"Nobody has seen a drag queen married to a cis-gender woman in India." They shared sarees, make up, and the rest of their lives. ❤
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00:00He is pansexual.
00:01And she is heterosexual.
00:03She is my love of my life.
00:05He is my love of my life.
00:07Nobody has seen a black pre-parental cisgender woman in India.
00:18I never thought like I would settle down
00:20and then I met this particular lady who is right next sitting to me.
00:31One of my aunts kept a tilak on my forehead
00:34and there was too much of kumkum which fell into my eyes.
01:00I kind of fell in love with this form of art and I didn't want to stop.
01:11Drag feeds my soul whereas my job feeds my body.
01:22It might not be always female, it might not be always male
01:25but it might be something in between as well.
01:31I am gender blind. I don't see a gender in front of me.
01:53Now I am confused. I am really kind of flabbergasted.
01:57Now I am confused. I am really kind of flabbergasted.
02:01How is this person knowing everything about me?
02:04I didn't even know anything about her.
02:07I didn't even know her name.
02:10I thought her name was, you know, her father's name.
02:23First I said I am pansexual.
02:25After that she sent me two links.
02:27One is from Wikipedia and one is from some other site
02:30which says, okay, pansexuality is this.
02:32And she's like, is this you?
02:34And I said, yes. And she said, okay.
02:36And then silence for the next, you know, for the next entire day.
02:40What's the problem with that?
02:50He forced me to know.
02:53I don't need that 100% that he forced me to know.
02:56I don't need that 100% that he forced me to know.
03:01Now she's holding my hand and smashing it.
03:12When I say that I am married to heterosexual woman,
03:14people think that either I am lying
03:16or I am kind of hiding my sexuality and gender
03:19or it's a lavender marriage,
03:20marriage like we have some arrangement of you know finding our own you know love.
03:24Trifobia is quite common in every you know aspect of the community.
03:50It takes a lot of guts to sit next to me I don't know what exactly happened but
04:17just you know I just wanted to stay with her and I think she's the one who actually
04:24made my drag even more you know gorgeous.