这集的神秘嘉宾，分享了同志之间发生关系后，才发现对方原来已经是有妇之夫！还有人脑回路清奇，因为不想对不起老婆，所以改约男人......？ 你又知道什么是“同妻”的故事吗...快来了解这个不为人知的现象！
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00:00When she tried to have sex with a man
00:04it was definitely a no-no
00:05She was pregnant
00:07so she didn't have a place to have sex
00:10She tried to find a man
00:12Maybe the man was also a trans man
00:16But they were not in the family
00:20They had to follow this procedure
00:22The following footage is from our vault of classics, taken ten years ago.
00:29Hello everyone, I'm Liu Kaixin
00:31I'm Tomatoe
00:32Welcome to the show, Please Get In The Car
00:34I'll drive
00:35I'll get in the car
00:36I don't know if you've seen this on the road
00:39There are some couples
00:41who look like sisters
00:44I think it's mainly because boys are getting more and more refined
00:47Yes, there are more boys who know how to dress up
00:50I have to put on make-up before I go out
00:53You're more feminine than a woman
00:55We suddenly got an inspiration
00:56Today, we'll be doing a topic on same-sex relationships
00:59A topic on same-sex relationships
01:00Do you know that a lot of boys are actually same-sex lovers
01:02but to hide it, they'll look for a mistress
01:05He's actually a same-sex lover
01:06but he doesn't dare to say he's a same-sex lover
01:08So he marries a woman
01:09Or he has a girlfriend
01:11Today, we've invited two guests
01:13to discuss the topic on same-sex relationships
01:15Let's welcome our two guests
01:17I'm here to tell my friend's story
01:19I'm here to tell my friend's story
01:21A lot of people say that
01:22My friend is like that
01:24I understand
01:25I'm telling my own story
01:26But it's not that I have a same-sex partner
01:28It's that I've been through a same-sex relationship
01:30At that time, I was just dating a girl
01:32So you were dating a girl
01:34and she was a same-sex lover
01:36No, I was dating a boy
01:38You were dating a boy
01:39So that boy had a same-sex partner
01:40You're really slow
01:42Let's listen to the story one by one
01:43Let's listen to Jin Zhengguo's story first
01:45Let's listen to Jin Zhengguo's story first
01:46It's not Jin Zhengguo's story
01:48It's my friend's
01:48Okay, so my friend's story is
01:50He's a married man
01:52and he has two children
01:54Both of them are my friends
01:55They met each other on an app
01:57They used this app to date
02:00When they were dating, they found out
02:01that the other person had a wife
02:03and had two children
02:04Everyone has a wife
02:06No, there's only one
02:07She's like our daddy
02:08What's a daddy?
02:09There are some same-sex relationships
02:11He will look for some daddies to date
02:13So this daddy has a wife
02:15When they met
02:17My other friend only found out
02:18that he had a child
02:19and got married
02:20Oh, so he was concealing it at first
02:22Yes
02:23When they first found out
02:24did they have an argument?
02:26When the baby found the daddy
02:28the baby likes to look for the daddy
02:30Oh
02:31So no matter if he has a wife
02:34he will be okay with the daddy
02:37The separation of daddy and baby
02:39is their own definition
02:41Because babies are rich
02:42Maybe some comrades
02:45prefer to look for the daddy type
02:49So you're the baby?
02:50No, I'm not
02:50His friend
02:52Oh, your friend is the baby
02:54So this daddy is a same-sex relationship?
02:57You can say it's a double sex relationship
02:58So you're considered a cheater?
03:00So the baby is also a third party
03:01because he interfered in someone else's marriage
03:03It's just a slap
03:04Playing badminton?
03:04They're playing badminton
03:07What about you?
03:08If your wife
03:10and another cheater is a girl
03:12do you think that's a cheater?
03:13Or do you think it's a slap?
03:14No, we don't slap
03:15I do
03:16Do you know how to play badminton?
03:17If you don't know
03:19I'll teach you later
03:21So if your husband is a cheater
03:25does he really slap you?
03:27Actually
03:28my husband did ask me this question
03:30I was immersed in that emotion
03:32I actually feel a little sorry for my boyfriend
03:36We were born the same
03:38But for the sake of social pressure
03:40he had to hide it
03:41He even lied to me
03:42So why did he want to be with you in the first place?
03:44There are many reasons
03:45There are still some things that need to be hidden
03:47There are some things that need to be passed on
03:48What I want to add is
03:49when she tries to
03:51have an affair with a man
03:53she will never turn back
03:56You mean she was originally interested in girls?
03:59Yes
03:59As long as she had an affair with a man
04:01she wouldn't turn back to you?
04:03She would turn back to you
04:04It should be both
04:05Yes, both
04:06But why?
04:08One of my friends told me
04:09that boys are more comfortable with girls
04:13Of course
04:14So are girls
04:15What's the climax?
04:16So your story with Jack Lai is...
04:18I think my story is very similar to his
04:20So you became a friend of Jing Cheng Gu?
04:22Those two friends should be in front of us
04:25I didn't really want to find a baby to play
04:28We had some time
04:30so we could have our own schedule
04:32There was a time when we had free time
04:33So I called to see
04:36and I saw someone
04:38who looked like a nice guy
04:40So I asked him out
04:42and we started dating
04:43When we started dating
04:45he told me that he had a wife
04:47and a child
04:49He told you?
