09Me too.
08:10Victoria has changed my life for the better in so many ways.
08:14Like, she just makes me confident, happy.
08:17I genuinely adore you.
08:18We have communication.
08:20We're very honest about us more than anything.
08:23Yeah.
08:23I think this relationship works because, like,
08:27we both get it.
08:28She's girly.
08:29We do things.
08:30It's fun.
08:31Like, I feel like we don't fight over dumb things.
08:33Like, with guys, we're like, you know what, babe?
08:36The haters.
08:40We love each other.
08:40We love each other.
08:41And love doesn't judge, man.
08:42Love doesn't judge.