Aired (November 29, 2024): Ibinahagi ni Marie na breadwinner na siya simula 18 years old at tinataguyod niya na ang kanyang pamilya.
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00:00The real breadwinner tour guide is Marie Claire Uro.
00:06Marie, what is it that you don't really intend to do, that you're not good at?
00:10You didn't really show it earlier.
00:11Because my friends are from Batangas, Pagsanghan, Manila, and Tagaytay.
00:19But I haven't been able to go to my friends yet.
00:21Actually, you said that to Kilates when Jared asked you.
00:24Maybe he went there.
00:25But he told the truth when we first talked to him about his work.
00:30It was his first time in Vicar.
00:32In Vicar.
00:33Were you nervous?
00:34Yes, I was shocked. I hoped it was just the luneta.
00:37Then he knew it was the luneta.
00:40But how old were you when you became a breadwinner?
00:42I started when I was 18 years old.
00:44How old are you now?
00:4532.
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00:47You've been a breadwinner for a long time.
00:49Why did you have to become a breadwinner for your family?
00:53When I was 18 years old, my father left us to live in another house.
00:57My older sister was able to live with her husband.
01:01So I was the second child and I was the one who helped my siblings.
01:05I heard the story.
01:07At first, you and your older sister talked to each other
01:11as if you were helping each other to support your family.
01:15So at first, you two were together.
01:17Then she suddenly disappeared.
01:19Then she left you.
01:20You had one obligation.
01:22How did you feel?
01:23As if you were left alone.
01:26I was angry.
01:27You know that.
01:28I don't want to go home.
01:31I was angry with her.
01:32But it's okay.
01:33I accepted it.
01:34Because she wanted her family to be together.
01:37So I accepted it.
01:39That I was the one.
01:42And like we always say,
01:44everyone has their own reasons.
01:46Because of course, you're depending on your sister.
01:49Yes.
01:50But when she has her own family,
01:52it's her obligation to support her family.
01:56So even if she wants to support her family,
01:59especially when life is hard,
02:01you have to choose who to prioritize.
02:05Because if you don't, you'll fall.
02:10Who chooses who the breadwinner is?
02:14Is there such a thing?
02:15Why did it happen to you?
02:16Did someone ask you to do it?
02:18Or did you ask for it?
02:20How does a family member become a breadwinner?
02:23In your case.
02:24I asked for it.
02:25Because I have a boyfriend,
02:27but I can't leave them.
02:29I won't prioritize the man for my family.
02:34Priorities.
02:35Sometimes you're weighing what's more important than now.
02:40Choices.
02:41They have their own choices.
02:43Her sister has her own choice.
02:44She was forced to do it.
02:46But her choice is,
02:48she has the right to have a love life,
02:50but she can't leave her family.
02:52So there are many times
02:54when you'll let go of your relationship for your family.
02:58Two times.
02:59Two times.
03:00I left my boyfriend because of my family.
03:04You can't focus on the two of you.
03:06Because when you're in a relationship,
03:08you should focus on him.
03:09But I really can't.
03:11Because they're pitiful if I'm not there.
03:13That's why I decided to separate.
03:15I left him.
03:16But you're good at being yourself.
03:18You're good at being happy.
03:20And how painful is that?
03:21Because for sure, you were in love.
03:22He broke my heart.
03:24Now?
03:25How painful is that?
03:27Letting go of a person you love so much.
03:31Letting go of your happiness.
03:33Yes.
03:34It's personal.
03:35He killed his own happiness.
03:37How do you face that?
03:39Lately,
03:40I want to give up.
03:43I don't do anything but drink.
03:45I cry and cry.
03:46Then I noticed that I can't.
03:48My son and my siblings are pitiful.
03:51I want to give up.
03:52Then I woke up.
03:53I can't.
03:54I need to get up again.
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