"Don't give part-time people, a full time position in your life." Zeenat Aman has some dating advice for Gen-Z. Do you agree with it? ️
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00:00Don't jump into bed with the guy right away, please
00:07Communication they see
00:09Intimacy is not about sex. Yeah, it's about the truth telling the truth. Don't give
00:16part-time people a
00:19full-time position in your life
00:21Zeena ji, I'm really interested to know how was dating in the pre-tinder era, in your era, you know
00:32What was ghosting like? What was what was situationships like? How did you navigate dating in those times?
00:39Ghosting and situationships all existed. I mean, they just didn't have such very catchy phrases
00:44I mean the same situations, you know, whatever there are people
00:48Situations exist but in our time, I mean look now you you have a smorgasbord
00:54Buffet of people to choose from, you know on a dating app. None of this existed at the time
01:01We only met our parents, friends
01:06Children or you met people socially and there was a very restricted group of people that you could meet and then of course
01:13You know before I joined films and you know, if I ever went out
01:16I was restricted to be back at home by 10. You can only go out in a group of people
01:21Yeah, you have to go to somebody's home where we know you are all are gonna be there
01:26So all that existed. I think you young people have so much freedom and so much choice and
01:33It's I think you're absolutely spoiled for choice. I'm really sorry to have to say this
01:38I think that young people should just hold on to their physical selves. Yeah, no, don't
01:45Jump into bed with the guy right away, please, you know
01:58I mean, you know go out for a while understand figure out, you know, because you yourself are very precious
02:04Don't shritter it away. Don't throw it away. Yeah to me really what matters is communication. Yeah
02:10communication
02:11They see intimacy is not about sex. Yeah, it's about the truth telling the truth
02:18And being your authentic self with the person who is with you and that person
02:25Accepts you and says yes, I'm there for you when you read yourself better them
02:30Obviously it takes a while to get there. Yeah, right, but for me, it's all about conversation
02:36Communication and the person should be kind express yourself
02:40Understand what the other person is looking for tell them about what you want
02:45What are your hopes your dreams? Is there any common ground?
02:49Can you possibly see a future together?
02:52Is there a platform on which you can build mutual respect?
02:57Mutual understanding where you can be with each other stand by each other. It's it's all about communication
03:05How can you gauge?
03:08Somebody if you just ha ha ha
03:13It doesn't happen so generally
03:17If someone constantly treats you like you're one of many options
03:22Help them narrow their choice by removing yourself from the equation
03:28Don't give part-time people a full-time position in your life
03:37You