04:50Yes
04:51So this is your personal experience?
04:52Yes
04:54Do you feel cheated?
04:55No, I don't
04:56I don't want to give birth or have an affair
04:58Oh, so that's what happened in your previous life?
05:00I have a wife
05:00I don't mind
05:02It was my first time
05:04I was quite curious
05:05What did he say?
05:06He is a Singaporean
05:07He came to Malaysia for a business trip
05:08His wife was pregnant
05:10so he didn't have a place to go
05:13So he started looking for a guy
05:15and when he met that guy
05:18he felt quite good
05:21Sometimes or occasionally
05:24or when he was on a business trip
05:26he would look around nearby
05:28Did you still contact him afterwards?
05:29No, just once
05:30Just once
05:31No matter what
05:32whether you are gay or straight
05:34If you don't talk to other people
05:36and just go out
05:37is that considered cheating?
05:39It's the same for men and women
05:40You just go out to have fun
05:42It's a punishment
05:43Some people might think it's a sense of guilt
05:45that I have a wife
05:46but I went to look for a girl
05:48For him
05:49it might be more of a sense of guilt
05:51to look for a guy
05:52It's the same thing
05:52I think it's the same
05:54You think it's the same too
05:55But you have to be responsible for the rest
05:56For example, if he is really pregnant
06:00you have to be responsible for that part
06:02Next, we will play the driver's gas station
06:07If you have sex with multiple partners
06:11the chance of getting sexually transmitted
06:13is greatly increased
06:14We also need to know that
06:16the use of safety equipment
06:17will prevent sexually transmitted diseases
06:18There are many types of sexually transmitted diseases
06:20Some of them can be cured
06:22For example, colostomy, urethritis, and urinary tract
06:25But some of them
06:26such as phlegm, AIDS, and hypochondria
06:30cannot be cured
06:31Once you get this type of sexually transmitted disease
06:33it will always lurk in your body
06:36So what you need to pay attention to is
06:38once it lurks in your body
06:40if a female friend wants to have children
06:42it will be a big problem
06:44because it will infect
06:45and spread to the next generation
06:47If you don't want the chance of sexually transmitted diseases
06:50to be greatly increased
06:51it's best not to have multiple partners
06:55I will always look at this from the perspective of the same period
06:59I will feel, huh?
07:01Actually, we have seen a lot of data
07:03Especially in China
07:04there are a lot of cases
07:05where almost 16 million women are in the same period
07:08There are a lot of reasons for them not to divorce
07:10Having children is also a point
07:12Or she relies on her husband
07:14It's an economic factor
07:15Or she really, really loves this guy
07:19What can we do?
07:19I think some cases are like this
07:21Maybe the woman is gay
07:24and the man is also gay
07:25But they may not
07:27have a family relationship
07:29They have to get married
07:31and go this way
07:32But we all know each other's orientation
07:35or habits
07:36Then we just live together
07:38But we have no sexual relationship
07:41Okay, get what you want
07:42One wants to fight, one wants to love
07:44As long as everyone is happy
07:46Yes
07:46The most important thing in this world is to be happy
07:48If there is a period of the same period
07:50and you find yourself cheated later
07:52How do you think you should deal with it?
07:54From my perspective
07:56Although we are on the same side
07:59But I stand on the same side
08:01In terms of reasonability
08:02I think it's unfair for the same period
08:06That man is very selfish
08:07He needs both sides
08:08If you are in the same period
08:10and you find that your husband is like this
08:12I think I really need to sit down and talk
08:15How to solve it
08:16Because I don't think it's possible to be on both sides
08:19On both sides, he is actually a mistress
08:21It's the same as a relationship
08:23So if everyone has faced this problem
08:25Or someone around you is going through the same period
08:28In the case of being cheated
08:30Everyone must remember to open up to the other side
08:33Be honest
08:34Face the problem
08:36It's better to face the problem
08:38Don't delay each other's life
08:40If you really feel that your interest is in men
08:44Then don't get married
08:45Anyway, the world is so open now
08:47But of course there is also a happy ending
08:49Maybe the girl knows that her husband actually wants to have a baby
08:53We just had a staff outside the scene say
08:55Actually, I used to want to find a same-sex boy to get married
08:58Because he doesn't want to
08:59He doesn't want to carry too many commitments
09:02Is there such a person?
09:04Of course, I think after communication
09:06Preventive measures must be taken
09:08It can't be said that it's because of the husband and wife
09:09Don't check
09:10Because after all, the husband is outside
09:12Maybe I don't know what will come
09:14So safety measures must be taken
09:16Go for physical examination
09:17Yes, physical examination must be done
09:19I think Malaysians will accept it less
09:22Should be separated directly
09:23I think there will still be
09:25I think the current Malaysian style is very feminine
09:29That kind of girl can be in charge
09:32So if they know
09:34Many people won't accept it like this
09:35And there are many psychological chicken soups on the Internet now
09:38Who of you have met such a person below
09:41Then continue to stay
09:43You leave a message to me
09:45I really want to know
09:47Is there such a person in Malaysia?
09:50Okay, today's video is over
09:52If you have any questions or points to discuss
09:55You can comment below
09:56Yes yes yes
09:57Drivers, please drive carefully
10:00Remember to fasten your seat belt
10:02Signal
10:04Check engine
10:05Okay, go home safely
10:07Bye bye